I'm going to let everyone on a little secret . Life is too short to be going after your twin flame who says they don't want you , don't want you in their life , or similar. When someone says these things , move on . Wether they secretly do love you is not the point. Life's to short to Be stuck in this painful game with your twin flame.
I'm glad you said that I gave up it ain't worth it I'll work on my flaws but I'll never want her it's like lowering myself to b w someone that wants nothing to do w me. I'll use these tools to heal and give my love to someone who wants it! She says that twin flames have the same DNA 😂 prove it
I disagree with Marry Jane. Your Twin Flame isn’t meant to be the love of your life. They come into your life to shake up your life, awaken you and remind you who you are! They come to trigger you to love yourself first. Just because he put you through a lot doesn’t mean he’s not your TF. Focus on YOU! Don’t expect anything from him.
@@BrainBlissedOut exactly, they love unconditionally and don’t even intend to hurt you. Or break you, they’re here to break you free. I no longer need love from others, because we’re individually already enough.
Let me tell y'all something. If you are dealing with a REAL twin flame, you would never ever ever want to cut the chord with them. That person would be the other half of your soul. Can you imagine ever feeling anything but perfectly at home with that person? That's the sign of a true twin flame relationship. If you are having a bad time with your person, they are a FALSE twin flame. End of story. The person is a soulmate and that is why you are so connected to them. If you CAN make it work with them, do it, since they are a soulmate, after all. If not, just move on and perhaps you will find another soulmate or just a great person for you, afterwards. True twin flames are exceedingly rare in the universe and your false TF is here to help you learn lessons you need to learn. Thank them for that and send them on there way.
Yup, just accept your tf in your heart and let go. Don't ever try to use your mental power to block the love. It wouldn't work and it's a terrible mistake.
It’s impossible not to hurt them back if they hurt you because you’re a mirror soul. If they take your happiness away because they’re happy alone, they won’t be happy because you aren’t and you’re linked.
@@crownedspirit472 This is old… It’s complicated. Don’t hold on to the negative emotions, yours or your tf’s that you feel. Forget about the mirror thing, just accept the pain surface from time to time, and search for your own happiness. You can only take care your own heart.
Your lighthearted joking gave me a little relief. Nobody understands that it's truly impossible to seperate your twin from yourself, i often say marrying someone else will be lieing to myself when i can't even imagine being touched by another. I'm content on my own, so far so good but whenever i think about the past and how things went down while at the same time thinking about the future that's unknown yet still devoid i get depressed and start running away from my own love and truth, i hear my higher self say in those times "who are you running from? The truth? Him? Or yourself?" Its a hard pill to swallow alright!
Non of this works!!! U just need to move on, be busy with your life, have good friends, look for new connections, Which don’t seem to happen the same way and seem to be virtually impossible 🤦🏻♀️ but u can’t focus on your self, that’s the hardest thing to do. What is the meaning of focusing on your self, when your twin over powers your brain all day long. I think it’s best to release this person from your heart somehow because if u have love in ur heart for ever, your next relationship won’t be real, won’t be as meaningful. You will always think of ur twin flame, and u will not be happy in your marriage.
Been on this journey for 5 yrs and I’m fed up. I just keep doing better for myself and the only thing that is keeping me in this situation is my obsessive thoughts! I know I have to accept what is and learn to live with it and not let my thoughts absorb me but it’s tough so so fuking tough.
Patience is a huge thing in a tf journey. It is indeed a super tough journey. The dark night of the soul, the obsessive thinking. You feel like you are losing your mind. It’s all about trusting the universe, you let go of any low vibration…
FOR ALL YOU SUFFERING: I KNOE YOU THINK YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MOVE ON AND LITERALLY NOT WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE BUT AFTER 1,5 YR AND CLOSURE WHICH HE WAS KIND TO GIVE ME, I AM THE MOST FREE THE HAPPIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD ! YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. My dark night of the soul led me to suicidal attempt, i was laying on the floor every day for 2 months. YOU CAN DO IT!
I been on this journey for going on three years....I tryed everything...and nope nothing works...he’s in me around me ...he is me...what I try to do is balance both of our energies to keep my mind at peace
Back in communication with him, he tried to start the relationship with me and failed. I can’t be with a man that is married including my twin. Is self respect, I just can offer him a friendship nothing else.
We don't encourage affairs. But blame and guilt is never the answer if it happens. Twin flames are meant to be together, and twins having an affair both often share that it never felt wrong for them. So that's because it isn't wrong at the core. The marriages with non-twins are "wrong" and feel like that once you meet your twin. The key is being honest with yourself and people close to you.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit I absolutely agree. I had an affair and it never felt wrong, it only felt beautifully right. He is still married and I can’t be with anyone else because it feels so wrong. My soul doesn’t want anyone but him. When I have tried to be with other people it has felt like I have been raped it has felt so wrong. I am letting go of all my egotistical expectations, forgiving myself for wanting my perfect partner and the rest is up to the divine.
