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The university down the street from me has a women's business center despite receiving government monies. Amazon has preferential treatment for women owned businesses. The school I attended has special scholarships for women. women are eligible for no bid contracts that men are not eligible for at both the state and county level. google has a women's startup accelerator but men are forbidden from organizing in the same fashion. women can join the police, the military or firefighting with lowered standards. women in the aggregate are net tax recipients, men are net tax payers. men are forced to serve in the selective service in order to vote, but women are exempt from the draft. there are a lot more men than women who are homeless but there is no effort to equalize that. the average man pays anywhere between 25 to 65 percent of his income to pay for social entitlements, which is more than serfs were made to pay during feudalism. Social security and medicare are insanely bad investments for men both because men pay more in taxes and don't live as long. women complain about the pay gap but fail to note that men are much more likely to be injured on the job.
Gotta MAKE SPACES. Backyard SHED to LIVE In.. +. Maybe don't have to Run Away to Crazy College! The Apps R 1 on 1. Neh. I Wanna Find Good Girls.. WHILE Being NOT the ONE. Lol
False attribution with dating apps and iPhone. The bigger reason is the collapse of the fiat currency system in 2008 and its lagged effects that have yet to be paid off yet
I'm one of the shared ones. The reason so many women are willing to do that it because so many guys have given up. My whole "secret" to being a so-called Chad is not money, or impossible good looks. It's just not acting like an incel. That's it.
@@roberttrisca8210 The reason guys in their twenties can’t get dates is the woman are dating guys in their 30’s. One day, you will be the guy in his 30’s. If you have some need to only wife up a virgin, join a church that pushes that life style. The world will not change for you unless you are capable of changing the world. Make your own choices.
I heard an interesting quote once that goes something like this “learn to control your lust and you will realize that ninety percent of women are completely uninteresting”
True. Out of a 100 women, you might find 1 that you could have a nice conversation with. The rest either ignore you or just talk to you when they need something.
XXs never really have had a need to develop a personality because they get all the attention from male sycophants. Most are NPCs when you ask them anything beyond the superficial in terms of conversation.
you could also substitute "most fundamental, basic drive to reproduce" in place of "lust" yeah, apart from the entire reason the female portion of the species exists, women aren't all that interesting. same is true for men also. Yeah, once you ignore eons of evolution that produced men to be what they are, men aren't very interesting either ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Getting off the rut is the most powerful thing a man can do. Of course, so much of society depends on men staying on the rut, even after marriage, so they can sell you things or push you to work yourself to death. "The rut is characterized in males by an increase in testosterone, exaggerated sexual dimorphisms, increased aggression, and increased interest in females."
Same boat. 41 Now, they wouldnt even give me the time of day, especially if I was kind and respectful. Now the ones my age are mostly a walking disaster and want me to save them from their bad decisions. No thanks.
@@Canadian_Eh_I >your age There's your problem. As a younger man acting against interest, I'm telling you to date way way younger. The OffIcIAl nArrAtIvE says it's not possible to do that, but girls literally don't gaf how much older you are as long as you're alpha. Ditch the kIndnEss and rEspEct.
Hi friend. Spanish/Kiwi mix here bt I have lived in 3 countries for years at a time 🇦🇺🇳🇿🇪🇨 and travelled widely. These women do exist but are at "close to extinction levels" in the Anglo Saxon countries (🇺🇸🇳🇿🇦🇺🇬🇧🇨🇦). Trust me, still TONNES OF THEM in Europe. Much of Europe is still christian. My first GF is half swiss french half peruvian, 9/10 for looks. Coukd literally be a model... speaks 4 languages, masters degree. And yet? Low bodycount, sweet, kind, humble (would apologise for mistakes), good moral values, christian and family values. It's not hard to find women like this in Europe but that's because in many countries there, many ir most families are christian like hers is. In addition IN GENERAL, Euro girls are more attractuve, slimmer, more feminine, better dressed etc than women from 🇦🇺🇨🇦🇳🇿🇬🇧🇺🇸. Much of Latin America is way better too. Get your passport man, trust me. Agreed that our countries are a lost cause in this area.
Many (most?) high quality (= good character/gidly AND beautiful) Latin American and European women want and are attracted to Western men who are masculine with traditional more conservative/christian values. The average kiwi woman has a bodycount of TWENTY, highest of all countries surveyed (international durex survey a few years back) 🤢🤮 It's worse here than the USA. Bro just give up. I have. BUT ONLY on women HERE. Lots of great women in Asia too. The world's your oyster if you just start to explore it, trust me. Oh and by the way latin amerucan and eyropean wimen geberally agree with us about the state of Anglo Saxon women 🤣🤣🤣 I know from dozens if conversations in 10 + countries lol
@Huia87 Nice to know I'm not crazy for thinking the same way. I have quite a few Female friends from Russia I talk to pretty often, one is from Ukraine and I can tell you most of the women there take great pride in there looks, personality and body compared to American women. It may sound messed up but I've even been told this by one of my friends from there, she said that the men are typically spoiled with how good looking the women are there 😅 She was probably being sarcastic but she is not entirely wrong. Europe is same story, the women there take good pride in looking nice and attractive. Im not saying there are not attractive American Women, but the selection is a whole lot better in those countries compared to America where all you see is fat miserable PJ wearing people half the time 😂😭
All the women who claim to be in a relationship are lying!!! The women are sleeping with a random hot guy, and that guy is also sleeping with multiple other women. Eventually the woman tries to talk that guy into a relationship, and he rejects the idea, then the woman moves on to a new random hot guy, and repeats the same cycle, or she accepts the arrangement of just sleeping with the random hot guy with no commitment, until she is 28 y.o. then settles for a less attractive man that is willing be marry her, but she eventually ends the marriage from boredom and missing the random hot guys from her past.
Yeah I caught onto that early, Both Canadian in Nova Scotia. I was 32 and dealing with the death of my Grandmother and started make appearance with family after what is best described as a 10 year self estrangement. The woman was 28, smokes, now has started getting the wrinkles that dont ever go away. Huge Obama fan. and just left a relationship with a man (animator) she was dating scene she was 18 from high school. She was considering going back to school, not sure if she saved any money or that her parents will pay for it. Out of the blue a woman that I found cute when I was 25 and she was 21 maybe slightly more all of the sudden super nice to me and wanted to talk to me was setting off redflags. The shear look of manic or panic on her face for the next 2 months was unsettling. Last I hear she became an apartment super. Why would I want to pay for another person's bills? And why were not married after 2 years or at least before 25?
@@ayyyblinkin343 Women were absolutely oppressed. Arguing otherwise means you're a bot, or you might as well argue the Earth is flat. I'm sorry, but I don't how else to say it. In the US, their right to vote wasn't established until 1920. Women couldn't get a car without a co-signer a few decades ago. In Russia, domestic abuse is legal. There is an endless list of s*** like this. Or you can just listen to how many men talk about women.
My dad wouldn’t accept any man for his daughter without ambition and none had that trait so I accepted two that had great jobs but both males were adulterous. I had one husband that wanted me to have affairs and I said then why be married. I filed for divorce even though he had huge salary in Re-Insurance of Treaty insurance.
I'm 40+ and have been dating A LOT since I came out of high school. 1) women are more selfish than ever... demanding so much, giving so little... and this has increased dramatically since the late 1990s. 2) many women are fat, overweight... but their grandmas weren't so it's not "genetics", most men aren't attracted to this. 3) people think that love is about what they're getting. Love is grown and shown by unselfish freely given service and sacrifice. It's not about money... it's about selfishness and entitlement.
Yes point 1 is the big one that gets overlooked by many. A shift has definitely occurred. I often think of the L'oreal advert line, 'because you're worth it'. That line has always worried me as people who lack self awareness will apply something like that across the board and wholeheartedly believe it too. Effective advertising sure but dangerous also. Its all about you and no one else.
Success in western society is built on selfishness (the 'R' way) and entitlement (the 'D' way). Expecting regular people NOT to adopt those values is what I'd argue as crazy.
@@confaffalator at the moment in western society we have plenty of senior politicians and bureaucrats that are also quite keen on selfishness and entitlement. And on an individual level they can make a career out of being a grifter and often do more than ok financially. But i'll give you the tip, they are doing far more damage than they are doing good. And they aint long term thinkers either. BTW are you a female or male?
Spot on. To love is to sacrifice. People don't understand that today. People can't find love because they aren't looking for it. Not really. They don't even know what love is
@@metricdeep8856 Most would and the ones that wouldn't are bad PR for dating apps, the incentive structures are not in favour of dating apps causing marriage let alone stable marriage.
Same with doctors and hospitals. If they actually cure a disease or heal an injury, they lose a paying customer. It's in their interest to keep you sick and lame.
"highschool sweetheart" doesn't happen anymore because even underage women are pushed to "play the field" because social media has told them how much power they can wield with their sexuality. This doesn't end up well for anyone.
Let's be clear, WOMEN have given this advice to women and girls. No dad is out there telling his daughter, the most precious and protected person of their life, to go out and hoe it up.
Correct, I know plenty of 15-17 year old girls who are dating MULTIPLE much older men. I don’t know how much they even like those men, it seems OTHER girls and women are pushing them to get experiences, make sure to take pictures of the silly fancy restaurant he takes them to, make sure to pose for pictures in front of the restaurant sign, get all the logos and brand names in the picture etc. For women there’s this bizarre hyper-competition to “flex” on social media that you are living a certain lifestyle - the man taking them to these nice restaurants, who clearly likes the girl, doesn’t seem to even be a person to them - it’s like he’s just an interchangeable prop to get them what they want - pictures to post on social media to compete with other women… It’s not men driving this…
@@blairl6304 its some men who are getting their rocks off, and the women who are pushing it. It is natural to humanity that women only want what they see as the "top guys " even if they have to share them. But that is an inherently unstable and destructive society. The reason enforced monogamy was a thing, eas because it got the majority of men invested in society as opposed to destroying it/not taking part. You remove that restraint, we just return to the natural order. Lack of society and all.
I believe it, I'm 46, and I've been single for over 5 years now. I know several men my age who are habitually single as well. I believe it's probably worse for the younger guys. Modern women are exclusive and unhealthy. Most the singlew guys I know go to the gym and have good health, but most the women we are meeting are obese.
This I believe. A bunch of midwits with degrees decided we should tell all the women they are beautiful instead of telling them to stop eating terribly and watch the waistline or you will not get the guy you want and most likely deservedly so. You guys might get revenge if you can get serious school choice legislation passed and force them into early retirement.
Yeah, I feel like flooding our nations with men from the 3rd world has given women the opportunity to let themselves go, while simultaneously having an abundance of sexual partners. The last couple of American women I settled for were so obese, they gross me out just thinking about them. I'm about to get my passport renewed and hook up with my ex down in Argentina. I have no interest in obese American woman. 😂@@Sam-cy6cd
Model looking Escorts are better. Men are paying lots on date for unattractive women and doesn't get anything in return these dates are scams. Atleast hiring Escorts is better option you'll get your things done.
@@destroythewoke4045 It's below average in the West in general, and it's way below average in some areas such as Scandinavia, Netherlands, some countries in the Balkans etc. Anything below 5'9 is officially short, if you're 5'9 you can still kind of get away with it. Speaking as a 5'9 guy in his 30s.
10 minutes and never bring up the elephant in the room. In the last 10 years we went from the top women's issue being "Me Too", basically an anti SA movement, to now when Only Fans girls gross people out with there smash numbers. Culturally from damsels in distress to whores in a under a decade. Women have changed. How do you have a podcast on why young men are single and leave out the women?
Because at the core of these neurotypical "types" is a coward. If you speak out against what is clearly going on and put the "blame" on a certain side. You will be ostracized. This will not change until a certain cohort generation is gone.
Yes. Men haven't changed much, it is women. Look at these stupid protests on campuses over issues they really know nothing about. Almost entirely women or 'sniffers' ... 'boys' that will follow wherever there are a crowd of excited slots milling around. The modern version of the old rock concert.
Find a better class of woman to hang out with and stop looking on OF or at 🌽 or following the ‘trust me bro’ podcasts that pick the worst of society to make you think it’s reality. I don’t know one woman who’s ever done that yet they’re the ones you’re obviously interested in and you think represent an entire demographic.
Have you ever actually looked at these so called Chad's? They're usually absolute frauds when you really look at them theyre the most insecure dudes I've ever met but they can sell it to naive women
young men are not avoiding marriage is not due to "dating" or apps on the internet. They have figured out that the legal system is anti-man. The economy is anti-man. The society is anti-man. America is a bad deal for men for the majority of men. That you won the lottery is not a basis for understanding what is going on. Also, let's be honest here. All of this is the fault of men our ages. We voted for all of this. We lied about female nature to our boys and girls. We monetized female aggression and narcissism. How? By allowing it to go this far.
Let’s be honest. Young Men don’t want to buy. a car that has over 200k miles on it and multiple “owners”. Cars believe that their value doesn’t decrease despite this and everything else that comes along with being driven and maintained differently. The cars don’t want to and won’t accept this fact. The cars are angry and delusional
What the fuck are you talking about. You can buy a Car from a Dealership let's say for under 40K maybe 25K dollars.I want to buy a car once I can afford it.
