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This is the problem, men giving these ugly women big heads. She keeps touching her hair like she grew it. That’s somebody else’s hair. Yet she still fumbled the bag again.
I find it strange that every man Have a story about him treating a woman with respect & kindness, but she mistreat him. So what is the incentive for a good man then?
This is what happens sometimes when a woman sleeps around in her youth...then years later she may find the perfect man, but if he doesn't perform like the chad, pookie or ray-ray in her past, she will never be happy. She basically wasted years of that mans life.
As men we cannot abuse and let go of our physical fitness either. Looks matter for us as well as much as some men try to deny it. Go in the gym and get in shape and watch how differently your wife/ girlfriend treats you.
She didn't waste his life becasue he didn't have any other real dating options at the time of meeting her buying flowers and shit. He could have been lonely those 4 years that he spent with her. A least he had experience even tho it didn't work out. It better to love than never love at all.
Not really, he was just an older guy who wanted a younger woman who was more attractive than him. If you want to date women who are more attractive than you, of course you feel like you have to work for it. All I heard is that he paid for it by buying flowers, paying for trips, paying for nice dinners, paying for her friends' stuff ...that's not a nice person, that's just someone that wants to pay for people's time and affection. You can't buy it though. So you can either accept it and stop trying to buy for affection...or just date people who are on your level. I didn't hear anything else about what made him a nice person apart from paying for stuff for her from the get-go. Being nice is not synonymous with being rich and paying for stuff for women you want to sleep with. People are definitly confused about what it really means to be a good person. It's not really about how much money you have and how you are willing to spend it to manipulate people to spend time with you and sleep with you even when they are not naturally attracted to you. She wouldn't have started dating him if he hadn't paid for stuff. He was probably ok at the end because he was cheating too.
@@ciobalina7445I have to disagree with you slightly. I believe he is a good man but his form of courting is just outdated. All the things he did would have worked years ago but in these modern times it will only keep a woman around long enough to reap the benefits then leave. And that's exactly what happened (no matter how colorful and fluffy she tries to make it sound). And this woman wasn't a stranger to the streets before meeting him. Just as she put it in the video, she already has a bunch of 🍆. She tried and experienced a handful of guys already so whether she knows it or not, consciously or subconsciously, she was comparing him to her past experiences of guys. And because of this there's a heavy emphasis on initial attraction being important (in my opinion) for women like her. Personally I don't think any man should try to peak her interests. The way that she is and the experiences she had, she gotta like the guy way more than the guy likes her for it to work. But she's burnt out now. This situation had little to do with his actions and more to do with the type of woman he was dealing with. She can logically conclude that he was a good man but her brain isn't wired to appreciate and enjoy that.
Older woman here who speaks to younger women. Finding many of them already know it all and are flat out rebellious. And I've e experienced a good marriage of 43 yrs until my beautiful hubs passed away. And we raised a daughter who waited for her husband of now 15 yrs. They have six beautiful babies she's home schooling. And im so thankful for my mom who began schooling me on the perils of the 304 life at the tender age of 9. We are HER legacy.
keep sharing your wisdom. too many young ladies think they have all the time in the world to party and play around, believing that prince charming will magically appear on their 29th birthday. the real world doesn't work that way. start looking for a good man of character while you're still young, because that same group of suitors won't be around later.
I am 21 and thinking about waiting till marriage. Do you have any advice? I feel like we are in such a sex obsessed world that it scares guys off. How did you daughter find such a great man (considering they have been together for a long time)
@@taylor15589 if you still have your v card, keep it. that is your best bargaining chip to use for finding a good one. marriage-minded men want to find one special woman they can build a family with from scratch. they don't want a woman with "experience." the first thing you should tell a man if he shows interest in you is, "i am a virgin, looking for a traditional husband to marry and have kids with. there will be NO sex of any kind until my wedding night." you should tell him this before ever going on a date with him. if he is only interested in using you, he will leave when you tell him that -- which will save you a lot of heartache and wasted time. a good men will respect your position. if he is considering marriage, he will date you for the purpose of evaluating your character and suitability for marriage. you should be evaluating him in the same way. remember: you're looking for a GOOD MAN, not a BAD BOY. bad boys are exciting, but they are not GOOD FOR YOU. you want the man who helps the stranded motorist, finds a lost wallet and returns it to the owner, is polite to his parents, etc.
I think it’s funny how she initially turned him down because he was her tenant and she didn’t feel the spark, not because she was loyal to her current relationship 🤦🏽♂️🤣🤣
This woman is a result of 304 phase. It wasn't about the lack of sex, intimacy or "the spark" as so many women call it. She's been ran through by a number of men, all great at a certain thing. When she gets in a relationship with someone, she's comparing that 1 against the many other men. She's been through a bunch of men that were hitting it right, why do you think she didn't settle for one of them? Because she was most likely wanting more, that one thing someone else was offering. If that older man she was dating was breaking her back but lacking the emotional support, she would still be on that podcast, single and wishing she did things differently. The problem now is she's aged, weighed and tooth gapped herself out of the desirable market.
Men need to accept that modern xxes are not suitable for any kind of relationship. They are freelance brothel workers. Tired of seeing all these men trying to do the right thing by these degraded tramps.
Another older RP content creator made this point; this is the kind of straggle that is going to put the next two generations of young women in dire financial straits. She had the good fortune of running in the streets for the first two decades of the 21st century, while fmnsm was criminalising and silencing men's issues. Eventually, of course, every scam runs its course. This straggle will get away with a king's ransom, and she's actually hideous on the outside but even more hideous on the inside. She's a demon, who doesn't know how ugly she is.
"No", this is the definition of which "types" of men that a woman has had, "not" her bodycount. Do you think that women can just "never" be with a nice guy throughout their single years, and then when it's time to settle down with a nice guy, act like it's not a "culture-shock"?!!!!🤬
EXACTLY! Imagine being engaged, a few weeks from the wedding, and finding out your fiancé was creeping with a married man! She thought I would go through with the wedding for appearances sake. That engagement/wedding ring package was sold, and the proceeds got me a SWEET car stereo system!
It's just more proof that nice guys finish last, so treat'em like they don't matter, and she would feel that spark then. I am speaking from experience.
A lot of the stereotypes that women say exists for men actually exists for women too. As much as women say that men think with the little head, over and over again we are shown that it's women who think with the little head. And not only just think with a little head but allow it to pick their partners and make their life decisions.
THIS, I've been saying this for a few years already. Women mating choice is driven almost 100% by lust, specially when they are young. They are picking men with their pussy. And that is bad, the pussy knows what a good men was before civilization started, when we were hunters and gatherers, the same type of men today are either players or criminals. They do not make husband or father material.
It's probably not his fault either he was probably told a lie while growing up that women want good men and internalized it and tried to treat woman the best way he knew how, sad reality is men like this get catch off guard when they come to face this harsh reality of women's nature, it has them dumbfounded and confused, he will always pedestalize her because just as how it was ingrained in her to be the way she is, the same can be said for him.
You didn’t need those experiences! Is she serious? Men value a woman with NO past, women value men with a future. Dude will be fine, she’s going to get bitter. She was allowed her dream man and because she got ran through is the reason why she didn’t value him. She wants Ghost from Power at 40, trippin
This was one of your best videos. All I can say about this is, 1. attraction matters. 2. Love alone won’t take you all the way. 3. Sexual compatibility is a thing thing. 4. There is no way the gentleman didn’t know she wasn’t attracted to him. Men are sentient beings too.
Bro you misunderstand it wasn't his looks that was the problem. It was his personality he was basically a nice guy to a thot. If he treated her like the trash she obviously is the cheeks would have gotten hit the first day.
Yes attraction does somewhat matter. But at least for a woman you can overwrite/overlook their looks. Like you end up falling in love with their personality and it makes you fall in love with their looks I mean you hear all about how an ugly guy was super funny and got way above his league. Same applies
@taylord1558 bro it will never be the same women and simps want to pretend it's the same. Here is why an ugly man is expected to pay the majority to all the bills. A skinny fat or ugly woman doesn't think that way. They feel a guy should still pay all the bills in other words they are delusional as hell. Sorry men don't look at personality if you don't have the body that's my preference kick rocks. Example in my life I have dated big girls and I never paid a dime. If they don't want to be slim to thick they can pay their own bills. The funny thing is I'm not unqie in that mentality.
Because she seeing men as a want and not a need, when someone wants something it means it's already in abundance and you can pick and choose, use and abuse it how ever way you see fit. When you need something you understand it's value and how it can impact your life in a positive way.
Yeessiiir!! If you haven’t known her for at least 20+ years and married for at least 15 years, DO NOT get married. She’s been around and ran through by too many other dudes
Promiscuity in women destroys their ability to create healthy long term relationships. This woman is one more example of this. Very sad indeed! However, she is simply collecting the fruits of her mistakes. Bad choices have bad consequences. It is what it is!
