The Big Fat Indian Wedding Decoded | Ep. 43

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @roopab2621
    @roopab2621 День назад +97

    I don't think even middle class people able to send 70L for marriage..the range mentioned in vedio is for rich people

    • @abhinavsb200
      @abhinavsb200 День назад +3

      70L is descent, the dress, food, decoration, ornaments(mostly), venue, etc....

    • @x_man007
      @x_man007 День назад +7

      These r rich bro we r poor
      In my area u can do good marriage in 10 Lac but you can spend..

    • @himanshuchawla21491
      @himanshuchawla21491 День назад

      I think she would be talking about in Mumbai only

    • @roopab2621
      @roopab2621 День назад +2

      Majority of middle class People loose hopes on marriage plan by listening to these numbers..

    • @x_man007
      @x_man007 День назад +1

      @@roopab2621 those r not middle class

  • @parthjain1496
    @parthjain1496 День назад +61

    My family can spend 50 lakh on wedding, But I'll do court marriage
    And travel the world with that money

    • @visheshsethiya7032
      @visheshsethiya7032 21 час назад +4

      Mera bhi yeh plan tha ghar wale nahi maane. Aur udaa diye saare paise samaj ke naam pe

    • @MRBADALKUMARVLOGS
      @MRBADALKUMARVLOGS 17 часов назад +1

      But some other country people they are not speaking in English and They are talking with own language so what are you saying that 😂

    • @anmolgumbhir2037
      @anmolgumbhir2037 14 часов назад

      ​@@MRBADALKUMARVLOGSbro the replier is saying he also wanted to do same but his family didn't allow him on the name of what will society think

  • @abhishek8243
    @abhishek8243 День назад +33

    My marriage expenses from Groom side in 2022 was 30 lakhs. Here's the breakdown.
    Gold Jewellery - 10 lakhs (200gm) dhared between both of us.
    Clothes for her - 1.5 Lakhs
    Wedding Hall - 2 lakhs
    Decoration - 1.5 lakhs
    Catering - 5 lakhs
    Photography and Videography- 2 lakhs incl pre wedding
    Makeup and traditional decoration - 1 lakh
    Return gifts - 2 lakhs
    Misc 1-1.5 lakhs.
    That's little bit overkill for middle-class wedding as well.
    How did she mention 70 lakhs for middle class ? For 70 lakhs, we buy 2 plots 25km from City center for future purpose.

    • @visheshsethiya7032
      @visheshsethiya7032 21 час назад +1

      Bro catering takes around 20 lacs. There are 4 times food, hotel bookings, jewellery, gifts, shagun ke lifafe

    • @visheshsethiya7032
      @visheshsethiya7032 21 час назад

      Let me tell you reality
      And yes I am middle class..
      Clothes for her - 2.5 lac
      Clothes for him - 1 lac
      Catering - 15 lac
      Hotel bookings -15 lac
      Jewellery - 10 lacs
      Gifts -3 lacs
      Hall or garden - 10 lacs

    • @yashwanthdilipkumar818
      @yashwanthdilipkumar818 19 часов назад

      Why is jewellery an expense ? Ideally it’s an asset you can leverage in future right ?

    • @visheshsethiya7032
      @visheshsethiya7032 17 часов назад

      @yashwanthdilipkumar818 bhai zabardasti le rahe na shaadi me.

    • @yashwanthdilipkumar818
      @yashwanthdilipkumar818 17 часов назад

      @ still it’s not an expense na ? You can still sell it back if you are in debt ! Will u be able to recover the cost incurred for food , marriage hall or photographer 😂

  • @jaswanthmedepalli3199
    @jaswanthmedepalli3199 День назад +17

    Sharan never makes us bored during conversation 😊

  • @anishjain4813
    @anishjain4813 День назад +4

    12:38 I can arrange the whole Gang of dhool wala in 5000 with their A-level performance.

  • @vidzhere5027
    @vidzhere5027 День назад +6

    The budget for a wedding is ,what you can comfortably spend without feeling stressed out. I have seen several Americans , just book a boat for a day & perform the wedding , some even exchange wows in public parks & some some spend $30,000 on a dress. The essence is , our primary responsibility is to ensure ours & our parents health ,happiness & well being.