Twin flames are not « meant to be together ». You can be together in the 3D, if it happens naturally. But their main purpose is to awaken you to who you truly are. Don’t hold on to the hope of being with your TF in the physical. If they’re married, respect that, and their spouse. Let it go. Love yourself.
I tried to reconnect with my twin flame after a while of seperation even though i was the one that made that seperation cuz he was not trustworthy , and our relationship was leading nowhere , but when i tried to reconnect oh god , life slapped me with no mercy so i really wanna move on and dont stay stuck on the incompleted story of ours.
so helpful, also reading the comments very informative and help me feel less alone. i cant imagine being with someone else and the realisation that we may not make it to union - and wondering how my life will not feel like a train wreck forever more if that is the case. i have always been very independent and i cant stand the feeling that i am at the mercy of another in this situation - and the stagnation etc. i have done 2.5 years of this and cannot bear the thought of decades of it...i agree with the sentiment that focusing on myself seems like the sanest option at this point.
Twin flame has been the worst experience ever 😪 I'm no fool when it concerns logic. I've never been so sure about someone EVER in my life that everything in my was transforming. It started off with me not expecting anything! just a conversation.. and she shut me down! But that made my interest stronger. Then it came to me that I was intrigued by her energy and that I could feel it.. by this time, I found myself drunk on her energy, literally on the verge of stalker levels. She changed jobs, and then I miraculously walked into her new workplace 🤦 Then I said to myself I have to call it quits because I don't wanna get arrested 🤭 Still to this day ( 3 yrs later..), I have moved on, been in another situation until that failed (because my heart was not the same), and I can still see her vividly when my eyes are closed and feel her energy. How would you decode this situation?
I think most of us in these comments are OVER our twin. Many of us dont need or even want them anymore. My thing is I cant stop thinking about the hurt and pain he caused me. I desperately just wanna get over that and move on. I am grateful for him flinging me into my dark night of the soul. Now I just wanna get the pain he caused me out of my mind and focus soley on my journey of self.
My detachment came… when he “came back” (HE tried hanging on at the end for months, even though he’s the runner), two and a half years after separation, and I saw that he hadn’t changed. I know my worth, but I had to remember my worth, even with someone who was the moon and stars to me. He didn’t cheat or abuse, he just ran, he abandoned me, he rejected me. I’ll love him through every lifetime, and I know he’ll love me through every lifetime too, but in this life, I have to let him go, for my growth and his. I can never entertain him again. Ever. Even casually. I have to sit with what’s left of my grieve, bundle up alllll that authentic, raw beautiful love he gave me and learn my remaining lessons.
Ahh I posted about having inner peace on my social media, and he finally blocked me (even though we weren't friends.) It took him 6 months but I think he figured out what he is suppose to be doing LOL! I love your coaching!!
omg how can you be that strong? my twin is so ashamed of himself that my heart is aching, I don't want him anymore and that's also painful to him, I'm so tired lol
Yes...this is my problem...that I always feel him. I want to move on and want to be with my soul mate...but even though my ego successfully can ignore him...I still can feel that my soul and heart longing for his soul... So how to mute this longing? Because its really exhausting and no able to move on like this with my life to a new relationship. Also sometimes feels like an other soul cry in mine. 🤔😬
So trying to forget him is wrong. The best option is to focus on yourself and that way it will go, or it will come back because he was always yours? I've been doing therapy, meditation, I am happy professionally now and he is still all over me but not coming back WTF this is painful!
I would rather chop of my leg 🦵 or better yet be locked 🔒 in a mid-evil torture device rather than having a “twin flame 🔥 connection.” I rather have a non-crazy soul connection; no runners 🏃♀️💨 or chasers just easy breezy. But nooooo this up/down in/out dynamic. If I could stop dreaming of him and control my mind/soul from feeling him I would bloody do it in a heartbeat. But unfortunately I have no control over this “thing” it feels like a curse from hell. We dated 25 years ago for a couple of years; he contacted me through Linkden a year ago, our connection/souls still tied . He’s married and we chatted off/on for a year. Then it blew up.... hell on earth 🌍
I’ve seen comments about people thinking for years I can’t imagine that and I feel so deeply for these people 🥺 for me it’s been 5 weeks and I just want to move on I don’t even know if it’s my twin and I would try a spell if it works !
Helpful thoughts! Thank you :) I think that I knew this somehow, but it was great to hear it from someone else as a confirmation of what i've already known deep down.../hm. it also means or i think it quite shows that i don't really value myself enough or believe myself enough and need external validation of my thoughts...well, i need to work on that probably, but anyways....any video, advice, thoughts about what to do to stop doing these "obssesive things" which don't even make sense and do things that actually help me + use that time for myself instead? I mean: is there something I can do except for reminding myself those things you've talked about (that he is always with me etc.) ??
