WATER BIRTH AFTER 2 C SECTIONS ?
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My birth plan and what I'm doing! are you guys having trouble deciding what you want to do ?
Talking about baby names who will be with me in the delivery room! all the info let me know if you have anymore questions :)
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I love how invested Victor is and how he just knows and remembers all the info given to you guys. A lot of men would have been like huhhh
My husband was there for every check up, only missed like 2-3 due to mandatory school but even at six appointments I would get told, “I love seeing you both every time, most women do everything alone” 🥹😭
wishing you all the love, health, & safety this pregnancy
I’ve had one VBAC ! It’s such an amazing experience!! You’re gonna love it ! 🩷🩷
Hey love… do you have the ability to consult with an MFM doctor? These are maternal fetal medicine doctors so a little more advanced than regular ob’s. Only asking because I worked in ob for many years and yes they always warned us about the possibility of uterine rupture with a trial of labor. But with you specifically since you also have a fibroid it makes me worried about the extra strain it will put on your uterus during labor. I am a c section mom also, so I know exactly how you feel! My second baby was only 6.6 lbs I wish I would’ve advocated more for a Vbac. But at the end of the day healthy mom and baby are all that matters. Just a thought tho, wishing you all the best 💙💙💙
Dr.s’ now in days do their job for the money not for the people and they want it to be fast and easy and schedule so that’s why they push the c section. I am always about holistic dr.’s and holistic dentist.
I am glad you you went different places and not just go with the first dr. ❤
I didnt want a c section after my first and only had 30% chances of having a successful vbac and thank God I was able to, I had 2 natural births already 🫶🏻 c sections are hard on your body! Is not easy so yes try for a vbac! Dont let anyone scare you! Always look for another option youre happy with because even with a csection you can still bleed out or whatever so please do your research to see what doctors are best to help you and if you still prefer a csection thats fine too!
This girl had 2 c sections & planned for an at home birth but helped up popping her old c section scar and her & the baby didn’t make it. Not trying to scare you but be careful in any decision you take
Also, the uterus has to contract regardless to go back to pre pregnancy size. That doctor sounds like he likes to talk women into sections!
I’m having a C- section on April 29th 😏
Love❤🥹
Hi Laura- I mentioned before that I had a successful VBAC back in October. The way I got my body ready was walking a lot, bouncing on a yoga ball every day, raspberry leaf tea after 32 weeks but it’s recommended to wait until 36 weeks. I did some stretching exercises por my pelvis . There’s good videos here on RUclips that can help you prepare your body. Last but not least😊, you have to vision yourself pushing that baby out girl. Our mind is very powerful. You got this !! 💪🏻
How about the name Liam!?
He can complete your “Love” literally lol😊
Liam,oakley,victor,elliot
lol victor is not giving up on a girl “let’s say you do wanna have another kid” love how equally invested he is and wants to know as much information as you do 💕
I had a Csection in 2018, then I got pregnant in 2020 and was recommended to a clinic where 3 doctors try to do vbacs IF POSSIBLE. My doctor educated me so much, she read my surgery papers throughly and said the same thing. “Csection will always be a possibility because we don’t know how our bodies will react after a Csection” thank God for putting her in my way, I’m going back to her for my 4th pregnancy and she said she can’t believe I’m going for my 3rd vbac 😭💖 nothing is the easy way out but thank God these doctors know what they’re doing 💗
I’ve had a vback and my doctor was very informative and definitely advocated for me. The paperwork they have you sign can be scary but they keep you informed through out the way. Wish you the best either way ❤️
I feel like the paperwork they give for c sections is equally scary too
CAN WE GIVE PROPS TO HOW EDUCATED VICTOR IS???? I HONESTLY THINK HE IS THE MOST EDUCATED MAN AT CHILD BIRTH THAT I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS. LAURA YOURE IN AMAZING HANDS!!! WE NEED MORE VICTOR TALLS AROUND HERE LOL GOOD LUCK MAMA YOURE ALMOST THERE AND WE CANNOT WAIT 💞
Hopefully Marcus can learn from him and be more involved
You Must have not seen King Eldon with Cassie and they're birth Journey with baby Chevy 🥲💛
Bianca I have to agree with you, Eldon is top tier the most educated and involved in everything
I also had a vbac April 2023. I feel like my first dr was trying to scare me into another C-section but I didn't want to. I wanted a vaginal birth. With the second dr she explained everything and was super informative. She even told me the percentage of bleeding out was less than 1% which made me feel so much better. I went into natural labor at 38 weeks and waited at home through the contractions until I couldnt take it and when I got to the hospital I was already 6cm dilated! And pushed for about 20 min and he was out
AMAZING!!!!
