topaz763 oh man that is rough! they probably don't want to be jealous, they just get used to themselves and you being a certain way. probably throws them off. i hope she had a change of heart.
I have been overweight all my life. About 10 years ago, I went on a hardcore diet and went from 230+ to around 150. Unfortunately I put the weight back on plus more. I will say though that I didn't realize it until after I put the weight back on: when I was smaller, strangers were friendlier and I got treated nicer when I went out shopping. Now that I am heavy again, I get followed in stores like I am a thief and or flat out ignored when I am in need of service.
texasofmyheart awww hun i am so sorry! yeah i used to get followed around too. i wish it wasn't like this. it's not fair. i am meaner than ever and people treat me the nicest now that i am not fat. it's ok hun you can lose weight again if you decide you want to. just remember how ppl really are. much love! 💗
You can lose it again go on a lifestyle change! Don't go on crazy diets they don't work. Lose it slowly and workout. Avoid junk food and processed food and you will be back to your old weight in no time. Good luck!
That part where you said, "they don't even know what they are looking at ", hit hard! I have watched this video several times. Wish I could give multiple thumbs up. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
excellent video 15 years ago I lost 36 kg and can relate to everything you said. Due to illness and being on steroids for 7 years I regained it and more. I am once again invisible to many people. The one thing you didn't mention so maybe it was only me that experienced it was many people did not acknowledge at all that I lost weight. I went from size 24 to size 12 (australian size) and changed the style of clothes I wore from loose and baggy to tight jeans and fitted tops and some relatives who hadn't seen me for a while said nothing. When other people brought it up in their company they would be like 'oh have you lost some weight? I hadn't noticed.' Again? as you said, I suppose it was just jealousy. Anyway I am back to losing weight again and 1 week in have lost 1 kg and very happy with that. Long journey ahead of me but seeing videos like yours where you have succeeded is very encouraging that I can do it too. Thanks for sharing.
Di Cl awww hun you will be back on the right track! it's hard when you have medical setbacks. just remember: the comeback is always better than the setback. i am not sure why those ppl didn't acknowledge your accomplishments. haters i guess. well i commend you for for your previous accomplishments, and i hope you keep me updated on your journey. 💞
I can totally relate to everything that you said I lost 40 pounds in 5 months even people that didn't want to talk to me are sending me messages and stuff there's a lot of fake people out there.
Tamara- you're so right. I lost 200lbs, and it really affected me deeper than I ever thought it would, good AND bad, you know? I personally think that people who have been on both sides of weight thing have a clearer understanding of self worth, reality, "fakeness", etc. To being approached, for example, by someone who used to treat you like shit and make fun of you, all the sudden trying to get your number. That was the funniest thing for me, personally. I don't put up with that. If you didn't like me then, then why the hell should you like me now? I see through that fakeness like you do, like Lisey does, like anyone who has lost a lot of weight. We realize now more than ever who is your real friend or who really loves you, and you don't get fooled. You realize value is found in loyalty, in love and support. It's a beautiful thing to gain, if you ask me. Congrats on your weight loss, girl, that is awesome!! Keep up the great work and be well and happy. :)
I was 220 on Jan 26. And then I started losing weight and I posted one update pic of me bc now im 206 and lost like 14 lbs and these people who I hardly know are giving me backhanded compliments my own mother does it to me so Now I just ignore the haters and go about my weightloss journey. Im going to get down to 145.
I love this! This is spot on. I lost over 120 pounds and it's crazy how different I am treated now. And I agree people coming up to you is very uncomfortable and awkward.
as a woman that has been always treated badly,been invisible,rejected,ignored because of her weight I wish this changed.I never had high self-esteem or confidence.Luckily,I ve lost 20-22 kgs already.I have 30kgs more to lose but my mindset doesnt help at all.
I can relate so much with the invisible feeling. I think i'm very attractive woman but man don't see me, it's like i am invisible. This society is sick.
Iael BornToSing yeah i think a lot of men will pass up a pretty face and spirit for a “hot body.” it’s just how they are wired. i’m sure you are beautiful and not invisible. 💗
Its awful when people who dismiss and ignore you when fat all of a sudden now talk with you. Some people say its healthy to embrace that, but I think they're wrong. I would courteously tell those people off for ignoring me when I was fat and then I just walk away.
