How to Avoid Being Ignored if You're Quiet - Do This to be Charismatic

How to Avoid Being Ignored if You're Quiet - Do This to be Charismatic
People think you have to be loud and extroverted in order to be likeable but that isn’t true. Even if you are more quiet and introverted, you can still be charismatic and be the person everyone remembers. This video will go over 5 things you can do to stand out even if you are quiet.
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[@zenostrixster]

I'm not really quiet but do stuggle with being ignored.
1) Having a nice personality is a must. It's really all about having high energy and enthusiasm and that is difficult to have all the time so I would recommend just using whatever emotion you are currently feeling. Smiling helps to feel better. Thinking about a good memory helps(don't get captured by it). The first step is to induce enthusiasm within oneself. It gives other people courage to act the same way because standing out alone is tough.
2) Be respectful to others. Keep their feelings and emotions in mind and make sure that you don't criticism or complain. If you have to do it then criticise the action and never the people. Instead of focusing on the problem which is useless focus on a solution. You are not being useful if you only point out the problem and never the solution .
3) Assert yourself more.
Stand straight ,make eye contact, don't be afraid to smile every now and then . Use gestures (use body language to assesrt yourself). Speak at a slower rate with pauses to build suspense(before important information). Learn to add stress to certain words.
For example"You are VERY beautiful" the word very is stressed.
Be diplomatic and speak your thoughts in a relatable manner such that the other person can understand them. Don't be afraid to pause to think. Speak like you deserve to speak and listen like you are a clueless idiot and genuinely want to build up a concept.
4) Do not take yourself seriously . By that I mean is to never show negative emotion over petty things that don't matter. Instead embrace a bit of self deprecating humour and if gets too out of hand let the other person know. You don't want to appear like you are fighting them. Just say no in a friendly way.
There is a limit to how much you can endure. So if people do not understand you and refuse to respect you despite you being a a genuinely decent human being. Then withdraw at once. Your attention is the most valuable think you have. Only give it to those who appreciate it and never shower others unless you want to lose value.
5) Be generous. The best way to make friends is to not approach them with the mindset to take but the mindset to give. Give people gifts this could be a compliment a favour and actual gift.
All of this is bunch of mess that I could articulate based on my personal experience and some books I've written. It is difficult to apply all of this conciously. So you have to start small. Maybe try becoming a bit nicer if you're not. Or a bit more assertive if you are a nice guy.
Find the optimal balance between positive and negative. So that not only are you likeable you are also respected.
Love yall

[@zenostrixster]

I'm personally very low energy so I'll be working on increasing my energy

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing. Those tips are all great

[@AkumaDaniel-dz1oe]

Thank you very much! I can plan to implement as soon as I can as people always talk over me. Wish me luck!

[@mic7095]

very helpful tips! Will remember them next time I talk to people. Thanks♥️

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

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[@Zimcautions_a2]

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[@TheLifeFormulaa]

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