The MORE YOU CHASE Her...The MORE SHE RUNS Away! ( Stop Doing This!!! )
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Hey Matt I would like to see the video where you tell the "Dickie Doo" joke again, but I don t remember the name of It, so what's It called?
@@JimiLoko0822 it's on his alpha male channel it's the one about before you eat this ask yourself this question
Off she 🐤 goes
@christine holly +q⁰000
Dumped my gf because she matched with a rich guy on Tinder after her friends encouraged her.
Later I learned this guy used her for one night then ghosted her.
Then she came up at my door, tears on her face, apologizing profusely. I just laughed and closed the door. I blocked all her friends as well when they texted me to tell me how much of a jerk I was for treating her that way. LMAO
Good for you !
@@unvaccinatedmgtowfitness if that happened then he should give her a black eye for cheating
I would've punched her and then leave
You did the right thing. If the woman is obsessed with you at the beginning and submits fully, you generally shouldn’t expect a situation like this.
Best result
I have three girlfriends at one time. I tested them different. Yes, you are right. The more I care about her, the more she disrespect me. One of them I treated her like shit, she loves me like hell.
That's too much work :( I'd rather have the girl chase me and then I'd chase her
Dude, low quality woman. You really only need one or two high quality chics, IMO.
@@homiesenatep agree thats exhausting
Bro Can we have e a conversation on insta?
@@JJ-ps9xe yup, these are low value chicks, good women appreciate honest shit
A coaching video a day keeps the simping tendency away..
Haha
Very true
True, if I stop watching red pills I turn into a nice guy
Smart man
Women are like your shadow. You follow her, she moves away. You turn your back and go on, she follows you.
wow
Give her attention, she gonna give you hell
If she runs away, good.
Anyone else kinda lose interest in the women you are meeting lately? I'm having that problem. After learning the truth more and more bout red pill, I feel better off single.
You still have to jump through hoops all the time however red pill you are and if you live with her and have children you will turn into another Beta male. So why bother with all this rubbish ????
Im too....no interest in woamen....at ALL besides you re own job of 40 50 or even more hours for a roof food gas light water insurances ...have a hobby as a man....i got 2 oldtimers and although they don t talk to me and are just materials it just feels better to put there effort sweat tears and pain in then......a woamen...
If u chase her u mite lock her down but dont expect it to last for a long time. If she chases u ur chances are better that it will last a while longer but nothing is ever garanteed.
chasing comes from having lack of women in life. back in 2019 I had a situation when I would chase this girl a lot then when I stopped because of the redpill also I was working in downtown and there were lots of attractive women around made it easy to do cold approach and meet women. then she wanted my attention.
It really is, I broke up with my Gf 3 weeks ago and now I'm dating other women. My ex sending me nudes and calling me every other day it's kinda funny
Since I found red pill many things changed. Women lost that gloom to me, and def I am not chasing anybody. Just business and money and regular work out.
Ever since I got red pilled, I started looking at the average girls I dated before with disgusts.
I was like "EEEWWWWWWWW I was interested in her!!!?"
Good for you man 👍🏿 keep up the good work
Begging is not attractive. Self respect is.
Treat them mean to keep them keen.
She will miss the attention, then crave it then chase it. This is actually a good tactic, if done correctly. I've used it in a few lasses, and works a treat. Like giving them that dopamine rush, then taking it away.
Dude I love you, no homo. She deleted my phone num and everything. She left me and i wish i had listened to you and Darius M on youtube from saving Men from being stupid
They're short term. They just maintain a fake nice mask for a long time.
At least you know now bro! If it happens again, it's on your back
@@vanwilder1101 yeah bro thanks
“ NO mo Homo”
Leave her Alone.
He's right---never feed their ego. It's fine to compliment, but be stingy with it--creating and maintaining doubt in their mind---them doubting what you feel is important.
Backhanded compliments, poisonous praise, and competition anxiety is the most compassion thing you can do for women today.
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 how do you do that. Can you give an example?
It's doesn't fuxking matter if you chase her or not fellas! These girls know they have plenty of options and tons of guys hitting on them. Thanks to social media and the internet! You better off finding a girl who is totally into you and not these immature superficial girls who like to play mind games! 💯💯💯
I don't even give them any attention, dating is dead to me for the past decade. Go your own way and improve yourself
Yes! Americanized women aren't worth the time or effort to "chase". When you "catch" them, they bitch, moan, complain, and basically rip you off financially! They're also "dream killers", Whatever you like as a hobby or vision of success in your life, women will stomp on because of their own selfishness. No, it's not worth it, my friend...
