Post ur sadness, they'll call u emo. Post ur happiness, they'll call u cringe. Post ur worries, they'll call u a scardy cat Post nothing, *THEY'LL CALL U LAZY*
i can watching this video forever because she give me a lesson and now i know how i can live better with me and my feelings this is so precious lesson yea thank you so much
I don't even think she necessarily means that it will be used against you- I mean everything you post can be. But what I think she means is that if you're not careful you'll become co-dependent on having all your thoughts out there, and essentially give away your entire identity to the internet, and therefore you'll just be a lesser version of yourself because you chose to unhealthily say everything, and your worth will be based on an entirely different persona of you, in a way
Ever since I saw this interview I took this advice and I'm so glad that I did because if I didn't take it then everyone would have something to use against me and everyone would know everything about me and sometimes that means that you're opening up to the wrong people and they get the wrong idea. I'm really grateful for her, in my eyes she's very wise and she's looking out for us so that we don't make the same mistakes
Same and I remember seeing this video before going into my posting phase. Why didn't i listen😭😭 I was even planning on posting why didn't I listen to Billie
"Don’t post your feelings. Don’t do it to yourself. “ Look, not posting your feelings, there are several reasons why this can be bad advice. In our digital age of living, having a virtual copy of your thoughts can be very beneficial. You can go back and reference it later. It is not subject to water damage or getting lost in the physical realm. Expressing your thoughts can be healthy. There are places you can do it anonymously, like reddit. You never know, you might just relate to someone, or simply the act of expressing yourself into words will help you sort your thoughts or emotions. Like, keeping things inside is SO much worse. What if you do not have a person who will sit and listen to you when you need it? Or if you do, they will criticize you for doing so? Most of us DONT have a person or proper outlet for our thoughts and emotions, and from personal experience, keeping it can be worse than putting it out there.
Posting our feelings or expressing our feelings just don't matter to anyone, why bcz no one really cares. Like me I have none so I don't share neither I post the feeling so that people pamper me, but sometimes it really hurts and as a boy I am not even supposed to cry 😔. Anyway nothing gonna change, have a blessed life.
@@jacksonnascimento2468 yes bro if a boy express his emotions or let his tears down the society feels that he is so weak and just make fun of his or his emotions. Firstly he is broken and the society completely tear him into pieces. I have seen and also the thing happened to me , even on my insta (the_wizard_soldier) i have seen many people don't express there feelings they are all just making fake smiles .
this us a huge lesson! i'm not even a fan of billie, but what she said is something we don't stop to think about how we shoe our lives o internet, or we think that posting exactly how we feel with our deepest emotion pn twitter or any social media will be a good idea, it will never be! we don't know who is reading your vent text, so DON'T DO IT
everytime i tweet, everytime i post about my feelings, i always think of billie's words but it always me just posting it and posting it.... hoping someone to know it. but ended up no one would give it a damn care. i am now, trying to not post everything and put myself first but i always seem to think to put others first. i dont know how...
And thats why I don't post my feelings because if I do then people get mad at me and said it's all fake and that's why I keep remembering billies words :)
3 years before I watched the video, I didn't get it... but this week I talked about my feelings with someone and then I didnt get the attention I wanted to have it just destroyed me. Now I'm in pain. I'll never let them out again. I'll never do this to myself again. Never. Never. Never. If something bothers me I won't talk about it
You can try writing it on paper or notes in your phone you know? As an outlet… and think for yourself. I used to think i need to tell people this or that. But i know people dont really care and that hurt me. And took me looong to realise. Would i let myself feel like this if no one was watching or when no one cares?
She is right bc You show your happiness They call you cringe You show you sadness They call you depressed You cry They call you crybaby You show your dressing style They call you girly girl Your show your bears and dolls They call you a child/softie
It is also the same as don't tell others about your feelings or confide problems cos people may use it against you or take advantage of you. I have experienced it so don't trust anyone.