  • @punyambhaiya
    @punyambhaiya День назад +14

    Minimum 3 cr on a destination wedding is bullshit.
    You can have a good destination wedding in goa under 2 cr.
    Only palace wedding needs more than 3 cr

  • @mak3900
    @mak3900 День назад +7

    For god sake stop calling people spending over 25-30 lakh on wedding a middle class. They are rich period.

  • @jayk7662
    @jayk7662 16 часов назад +3

    I got a court marriage done at Rs 1500 and me and my wife are extremely happy and we are laughing out loud while viewing this stupi video 😊😂

  • @007deepful
    @007deepful День назад +8

    34:08 Sharan is really smart in calling guests and taking consultations for free 😅
    Now that's my boy... Keep it up bro 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @pooja144100
    @pooja144100 День назад +5

    One of first Sharan’s podcast where he intervened lesser. Because he was busy doing calculations for his own wedding in his head.
    He was bowled over when he heard minimum 10 crore. But as soon as she mentioned 3 crore he is like ahh okay now we are talking

  • @omkarvlogs1
    @omkarvlogs1 22 часа назад +4

    Do only court marriage 💀☠️😂

  • @neoam-o8g
    @neoam-o8g 16 часов назад +2

    Thank you, Sharan, for this incredible podcast-it was both insightful and an eye-opener! I had been planning a financial goal for my kid's wedding...... The real eye-opener for me was realising how 50% of the budget goes toward accommodating and feeding a crowd of people who, for the most part, don’t add much value to the occasion. 🙂🙂
    Now I’m seriously questioning: is it really worth it? Wouldn’t it be more meaningful to give your child a 3-crore portfolio of invested assets (power of choice experience vs financial sense :)

  • @hnsrules2509
    @hnsrules2509 21 час назад +2

    The definition of middle class these days is being exaggerated.! Spending 70 lakhs on a wedding? That's absurd.! A budget of 20 lakhs, shared by both the bride's and groom's families, can still make for a grand wedding in a Tier 2 city.
    Note: Middle-class families often have a habit of purchasing gold for their daughter or son. Considering this, they might additionally purchase gold worth around 5 lakh during their marriage.
    Now, after having an extravagant show-off wedding, who can guarantee that the couple will have a great married life? Marriage can happen in a registrar's office with just a mangalsutra, and even then, there’s no assurance that the couple will live happily ever after.
    Instead, why not save that money to travel, invest in a healthier lifestyle for themselves, and secure a better future for their kids?

  • @khuranapranshu
    @khuranapranshu День назад +7

    Great video and editing 💗

  • @ravichandrakumbalavati1798
    @ravichandrakumbalavati1798 День назад +3

    I Love her giggling smile...😅

  • @rishisharma8311
    @rishisharma8311 День назад +4

    6:26 We need to change this mentality.

  • @himanshuchawla21491
    @himanshuchawla21491 День назад +2

    In today's talking ...your smile was fantastic

  • @hariprakashl524
    @hariprakashl524 День назад +5

    I know how ambani had spend 5000 crores for marriage because they don't bargain in stores for marriage purchase we can easily sell one belt worth 500 to 50,000 to don't ask for negotiations.

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    @Immortal10364 День назад +6

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  • @shrutipendharkar6699
    @shrutipendharkar6699 20 часов назад +1

    Guys please go for a small wedding, it helps the environment , money and a lot more. While I totally understand this is once in a lifetime moment, you should concentrate on making the marriage work, not the wedding function. Wedding is for a day, marriage lasts lifetime

  • @shivanshusharma6549
    @shivanshusharma6549 16 часов назад +1

    Stop saying 25-30 lakhs wedding(without including cost of assets like gold etc) a middle class budget. It is typical lower middle class.

  • @ZERALEM.G790
    @ZERALEM.G790 День назад +3

    productive podcast and ways of explanation, thank you

    • @financewithsharan
      @financewithsharan  День назад +3

      Happy to hear that, let me know what you'd like to hear about next!