Absolutely correct. I hate to say what he should have done throughout this relationship, but he treated her very well. He gave too much compared to what he got in return
That's not true like everybody want to be a relationship counselor like they all are virgins they waiting for marriage like people stop lying you under these comments cuz it make you feel better about yourself everyone is lying that s*** is not true everybody situation is different
She waited till damn near all her eggs were scrambled to just now wanting to settle down for her prince charming. Using the good guys while chasing and getting clapped by the Tyrone and Pookies. This is pure insanity. 😂😊❤🎉
@@dakingltroyproductofdade3579 Women only say that because they don't understand men see women as either just sex .. or a future So women think that men that see them as sexual options is the same as relationships That is the major flaw in womens logic circuits. And once you show that all you are good for is sex you stay in that lane for the men that know... and prove it for men that get to know you. Not wife material.. not worth a man investing his life into...not someone that is a relationship option.. not someone to have kids with Women refuse to accept that men aren't like women.... women put sexual options in potiental relationship consideration.. not realizing you are just a thing to bust in. Mean while the men that view that same women as potiental love and future and kids and family and hope.. they witness and see and change their minds realizing they are not wife material. Woman screw themselves over because they simply can't accept that men view woman this way.. a man will have sex with a woman he hates and doesn't respect and is nothing but a piece of meat to him..... woman only do this after they get to many bodies... which turns a woman into a masculine man with boobs and lips stick and a wet hole.
My grandmother warned me about this. She told me to be careful about going into a relationship with somebody that I'm not instantly attracted to, as that's how people typically end up in situations they regret. She said that I can't force myself to be attracted to somebody that I'm simply not physically allured to. And that you shouldn't bother trying to force it because it won't work. I think this story is basicalky what she was talking about.
She was already practicing the open relationship before she met him and at the final stages of their relationship she suggested it to allow her meet other people. She's not a good woman. She just met a good man who taught her to have standards, but that was too early in her street life; she thought she could eat her cake and have it.
@@ToeKnife166huh? She’s actually beautiful & is aging very gracefully. Some of y’all are trying to pretend she’s not pretty just because you don’t like her opinions. I don’t agree with her either but I’m not going to act delusional bcuz of it 😂. She looks better than whoever is in your pfp with that awful grey/black lipstick & wig… if that’s you I’m sorry 🫣😬
If women were in relationships with just attractive men or men they found attractive, only 2% of the women population would be in committed relationships. As said she could run over him. With him she could have her cake and eat it too. This is why as a man place the woman on YOUR program. She don’t want to kick her the hell out FAST 💨. Don’t play with them.
Everyday that goes by the more you see everything Kevin Samuels was preaching was 100% true, these women will tell on themselves 9 times out of 10 if you just let them talk long enough. & she’s sitting here laughing about it basically saying she broke that man saying “She LOVED HIM SOO MUCH” but yet she cheated on him and just gave him the bare minimum while she was busting it open doing backflips for one of her random tenants 😭
Dang. Nearly an entire hour of a modern chick telling a story of her street travels. Absolutely valuable to some, daily red pill to others. Thank you sir! 👍
There’s so much I could say, I will just say this, the fact that she painted a picture perfect story of a good man, and how she ruined the relationship but somehow, someway had to divide the blame when she should’ve drank that whole cup of coffee to her self.
My neighbors wife crashed her car into my car and tried to get away with it. To make a long story short she said "my car was sticking out too far in the road I shouldn't park like that"..... My car was parked in my driveway.....😂 they don't take accountability for ANYTHING
Take this as a lesson gentlemen. The good guy doesn’t finish last. He finish after the last guy. Smfh, once a woman gets beyond 10 partners. It’s over. I have been married for over 30 years and I am still very happy because my wife was not experienced before me. Thank god for her.
She sounds exactly my ex girlfriend in university,she dumped me only for her to allow half the school to ran through her,10years after university after i am financially stable with options,that same girl is disturbing me as if i will be stupid enough to take her back.
There is an old saying: "Living well is the best revenge." However, having the ex who dumped you see you living well and wishing she still had you in her life makes it that much sweeter.
I fell into this to nice trap. On a scale of 1-10, I am a 2 unfortunately. So when you get a woman that is a 5 or 6 plus, you try harder, do more, put up with more stuff. All of it ended in heart break for me. I was dumped. When I dated a woman that was also a 2 or 3, they gave me 125% plus, plus. I am almost a millionaire, own a large home, drive a cheap car, and take good care of the woman who loved me. She could have done better, but she picked me -- before I was successful.
She couldn’t perform for him because she was stuck in a carnal head space. She was thinking more about how she can receive rather than how she can give to the man she supposedly loved. I think she loved more of what he did for her rather than truly loving HIM. Her problem is she opened doors she had no business opening when she was in her promiscuous phase. You can’t want something you never had, but when you’ve already had it from Tom, Dick, and Harry…it’s hard for you to give all of you to someone who is actually worthy. I really don’t think she loved him like she claimed. I just don’t, because when you’re that in love with someone your spirits connect. All that cap about not having chemistry…smh crazy. She loved what he did for her. She loved what he represented…a GOOD man. Something she never experienced before, but she DID NOT love HIM. I could say so much but then I’d be writing a novel. 😂
This is exactly how my marriage turned out. I did all the bells and whistles, I bought flowers, did romantic things, provided, she was just not that into me. Left me after 16 years for a guy she met at a gym we were going to together. I even received all the support from her family and am still in very good relations with my in-laws. The worst thing is that she is such a good person and it fucked me up. If she, the best person I've ever known, is capable of doing this, what hope is there for any relationship to work out?
She said she learned so much about herself in this relationship….. unfortunately she didn’t learn the most oblivious thing that she’s a terrible woman who’s not marriage material who just deserve to be pumped and dumped. The minute she was with a decent man, she made his life hell, ended up cheating on him and used him every possible ways until there was nothing left.
At her age she better humble herself real quick or start choosing what kind of dog she wants for the rest of her life. Cause that’s all the company she gonna have
At the end, she said she could be a good wife. There was absolutely NOTHING in her story that indicated she had wife qualities. What does she think she think a man wants with a wife? Someone who will passively accept a man's love?
Exactly. She could be a good wife? How? Where's the evidence? You couldn't keep from cheating on a man that had everything on your checklist except for sex so who does this man have to be that you will not cheat on? Jesus maybe?
Young men please understand that this didn't just start, its been happening. Im 62 now and have raised both of my children as well as sending them to college on a $60,000 a year salary. These women out here are delusional and you need to worry about yourselves first. I was raised by both parents and believed in marriage. I'm done.
Specifically in the story where they had broken up, but he was still coming over to comfort her… THIS PISSED ME OFF! For her because she just wanted a warm body yet he’s not hot enough for him to bust the cheeks. For him because he was letting her use him like a little girls doll to hug when she’s lonely. She’s the one that destroyed this relationship. Honestly, she should have never given him hope when she knew from JUMP that she wasn’t interested.
this is why u gotta set boundaries and be assertive. ima rub in her and whip my dck out lol... ain't no holding and hugging. I'm curious what homie looked like and wa he used to getting women. he couldn't have loved her thst much to put up with all this
Great interview.the man who did the interview was a great interviewer.very respectable and didn’t come with disrespectful opinions.I understand what she saying and yes their is still hope!!!
And here I am just wanting someone who's loyal, faithful, hardworking, loving, and wants me. Lol. ALL of the things that I return and do for him. It's crazy these women throwing away good men because they aren't "romance storybook" types. Good grief. Grow tf up. We are adults. EVERYBODY has flaws. If you're not willing to acknowledge that in yourself and your partner DON'T GET MARRIED!!
@@asdfdc1946 I have a man. I was just saying that that's what I'm looking and expect in a partner. And I expect him to do the same. I don't have a friend zone lol.
So, relatable. Although my wife wasn't as honest as this lady, her actions spoke volumes..Ive been seperated 5 months..DIVORCE is eminent and inevitable..SMDH
Only two men have bought me flowers. My ex would only buy them when he got caught cheating and my now husband will by them for my bday, our anniversary and whenever he walks pass plants and thinks of me. Ladies if he’s buying flowers just because he wants to, don’t fumble him, that’s a good man!! Sexually you can teach a guy what you like. In a few years she’ll be saying“there’s no good men out here” smh 🤦🏽♀️
Correction: *Sexually you can “teach” a man what you like from the men that have beat the cheeks before him and want him to imitate to your satisfaction. Lol
Most women have become hypersexual sociopaths due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count. Sociopaths are similar to narcissists however a sociopath is able to turn her empathy ON/OFF like a switch when it's convenient for her Example you often see women do grotesque betrayals for months and Years with no remorse but she will cry real tears when she gets caught plays victim, gaslighting, blame shifting avoids accountability and often avoids apologize. Women love to deny that body counts matter when it's fact that women retain the DNA of the men they have kids by the man's DNA is permanently imprinted in them causing permanent damage to her ability to pair bond to the next man and simultaneously they damage their ability with every new sexual partner. Women were never biologically designed to sleep around they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30 and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner
To be honest, love has to be organic. It just happens. It’s not something you can force yourself to do. The fact that she wasn’t physically attracted to him is not her fault. I don’t blame her at all. Nor do I blame him. Sometimes two people aren’t compatible. You can’t help it.