At the same time I agree but I also don’t because when my parents would not get me help I decided the only way to get help was to post about my feelings which gave red flags to my family and I finally got help, I’m just saying it can be risky but sometimes it’s for a reason
If you post your feeling you don t knew what will happen in your life so maybe you will fall in a disgussting state when they will laugh at your feelings and make it like a joke this is the worst that could heppened to you keep your feelings inside to you and dont give them the right to talk about it 👌👌👌👊✌
Actually I don't agree with that, when I post feelings online I feel relieved, I feel like I just got something out of my system, things that had to be said, and feels like I really said it to the world when I'm posting it on IG, i don't care if nobody cares, if you want it read it, y'know, even comment on it, for all I care you can even laugh at it, laugh at me, y'know why, cause I don't care what others think of me, I'll keep posting everything I feel, on IG, because it helps me get things outta my system, yeah, I know all the comments here are supporting that things that Billie said, but foreal, it's not true at all for me
its not true for everyone, its just like a personal experience, i dont post my feelings online bc i dont want ppl knowing how i am in reality, its kinda hard to explain but if it doesnt work for you its fine, and no one should hate you for not agreeing
Don't post your feelings. It serves nobody. Also it will mostly draw wrong kind of attention. People don't care to be honest. If you are sad, depressed go to a therapist, be with your family and talk to them not to the world. They don't care.
I used to post my feelings on internet for over 7-8 years and the consequences now is i have IBS and Stomach ulcers... i failed and wasted so many years of my life for nothing
L A emptying myself in a hope of a replay, kept hoping in something that was a useless waste and that feeling developed into sickness only, felt like i was in a prison locked down behind cells screaming for help in middle of dessert
It's quite saddening... (this comment is kind of ironic) But when you post your feelings on the internet but no one gives a sh*t about your thoughts is one of the most self-doubting feelings out there. So I just wanna SAY your thoughts and FEELINGS STILL MATTER okay? You are loved ❤ If you're here because people didn't gave a damn about your feelings... Well, same... Your not alone :,)) People can only shower you with words but it's only a temporary feeling of security. Bye 😊
It's because when you get some depression, then you post your feelings some people think you just lied and call you "attention seeker", but in fact you're really have depression. that's gonna hurt you more and you'll get more and more and more depression.
@@rimaayu1683 ouhhhh i see thank you I have a private account where i write all my feeling and farewells,incase i sucide without anyone knowing my friend and family can get in my account.
I think, because posting your feelings just don't make you any get better and it still is there inside you, and even though you had posted it, no one will mostly care, you just get a like and some people will only say "how sad" or "i feel you", it may relieve that lift in your chest but it's still there... in the end you will be the only one who will save and help yourself from what you've been feeling all this time... and also you may get risk of being called attention seeker and get judge by the others like what he said.
Relate bgt sama quote nya Billie plis. Nge post bkn berarti nge post video tiktok,dll tapi bisa jg kayak gua yg nge post komen gua sekarang disini :). Karna di sosmed, siapapun org yg tidak suka akan apa yg kamu rasa atau pikirkan, mereka akan menghujatmu dengan kasar, membuatmu seperti badut lelucon bahkan ketika kamu tidak tahu sesuatu sekalipun, intinya mereka TIDAK peduli bagaimana hate speech akan mempengaruhimu. Ingat kata2 gua, di sosmed.. jadilah manusia sepalsu mungkin jika tidak mau terluka. Jika kamu menemukan dirimu sebagai minoritas(berpikir sebaliknya) di kolom komentar/pikiran publik, leave it.. don't post anything about your feeling.. just.. don't.
Post ur sadness, they'll call u emo.
Post ur happiness, they'll call u cringe.
Post ur worries, they'll call u a scardy cat
Post nothing, *THEY'LL CALL U LAZY*
I didn't expect to get pinned-
Nahh.. no one gives a shit if you don't post anything
@JERMIN u okay??
@JERMIN oh... I hope ur okay!
@@Piknio_Studios i pinned it cuz many people don't really understand the point
i can watching this video forever because she give me a lesson and now i know how i can live better with me and my feelings this is so precious lesson yea thank you so much
True❤❤
I don't get the reason man.. explain it
I don't know what is she saying please explain to me
I can post it for eva don't try it tho 😏
Why?
Life is cruel. When you die, people start care and remember you.
