Every woman - high or low can be benefitted by your videos because you teach good things. You are the right doctor for the wrong dating disease what’s spreading across the society. You are saving women and helping men- how? ... they will get girls in their lives who are high value.. who will enrich there lives. Both men and women can be hugely benefitted by your videos. Good job Greta, keep it up!
I love your advice Greta and you are an inspiration to me! I really think women are too serious when it comes to relationships, dating, guys. They should lighten up, have fun with it, play and tease them, not so much ask or beg for attention and love.
I really find Greta's advice easy and doable BUT what's the point of getting a man by "playing games" or pretending you are someone that you are not? I am who I am and if anyone doesn't like me or to be with me they are free to do so! I want to be happy and relaxed in a relationship, and not struggle with anxiety whether I did or said something wrong! Also, sometimes it seems to me that we tend to overvalue men! What are you afraid of girls? It's 2019, there should be no "spinster" fear, but pride of being independent!
I see your point, but maybe you are missing the fact that most women are on the doormat or bitchy side (or the same doormat when she explodes gets bitchy/crazy). Particularly her clients are on the doormaty side, so she´s not only trying to help, but actually helping and even saving women from unnecessary suffering.
This makes my anxiety up. I feel I shouldn't enter relationship I will just have anxiety every move if in doing the right thing and in one move he will think I'm low value without knowing
After so many heartbreaks, the kind of coolness that you are describing in your videos comes out naturally to me.The problem is that many guys find me almost apathetic and do not stick around.
I've been there myself. Remember that when you play cool, you're protecting yourself from pain, but also from love. Guys stick around with a woman who is not afraid of showing feelings and being vulnerable. It's the only way to build an emotional connection with a man. And men want that more than sex even though they might not realise it.
@@Vicky-qu8nx I know it's hard. It depends on the signs. Are they real deal breakers? Or are you triggered by them because of being wounded in the past? You have to trust that not all guys are the same and once you do, you will attract that better kind of man as you stop filtering them out from your perception that is focused on what's familiar. it takes a lot of inner work and healing.
Three examples of banter: a guy who likes to play games..only a confident guy can handle it. be aware and apply with right type. in these free tips, not only your bantering with him, you come across as a challenge. example dating best guy friend's brother.....that guy lost interest. the best friend will ask what happened.. ignore the question. don't blame don't complain........ tell him what are you talking about, it was a kiss on the cheek........he will laugh.......... he will say no....... how to get away from awkward situations.......................better listen to it.
Oh dear that "kiss on the cheek" is gas lighting. That's not being a challenge, that's a technique of psychological abuse. That's a slippery road there.
@@zebra20111 Being just hard to get does not ake you high value. It is about not settling for less than you deserve. About having boundaries, knowing what you want, what you feel and communicating it. About inspiring a man to want to be that for you.
What would you answer a guy who tells you that our relationship is contracts and benefits but then he talks to you about how he attracts women and how women are all over him but unable to please him and that he is hard to please and that he finds himself overqualified for them?
@@GretaBereisaite , I love watching your videos wherein you share all of your brilliant extra-ordinary knowledge which is really concerned with practical use and very very helpful to me. Thank you so much.
My bf will say I'm his favorite. He says he has been burned hurt and burned so bad that he doesnt say I love you he also says I love you through actions that's his way. Well we have been dating 9 months living together 5 months and I'm still his favorite. This leaves me confused at times. I do not tell him I love him. This is getting old. bad
the whole not using their words to tell you how they feel thing is maddening, esp when you have told them that you require this in a relationship to feel valued.
Huh? Why don't you tell him what you just typed here instead of remaining confused? Tell him "I appreciate everything you do to make me feel cherished, but I would feel even more loved and secure if you would sometimes tell me that you love me." And then simply watch what he does.
Also you being "his favourite" sounds like he's seeing more women. You should be his only one and not his favourite. Ask him what he means by that. Could be just bad wording but better be safe than sorry.
I talked with my crush once but that was a serious talk..and after that we had one more serious talk... But after that we haven't saw each other for more than two months.. Is it possible that she will forget me? Because i saw her yesterday and she saw me but there was no reaction from their side
That depends on how he's testing you. Is he challenging you in a playful manner or playing immature power games? The first one is the opportunity to show up as high value. The second one is a sign not to waste your time with him.
my ex just said not to contact him.he is behaving badly toward it hurts but i will not contact or see anymore going to be hard on me...what should i do? please advice
Gain his respect by you respecting yourself as in ignoring him totally, and go have fun and make place for someone else that apreciates you and your time. Your value must be through ur eyes not through a fkd up to head of a man
Don’t react ignore smile and love and treat yourself kindly blank him then he’ll wonder did you ever love him anyway then you get that phone call and when you do said sorry this is not the right time I’m busy right now and hang up until he contacts you again then he can make arrangements to meet you when you are not busy in a day or so hope this helps and don’t take any bs ok 👌
I don’t agree with this one video. This game is for children. Think about it ..do you want to play these games for the rest of your life. Use these games on boys, bc they are boys not real men.