The RP is a godsend. Anyone not RP aware would be baffled listening to this woman talk about how much she 'loved' this man while also be so sexually repulsed. She didn't love him, she loved how much he was willing to simp for her.
@@alanfortune3092 She did a a lot of talking but that's basically what it boiled down to. Forget the fact that she was with someone already when they met. Why would you leave a relationship for someone you're not even attracted to?? Hypergamy at it's worst. Dude had moneybags and was buying out the building like nothing, and was willing to simp out. Why else would she bite??
I learned at a young age that they don't like guys who like them. They want to chose what guys like them. She has chosen every relationship she was in and is single with 20 plus years of knowledge and experience. Im mad at myself for giving this woman this much of my time on some BS. If he introduced an open relationship she would have said that just to keep herself looking innocent. She said it was introduced. A traditional African man isn't suggesting that. There was a guy she was or wanted to sleep with already. He beat and ghosted her. She speaks like the game hasn't been figured out. They chose guys that don't want them and wonder after becoming a single mom why the guy who did no longer does. They have destroyed the traditional home and their daughters will learn nothing and make the same decisions they have.
I see how it could look like that but I don’t think they actually don’t like guys that like them. It’s just that liking them isn’t going to make them like you if they’re not attracted. This is why I say men should only be with the women that clearly show how attracted they are. That helps you avoid the women that will just go along with you because you’re “such a nice guy” even though they’re really not attracted to you.
@@mrmoe110women need to love you more than you love them. The only woman that will truly love you is your mom and your daughter. A woman your dating love has stipulations to it. A woman needs to love and desire you more and if you like her and her interest isn’t higher than yours, you’re a fan to her.
Bro I second your point. I am a Nigerian, no African man with his wits will ever dear even dream of having a OPEN relationship with his woman, none, never, not a peep…if there’s ever one, then he ain’t ever gone bring you home to his mom or dad period…he won’t even bring you around his home boys…like you said, she’s probably the one who suggested the open relationship, because if it was dude, she would’ve said it to stay clear of judgement…she don’t even want to mention the guys name that’s how foul and dirty she knew she did him
This woman had my blood boiling. A narcissist that only cared about her own needs in a relationship; toying with men's emotion with no concern. Also men, stop being enablers for her shit behavior. You don't have to put up with it.
I loved the long format brother.... I commented in real time watching. I know that you and all the other good men saw that our thoughts were all aligned from moment to moment. Isn't it fascinating to see logic vs. Emotion...... reality vs. Delusion.....
She was ran through by so many men before Mr Mature. She was for the streets and all of that is part of her mind, body and emotions so it makes it difficult for her to find “spark” with her husband. She was not ready for that man at all but was hitting the wall & her friends out on the streets kept telling her keep the man even thought she wasn’t attracted to him at all. She ruined a good man, a good solid relationship. These videos are a lot of information for me to keep & I’m shocked that this is what’s happening with relationships today. Makes me want to make even more effort to work at my relationship and loving, respecting, being responsible with my husband. ❤
The man’s job is to provide the relationship and maintain his role as the man and leader. The woman’s job is to retain the relationship and make sure her man is secure to keep it going. The man is the CEO and the woman is his sexy, freaky, receptionist. She does all the little tasks so the man can handle the big ones and stay focused. Women fight this concept so much because they want to lead shit. As we all know, men don’t leave relationships except for cheating. Women saying they have to make sure they don’t depend on a man so he can’t just leave her without anything is a woman’s bedtime boogeyman story.
The thing that killed that relationship was the time it took to have sex and the fact that she had to grow her love seeds because of what other people assumed that women love when in reality they don’t.
Women like her deserve to be alone. She got buss down by all these other guys before him and once he comes along, doing all the right things women usually ask for, it's not enough. She got a pallet of men to compare him to... each guy did something he either didn't do or didn't do better than that one or two guys she remember. Start to cheat on him and can only assume that he was cheating. Regardless of if he was cheating or not, that's a mark on her character to cheat instead of ending the relationship. I don't believe that every person deserve a good relationship. You deserve what you put in and her actions tells me that she don't deserve a solid relationship.
This is where the problem lies for women over 40, they listen to stories like this and believe they still have a chance. You don’t. The good men married in their 20s and early 30s. The men that are left are divorced, widowed, or perpetual bachelors. For every 100 single men, only 5 are available and interested in a relationship or possibly marriage. Out of 100 women, 80 to 90 are single and want marriage. The competition is fierce and she blew the one chance she had.
A sad story. But no surprises here. Their relationship was doomed from the start: he poached her from another man, he was 20 years her senior (generation gap!)...was this relationship expected to be a success? C'mon! She wasn't attracted to him from the start. She shouldn't have encouraged him and he should have been realistic. It wasn't going to ever work.
And he was doing the most by sending her daily flower bouquets, then when she asked if they were from him, played dumb. He was definitely coming off looking thirsty and lacking confidence with all the secrecy and roundabout way of hollering.
Jay-z is not considered attractive to most. He is also about 12 years older than B. 304 excuses… Will smith is probably one of the most attractive man out there, but didn’t stop the entanglement.
Men, study this episode like it’s finals in college! Versions of this woman exist in EVERY friend group. My favorite episode. Married 15 yrs and you can’t be too nice or too agreeable. Say no. Explain less. Not sure if I can help my marriage but I know these things are helping me.
One key thing i heard her say is that she didn't "feel any sparks" when she met him; similar to when women say we have no romantic connection. These are temporary non-logically based emotions that women use all the time as if men have to sing, dance, and perform magic to get your attention. Women deny a mans entire existence as a human all because they are looking for a "spark", a short term adrenaline rush that does nothing long term for a meaningful, successful, and fruitful relationship. Miss me with that SPARK 'ish
There are certain experiences you need to pass through e.g. Corporate drama(work experience) and entrepreneur’s pain( helps you develop a clear understanding of business)etc. Getting ran through isn't one of them
It's unfortunate when women sabotage themselves. I am so grateful that I get to spend my life with the most wonderful man. He is everything I wanted, and didn't even know I wanted. He is kind, nice, friendly, caring, healthy, handsome and brilliant. When we first met, I noticed that he was extremely quiet and reserved. I was not at all used to that. I did not decide to exclude him simply because he was quiet, reserved, and introverted. Some of my "friends" told me that he wasn't as adventurous as me. That we didn't seem to match well etc.. I dropped those "friends". He and I were in our late 20s when we started courting. We have been married for almost 10 years, and it has been the 10 best years of my life. Women need to make wise decisions on who they decide to spend their time with, and who they decide to marry. I'm grateful I watched my parents and I made wise decisions. I am not just living life...I am enjoying life. And, I am very satisfied 😉.
Who said that it’s good to “go with the flow?”, sleep around with different men and experience? Who said it is a thing for all women?! Definitely not for me,I had none of it and got married at 29 a virgin and I am teaching my kids not to do that and stay away from this sinful disgusting lifestyle. We women should know better and know what we want
@@jeanqueen8401 Not true (generally). Women who are 6-7s but are wife-material, cooperative, bring peace and pleasant to be around are FAR more likely to be married than 9s who are materialistic narcissists with masculine energy.
Yes! There are women who married virgins who leave their men due to sexual dissatisfaction. You'd have to shelter her off sex and away from smut books to avoid that knowledge.
@@Eddybo22 She didn't want to asked her boyfriend at the time if he was the one sending her flowers because she didn't want him to act up, but then went on a date with the other guy. To me it sounds like she was dating the 2nd guy while she was still together with the other guy. She stayed cheating
So true Chisha... If your girlfriend is going to college (especially without you), let her go. For the first time in a female's life, she's independent of a responsible adult hovering over her. It's also the first time she's around other women in that category who are ready to let loose. It's also the first time she will see men with great bodies experiencing their own freedom. Hookups are frequent and your girlfriend will eventually feel like she's missing out. The dorms are even worse. Most people are promiscuous to some extent. And if you believe your girl isn't that type, don't forget that she's now around alcohol and drugs and there will be no parent to catch her all f'd up. She's feels the ultimate freedom for the first time in her life with all inhibitions on vacation.
This is a common occurrence, sexual compatibility is one cornerstone of relationships. The desire to please your partner is paramount to relationships working. Learning each other is a must, communication must be open and honest. Waiting 90 days isn't condousive. Your partner has to know your likes and dislikes before the 1st episode. An open relationship is kryptonite.
