Iyanla's Spiritual Spa - WHY DO FOOLS FALL IN LOVE?

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    A relationship results when two or more individuals come together in thought, word, or action, expressed or unexpressed, consciously or unconsciously, to give and receive from one another.
    The underlying spiritual implications of all relationships are personal growth and healing of mental and emotional imbalances.
    True healing is only possible when each individual assumes full responsibility for their experiences by making conscious choices that improve the quality of the relationship. And full responsibility can only be claimed when we are willing to be honest so we can do something differently.
    That is what we are going to talk about in our next Spiritual Spa.
    Together, we will:
    👉🏿Examine the stories that we bring into our relationships, and how habitual thoughts or behaviors cause toxic emotions that keep us stuck in broken patterns
    👉🏿Discover the characteristics of a meaningful relationship, and the roles that responsibility, accountability, and integrity play
    👉🏿Learn the difference between relationships and entanglement, so the process of healing, growth, evolution, and transformation can begin
    👉🏿Use what we learn to get in tune and aligned with the ways we need to think + what we need to practice to have a better relationship first with our selves, and then with others
    At the end of our time together, you will be equipped to examine the relationships in your life and take steps to heal the parts of them that are damaged and dying.
    You are the coroner-performing autopsy, and the work is yours to do; the findings are yours to heal. All relationships can be healed once you heal your perception, understanding and experience within yourself and about the relationship.
    So let's come together.
    Let's do the work.Because it's that time again - time to relax, recharge, and renew the energy that you bring into your relationships with your self and others by taking your Self to the Spa.

Комментарии • 219

  • @angelface14angel
    @angelface14angel 4 года назад +78

    “I’m not looking for love. I am love.” So powerful!!!

  • @t.h.tessema930
    @t.h.tessema930 4 года назад +154

    "You don't get to tell people how to love you. You get to see how they love, and then choose whether or not to participate."
    This deeply resonates for me every time I hear Ms. Vanzant say this. #WISDOM.
    Thank you for sharing these pearls. Much love and stay blessed!

    • @derrickbarber9958
      @derrickbarber9958 4 года назад +2

      Me too boo!

    • @shameake4417
      @shameake4417 4 года назад +2

      We do get to tell/show people how to love us as well and they then choose to love us outside of how they may normally express love. It is a balance. You cannot however demand for someone to love you a certain way.

    • @deborahk7able
      @deborahk7able 4 года назад

      I do get to tell them how to treat me... different thing.

    • @assitakone3846
      @assitakone3846 4 года назад

      Aaàa1aaààaaaaaaaàààaàaaààaààaaaaàaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @jean-pierremiller7392
      @jean-pierremiller7392 3 года назад

      24:00

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess 4 года назад +34

    Lord.... I need to clutch my entire jewelry box!!!!!!

  • @tid8583
    @tid8583 4 года назад +43

    Your hair is beautiful! Looking amazing!

  • @elegancewithalicemuhirwa9680
    @elegancewithalicemuhirwa9680 4 года назад +90

    You look gorgeous

  • @iAM-cr8li
    @iAM-cr8li 4 года назад +6

    I love that last part. We want to receive love from a broken place, but dont realise that we already are LOVE

  • @pamellaphillips5437
    @pamellaphillips5437 3 года назад +4

    you don't get to tell people how to love you. you get to see how they love and then CHOOSE if I can accept that.

  • @amiedacrazy1
    @amiedacrazy1 4 года назад +32

    I lové this woman! This is such a gem, and is as if the heavens sent this video as an answer to my prayer! Thank you 💕❤️💕

  • @lyndak3269
    @lyndak3269 4 года назад +20

    This was real! Learned and confirmed things about myself. Increasing my love vibrations. Yep, know I am loved by my first love my Creator who created me to love.

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 года назад +12

    I noticed I used to “fall in Love “ because I grew up Love starved.

    • @afletcher257
      @afletcher257 4 года назад +4

      WOW! What an observation.... true inner observation!!! That's really good! 💕💞💕

  • @robinbarber7714
    @robinbarber7714 4 года назад +14

    Sis! Those glasses are bomb! you look fabulous!