I can relate! I was in a similar situation once. I used to be a chubby kid, and a tomboy too so I wasn't obsessed with my looks and being a people pleaser. After screwing up with weight loss long ago and then having a major gallstone surgery after, I finally became even more serious about my health and lose about 40 lbs within a span of 3 years. Now I weigh less than I used to when I first lost weight (first attempt goal was 125 lbs, now I'm about 120 lbs). As for me, when it comes to people talking to or noticing me, I'd rather be invisible. I kind of miss being able to "hide in the shadows" so to speak, but I'm not going to return to my old, unhealthy habits. It's...complicated, but I'd rather be healthy andfit instead of overweight and diabetic. And using passports feel even more awkward now.
Morikun Rinari yes i feel the same way. majority of men are drawn to normal sized women so i vatch their attention all the time. sometimes i miss being able to hide behind the fat, but not enough to go back to those horrible habits.
for some reason humans are very visual creatures, whose first judgment of people is the outside. People also love results and success, they like hanging on to it.
I never felt pathologically jealous/envious of other people's bodies because I know I can also have a nice body if I work for it.We are not always born with the same things that some may have such as having a nice body but I know I can always work for it and have it rather than feeling bad about myself and keep eating bad stuff (which I am right now 😂).Anyways like this video 😊
As a man, I agree, people treat you differently after you lose tons of weight- When I was bigger man, I always carried myself with class- I groomed myself, I dress casually, I always kept myself cleaned and I would smell good, but I wasn't getting any complements- After, I lost 100 pounds, than people started to give me complements on how I dressed and would ask me what type of cologne was I wearing etc. I noticed that people will only complement you if they only find you attractive.
I would embrace the compliments. You worked hard to lose the weight and become healthy. Welcodme the compliments. People are being nice!! Ignore the haters. Love what you have done! 💕
Emily Greene i don’t agree with you. I am always pleased to see someone lost weight because that means person is taking care of itself and that means person will be healthier. And I am happy if someone is on the path to be better version of themself. So I always make a nice comment to someone who lost big amount of weight. Also if I see someone who gain a lot of weight I would as if everything is okay as I am consider of their health. Friend is not to keep it for itself but to share good or bad
I used to be bigger, i'm 5'4 154 pounds now, used to be 200. My friend who is naturally skinny, doesn't talk to me anymore since I lost tons of weight. I try to text but never get a reply. But I've had random guys, women and people from school who is suddenly interested try to talk to me, even though I'm never really talkative anymore. But congratulations on your weight loss. I'm trying to get down to 130-140 pounds. So I'm still dieting and exercising every morning.
100% truth on e everything you said!!! I had VSG surgery which has saved my life. I was 386 lbs and now lm 165 lbs and this is just crazy at times!!! I feel awesome about the work l put in for heath reasons but people see you so differently and it’s crazy!! I’m more confident but the same person ME!!
I appreciate your honesty.I don't have the personal experience considering i've always been big but my friend on the other hand who is half my size and shorter always has men approach her in the store,gym,park ect. give her things out of the blue and she just wants to be left the fuck alone, its hilarious.I on the other hand am ignored and have the same issue with being blown off when I try to speak to anyone of the opposite sex.Seeing what she goes through if I ever do loose the weight I might dress like a bum just to avoid the attention.
Girrrl I'm only 4 foot 8inches! lol I wish I was 5"4. I currently weight 155. I have resting Bitch face too 😂 so I've been told. How long did it take you to lose the weight?
Rach113 bah!!! that is hilarious. we are so much alike! well let's see. i started fathers day last year. so i guess 9 months. i'm 145 right now. i am proof that it can be done. 😂😂😂 you can totally crush your goals because you aren't even close to being huge like i was. i will be here cheering for you!
Don’t know what kinds of people around you but it is sad you have such an experience. Of course you should be thankful if someone is happy you lost so much weight because that means you are healthier version of yourself and people care if they are happy or positively comment your weight lose. It is awkward if they don’t notice it or dont talk about it. It is like you having a baby- it is that big, ok? And loosing weigh is not an easy task so you should be proud you did it! Yes you are much more then your weight loss journey but keep in mind that we can notice and comment in moment (when we meet someone on the street) only what we see -we’re visual beings and we don’t loose weight in eyebrows so we can hide it and no one would know...it is like another persons body walking with your name and soul so you need to work on your self to except who you were and who you are now and to be thankful on people who love that you are healthier woman now. If you want people know what you are more then what they can see you need to tell them...hope you understand my point and of course I want to tell you great job for all pounds you lost! Your health is important. This is my very honest opinion about it, you don’t have to be bitter about people notice it. And I agree about every one who is jealous needs to be out of you life. Enjoy and stay positive!