Thanks 😊 I love your videos. Please share more about if you are at a certain age that you want to have children but you can't be with someone else, and you don’t know anything about your lost twin 😰
I moved away from him since long years a go, I did not want to see him online so I block him but the truth is he never gone from my mind n that makes me frustrating really don't want to see him still makes me to see him I did my best to forget him but couldn't still, now I really don't know how to get rid of him
I am only here for the comments because I know that if you meet your real twin flame you can't separate from them. if you can that's not a real twin flame. I did try to separate from my twin we both tried because we live a long distance from each other. let's tell you that if you going to do it you going to suffer and as someone who passed it's terrible you going to have heart pain your heart will want to be with your twin. twin flame is god/universe work unfortantily we sign on this twin flame journey before we are born. so Instead of blaming your twin, start fixing yourself and see how everything will change, you are the same soul, and as soon as you change yourself, your twin changes too.
Embrace the love that you feel for them And let it transform you into the person You are supposed to become -Indy RA (Idk why I've got this poem inside my heart I actually came here to try to forget him I still wanna do that with all that is in me But I also know that love is really powerful And it has already saved my life The love that I feel for him I'm just gonna leave it here x)
So, do you think that after 11 years, he will finally want to talk to me? No, after all this time, it is very doubtful. I'm moving on, maybe next life he'll get it together. This life is a no-show. I have to take care of myself and let him do the same.
@Thorben M. We met in 1969. We were best friends. He told me he was going to die from leukemia, so we made a plan to meet in his next life. We chose the country, city and occupation. He died in 1970. We met again in the same town, in the same country with the same occupation 40 years later. After 6 months working together he refused to talk to me. He was afraid of his feelings toward me. He is Arab, he lives next door to his parents, they don't want him to be gay. If me doing inner work can fix that - cool. But after 11 years I don't think he can pull away from his upbringing. I stated my feelings, was threatened and had to place boundaries, because I respect and love myself. Now, it's time to move on. If he can come around and find the nerve to talk to me - maybe we can have a new start. Personally, I'm not holding my breath - next life seems more likely. Thank you for helping.
mine only comes back when im happy and not thinking about them... its been 8 months second separation I feel closer to them now that we aren't speaking. I have this revelation the past month when I started getting info on twin flames. it sucks how after you reflect on the connection and kinda see where things go wrong. it makes you feel more forgiveness but at the same time ill never forget the rejection and hurt they put me through. I have too much anger I hope one day I will finally forget.
How can you get yourself to be happy living alone? That sounds impossible, I feel like I'll be complacent at best but never truly happy. I also find it a bit annoying when people say "just look for love in someone else"... If we could replace our twin flame so easily, that bond is not that special then... And you can't get that kind of love from just anyone else.
Hey so I wanted to ask you this there are a lot of videos on numerology where they say that your soul urge and life path is same as your twinflame is that true?
@@MsMGreen777 nope its not necessary to have same life path or soul urge numbers as your twin because sometimes you are sent to this earth for different life purposes and thats why separation is also one of the necessary factor.
every single tarot card i'm reading about him says he's my twin flame but he's toxic and is consuming and draining my energy and life source!!! i was doing so well before he came into my life. this is NOT a twin flame. i am just so done with this spiritual bullshit
You and your twin flame were originally one soul, divided (at the time of Adam and Eve) into a male half and a female half. One of the goals of our journey through out the ages is to reunite those two halves. Why would you want that to end? You would be incomplete for everlasting! (...and so would your twin--very cruel!)
I'm not telling you how to live your life!! ;) This process is unique for everyone, follow your heart and intuition. You'll know what feels right and what doesn't.
The reason you shouldn’t is because if they do finish their journey and are ready to meet at the final destination both living in inner peace. And they meet you, you’re attached and stuck with another person.
I’ve started to focus on myself more and more and I do not desire to be with him. I honestly don’t even like who he is at this present moment. But I do get irritated by the constant signals that I get like seeing his name all the time. If I say I don’t like him does that say something about me? Lol that might be a silly question but idk. I love him but I don’t like him. I do feel him with me but I can’t lie that sometimes I get annoyed by it lol.
Mine has been for eight years. I tried everything. Now it is insane. I have been in a relationship for 6 years with someone else. I have not stalked him at all. In fact I have walked away several times. Now at the end ready to walk away again. We are in random communication you would say.
but how can you cut the cord (or at least squeeze it enough) to stop the random emotions that come in? (you just said that lol.) but i feel her everyday. i may go a month or so without feeling too much but then i’ll start to cry out of the blue. so random. and it’s sooooo her. any and all emotions and this is 10 years into separation. we’re both still single but there will be no union. she ran first and i chased like a foolish teenager. and looking back, who would want that? i try to let go and live. rinse and repeat. just felt intense sensations and had to look this up again. the twin is within. i no longer want her in the physical but i sure would like to have peace so i could forget her (now you just said “peace” :) ) i’ll always love her. but i don’t want her. i only want peace. but with the random emotions like heartache here lately, i just want relief. “you can’t move on” but i’ll try as i know union will never happen and after 10 years, i would love to find another twin that’s in the same boat im in
Yeah, i was considering the same. Like, im so tired i want a love/sex live, and i cant have that with a twin flame, but i learned its impossible to cut the cord, so i feel trapped and depressed.