If you are living on EARTH you too come in those people category you are talking about.
She right it’s better to keep your feelings to yourself and don’t let people know everything you feel about it
Absolutely right ✅
I don't even think she necessarily means that it will be used against you- I mean everything you post can be. But what I think she means is that if you're not careful you'll become co-dependent on having all your thoughts out there, and essentially give away your entire identity to the internet, and therefore you'll just be a lesser version of yourself because you chose to unhealthily say everything, and your worth will be based on an entirely different persona of you, in a way
very very true !
Yeah, I was also thinking about it. This is the right explanation
additionally.. other people will also become dependent on others’ opinions and will not be able to think independently
Thats what I thought too
I don’t know why, but Billie’s soft voice makes me feel so calm.
Best advice I've heard since the internet began!!!!!
Ever since I saw this interview I took this advice and I'm so glad that I did because if I didn't take it then everyone would have something to use against me and everyone would know everything about me and sometimes that means that you're opening up to the wrong people and they get the wrong idea. I'm really grateful for her, in my eyes she's very wise and she's looking out for us so that we don't make the same mistakes
this is single handedly the greatest advice I've heard in this decade for sure.
I should have listened to Billie a long time ago. She is damn right and I just realized it today.
Same and I remember seeing this video before going into my posting phase. Why didn't i listen😭😭 I was even planning on posting why didn't I listen to Billie
"Don’t post your feelings. Don’t do it to yourself. “
Look, not posting your feelings, there are several reasons why this can be bad advice. In our digital age of living, having a virtual copy of your thoughts can be very beneficial. You can go back and reference it later. It is not subject to water damage or getting lost in the physical realm. Expressing your thoughts can be healthy. There are places you can do it anonymously, like reddit. You never know, you might just relate to someone, or simply the act of expressing yourself into words will help you sort your thoughts or emotions. Like, keeping things inside is SO much worse. What if you do not have a person who will sit and listen to you when you need it? Or if you do, they will criticize you for doing so? Most of us DONT have a person or proper outlet for our thoughts and emotions, and from personal experience, keeping it can be worse than putting it out there.
Thanks for this ❤️
Yw babe
You do you always. And don’t ask for permission or forgiveness if you’re honoring your thoughts or feelings.
Posting our feelings or expressing our feelings just don't matter to anyone, why bcz no one really cares. Like me I have none so I don't share neither I post the feeling so that people pamper me, but sometimes it really hurts and as a boy I am not even supposed to cry 😔.
Anyway nothing gonna change, have a blessed life.
@@warwithlife i just yelled “WHAT?” when I read “as a boy Im not even supposed to cry”. Cant believe I just read it
@@jacksonnascimento2468 yes bro if a boy express his emotions or let his tears down the society feels that he is so weak and just make fun of his or his emotions. Firstly he is broken and the society completely tear him into pieces.
I have seen and also the thing happened to me , even on my insta (the_wizard_soldier) i have seen many people don't express there feelings they are all just making fake smiles .
this us a huge lesson! i'm not even a fan of billie, but what she said is something we don't stop to think about how we shoe our lives o internet, or we think that posting exactly how we feel with our deepest emotion pn twitter or any social media will be a good idea, it will never be! we don't know who is reading your vent text, so DON'T DO IT
People need to stop posting every second of their lives on social media. Your life is not a movie, nobody needs to know what your doing all the time.
everytime i tweet, everytime i post about my feelings, i always think of billie's words but it always me just posting it and posting it.... hoping someone to know it. but ended up no one would give it a damn care. i am now, trying to not post everything and put myself first but i always seem to think to put others first. i dont know how...
We always wanted only and only one person who care about our feelings, atleast hug ones
Journaling helps you alot please do give a try❤️.
@@nawalsalam6463 Really?
Same
Why I'm watching this over n over again...
are you okay? hows your day?
I watched this vid on insta once n now I look back at it n I’m actually thankful for this advice 🧸
Thank you billie for telling all of us this. I'm sorry for your loss.
Everyone is.
R
I
P
XXX
These words are so deep, alright we can’t explain it.
If only i could of found this last year
Billie you are great!