If you compare a car to a women you deserve to be alone. This is exactly the problem with men nowadays.... We are not a fucking car we are human. It's time to stop objectifying women!!!!! Most of them don't want children and doesn't want to get married. And when I read comments like that,well I understand why you are single. 😮 Also American men are really fat in general... 😂
Dating apps and hypergamy, removal of shame or accountability and feminist affirmative action in education and the job market have created a disaster for men.
I've seen stories where even most college students are on dating apps. WTF?? Date people you physically spend time with, in your classes and dorm! it's because da w0men want to date older dudes with money who can take them on actual dates..
There used to be some real magic and adventure before smartphones - having to get a landline phone number, calling (and not texting), and actually feeling that magic and dating. Hell, now it's swipe hundreds and thousands of these losers, kinda maybe not sure yawn date idk, skip skip skip, ignore these 50+ guy's texts yawn add new content for the "modeling" gig (OnlyFans) - irritated and wanting the married guy, slept with him once.
@@M0viLoverColleges are dangerous places to make moves on women. There are feminist policies and oversight, and they can kick you out without evidence.
@@M0viLoverno lol, they want to date handsome attractive men, your sugar daddy money means nothing when statistics are showing young women are out earning men in metropolis cities.
Woman opens Tinder. She sees 10k men ready to die for her. And then you still wonder "Hum, I don't get why she is treating me like a commodity"... Really ?
"die for her"? NONE of this men would die for her. Most of these men only feel desperate to get to use her body, warm flesh, and a bit of attention. But die for her? I guarantee you, none of those them would do that. It takes *true love* to be actually willing to die for another person. In fact, that is the level of love that is called for good husbands: "love your wives as Christ loved His Church" (and Jesus indeed gave His life for His Bride the Church). But how many men are actually able to love their spouse? Most don't. Only a very noble and pure hearted man could. Most men only want to satisfy their lust.
When I was a young man, young women simply didn't want me. My advice to others going through the same thing is not to simp but focus on yourself. I work out, have many hobbies, and save/invest for early retirement. Whatever became of those women is not my concern (no simp).
Yes, in 1969, at age 19, I observed the PLAGUE of divorce and decided never to get married or have children. Now, at age 74----- BEST DECISION EVER! And since I wasn't spending money on women or children, I was free to live frugally, save and invest in stocks and rental real estate. As a result, I have a net worth of several million dollars.
That's a mirage. People don't live their lives on "values" and they certainly don't mate based on "values." And the values you might spout when you are 18 and trying to date is not the values you will have when you get in the divorce age.
@@fnordiumendures138People live their lives on convictions. They just don't always say what their true convictions are. Probably because a lot of people have the conviction of staying popular with society.
@@zs9652 I honestly don't think so. If a woman is attracted to a man, she'll change (somewhat) for him, and if she is not attracted, his perfect values ain't going to change that. Furthermore, if a woman is serially monogamous with a 10 year relationship frequency, she is not going to tell her first guy that when he proposes. In fact, she might not know it, and only find out 10 years later.
@@breadwinner134 Quick? No, it was a slow, torturous death. Life going out of its way to prove, again and again, that "deferred gratification" is a lie, the payoff never comes, that the carrot is always dangled in front while the stick is quick to smite, that virtuously standing against injustice (eg the stroke-poke mandates) leaves you only fired, and DEI+ghost-jobs guarantees that even applying for jobs is wasted effort. The last 15-20 years was every facet of society telling us *_you are not good enough_*_ _and never will be_ - and now, I've finally got it drilled into my head. Not only is _no-one coming to save you_ but they joy and revel in your fall, pushing you down and laughing when you finally have no strength to get up. The only one who cares is Jesus.
it still feels like we were told there was the world's biggest theme park on the other side of the 18+ door. Then the day came to open it, and we walked through it only to find an endless parking lot of emptiness.
Remember boys!! Contribute as little to, and LEGALLY take as much as you can, from a society that only sees you as either a disposable resource, an after thought, a joke, an inconvenience, a hindrance, or a threat. Thank you!! (To any who may find this message offensive: Let me know please what you can PERSONALLY do about it.)
@@kenofken9458 he is actually doing the opposite. he is passing the buck of provision back to the people who depend on it most. and i 100% agree with him. its not our job as men to support such corruption.
@@burningcoal5705as a British man this was immediately what I was going to reply but you beat me to it😂. All the unpleasantness in attitude of American girls without any of the looks 😂
But then men in their 40s and 50s will be having fun with women in their 20s and 30s. It's our entitlement that we worked decades for. Just make sure to avoid western women.
I just turned 62, and have never had a steady girlfriend. I was always considered to be "too nice" by the women that knew me best. I was always looking for that one person that I would be so compatible with, but never found her. After spending the past 5 years now learning about the true nature of women, I am very slowly realizing that God was protecting me from these hellacious beasts.
Even the most reasonable decent kind women say that they are not able to have an intimacy with a man if he is too soft, he has to learn when to be soft spoken with wife and also with kids, coworkers etc and when to be a tough, confident.. you amy be calm yet confiident and tough...have your own opinion. Because peobably she wants to know that you take care of your wellbeing as well. and therefore she knows you better, if you are confident, your likes and dislikes, and therefore she easily falls in love with such man. know the music you like the food, etc. Shje dosent mean you have to be nasty, but confident, because confident man probaly doesnt risk heart attack and other problems if he takes care of himself. There is such a lady fitness trainer, Olinka Studničkova Šipková won championship too, but today she is fitness trainer, she also helps women in their marriage, her husband Milan Studnička, helps men and women and families how to improv emarriage and how to raise kids or hyperactive etc. She said she wouldnt be able to have intimacy with a man who is too soft...and she hears it also from women. Another problem is that there is a cxathgory of marriages where woman ask man to do something , fix something , or to improve a marriage and the husbands dont listen to them, they are avoidant. They do seminars in Czechia separatedly from men and and women....The womens seminars are about marriage but mostly about raising children or fixing some problem with small kids, in kindergarten or school etc They do on their seminars SWTCH method...when the man is not afraid to open with his woife some important topics but with a calm voice, without judging the other partner. Or also the wife may use this technique to improve the communication with her partner. The couples say they learned a lot from theese seminars, and the mistakes. Many of them grew up without the role model who would teach them these techniques. They have better intimate realtionship. Communication with empathy is a skill that they had to learn.
I wonder, is this a problem? Women are constantly telling men, that they want to be left alone and men are useless. So where is the benefit for young men in matching up and not remaining single?
That's the unspoken secret. Marriage has no benefit to men. Society wants you to learn a skill, then get a career that earns a lot of money so you can be a good prospect for a woman to marry after she is tired of being a wh0re, because of the benefit that marriage brings to women; which really is just financial security and stability, so that she doesn't end up a struggling single mother dependent on the government, because 87% of women will have children at some point in their life, regardless of whether she gets married are not.
@ It isn’t a problem if women want to be left alone. The vid was about young men being single and this was indicated as a problem. I said, it isn’t and so do you. So there is no problem is there?
@@megankissinger8269 The problem is that after men leave women alone, the women complain that no man is approaching them, OR the women complain that they can't find a good man, OR the women complain that all her friends are married with children and she is the only one that is not. You got what you wanted.
The truth is women want average looking men and ugly men to leave her alone. Women still want the hot guys to approach her, and blow her back out, then marry her when she gets burned out from working to pay the bills. But those men are not around, so she settles for a less attractive guy.
Because women always go for chads, 6'1+ height, good face symmetry, handsome face with masculine traits, fit or strong men. Hypergamy is in their DNA, they always go for the best genes. The reason that wasn't the case before recently was that with our traditional patriarchal Christian tradition we strongly favored and enforced monogamy trough strict social rules. So every women was expect to find a husband, and simple math tells you, there isn't enough chads to every women, so the non-chad guys would also end up married. Now that has disintegrated and women can just sleep around without consequences, only chads win.
Back in the day women only had the few men they had contact with to choose from: work, church, school, neighbors, etc. With dating apps they have tens of thousands they'd never ordinarily come in contact with.
@@928pcar Young? I'm rapidly reaching the long side of my 50s. I guess I'd be young in Okinawa.🤣 All Abrahamic religions seek to enslave humanity. The Project 2025 people think they're going to turn this country into a Christian version of Iran. Ain't happening.
Everyone I know in a relationship is with a garbage-tier woman - average or ugly in looks, annoying attitude, clingy, no ambition, etc. But they're too afraid to leave their girlfriends because they know it will be almost impossible to find anyone else. They're scared to be single and would rather suffer in a bad relationship.
I saw the same thing way back when I was that age. And it applied to girls too, before the apps. Most people just aren't interested in most other people, but hate the stigma of being alone.
It is always the ugly one who are more egoist and with bad attitude. I have seen too many coward guy like that who are okay with their wife ugly past or being a cuck just bcz they cant stay single or scared that they wont find another one.
Trust in family? In my experience, I've seen daughters turn on their mothers to take over their social housing, all to provide for their own children who needed a place to live. In this life, the only person you can truly trust is yourself.
I've read quotes by what seems like about 100 different Jewish feminists over the decades who all said that the nuclear family has got to go. Now the values of these hideous barren sallow spiteful indignant bags of crap has become the mainstream. They won because the rest of the people apparently were just too bashful to fight back. They just allowed them to take over the choke points of society. Even at this late stage, there can be long conversations all about 'feminism' without mentioning the role of Jewish women.
I've always seen it as funny how no one acknowledges this particular failure of single motherhood. Maybe the incel population correlates with fatherless children per generation 💀😂😂
@@Alazar654 This isn't zero sum. Not to start a whole thing with you, but knowing women are adult children that are too emotional and irrational to hold any sort of authority and Islam are very different.
I think dating apps revealed and exascerbated the issue much more than it created the issue. Modernity encourages career over family and promiscuity over faithfulness and teaches nothing about virtues to men or women or women. Instead, liberalism declared all the virtues to be the boundaries beyond which is "progress." That turns out to be wrong. I'm 47 and single since 2018. Dated a couple women since then but they were disasters. Now it is impossible to find someone decent to start a family with so i focus on myself, my job, my friends, my hobbies, and what little extended family i do have. The West need a deep national repentence and a return to more traditional and virtuous thinking. I imagine that the looming debt bomb will play a role with this as im partially also convinced the welfare re-distributive state has a played a significant role in this.
Tech chances society, its not a choice of women and men. Porn cuts the need for sex by like half, so men date less, they didn't decide. Women now can easily find hot dudes to experiment with for 20 years, and good birth control exists since 1970. Evolution made us this way. Frankly, he honest, if you're a woman it seems dumb to marry a flabby average man at 25... Yes it may mean no kids, but tech have us internet and books and causal sex to fill the time... It's not a choice by bad men and bad women. Your grandma would soon act the same if she time traveled at age 15. We went from isolated farms in 1700 w nothing to do but breed with neighbor, to wow nearly the opposite, you can't logically FEEL wow guess women and men turned evil.. No, everyone is same level of good intentions as always, but now there is 100x the distractions and temptations... By point is, people aren't jerks, the world just changed.. P.S. Women are basically acting like caddish men did for 1000s of years, it's a shock but women like promiscuity like men always have.. I have no solution. Sex in itself is silly and frankly often a chore for women, that's the truth if you ask any wife, we just like to skip that truth and wonder why marriage is down... Peace. I cld be wrong but wow is world different not people.
As a man the biggest issue with dating is finding women that are looking for something serious. Dating apps seem so barren and finding a woman that's looking for something long-term seems impossible. Dating apps are 65% men, there are so many more men looking for relationships.
Women DONT like dating apps, they don't view them the same as men. It's far more risky, and they need more social proof before proceeding with a stranger on a date. That's why you see far less women on there. From my experience men are pretty chill and go with the flow. Not desperate like you guys make it out to be
Well the point of dating is to date and the girl trying to get the man to commit to a relationship...if the man straight out of the gate says he wants something serious it's a turnoff to women because it's puts too much pressure on them and they may think you are desperate
If a young man focuses on his health, education, workouts, spending time in nature, and reading good books. You will realize that being a high value person is a flex. Do not worry about the validation of others!
@@Nunyabiznessboi as great as pets are, they will never match the intimacy of a romantic partner, its in our nature to want that. I’ve seen too many single cat/dog owners and it looks lonely.
@@Alazar654 Yes but most people are still sleeping. It's not just islam. Many different cultures said the same thing for thousands of years. This whole birth control, sexual revolution, complete freedom, abortion etc they are all new and recent inventions and it seem to destroy society.
I think it was stupid how he suggested that there’s men that think they’re in a relationship when they really aren’t. That applies pretty much only to women . When have you ever heard of a side dude that genuinely thinks he’s in a relationship with a woman that doesn’t really like him like that?
I've seen it go both ways, but they are very different in appearance: For Men grow, he grows close with a woman and starts to develop emotional intimacy, he thinks they're forming a relationship while she is aloof, thinks of him as a friend, and is getting her back blown out by others and lusting over her ex. For women, they have sex with a man (Chad, high-value-man, top 1%, celebrity, whatever you want to call it) and immediately think its a relationship and have caught "the one" while she is just one in his harem rotation.
@ Beta orbiters know their position. Unless they’re one of those REALLY weird dudes that are borderline stalker that have the delusional belief that they’re actually with someone.