No but you should be reassuring people and giving them a decent bit of advice if they are in a twin flame relationship that is making them miserable both of them being miserable maybe it was the wrong time in for them to be connected but if you are in a toxic twin flame relationship and are going through domestic abuse of physical abuse no that is not right you'll have to go within meditate and release that way
If there is malaciousness or toxicity, it's not twin flame. Also, all is as it should be so there is no such thing as wrong timing - the universe plans things exactly as they should happen and we review & agree to it all prior to incarnation.
So, u are saying not to get married with someone else, not to have a family and wait for 5-10 years to someone who ran away like scared dog??? Because divorce rate is high????
Why is it dangerous? I cord cut all the time, every little thing, jobs, people that no longer serve me, my little home etc, And then I make my own cord to things that I do want. For instance, I want a job that makes me very successful, so I imagine a job and I put a cord to it. I imagine a beautiful lovely house, and I put a cord attached to me to it, etc. And it works. It isn’t black magic, it is just energy. Everything is just energy. because I sincerely believe that if it is meant to be, it will always come back. That is how the universe works. My faith in God (universe) lets me know everything happens in divine order and timing.
@@jmarie7405 most of these people don't give any steps but rather talk in circles. It's obnoxious as some of us are looking for actual techniques. It seems like they're more about promoting their paid programs rather than providing info.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit So if you can't get rid of then, where is your video on how to get married? I mean I am in therapy to heal and I hope one day that I could love someone else, but I don't want to think of that now. It's been since November, I hope in like 5 years, I will be okay. Are you saying because we know we found our twin, we could never marry? I am confused about all this. I am taking good care of me. I am trying my best. I am doing good things, but I always look around the corner and wonder why I can't see him...
Thankyou I wasn’t expecting to be a Twin flame I don’t like certain things. Even I still want to be with my Girlfriend can twin flames become Soulmate.
When I deactivate my social media I breath better. I know he lives to stalk me, but expects me to put up with less than I deserve and be the chaser. It will never happen. It was draining. I pray we can shake eachother as it's not healthy.
@@Witchyrose2349 I mean if you want to get out of the twin flame journey, it means you forgot why you came here and you still have healing to do because if you got to a place where you were mostly healed, it wouldn't be painful. I'm not there yet but compared to 5 months ago, I've healed most of my blocks and I no longer cry for him
Idk why anyone would want to get rid of their twin flame. It didn't work because you got to figure out what to do to wake them up. You didn't try hard enough you didn't do all the work or take all the steps. This makes me sad.
@@marissatemotio1320 yes. Meditate and do the spiritual work. You heal yourself you heal them . Your twin flame mirrors you. You can literally do the work for them. By healing you you heal them. Be positive. Get rid of all negativity.
@@knepp00865 Yea…Mine doubled the negative energy by betraying me, she told me I didn’t do anything wrong. It was the principle of being someone else as well and such that makes her feel as not unique or like she can’t be herself or happy. Even though we’re the same not copy’s we’re equally as unique and special, i told her that but she was cold. Saying some passive aggressive stuff which set me off to call her a disgusting narcissist, for manipulating and using me for her happiness then backstabbing me while leaving/abandoning me. To take the energy for herself. That seemed to make her break down but we blocked each other from there. I unblocked what i call the dark star chakra, which shows you dark truths and lessons to go through in order to fulfil your life and inner peace and get enlightened through that. So i guess that’s why i said what i said and continued mirroring negative energy without online contact. But i stopped because i had a burn out and now i had enough, so i’m working on myself. Burning my ego away. (Srry for the long message)
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I'm going to let everyone on a little secret .
Life is too short to be going after your twin flame who says they don't want you ,
don't want you in their life , or similar.
When someone says these things , move on .
Wether they secretly do love you is not the point. Life's to short to
Be stuck in this painful game with your twin flame.
It's about you finding your true self and your self-love. It's not about them, waiting for them.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit sure , but you say that , then contradict what you say .
Agreed im done I want out
I'll second that, wasted years.
Wrote in haste, from a hurting heart.