So your MGTOW level 5 monk....CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I'm the same way. I'd rather focus on my own goals (none of which includes women).
@@mr.yuk4858
For those Men with ambition who never succeed; it was probably due to a woman in their lives!!!!
Overly pushing also stems from a lack of abundance and accurate game experience.
If you have to chase someone, well that basically means that they are running. As a masculine man, with a frame, path and a purpose, there should be no way in hell that you should be chasing anyone. Period!
"Women are like a shadow; if you follow them, they flee. If you flee, they follow you." Women are cool, but they shouldn't be the gears that make your world revolve. You make your own life revolve. Focus on yourself, respect yourself, build yourself - this positive energy creates a natural attraction.
💯 TRUE
In fact when u chase anything it has a tendency to run from you
Like cats
One of laws of life.
even your own shadow runs away from u when u chase it
Does that include pursuing(chasing) excellence??
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 yes u can never become excellent its all about efficiency.
The person who cares the least comes out stronger when the relationship ends.
It’s more like not obsessing over her.
Yeah I'm not getting its not about caring here, more about being better in how you interact and invest in a connection!!
I can't deny it with that smile on my face...It's not the kill, it's the thrill of the chase. ~ Deep Purple (1984)
I picked on a girl's hair before, she picked on my disability... game over man. This was years ago. Never talked to her again... I have no idea what to do other than being nice... still doesn't work. So now I ignore them and chase my dreams of working and traveling city to city
Do what they do. Talk nice, act whatever you feel like.
The technique works But ONLY if she is at the same empathy level as you!
But if she is not, then she will attack back with CRUEL and INSENSITIVE remarks!!!
Show high level of self respect to the girl and don't feed their ego care for ownself its better to fuck a prostitute then being desperate for any girls attention
Dude, are you the one driving around SW Las Vegas with the blue lights aligned on that Delorean?
Why do I have to go through all of this for someone who isn't worth the trouble?
Fuck that, I'll read, take more college courses and increase my intelligence.
Why?
Because picking up a SIZZLING HOT girl with a succulent “P” is one of the GREATEST FEELINGS in the WORLD!!!
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Great then what? I think the point you're missing is that I already got the pussy. It's what came AFTER that formulated that argument.
If you so choose according to your agency, do what you want. You are a different person with different interests, I'm simply expressing mine.
@@eyesofitachi55
Nice!
GOAT when it comes to coaching. When all these other coaches are taking pot shots at each other (feminine behavior) on RUclips, M stays on the path and focuses on the the task at hand.
I block her ...1 hour ago
Respect Matt, everything you say WORKS, I saw it in your 7 months to Mastery Program, you're like a Martial Arts Master !
I love the chasing videos, its very obvious the more you chase women the further they run away from you. Dont chase, chase success, have a life of abundance, thanks M
If it was obvious we wouldn't have channels like this. We know it's obvious, but you'd be surprised how many blue pillers who're just discovering the redpill don't!
I'm a lesbian for 20+ years. And let me tell you, these advices also work for us too. In just regular simple relationships. We woman are strange creatures.
Hi En
I need women advice if can help me out
Counselling didn't work instead twice counselling make her pull away and broke up with me..
Because Actually 1st breakup last year December was after counselling on November and I regret bring her to seek help for her mental stress..the lady counsellor told her to remove herself from me because I was the source of her feeling stress ..she broke up with me believing the counsellor words
Last Tuesday I did the same mistake bringing her to another lady counsellor and Backfire again on me that I am Too Controlling and Too Pressuring on her that cause her Mental illness..so yesterday she told me she cant take anymore stress from me and she wont be doing anymore things that I wanted to proof her love so she will not pressure to be my gf having to please me and prove her love and never ever to leave me..
So for now she didnt text me and it is Day 1 No Contact today is the fixed date every week we go dinner and make love then drive her home for the past 2 month after 7 years relationship after 2nd break up in April and 3 month of No contact I am no longer in control as the Man because she now going crazy mentally i I know I will be Hell those 3 month of No contact I couldn't eat I couldn't work ...
I may have cause her too much trauma
Watching 33 with my phone📲 on 33% this gone die listening to this great knowledge🤣 💪🏾💯
Everything Matt says here is true fellas. If you pursue them too much, they will vanish. Give them room too chase you. And if she doesn’t come back was she really worth it anyways?