My mom had 4 C-sections and 2 Vbacs twins. 45 mins apart! and did amazing! You got this girl ❤❤❤❤❤ your body can handle this!!!! Praying for you and baby positive vibes ✨✨✨💗
Thank you babe❤❤
Ok girl high five to Victor for remembering all this 🤣
It takes 3 days for your milk to come out. With my 3rd baby I learned babies are born with a “fat layer” because their bodies know our milk won’t kick in fast. My baby was lached on me every hour for the first 3 days. I didn’t bottle feed although I was so nervous my baby wasn’t getting milk. But I promise you, they are! So even if you think your body isn’t producing milk, you are. And your baby has that fat layer to keep them alive the first few days while your milk comes.
Knowing this, I was FINALLY successful at breastfeeding my 3rd baby. My first two were bottle fed.
My milk came in, in 24 hours. Pumping is super important to establish a good supply. I nursed my daughter for almost 2.5 years.
and you’re right. Alot of women give up on nursing mainly because hospital staff isn’t up to date on current nursing practices and they scare new moms who have never nursed before into thinking the absolute worst and they get discouraged and stop.
And you’re right. Your body knows when baby is latched milk is always there for baby. Colostrum is the first day or 2. Your body knows the difference between pump and baby. The moment that baby saliva touches your nipple your body knows milk needs to be provided.
Ritual prenatals are not recommended by board certified obgyn’s because they don’t have folic acid which is essential for baby development 😕
Am nervous just by looking at Laura 😅, between the fingers been cracked and the hair touching. Girl everything will be fine, take it easy and breathe
I had a C-section with my first and with my second one it was a v-bac I did hemorrhage which was definitely scary but the recovery was 10x better than a c-section. Everyone is different though! best of luck🥰
If you do deliver V Bac I’m so invested in hearing what was easier and less painful! I’ve never had a C-section so it would be interesting to hear. I love how we use Cassie’s birth as an example 😂 cause that girl for being first baby was a dang WARRIOR!! I’ve never seen such a raw scary but beautiful birth like hers ❤.
You want to see how much your body can handle naturally yet you wanna get an epidural ? It doesn’t make sense .
Victor could be a damn DULA!!! King
Keeping the umbilical cord on the baby after birth(longer then 60 seconds) is called a lotus birth, it hasn’t been studied enough so there are still high risks of baby getting infections and most hospitals don’t allow lotus births
Lotus birth would be leaving the cord on until it naturally falls off (3-10 days)
@@makeupwithmayax3 ohhhh okay that makes more sense
I totally agree with Doctors pushing C-Sections!!!! I had my first baby in January and my Dr. bullied/peer pressured me into a c-section for no reason. It was my first baby, both of us had zero medical complications, and I had only been in labor for 17hrs. I was told that I was not progressing “fast enough” and the baby was not in position so even if I got to 10cm (I was already at 7cm) that she would not delivery me naturally. She also told me that my baby was almost 10lbs (she was only 7). I was rushed to a c-section as if I was dying. I learned that Dr.s are forcing c sections so they can get it done before shift changes. It also allows them to plan out their day. They should find another profession IMO! I was taken advantage of during the most vulnerable time in my life. It breaks my heart. My biggest regret is not having a midwife to advocate for me. It is so sad that we can’t trust our doctors to make the best suggestions based on our wants and needs. We are just another number… and I totally felt that.💔 I will definitely be trying for a VBAC with my next.
I had 2 vaginal birth my first 2.and a emergency c-section due to placental repture i was already 8cm open. I do want more kids but honestly i would go for a csection good luck laura and muchas bendiciones
Laura you got this!