I'm 30 YO and I strongly confirm this
My favorite Billie Ellish
2020 any ?
Yea sure!
And thats why I don't post my feelings because if I do then people get mad at me and said it's all fake and that's why I keep remembering billies words :)
I love her so much
So True of you Billie,Thanks for suggestion⚡
Amooo❤ su acento cada palavra de lla.como Hablaaa.😮😢😂🎉 me encantaa. Me.fascinaa😊😊😅. Es un Gran mujeer!
Love you Billie
Wish I listened 😭
Billie posted how she felt. And she got backlash instead of support. That hurts.
but she made me feel understood so how is it a bad thing to have human emotions???
@@lennygmusic it’s not bad. It’s just that not everyone out here is out to help you or is kind. That’s all.
3 years before I watched the video, I didn't get it... but this week I talked about my feelings with someone and then I didnt get the attention I wanted to have it just destroyed me. Now I'm in pain. I'll never let them out again. I'll never do this to myself again. Never. Never. Never. If something bothers me I won't talk about it
You can try writing it on paper or notes in your phone you know? As an outlet… and think for yourself. I used to think i need to tell people this or that. But i know people dont really care and that hurt me. And took me looong to realise. Would i let myself feel like this if no one was watching or when no one cares?
😭😭❤️❤️❤️
She is right bc
You show your happiness
They call you cringe
You show you sadness
They call you depressed
You cry
They call you crybaby
You show your dressing style
They call you girly girl
Your show your bears and dolls
They call you a child/softie
MY LIVE SAVER 💕❤️❤️
awe 🥺💗
so right!
l love yuo billi❤❤
Facts 😂😂👍💯 Good speech billy
I wish I'd know this just two years ago when I was battling with bipolar disorder!my eyes almost get wet at the very end of 22 sec
Great advice for young people
Speak to your family or a responsible adult
True words
It is also the same as don't tell others about your feelings or confide problems cos people may use it against you or take advantage of you. I have experienced it so don't trust anyone.
As i get older i can figure out this better :)
Billie Eilish. 👍
Thank you
that was one of best advice in my live
Don’t post everything you think, don’t, just don’t. -Billie Eilish
Me having to remind myself not to have the urge to vent on social media because irl nobody cares:
great🙏
I love you you make me happy
At the same time I agree but I also don’t because when my parents would not get me help I decided the only way to get help was to post about my feelings which gave red flags to my family and I finally got help, I’m just saying it can be risky but sometimes it’s for a reason
If you post your feeling you don t knew what will happen in your life so maybe you will fall in a disgussting state when they will laugh at your feelings and make it like a joke this is the worst that could heppened to you keep your feelings inside to you and dont give them the right to talk about it 👌👌👌👊✌
Billie Eillish beautiful you can go ahead and say it 😅😘😗😍😣 that's what I imagine I heard
Don't post your feeling 😊😊😊😊😊😊
I love you too
I will do what I want.Thank you for your concern
😭❤
I WARNED YOU; FROM THE START FIRE 🔥🥵..!
Came off Facebook, Insta, Twitter over a year ago. Never going back.
😊😊😊😊❤️❤️
Can anyone share the full video of this in here
On the description
I don’t agree because life is too short to hide your emotions.
Actually I don't agree with that, when I post feelings online I feel relieved, I feel like I just got something out of my system, things that had to be said, and feels like I really said it to the world when I'm posting it on IG, i don't care if nobody cares, if you want it read it, y'know, even comment on it, for all I care you can even laugh at it, laugh at me, y'know why, cause I don't care what others think of me, I'll keep posting everything I feel, on IG, because it helps me get things outta my system, yeah, I know all the comments here are supporting that things that Billie said, but foreal, it's not true at all for me
its not true for everyone, its just like a personal experience, i dont post my feelings online bc i dont want ppl knowing how i am in reality, its kinda hard to explain but if it doesnt work for you its fine, and no one should hate you for not agreeing
Bro people will use your vulnerability against you people view vulnerability as a sign of weakness
But someone can take advantage of ur feeling whether you were sad or happy ....in any way
Wondering how she’s feeling abt this now considering the vulnerability of happier than ever
Okay!🥰🥺
Yes
Why blood?