The best thing you can do is give him a playful hint without saying it literally and keep him guessing. Then you can turn the table and say that you feel more excited being touched by him. Have fun! 😉
I don’t want that shit, I got a lot of hearts , his isn’t one I need because it ain’t good anyways and thotiana must watching this shit because I really don’t know why it’s on my TL I am always have been and always will be high value. It’s time to log off RUclips I’m over all this shit.
Men need uncertainty. Men need uncertainty. Men need uncertainty.
Lollll
@Cindy Lou yeah right. Will b hopping from relationship to relationship will get nothing like relationship.
Why mine I'm interested in is so scared of being cheated in so hes so careful when getting in relationship. He have trauma
I don’t understand. I guess I’ll leave this blog
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I mirror the guy.
Every woman - high or low can be benefitted by your videos because you teach good things.
You are the right doctor for the wrong dating disease what’s spreading across the society. You are saving women and helping men- how? ... they will get girls in their lives who are high value.. who will enrich there lives. Both men and women can be hugely benefitted by your videos.
Good job Greta, keep it up!
Thank you 💓
I love your advice Greta and you are an inspiration to me! I really think women are too serious when it comes to relationships, dating, guys. They should lighten up, have fun with it, play and tease them, not so much ask or beg for attention and love.
Exactly 💓
Agree. It's a sensual dance between 2 people who see themselves as equals instead of a power play between hunter and prey.
I really find Greta's advice easy and doable BUT what's the point of getting a man by "playing games" or pretending you are someone that you are not? I am who I am and if anyone doesn't like me or to be with me they are free to do so! I want to be happy and relaxed in a relationship, and not struggle with anxiety whether I did or said something wrong! Also, sometimes it seems to me that we tend to overvalue men! What are you afraid of girls? It's 2019, there should be no "spinster" fear, but pride of being independent!
I see your point, but maybe you are missing the fact that most women are on the doormat or bitchy side (or the same doormat when she explodes gets bitchy/crazy). Particularly her clients are on the doormaty side, so she´s not only trying to help, but actually helping and even saving women from unnecessary suffering.
Learn how to treat them so they will respect you.
Power queen the only relationship guru I listen too
This makes my anxiety up. I feel I shouldn't enter relationship I will just have anxiety every move if in doing the right thing and in one move he will think I'm low value without knowing
After so many heartbreaks, the kind of coolness that you are describing in your videos comes out naturally to me.The problem is that many guys find me almost apathetic and do not stick around.
I've been there myself. Remember that when you play cool, you're protecting yourself from pain, but also from love. Guys stick around with a woman who is not afraid of showing feelings and being vulnerable. It's the only way to build an emotional connection with a man. And men want that more than sex even though they might not realise it.
The fact that they don't stick around is proof of that the cold method doesn't work in the long term.
@@rosenblau You are right, but how can you do that when you see signs that remind you of previous behaviours so oftenly. It is hard to trust again.
@@Vicky-qu8nx I know it's hard. It depends on the signs. Are they real deal breakers? Or are you triggered by them because of being wounded in the past? You have to trust that not all guys are the same and once you do, you will attract that better kind of man as you stop filtering them out from your perception that is focused on what's familiar. it takes a lot of inner work and healing.
Your advise is spot on. I’m learning how to be more high value. No easy
Banter is the way to my heart tbh
Three examples of banter:
a guy who likes to play games..only a confident guy can handle it.
be aware and apply with right type.
in these free tips, not only your bantering with him, you come across as a challenge.
example
dating best guy friend's brother.....that guy lost interest.
the best friend will ask what happened..
ignore the question. don't blame don't complain........
tell him what are you talking about, it was a kiss on the cheek........he will laugh..........
he will say no.......
how to get away from awkward situations.......................better listen to it.
my goodness... a very very great advice. such an enlightenment. thank you so much!
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Oh dear that "kiss on the cheek" is gas lighting. That's not being a challenge, that's a technique of psychological abuse. That's a slippery road there.
Not really it's sarcasm I don't think she would teach people how to be narcissistic
Kinda agree. If it's clearly a joke, fine, but if you are denying reality, major issue!!!
Yeah healthy ppl will never be into that lmao.
Playing hard to get never works on high value man. There are other ways to challenge him that are playful and fun.
its not really playing though....a high value woman is actually just hard to get.....
@@zebra20111 Being just hard to get does not ake you high value. It is about not settling for less than you deserve. About having boundaries, knowing what you want, what you feel and communicating it. About inspiring a man to want to be that for you.
@@rosenblau I couldnt agree more!
Do tell!
Then they’re not high value at all. High value men love a challenge , they just do. The only ones who don’t are lazy losers.