How awesome you have achieved great weight loss. There is a reason you hide yourself. I think all of us who have gained weight have some emotional reason. Sometimes we can get to the bottom of it and sometimes it’s hard. The more you do something, the better you get at it. So try to be gracious. Men see you as attractive you don’t worry and be gracious the better you will be at receiving complements and giving them back. Being nice, nice breads more nice. So saying something nice first can break an awkward atmosphere, something small but real. I’m afraid we are all about what makes us attractive to one another that is the world. You wanted to be healthy, so do I, you wanted to be attractive so do I. I am also embarrassed that I was so overweight that I let myself get fat. But knowledge is key and I can only be so grateful that I went to weight watchers so late in life and got my weight down to a few pounds off being healthy. Still tracking. We aim to be beautiful inside and out.
I am still watching your video. This is not something not to focus on. Yes acknowledge others too have problems, that is important. Focus on what is important to you, your hobbies, plan your days. You need time, part of your journey, but you can go forward with grace. Focus on being grateful three things every day this might help get through this stage, going forward with grace.
I am experiencving this often , But i have always experienced this big or smaller I used to be a size 18/20 now im at 2/4. I did have wieght loss surgery ten yaers ago and lost 100 lbs , but in the past yeari have droped another 47ish pounds .I went on my first diet in thjird grade .I worked at weight loss very hard many times and especially after my surgery , but people think that is easy ...its not easy but its was helpful .So iget what you are sying, my family is very uncomfortable wiy th me being healthy and thin and i personally supect andd i could be wrong , but when people see you other rthan how you used to be or see you healthy , then they know it is possible to do so too.But that is another issue for them to embtrace just as it is and always will be for all of us on this journey .Thick thin short tall .Yes i tend not to talk much about my wieght , i try to talk about health instead now. Becausde i know what diamentia looks like and both my parents had it and if the effects of keto can perhaps ward that and the other things i don`t want then i will stay my coursec ,because i know i wanthealth and my skin is prewty thick ! so i can take it ! lol i like and love me .So people will be human and have oppinions but that`s just from they`re perspective ...not mine .Thanks doll for the vid , i appreciate it because the occasional comment can throw us off for a bit , but we shall carry on! Have a grewat day (O:
Tully Soulliere aww hun you are doing amazing. that is fantastic. i am so happy for you and your healthy living decisions. you are an inspiration! keep up the hard work. 👏🏼👍
I definitely feel ya on the starring. I occasionally get eye fucked by girls and it’s very uncomfortable. I’ve only lost 50lbs coming from 250. Before, I still got stares but it wasn’t no where near as much. It’s also crazy what girls do lol. Like they’ll wave at me from there cars. Or one girl like tried to approach me. I never knew girls acted like that but I guess they do it if the guy looks good enough :P
The other fat members of my family treat you like your walking on glass, they’re no longer so chummy and everything is awkward. This is very disturbing since I don’t talk about food or diets around them, but since the weight loss there’s been a social gap and I miss the closeness.
With family members its like... the elephant in the room about the missing elephant lol
Danaya Khartchenko right???
🤣😂😂😂🤣
My own sister got jealous of me when I lost weight. She is used to me being the fat sister and didn't want to be the fat one.
topaz763 oh man that is rough! they probably don't want to be jealous, they just get used to themselves and you being a certain way. probably throws them off. i hope she had a change of heart.
I have been overweight all my life. About 10 years ago, I went on a hardcore diet and went from 230+ to around 150. Unfortunately I put the weight back on plus more. I will say though that I didn't realize it until after I put the weight back on: when I was smaller, strangers were friendlier and I got treated nicer when I went out shopping. Now that I am heavy again, I get followed in stores like I am a thief and or flat out ignored when I am in need of service.
texasofmyheart awww hun i am so sorry! yeah i used to get followed around too. i wish it wasn't like this. it's not fair. i am meaner than ever and people treat me the nicest now that i am not fat. it's ok hun you can lose weight again if you decide you want to. just remember how ppl really are. much love! 💗
You can lose it again go on a lifestyle change! Don't go on crazy diets they don't work. Lose it slowly and workout. Avoid junk food and processed food and you will be back to your old weight in no time. Good luck!