As a woman I wish I had met someone like that unfortunately I didn’t ladies and young ladies please don’t slip away a really good caring man because they are like gem and hard to find I hope that this man find someone who is equally attracted to him and shows him that not all women are like her good luck to this gentleman who put in work that a some men wouldn’t do
This is extra crazy. Her way of telling this story appears to be crafted with the goal to make her look like a unintentional victim. When I was younger and mean I got everything I wanted from women but as I matured more I tried to be nice the struggle got real. It's insane how you can be nice and they force you to struggle but once you're mean they break their backs to give you everything. It was a shock to the system.
Being a bad person hurts yourself and others. I've always been nice, but I've had men use me for my kindness. Then you have men being nice, and women using them for their kindness. A lot of times, all you have to do is ask, but most people would rather take than ask. Hoeish men, create hoeish women. And hoeish women, create hoeish men. These types should stick to themselves, but they always want someone or something they don't deserve, and take it. We should show stories like this, but from the perspective of the actual victim. Not just being victimized in the relationship, but the bs you put up with because you don't cave, and become a bad person like a lot of people.
@@JadedeaJade I used the word mean for a reason however I wasn't a bad person towards women. I just put what I wanted first and only focused on that. I was always honest and upfront. When I say nice(kind) I focused on the woman's wants and needs first. That produce a crazy outcome that I do not want to type. I will just say, I prefer to focus on self and mate with balance instead of living in the extremes. Being nice(kind) with the wrong people didn't produce the outcomes I was use to or even needed, it produced damn near a spirit of he must be weak, that always lead to a major issue when they found out I was being kind and thoughtful not weak.
@@JadedeaJadeA hoe-ish man and a hoe-ish woman are two completely different concepts. Men who get women don’t want commitment. Women always want commitment whether or not they’re being hoes. Women gravitate towards male hoes vs SINGLE MEN gravitate towards female hoes because they’re easy and the guys don’t want commitment. Long story short, single male hoes don’t want commitment. The only guys who want commitment are the men who want marriage. Those guys aren’t usually hoes and to women they’re “nice guys.” Women aren’t attracted to these men for whatever reason.
I like the fact that she is so honest about what happened. That is very rare the information she cave was very insightful. Because of that, I have to withhold my personal judgment about what was wrong. The more important part is that I learned something. Had soft to all people who can be this transparent. It is something we do not see a lot of. “Thank You!” for sharing 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
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This is the problem, men giving these ugly women big heads. She keeps touching her hair like she grew it. That’s somebody else’s hair. Yet she still fumbled the bag again.
I’m sure he was real grateful that he got to help her move her shit and listen to her cry on the phone for hours until she found a new dick,
Where’s her husband now, I know she’s in her early 40s so she’s probably not ready to settle down yet
Any man with good sense after hearing this story. Will not take her serious.
I find it strange that every man Have a story about him treating a woman with respect & kindness, but she mistreat him. So what is the incentive for a good man then?
I'm a kind guy, but I'm not a nice guy anymore.
Totally relate to that sentiment.
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Don’t let them change u air be nice and kind to our queens god will bless you ✊🏾✊🏾
U need to Learn to buss the cheeks right sir lol step up game
don't let dumb women try to redefine what "nice" means. nice & kind, have always meant the same thing.
This is what happens sometimes when a woman sleeps around in her youth...then years later she may find the perfect man, but if he doesn't perform like the chad, pookie or ray-ray in her past, she will never be happy. She basically wasted years of that mans life.
Not sometimes, it’s all the time. Women’s expectations are a combination of only the best attributes of every man in her past.
As men we cannot abuse and let go of our physical fitness either. Looks matter for us as well as much as some men try to deny it. Go in the gym and get in shape and watch how differently your wife/ girlfriend treats you.
She didn't waste his life becasue he didn't have any other real dating options at the time of meeting her buying flowers and shit. He could have been lonely those 4 years that he spent with her. A least he had experience even tho it didn't work out. It better to love than never love at all.
That was a simp.
He is the definition of treat a women like a star. She will treat you like a fan.
Exactly.. we never win women over. We let the women be a fan 💯💯
Not really, he was just an older guy who wanted a younger woman who was more attractive than him. If you want to date women who are more attractive than you, of course you feel like you have to work for it. All I heard is that he paid for it by buying flowers, paying for trips, paying for nice dinners, paying for her friends' stuff ...that's not a nice person, that's just someone that wants to pay for people's time and affection. You can't buy it though. So you can either accept it and stop trying to buy for affection...or just date people who are on your level.
I didn't hear anything else about what made him a nice person apart from paying for stuff for her from the get-go. Being nice is not synonymous with being rich and paying for stuff for women you want to sleep with. People are definitly confused about what it really means to be a good person. It's not really about how much money you have and how you are willing to spend it to manipulate people to spend time with you and sleep with you even when they are not naturally attracted to you. She wouldn't have started dating him if he hadn't paid for stuff. He was probably ok at the end because he was cheating too.
@@ciobalina7445I have to disagree with you slightly. I believe he is a good man but his form of courting is just outdated. All the things he did would have worked years ago but in these modern times it will only keep a woman around long enough to reap the benefits then leave. And that's exactly what happened (no matter how colorful and fluffy she tries to make it sound).
And this woman wasn't a stranger to the streets before meeting him. Just as she put it in the video, she already has a bunch of 🍆. She tried and experienced a handful of guys already so whether she knows it or not, consciously or subconsciously, she was comparing him to her past experiences of guys. And because of this there's a heavy emphasis on initial attraction being important (in my opinion) for women like her.
Personally I don't think any man should try to peak her interests. The way that she is and the experiences she had, she gotta like the guy way more than the guy likes her for it to work. But she's burnt out now. This situation had little to do with his actions and more to do with the type of woman he was dealing with. She can logically conclude that he was a good man but her brain isn't wired to appreciate and enjoy that.
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Real
Older woman here who speaks to younger women. Finding many of them already know it all and are flat out rebellious. And I've e experienced a good marriage of 43 yrs until my beautiful hubs passed away. And we raised a daughter who waited for her husband of now 15 yrs. They have six beautiful babies she's home schooling. And im so thankful for my mom who began schooling me on the perils of the 304 life at the tender age of 9. We are HER legacy.
keep sharing your wisdom. too many young ladies think they have all the time in the world to party and play around, believing that prince charming will magically appear on their 29th birthday.
the real world doesn't work that way. start looking for a good man of character while you're still young, because that same group of suitors won't be around later.
Your mom the real mvp
@@ousmanekonate5253 yes she is and I appreciate you for saying that! Shalom!
I am 21 and thinking about waiting till marriage. Do you have any advice? I feel like we are in such a sex obsessed world that it scares guys off. How did you daughter find such a great man (considering they have been together for a long time)
@@taylor15589 if you still have your v card, keep it. that is your best bargaining chip to use for finding a good one.
marriage-minded men want to find one special woman they can build a family with from scratch. they don't want a woman with "experience."
the first thing you should tell a man if he shows interest in you is, "i am a virgin, looking for a traditional husband to marry and have kids with. there will be NO sex of any kind until my wedding night."
you should tell him this before ever going on a date with him.
if he is only interested in using you, he will leave when you tell him that -- which will save you a lot of heartache and wasted time.
a good men will respect your position. if he is considering marriage, he will date you for the purpose of evaluating your character and suitability for marriage.
you should be evaluating him in the same way.
remember: you're looking for a GOOD MAN, not a BAD BOY. bad boys are exciting, but they are not GOOD FOR YOU.
you want the man who helps the stranded motorist, finds a lost wallet and returns it to the owner, is polite to his parents, etc.
I think it’s funny how she initially turned him down because he was her tenant and she didn’t feel the spark, not because she was loyal to her current relationship 🤦🏽♂️🤣🤣
😭😭😭current relationship has ZERO relevance
I definitely caught that.
She a whole Ho outchea
Exactly he was "below" her & based on that alone judged him accordingly.
Peeped that as well. More than likely, she was creeping on her man with the mature guy. Whether he knew about it or not is another story.
“I love going out on dates. even when I'm in a relationship.”
I was like “did I hear that correctly….😬”
So she cares nothing about the person she dates at all. That is how you end up on Forensic Files 🤨
I appreciate her honesty though. A lot of other women live like this but will hide it
Proceeds to go on a date with a mystery man sending flowers while she’s still in a relationship 😉
@@kwesithethird That Part
This woman is a result of 304 phase. It wasn't about the lack of sex, intimacy or "the spark" as so many women call it. She's been ran through by a number of men, all great at a certain thing. When she gets in a relationship with someone, she's comparing that 1 against the many other men. She's been through a bunch of men that were hitting it right, why do you think she didn't settle for one of them? Because she was most likely wanting more, that one thing someone else was offering. If that older man she was dating was breaking her back but lacking the emotional support, she would still be on that podcast, single and wishing she did things differently. The problem now is she's aged, weighed and tooth gapped herself out of the desirable market.