Single man here 👋I'm not a victim Dad Saves America. I feel like I'm being slandered by a lot of online commentary about the so called loneliness epidemic. I don't need woman in my life thank you very much. I like being single because it give me the freedom to travel, pursue my career goals ( I'm a workaholic) and work on myself. My father tied to kill himself after his divorce which put me off marriage and relationships for life Bottom line is marriage and romance can destroy a mans life and it's better to be single than to get your if ruined by a relationship or marriage breakdown.
One small point--taxes on land are the only taxes which do not reduce the commodity taxed. And they do impel landowners to develop their land to make it worth owning--they may not be direct investments, but they induce investment. They do make economic sense.
@ land I’d not a commodity, that is only a human construct. Land is land regardless of its use and as such has no true intrinsic value other then what the construct of humanity places on it.
@@robertholland7558 A TAX is a human construct. Yes--land is unique--not like other assets. It is hard to increase in quantity (though that is possible through land reclamation and conquest), and taxing it does not reduce its quantity. With every other class of assets, taxing it reduces its quantity--you get less of whatever you tax--with the exception of land. And yes, value is a human construct. What value humanity places on an asset is a construct. Take away society's valuation, and the land still remains. Land does have intrinsic value to every organism--as home grazing range, home hunting range, as defensible home base to raise offspring--that goes way back before humanity. The value humans place on land is related to its exclusive use by the land titleholder--the state confers the right to defend it (say, in court) against nontitleholders who would usurp the titleholder's right to exclusive enjoyment of the asset. If he decides to not improve the asset by applying labor or capital to it, that does not impinge on his socially-given right to enjoy it. Its value can decrease--even to zero--in monetary terms, yet he still owns the land. Taxing it provides incentive to improve it--it does not reduce the quantity of the asset in its essence--its existence and his right to enjoy it----just the market value placed on it. The value of other sources of wealth--labor and capital, can drop to zero--they can disappear--but the land is still there, and becomes even more valuable when economies collapse, and labor and capital lose their value. Stable societies have been built using land as the economic basis, when labor was free and capital nonexistent. Wars are fought over land--it is the last thing left in the final analysis, whatever monetary value may humans place on it. People will die over land. They will die for the future for their children. The future may see capital dwindle to nothing, and labor become essentially free--but the land will always be here. If the future is worth fighting for, the only sure thing that will be there is land.
I'm 35 and have basically given up on every marrying or having children. I would love to, don't get me wrong. I don't do the whole "hookup" thing. However, it just hasn't worked out. Nevertheless, I have a good career and many hobbies, so I'll find something to fill my time with.
I gave up at 28 then I started getting some interest from women but I had made up my mind and it would have been a bad deal for me and I was having fun partying anyway.
Same. I was never lucky with women and no woman ever showed interest to be my friend at least ever since I was in Middle School. I used to be envious on some of my peers who were lucky enough to have girls come to them and then have sexual relationships at a young age with good looking girls. In my 20s, I never really talk to a woman my age. In my 30s, it became easier but all the women are already married unfortunately. I still look I am in my 20s at 35 but not even I attract young women. I am thinking of going to Europe or Australia to visit the red light districts.
This is what I think a large part of the reason for this is. These are the men that were children when divorce became very common place in the late 1900's. They saw their mothers divorce their fathers. They saw their fathers lose everything, be forced out of the house they had bought and be pretty much separated from their children against their will. I know many young men that refuse to let that happen to them. Until divorce laws become more fair to men, this issue will only escalate.
This is a true point, in which you told my story too. And like those boys I did resolve to never let that happen to me but my method was not by avoiding marriage but by being devoted to the concept I was always looking for a bride and when I found one I loved her like a treasure and I forgave her of as much as my bitter heart would allow. My life is whole because of her, I have 3 children because of her, I have a legacy and an identity because of her. I didn’t resolve to avoid marriage I resolved to do it right.
you described my experience to a T. I'm still completely baffled as to why any of my brothers still decided to marry their current spouse. One of them has already been divorced.
That is part of it, but it's deeper than that. Toxic femininity is a gigantic component. Even the guys who want to take the risk aren't being given the chance. He said TWO-THIRDS aren't in relationship, that's an insane number.
I got over rejection but how many of you guys run into this response all the time “I already have a boyfriend” and then when you try they don’t respond back. The whole situation is garbage
Women will usually always stay loyal to their best option, even if that option is fucking other women. A lot of the time it's the guy who fucked her first.
@@burningcoal5705Texting should be somewhat limited and largely utilized to set up a date in-person. Save that kind of question for face to face conversations. It's also kinda a generic and super broad question to ask in the first place.
As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup-a relationship of three years that ended just two months ago. The Man who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without him . Despite my efforts to move forward , I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for him here .
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
2/3rds of men aren't over 6'2: and have an MBA from Harvard. That long list of superlatives every woman has that ensures they are kept in s style to which they deserve and have the suitable reflected status and prestige of their mate.
men want a wife and kids that are HIS OWN. if a man has a wife she is her own person and if a man has kids they are HER kids. men want to work for and build a family that is theirs NOT a family that can be used against him to make him poor and homeless.
@@alexisc7565 a woman can be her own person, a woman entering into marriage to become a wife should be wholly aware and enthusiastic in her role as subservient to her husband to whom she is confident and comfortable in submitting to completely - it is prudent for her to not enter into a marriage with a man she does not deem worthy of subservience, that is her right as an autonomous and sovereign woman
Where do ppl go for fun and socializing anymore? We used to play cards together in lunchroom years ago. Now everyone on phones in lunch room with ear buds can't be bothered by others.
It doesn't matter your income. What matters if your appearance. 85% of women will not date a man shorter than 6ft tall. Only 14% of men in america are 6ft ot taller. Listen to u tube rehab room
@@928pcar I'm not much younger than you and living my best life with women now. It's not age. In fact with every year that passes by, our advantage goes up. Women outlive men, and once you get past 60, men who are still healthy enough to function become rare commodities.
It's just a flipping of the sex conundrum from 45 years ago. If all the guys are doing it but none of the girls are doing it, how is anything getting done? Basically, everyone lies about sex and relationships. And it is a reflex reaction for a woman to say "I have a boyfriend" when asked about her relationship status.
@@webeducation it will end when intercourse before marriage is banned and when people can only have one partner. This whole disastrous free ape society needs to change
I've never meet a women in the wild. They don't play golf. They don't like music unless it's Taylor Swift. I don't have a dog. And I've never been to a coffee shop unless it was with my mother. Even though I play multiple sessions of music during the week in pubs, Irish sessions and variety, and can sing quite well. I've seen the dating apps, 80% have dogs, and 90% only say three words, coffee, food and travel. I'm very satisfied with my life and really questioning what value a woman could have in my life. It seems I either have to give up golf to spend $70 of eggs for a Sunday brunch, give up time for a dog, give up time and money because she can't cook and demands to be dined and wined, or give up time and money because travel is all that's important to her.
Yes, it's no coincidence that feminism, consumerism, and failing relationships have all skipped forward hand in hand. A major goal of corporate sponsored feminism was decreasing labor costs, increasing markets, and transferring more money towards the gender that does 85% of all consumer spending
@@megankissinger8269 If you’re not a dog person, then you don't want to be with a person that has a dog. And it's slim pickings for non-dog people. What's not to get? But if you want more detail. I accidentally left my coat at a dog owners house overnight; it was covered in dog hair when I recovered it. Petting a dog is instant regret because they're greasy and the slobber, usually it's in a social setting where you're eating hand food. Cats and dogs are outdoor animals, this is especially true since I grew up in the country. Seeing pictures of women’s dogs not just in their car, or in their house, but in their bed - disgusting. Worse is when you're kissing the girl, and she tastes like dog - gross. You can’t go anywhere for a few days, maybe hours, without your dog. Many dogs bark. There are upsides to having a dog, mainly the desire for companionship. That’s why so many women have them, they are surrogates for the man they don’t have. The meme out there is; if you’re a women 30+ and single, then you have a cat. But that’s not true, they have dogs. But I, personally, don’t have this desire for this companionship, as in, I’d never get in a relationship because I was ‘lonely’ or ‘going to die alone’ type mentally. I don’t desire a surrogate to feel loved. I only desire a relationship that ‘adds’ value to my life.
@@adamgroszkiewicz814 Your insult is lame bruh, and one of them has kids and the other has a youtube channel with higher subscribers than this channel.
@@JBerry-ec7ck Like I said to another poster, my bad. I genuinely thought they were gay...and thats not an insult. Not sure why you think it is. But again...MY BAD
What is wrong with being single? What benefits does a life-long contract of marriage offer to men? I trust some of my friends more than I do some of my family.
Nothing's wrong with being single, but if we're honest most men want to have companionship and female affection, and marriage encourages family staying together than proper morals.
PSA: Incel, definition Incel (involuntary celebate) is a gender neutral term. Coined by an incel woman(!). The largest group of Incels are handicapped and/or disfigured people, followed by people with non-hetero-normal sexual orientation, then followed by heterosexual men, the vast overwhelming majority of which aren't misogynists but timid, shy, intimidated by women and/or the mating game and - often as a result - depressed. To emphasize: Noisemakers on the internet aren't representative of Incels, despite what the misinformed public or some dimwitts on reddit think about the term. Please stop perpetuating this ill-informed misrepresentation of Incels at large. Thank you.
No one deserves intercourse (can't use the actual word, thanks RUclips). If you are a man, improve upon yourself and you will increase your chances of getting it (no guarantees though). If you are a woman, just be a bit less picky and put effort into intentionally spending time doing things together with the man you want. He'll get the memo.
No such thing as a female incel. A woman without arms and legs can still get laid. Even those two sisters, who have two heads and one body, are getting laid (in fact, they're getting married). A depressed, unemployed, overweight woman with cystic acne, body odor, and a criminal record could go to a bar tonight and get laid. Average-looking, heterosexual men make up the largest percentage of incels. It's not about being shy or timid. Nowadays, the average looking man, with an average income, is invisible to most women, no matter what he does. Women have become so twisted by social media, and so delusion as a result, that when an average man asks out an average looking woman, he's considered to be a "creep".
@@NeiyMaritz The height cannot be improved, but everything else such as clothing, hairstyle, posture, physical fitness, etc. can be improved. But above all, the matters of the soul are the ones you must improve in the most.
Even before the smartphone and instant access to social media, women were hypergamous. You think Cameron Diaz would've liked Stanley Ipkiss had he not found the Mask? There's a line early in that movie where a female character says "some men think monogamy is some kind of wood!" Because only the men _she goes for_ are like that, but most men aren't. Jim Carrey's character Stanley wasn't. In my own life I've been "friends" with tons of women that "like me enough," but nothing ever materialized because they never allowed it to. One girl I shot my shot with, she declined saying she only saw me as a friend, only to message me on FB years later saying she wish she gave me a chance. Women only want the best they can't get. They don't even want the best they can get, case-in-point Tom Brady.
And it makes me sick that we have no leaders in either party, in any church, or anywhere else really trying to fix this problem. Absolutely sick. Men have no future.
In my case, it's because I am so busy working that I don't have time to date anyone. 50-60 hrs a week doesn't leave any time for a social life, let alone a love life.
The fact that both of you could say “my dad said…” and a lot, maybe even the majority, of young boys can’t say that and nobody seems to notice taking fathers out of homes is probably the root cause of this issue is telling and why this and many other issues will not get solved
Perhaps the root cause of single mother-ness is women choosing to get pregnant by men who weren't willing to be in a relationship with them. That, and women divorcing men who were willing to be in a relationship with them for the sake of receiving his child support and the opportunity to pursue relationships with better men.
I think you both have good points but also note that a lot of fathers that did succeed and try to raise their kids well still have hopelessly outdated advice because the world has changed so much in a short time. My dad is socially awkward (diagnosed autistic when that was rare in the 60s) has almost exclusively male hobbies, is quite short 5’6” and has never done anything considered dangerous/exciting in his life yet he has been happily married for nearly 40 years to my mother but the sum total of his advice was “be polite” as if that isn’t the default position of most people anyway. It could be enough for a decent guy 40 years ago to meet somebody that wouldn’t work with literally anybody today and he just doesn’t get it.
@ i very much agree with you on that. The world and honestly the women we deal with today is drastically different from the things our dads, uncles and granddads dealt with. I think this is where someone in the middle like an older brother or male cousin thats a few years older than you but still in your generation is also vital. I had a lot of male older cousins that were a few years older than me and a few friends my age that had older brothers because ya your dad can give general advice like be polite or be a gentleman but your dad and my dad have no idea how to deal with social media or dating apps or 2024 inflation with a 90s and 2000s salary. I always use the example that my dad was a car salesman and my mom was a teacher and they raised me and my sister very well, in a nice neighborhood in a nice house in nice schools and we never had to want for anything but a young family today of a car salesman and teacher with 2 kids wouldn’t be able to afford that same lifestyle in 2024 that I was blessed with in the 90s and 2000s
Looking back through history this might be the single worst time to be a man. I’m 29, 6ft, average looking, white, green eyes and make about 90k a year. The only women interested are either overweight or single mothers. Most attractive women are looking for someone so above me in social status I can’t even compete. And those one or 2 guys get all of the women until they become overweight or single mothers who then go on to pursue me. I’m not going to date a fat, ugly, or ran through single mom so my only option is to die alone. Very depressing
I’m short but in good shape and have a handsome face imo. I have not a lot of money, but more than most in my age group. Neither work. You have to be problematic to be exciting enough to entertain their attention. If you’re not dysfunctional and attractive in a criminal physiognomy type way, you’re cooked.