You need to have a good mindset going in. Throughout this pregnancy just keep saying “I’m going to have a VBAC” and you have a high pain tolerance so you can totally do it naturally. Yes delayed cord clamping is absolutely amazing. I also saved my placenta and planted it at my midwife’s farm and loved doing that and seeing how looked. I’m 3 years in and am so grateful I still breastfeed my daughter.
You got this!!
Guys baby E was a big baby❤I had 2 c-section also. Like you I thought dr’s know best. They told me with my second baby that my pelvis was too small so the best was another c-section. Good for you guys that you guys asked and did your research. God bless your beautiful family🙏🏼💙
Laura i have fibroids and i have a midwife and she had told me to take vitamin D 10,000 UI to shrink the fibroids. I wish u the best ❤️
I love seeing this side of you, all this just shows what a great mama you are! To do research and to learn better is to do better and all the effort you put in shows how much you actually care! You got this Laura, you’re gonna do great!! Cannot wait to meet baby boy!
Also there is actually no cutoff to getting an epidural, as long as your water bag is intact, you can go as far as you want without one, I got one at 9.5cm dilated(the fear of ring of fire got the best of me) my water was intact, and I had the choice of them breaking my water for it to go fast and baby come out, or getting the epidural. I had my baby 15 min after getting it, all numb and everything, I just felt pressure which in my eyes is great cause it stopped the pain, but felt enough pressure to know where to push lol
Ok girl let me tell you. You can get an epidural at any time after 3cm. I got mine at 10cm!!! Peoples jaws drop. Lol. My dr said it was going to take 2 hrs for the baby to drop because she was soo high and it sure did take 2 hrs. I couldnt handle the pain and got scared lol. Ask your dr about it. I had the ballon in me and it never fell out because it got stuck, it does in rare cases lol. So yeah. I thought I was at 2cm when I was at 10cm lol. It was sooo painful but its doable. I got scared honestly.
Yesssss Victorrrrr, being a gynecologist lol. He taking patients ??? 😂 so happy you get to at least try natural birth, it is a great feeling. Luv u guys 🫶🏼🥹
Your doing the same as cassie?
No. In the video says she’d love too but she doesn’t feel comfortable doing in case she needed to get an emergency c-section she prefers being in the hospital.
@@dgalindo6671 ohhh ok understandable:)
I have a successful VBAC back July 2023 ♥️ but my doctor was against it trying to instill fear in me about it. Scheduled me for c section at 39 weeks so I went to a midwife hospital and they were all for me having a vaginal birth. What worked in my favor was my kids are 4 years apart and my placenta was not in the front but towards the back.❤
This made me think of of La Bamba. When his SIL bleed out. So happy our health care system has improved. That we can now be more aware of what can happen during child births. So glad some husbands are attentive and focus on appointments. When we are patient we have so much going on in our brains.
Victors explanation is so good I’m shook 😂
I was pregnant at the same time with you with Oakley and now again! Also trying for a vbac! 🙏🏻
I’m so excited for your , I’m also having my first boy after 2 girls . I just got out of a DV relationship and had to move out of state so it’s a bitter sweet pregnancy but I feel like seeing you videos make me more excited ! Living vicariously through your happiness 🩵🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️ LOVE YOU GUYS SOO MUCH ❤️
Remember you can go up to 42 weeks to let your body get induced. Also they can always strip the membrane. My first born was an emergency C-section and my second one was v back helped by stripping my membrane. And my third baby my body naturally went into labor .
Every body for sure are different!! Good luck and may God bless your delivery with a healthy baby 💙
The way victor is just a good partner, he pays attention to all things Dr said and it’s amazing 💯❤️
We love baby LVE so much already!!! 🥺🩵🩵🩵🩵
4 successful vbacks 😊. And two of them are home births.