Those days are over for me.
Even if you're busy, it takes like a few seconds to send a text
The brutal truth behind human nature is... And it applies equally for men and women... Pursuing someone too heavily makes you seem desperate. And nobody wants, what nobody wants. A hard pursuer seems too available--too desperate. And that's highly unattractive.
Every gf I've ever had just fell into my lap without an ounce of pursuit. We met at a friends place with mutual friends introducing us... This is one of the best ways to find a girl. Firstly, she's already going to be on your level if she's at the same party as you, and shares some of the same friends, et cetera...
Secondly, you're already half-way past her natural defenses she'd have if you were a total stranger on the street. That's because you share some of the same friends. Having friends is effectively an endorsement of you. It lets people know, instinctively, that others like you, so you must be likeable and normal. You wouldn't be there otherwise.
Thirdly, everyone is already in a loose and friendly mood, and any girl that's single is scanning through all the guys and hoping to meet one she likes. She's making a mental checklist of all the guys she definitely will never touch... and those that are suitable. With guys it's slightly different. We're just looking for the prettiest girl. Girls, however, want a guy that's charming, socially competent, funny, and attractive enough. If you can make a girl laugh, really laugh, and all your friends are there laughing along with you... you're at your best. You'll rarely look more appealing to a girl than in those moments. This is when girls are making mental notes... Like him, don't like him, ew, never with that guy, and that tall funny guy in the corner is who I like the most here.... That's the thoughts going through every girl's head at a party.
Tall guys: You're in the best position. Almost all girls universally want a tall, thin and fit guy that's charming and funny. Nature isn't fair and this is just the reality.
A workplace is another way to meet girls, but it's not quite as good as through friends in a purely social setting.
And meeting girls cold, like on the street... I don't know who can pull that off. I never have. I never try, either. Because I wouldn't want to work that hard with such lousy odds. And it's because on the street girls have their defense on max. It's because girls are naturally vulnerable. They'd be foolish and naive to walk around smiling and inviting conversation. They never will. A pretty girl gets enough creepy idiots annoying her when all she wants to do is walk to work, or get a coffee, et cetera. Even if you're a very attractive guy, you will inevitably creep a girl out if you approach her as she's just walking down the street. With so many creepy people around, no girl is in the mood to be social in the middle of a busy city street. She'll assume you're a heaping loser if you have to approach her cold in such a way. It's predatory, actually.
Back to the main point... No girl wants what no girl wants. So any time you find yourself essentially begging a girl to go out with you, or to see you again if she's an ex... you're making yourself look really small and meek and desperate. It's unattractive at best, repulsive at worst.
There isn't an alternative in every case, unfortunately. Sometimes you just have to accept a girl is no longer into you. One thing is for sure... if that same girl learns you've already hooked up with another girl... that will drive her gaga. Everyone wants what everyone wants. Generally speaking... And assuming we're talking about normal people, you can rely on this fact of life: Desirable things are desirable to everyone. Undesirable things are undesirable to everyone. And when something becomes unavailable, it inevitably becomes more desirable.
Dating you should be seen as a privilege, a score, a lucky break for a very lucky girl, because it's something that has a priceless value to such a lucky girl. You're going to make her feel better about herself and make her entire life better. That shouldn't be seen as something you're begging to give away. If it's seen that way, it's perceived as being worthless or of very low value... so low... that no other girl would be foolish enough to date you.
Get another girl asap. That's the best way to drive a girl bonkers.
Mick, for a long time I use to think the same as you!
Then I bought a program called
“how to pickup anywhere at ANY AGE”
I was divorced for the second time and in my 40’s when I did this course.
Some of the techniques included:
Approaching innocently to ask for directions. Asking where the nearest Starbucks was and then walking with her to open up the conversation.
If a girl was waiting at a bus stop reading a book, you start commenting about the book to her, etc...
During a period of 2 years, I picked up and dated a total of 22 women I met straight off the streets!
It was AMAZING!!!!!!!!
Over time and with a lot of repetition I got so good at it that often out of shear boredom, I would run the technique just to get the score, then I’d toss her number away. I just wanted the FEELING of the pickup!!
NOW A DAYS, problem with this approach to picking up is that your picking up “HOT GIRLS” with no knowledge of their background what so ever!