That part where you said, "they don't even know what they are looking at ", hit hard! I have watched this video several times. Wish I could give multiple thumbs up. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
thank you💗. i should do an updated video on this topic.
excellent video
15 years ago I lost 36 kg and can relate to everything you said. Due to illness and being on steroids for 7 years I regained it and more. I am once again invisible to many people. The one thing you didn't mention so maybe it was only me that experienced it was many people did not acknowledge at all that I lost weight. I went from size 24 to size 12 (australian size) and changed the style of clothes I wore from loose and baggy to tight jeans and fitted tops and some relatives who hadn't seen me for a while said nothing. When other people brought it up in their company they would be like 'oh have you lost some weight? I hadn't noticed.' Again? as you said, I suppose it was just jealousy. Anyway I am back to losing weight again and 1 week in have lost 1 kg and very happy with that. Long journey ahead of me but seeing videos like yours where you have succeeded is very encouraging that I can do it too. Thanks for sharing.
Di Cl awww hun you will be back on the right track! it's hard when you have medical setbacks. just remember: the comeback is always better than the setback. i am not sure why those ppl didn't acknowledge your accomplishments. haters i guess. well i commend you for for your previous accomplishments, and i hope you keep me updated on your journey. 💞
I can totally relate to everything that you said I lost 40 pounds in 5 months even people that didn't want to talk to me are sending me messages and stuff there's a lot of fake people out there.
Tamara Massena isn't it interesting??? congrats on the weight loss. keep up the good work! 🙌👏🏼
Tamara- you're so right. I lost 200lbs, and it really affected me deeper than I ever thought it would, good AND bad, you know? I personally think that people who have been on both sides of weight thing have a clearer understanding of self worth, reality, "fakeness", etc. To being approached, for example, by someone who used to treat you like shit and make fun of you, all the sudden trying to get your number. That was the funniest thing for me, personally. I don't put up with that. If you didn't like me then, then why the hell should you like me now? I see through that fakeness like you do, like Lisey does, like anyone who has lost a lot of weight. We realize now more than ever who is your real friend or who really loves you, and you don't get fooled. You realize value is found in loyalty, in love and support. It's a beautiful thing to gain, if you ask me. Congrats on your weight loss, girl, that is awesome!! Keep up the great work and be well and happy. :)
I was 220 on Jan 26. And then I started losing weight and I posted one update pic of me bc now im 206 and lost like 14 lbs and these people who I hardly know are giving me backhanded compliments my own mother does it to me so Now I just ignore the haters and go about my weightloss journey. Im going to get down to 145.
i am so sorry to hear this. i hope your journey has continued despite negative feedback, because you deserve to do what’s best for you.💗
I love this! This is spot on. I lost over 120 pounds and it's crazy how different I am treated now. And I agree people coming up to you is very uncomfortable and awkward.
Mariah Chappel i completely agree with you! crazy.
as a woman that has been always treated badly,been invisible,rejected,ignored because of her weight I wish this changed.I never had high self-esteem or confidence.Luckily,I ve lost 20-22 kgs already.I have 30kgs more to lose but my mindset doesnt help at all.
ninitsa142 i’m sorry to hear that. unfortunately we can only change ourselves.
I am 5'1 1/2 and I LOVE hearing from smaller women and their experiences. Thank you so much for your video and insight!
bahwickee awww thanks hun 💗
I can relate so much with the invisible feeling. I think i'm very attractive woman but man don't see me, it's like i am invisible. This society is sick.
Iael BornToSing yeah i think a lot of men will pass up a pretty face and spirit for a “hot body.” it’s just how they are wired. i’m sure you are beautiful and not invisible. 💗
Its awful when people who dismiss and ignore you when fat all of a sudden now talk with you. Some people say its healthy to embrace that, but I think they're wrong. I would courteously tell those people off for ignoring me when I was fat and then I just walk away.
Emily Greene it’s definitely an odd experience. i usually ignore them.