I love watching this family so much that i click like right away lol 😆
Tengo entendido que tener un parto normal después de 2 cesáreas es muy peligroso y riesgoso te puedes de sangrar porque tú utero ya ha sido cortado y se te romperá al pujar y puedes llegar a morir tú y el bebe al tener la hemorragia 😮
Bueno eso me dijeron a mi los doctores 😢😭 espero todo pase bien contigo y todo salga bien ❤❤❤❤❤❤
No es verdadddd🤍 pregunta por MAs opiniones:)
@@LVEFAMILYen verdad ? me dejas pensando 🥺😢 yo quería intentar normal y no me dejaron 😣
I had my vbac 17 months after my c section and it was the best decision I made wishing you a successful Vbac Laura
Did you get pregnant when your baby was around 8 months? So great to hear successful stories like yours!
Oakley has how many names?! Haha 😅
UCI hospital best at Vbac
Will you be having a baby shower?!!
We are due a week apart and i haven’t booked my maternity pics or started planning a baby shower lol 😅
Love yall 🤍
Baby shower is booked!!! Hahah but not maternity pics
I have had only midwifes for both of my kids and for my third baby right now am also going with midwife my first born was C-section and my 2nd was natural birth
My mom also had 6 kids in total and it was 1st C-section 2nd normal 3rd C-section and 4th was normal 5th was C-section and 6th kid was also normal 😂 I think it just depends on the doctors as well.
I feel ya girl I wished I would’ve knew about a vbac between my 2 bc mine are 7 n half years apart just automatically thought u had to have another c section
Yes victor don’t give up on the baby girl she will be next. 🙏🏻 jejej. Just have them back to back y ya después cierran la fábrica jejej. Boys are amazing 🫶🏻 but then you’ll have a mini you 🥰and dad she’ll be their little love. Have a blessed delivery 🙏🏻❤️
I love that you got a mid wife, are trying to do a VBAC and being open to other opinions. C-sections have gone up a lot because in reality Dr’s make a lot more money off them because it’s considered a surgery and it can be scheduled so it makes it more convenient for the Dr. They can schedule it around their schedules so it’s not a inconvenient time for them. At least you’re trying. If for your baby’s safety you have to get a C-section in that moment then that’s different but at least you were open to taking a new approach because it’s very possible it can be done. 😊
You should ask ahead about the filming during birth situation because in a way itll help you decide between who will be in the room. But tbh its kinda weird that youre actually debating it considering how much your mom loves you. Midwife could literally just be on the phone to give u info that the drs can give you too.
Its good youre not stuck on vbac. I've seen how women beat themselves up if the birth doesnt go as their picture perfect plan. Also, not related but is their a connection to long labor and pp? May be a coincidence that ive picked up on too. Bout to go google 🤣
hi from Paraguay love you guys😍😍💖💖💖
Victor really wants a daughter 😂.. remind him he has a God daughter and God gives us what we can handle 😊.. I had 4 boys !! It’s ok be content with what you have. Pregnancies are dangerous for us women , men don’t understand that.
Please be courteous, don’t share any scary experiences or “ I knew someone who….” Pregnancy and birth are already stressful don’t be that person. She is informing herself and making the best decision with the information she has.
Im one of like 10 cause i tried to have a vbac for my second and it failed cause my pelvic bone wouldnt open, like yasmin( beautybird).. so vbac ARE not always easy as a lot of people make them to be!
My dream is to have atleast 1 baby vaginally, but its scary!