Men need to accept that modern xxes are not suitable for any kind of relationship. They are freelance brothel workers. Tired of seeing all these men trying to do the right thing by these degraded tramps.
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The tooth gap ,bit cruel and I find it cute myself. Aged and weighed 100%. Once they have had the 304 phase they never settle happily.
Another older RP content creator made this point;
this is the kind of straggle that is going to put the next two generations of young women in dire financial straits.
She had the good fortune of running in the streets for the first two decades of the 21st century, while fmnsm was criminalising and silencing men's issues.
Eventually, of course, every scam runs its course.
This straggle will get away with a king's ransom, and she's actually hideous on the outside but even more hideous on the inside.
She's a demon, who doesn't know how ugly she is.
Bruh!!! "Tooth gapped herself out of the market" is the funniest thing I've read all week😂😂😂
"Good man" is code for boring in her mind. She wants a Pookie to spice things up.
She needs New Jack City Chris Rock ASAP.
No, she wants to put Chad on a leash. That's the real endgame for most garden tools. They what to leash bad boys.
Then she'll cry afterwards about how there are no good men.
When I hear women say they left a good man I imagine he wants peace she wants problems.
Every time
This is the definition of why body count MATTERS!
"No", this is the definition of which "types" of men that a woman has had, "not" her bodycount.
Do you think that women can just "never" be with a nice guy throughout their single years, and then when it's time to settle down with a nice guy, act like it's not a "culture-shock"?!!!!🤬
Facts
Never take them back when they leave. She thought she could do better than you.
EXACTLY! Imagine being engaged, a few weeks from the wedding, and finding out your fiancé was creeping with a married man! She thought I would go through with the wedding for appearances sake. That engagement/wedding ring package was sold, and the proceeds got me a SWEET car stereo system!
@@MysterENigmasounds like a win to me.
She wasn’t attracted to him clearly more attracted to him for what he did for her
Absolutely never ever take'em back, just let'em drown.
True. Prove them wrong.
The spirit of Jada is strong in this creature…
I mean she was in bmore 😂
Leave Jada out of your stinking mouth
@@shaieresmirnoff naw she the same ole spirit.. that heffa been here before (Bernie Mac voice)🤣✌🏾
I aint even mad at her anymore if Will turns out to be like his son describes him
It's just more proof that nice guys finish last, so treat'em like they don't matter, and she would feel that spark then. I am speaking from experience.
A lot of the stereotypes that women say exists for men actually exists for women too. As much as women say that men think with the little head, over and over again we are shown that it's women who think with the little head. And not only just think with a little head but allow it to pick their partners and make their life decisions.
That's a fact
THIS, I've been saying this for a few years already. Women mating choice is driven almost 100% by lust, specially when they are young. They are picking men with their pussy. And that is bad, the pussy knows what a good men was before civilization started, when we were hunters and gatherers, the same type of men today are either players or criminals. They do not make husband or father material.
The ol man in the boat 😂
Most of what women say regarding men, is projection
🎯 He didn’t make the 🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱 purr. Women are visual just look men. It’s cold world out here. It is what it is.
I'm sure there are some men in the comments who damn near cried watching this story. If she doesn't desire you, Romancing her is not the answer.
Men don't want to hear the truth. Well, okay, some of them do.
I cried.... laughing 😂.... no way I'm waiting 3 months... a week tops. 0-7 days and that's only because I'm busy.
True. The moment I heard about the flowers...i KNEW he didn't have a chance.
It's probably not his fault either he was probably told a lie while growing up that women want good men and internalized it and tried to treat woman the best way he knew how, sad reality is men like this get catch off guard when they come to face this harsh reality of women's nature, it has them dumbfounded and confused, he will always pedestalize her because just as how it was ingrained in her to be the way she is, the same can be said for him.
You didn’t need those experiences! Is she serious? Men value a woman with NO past, women value men with a future. Dude will be fine, she’s going to get bitter. She was allowed her dream man and because she got ran through is the reason why she didn’t value him. She wants Ghost from Power at 40, trippin
This was one of your best videos. All I can say about this is,
1. attraction matters.
2. Love alone won’t take you all the way.
3. Sexual compatibility is a thing thing.
4. There is no way the gentleman didn’t know she wasn’t attracted to him. Men are sentient beings too.
This relationship should have ended within 6 months
The man wasted his time and should have known better
Bro you misunderstand it wasn't his looks that was the problem. It was his personality he was basically a nice guy to a thot. If he treated her like the trash she obviously is the cheeks would have gotten hit the first day.
well said!
Yes attraction does somewhat matter. But at least for a woman you can overwrite/overlook their looks. Like you end up falling in love with their personality and it makes you fall in love with their looks
I mean you hear all about how an ugly guy was super funny and got way above his league. Same applies
@taylord1558 bro it will never be the same women and simps want to pretend it's the same. Here is why an ugly man is expected to pay the majority to all the bills. A skinny fat or ugly woman doesn't think that way. They feel a guy should still pay all the bills in other words they are delusional as hell. Sorry men don't look at personality if you don't have the body that's my preference kick rocks. Example in my life I have dated big girls and I never paid a dime. If they don't want to be slim to thick they can pay their own bills. The funny thing is I'm not unqie in that mentality.
If you are at the bus station, the nxt bus always comes.
STAY STRONG GENTS
Indeed
Just make sure that it is the correct bus!
Don’t end up like this ladies. I’m
Watching my sister be a single mother because she was too busy being wild.
They will.
Because she seeing men as a want and not a need, when someone wants something it means it's already in abundance and you can pick and choose, use and abuse it how ever way you see fit. When you need something you understand it's value and how it can impact your life in a positive way.
She’s for the streets, thank God I’m married and don’t have to go through this,she had a good man, just crazy the times we are living in 🤦🏾♀️
Yeessiiir!!
If you haven’t known her for at least 20+ years and married for at least 15 years, DO NOT get married. She’s been around and ran through by too many other dudes
Promiscuity in women destroys their ability to create healthy long term relationships. This woman is one more example of this. Very sad indeed! However, she is simply collecting the fruits of her mistakes. Bad choices have bad consequences. It is what it is!
Facts
Right. And wasn’t she in a relationship already?
Absolutely correct. I hate to say what he should have done throughout this relationship, but he treated her very well. He gave too much compared to what he got in return
Facts
That's not true like everybody want to be a relationship counselor like they all are virgins they waiting for marriage like people stop lying you under these comments cuz it make you feel better about yourself everyone is lying that s*** is not true everybody situation is different
She waited till damn near all her eggs were scrambled to just now wanting to settle down for her prince charming. Using the good guys while chasing and getting clapped by the Tyrone and Pookies. This is pure insanity. 😂😊❤🎉
Wall 😂😂 😂😂 not happening
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@@dakingltroyproductofdade3579 Women only say that because they don't understand men see women as either just sex .. or a future
So women think that men that see them as sexual options is the same as relationships
That is the major flaw in womens logic circuits.
And once you show that all you are good for is sex you stay in that lane for the men that know... and prove it for men that get to know you. Not wife material.. not worth a man investing his life into...not someone that is a relationship option.. not someone to have kids with
Women refuse to accept that men aren't like women.... women put sexual options in potiental relationship consideration.. not realizing you are just a thing to bust in.
Mean while the men that view that same women as potiental love and future and kids and family and hope.. they witness and see and change their minds realizing they are not wife material.
Woman screw themselves over because they simply can't accept that men view woman this way.. a man will have sex with a woman he hates and doesn't respect and is nothing but a piece of meat to him..... woman only do this after they get to many bodies... which turns a woman into a masculine man with boobs and lips stick and a wet hole.
😂😂 facts
If they don't find you physically attractive from the jump, they don't find you attractive.
My grandmother warned me about this. She told me to be careful about going into a relationship with somebody that I'm not instantly attracted to, as that's how people typically end up in situations they regret. She said that I can't force myself to be attracted to somebody that I'm simply not physically allured to. And that you shouldn't bother trying to force it because it won't work. I think this story is basicalky what she was talking about.
She was already practicing the open relationship before she met him and at the final stages of their relationship she suggested it to allow her meet other people. She's not a good woman. She just met a good man who taught her to have standards, but that was too early in her street life; she thought she could eat her cake and have it.
Exactly
not 'good wife' material at all.
Man she was in her 30s. She sees herself as a young woman but she wasn't one.
She never wanted him to begin with. She fell in love with the things he did for her, how he made her feel. She NEVER wanted him.
She is hoping to find a Tyrone or Pookie to do those same things for her and make her feel like her ex did.
Bingo! My thoughts exactly
But how can she be picky with looks? She isn’t a model.
@user-yq8be9en6r she, like all women, think they deserve a filet mignon, even if they only only have Happy Meal money.