There is nothing to do outside without MONEY, theres nothing to do as a Adult without MONEY. People just have shittier attitudes if you don't have MONEY, no one cares about you unless you show that your making lots of MONEY.
Well on its way to 90%. You cannot build a civilization with just the top 10 percenters. They don't have the skills and they don't have the robots, either.
@@mirceazaharia2094 The math is off. Incels are the ones who are 10 or 20 percent. They're telling themselves they represent most men to feel better about their self-inflicted predicament.
I like this young man. Sharp and on his game. I'm 66, a lifelong bachelor, not for lack of concerted and good faith effort when I was a younger man, so it is what it is. Still above ground and breathing, and lose no sleep over it. Still pushing my boulder, and will need to do so until I can't anymore. With the exception of my current employer (Lean Manufacturing/Japanese model, well run, and I'm treated and compensated fairly) I can state unequivocally that virtually every other employer I've ever had acted like street hoodlums, and managed their businesses like frat houses and adult daycares. Living in a big goofy liberal midwestern city (excluding my traditional faith community, and my immediate family) I both see and come into contact (limited thankfully) with a plethora of older women who dress like teenage girls and act like spoiled children, millennial women who are pretty and fit, but are accompanied by large fierce looking dogs, and their faces are buried into smart phones, and zoomer women who look like 50 year old bag ladies, and are ready to go toe-toe with anyone at the drop of a hat. While all this is anecdotal, and an old man's purview, my point with all this is that can anyone blame your average young man today for not wanting to work, let alone not wanting to continuously be shot down (with these heathen dating apps) by this current crop of dusty and damaged women.
Marriage is an obsolete concept that has no place in contemporary society. Have the same girl/boyfriend for life, fine. EVERY day you wake up you make a choice to WANT to be together, not the law saying you HAVE to be together. WTH kind of phucked up system is that? Anyone thinking marriage is "good" is either a gold digger (male or female) or an insecure SIMP (male or female). Not to mention the stupid and Antiquated and unfair laws that go along with such a contract. END OF DISCUSSION.
You don’t get to claim those in favor of marriage without yourself understanding the religious origins of such and the virtues it brings as “simps and gold diggers” then “end discussion” with no blowback. If anything, more marriages would solve many of society’s ills.
Not just about virtues and sex and children. It's also about a partnership - someone to watch your back, take care of you when you get sick. Grow old with you.
@@xCrimsonxTidex And if you look at the historical trends of organized religions, we are overcoming their shekels. Slowly at first, but gaining exponentially.
When you brought up your son, I agreed. I have two of them myself, and they are fantastic. My wife is a good woman who shows my sons what a wife should be: supportive, but there to offer constructive criticism when I need it. Kind, generous of spirit, and not demeaning. In return, I demonstrate to the boys the way to treat a good woman, by being willing to do any one of a million things for her and refusing to allow my sons to treat her badly in addition to being as kind as I can to her feelings. They both get to see that we aren't perfect, that we both make mistakes, and that we each offer grace when the other messes up. But I fear the world that they are headed into so soon. A world that has treated men as disposable, bumbling morons whose only purpose is to throw themselves at the problems of women without regard to themselves, but are inherently lesser than women. I want them to find happiness in this world and not hurt, but I also know they can't just be sheltered from it. It's the one problem I can't solve.
As a professional single woman I'd be happy to meet a single man who makes less money as long as he tries to work and is willing to work together. The problem I've encountered in my area of rochester ny is that the working class men are into aggressive porn, threesomes, smoking weed or worse and general shallowness (gluttony, gangster music, video games vacations etc) I can't stomach the cultural things they're into. Since I like classical music, sewing, historical reenacting , health food, going to church and other quiet boring things I.m probably going to be single forever. There needs to be more of an effort to allow singles to meet in group settings- in person- like there used to be
I'm a highly educated white collar man and I'm into threesomes too!🤣 But I like classical music and re-enacting and deeper discussions of things like science, economics etc. I do have to agree with you on the video game culture. Not that playing sometimes is a problem per se, but too many younger guys never seem to grow up past the junior high stage and then wonder why women aren't into them.
Women consume violent seggsual content and prefer violence in the bedroom at FAR higher rates than men. By the data, there's a huge gap between the number of women that want that stuff and the number of men willing.
My last relationship was with a girl from Rochester a few years back lol. Crazy bunch. Anyway, wouldn't a traditionally minded Christian man be looking for stay at home wifey energy, as opposed to a professional career woman who he has to compare salaries with?
I've been nonstop trying to find a girl that isnt a POS. And I'm the crazy one trying to find one that isnt worthless. Everyone I know is either married or given up
No disrespect for Rudyard, but the reason men are not in relationships is not dating apps. Dating apps are a symptom. The problem in this in modern world men and women don't 'need' each other. Apps would adapt to the need, I've seen courtship apps in the middle east, they are all about building a family which they 'need'.
Patently false. Humans didn't magically evolve out of being social animals overnight. There's a reason that the failure of relationships is known to be a portent of societal collapse.
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The university down the street from me has a women's business center despite receiving government monies. Amazon has preferential treatment for women owned businesses. The school I attended has special scholarships for women. women are eligible for no bid contracts that men are not eligible for at both the state and county level. google has a women's startup accelerator but men are forbidden from organizing in the same fashion. women can join the police, the military or firefighting with lowered standards. women in the aggregate are net tax recipients, men are net tax payers. men are forced to serve in the selective service in order to vote, but women are exempt from the draft. there are a lot more men than women who are homeless but there is no effort to equalize that. the average man pays anywhere between 25 to 65 percent of his income to pay for social entitlements, which is more than serfs were made to pay during feudalism. Social security and medicare are insanely bad investments for men both because men pay more in taxes and don't live as long. women complain about the pay gap but fail to note that men are much more likely to be injured on the job.
Gotta MAKE SPACES. Backyard SHED to LIVE In.. +. Maybe don't have to Run Away to Crazy College!
The Apps R 1 on 1. Neh. I Wanna Find Good Girls.. WHILE Being NOT the ONE.
Lol
Go Mgtow!
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False attribution with dating apps and iPhone.
The bigger reason is the collapse of the fiat currency system in 2008 and its lagged effects that have yet to be paid off yet
1/3 of women in a relationship are sharing the same guy.
More like 2/3.
Bro😭
Disgusting
They also consider being fucked a "relationship."
Online, it is a lot higher
I'm one of the shared ones. The reason so many women are willing to do that it because so many guys have given up.
My whole "secret" to being a so-called Chad is not money, or impossible good looks. It's just not acting like an incel. That's it.
Sure is a shame that 90% of American men will never be considered wealthy enough to attract a woman to start a family.
Hyperbole. The game changes if you don’t give up.
@@nunyabidness3075 " don t give up , get a girl at 30 with body count of 30 " great deal.
@@roberttrisca8210 The reason guys in their twenties can’t get dates is the woman are dating guys in their 30’s. One day, you will be the guy in his 30’s. If you have some need to only wife up a virgin, join a church that pushes that life style.
The world will not change for you unless you are capable of changing the world. Make your own choices.
Hah. 30’s that she’ll ADMIT to.
Attracting with money is the worst way to attract women. Never lead with your wallet. The attraction from money will never be genuine.
I heard an interesting quote once that goes something like this “learn to control your lust and you will realize that ninety percent of women are completely uninteresting”
True. Out of a 100 women, you might find 1 that you could have a nice conversation with. The rest either ignore you or just talk to you when they need something.
XXs never really have had a need to develop a personality because they get all the attention from male sycophants. Most are NPCs when you ask them anything beyond the superficial in terms of conversation.
you could also substitute "most fundamental, basic drive to reproduce" in place of "lust"
yeah, apart from the entire reason the female portion of the species exists, women aren't all that interesting.
same is true for men also. Yeah, once you ignore eons of evolution that produced men to be what they are, men aren't very interesting either ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
90% seems like a very generous number, I would wager it is closer to 99.5%.
>inb4 incel
More like middle aged and divorced volcel.
Getting off the rut is the most powerful thing a man can do. Of course, so much of society depends on men staying on the rut, even after marriage, so they can sell you things or push you to work yourself to death.
"The rut is characterized in males by an increase in testosterone, exaggerated sexual dimorphisms, increased aggression, and increased interest in females."
I’ve been single since I was in my mid-20s. I tried to follow the advice to find a woman who shared my values. They don’t exist anymore.
Same boat. 41 Now, they wouldnt even give me the time of day, especially if I was kind and respectful. Now the ones my age are mostly a walking disaster and want me to save them from their bad decisions. No thanks.
@@Canadian_Eh_I >your age
There's your problem. As a younger man acting against interest, I'm telling you to date way way younger. The OffIcIAl nArrAtIvE says it's not possible to do that, but girls literally don't gaf how much older you are as long as you're alpha. Ditch the kIndnEss and rEspEct.
Hi friend. Spanish/Kiwi mix here bt I have lived in 3 countries for years at a time 🇦🇺🇳🇿🇪🇨 and travelled widely.
These women do exist but are at "close to extinction levels" in the Anglo Saxon countries (🇺🇸🇳🇿🇦🇺🇬🇧🇨🇦). Trust me, still TONNES OF THEM in Europe. Much of Europe is still christian. My first GF is half swiss french half peruvian, 9/10 for looks. Coukd literally be a model... speaks 4 languages, masters degree. And yet? Low bodycount, sweet, kind, humble (would apologise for mistakes), good moral values, christian and family values. It's not hard to find women like this in Europe but that's because in many countries there, many ir most families are christian like hers is. In addition IN GENERAL, Euro girls are more attractuve, slimmer, more feminine, better dressed etc than women from 🇦🇺🇨🇦🇳🇿🇬🇧🇺🇸. Much of Latin America is way better too. Get your passport man, trust me. Agreed that our countries are a lost cause in this area.
Many (most?) high quality (= good character/gidly AND beautiful) Latin American and European women want and are attracted to Western men who are masculine with traditional more conservative/christian values.
The average kiwi woman has a bodycount of TWENTY, highest of all countries surveyed (international durex survey a few years back) 🤢🤮
It's worse here than the USA. Bro just give up. I have. BUT ONLY on women HERE. Lots of great women in Asia too. The world's your oyster if you just start to explore it, trust me.
Oh and by the way latin amerucan and eyropean wimen geberally agree with us about the state of Anglo Saxon women 🤣🤣🤣 I know from dozens if conversations in 10 + countries lol
@Huia87 Nice to know I'm not crazy for thinking the same way. I have quite a few Female friends from Russia I talk to pretty often, one is from Ukraine and I can tell you most of the women there take great pride in there looks, personality and body compared to American women. It may sound messed up but I've even been told this by one of my friends from there, she said that the men are typically spoiled with how good looking the women are there 😅 She was probably being sarcastic but she is not entirely wrong.
Europe is same story, the women there take good pride in looking nice and attractive. Im not saying there are not attractive American Women, but the selection is a whole lot better in those countries compared to America where all you see is fat miserable PJ wearing people half the time 😂😭
These women be getting mad when you tell them your not raising another mans kids 😂
why pay another mans bills ?
No wonder they hate paternity tests 🤣🤣🤣
Most of these younger women don't have kids and don't even want them either.
@The-Oneness11 they say that but then they switch up
That's all you're going to run into during your 30s if you're a single male.
All the women who claim to be in a relationship are lying!!! The women are sleeping with a random hot guy, and that guy is also sleeping with multiple other women. Eventually the woman tries to talk that guy into a relationship, and he rejects the idea, then the woman moves on to a new random hot guy, and repeats the same cycle, or she accepts the arrangement of just sleeping with the random hot guy with no commitment, until she is 28 y.o. then settles for a less attractive man that is willing be marry her, but she eventually ends the marriage from boredom and missing the random hot guys from her past.
this
I was that hot guy then she cheated on me with a coworker who looks he works at game stop living in his moms basement
Yeah I caught onto that early, Both Canadian in Nova Scotia. I was 32 and dealing with the death of my Grandmother and started make appearance with family after what is best described as a 10 year self estrangement. The woman was 28, smokes, now has started getting the wrinkles that dont ever go away. Huge Obama fan. and just left a relationship with a man (animator) she was dating scene she was 18 from high school.
She was considering going back to school, not sure if she saved any money or that her parents will pay for it. Out of the blue a woman that I found cute when I was 25 and she was 21 maybe slightly more all of the sudden super nice to me and wanted to talk to me was setting off redflags.
The shear look of manic or panic on her face for the next 2 months was unsettling. Last I hear she became an apartment super. Why would I want to pay for another person's bills? And why were not married after 2 years or at least before 25?
So true
@Phil-j7t Yep I used to be a plumber with my father
The amount of numbers from married with children women is insane
Hey in all fairness women collectively told men for years that we weren't wanted or needed. Now they don't get to complain we're not around.
They aren't looking for you anime guy. They're looking for a guy with 6 figures, 6 inches, and 6 feet.
Next step should be making them register for the draft, no m@n should risk his life for random w0men, especially if they hate him.