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 года назад +5

    Chemistry 🧪 + connection + compatibility = Healthy Relationship {I like this}

  • @FyeNikka1
    @FyeNikka1 4 года назад +9

    The very End... Bought tears to my eyes. Years of abundant knowledge all within an hour. I truly believe this has helped augment the entirety of the rest of my life. Thank You so much Iyanla. I love you like an Aunt or God Mother..!

  • @JackyHapy
    @JackyHapy 4 года назад +5

    0-5 years OMG, Yessss 👏👏👏👏 And thank you for the word concerning "nothing is permanent ". Such wisdom.

  • @sabinah8313
    @sabinah8313 4 года назад +8

    Ms Iyanla!!!!!! The POWER you hold!!!! the WISDOM!!!!! Wasn't ready to be called out like this on a friday morning lol god bless!!!! ❤

  • @cookiewoo2344
    @cookiewoo2344 4 года назад +15

    SHE SPEAKING TO ME...🌷...as much as I hate 2 admit

  • @cookiewoo2344
    @cookiewoo2344 4 года назад +15

    POWERFUL..U DONT GET 2 TELL PEOPLE HOW 2 LUV U ...🌷

  • @skyzthalimit09
    @skyzthalimit09 4 года назад +7

    I needed this message and this lesson so I can get the blessings that are waiting for me on the other side of healing.

  • @JozzyJah111
    @JozzyJah111 4 года назад +17

    I enjoyed every BIT of this! You are AMAZING!

  • @NBPlayz-eu2oh
    @NBPlayz-eu2oh 2 года назад +1

    I was having a rough day and watch this and it made me feel so much better.God Bless you thank you so much you have no idea how much you have help me❤️

  • @nb5346
    @nb5346 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Iyanla. I saw this why do fools fall I love seminar, in divine timing and opened my consciousness. Why do I feel so paralyzed when a love relationship doesn’t reciprocate?

  • @janica.4688
    @janica.4688 3 года назад +1

    My template is crapped up: chasing after being loved, seen and accepted. Now that you say it, I see it clearly. What a desaster.

  • @a.emmadiallo5889
    @a.emmadiallo5889 4 года назад +15

    She is a blessing ❤️

  • @audrineeyjohnson6016
    @audrineeyjohnson6016 4 года назад +7

    Girlie you are looking good!!! I’m so glad your back because I missed you and I’ve watch allll your shows over and over. Glad something new

  • @hundroe
    @hundroe 4 года назад +8

    We fall in love because it's an addiction, and we've all been a fool before.

  • @FUNKYJU1CE
    @FUNKYJU1CE 4 года назад +4

    Iyanla is full of so much wisdom.....Love this look on you too

  • @AltoCroix
    @AltoCroix 4 года назад +13

    Awesome awesome awesome..great birthday present for me!

  • @lindahailstock2995
    @lindahailstock2995 3 года назад

    Ms Iyanla, the older you get, the younger you look. Always so beautiful. Thank you for your help.

  • @MA-rf4hk
    @MA-rf4hk 4 года назад +12

    Beloved miss iyanla. Lot of love and admiration from morocco. And u re looking fabulous with those curls

  • @SharisaLee
    @SharisaLee 4 года назад +5

    I will continue to love myself more and more...

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 года назад +4

    God is Love ❤️ I am love. I can exude love by staying connected to my Heavenly Father. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @elizabethhd7895
    @elizabethhd7895 4 года назад +5

    Love your new look and energy.havn't listened to u in a while.Miss u Fantastic powerful woman!

  • @vioricaneacsu3172
    @vioricaneacsu3172 4 года назад +1

    What an amazing women! When you trust in God and work to your best ability you become a humble human with integrity and high values

  • @avisclay2874
    @avisclay2874 4 года назад +3

    Love you ❤️ Stay blessing the nation with your wisdom!