👀 Everywhere me thinks😂
Could never give up on my DM
I'm glad you said that I gave up it ain't worth it I'll work on my flaws but I'll never want her it's like lowering myself to b w someone that wants nothing to do w me. I'll use these tools to heal and give my love to someone who wants it! She says that twin flames have the same DNA 😂 prove it
The saddest fact that i’m watching this video to get rid of him he made me go through a lot instead of it being the love of the life
He wasn’t it
I disagree with Marry Jane. Your Twin Flame isn’t meant to be the love of your life. They come into your life to shake up your life, awaken you and remind you who you are! They come to trigger you to love yourself first. Just because he put you through a lot doesn’t mean he’s not your TF. Focus on YOU! Don’t expect anything from him.
@@BrainBlissedOut exactly, they love unconditionally and don’t even intend to hurt you. Or break you, they’re here to break you free. I no longer need love from others, because we’re individually already enough.
They appear to make you understand love not to be with you.
@@dudahmlbut this is so painful. I wish he never came to my life if it was not to stay
I'm not even in pain anymore I'm not need nor stalking
I just wanna stop talking to him constantly in my head🤣🤣🤣
Let me tell y'all something. If you are dealing with a REAL twin flame, you would never ever ever want to cut the chord with them. That person would be the other half of your soul. Can you imagine ever feeling anything but perfectly at home with that person? That's the sign of a true twin flame relationship. If you are having a bad time with your person, they are a FALSE twin flame. End of story. The person is a soulmate and that is why you are so connected to them. If you CAN make it work with them, do it, since they are a soulmate, after all. If not, just move on and perhaps you will find another soulmate or just a great person for you, afterwards. True twin flames are exceedingly rare in the universe and your false TF is here to help you learn lessons you need to learn. Thank them for that and send them on there way.
I just read the comment and omg! Happy to know that i’m not the only one going through this horrible thing
😔😂😭
Yup, just accept your tf in your heart and let go. Don't ever try to use your mental power to block the love. It wouldn't work and it's a terrible mistake.
It’s impossible not to hurt them back if they hurt you because you’re a mirror soul. If they take your happiness away because they’re happy alone, they won’t be happy because you aren’t and you’re linked.
@@crownedspirit472 This is old…
It’s complicated. Don’t hold on to the negative emotions, yours or your tf’s that you feel. Forget about the mirror thing, just accept the pain surface from time to time, and search for your own happiness. You can only take care your own heart.
@@crownedspirit472So why after years I can’t stop loving him and I am deeply suffering and he is now very happy in another relationship?
Your lighthearted joking gave me a little relief. Nobody understands that it's truly impossible to seperate your twin from yourself, i often say marrying someone else will be lieing to myself when i can't even imagine being touched by another. I'm content on my own, so far so good but whenever i think about the past and how things went down while at the same time thinking about the future that's unknown yet still devoid i get depressed and start running away from my own love and truth, i hear my higher self say in those times "who are you running from? The truth? Him? Or yourself?" Its a hard pill to swallow alright!
Non of this works!!! U just need to move on, be busy with your life, have good friends, look for new connections, Which don’t seem to happen the same way and seem to be virtually impossible 🤦🏻♀️ but u can’t focus on your self, that’s the hardest thing to do. What is the meaning of focusing on your self, when your twin over powers your brain all day long. I think it’s best to release this person from your heart somehow because if u have love in ur heart for ever, your next relationship won’t be real, won’t be as meaningful. You will always think of ur twin flame, and u will not be happy in your marriage.
Exactly I just want it to go away seriousñy
Been on this journey for 5 yrs and I’m fed up. I just keep doing better for myself and the only thing that is keeping me in this situation is my obsessive thoughts! I know I have to accept what is and learn to live with it and not let my thoughts absorb me but it’s tough so so fuking tough.
Be patient with yourself. Step by step. You're being perfectly guided.
Patience is a huge thing in a tf journey. It is indeed a super tough journey. The dark night of the soul, the obsessive thinking. You feel like you are losing your mind. It’s all about trusting the universe, you let go of any low vibration…
@@nicolasjurado3289until when? How many years until I can live a normal life
FOR ALL YOU SUFFERING: I KNOE YOU THINK YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MOVE ON AND LITERALLY NOT WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE BUT AFTER 1,5 YR AND CLOSURE WHICH HE WAS KIND TO GIVE ME, I AM THE MOST FREE THE HAPPIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD ! YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. My dark night of the soul led me to suicidal attempt, i was laying on the floor every day for 2 months. YOU CAN DO IT!
How you came out this situation I realy needed to know
I been on this journey for going on three years....I tryed everything...and nope nothing works...he’s in me around me ...he is me...what I try to do is balance both of our energies to keep my mind at peace
You probably haven't come accross the right approach to this relationship yet. Until now. ;)
Back in communication with him, he tried to start the relationship with me and failed. I can’t be with a man that is married including my twin. Is self respect, I just can offer him a friendship nothing else.
Good for you! I see too many who don't care because it's their twin so they make excuses for being with a married person.