I think people are very superficial and love facades. Congratulations on your weight loss
Whitney Deivory yes, they really are. thank you gorgeous.💗
I can relate! I was in a similar situation once. I used to be a chubby kid, and a tomboy too so I wasn't obsessed with my looks and being a people pleaser. After screwing up with weight loss long ago and then having a major gallstone surgery after, I finally became even more serious about my health and lose about 40 lbs within a span of 3 years. Now I weigh less than I used to when I first lost weight (first attempt goal was 125 lbs, now I'm about 120 lbs). As for me, when it comes to people talking to or noticing me, I'd rather be invisible. I kind of miss being able to "hide in the shadows" so to speak, but I'm not going to return to my old, unhealthy habits. It's...complicated, but I'd rather be healthy andfit instead of overweight and diabetic.
And using passports feel even more awkward now.
Morikun Rinari yes i feel the same way. majority of men are drawn to normal sized women so i vatch their attention all the time. sometimes i miss being able to hide behind the fat, but not enough to go back to those horrible habits.
for some reason humans are very visual creatures, whose first judgment of people is the outside. People also love results and success, they like hanging on to it.
this is true
I never felt pathologically jealous/envious of other people's bodies because I know I can also have a nice body if I work for it.We are not always born with the same things that some may have such as having a nice body but I know I can always work for it and have it rather than feeling bad about myself and keep eating bad stuff (which I am right now 😂).Anyways like this video 😊
SS123279 yes you are right. i was the same way in how i viewed others. you are just doing you and that is exactly the way it should be. good for you.
Keep pushing! Inspiration
AVML thank you!
I've noticed I have lost female friends when I decided to lose weight. They became snarky and played the avoidance game.
The Baghead Lady yep i have seen that too!
Women see you as competition and as a threat because you are looking better than them. Sad but true.
As a man, I agree, people treat you differently after you lose tons of weight- When I was bigger man, I always carried myself with class- I groomed myself, I dress casually, I always kept myself cleaned and I would smell good, but I wasn't getting any complements- After, I lost 100 pounds, than people started to give me complements on how I dressed and would ask me what type of cologne was I wearing etc. I noticed that people will only complement you if they only find you attractive.
I would embrace the compliments. You worked hard to lose the weight and become healthy. Welcodme the compliments. People are being nice!! Ignore the haters. Love what you have done! 💕
That's terrible advice. Those people are not worth the time, other than being courteous when telling them off.
Emily Greene i don’t agree with you. I am always pleased to see someone lost weight because that means person is taking care of itself and that means person will be healthier. And I am happy if someone is on the path to be better version of themself. So I always make a nice comment to someone who lost big amount of weight. Also if I see someone who gain a lot of weight I would as if everything is okay as I am consider of their health. Friend is not to keep it for itself but to share good or bad
thank you so much💗
I used to be bigger, i'm 5'4 154 pounds now, used to be 200. My friend who is naturally skinny, doesn't talk to me anymore since I lost tons of weight. I try to text but never get a reply. But I've had random guys, women and people from school who is suddenly interested try to talk to me, even though I'm never really talkative anymore. But congratulations on your weight loss. I'm trying to get down to 130-140 pounds. So I'm still dieting and exercising every morning.
Elizabeth Bailey thank you yes i am at 135 right now. congrats to you also on your weight loss. that is really great.
No one is naturally skin or fat. It is a life style. And you friend is not your friend I guess. Good job for loosing your weight!
100% truth on e everything you said!!!
I had VSG surgery which has saved my life.
I was 386 lbs and now lm 165 lbs and this is just crazy at times!!! I feel awesome about the work l put in for heath reasons but people see you so differently and it’s crazy!! I’m more confident but the same person ME!!
I appreciate your honesty.I don't have the personal experience considering i've always been big but my friend on the other hand who is half my size and shorter always has men approach her in the store,gym,park ect. give her things out of the blue and she just wants to be left the fuck alone, its hilarious.I on the other hand am ignored and have the same issue with being blown off when I try to speak to anyone of the opposite sex.Seeing what she goes through if I ever do loose the weight I might dress like a bum just to avoid the attention.
ummidkz you have a good point. i should dress like a bum and go to the gym. just be you and who cares wtf anyone else thinks.
Girrrl I'm only 4 foot 8inches! lol I wish I was 5"4. I currently weight 155. I have resting Bitch face too 😂 so I've been told. How long did it take you to lose the weight?
Rach113 bah!!! that is hilarious. we are so much alike! well let's see. i started fathers day last year. so i guess 9 months. i'm 145 right now. i am proof that it can be done. 😂😂😂 you can totally crush your goals because you aren't even close to being huge like i was. i will be here cheering for you!