  • @lisasmith1786
    @lisasmith1786 4 года назад +6

    This teaching is so on point!! Thank you 😊

  • @divinelyguided77
    @divinelyguided77 4 года назад +3

    Only 15 mins in and this has been so amazing, much needed. Thank you so much

  • @Meggawoman
    @Meggawoman 4 года назад +13

    Ms. Vanzant is so beautiful inside and out. She puts things so simple. Thank you for this experience. Ase

  • @NutsNBerries
    @NutsNBerries 4 года назад +3

    Lightworker...blessings and greetings to you...I love your work and everything that you do🙏🏾 keep sharing your gifts with people

  • @sharonmardis4920
    @sharonmardis4920 4 года назад +2

    I am so intune with your spirituality and receive so much clarity. Thank you with love for the thoughtful love and advice you give

  • @cotton-xb1xp
    @cotton-xb1xp 6 месяцев назад

    You are our inspiration, our teacher about life and All That Is.
    May God bless you with abundance for everything.
    I love you❤

  • @godsgirl1977
    @godsgirl1977 3 года назад +1

    You have been such a blessing to my life......team Iylana forever

  • @ceesah32
    @ceesah32 4 года назад +3

    The Brilliant Lady Iyanla. Many thanks!

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 4 года назад +12

    Thank you Iyanla❤

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 4 года назад +22

    The reason why we stay somewhere where we could possibly be harmed or with someone that can harm us is because we feel like everyone else is going to do the same thing to us so what's the use of going to someone new if other people are going to treat us that same way?

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 4 года назад +2

      True. So much self healing needed.
      I am love... Ama do that exercise daily👏

    • @Obatala_Vibez
      @Obatala_Vibez 4 года назад

      🤯🤝🏿

    • @imonmyway317
      @imonmyway317 4 года назад

      That's true but that's because we attract what we think we deserve. So when you do the work and know better you will do better. Therefore attracting people into your experience who will treat you better.

  • @kenyagrooves
    @kenyagrooves 4 года назад +3

    I love that hairstyle on you Ms Vanzant! 😍🤩😍🤩

  • @Rumraisin968
    @Rumraisin968 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this! This was sooooo needed! 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @sheilalove7667
    @sheilalove7667 4 года назад +2

    I brought all of this mess into my relationships. I knew i was mess up but try going to church for help but the church didn't want to hear it Lay hands on you and never come see about you.😩.I believe i always became involved with the wrong man to hide the hurt that happened to me when I was young. I was by myself for 16 years and got involved with a man just because i felt sympathy for him when his mother died. I wish i would have sent my condolences and ran.

  • @marivelramos4640
    @marivelramos4640 4 года назад +3

    Bingo!! On time. On Target. Thanks Iyanla!!👍👍👍👌

  • @angelamcwhorter44
    @angelamcwhorter44 4 года назад +13

    Thank You..

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 4 года назад +23

    Did you see them 10 paragraphs someone sent her as a question hell naw lmboooooo!!!!

    • @jazminegraves19
      @jazminegraves19 4 года назад +2

      derrick barber 😂😂😂😂

    • @Meggawoman
      @Meggawoman 4 года назад +2

      A whole essay 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Justonevideoplease
      @Justonevideoplease 4 года назад +2

      We really shouldn’t laugh lol that poor person is going throughhhhh it! Clearly wow poor Iyanla. Lol

    • @derrickbarber9958
      @derrickbarber9958 4 года назад +1

      @@Justonevideoplease you're right I would've done the same you are so right people can make life so difficult it's not really the circumstances as much as it is the ppl.

    • @changethestory2826
      @changethestory2826 4 года назад

      lol. that's what happens when people don't listen and follow instructions

  • @ShannaM1
    @ShannaM1 4 года назад +12

    Love her wisdom. Always love yourself & take care of yourself first- the only way to love others & do for others without depleting ourselves is self love first. Thank u for teaching me this valuable lesson, I am in a happy, healthy relationship, going on 7 years now! 💜 #blessings

  • @franhough1044
    @franhough1044 4 года назад +1

    Awesome I enjoy listening to you so much, have helped me understand why my parent's couldn't show love and if they did they choose who to give there love to thank you for saving a part of ME.