We don't encourage affairs. But blame and guilt is never the answer if it happens. Twin flames are meant to be together, and twins having an affair both often share that it never felt wrong for them. So that's because it isn't wrong at the core. The marriages with non-twins are "wrong" and feel like that once you meet your twin. The key is being honest with yourself and people close to you.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit I absolutely agree. I had an affair and it never felt wrong, it only felt beautifully right. He is still married and I can’t be with anyone else because it feels so wrong. My soul doesn’t want anyone but him. When I have tried to be with other people it has felt like I have been raped it has felt so wrong. I am letting go of all my egotistical expectations, forgiving myself for wanting my perfect partner and the rest is up to the divine.
@@katrinaemily6601 my situation is similar married man for 40 years it lasted 7 months I broke it off - I couldn’t be the ‘other woman’ in his life!
Twin flames are not « meant to be together ». You can be together in the 3D, if it happens naturally. But their main purpose is to awaken you to who you truly are. Don’t hold on to the hope of being with your TF in the physical. If they’re married, respect that, and their spouse. Let it go. Love yourself.
He replaced me very quickly, I feel him less but I think of him constantly. SIGH
I tried to reconnect with my twin flame after a while of seperation even though i was the one that made that seperation cuz he was not trustworthy , and our relationship was leading nowhere , but when i tried to reconnect oh god , life slapped me with no mercy so i really wanna move on and dont stay stuck on the incompleted story of ours.
This video irritated me more then my twin flame... 😒😒😒😒
That can be a good thing. ;)
Yh I agree lol
so helpful, also reading the comments very informative and help me feel less alone. i cant imagine being with someone else and the realisation that we may not make it to union - and wondering how my life will not feel like a train wreck forever more if that is the case. i have always been very independent and i cant stand the feeling that i am at the mercy of another in this situation - and the stagnation etc. i have done 2.5 years of this and cannot bear the thought of decades of it...i agree with the sentiment that focusing on myself seems like the sanest option at this point.
Twin flame has been the worst experience ever 😪 I'm no fool when it concerns logic. I've never been so sure about someone EVER in my life that everything in my was transforming. It started off with me not expecting anything! just a conversation.. and she shut me down! But that made my interest stronger. Then it came to me that I was intrigued by her energy and that I could feel it.. by this time, I found myself drunk on her energy, literally on the verge of stalker levels. She changed jobs, and then I miraculously walked into her new workplace 🤦 Then I said to myself I have to call it quits because I don't wanna get arrested 🤭 Still to this day ( 3 yrs later..), I have moved on, been in another situation until that failed (because my heart was not the same), and I can still see her vividly when my eyes are closed and feel her energy.
How would you decode this situation?
I think most of us in these comments are OVER our twin. Many of us dont need or even want them anymore. My thing is I cant stop thinking about the hurt and pain he caused me. I desperately just wanna get over that and move on. I am grateful for him flinging me into my dark night of the soul. Now I just wanna get the pain he caused me out of my mind and focus soley on my journey of self.
Try to see that in truth, he didn't cause you pain, you were both just unable to handle such a big love. Hope that helps.
Thank you, I had a blast as well. Right now I'm seriously considering sacrificing my iguana and I hope it works! Because 7 kids are not an option. 🤣
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😂😂😱oh nooo I hope the iguana 🦎 made it through ! 🙏🏻🤭
Honestly, my twin was just another rejection. I'll get over that eventually.
My detachment came… when he “came back” (HE tried hanging on at the end for months, even though he’s the runner), two and a half years after separation, and I saw that he hadn’t changed. I know my worth, but I had to remember my worth, even with someone who was the moon and stars to me. He didn’t cheat or abuse, he just ran, he abandoned me, he rejected me. I’ll love him through every lifetime, and I know he’ll love me through every lifetime too, but in this life, I have to let him go, for my growth and his. I can never entertain him again. Ever. Even casually. I have to sit with what’s left of my grieve, bundle up alllll that authentic, raw beautiful love he gave me and learn my remaining lessons.
When you said “realizing he or she is already with you” made me see this differently.
I love my Twinflame unconditionally ❤
Ahh I posted about having inner peace on my social media, and he finally blocked me (even though we weren't friends.) It took him 6 months but I think he figured out what he is suppose to be doing LOL! I love your coaching!!
omg how can you be that strong? my twin is so ashamed of himself that my heart is aching, I don't want him anymore and that's also painful to him, I'm so tired lol
My cat lost one of his whiskers, can I use that as an offering? 😅
Yes...this is my problem...that I always feel him. I want to move on and want to be with my soul mate...but even though my ego successfully can ignore him...I still can feel that my soul and heart longing for his soul... So how to mute this longing? Because its really exhausting and no able to move on like this with my life to a new relationship. Also sometimes feels like an other soul cry in mine. 🤔😬
The only way out is in! ;)
The worst thing that happened to me in my life was meeting my twin flame..😡😡
Can someone marry a soulmate after let go of tf? Isn't there a guilty feeling to have soulmate relationship when I have deep heart connection with tf?