I picked up a super hot girl... after the first date I learned she had just been released from prison for armed robbery!
So, YES it is doable. Part of what you need at the pickup moment is CONFIDENCE, or the ability to FAKE the confidence WHILE your running the technique!!
Which is where MOST guys falter because they don’t trust the process/technique to actually WORK.
If you have to chase anything, it’s running period.
Such simple advice, but a subject that must constantly be repeated until it sinks in💯
Correct. If your truly red pilled and alpha you just do this shit naturally. There’s no “technique” you consciously have to enact.
One of the best mentors EVER!!
I love Matt, everyone needs a good friend and confidant to discuss these types of subjects. This platform allows everyone to have a solid wing, friend, team mate, associate. Keep it up Matt
You have helped me out! I have a go getter mindset! I eat healthy and workout 💪 every 🌄! I notice the difference in my appearance! You have helped me out to stay on my path and purpose! Better and younger girls have been checking me out!
Push pull is actually a lot like fishing. You gotta give the fish a little wire to tire it out.
And use a sausage as a bait... : )
Now I can clearly see how I fked up my relationship
One thing i observed that add on here, if we chasing a girl doesnt mean she is not replaying, she is busy with other person as well, if she is with other person she never worry about us till she is with the guy
I say, matt you are the best mentor on this, alpha male things, pua
I really like a lot your content
Fellas!
Did you just listen carefully to Matt? You did ? Good! Now listen to this post yet again!
My wife of 12 years does this damn shit all the time tries to get me to give up my business for a real job because I work that business 7 months out of the year I make 10k per month and her "real" job for me would be 2k per month... Idk how many times ive told her if she doesnt like what I do she knows where the door is. Last time ahe said well ill take your kids away and I said well let me help you pack their stuff because I know if ahe thinks for one second that that bothers me she would use it against me.
Keep a firm stance women can sense weakness from a mile away.
Yeah, it goes to show people don't know shit how some things work. If you worked that regular job and only made an average amount of money, she would call you broke and then leave you. Everything has a price. She should be content that you are busting your ass off to make that much money.
That's it!! I'm joining 7 months to mastery...soon!
Motley rules and so do classic cars! F yeah!
LETS GO!!!!!!!!
*** They respect you more and test you less the more they miss you because you stop chasing and focus on on building and amazing successfull life that makes you. feel happy
The game of push-pull makes sense; give her a chance to participate in the “GAME “
But what does it mean when you STOP CHASING her and she doesn’t start chasing you back?
Does she NOT know the game or does she NOT want to play the game????
" I like the chase, not the kill..."
John F. Kennedy.
" I like the chase, not the kill..."
William J. Dove, Jr.
@Zinoulol Yes...he was pressed by a woman in his younger years why he was the " love them and leave them " type...that was his answer.
Truth is , if we could take the sex bit out of the equation, we probably would never even want to speak to these people, but the sex drive is so strong that it keeps us chasing tail , sad shit , and it don’t get better with age , I’m 61 !
I made every mistake in the book all like the ones discussed in this vid in my last relationship. I lost a really cool chick cuz of it, and it hurts really bad. Never again. I wish I could've learned these lessons with a different chick. But in the end, I lost someone who didn't care about me, but she lost a great guy who truly loved her and would've been loyal to her. I know it's her loss. I hope I can find a girl who I like better one day, who will treat me how I deserve to be treated.
Women are different,first they show interest to you and then when you show them back ,they leave you or say I have bf .best thing is to talk to them and then leave them .In that way you chase them a little bit and then disappear.
Spot on , you couldn't say it better my friend ..
Us older guys are more prone to saying ah hell with it instead of playing this crazy game. It really can be an exercise in futility. You never know what you're gonna get even after you thought it'd be great! Cuz shit happens.
It's literally hunting, luring the pray towards you works better than going out in the wild chasing after it.
If you have to chase something, it implies that what you're trying to get is running away. Fact of life.
Like Matt said...When you chase her, you chase her away
33 secrets is my go to channel for Game 👍
Thanks for letting me know I need training! I would have never figured it out myself...
In my experience the women you have to game like this, are catch & release. If I have to play games, she's not interested and it's better to walk away. There's billions more.
Turn the tables !! " Steal her Purse " !!
They are not even worth for my attention , stay away from stupid energy money vampires . Yashhhhi bro
If you have to chase, she wasn't interested enough to begin with.
Where are all the good guys?