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      @ZERALEM.G790 День назад +1

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  • @visheshsethiya7032
    @visheshsethiya7032 21 час назад +1

    People are saying how come middle class spent 70 lac. I am middle class and they are saying correct. Pehle shaadi ka plan karo fir pata chalega. In big cities its too expensive and riti riwaz logo ko skip nahi karte. Atleast 6 functions 3 days. Hotel, garden or hall booking. My shaadi is very average still expenses around 60 lacs

  • @Suvm_7
    @Suvm_7 14 часов назад +1

    Many girls are not aware of financial conversations and also not interested in talking about it ... They just want to have special moments at any cost ... As cost is never beared by her 😂

  • @ddesai1080
    @ddesai1080 14 часов назад

    she reminds me old hindi movie actress Vijayata Pandit...looks very tallented girl

  • @chiragsingla9499
    @chiragsingla9499 14 часов назад +1

    In 50 billion actually the average expenditure comes to 12 to 15 lakhs and of which about 25 to 40% goes to jewellery and apparials.
    There is india beyond Bombay and delhi which have more population. Just an advice when you are talking about overall india statistics cover all 3 type indian consumer as well all 3 tiers. You data become irrelevant because It is just based on tier 1 cities. Plz make changes.

  • @prshnthp
    @prshnthp День назад +1

    Sharan' wedding game: Guess monthly income? Kiska bada SIP?

  • @JashanBajaj-n8p
    @JashanBajaj-n8p День назад +2

    Please add subtitles bro for better understanding.
    Please It's Request.

    • @anaghar8582
      @anaghar8582 День назад

      RUclips has that option?!!

  • @flaccid_life
    @flaccid_life День назад +1

    what about these band peoples and the dj..how does their accommodation look like cuz already the hotel rooms are tight..are they there for just a night or just one function??

  • @coolkanhajbp
    @coolkanhajbp День назад +1

    Absolutely love your podcasts, the style of conversation is too good. You should have much more subscribers than you actually have. ✨ And interesting to see that even HNI weddings have an angry fufaji. 😂

  • @rademansentertainment2754
    @rademansentertainment2754 День назад +4

    Omg talk. Less in india 60 pecent population is below middle class .. they can afford 20 lakh weeding..... So make video on that

  • @TheNayak12
    @TheNayak12 День назад +1

    People got married on right date. And divorce haappen😂

  • @sivasrinadhu
    @sivasrinadhu День назад +2

    Short and crisp to the point. Good one Sharan

  • @rashmihundekar7317
    @rashmihundekar7317 День назад +1

    Sharan is ready for wedding? 🎉

  • @thanmayrambr4979
    @thanmayrambr4979 14 часов назад

    guest laugh is nice 😃

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    @DonnaThompson-h1v День назад +1

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  • @santoshmnaidu3218
    @santoshmnaidu3218 День назад

    Her smile is like…. … ….😊

  • @I_neerajsaini
    @I_neerajsaini День назад +5

    I prefer court marriage with my love 😅
    And rest money invest sip for 20 years 😊

  • @shivayogihiremath5
    @shivayogihiremath5 9 часов назад

    She is from different world . 10k per plate per meal

  • @rohit24599
    @rohit24599 День назад

    For rich people wedding is a way to show off how much money they have..

  • @Drdinesh79
    @Drdinesh79 День назад +1

    Next Generations will change I am sure, Why waste so much money 💰 when couples donot enjoy 😅 getting married by burning 🔥 money 💴

  • @kajukaustabh
    @kajukaustabh 20 часов назад

    Why am I getting the feeling that she's the one Sharan's dating

  • @advaitbhagwat7507
    @advaitbhagwat7507 13 часов назад

    Not sure, what is the exact TG they have in mind for this podcast - if the minimum budget for the wedding is 70L 😅

  • @007deepful
    @007deepful День назад

    Jan Feb Mar are the most looked for the wedding dates, due to cold weather

  • @NamritaSingh-z9b
    @NamritaSingh-z9b День назад

    nest by novartis is live, can you make a video on it? Its for startups .

  • @jkreally9762
    @jkreally9762 День назад

    You made me to think I'm not from this world

  • @tushargandhi4023
    @tushargandhi4023 День назад

    No the market is about $130 billion

  • @MGVArtworks
    @MGVArtworks День назад

    great info..

  • @AbhisekKumarRoutBC-
    @AbhisekKumarRoutBC- День назад

    need part 2

  • @pavankr93
    @pavankr93 День назад +1

    hey sharan, please focus on finance related content and guests.. cannot bear this shit🤦‍♂

    • @pavankr93
      @pavankr93 День назад

      im middle class and would not spend more than 10 lakhs for a wedding and anyone with a brain would keep it low end.. i have 100s of better things to spend on

  • @chiragsingla9499
    @chiragsingla9499 14 часов назад

    Totally unrealistic data.
    Any person who saving 5 cr in his life would never spend 4 cr on Childern wedding. Exception if he is a psycho.