  • @icimusic2182
    @icimusic2182 3 года назад

    i love this woman so much she is a blessing

  • @focused0002
    @focused0002 3 года назад +1

    Love love love the curly styles on you...😇😍

  • @elizabethr8174
    @elizabethr8174 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for today's message. I love your "true" face! : )

  • @23e445
    @23e445 4 года назад +21

    This was deep and very good tho powerful!!!

  • @anneg3958
    @anneg3958 3 года назад

    Facts..sort out ur life in a way that it becomes welcoming to the compliment of your life.

  • @Melli510
    @Melli510 4 года назад +2

    Thanks Ms. Iyanla I needed that just got my hear broken and ignored my someone I really liked. still hurting.

  • @goddessceion
    @goddessceion 3 года назад

    Thank You so much for this. 💚💚💚

  • @marilynlogan8994
    @marilynlogan8994 4 года назад +1

    Hello Iyanla, I really enjoyed the information and the relaxing experience in the beginning. Keep teaching. You are helping many of us . Thank you 😇

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 года назад +2

    “You do that and it doesn’t work for me and I’m out “ #lmbo 😂😂😆😂😆

  • @rebeccawest516
    @rebeccawest516 Год назад

    I love you so much...your so kind and sweet...and you make me want to look deep into myself... to find the love that I know is there...in me... thank you xxx

  • @ShannaM1
    @ShannaM1 4 года назад +4

    THANK U SO MUCH. I LOVE U, IYANLA...HOW BOUT THAT! 💗💗💗

  • @waitiwaita6993
    @waitiwaita6993 3 года назад

    OML I love you, you Make sense. I love how you r words Of wisdom ‘I’m inspired’ every time

  • @jujubee90275
    @jujubee90275 2 года назад

    I am listening to this again. Queen Mother Iyanla thank you for your wisdom!!!

  • @natashataylor881
    @natashataylor881 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Ms Iyanla for doing this - it was very helping, doing my homework.

  • @Sunshinesunset1
    @Sunshinesunset1 4 года назад

    Thank You very much Ms. VanZant. You look so peaceful and beautiful. Thank You again for all you do my Sister.

  • @tiffanymorris2260
    @tiffanymorris2260 3 года назад

    You are loved you are not alone look what year you have left not look what year you lost move forward move on Let’s Go

  • @portiawebb533
    @portiawebb533 4 года назад +2

    Thank you, Iyanla❣️
    Love you💛✨

  • @mindwrites3657
    @mindwrites3657 4 года назад +2

    Can’t believe I been missing these. ❤️

  • @Greenman42241
    @Greenman42241 4 года назад +1

    I just Love live love her wisdom 😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @stacymckenzie8999
    @stacymckenzie8999 4 года назад +1

    Ummm this is Exactly what I needed to hear! Yes! IAM LOVE! And I choose to Not participate w anyone that doesn't know how to love....

  • @MW-gs8wz
    @MW-gs8wz 4 года назад +5

    So good to see you

  • @sulviagania5665
    @sulviagania5665 4 года назад +2

    Mamacita you are amazing!!!!! I learn so much from you. Iove you 😘💖💜💕💋🦄🦄

  • @RealtorDRFoster
    @RealtorDRFoster 4 года назад +4

    First, you are absolutely beautiful!! Loved the video. I learned a lot. God bless you for sharing so much wisdom. "Nothing in this life is personal, perfect, or permanent.". Thank you sooo much!

  • @caesarjay1665
    @caesarjay1665 2 года назад

    I loved this 🙌🏽

  • @icarus0823
    @icarus0823 4 года назад +1

    I love love you. I hope I’m not being too shallow but I want to comment on you lovely lovely hair and makeup. Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

  • @victoriaallen3753
    @victoriaallen3753 4 года назад

    You look so pretty Ms. Iyanla. Thanks for the message.