Yeah, and for centuries, men kept telling other men women are only needed for their bodies, and the still do.
@@mike9512Women were never oppressed men love women and let them do anything they want
@@ayyyblinkin343 Women were absolutely oppressed. Arguing otherwise means you're a bot, or you might as well argue the Earth is flat. I'm sorry, but I don't how else to say it.
In the US, their right to vote wasn't established until 1920. Women couldn't get a car without a co-signer a few decades ago. In Russia, domestic abuse is legal. There is an endless list of s*** like this. Or you can just listen to how many men talk about women.
Because at least 2/3 of women ain't relationship material.
emphasis on 'at-least'
Find a desi girl.
@@trumpius_maximus47they're super race-based. Their parents would kill them to marry outside the race.
My dad wouldn’t accept any man for his daughter without ambition and none had that trait so I accepted two that had great jobs but both males were adulterous. I had one husband that wanted me to have affairs and I said then why be married. I filed for divorce even though he had huge salary in Re-Insurance of Treaty insurance.
@@kp6215 Why having ambition, drive and achievement to lose everything to a woman who was just "bored"?
Once the word "situationship" entered the mainstream lexicon, I knew it was truly over for the vast majority of men.
@@bracedgod4505 Fancy way of saying serial monogamy, one guy to the next
I'm 40+ and have been dating A LOT since I came out of high school.
1) women are more selfish than ever... demanding so much, giving so little... and this has increased dramatically since the late 1990s.
2) many women are fat, overweight... but their grandmas weren't so it's not "genetics", most men aren't attracted to this.
3) people think that love is about what they're getting. Love is grown and shown by unselfish freely given service and sacrifice.
It's not about money... it's about selfishness and entitlement.
Absolutely correct.
Yes point 1 is the big one that gets overlooked by many. A shift has definitely occurred. I often think of the L'oreal advert line, 'because you're worth it'. That line has always worried me as people who lack self awareness will apply something like that across the board and wholeheartedly believe it too. Effective advertising sure but dangerous also. Its all about you and no one else.
Success in western society is built on selfishness (the 'R' way) and entitlement (the 'D' way).
Expecting regular people NOT to adopt those values is what I'd argue as crazy.
@@confaffalator at the moment in western society we have plenty of senior politicians and bureaucrats that are also quite keen on selfishness and entitlement. And on an individual level they can make a career out of being a grifter and often do more than ok financially. But i'll give you the tip, they are doing far more damage than they are doing good. And they aint long term thinkers either. BTW are you a female or male?
Spot on. To love is to sacrifice. People don't understand that today. People can't find love because they aren't looking for it. Not really. They don't even know what love is
Most women are dating the same man.
Or dating older men and some women are dating other women.
He must have a very sore knob.
I'm him🤣
Or are in situationships that they call "dating".
The same, singular human? Who is that, and how high stamina he must have
The day a dating app successfully makes a marriage, they lose 2 customers... not in their $$ interest.
An interesting observation
All about money 💰💰💰💍
You are assuming the woman deletes her account after the marriage. I bet she doesn't.
@@metricdeep8856 Most would and the ones that wouldn't are bad PR for dating apps, the incentive structures are not in favour of dating apps causing marriage let alone stable marriage.
Same with doctors and hospitals. If they actually cure a disease or heal an injury, they lose a paying customer. It's in their interest to keep you sick and lame.
"highschool sweetheart" doesn't happen anymore because even underage women are pushed to "play the field" because social media has told them how much power they can wield with their sexuality. This doesn't end up well for anyone.
Let's be clear, WOMEN have given this advice to women and girls. No dad is out there telling his daughter, the most precious and protected person of their life, to go out and hoe it up.
Correct, I know plenty of 15-17 year old girls who are dating MULTIPLE much older men.
I don’t know how much they even like those men, it seems OTHER girls and women are pushing them to get experiences, make sure to take pictures of the silly fancy restaurant he takes them to, make sure to pose for pictures in front of the restaurant sign, get all the logos and brand names in the picture etc.
For women there’s this bizarre hyper-competition to “flex” on social media that you are living a certain lifestyle - the man taking them to these nice restaurants, who clearly likes the girl, doesn’t seem to even be a person to them - it’s like he’s just an interchangeable prop to get them what they want - pictures to post on social media to compete with other women…
It’s not men driving this…
@@blairl6304 its some men who are getting their rocks off, and the women who are pushing it.
It is natural to humanity that women only want what they see as the "top guys " even if they have to share them.
But that is an inherently unstable and destructive society.
The reason enforced monogamy was a thing, eas because it got the majority of men invested in society as opposed to destroying it/not taking part.
You remove that restraint, we just return to the natural order. Lack of society and all.
I believe it, I'm 46, and I've been single for over 5 years now. I know several men my age who are habitually single as well. I believe it's probably worse for the younger guys. Modern women are exclusive and unhealthy. Most the singlew guys I know go to the gym and have good health, but most the women we are meeting are obese.
This I believe. A bunch of midwits with degrees decided we should tell all the women they are beautiful instead of telling them to stop eating terribly and watch the waistline or you will not get the guy you want and most likely deservedly so. You guys might get revenge if you can get serious school choice legislation passed and force them into early retirement.
Same here in germany
Yeah, I feel like flooding our nations with men from the 3rd world has given women the opportunity to let themselves go, while simultaneously having an abundance of sexual partners. The last couple of American women I settled for were so obese, they gross me out just thinking about them. I'm about to get my passport renewed and hook up with my ex down in Argentina. I have no interest in obese American woman. 😂@@Sam-cy6cd
Model looking Escorts are better. Men are paying lots on date for unattractive women and doesn't get anything in return these dates are scams. Atleast hiring Escorts is better option you'll get your things done.
And here in the uk
Why are young men single? Because most guys are short and don’t have felonies
Lol, exactly. These polite mainstream boomers will never call out women for their biased and often poor decision making.
Imagine thinking 5'7" being "short".
Yes, and the majority of men aren't 'dark enough' to satisfy the female fetish.
@@destroythewoke4045 Average is short
@@destroythewoke4045 It's below average in the West in general, and it's way below average in some areas such as Scandinavia, Netherlands, some countries in the Balkans etc. Anything below 5'9 is officially short, if you're 5'9 you can still kind of get away with it. Speaking as a 5'9 guy in his 30s.
10 minutes and never bring up the elephant in the room.
In the last 10 years we went from the top women's issue being "Me Too", basically an anti SA movement, to now when Only Fans girls gross people out with there smash numbers. Culturally from damsels in distress to whores in a under a decade. Women have changed. How do you have a podcast on why young men are single and leave out the women?
Because at the core of these neurotypical "types" is a coward. If you speak out against what is clearly going on and put the "blame" on a certain side. You will be ostracized.
This will not change until a certain cohort generation is gone.
Yes. Men haven't changed much, it is women. Look at these stupid protests on campuses over issues they really know nothing about. Almost entirely women or 'sniffers' ... 'boys' that will follow wherever there are a crowd of excited slots milling around. The modern version of the old rock concert.
Ok, so why don't you move to another country where this isn't really a thing
Women are eligible for any job a man is and yet they will still pick the oldest profession in the world. Funny how that works.
Find a better class of woman to hang out with and stop looking on OF or at 🌽 or following the ‘trust me bro’ podcasts that pick the worst of society to make you think it’s reality. I don’t know one woman who’s ever done that yet they’re the ones you’re obviously interested in and you think represent an entire demographic.
1 Chad for 5,000 women
That's a bit ambitious. The most I can manage is three full time regulars and three or four occasional FWB.
Have you ever actually looked at these so called Chad's? They're usually absolute frauds when you really look at them theyre the most insecure dudes I've ever met but they can sell it to naive women
even if thats true, thats logistically impossible
Women are choosing to be single.
We are not even dating chad😂
@@rajkharwar-x2iDATING.... you never say you're not hook up with them...
No, it is not "dating apps". It is the nature of modern women. All dating apps did was capitalize that nature.
young men are not avoiding marriage is not due to "dating" or apps on the internet. They have figured out that the legal system is anti-man. The economy is anti-man. The society is anti-man. America is a bad deal for men for the majority of men. That you won the lottery is not a basis for understanding what is going on.
Also, let's be honest here. All of this is the fault of men our ages. We voted for all of this. We lied about female nature to our boys and girls. We monetized female aggression and narcissism. How? By allowing it to go this far.
Not even modern, it's their nature in the oldest books and fables our ancestors passed down to us.
They were always like this.
@@hyperteleXii And now they will vote for our downfall.
It is the normal nature of the women. Dating apps just exposed them
Dating just make me laugh at how stupid women are with their preferences
Let’s be honest.
Young Men don’t want to buy. a car that has over 200k miles on it and multiple “owners”.
Cars believe that their value doesn’t decrease despite this and everything else that comes along with being driven and maintained differently.
The cars don’t want to and won’t accept this fact.
The cars are angry and delusional
The right vintage cars are worth far more than new ones.
I see what you did there!
What the fuck are you talking about. You can buy a Car from a Dealership let's say for under 40K maybe 25K dollars.I want to buy a car once I can afford it.
If you compare a car to a women you deserve to be alone. This is exactly the problem with men nowadays.... We are not a fucking car we are human. It's time to stop objectifying women!!!!! Most of them don't want children and doesn't want to get married. And when I read comments like that,well I understand why you are single. 😮 Also American men are really fat in general... 😂
@@kenofken9458 And they have almost no miles on them. They've been kept as collectibles.
Dating apps and hypergamy, removal of shame or accountability and feminist affirmative action in education and the job market have created a disaster for men.
Only a disaster for the weak men.
@@kenofken9458 weak men = unattractive men
Birth control was the nuclear bomb, it's what allows them to get away with it. Including the A word.
@gcult005 Unless you're hot lol
@@gcult005 For the bottom 80%.
The high school sweetheart thing is hurt by the advantages modern girls have over modern boys.
I've seen stories where even most college students are on dating apps. WTF?? Date people you physically spend time with, in your classes and dorm! it's because da w0men want to date older dudes with money who can take them on actual dates..
There used to be some real magic and adventure before smartphones - having to get a landline phone number, calling (and not texting), and actually feeling that magic and dating.
Hell, now it's swipe hundreds and thousands of these losers, kinda maybe not sure yawn date idk, skip skip skip, ignore these 50+ guy's texts yawn add new content for the "modeling" gig (OnlyFans) - irritated and wanting the married guy, slept with him once.
@@M0viLoverColleges are dangerous places to make moves on women. There are feminist policies and oversight, and they can kick you out without evidence.
@@M0viLoverno lol, they want to date handsome attractive men, your sugar daddy money means nothing when statistics are showing young women are out earning men in metropolis cities.
Woman opens Tinder. She sees 10k men ready to die for her. And then you still wonder "Hum, I don't get why she is treating me like a commodity"... Really ?
Totally true when dating apps came out that's when how women treated me Totally changed
@@cakeboss1721 I believe women were always like this but before datingApps they were more sneaky. Now everything is in the open.
"die for her"? NONE of this men would die for her. Most of these men only feel desperate to get to use her body, warm flesh, and a bit of attention. But die for her? I guarantee you, none of those them would do that. It takes *true love* to be actually willing to die for another person. In fact, that is the level of love that is called for good husbands: "love your wives as Christ loved His Church" (and Jesus indeed gave His life for His Bride the Church). But how many men are actually able to love their spouse? Most don't. Only a very noble and pure hearted man could. Most men only want to satisfy their lust.
@@yusufraage8554 Not most woman but enough for dating apps to be unhealthy wastes of time, it also doesn't help that some guys aren't any better.
You have 3 men for 1 women on Tinder.... Off course the odd are f****. 3 aginst 1....
When I was a young man, young women simply didn't want me. My advice to others going through the same thing is not to simp but focus on yourself. I work out, have many hobbies, and save/invest for early retirement. Whatever became of those women is not my concern (no simp).
I don't care about anything else though
Yes, in 1969, at age 19, I observed the PLAGUE of divorce and decided never to get married or have children.
Now, at age 74-----
BEST DECISION EVER!
And since I wasn't spending money on women or children, I was free to live frugally, save and invest in stocks and rental real estate. As a result, I have a net worth of several million dollars.
Hahaha, funny how delusional you are!
Exactly
People can't afford to go outside. Everything outside costs MONEY now.
And phones and the Internet don't? You can't take a walk? Go to church? Libraries?
Not true. You sound materialistic.
@@mikebrines5708 these are just bills, now they are always there, going outside is a different kind of costs.
Back when I was 5 I could go to the store with $5 and get 2 bags of chips, a soda, icecream, and gushers......
Now they got cameras....
@@mikebrines5708 Good point, my gym is only $10 a month, I should go there all the time.
Ladies your mother and grandmother fought hard for feminism so their daughters would suffer . . . . So don't blame men
Women are thankful for feminism and women are not suffering men are😂
@@rajkharwar-x2iExactly
Wouldn’t suffer” and yes I still blame men cause they don’t change
"Find a woman who shares your values" - explains the phenomenon 40 seconds into the video.
That's a mirage. People don't live their lives on "values" and they certainly don't mate based on "values." And the values you might spout when you are 18 and trying to date is not the values you will have when you get in the divorce age.
@@fnordiumendures138 Find better people to associate with. Honorable people exist. Sounds like you've never met any.