The gym, the shooting range, out riding
motos, wrenching on old cars, mining
crypto, grinding a side hustle, building a biz,
inventing the next big thing, reading up on
history &tech, traveling, buying property,
renewing their passport
avoiding y'all
Epic !
Sometimes a girl won't test you because you are doing everything right, so she doesn't need to, Matt.
They do not test you when they miss you and they also chase you.
1:24 is key. It's also about her need to chase.
It's not about the "lack of women" as people say down in comments.
Imagine seeing tons of girls, having tons of sex... and then you meet HER.
Wow, she's like Marylin Monroe. Big eyes, thicc thighs, perfect face and skin...
You think it works different and start pursuing her. But it works the same way. And you'll blow it if you forget.
First you have to push yourself to her
And than pullback away
What's the best plan for regular jerks ? Most guys are middle/lower middle class. I respect how succesful you have become but there are some of us your age(1972!) that still have never become wealthy.
I don't think a man's value can be measured by his wealth. It's how you carry yourself and your demeanor that counts the most.
Barbara Woodhouse "No Bad Dogs". That book, which I read at 12, on training dogs---it all applies to women as well.
But if they test you too much, she has issues from her past, too much is a problem as well.
beautiful speech
everything he said was true
Women go for men when they are unsure about how he feels about her.
The more you voluntarly play
The more she'll stray.
Hahaha Matt is 10,000% correct
No need to say 10,000%. 100% will do!
@@Space_Rebel these days 100% is not enough, just like crypto market/ worth increament, it's in thousands of percentage over time.
This one was a bit depressing as it reminded me of all the stupid shit I did all my adult life with women. Glad people can get this knowledge now. That is the only positive. Really people like Matt exist now and technology allows us to see these very good videos.
the more learn about women the more i like being alone
Same here.
After a while you get tired of learning the hard way. I was doing super beta sucker shit the last 3 months of the recent ending of the relationship with my Jezebel fiancee. Bitch left me and cared less. I tried to negotiate and she just grew stronger as I grew weaker. It's cold game fellas. I promise to never allow myself to be that played out again. Crazy shit is when I juggled I was doing great. But the 2nd I give my attention to one , I get shit on.
That’s right. I have a tall women at work. I ignore her and it gets her all emotional. I can notice it in her. When I start talking to her she goes into a good mode. But it does the same to me. Why ????.
How to know it's time to push(chase ) a little or stop pushing (back off)!
here on,,,,, rraaaaaa YOUTUUUB !!! 🤣🤣🤣
You need to make it clear to her, that you have other options, if she violates the alpha male rules. There are more females than there are males. You need to make that crystal clear to her. Mitchell
Here on RrrrrreeeUtuuube!! 😂😂🙌🏻👍🏻✌🏻
So how on earth are you ever supposed to get in a relationship? If you show the slightest bit of interest she'll run according to you? Eventually you're going to have to show interest. What are you supposed to do? Wait until she loses her SMV and be her desperate leftovers
Great question, who the hell knows the answer?
If I am chased, I'll definitely also run away, and the only way you can outrun me is when you're chasing me with Ferrari or Lamborghini 😉😉
Dude,this "creating tension" scheme must be for guys who have no problems in thier lives. I'm so f***d up,I don't have the time or need to create these games. Anyone out there know what Im talking about?
That sir was beautiful.
If you chase them, they will lose all respect for you. You’ll be like their puppy dog on a leash. They will look at you in a different light (A weak guy) . Women are emotional. If you aren’t stronger than they are, they will use you, cheat on you, try to be in control of the relationship, and play on your weaknesses, use that to their advantage.
I don’t normally use bad language, but you’ll be their little bitch. At the beginning of any relationship, you must explain to them the alpha male rules - the boundaries, the respect, or the second week of dating them, etc. . . .Mitchell
Will you do a coaching video on whether or not you think getting vaccinated will propel a man's chances to get a higher value woman in 2021?
Matt does a great voice imitation of a “air-head bimbo”...love it!!
Have you seen Stirling Coopers uploads - crazy Matt
Your the best MATT!
Good Lesson, thanks Matt !!
Does anybody know where i can find the pic of the thumbnail?
Daaaaamn, that car...
I quit dating American women for all these reasons. After my divorce, I began dating Asian women exclusively. Not Asian-American, but actually from Asia. Different culture, still respect Men for what they bring to the table.
Matt ur fantastic bro.