So trying to forget him is wrong. The best option is to focus on yourself and that way it will go, or it will come back because he was always yours? I've been doing therapy, meditation, I am happy professionally now and he is still all over me but not coming back WTF this is painful!
I would rather chop of my leg 🦵 or better yet be locked 🔒 in a mid-evil torture device rather than having a “twin flame 🔥 connection.”
I rather have a non-crazy soul connection; no runners 🏃♀️💨 or chasers just easy breezy.
But nooooo this up/down in/out dynamic. If I could stop dreaming of him and control my mind/soul from feeling him I would bloody do it in a heartbeat. But unfortunately I have no control over this “thing” it feels like a curse from hell.
We dated 25 years ago for a couple of years; he contacted me through Linkden a year ago, our connection/souls still tied . He’s married and we chatted off/on for a year. Then it blew up.... hell on earth 🌍
Yeah, circumstances often aren't easy...
I’ve seen comments about people thinking for years I can’t imagine that and I feel so deeply for these people 🥺 for me it’s been 5 weeks and I just want to move on I don’t even know if it’s my twin and I would try a spell if it works !
Helpful thoughts! Thank you :) I think that I knew this somehow, but it was great to hear it from someone else as a confirmation of what i've already known deep down.../hm. it also means or i think it quite shows that i don't really value myself enough or believe myself enough and need external validation of my thoughts...well, i need to work on that probably, but anyways....any video, advice, thoughts about what to do to stop doing these "obssesive things" which don't even make sense and do things that actually help me + use that time for myself instead? I mean: is there something I can do except for reminding myself those things you've talked about (that he is always with me etc.) ??
Thanks 😊 I love your videos. Please share more about if you are at a certain age that you want to have children but you can't be with someone else, and you don’t know anything about your lost twin 😰
Thank you, your videos are so comforting during this time 💕
Lmfao it’s only been about a month & a half and baby I’m done ✅ ain’t no way I was meant to be with him 😂😂😂😂
I moved away from him since long years a go, I did not want to see him online so I block him but the truth is he never gone from my mind n that makes me frustrating really don't want to see him still makes me to see him I did my best to forget him but couldn't still, now I really don't know how to get rid of him
I am only here for the comments because I know that if you meet your real twin flame you can't separate from them. if you can that's not a real twin flame. I did try to separate from my twin we both tried because we live a long distance from each other. let's tell you that if you going to do it you going to suffer and as someone who passed it's terrible you going to have heart pain your heart will want to be with your twin. twin flame is god/universe work unfortantily we sign on this twin flame journey before we are born. so Instead of blaming your twin, start fixing yourself and see how everything will change, you are the same soul, and as soon as you change yourself, your twin changes too.
Embrace the love that you feel for them
And let it transform you into the person
You are supposed to become
-Indy RA
(Idk why I've got this poem inside my heart
I actually came here to try to forget him
I still wanna do that with all that is in me
But I also know that love is really powerful
And it has already saved my life
The love that I feel for him
I'm just gonna leave it here x)
Love it, thank you.
Damn, another one where the answer is basically "you can't." 🤣
This is hilarious omg I died!! 🤣🤣 I’m m so glad I’m not in fricking jail right about now!! 😩🤣🤣
Listening to u is really made my day, the way u explain things is super interesting n cute 😄
Thank you my dear!
He is in my energy
So, do you think that after 11 years, he will finally want to talk to me?
No, after all this time, it is very doubtful.
I'm moving on, maybe next life he'll get it together.
This life is a no-show. I have to take care of myself and let him do the same.
You can give up or learn to understand what he's showing you regarding your own blocks to love, and heal them. 😉
@@TwinFlameSpyrit I'm not the one refusing to communicate. He knows very well I'm willing to talk at any time. His parents don't want him to be gay.
@Thorben M. We met in 1969. We were best friends. He told me he was going to die from leukemia, so we made a plan to meet in his next life. We chose the country, city and occupation. He died in 1970. We met again in the same town, in the same country with the same occupation 40 years later. After 6 months working together he refused to talk to me. He was afraid of his feelings toward me.
He is Arab, he lives next door to his parents, they don't want him to be gay. If me doing inner work can fix that - cool. But after 11 years I don't think he can pull away from his upbringing. I stated my feelings, was threatened and had to place boundaries, because I respect and love myself.
Now, it's time to move on. If he can come around and find the nerve to talk to me - maybe we can have a new start. Personally, I'm not holding my breath - next life seems more likely.
Thank you for helping.
@Thorben M. Maybe the universe has it's own way of doing things... who knows.
Best of luck!
mine only comes back when im happy and not thinking about them... its been 8 months second separation I feel closer to them now that we aren't speaking. I have this revelation the past month when I started getting info on twin flames. it sucks how after you reflect on the connection and kinda see where things go wrong. it makes you feel more forgiveness but at the same time ill never forget the rejection and hurt they put me through. I have too much anger I hope one day I will finally forget.