@@aaronvt9980 Notice how you have to pretend that a society wide issue is my personal problem?
@@fnordiumendures138People live their lives on convictions. They just don't always say what their true convictions are.
Probably because a lot of people have the conviction of staying popular with society.
@@zs9652 I honestly don't think so. If a woman is attracted to a man, she'll change (somewhat) for him, and if she is not attracted, his perfect values ain't going to change that. Furthermore, if a woman is serially monogamous with a 10 year relationship frequency, she is not going to tell her first guy that when he proposes. In fact, she might not know it, and only find out 10 years later.
Millennials (my generation):
Born in the best time to be a child and the worst time to be an adult.
🤦♂️
I had so much optimism as a child. The 2000s til now squashed that real quick.
@@breadwinner134 Quick?
No, it was a slow, torturous death. Life going out of its way to prove, again and again, that "deferred gratification" is a lie, the payoff never comes, that the carrot is always dangled in front while the stick is quick to smite, that virtuously standing against injustice (eg the stroke-poke mandates) leaves you only fired, and DEI+ghost-jobs guarantees that even applying for jobs is wasted effort.
The last 15-20 years was every facet of society telling us *_you are not good enough_*_ _and never will be_ - and now, I've finally got it drilled into my head.
Not only is _no-one coming to save you_ but they joy and revel in your fall, pushing you down and laughing when you finally have no strength to get up.
The only one who cares is Jesus.
'91. Can confirm.
it still feels like we were told there was the world's biggest theme park on the other side of the 18+ door. Then the day came to open it, and we walked through it only to find an endless parking lot of emptiness.
92, can confirm
Remember boys!!
Contribute as little to, and LEGALLY take as much as you can, from a society that only sees you as either a disposable resource, an after thought, a joke, an inconvenience, a hindrance, or a threat.
Thank you!!
(To any who may find this message offensive: Let me know please what you can PERSONALLY do about it.)
Congratulations. You've figured out the way to an early coronary event and a life expectancy of maybe 46.
@@kenofken9458 he is actually doing the opposite. he is passing the buck of provision back to the people who depend on it most. and i 100% agree with him. its not our job as men to support such corruption.
@@kenofken9458 Better to live a short life than a long one as a slave. Dumbass
Absolutely spot on! 💯 cold hard truth
@@kenofken9458 First, you're wrong.
Second... and? What's the point of living if you're stripped of all the meanings of life.
Well, to be fair. American women are the LEAST desired women in the world when choosing for a LTR or marriage.
My brother in Christ have you seen British women?
Well Americans are British rebels, so... @@burningcoal5705
@@burningcoal5705 UK women are disgusting
@@burningcoal5705as a British man this was immediately what I was going to reply but you beat me to it😂. All the unpleasantness in attitude of American girls without any of the looks 😂
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986Wtf soup with those awful spray tans and that ugly pink lipstick? Why do they all look like that? 😂😂😂
1. Women are age are dating older
2. Very attractive men are dating multiple women at once
If women think they can have fun in their 20s and then settle down with me in my 30s, they have another thing coming. Go find a simp somewhere else.
i feel this , the painful part is it the women who will think they were wronged in some way.
A lot of them arent even trying to settle anymore they're just staying single
But then men in their 40s and 50s will be having fun with women in their 20s and 30s. It's our entitlement that we worked decades for. Just make sure to avoid western women.
I don't think they are thinking of u in that way
Based
Why? Because young women are interested in the most attractive 10% of men and give them ....
Well, you know what they give them.
Herpes
a headache
The triple D
the throat of the throat demons.
I just turned 62, and have never had a steady girlfriend. I was always considered to be "too nice" by the women that knew me best. I was always looking for that one person that I would be so compatible with, but never found her. After spending the past 5 years now learning about the true nature of women, I am very slowly realizing that God was protecting me from these hellacious beasts.
You need to go to Thailand before it's too late
Its not that women don't want a respectful, kind, virtuous man. Its that those things don't even make it to their top 10 requirements.
@@quietus13 Don't say that. Thai women don't deserve bitter black pill men either.
Too nice is what women say when you're not good looking enough. I know this because I'm in that category & because it's pretty obvious
Even the most reasonable decent kind women say that they are not able to have an intimacy with a man if he is too soft,
he has to learn when to be soft spoken with wife and also with kids, coworkers etc
and when to be a tough, confident..
you amy be calm yet confiident and tough...have your own opinion.
Because peobably she wants to know that you take care of your wellbeing as well.
and therefore she knows you better, if you are confident, your likes and dislikes, and therefore she easily falls in love with such man.
know the music you like the food, etc.
Shje dosent mean you have to be nasty, but confident, because confident man probaly doesnt risk heart attack and other problems if he takes care of himself.
There is such a lady fitness trainer, Olinka Studničkova Šipková won championship too, but today she is fitness trainer, she also helps women in their marriage, her husband Milan Studnička, helps men and women and families how to improv emarriage and how to raise kids or hyperactive etc.
She said she wouldnt be able to have intimacy with a man who is too soft...and she hears it also from women.
Another problem is that there is a cxathgory of marriages where woman ask man to do something , fix something , or to improve a marriage
and the husbands dont listen to them, they are avoidant. They do seminars in Czechia separatedly from men and and women....The womens seminars are about marriage but mostly about raising children or fixing some problem with small kids, in kindergarten or school etc
They do on their seminars SWTCH method...when the man is not afraid to open with his woife some important topics but with a calm voice, without judging the other partner.
Or also the wife may use this technique to improve the communication with her partner. The couples say they learned a lot from theese seminars, and the mistakes. Many of them grew up without the role model who would teach them these techniques.
They have better intimate realtionship. Communication with empathy is a skill that they had to learn.
I wonder, is this a problem? Women are constantly telling men, that they want to be left alone and men are useless. So where is the benefit for young men in matching up and not remaining single?
That's the unspoken secret. Marriage has no benefit to men. Society wants you to learn a skill, then get a career that earns a lot of money so you can be a good prospect for a woman to marry after she is tired of being a wh0re, because of the benefit that marriage brings to women; which really is just financial security and stability, so that she doesn't end up a struggling single mother dependent on the government, because 87% of women will have children at some point in their life, regardless of whether she gets married are not.
To be fair why is it a problem if women want to be left alone? Everyone is entitled to be left alone if that's what they want
@ It isn’t a problem if women want to be left alone. The vid was about young men being single and this was indicated as a problem. I said, it isn’t and so do you. So there is no problem is there?
@@megankissinger8269 The problem is that after men leave women alone, the women complain that no man is approaching them, OR the women complain that they can't find a good man, OR the women complain that all her friends are married with children and she is the only one that is not. You got what you wanted.
The truth is women want average looking men and ugly men to leave her alone. Women still want the hot guys to approach her, and blow her back out, then marry her when she gets burned out from working to pay the bills. But those men are not around, so she settles for a less attractive guy.
So all the women in a relationship are sharing the same 1/3 of the guys.
Nowadays, probably
Dating older guys, 5 year difference and the maths add up correctly.
I'm sure some are but it's mostly because women in that age bracket are dating older dudes.
And each other
Lesbians are another issue
Because women always go for chads, 6'1+ height, good face symmetry, handsome face with masculine traits, fit or strong men. Hypergamy is in their DNA, they always go for the best genes. The reason that wasn't the case before recently was that with our traditional patriarchal Christian tradition we strongly favored and enforced monogamy trough strict social rules. So every women was expect to find a husband, and simple math tells you, there isn't enough chads to every women, so the non-chad guys would also end up married. Now that has disintegrated and women can just sleep around without consequences, only chads win.
It's good to be Chad, and to live in a time when Christianity no longer has its shackles on us.
Back in the day women only had the few men they had contact with to choose from: work, church, school, neighbors, etc. With dating apps they have tens of thousands they'd never ordinarily come in contact with.
@@kenofken9458 you sound young. Tell us how Christianity hurt you? Can't wait to hear
@@928pcar Young? I'm rapidly reaching the long side of my 50s.
I guess I'd be young in Okinawa.🤣
All Abrahamic religions seek to enslave humanity. The Project 2025 people think they're going to turn this country into a Christian version of Iran. Ain't happening.
@@mikebrines5708 That's the whole premise of western freedom: The ability to choose.
Everyone I know in a relationship is with a garbage-tier woman - average or ugly in looks, annoying attitude, clingy, no ambition, etc. But they're too afraid to leave their girlfriends because they know it will be almost impossible to find anyone else. They're scared to be single and would rather suffer in a bad relationship.
What age(s) are these friends of yours?
@@TheHamburgler123 They're all in their 30's and 40's
I saw the same thing way back when I was that age. And it applied to girls too, before the apps.
Most people just aren't interested in most other people, but hate the stigma of being alone.
That's sad. Every man should experience living alone for a while. It will open their eyes to how peaceful and easy life is.
It is always the ugly one who are more egoist and with bad attitude. I have seen too many coward guy like that who are okay with their wife ugly past or being a cuck just bcz they cant stay single or scared that they wont find another one.
Trust in family? In my experience, I've seen daughters turn on their mothers to take over their social housing, all to provide for their own children who needed a place to live. In this life, the only person you can truly trust is yourself.
You can trust God.
I've read quotes by what seems like about 100 different Jewish feminists over the decades who all said that the nuclear family has got to go. Now the values of these hideous barren sallow spiteful indignant bags of crap has become the mainstream. They won because the rest of the people apparently were just too bashful to fight back. They just allowed them to take over the choke points of society. Even at this late stage, there can be long conversations all about 'feminism' without mentioning the role of Jewish women.
In old Sicily, those daughters would have met with unfortunate accidents.
@@hyperteleXii lol
@@hyperteleXiihi do you have discord
I had dated a girl who said the only one of her 3 sons and daughter who had a girlfriend was her daughter.
L35bianism is a hell of a drug. Apostle Paul was right in Romans. They have abandoned their duties to their society for pleasuring each other.
Pretty sad for men these days
I've always seen it as funny how no one acknowledges this particular failure of single motherhood.
Maybe the incel population correlates with fatherless children per generation 💀😂😂
@ "failure of single motherhood."
So where's the father and why he abandoned his children and the mother of his children? 🤔
@@joane24 idk man, I could say a lot about the men I see with kids.
It seems intentional that most of the scum have em.
Feminism and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Yeah, gonna take some massive authoritarian reprogramming of new generations or something. Whole new form of civilization that brings back humanity.
We need to go back to medieval times or invent artificial wombs or something like that.
Do yall understand the muslims, now?
@@Alazar654 This isn't zero sum. Not to start a whole thing with you, but knowing women are adult children that are too emotional and irrational to hold any sort of authority and Islam are very different.
@@stevemcjob still don't understand I see? just don't get glucked.
I think dating apps revealed and exascerbated the issue much more than it created the issue. Modernity encourages career over family and promiscuity over faithfulness and teaches nothing about virtues to men or women or women. Instead, liberalism declared all the virtues to be the boundaries beyond which is "progress." That turns out to be wrong. I'm 47 and single since 2018. Dated a couple women since then but they were disasters. Now it is impossible to find someone decent to start a family with so i focus on myself, my job, my friends, my hobbies, and what little extended family i do have. The West need a deep national repentence and a return to more traditional and virtuous thinking. I imagine that the looming debt bomb will play a role with this as im partially also convinced the welfare re-distributive state has a played a significant role in this.
Tech chances society, its not a choice of women and men. Porn cuts the need for sex by like half, so men date less, they didn't decide. Women now can easily find hot dudes to experiment with for 20 years, and good birth control exists since 1970. Evolution made us this way. Frankly, he honest, if you're a woman it seems dumb to marry a flabby average man at 25... Yes it may mean no kids, but tech have us internet and books and causal sex to fill the time... It's not a choice by bad men and bad women. Your grandma would soon act the same if she time traveled at age 15. We went from isolated farms in 1700 w nothing to do but breed with neighbor, to wow nearly the opposite, you can't logically FEEL wow guess women and men turned evil.. No, everyone is same level of good intentions as always, but now there is 100x the distractions and temptations... By point is, people aren't jerks, the world just changed.. P.S. Women are basically acting like caddish men did for 1000s of years, it's a shock but women like promiscuity like men always have.. I have no solution. Sex in itself is silly and frankly often a chore for women, that's the truth if you ask any wife, we just like to skip that truth and wonder why marriage is down... Peace. I cld be wrong but wow is world different not people.
As a man the biggest issue with dating is finding women that are looking for something serious. Dating apps seem so barren and finding a woman that's looking for something long-term seems impossible. Dating apps are 65% men, there are so many more men looking for relationships.
a woman looking for something serious *with you*
even if you find one, they will still look to trade up
Women DONT like dating apps, they don't view them the same as men. It's far more risky, and they need more social proof before proceeding with a stranger on a date. That's why you see far less women on there. From my experience men are pretty chill and go with the flow. Not desperate like you guys make it out to be
They don't seem barren, they are barren.
Well the point of dating is to date and the girl trying to get the man to commit to a relationship...if the man straight out of the gate says he wants something serious it's a turnoff to women because it's puts too much pressure on them and they may think you are desperate
@@didafm yeah, no most people dont do that. I'm just saying that finding someone to go out with is tough.
If a young man focuses on his health, education, workouts, spending time in nature, and reading good books. You will realize that being a high value person is a flex. Do not worry about the validation of others!