  • @payalalam8738
    @payalalam8738 23 часа назад

    Mein rou 😢 ya hasy 😅...

  • @nirajdeshmukh8413
    @nirajdeshmukh8413 20 часов назад

    3 years prior, what?

  • @nesterferns4813
    @nesterferns4813 11 часов назад

    Hardik ne refund manga tha kya ?

  • @shreyavalla1794
    @shreyavalla1794 День назад +2

    she loves you sharan

  • @Songmu_82
    @Songmu_82 День назад

    Give your money to less privileged people instead of spending huge money boggas instead have a small private wedding

    • @HenneCindie
      @HenneCindie День назад +2

      That is ideal but not very practical no one earning so they can give away that money to poors like you should do charity and all specially when you are privileged but no one is gonna give their wedding money to poors and a person who is earning very well can't have small wedding because they have huge teams and only rich people are mostly there so they will not gonna eat basic food or they will talk shit about the family

    • @Songmu_82
      @Songmu_82 День назад

      @ that’s is why we are Indian we are too concern about what ppl think we are too curious about what’s cooking in other ppl kitchen rather than minding our own business but having said that. It’s doesn’t make sense to spend so much of amount on a marriage where future is uncertain who knows the marriage will last on not lol. So I rather spend hard earn money wisely rather than on lavish marriage just to feed others ppl ego!!

  • @mananrocks98
    @mananrocks98 День назад

    How am i this early at 10 seconds ago published and no views !

  • @naturelover8245
    @naturelover8245 День назад

    😂😂😂 3 Cr
    Idhar 10 lac me 10 tola gold k sath 5 functions 3 days wedding ho gayi thi 2014 me vo bhi metro city me
    Total 1000 guests k sath including 5 functions
    Hiring Event planner cost you all of these crs weddings

    • @charlie-yn3mf
      @charlie-yn3mf 18 часов назад

      Bhai tu to wedding planner ki hi lene laga 😂

    • @naturelover8245
      @naturelover8245 16 часов назад

      @charlie-yn3mf
      😄
      Don't you think wedding planner just cost you more vs doing planning by yourself with family members ?
      After 10 years similar wedding can cost you 30~35 lacs in today's time though but crs is too much

    • @charlie-yn3mf
      @charlie-yn3mf 13 часов назад +1

      @@naturelover8245 I totally agree with you bro

  • @BelieveHarshYT
    @BelieveHarshYT 15 часов назад

    Podcast of the top 5 to 7% india to entire india.
    What the hell is going on, if you don't have money but still expanding out of your budget, you are the biggest dumb.

  • @Anubhav_Sh_
    @Anubhav_Sh_ 19 часов назад

    Such crap she talked during the first 30-40 min

  • @JatinKumar-bu6xt
    @JatinKumar-bu6xt День назад

    Virat kholi wedding???

  • @hamedhussain7562
    @hamedhussain7562 День назад

    Ad hungry much ?

  • @debmalyadas6562
    @debmalyadas6562 День назад

    80% 😶

  • @AnoopPuthussery
    @AnoopPuthussery 22 часа назад

    Dear take ur gril friend and runaway 🎉🎉❤ and do registered marriage. Pagal spending this much money.

  • @MRBADALKUMARVLOGS
    @MRBADALKUMARVLOGS 18 часов назад

    Bhaiya Hindi mein bolane mein aapko kuchh problem hai kya हिंदी में इंटरव्यू हिंदी में पॉडकास्ट करने में कुछ प्रॉब्लम है क्या सो 😂😂so I did unlike ur video and unsubscribe ur chennal 😅

    • @charlie-yn3mf
      @charlie-yn3mf 18 часов назад

      Bhai india me bohot sare places mein hindi nhi boli jati. Lekin English sabko atleast samjh to aa jati hai

  • @sohansk8530
    @sohansk8530 День назад

    😮😮😮😮

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    @version_gaming7 День назад +1

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  • @Jasonpaul03
    @Jasonpaul03 День назад +1

    1st comment