  • @joannadziokan3267
    @joannadziokan3267 4 года назад +1

    I love you Iyanla. This was very helpful. LOVE LOVE 💗💗

  • @deboraharchuleta9896
    @deboraharchuleta9896 4 года назад +1

    I really like your advice you give us women!! I needed your help years ago. Thank you so much ❤️💕

  • @sherealbad
    @sherealbad 4 года назад +4

    You could do wonders for Marriage Boot Camp

  • @seekonlytruth512
    @seekonlytruth512 4 года назад +1

    I'm blessed because I am single, happy and at peace❤❤❤

  • @thokondlovu3939
    @thokondlovu3939 4 года назад

    Thank you, powerful words .

  • @ThepurrrBlog
    @ThepurrrBlog 4 года назад

    THIS IS AMAZING! EVERY SINGLE WORD!

  • @tiffanymorris2260
    @tiffanymorris2260 3 года назад

    Thank You God bless You

  • @harrietbosibori
    @harrietbosibori 4 года назад +6

    Lol, you crazy in a good way. Thank you for the insights.

  • @tiffanymorris2260
    @tiffanymorris2260 4 года назад

    Thank you 🙏 God bless you Move on of the past move forward

  • @cestmoi5702
    @cestmoi5702 4 года назад

    This was excellent. 🔥 🙏🏾💕✊🏾💕👏🏽💕🙌🏾🔥

  • @Ailise80
    @Ailise80 4 года назад +13

    I really enjoyed this. Thank you Iyanla ❤️

  • @bethelmullugeta
    @bethelmullugeta 4 года назад

    I love that hair style

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 4 года назад +8

    I kind of disagree with going into every relationship vulnerable because some people will take advantage of you cuz that's what happened to me at work with a girl she took advantage of the fact that I used to say that people made fun of my eyes and she will tease me about my eyes all the time because she knew it got to me so you have to be very careful about that but I do agree that you do have to let people know something about your truth but make sure its something that doesn't hurt you to where it will lower your esteem you always want to put yourself up amen.

    • @elizabethjones4325
      @elizabethjones4325 4 года назад +5

      I have learnt to be more vulnerable to myself rather that to others. Try that instead.

    • @Darkempress45
      @Darkempress45 3 года назад +1

      That just affirms that you can’t trust yourself or others. Which is BAGGAGE! You ARE what you attract! You must find out why you are insecure about your eyes and heal that part of you that’s ashamed of how you were so uniquely made by your creator. If you are hypercritical of yourself, why wouldn’t you expect others to as well? If you don’t like your eyes, why would you expect someone else to like them? Relationships just mirror to us who we are and what we need to fix within ourselves. I bet if you paid attention to what’s coming at you more, you will start to really understand relationships and how you play a role in every singe one of them. Be blessed ✨

  • @vempath458
    @vempath458 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for your guidance Iyanla💙🦋

  • @melissawhite9871
    @melissawhite9871 4 года назад +1

    I'm learning 2 choose for Quality not temporarily pleasure.. I really don't like myself for choosing men for sex reasons for money reasons for some favors. I'm really trying to get out of that thank you I've been reading your book for a long time. Ohhhh that makeup looks so nice on you thank you big sister❤💚🖤

  • @aliciacarter2443
    @aliciacarter2443 4 года назад +7

    Love you Mama

  • @carameldiva7asmr415
    @carameldiva7asmr415 4 года назад

    Self Love seems to surround all areas of one’s life.

  • @Lokaluna7956
    @Lokaluna7956 4 года назад +4

    Botswana 🇧🇼
    Thank you Iyanla❤

    • @tlotlo7971
      @tlotlo7971 4 года назад +2

      🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼💙

  • @valerierichardson1496
    @valerierichardson1496 4 года назад +7

    Greetings from Austin TX

  • @virgiewillis224
    @virgiewillis224 4 года назад +1

    You are soooo BEAUTIFUL! I’m sure you already know that...

  • @avitalushs9428
    @avitalushs9428 4 года назад +1

    God bless you, sending a lot of love from Israel

  • @mzwisdom7504
    @mzwisdom7504 4 года назад +1

    Your makeup is awesome Queen.

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 4 года назад

      Mz Wisdom yes it is bronzy and glowy ✨