@@jm7578 I don’t care about validation from others I just want to be loved. That’s deeply wired into who we are
@@cu11en76 buy a dog then.
@@Nunyabiznessboi as great as pets are, they will never match the intimacy of a romantic partner, its in our nature to want that. I’ve seen too many single cat/dog owners and it looks lonely.
@@J_Pizzle4shizzle well women out number men so in a country of nearly 350 million people I’m sure there’s some one out there 🤷♂️
Women; your too nice. I want a bad boy.
Also women; being a single mom is SO hard! Where's my baby daddy?
They should not decide. Their dads should decide. Like back in the day.
@@tanura5830 do yall understand the muslims, now?
@@Alazar654 Yes but most people are still sleeping. It's not just islam. Many different cultures said the same thing for thousands of years. This whole birth control, sexual revolution, complete freedom, abortion etc they are all new and recent inventions and it seem to destroy society.
People say “hey just be a top one percent man, be confident and attractive to get your foot in the door with a modern woman” but deny the BP
LMAO facts
@ 🙌
No confidence for my 5'7 height lmao
@@Arejen03 Exactly my point
@@Arejen03 yup, cuz confidence alone is not the key at all. its a sham.
I think it was stupid how he suggested that there’s men that think they’re in a relationship when they really aren’t. That applies pretty much only to women . When have you ever heard of a side dude that genuinely thinks he’s in a relationship with a woman that doesn’t really like him like that?
I’ve seen women who keep guys around like pets. But there’s no genuine connection.
I've seen it go both ways, but they are very different in appearance:
For Men grow, he grows close with a woman and starts to develop emotional intimacy, he thinks they're forming a relationship while she is aloof, thinks of him as a friend, and is getting her back blown out by others and lusting over her ex.
For women, they have sex with a man (Chad, high-value-man, top 1%, celebrity, whatever you want to call it) and immediately think its a relationship and have caught "the one" while she is just one in his harem rotation.
@@whoisgtsdk Yeah, but he doesn’t genuinely think they’re in a relationship. He knows he’s in the friend zone and is just waiting to make his move.
@ Beta orbiters know their position. Unless they’re one of those REALLY weird dudes that are borderline stalker that have the delusional belief that they’re actually with someone.
@@ralegade7710 Some people have trouble recognizing that, and that's a likely source of misreporting.
Single man here 👋I'm not a victim Dad Saves America. I feel like I'm being slandered by a lot of online commentary about the so called loneliness epidemic. I don't need woman in my life thank you very much. I like being single because it give me the freedom to travel, pursue my career goals ( I'm a workaholic) and work on myself. My father tied to kill himself after his divorce which put me off marriage and relationships for life
Bottom line is marriage and romance can destroy a mans life and it's better to be single than to get your if ruined by a relationship or marriage breakdown.
I hate this society.
Rent is not an economic investment, neither is paying interest, land taxes, insurance etc etc. At least not for the one paying it.
One small point--taxes on land are the only taxes which do not reduce the commodity taxed. And they do impel landowners to develop their land to make it worth owning--they may not be direct investments, but they induce investment. They do make economic sense.
@ land I’d not a commodity, that is only a human construct.
Land is land regardless of its use and as such has no true intrinsic value other then what the construct of humanity places on it.
@@robertholland7558 A TAX is a human construct. Yes--land is unique--not like other assets. It is hard to increase in quantity (though that is possible through land reclamation and conquest), and taxing it does not reduce its quantity. With every other class of assets, taxing it reduces its quantity--you get less of whatever you tax--with the exception of land. And yes, value is a human construct. What value humanity places on an asset is a construct. Take away society's valuation, and the land still remains. Land does have intrinsic value to every organism--as home grazing range, home hunting range, as defensible home base to raise offspring--that goes way back before humanity. The value humans place on land is related to its exclusive use by the land titleholder--the state confers the right to defend it (say, in court) against nontitleholders who would usurp the titleholder's right to exclusive enjoyment of the asset. If he decides to not improve the asset by applying labor or capital to it, that does not impinge on his socially-given right to enjoy it. Its value can decrease--even to zero--in monetary terms, yet he still owns the land. Taxing it provides incentive to improve it--it does not reduce the quantity of the asset in its essence--its existence and his right to enjoy it----just the market value placed on it. The value of other sources of wealth--labor and capital, can drop to zero--they can disappear--but the land is still there, and becomes even more valuable when economies collapse, and labor and capital lose their value. Stable societies have been built using land as the economic basis, when labor was free and capital nonexistent. Wars are fought over land--it is the last thing left in the final analysis, whatever monetary value may humans place on it. People will die over land. They will die for the future for their children. The future may see capital dwindle to nothing, and labor become essentially free--but the land will always be here. If the future is worth fighting for, the only sure thing that will be there is land.
Having a secure place to rest your head each night is an investment in tomorrow.
I'm 35 and have basically given up on every marrying or having children. I would love to, don't get me wrong. I don't do the whole "hookup" thing. However, it just hasn't worked out. Nevertheless, I have a good career and many hobbies, so I'll find something to fill my time with.
Perish your lingering hope or you'll only suffer more.
You will find things in life the moment you stop looking for them.
I gave up at 28 then I started getting some interest from women but I had made up my mind and it would have been a bad deal for me and I was having fun partying anyway.
Same. I was never lucky with women and no woman ever showed interest to be my friend at least ever since I was in Middle School. I used to be envious on some of my peers who were lucky enough to have girls come to them and then have sexual relationships at a young age with good looking girls. In my 20s, I never really talk to a woman my age. In my 30s, it became easier but all the women are already married unfortunately. I still look I am in my 20s at 35 but not even I attract young women. I am thinking of going to Europe or Australia to visit the red light districts.
SE Asia - get your passport and book a flight! u can be married within the week!
Just because most men are single. DOES NOT MEAN most women are celibate. Keep that in mind
Of course they're not celibate. I'm doing my utmost to make sure of that!🤣
@ You slaying these 304s?
@@killerb5305 I love em!
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This is not just America, this applies for South Africa as well.
SA was the place I first discovered wokeness.
Every countries in fact.
F*minism effed the world up for sure.
It s the growing inequality worldwide.
BE & DEI together 💕
Woman only love Chad and Tyrone 💯💯
No they love money more
@@zaq1337 correct.
@@zaq1337no they love chadrone more
They also love attention
This is what I think a large part of the reason for this is. These are the men that were children when divorce became very common place in the late 1900's. They saw their mothers divorce their fathers. They saw their fathers lose everything, be forced out of the house they had bought and be pretty much separated from their children against their will. I know many young men that refuse to let that happen to them. Until divorce laws become more fair to men, this issue will only escalate.
This is a true point, in which you told my story too. And like those boys I did resolve to never let that happen to me but my method was not by avoiding marriage but by being devoted to the concept I was always looking for a bride and when I found one I loved her like a treasure and I forgave her of as much as my bitter heart would allow. My life is whole because of her, I have 3 children because of her, I have a legacy and an identity because of her. I didn’t resolve to avoid marriage I resolved to do it right.
This is exactly me, i refuse to be like my father
you described my experience to a T. I'm still completely baffled as to why any of my brothers still decided to marry their current spouse. One of them has already been divorced.
That is part of it, but it's deeper than that. Toxic femininity is a gigantic component. Even the guys who want to take the risk aren't being given the chance. He said TWO-THIRDS aren't in relationship, that's an insane number.
@@whoisgtsdk I would blame the people who men and women against each other, you will find a lot of them on the far left.
The issue is that women only want to date the top 10% of men. Obviously that has an affect on the entire dating market.
I got over rejection but how many of you guys run into this response all the time “I already have a boyfriend” and then when you try they don’t respond back. The whole situation is garbage
i never get that.
Women will usually always stay loyal to their best option, even if that option is fucking other women. A lot of the time it's the guy who fucked her first.
I'll literally ask a woman I'm texting back and forth with 'So wbu tell me about yourself' and she disappears
@@burningcoal5705Texting should be somewhat limited and largely utilized to set up a date in-person. Save that kind of question for face to face conversations. It's also kinda a generic and super broad question to ask in the first place.
@@TheHamburgler123 Cope. You wouldn't go on a date with someone without knowing even the most basic of conversations with them.
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There is no easy fix try divorce its far worse. Take some time for yourself maybe you both needed a break from each other.
The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. You’re missing the point if you think this is an economic issue.
Why I'm single- Stopped caring.
2/3rds of men aren't over 6'2: and have an MBA from Harvard. That long list of superlatives every woman has that ensures they are kept in s style to which they deserve and have the suitable reflected status and prestige of their mate.
Less than 4% of men in the U.S. are 6'2" or taller.
I’m 6’4 and still treated like shit or ignored and I take care of my body
Face * Height ,if either is zero, ur screwed lol
Good friend of mine is 6'11 and he has never dated. He is 26 years old.
men want a wife and kids that are HIS OWN. if a man has a wife she is her own person and if a man has kids they are HER kids. men want to work for and build a family that is theirs NOT a family that can be used against him to make him poor and homeless.
Why wouldn't a wife be her own person? Shrs an adult after all. See this mindset is why more women don't see any reason to rush into marriage.
@@alexisc7565 a woman can be her own person, a woman entering into marriage to become a wife should be wholly aware and enthusiastic in her role as subservient to her husband to whom she is confident and comfortable in submitting to completely - it is prudent for her to not enter into a marriage with a man she does not deem worthy of subservience, that is her right as an autonomous and sovereign woman
Where do ppl go for fun and socializing anymore? We used to play cards together in lunchroom years ago. Now everyone on phones in lunch room with ear buds can't be bothered by others.
@@StarCityFAME those places don’t exist anymore, brootal
It doesn't matter your income. What matters if your appearance. 85% of women will not date a man shorter than 6ft tall. Only 14% of men in america are 6ft ot taller. Listen to u tube rehab room
Where did you get that statistic. 85 percent seems too high
@@tanura5830lol keep coping
I’m 51. When I was in my teens and 20s I did great with woman. Why? It was pre internet and I didn’t have to compete with older guys with money.
'If only only you knew how bad things really are' lmaooo
^^ this. No matter how bad you think it is, the truth is that it is way, way worse.
@@SuperSupersodaI see that more and more as I get older sadly
I'm 25 and I've been done with dating I'd rather spend my money on myself 😂
It's not just young men. I'm 58 and was done when I was 42.
That sucks. I was just getting started at 42!
@@kenofken9458 sure you were pal
@@928pcar I'm not much younger than you and living my best life with women now. It's not age. In fact with every year that passes by, our advantage goes up. Women outlive men, and once you get past 60, men who are still healthy enough to function become rare commodities.
So it never gets better
@@Godzilla_Star_Eater It gets better when you decide to take steps to make it better. Not before.
32, 5-11, not ugly, not broke and never had a girlfriend
same
This scares me. You are like my 3 sons. I despair of ever having grandbabies.
@@oneperson5760 Also worried about that
@@oneperson5760you guys wanted to give women all the freedom to so this is the consequence. It's your fault. Unless you are a conservative.
@@Fc9ers No offense... but you may be overestimating your attractiveness. Have women taken an interest in you? Have you asked ppl out?
It's just a flipping of the sex conundrum from 45 years ago. If all the guys are doing it but none of the girls are doing it, how is anything getting done? Basically, everyone lies about sex and relationships. And it is a reflex reaction for a woman to say "I have a boyfriend" when asked about her relationship status.
Women have unrealistic expectations
In 1/3 of all births, the "dad" is not the father. But he will be shelling out money as though he is.
😂when is this going to end?
@tanura5830 most likely never
@@webeducation it will end when intercourse before marriage is banned and when people can only have one partner. This whole disastrous free ape society needs to change
@@tanura5830 the gluck gluck gluck 5000 combo is too powerful.
@@webeducation society is covered with throat demons.
Women want a caricature of a man
Men want a caricature of a woman.
@@CTKearnsu femcels doesn't have one
@@CTKearnscurb your hypergamy. Mens standards arent nearly at the same level as womens expectations.
@@jasziegl8983 True. There is already a name for that: the Gigachad.
@ A sane women isn’t asking much
I've never meet a women in the wild. They don't play golf. They don't like music unless it's Taylor Swift. I don't have a dog. And I've never been to a coffee shop unless it was with my mother. Even though I play multiple sessions of music during the week in pubs, Irish sessions and variety, and can sing quite well. I've seen the dating apps, 80% have dogs, and 90% only say three words, coffee, food and travel. I'm very satisfied with my life and really questioning what value a woman could have in my life. It seems I either have to give up golf to spend $70 of eggs for a Sunday brunch, give up time for a dog, give up time and money because she can't cook and demands to be dined and wined, or give up time and money because travel is all that's important to her.
quite sad isnt it. WTF ever happened to women with values and unique tastes...?
Yes, it's no coincidence that feminism, consumerism, and failing relationships have all skipped forward hand in hand. A major goal of corporate sponsored feminism was decreasing labor costs, increasing markets, and transferring more money towards the gender that does 85% of all consumer spending
Dogs are pretty cool though.
Not seeing the issue with dogs.
@@megankissinger8269 If you’re not a dog person, then you don't want to be with a person that has a dog. And it's slim pickings for non-dog people. What's not to get?