Same blood
👍🌼
Don't post your feelings. It serves nobody. Also it will mostly draw wrong kind of attention. People don't care to be honest. If you are sad, depressed go to a therapist, be with your family and talk to them not to the world. They don't care.
Love u too bad foff
All💚 Billie..but I'm going to post how I feel cos I don't know how much time I got left....Under Siege🙏🏾
Keren wae si teteh ieu
"If you post your feelings, they'll post yours"
- ★RoroGamer★
😍😍😍😍😍😍
don't post your feelings, don't do it
Billie: don't post your feelings
Also billie: *the vid were she was crying about xxtenations*
I do what I want 😝
so quirky
Why people post their feelings for? you don't need to show off your feelings to people out there cause it's useless...
Can somebody pls tell me which post it was? I'm an old fan of her but idk which one does she mean
I used to post my feelings on internet for over 7-8 years and the consequences now is i have IBS and Stomach ulcers... i failed and wasted so many years of my life for nothing
I’m so sorry, can I ask how that was a consequence ?
L A emptying myself in a hope of a replay, kept hoping in something that was a useless waste and that feeling developed into sickness only, felt like i was in a prison locked down behind cells screaming for help in middle of dessert
It's quite saddening... (this comment is kind of ironic)
But when you post your feelings on the internet but no one gives a sh*t about your thoughts is one of the most self-doubting feelings out there. So I just wanna SAY your thoughts and FEELINGS STILL MATTER okay? You are loved ❤ If you're here because people didn't gave a damn about your feelings... Well, same... Your not alone :,)) People can only shower you with words but it's only a temporary feeling of security. Bye 😊
❤️💚✌️💯
Even if your depressed?
still don’t. seek help, talk to friends privately
3EMTA VTi watching this hh
The internet is a funny place
Dont preach what you think,just dont Billie😆
Im sorry but i dont get why?
If I post my feel on the a private account that no one will ever see isit okaye?
Im sorru
It's because when you get some depression, then you post your feelings some people think you just lied and call you "attention seeker", but in fact you're really have depression. that's gonna hurt you more and you'll get more and more and more depression.
But if nobody even see it, why did you posted it? keep it on some diary book is better way. But if that's make you feel better, that's okay❤
@@rimaayu1683 ouhhhh i see thank you
I have a private account where i write all my feeling and farewells,incase i sucide without anyone knowing my friend and family can get in my account.
I think, because posting your feelings just don't make you any get better and it still is there inside you, and even though you had posted it, no one will mostly care, you just get a like and some people will only say "how sad" or "i feel you", it may relieve that lift in your chest but it's still there... in the end you will be the only one who will save and help yourself from what you've been feeling all this time... and also you may get risk of being called attention seeker and get judge by the others like what he said.
I did that when I was ranting in my group. But suddenly they started to call me fake and I left the group.
Relate bgt sama quote nya Billie plis. Nge post bkn berarti nge post video tiktok,dll tapi bisa jg kayak gua yg nge post komen gua sekarang disini :). Karna di sosmed, siapapun org yg tidak suka akan apa yg kamu rasa atau pikirkan, mereka akan menghujatmu dengan kasar, membuatmu seperti badut lelucon bahkan ketika kamu tidak tahu sesuatu sekalipun, intinya mereka TIDAK peduli bagaimana hate speech akan mempengaruhimu. Ingat kata2 gua, di sosmed.. jadilah manusia sepalsu mungkin jika tidak mau terluka. Jika kamu menemukan dirimu sebagai minoritas(berpikir sebaliknya) di kolom komentar/pikiran publik, leave it.. don't post anything about your feeling.. just.. don't.
Did she meant the emotions ??
I guess because what you see in your head as an outcome from doing it is not the actual outcome that you get in real life.
Roger that
but where?
Now people will share this video...😂
Its 2021
can we Be friends 🥺?
...
👍
🤧
How she writes songs then..???
Billie. Ok
billie nganjuk
She realized people don't give a fuck about your feelings. And wants to play with it too.
I did it and i fuckd up
I uninstalled Instagram after watching this 😆