@@ToeKnife166huh? She’s actually beautiful & is aging very gracefully. Some of y’all are trying to pretend she’s not pretty just because you don’t like her opinions. I don’t agree with her either but I’m not going to act delusional bcuz of it 😂. She looks better than whoever is in your pfp with that awful grey/black lipstick & wig… if that’s you I’m sorry 🫣😬
You already said it. "This is what women say they want" they fail to inform that they want it from "the right guy"
Physical attraction doesn't mean shit in most cases. Dude was a simp and she definitely cheated on him the whole time
About sums it up though
that part
Yup
That's an assumption. Let's not do that. It's intellectually dishonest
If women were in relationships with just attractive men or men they found attractive, only 2% of the women population would be in committed relationships. As said she could run over him. With him she could have her cake and eat it too. This is why as a man place the woman on YOUR program. She don’t want to kick her the hell out FAST 💨. Don’t play with them.
Everyday that goes by the more you see everything Kevin Samuels was preaching was 100% true, these women will tell on themselves 9 times out of 10 if you just let them talk long enough. & she’s sitting here laughing about it basically saying she broke that man saying “She LOVED HIM SOO MUCH” but yet she cheated on him and just gave him the bare minimum while she was busting it open doing backflips for one of her random tenants 😭
Not a 100% true if say about 75% which is a good percentage.
Damn, random tenants?
The brother was 18 years older, successful, and intelligent.
I wonder what value this brother thought this young lady would bring forth to him.
Great Point 👉
He was a DUMMY. Check her flow. If she had real class....this account would have NEVER been shared. She would have told him.
Dang. Nearly an entire hour of a modern chick telling a story of her street travels. Absolutely valuable to some, daily red pill to others.
Thank you sir! 👍
Regarding 53:04
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"I wanna be, the very best. Like no one ever was....." ~ Jason Paige
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There’s so much I could say, I will just say this, the fact that she painted a picture perfect story of a good man, and how she ruined the relationship but somehow, someway had to divide the blame when she should’ve drank that whole cup of coffee to her self.
You expected her to take responsibility for what is 100% on her? Come on now.
My neighbors wife crashed her car into my car and tried to get away with it. To make a long story short she said "my car was sticking out too far in the road I shouldn't park like that"..... My car was parked in my driveway.....😂 they don't take accountability for ANYTHING
The moment women will start talking responsibly it will rain indoors they must divide the blame somehow, any how and in all ways
Accountability is like kryptonite for women.
That's crazy what was the end result@@LVNCHBOXXX
Take this as a lesson gentlemen. The good guy doesn’t finish last. He finish after the last guy. Smfh, once a woman gets beyond 10 partners. It’s over. I have been married for over 30 years and I am still very happy because my wife was not experienced before me. Thank god for her.
Lucky guy
She sounds exactly my ex girlfriend in university,she dumped me only for her to allow half the school to ran through her,10years after university after i am financially stable with options,that same girl is disturbing me as if i will be stupid enough to take her back.
Do NOT freakin take her back!!!! You have been warned!
There is an old saying: "Living well is the best revenge." However, having the ex who dumped you see you living well and wishing she still had you in her life makes it that much sweeter.
Do not engage my friend, stay far away from that devil
Moral of the story. “She is a POS person who is selfish & ungrateful”
😂😂😂😂nahh she juss wasnt attracted to him
@@KingLamarQuintonHe's still right she's a POS person
She became a bust down...she most likely won't have a healthy marital relationship.
Facts 😂
@@KingLamarQuintonWhich makes her a P.O.S. for engaging in the first place.
I fell into this to nice trap. On a scale of 1-10, I am a 2 unfortunately. So when you get a woman that is a 5 or 6 plus, you try harder, do more, put up with more stuff. All of it ended in heart break for me. I was dumped. When I dated a woman that was also a 2 or 3, they gave me 125% plus, plus. I am almost a millionaire, own a large home, drive a cheap car, and take good care of the woman who loved me. She could have done better, but she picked me -- before I was successful.
She couldn’t perform for him because she was stuck in a carnal head space. She was thinking more about how she can receive rather than how she can give to the man she supposedly loved. I think she loved more of what he did for her rather than truly loving HIM.
Her problem is she opened doors she had no business opening when she was in her promiscuous phase. You can’t want something you never had, but when you’ve already had it from Tom, Dick, and Harry…it’s hard for you to give all of you to someone who is actually worthy.
I really don’t think she loved him like she claimed. I just don’t, because when you’re that in love with someone your spirits connect. All that cap about not having chemistry…smh crazy. She loved what he did for her. She loved what he represented…a GOOD man. Something she never experienced before, but she DID NOT love HIM.
I could say so much but then I’d be writing a novel. 😂
Since you are spitting RP facts, I hope you find a publisher. You have a reader here.
@@ruminantmelanoid5444 Hey who knows. We’ve been talking about dropping some content soon. Lol I got a lot to say to these sisters.
@@YareahLilly Cool.
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She saw his bank balance , he started out by lying. Sounds like a normal modern relationship.(doomed)
It's crazy how much content you been putting out my bruh. Appreciate all your hard work. ✊🏿
His insights and objectivity are awesome too.
This is exactly how my marriage turned out.
I did all the bells and whistles, I bought flowers, did romantic things, provided, she was just not that into me. Left me after 16 years for a guy she met at a gym we were going to together.
I even received all the support from her family and am still in very good relations with my in-laws.
The worst thing is that she is such a good person and it fucked me up. If she, the best person I've ever known, is capable of doing this, what hope is there for any relationship to work out?
She said she learned so much about herself in this relationship….. unfortunately she didn’t learn the most oblivious thing that she’s a terrible woman who’s not marriage material who just deserve to be pumped and dumped. The minute she was with a decent man, she made his life hell, ended up cheating on him and used him every possible ways until there was nothing left.
Sounds like my husband. But he won't admit he's a terrible person
Exactly
At her age she better humble herself real quick or start choosing what kind of dog she wants for the rest of her life. Cause that’s all the company she gonna have
@@juanio7036😂😂😂
@@juanio7036hahaha
She was having some elsewhere before coming home 😂😂😂😂remember women never say the full story, that’s her side of story
At the end, she said she could be a good wife.
There was absolutely NOTHING in her story that indicated she had wife qualities.
What does she think she think a man wants with a wife?
Someone who will passively accept a man's love?
Can’t get attracted to a man that will do it
Can’t get attracted to a man that will do it
Just clueless. But they will tell you how they want to run your relationship. 304 delusion 😢
Exactly. She could be a good wife? How? Where's the evidence? You couldn't keep from cheating on a man that had everything on your checklist except for sex so who does this man have to be that you will not cheat on? Jesus maybe?
Incapable of being a good wife
Young men please understand that this didn't just start, its been happening. Im 62 now and have raised both of my children as well as sending them to college on a $60,000 a year salary. These women out here are delusional and you need to worry about yourselves first. I was raised by both parents and believed in marriage. I'm done.
😂Well dang, who hurt you, don’t give up on love❤
People make people like that and some are just created like that they don’t want relationships at all
@@mygodisawesome6121why does everyone gotta be hurt just because they give a story of a situation like this that they've been through?
Must be a woman
@@mygodisawesome6121 the problem with churchtards is they are culties. Observable evidence means nothing to you.
“Spark”, “chemistry”, “happy”, “love not in love”.
Be careful, fellas. These words give insight to how your relationship will end.
Specifically in the story where they had broken up, but he was still coming over to comfort her… THIS PISSED ME OFF! For her because she just wanted a warm body yet he’s not hot enough for him to bust the cheeks. For him because he was letting her use him like a little girls doll to hug when she’s lonely. She’s the one that destroyed this relationship. Honestly, she should have never given him hope when she knew from JUMP that she wasn’t interested.
this is why u gotta set boundaries and be assertive. ima rub in her and whip my dck out lol... ain't no holding and hugging. I'm curious what homie looked like and wa he used to getting women. he couldn't have loved her thst much to put up with all this
He a chump for that but hopefully it was a real life lesson! Never again
This video reinforces that it’s better to put in too little effort than to put in too much.
Facts
Exactly
Great interview.the man who did the interview was a great interviewer.very respectable and didn’t come with disrespectful opinions.I understand what she saying and yes their is still hope!!!
And here I am just wanting someone who's loyal, faithful, hardworking, loving, and wants me. Lol. ALL of the things that I return and do for him. It's crazy these women throwing away good men because they aren't "romance storybook" types. Good grief. Grow tf up. We are adults. EVERYBODY has flaws. If you're not willing to acknowledge that in yourself and your partner DON'T GET MARRIED!!
if you're looking for that kind of guy, go check your friendzone.
@@asdfdc1946- Yup,.sure there are plenty of suitors
@@hurdyb1 ikr smh
Women need every box to be checked off, but don't check off half the boxes a man has, but we're good if you check off our Top 3.