But if you want more detail. I accidentally left my coat at a dog owners house overnight; it was covered in dog hair when I recovered it. Petting a dog is instant regret because they're greasy and the slobber, usually it's in a social setting where you're eating hand food. Cats and dogs are outdoor animals, this is especially true since I grew up in the country. Seeing pictures of women’s dogs not just in their car, or in their house, but in their bed - disgusting. Worse is when you're kissing the girl, and she tastes like dog - gross. You can’t go anywhere for a few days, maybe hours, without your dog. Many dogs bark.
There are upsides to having a dog, mainly the desire for companionship. That’s why so many women have them, they are surrogates for the man they don’t have. The meme out there is; if you’re a women 30+ and single, then you have a cat. But that’s not true, they have dogs. But I, personally, don’t have this desire for this companionship, as in, I’d never get in a relationship because I was ‘lonely’ or ‘going to die alone’ type mentally. I don’t desire a surrogate to feel loved. I only desire a relationship that ‘adds’ value to my life.
Not an epidemic, more like peace and quiet. Being single isn't a bad thing, it's more like paradise if you ask me.
Younger single men also overwhelmingly voted for Trump, so they may be able to afford to raise a family someday.
Even if you can afford it it doesnt matter if you arent attractive enough
Or have a big enough pool of women with similar values…
2/3 of young men are single. It just so happens that is also the divorce rate......I think they figured something out! Good job men!
I have been single for 10yrs after My wife died. I do not want to date. Women are too unpredictable especially post wall
How come two gay dudes are commenting on why young straight guys aren't in relationships with women?
Not gay
@@oneperson5760 Oh...for real? Well shit. My bad.
@@adamgroszkiewicz814 Your insult is lame bruh, and one of them has kids and the other has a youtube channel with higher subscribers than this channel.
@@JBerry-ec7ck Like I said to another poster, my bad. I genuinely thought they were gay...and thats not an insult. Not sure why you think it is. But again...MY BAD
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What is wrong with being single? What benefits does a life-long contract of marriage offer to men? I trust some of my friends more than I do some of my family.
We are evolved or designed to reproduce and doing so triggers life satisfaction responses that render hardship bearable and make life feel worth it.
Nothing's wrong with being single, but if we're honest most men want to have companionship and female affection, and marriage encourages family staying together than proper morals.
PSA: Incel, definition
Incel (involuntary celebate) is a gender neutral term. Coined by an incel woman(!). The largest group of Incels are handicapped and/or disfigured people, followed by people with non-hetero-normal sexual orientation, then followed by heterosexual men, the vast overwhelming majority of which aren't misogynists but timid, shy, intimidated by women and/or the mating game and - often as a result - depressed.
To emphasize: Noisemakers on the internet aren't representative of Incels, despite what the misinformed public or some dimwitts on reddit think about the term.
Please stop perpetuating this ill-informed misrepresentation of Incels at large.
Thank you.
No one deserves intercourse (can't use the actual word, thanks RUclips). If you are a man, improve upon yourself and you will increase your chances of getting it (no guarantees though). If you are a woman, just be a bit less picky and put effort into intentionally spending time doing things together with the man you want. He'll get the memo.
No such thing as a female incel. A woman without arms and legs can still get laid. Even those two sisters, who have two heads and one body, are getting laid (in fact, they're getting married). A depressed, unemployed, overweight woman with cystic acne, body odor, and a criminal record could go to a bar tonight and get laid. Average-looking, heterosexual men make up the largest percentage of incels. It's not about being shy or timid. Nowadays, the average looking man, with an average income, is invisible to most women, no matter what he does. Women have become so twisted by social media, and so delusion as a result, that when an average man asks out an average looking woman, he's considered to be a "creep".
@@ElCampeador99 there is no improvement for someone height or their attractiveness.
@@ElCampeador99
I'm not entitled to a mate - correct.
But neither is any vvoman entitled to anything from me, ever. Quid pro quo.
@@NeiyMaritz The height cannot be improved, but everything else such as clothing, hairstyle, posture, physical fitness, etc. can be improved. But above all, the matters of the soul are the ones you must improve in the most.
It has become the sensible thing to do and the best way to be. Risks far outweigh any potential benefits.
Even before the smartphone and instant access to social media, women were hypergamous. You think Cameron Diaz would've liked Stanley Ipkiss had he not found the Mask? There's a line early in that movie where a female character says "some men think monogamy is some kind of wood!" Because only the men _she goes for_ are like that, but most men aren't. Jim Carrey's character Stanley wasn't.
In my own life I've been "friends" with tons of women that "like me enough," but nothing ever materialized because they never allowed it to. One girl I shot my shot with, she declined saying she only saw me as a friend, only to message me on FB years later saying she wish she gave me a chance. Women only want the best they can't get. They don't even want the best they can get, case-in-point Tom Brady.
And it makes me sick that we have no leaders in either party, in any church, or anywhere else really trying to fix this problem. Absolutely sick. Men have no future.
The Herd Gotta Be Thinned Out Somehow
In my case, it's because I am so busy working that I don't have time to date anyone. 50-60 hrs a week doesn't leave any time for a social life, let alone a love life.
The fact that both of you could say “my dad said…” and a lot, maybe even the majority, of young boys can’t say that and nobody seems to notice taking fathers out of homes is probably the root cause of this issue is telling and why this and many other issues will not get solved
Perhaps the root cause of single mother-ness is women choosing to get pregnant by men who weren't willing to be in a relationship with them. That, and women divorcing men who were willing to be in a relationship with them for the sake of receiving his child support and the opportunity to pursue relationships with better men.
I think you both have good points but also note that a lot of fathers that did succeed and try to raise their kids well still have hopelessly outdated advice because the world has changed so much in a short time. My dad is socially awkward (diagnosed autistic when that was rare in the 60s) has almost exclusively male hobbies, is quite short 5’6” and has never done anything considered dangerous/exciting in his life yet he has been happily married for nearly 40 years to my mother but the sum total of his advice was “be polite” as if that isn’t the default position of most people anyway. It could be enough for a decent guy 40 years ago to meet somebody that wouldn’t work with literally anybody today and he just doesn’t get it.
@ i very much agree with you on that. The world and honestly the women we deal with today is drastically different from the things our dads, uncles and granddads dealt with. I think this is where someone in the middle like an older brother or male cousin thats a few years older than you but still in your generation is also vital. I had a lot of male older cousins that were a few years older than me and a few friends my age that had older brothers because ya your dad can give general advice like be polite or be a gentleman but your dad and my dad have no idea how to deal with social media or dating apps or 2024 inflation with a 90s and 2000s salary. I always use the example that my dad was a car salesman and my mom was a teacher and they raised me and my sister very well, in a nice neighborhood in a nice house in nice schools and we never had to want for anything but a young family today of a car salesman and teacher with 2 kids wouldn’t be able to afford that same lifestyle in 2024 that I was blessed with in the 90s and 2000s
Looking back through history this might be the single worst time to be a man. I’m 29, 6ft, average looking, white, green eyes and make about 90k a year. The only women interested are either overweight or single mothers. Most attractive women are looking for someone so above me in social status I can’t even compete. And those one or 2 guys get all of the women until they become overweight or single mothers who then go on to pursue me. I’m not going to date a fat, ugly, or ran through single mom so my only option is to die alone. Very depressing
Watched the whole video. Didn't hear an explanation.
Glad I wasn't the only one thinking that
The internet, the internet is the explanation
In the west it’s getting harder if you have not got the attraction or the money you in trouble.
no well off man with date these divorce snipers.
@@puppets.and.muppetsI know I wouldn’t. Even Trump married someone from overseas.😅
I’m short but in good shape and have a handsome face imo.
I have not a lot of money, but more than most in my age group.
Neither work. You have to be problematic to be exciting enough to entertain their attention.
If you’re not dysfunctional and attractive in a criminal physiognomy type way, you’re cooked.
There is nothing to do outside without MONEY, theres nothing to do as a Adult without MONEY. People just have shittier attitudes if you don't have MONEY, no one cares about you unless you show that your making lots of MONEY.
You can find plenty of things to do outside for no more than the price of gas and maybe a few dollars to get into a state park.
Hoeflation.
the gluck gluck gluck 5000 combo.
its more than 2/3. its probably 85%
Well on its way to 90%.
You cannot build a civilization with just the top 10 percenters. They don't have the skills and they don't have the robots, either.
@@mirceazaharia2094 The math is off. Incels are the ones who are 10 or 20 percent.
They're telling themselves they represent most men to feel better about their self-inflicted predicament.
I like this young man. Sharp and on his game.
I'm 66, a lifelong bachelor, not for lack of concerted and good faith effort when I was a younger man, so it is what it is. Still above ground and breathing, and lose no sleep over it.
Still pushing my boulder, and will need to do so until I can't anymore. With the exception of my current employer (Lean Manufacturing/Japanese model, well run, and I'm treated and compensated fairly) I can state unequivocally that virtually every other employer I've ever had acted like street hoodlums, and managed their businesses like frat houses and adult daycares.
Living in a big goofy liberal midwestern city (excluding my traditional faith community, and my immediate family) I both see and come into contact (limited thankfully) with a plethora of older women who dress like teenage girls and act like spoiled children, millennial women who are pretty and fit, but are accompanied by large fierce looking dogs, and their faces are buried into smart phones, and zoomer women who look like 50 year old bag ladies, and are ready to go toe-toe with anyone at the drop of a hat.
While all this is anecdotal, and an old man's purview, my point with all this is that can anyone blame your average young man today for not wanting to work, let alone not wanting to continuously be shot down (with these heathen dating apps) by this current crop of dusty and damaged women.
Marriage is an obsolete concept that has no place in contemporary society. Have the same girl/boyfriend for life, fine. EVERY day you wake up you make a choice to WANT to be together, not the law saying you HAVE to be together. WTH kind of phucked up system is that? Anyone thinking marriage is "good" is either a gold digger (male or female) or an insecure SIMP (male or female). Not to mention the stupid and Antiquated and unfair laws that go along with such a contract. END OF DISCUSSION.
Sorry but some of us actually have morals and religious obligation to marry, not fornicate and produce bastard children.
You don’t get to claim those in favor of marriage without yourself understanding the religious origins of such and the virtues it brings as “simps and gold diggers” then “end discussion” with no blowback. If anything, more marriages would solve many of society’s ills.
Not just about virtues and sex and children. It's also about a partnership - someone to watch your back, take care of you when you get sick. Grow old with you.
@@xCrimsonxTidex And if you look at the historical trends of organized religions, we are overcoming their shekels. Slowly at first, but gaining exponentially.
I tell my boys to never date outside of church.
When you brought up your son, I agreed. I have two of them myself, and they are fantastic. My wife is a good woman who shows my sons what a wife should be: supportive, but there to offer constructive criticism when I need it. Kind, generous of spirit, and not demeaning. In return, I demonstrate to the boys the way to treat a good woman, by being willing to do any one of a million things for her and refusing to allow my sons to treat her badly in addition to being as kind as I can to her feelings. They both get to see that we aren't perfect, that we both make mistakes, and that we each offer grace when the other messes up.
But I fear the world that they are headed into so soon. A world that has treated men as disposable, bumbling morons whose only purpose is to throw themselves at the problems of women without regard to themselves, but are inherently lesser than women. I want them to find happiness in this world and not hurt, but I also know they can't just be sheltered from it. It's the one problem I can't solve.
Honor really doesn’t get you much UNLESS like he stated you find a decent woman raised by other decent people. It’s always been this way.
As a professional single woman I'd be happy to meet a single man who makes less money as long as he tries to work and is willing to work together. The problem I've encountered in my area of rochester ny is that the working class men are into aggressive porn, threesomes, smoking weed or worse and general shallowness (gluttony, gangster music, video games vacations etc) I can't stomach the cultural things they're into. Since I like classical music, sewing, historical reenacting , health food, going to church and other quiet boring things I.m probably going to be single forever. There needs to be more of an effort to allow singles to meet in group settings- in person- like there used to be
I'm a highly educated white collar man and I'm into threesomes too!🤣
But I like classical music and re-enacting and deeper discussions of things like science, economics etc.
I do have to agree with you on the video game culture. Not that playing sometimes is a problem per se, but too many younger guys never seem to grow up past the junior high stage and then wonder why women aren't into them.
Women consume violent seggsual content and prefer violence in the bedroom at FAR higher rates than men. By the data, there's a huge gap between the number of women that want that stuff and the number of men willing.
I didn't know people like you exist. The problem is it's rare. And those rare people don't find each other.
My last relationship was with a girl from Rochester a few years back lol. Crazy bunch. Anyway, wouldn't a traditionally minded Christian man be looking for stay at home wifey energy, as opposed to a professional career woman who he has to compare salaries with?
Studies show women actually like aggressive porn more than men. Fact check me
I've been nonstop trying to find a girl that isnt a POS. And I'm the crazy one trying to find one that isnt worthless. Everyone I know is either married or given up
No disrespect for Rudyard, but the reason men are not in relationships is not dating apps. Dating apps are a symptom. The problem in this in modern world men and women don't 'need' each other. Apps would adapt to the need, I've seen courtship apps in the middle east, they are all about building a family which they 'need'.
Patently false. Humans didn't magically evolve out of being social animals overnight. There's a reason that the failure of relationships is known to be a portent of societal collapse.