My firstborn I had such a traumatic experience in the hospital and so when I planned for my 2nd baby I knew I wanted a homebirth. Fast-forward I ended up doing a freebirth. The most magical experience of my life ✨️ ❤. I can absolutely agree that your boyfriend/husband has to he 100% on board. Mine was definitely the reason I was able to have the confidence in doing it without a provider. I love this for you and I just know you will absolutely love it. Prayers to you mama that you're able to conquer any fears that may be holding you back from doing it. You got this mama 💕 ❤️ 🫶🏼🙏🏼
Hey Laura my first born he is (4) now I had to have an emergency C-section and I also was told you HAD to get another C-section after your first which was not true at all then I found a doctor that let me do a VBAC and my 2nd and 3rd were successful vbac. It is definitely WAY BETTER then a C-section and easier
We are boy mom's!! I also have 3 boys under 4 and it's awesome!! Most definitely an adventure 😂
I educated myself on both of my births and would have LOVED to have midwives😭 having a midwife is an ancient practice and imo they are Far more educated on birth than doctors
Unfortunately we couldn’t afford having a midwife but I’m so happy for you guys
Hoping for an amazing birth for you ! ❤️
I had a successful Vbac last year in July with my second baby! I was 4 days past my due date!Our plan was to have a Csection a week after my due date! So thankful my body did its thing! My first born was a c section! ❤❤❤❤
I had a VBAC and it was soo much better then a c section!! C sections are very very very painful to recover from! My 1st was a c section and my 2nd was a VBAC and my 3rd was another C section!! But i can say it felt soo amazing to have a VBAC the relief when my baby came out!! Plus at my hospital as soon as my baby came out all the nurses and dr all yelled "congrats momma you had a successful VBAC" that to me made me feel sooo good i loved it but im glad i got to expirence both births!! I just want you to know dont worry about anything happening remember drs have to tell you the risks no matter what but i believe you will have a successful VBAC❤ i will pray for you that everything goes the way you plan 🥰
Are you should call it Amari
Love how he is so into ur body and all the information from bringing in your guys beautiful babies into the world 💕😭 he loves you n so connected with your health n growing of a child he’s so invested 🙌🏻✨ every women needs a victor in their life 😢🤍 Blessed in many ways!! 🙏🏻
Honestly I feel the liability and threat of a lawsuit is what prevents most doctors from encouraging vbacs. My 3rd c section was soooo much harder on my body than the first two and I wouldn’t go through that again if I could.
As a mom who Bf 3 kiddos. I say if you intend to breastfeed instead of pumping get baby to latch baby as much as possible. Babies saliva will stimulate the breast more and send your body signals to produce milk. Another thing to remember that the amount of output of milk when you pump isn't necessarily the real amount you produce. If baby breastfeeds he can get more milk out than the breast pump.
I kept wondering why you were so set on Oakley being a c-section but I’m glad you’re looking for options. V-back isn’t bad besides tearing but it’s quick healing and you get to enjoy your baby. Not that you don’t with a c-section but I know it’s a lot more healing. Sending my best wishes to you y queen todo salta bien si dios quiere. 💖
My last pregnancy i had so much pregnancy brain. I even forgot my phone password when I’ve been having for 5 years the same password ever since then I have my phone unlocked because I’m so scared to forget it again.
I had 2 vaginal and my 3rd baby was a C-section. The first Dr I seen said do you want a vbac and I said yes. She said ok and that was that. I got a different Dr (I requested since the first one, I didn’t like how dismissive she was about my symptoms with my 3rd baby) he explained to me the percentage of someone bleeding out who hasn’t had a C-section and the percentage with one C-section and so on. He then gave me 3 options and explained very throughly everything with all 3 options. Definitely never be scared to change drs or speak up for yourself ❤
I had c-section, VBac, and c-section for the last one but because I declined to try the balloon method for helping me open. I wish I had done my research about it cuz the way the Dr explain it scared me so much. I was like cut me open then.
Yes I would give VBACK a try!!!! You will be okay. Doctors want to just cut women open for more money too
I am so glad you all are getting educated and getting multiple opinions.... and then deciding on what to do what's best for you and baby. TBH since you're birthing at a hospital,God forbid, if you start to lose a lot of blood, there is an option for blood transfusion for Momma. God created our bodies to birth children. You were made for this !!