@@asdfdc1946 I have a man. I was just saying that that's what I'm looking and expect in a partner. And I expect him to do the same. I don't have a friend zone lol.
The whole thing is crazy. Even when she crushed this man's soul, her response was to laugh at his pain. Speechless, just cant find the words
So, relatable. Although my wife wasn't as honest as this lady, her actions spoke volumes..Ive been seperated 5 months..DIVORCE is eminent and inevitable..SMDH
She couldn’t perform for dude bc she didn’t want to perform for him I can guarantee she cheated on him the whole relationship
She basically said she did
She performed for Pookie and Tyrone while he was hard at work.
Only two men have bought me flowers. My ex would only buy them when he got caught cheating and my now husband will by them for my bday, our anniversary and whenever he walks pass plants and thinks of me. Ladies if he’s buying flowers just because he wants to, don’t fumble him, that’s a good man!!
Sexually you can teach a guy what you like. In a few years she’ll be saying“there’s no good men out here” smh 🤦🏽♀️
Women lack common sense in a shroud of elitism granted by pandering white folks
Yup
Correction:
*Sexually you can “teach” a man what you like from the men that have beat the cheeks before him and want him to imitate to your satisfaction.
Lol
Most women have become hypersexual sociopaths due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count.
Sociopaths are similar to narcissists however a sociopath is able to turn her empathy ON/OFF like a switch when it's convenient for her Example you often see women do grotesque betrayals for months and Years with no remorse but she will cry real tears when she gets caught plays victim, gaslighting, blame shifting avoids accountability and often avoids apologize.
Women love to deny that body counts matter when it's fact that women retain the DNA of the men they have kids by the man's DNA is permanently imprinted in them causing permanent damage to her ability to pair bond to the next man and simultaneously they damage their ability with every new sexual partner. Women were never biologically designed to sleep around they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30 and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner
Listened to this while working. Learned a lot. Crazy story for sure
Moral of the story : Good guys finish last. And Modern women don’t like good guys.
Nice*
Then they can get what they get...No one wants to hear how they were done wrong 😂😂
I was a Nice Guy Thanks to Social media Them Days are far behind me✌🏾
When you can't admit that you like the abuse.
She didn't live him. She loved the things he did and provided
And that's the way YOU need to be. Don't love these hoes
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At the end of the day it always boils back down to... Simpin Aint Pimpin
I mean I wouldn't call him a simp.Shes the problem she's a POS.
To be honest, love has to be organic. It just happens. It’s not something you can force yourself to do. The fact that she wasn’t physically attracted to him is not her fault. I don’t blame her at all. Nor do I blame him. Sometimes two people aren’t compatible. You can’t help it.
The RP is a godsend. Anyone not RP aware would be baffled listening to this woman talk about how much she 'loved' this man while also be so sexually repulsed. She didn't love him, she loved how much he was willing to simp for her.
I think it's a little more deeper than that!
@@alanfortune3092 She did a a lot of talking but that's basically what it boiled down to. Forget the fact that she was with someone already when they met. Why would you leave a relationship for someone you're not even attracted to?? Hypergamy at it's worst. Dude had moneybags and was buying out the building like nothing, and was willing to simp out. Why else would she bite??
I learned at a young age that they don't like guys who like them. They want to chose what guys like them. She has chosen every relationship she was in and is single with 20 plus years of knowledge and experience. Im mad at myself for giving this woman this much of my time on some BS.
If he introduced an open relationship she would have said that just to keep herself looking innocent. She said it was introduced. A traditional African man isn't suggesting that. There was a guy she was or wanted to sleep with already. He beat and ghosted her. She speaks like the game hasn't been figured out. They chose guys that don't want them and wonder after becoming a single mom why the guy who did no longer does. They have destroyed the traditional home and their daughters will learn nothing and make the same decisions they have.
Exactly. Ignore this 304
I see how it could look like that but I don’t think they actually don’t like guys that like them. It’s just that liking them isn’t going to make them like you if they’re not attracted. This is why I say men should only be with the women that clearly show how attracted they are. That helps you avoid the women that will just go along with you because you’re “such a nice guy” even though they’re really not attracted to you.
@@mrmoe110women need to love you more than you love them. The only woman that will truly love you is your mom and your daughter. A woman your dating love has stipulations to it. A woman needs to love and desire you more and if you like her and her interest isn’t higher than yours, you’re a fan to her.
Bro I second your point. I am a Nigerian, no African man with his wits will ever dear even dream of having a OPEN relationship with his woman, none, never, not a peep…if there’s ever one, then he ain’t ever gone bring you home to his mom or dad period…he won’t even bring you around his home boys…like you said, she’s probably the one who suggested the open relationship, because if it was dude, she would’ve said it to stay clear of judgement…she don’t even want to mention the guys name that’s how foul and dirty she knew she did him
I don’t care what anyone says…this woman isn’t telling the whole honest truth of the story period…only God and her knows the 💯 honest truth…
The dream never dies. Live on, sister. Don't forget yor dog.
Great video. This is proof that no matter what you do, some of these women aren't happy no matter what you do
It was the sex. She admitted it. A woman needs good sex too. A woman will settle for a thug with good pipe, and hope for the best!!
aint no way you almost half a century old and single without earning being single with hard work as a woman
This is why character, morals, respect, and ambition matter more for a long-term relationship.
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This woman had my blood boiling. A narcissist that only cared about her own needs in a relationship; toying with men's emotion with no concern. Also men, stop being enablers for her shit behavior. You don't have to put up with it.
Had me hot as hell listening to her too 😡
@@odog76543 wanna sock a couple more teef out huh? Me too 😂
There are a certain amount of guys who have low self esteem and although they osy for meals, accept crumbs.
And they do this on repeat.
Don't be mad, use this as learning lesson
Men need to learn to recognize shit.
I have to call cap on this one. And even if she's being honest, it also shows that Simping will get you nowhere.
She is only telling half truths.....I can almost assure you that this is the water downed version
Man damn. Being nice and a good person doesn’t fuk’n pay off at all. Sad but true ish. Dude put her on a pedestal but she didn’t appreciate it
I loved the long format brother.... I commented in real time watching. I know that you and all the other good men saw that our thoughts were all aligned from moment to moment. Isn't it fascinating to see logic vs. Emotion...... reality vs. Delusion.....
The craziest thing about the whole story..... she is a 2/3. Like KS said, women these days over-value themselves and destroy their own homes
Fellas never forget Do Not Cast Your Pearls Before Swine! This illustrates the danger of giving the world to unworthy women!
She was ran through by so many men before Mr Mature. She was for the streets and all of that is part of her mind, body and emotions so it makes it difficult for her to find “spark” with her husband. She was not ready for that man at all but was hitting the wall & her friends out on the streets kept telling her keep the man even thought she wasn’t attracted to him at all. She ruined a good man, a good solid relationship. These videos are a lot of information for me to keep & I’m shocked that this is what’s happening with relationships today. Makes me want to make even more effort to work at my relationship and loving, respecting, being responsible with my husband. ❤
this been going on forever it's not new. any older man at the bar after work has this same story
@@aneedkassim9727not as much as it is now
Good for you. Love, honor and obey should be what every married couple strives for daily.
The man’s job is to provide the relationship and maintain his role as the man and leader. The woman’s job is to retain the relationship and make sure her man is secure to keep it going. The man is the CEO and the woman is his sexy, freaky, receptionist. She does all the little tasks so the man can handle the big ones and stay focused.
Women fight this concept so much because they want to lead shit. As we all know, men don’t leave relationships except for cheating. Women saying they have to make sure they don’t depend on a man so he can’t just leave her without anything is a woman’s bedtime boogeyman story.
Well said!
When I see women like this alone I don't feel bad for them at all.
The thing that killed that relationship was the time it took to have sex and the fact that she had to grow her love seeds because of what other people assumed that women love when in reality they don’t.
I don’t believe the man she spoke about agreed to have an open relationship, she clearly was the only one open in that relationship
She was open... buss wide open
How do you cheat in an open relationship? The manipulation of that concept within itself.
@@CorneliusJMaxwell you get it. She was saying somethings to justify her actions but they don't add up.
Hahaha good point
Women like her deserve to be alone. She got buss down by all these other guys before him and once he comes along, doing all the right things women usually ask for, it's not enough. She got a pallet of men to compare him to... each guy did something he either didn't do or didn't do better than that one or two guys she remember. Start to cheat on him and can only assume that he was cheating. Regardless of if he was cheating or not, that's a mark on her character to cheat instead of ending the relationship.
I don't believe that every person deserve a good relationship. You deserve what you put in and her actions tells me that she don't deserve a solid relationship.
That’s why I slut em and go 🤷🏾♂️
Guys! Stay away from women over 35.