This is such good advice and so funny.😂
Come at the perfect time! Thank you! Xx
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They do
Oh that's so sweet thank you but I already have one
Love you’re content Greta ❤️ Love and Light from Boston MA 💕
The best coach.
All she has to do is say that it's a private matter.
Or she could say she got caught up in the moment and leave it at that
Loved ur examples greata
Hi Greta, what do you do when he says you are just friends, even though he's been acting otherwise?
Believe him.
The only thing I believe can happen easily is to be together with a man you do not love or attracted to at all. Then and only then it will work.
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What would you answer a guy who tells you that our relationship is contracts and benefits but then he talks to you about how he attracts women and how women are all over him but unable to please him and that he is hard to please and that he finds himself overqualified for them?
The answer is: "I had a great time with you, but I'm looking for a committed relationship with an emotional connection and not fwb. Farewell."
Rosenblau tell him thats what a 16 y old boy says.. goodbye 🤚
Tell him to go for counseling, he needs help figuring himself out.
@greta great advice everything you say is true. I do have a question, why is there so much ghosting after dating? Specially men most of all.
Very brilliant tip, indeed ...!!
Thank you x
@@GretaBereisaite , I love watching your videos wherein you share all of your brilliant extra-ordinary knowledge which is really concerned with practical use and very very helpful to me. Thank you so much.
Run for the hills
My bf will say I'm his favorite. He says he has been burned hurt and burned so bad that he doesnt say I love you he also says I love you through actions that's his way. Well we have been dating 9 months living together 5 months and I'm still his favorite.
This leaves me confused at times. I do not tell him I love him. This is getting old. bad
Willow I’m experiencing the same thing :(
the whole not using their words to tell you how they feel thing is maddening, esp when you have told them that you require this in a relationship to feel valued.
Just leave?
Huh? Why don't you tell him what you just typed here instead of remaining confused? Tell him "I appreciate everything you do to make me feel cherished, but I would feel even more loved and secure if you would sometimes tell me that you love me." And then simply watch what he does.
Also you being "his favourite" sounds like he's seeing more women. You should be his only one and not his favourite. Ask him what he means by that. Could be just bad wording but better be safe than sorry.
I apply this strategy all the time...no, smth's wrong with the other person...i get away with murder lol😋🤭
I talked with my crush once but that was a serious talk..and after that we had one more serious talk...
But after that we haven't saw each other for more than two months..
Is it possible that she will forget me? Because i saw her yesterday and she saw me but there was no reaction from their side
I love you lady beautiful ,, you give me best advice
Wow what a great advice🙏indeed
Does this work after he is in the silent treatment stage?
I wish I can afford one on one coaching
Wonderful sharing
You are Great...
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one of my fave Greta videos love it!
Hi, Great! What do you think about a guy who is constantly testing you? It seems to me that by allowing it, you seem more low value.
That depends on how he's testing you. Is he challenging you in a playful manner or playing immature power games? The first one is the opportunity to show up as high value. The second one is a sign not to waste your time with him.
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my ex just said not to contact him.he is behaving badly toward it hurts but i will not contact or see anymore going to be hard on me...what should i do? please advice
No contact at all. Anything else will make him go further even more and not respect you at all.
Honey he’s an ex who cares? There are tons of men out there. You should work on building your self esteem rather than care about him.
Gain his respect by you respecting yourself as in ignoring him totally, and go have fun and make place for someone else that apreciates you and your time. Your value must be through ur eyes not through a fkd up to head of a man
Don’t react ignore smile and love and treat yourself kindly blank him then he’ll wonder did you ever love him anyway then you get that phone call and when you do said sorry this is not the right time I’m busy right now and hang up until he contacts you again then he can make arrangements to meet you when you are not busy in a day or so hope this helps and don’t take any bs ok 👌
I agree 100%
love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love u too x
You are awesome👍😇
I don’t agree with this one video. This game is for children. Think about it ..do you want to play these games for the rest of your life. Use these games on boys, bc they are boys not real men.
These are not games. It’s a mindset.
All these games. Men don't want challenges, life throws us plenty of those already. Instead think of us as fellow humans with our own autonomy.
Have a beatuful Day you too Greta 👍🥰❣️❣️❣️
No thank you, I have a dog
all of these games just to end up in bed with someone you find attractive 🤷♀
Nice Greta
Can I still be a challenge when a man asks me which part of him I like touching 😂😂, I don't want to give him an answer though, thanks
The best thing you can do is give him a playful hint without saying it literally and keep him guessing. Then you can turn the table and say that you feel more excited being touched by him. Have fun! 😉
I love u greta. How can i get an advice with u. Just 1 consultation. Not coaching.
I don’t want that shit, I got a lot of hearts , his isn’t one I need because it ain’t good anyways and thotiana must watching this shit because I really don’t know why it’s on my TL I am always have been and always will be high value. It’s time to log off RUclips I’m over all this shit.
Its annoying, you have to play games F this
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
u r so cute
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Wow what a great advice🙏indeed