Don’t know what kinds of people around you but it is sad you have such an experience. Of course you should be thankful if someone is happy you lost so much weight because that means you are healthier version of yourself and people care if they are happy or positively comment your weight lose. It is awkward if they don’t notice it or dont talk about it. It is like you having a baby- it is that big, ok? And loosing weigh is not an easy task so you should be proud you did it! Yes you are much more then your weight loss journey but keep in mind that we can notice and comment in moment (when we meet someone on the street) only what we see -we’re visual beings and we don’t loose weight in eyebrows so we can hide it and no one would know...it is like another persons body walking with your name and soul so you need to work on your self to except who you were and who you are now and to be thankful on people who love that you are healthier woman now. If you want people know what you are more then what they can see you need to tell them...hope you understand my point and of course I want to tell you great job for all pounds you lost! Your health is important. This is my very honest opinion about it, you don’t have to be bitter about people notice it. And I agree about every one who is jealous needs to be out of you life. Enjoy and stay positive!
thank you so much!
How awesome you have achieved great weight loss. There is a reason you hide yourself. I think all of us who have gained weight have some emotional reason. Sometimes we can get to the bottom of it and sometimes it’s hard. The more you do something, the better you get at it. So try to be gracious. Men see you as attractive you don’t worry and be gracious the better you will be at receiving complements and giving them back. Being nice, nice breads more nice. So saying something nice first can break an awkward atmosphere, something small but real. I’m afraid we are all about what makes us attractive to one another that is the world. You wanted to be healthy, so do I, you wanted to be attractive so do I. I am also embarrassed that I was so overweight that I let myself get fat. But knowledge is key and I can only be so grateful that I went to weight watchers so late in life and got my weight down to a few pounds off being healthy. Still tracking. We aim to be beautiful inside and out.
I am still watching your video. This is not something not to focus on. Yes acknowledge others too have problems, that is important. Focus on what is important to you, your hobbies, plan your days. You need time, part of your journey, but you can go forward with grace. Focus on being grateful three things every day this might help get through this stage, going forward with grace.
I am experiencving this often , But i have always experienced this big or smaller I used to be a size 18/20 now im at 2/4. I did have wieght loss surgery ten yaers ago and lost 100 lbs , but in the past yeari have droped another 47ish pounds .I went on my first diet in thjird grade .I worked at weight loss very hard many times and especially after my surgery , but people think that is easy ...its not easy but its was helpful .So iget what you are sying, my family is very uncomfortable wiy
th me being healthy and thin and i personally supect andd i could be wrong , but when people see you other rthan how you used to be or see you healthy , then they know it is possible to do so too.But that is another issue for them to embtrace just as it is and always will be for all of us on this journey .Thick thin short tall .Yes i tend not to talk much about my wieght , i try to talk about health instead now. Becausde i know what diamentia looks like and both my parents had it and if the effects of keto can perhaps ward that and the other things i don`t want then i will stay my coursec ,because i know i wanthealth and my skin is prewty thick ! so i can take it ! lol i like and love me .So people will be human and have oppinions but that`s just from they`re perspective ...not mine .Thanks doll for the vid , i appreciate it because the occasional comment can throw us off for a bit , but we shall carry on! Have a grewat day (O:
Tully Soulliere aww hun you are doing amazing. that is fantastic. i am so happy for you and your healthy living decisions. you are an inspiration! keep up the hard work. 👏🏼👍
So glad I found you!
Eve el Bridget thank you! 🙌
Awesome job ❤
Daughter oftheKing thank you
I definitely feel ya on the starring. I occasionally get eye fucked by girls and it’s very uncomfortable. I’ve only lost 50lbs coming from 250. Before, I still got stares but it wasn’t no where near as much. It’s also crazy what girls do lol. Like they’ll wave at me from there cars. Or one girl like tried to approach me. I never knew girls acted like that but I guess they do it if the guy looks good enough :P
yes, their true colors come out.
Amazing VIDEO I can relate so much to it
thank you so much
The other fat members of my family treat you like your walking on glass, they’re no longer so chummy and everything is awkward. This is very disturbing since I don’t talk about food or diets around them, but since the weight loss there’s been a social gap and I miss the closeness.
Neb88 i agree. i have had that happen with some of them too. it’s ok, just keep going hun.
You complained about being invisible to men; now you complain about being seen
such insight