This is where the problem lies for women over 40, they listen to stories like this and believe they still have a chance. You don’t. The good men married in their 20s and early 30s. The men that are left are divorced, widowed, or perpetual bachelors. For every 100 single men, only 5 are available and interested in a relationship or possibly marriage. Out of 100 women, 80 to 90 are single and want marriage. The competition is fierce and she blew the one chance she had.
5 is a lot 😅😅😅😅
A sad story. But no surprises here. Their relationship was doomed from the start: he poached her from another man, he was 20 years her senior (generation gap!)...was this relationship expected to be a success? C'mon! She wasn't attracted to him from the start. She shouldn't have encouraged him and he should have been realistic. It wasn't going to ever work.
And he was doing the most by sending her daily flower bouquets, then when she asked if they were from him, played dumb. He was definitely coming off looking thirsty and lacking confidence with all the secrecy and roundabout way of hollering.
Stats shows 10-15 yrs can work. Amazing how y’all focus on the age but not her distraction. She was comparing to her side dudes.
Plenty of older men date younger women. She was a 304 simple and plain. She belongs to the earth
Jay-z is not considered attractive to most. He is also about 12 years older than B.
304 excuses…
Will smith is probably one of the most attractive man out there, but didn’t stop the entanglement.
Men, study this episode like it’s finals in college!
Versions of this woman exist in EVERY friend group.
My favorite episode.
Married 15 yrs and you can’t be too nice or too agreeable. Say no. Explain less. Not sure if I can help my marriage but I know these things are helping me.
And these comments provide the best insight too
She was afraid to meet his kids because she was afraid they would see through her bullshit.
Basically she met a trick.
Yup they’d see she wasn’t really into him.
women can see through women's bull more than a man ever will.
One key thing i heard her say is that she didn't "feel any sparks" when she met him; similar to when women say we have no romantic connection. These are temporary non-logically based emotions that women use all the time as if men have to sing, dance, and perform magic to get your attention. Women deny a mans entire existence as a human all because they are looking for a "spark", a short term adrenaline rush that does nothing long term for a meaningful, successful, and fruitful relationship. Miss me with that SPARK 'ish
Tyrone didnt bring flowers.... but still got Tulips 😅😅😂
There are certain experiences you need to pass through e.g. Corporate drama(work experience) and entrepreneur’s pain( helps you develop a clear understanding of business)etc. Getting ran through isn't one of them
It's unfortunate when women sabotage themselves. I am so grateful that I get to spend my life with the most wonderful man. He is everything I wanted, and didn't even know I wanted. He is kind, nice, friendly, caring, healthy, handsome and brilliant. When we first met, I noticed that he was extremely quiet and reserved. I was not at all used to that. I did not decide to exclude him simply because he was quiet, reserved, and introverted. Some of my "friends" told me that he wasn't as adventurous as me. That we didn't seem to match well etc.. I dropped those "friends". He and I were in our late 20s when we started courting. We have been married for almost 10 years, and it has been the 10 best years of my life. Women need to make wise decisions on who they decide to spend their time with, and who they decide to marry. I'm grateful I watched my parents and I made wise decisions. I am not just living life...I am enjoying life. And, I am very satisfied 😉.
That sounds great
When Pearl talks about how a lady being run through by lots of guys destroy's her ability to bond we thought she was crazy 😢
Do you mean Kevin smauels... that where pearl stole talking point from
She got that info from men goofy
Pearl is a grift who got all her content from men like Kevin Samuels. She's a fake.
Who said that it’s good to “go with the flow?”, sleep around with different men and experience? Who said it is a thing for all women?! Definitely not for me,I had none of it and got married at 29 a virgin and I am teaching my kids not to do that and stay away from this sinful disgusting lifestyle. We women should know better and know what we want
This woman is for the STREET'S, DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME, WALK AWAY MEN, And DON'T LOOK BACK !
Shes for the Galaxy!
Exactly
Tyrone was on her mind the whole time 😂
Tyrone was hitting it the whole time......she is not telling the truth
She was reaaaaal attracted to getting stuff from that guy. Just not the guy. This type of thing is super common.
This is exactly what I gave up on finding someone. You could give a woman everything. And it's still not enough
Same goes for men I went above and beyond for him and I wasn’t enough most men are looking for a baddie to call their wife not a good woman
@@jeanqueen8401not so true u just like toxic men
@@jeanqueen8401 Not true (generally). Women who are 6-7s but are wife-material, cooperative, bring peace and pleasant to be around are FAR more likely to be married than 9s who are materialistic narcissists with masculine energy.
@@kena.8003 even women below that can find a husband np
If she was inexperienced sexually, would she have known the difference? Well, I guess people have it all figured out. Good luck ladies
Facts
Yes! There are women who married virgins who leave their men due to sexual dissatisfaction. You'd have to shelter her off sex and away from smut books to avoid that knowledge.
@@LKauf279 based on the research, that is literally unlikely.
Who in their right mind will listen to how she did this man and think I’m going to treat her like the Queen she is like her ex did? 🤣🤣
16:00 Notice she said no. Not because she had a boyfriend at the time but because she was about to be his landlord, SMH
Righttttttt, I missed the part she stopped dating the first guy to start dating the second one. Either way that is still crazy.
@@Eddybo22 She didn't want to asked her boyfriend at the time if he was the one sending her flowers because she didn't want him to act up, but then went on a date with the other guy.
To me it sounds like she was dating the 2nd guy while she was still together with the other guy. She stayed cheating
@@denz310 insanity at it's finest.
That was a red flag in itself.
@@jerometruitt2731 💯, I highly doubt she told him about that either. Probably didn't know until this podcast came out.
So true Chisha... If your girlfriend is going to college (especially without you), let her go. For the first time in a female's life, she's independent of a responsible adult hovering over her. It's also the first time she's around other women in that category who are ready to let loose. It's also the first time she will see men with great bodies experiencing their own freedom. Hookups are frequent and your girlfriend will eventually feel like she's missing out. The dorms are even worse. Most people are promiscuous to some extent. And if you believe your girl isn't that type, don't forget that she's now around alcohol and drugs and there will be no parent to catch her all f'd up. She's feels the ultimate freedom for the first time in her life with all inhibitions on vacation.
This is a common occurrence, sexual compatibility is one cornerstone of relationships. The desire to please your partner is paramount to relationships working. Learning each other is a must, communication must be open and honest. Waiting 90 days isn't condousive. Your partner has to know your likes and dislikes before the 1st episode. An open relationship is kryptonite.
As a woman I wish I had met someone like that unfortunately I didn’t ladies and young ladies please don’t slip away a really good caring man because they are like gem and hard to find I hope that this man find someone who is equally attracted to him and shows him that not all women are like her good luck to this gentleman who put in work that a some men wouldn’t do
This is extra crazy. Her way of telling this story appears to be crafted with the goal to make her look like a unintentional victim. When I was younger and mean I got everything I wanted from women but as I matured more I tried to be nice the struggle got real. It's insane how you can be nice and they force you to struggle but once you're mean they break their backs to give you everything. It was a shock to the system.
Being a bad person hurts yourself and others. I've always been nice, but I've had men use me for my kindness. Then you have men being nice, and women using them for their kindness. A lot of times, all you have to do is ask, but most people would rather take than ask.
Hoeish men, create hoeish women. And hoeish women, create hoeish men. These types should stick to themselves, but they always want someone or something they don't deserve, and take it. We should show stories like this, but from the perspective of the actual victim. Not just being victimized in the relationship, but the bs you put up with because you don't cave, and become a bad person like a lot of people.
@@JadedeaJade I used the word mean for a reason however I wasn't a bad person towards women. I just put what I wanted first and only focused on that. I was always honest and upfront. When I say nice(kind) I focused on the woman's wants and needs first. That produce a crazy outcome that I do not want to type. I will just say, I prefer to focus on self and mate with balance instead of living in the extremes. Being nice(kind) with the wrong people didn't produce the outcomes I was use to or even needed, it produced damn near a spirit of he must be weak, that always lead to a major issue when they found out I was being kind and thoughtful not weak.
@@JadedeaJadeA hoe-ish man and a hoe-ish woman are two completely different concepts. Men who get women don’t want commitment. Women always want commitment whether or not they’re being hoes. Women gravitate towards male hoes vs SINGLE MEN gravitate towards female hoes because they’re easy and the guys don’t want commitment.
Long story short, single male hoes don’t want commitment. The only guys who want commitment are the men who want marriage. Those guys aren’t usually hoes and to women they’re “nice guys.” Women aren’t attracted to these men for whatever reason.
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That's definitely a reasonable way to look at it!
I like the fact that she is so honest about what happened. That is very rare the information she cave was very insightful. Because of that, I have to withhold my personal judgment about what was wrong. The more important part is that I learned something. Had soft to all people who can be this transparent. It is something we do not see a lot of.
“Thank You!” for sharing
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the streets hollered and she couldn't resist
Good show Chisha.... Anatomy of a Modern Relationship.
She had given her self to too many other men and couldn't perform when it counted.