A lot of drs are pushing for c sections now because it is scheduled and they can be there rather than the waiting game and 50/50 chance of them not being there and more money girl
Seeing this video brought me back to beautybirds second birth vlog women go thru so much but we are so strong and super women. My first labor was traumatic but thankfully me and baby girl where safe now the second one I started contractions and water broke at home birth was 45 minutes me and my husband didn’t make it to the hospital I gave birth to my son in the car no epidural women are so strong I couldn’t believe I was able to do that. Do what is best for you guys
2nd c-section recovery was worse than the first I couldn’t even bathe or put clothes on myself and more pain 🥲
I had to have a c-section with my twins because they were breech. I am due at the end of August with my 3rd and want to try for a vbac so bad! Excited to see your journey and hope you have a great experience! Can’t wait to hear all about it 🫶🥰🙏
Mama Francis nice vlog 😍beautiful family🙏
Hi me here with the same due date now I'm getting scared just listening about labor I have not put in my head yet that it will happen soon😮
It's also my 3rd baby both with natural birth and I am scared to have a c section 😢
Omg!!! They’re not suppose to let you see it 😭 my bd and my mom got almost yelled at for peeking, I had 3 cs 😭
Also everyone IS DIFFERENT YES and I didn’t bleed out or rupture my first 2 times but the 3rd c section I ruptured for a few minutes and I’m so happy my doc was prepared and fast with it and controlled it in minutes 😭
I forgot to mention, I’m so happy for you guys taking control of your birthing experience!!! If I was able to have a midwife I would as well! Unnecessary cs need to be stopped!!
Had a VBAC in November after 2 years of a C-section. I had to be induced but it was successful . I did have an hemorrhage after an hour of delivering. That took them 2 hours to control and had to go through a 12 hours procedure to stop the bleeding. If it wasn’t for my nurse that suspected it and kept checking me every 5 min I could’ve bleed out. Because i was bleeding out very fast.
I wish everything goes smoothly and have a safe delivery.
I’ve had 3 c sections and they were all different and yes it is hard very because u need help from everyone and u have the support there so whatever is safe for u and baby
Correct me if I’m wrong but don’t some doctors push for c sections because they get payed more
Laura honestly is a lie that the doctors say Que nomás puedes tener 3 C-section and it's not true puedes tener hasta 5 when they cut you cada vez te cortan más arriba para no ponerte un risk but do what your heart wants and your mind & te mando miles de bendiciones y que ese baby boy venga mega sano y que Dios ponga su manos alrededor tu cuerpo y las de él 🙏
Please look into getting pitocin & an epidural (medical interventions) and the relation to emergency cesareans. These medications affect the natural birth process and what your body innately knows🫶🏽
idk whats the deal on not saying the names lol just say it grl ur thoughts on what names u got, but i guess ppl b waiting just do c y. on another note ur pregnancy is going by so fast how exciting for u.
Victor is just an amazing husband ❤❤, hoping the best for you and the baby! May God guide your birth and that we have a healthy baby and mama ❤❤
I have 3 babies.. my first two were natural my last one is a month old and I had a c section with him and they are hard I don’t wish that pain on anyone and I also needed a pint of blood but I really do wish you well and support you throughout this journey on what you decide ❤️❤️❤️
Im praying for you to have a natural birth mama! It is DEFINITELY possible! ❤ its a beautiful experience.
Laura there is no time limit for an epidural my midwife told me a lot of people like to tell us there is but there is not so don’t believe that
I had a successful VBAC last month after having 1 c section
It’s never too late to get informed Laura, glad you are doing that and asking questions!!! You are taking control over your body and not letting others decide for you. 👏🏼🙌🏼 hoping everything turns out well for you and baby!
My first baby I had a vaginal birth, my second I had a section due to her being breech. Hoping I get my vback next baby! ❤🤞🏽
How many pounds are the doctors saying this baby will be?
This was my literal experience with my baby girl who is now 2. And I had a previous C-section and I had no luck finding a doctor who would accept me as a vbac patient. Unless I paid out of pocket because my insurance didn’t cover it. I couldn’t afford that and it really sucked because I just wanted someone to give me a chance like you said you know there’s a probability that you’ll have a C-section but at least you still tried I really wanted that feeling but overall just grateful my baby was healthy. I did have a really really hard recovery longer than a usual recovery and I had to take care of my myself basically. I was fortunate enough for my first baby to have my mom take care of me.
Ur feelongs are so valid to want to try i had my son all natural such an easy beautiful experience and my daughter was a c section and it was scary traumatic and a horrible recovery made me really appreciate the birth i had with my son ❤
Colorado is the way to go. We have the best doctors. I'm not just saying that.
A family friend had 4 csec and 5th baby vbac.
That's so crazy because they actually recommended vbacs here