Girl I love you so much!
You are amazing... idk how but this think I know from afterlife.. thanks so much... they never loved me. But that's is was is.
I need something that really works like I really want to let go of this guy I'm tired
The problem is I just want to forget about him. 😢
I needed this today
How can you get yourself to be happy living alone? That sounds impossible, I feel like I'll be complacent at best but never truly happy.
I also find it a bit annoying when people say "just look for love in someone else"... If we could replace our twin flame so easily, that bond is not that special then... And you can't get that kind of love from just anyone else.
Hey so I wanted to ask you this there are a lot of videos on numerology where they say that your soul urge and life path is same as your twinflame is that true?
Dunno.... Not important.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit How is that not important?. it is, the universe speaks only in signs and numerology.
Yes, it is true. Life paths equal yours or his is your twin
@@MsMGreen777 nope its not necessary to have same life path or soul urge numbers as your twin because sometimes you are sent to this earth for different life purposes and thats why separation is also one of the necessary factor.
That doesn’t mean anything
Thank you so much especially for the Jokes 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
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i need this so bad it makes me cry
every single tarot card i'm reading about him says he's my twin flame but he's toxic and is consuming and draining my energy and life source!!! i was doing so well before he came into my life. this is NOT a twin flame. i am just so done with this spiritual bullshit
Thank you so much. I think you're funny, and it's helped so much. Xx
You and your twin flame were originally one soul, divided (at the time of Adam and Eve) into a male half and a female half. One of the goals of our journey through out the ages is to reunite those two halves. Why would you want that to end? You would be incomplete for everlasting! (...and so would your twin--very cruel!)
Pls help me i need to detach my twinflame
So if we can't be with our twin flame and you said we shouldn't marry someone else, does that mean we are to remain alone forever?
I'm not telling you how to live your life!! ;) This process is unique for everyone, follow your heart and intuition. You'll know what feels right and what doesn't.
The reason you shouldn’t is because if they do finish their journey and are ready to meet at the final destination both living in inner peace. And they meet you, you’re attached and stuck with another person.
Want to know how can I forget about my twin flame
I’ve started to focus on myself more and more and I do not desire to be with him. I honestly don’t even like who he is at this present moment. But I do get irritated by the constant signals that I get like seeing his name all the time.
If I say I don’t like him does that say something about me? Lol that might be a silly question but idk. I love him but I don’t like him. I do feel him with me but I can’t lie that sometimes I get annoyed by it lol.
Mine has been for eight years. I tried everything. Now it is insane. I have been in a relationship for 6 years with someone else. I have not stalked him at all. In fact I have walked away several times. Now at the end ready to walk away again. We are in random communication you would say.
LOVE YOU SWEETHEART.......GOD BLESS.....STAY SAFE!!!!!!!!!!
but how can you cut the cord (or at least squeeze it enough) to stop the random emotions that come in? (you just said that lol.) but i feel her everyday. i may go a month or so without feeling too much but then i’ll start to cry out of the blue. so random. and it’s sooooo her. any and all emotions and this is 10 years into separation. we’re both still single but there will be no union. she ran first and i chased like a foolish teenager. and looking back, who would want that? i try to let go and live. rinse and repeat. just felt intense sensations and had to look this up again. the twin is within. i no longer want her in the physical but i sure would like to have peace so i could forget her (now you just said “peace” :) ) i’ll always love her. but i don’t want her. i only want peace. but with the random emotions like heartache here lately, i just want relief. “you can’t move on” but i’ll try as i know union will never happen and after 10 years, i would love to find another twin that’s in the same boat im in
I just got this stupid thing dropped on me and this guys ruined my life
I was seriously considering cutting cords cause i’m just tired.. but I don’t want to cause any bad karma from the universe if I do that..
It’ll make the connection stronger
Yeah, i was considering the same. Like, im so tired i want a love/sex live, and i cant have that with a twin flame, but i learned its impossible to cut the cord, so i feel trapped and depressed.
No but you should be reassuring people and giving them a decent bit of advice if they are in a twin flame relationship that is making them miserable both of them being miserable maybe it was the wrong time in for them to be connected but if you are in a toxic twin flame relationship and are going through domestic abuse of physical abuse no that is not right you'll have to go within meditate and release that way
If there is malaciousness or toxicity, it's not twin flame. Also, all is as it should be so there is no such thing as wrong timing - the universe plans things exactly as they should happen and we review & agree to it all prior to incarnation.
Lol love this video . Bitter sweet 🤍⭐️
So, u are saying not to get married with someone else, not to have a family and wait for 5-10 years to someone who ran away like scared dog??? Because divorce rate is high????
“Sacrifice an animal” 😂
What's true happiness if they won't be with you?? At least you ste with someone
so if I can't marry someone else or move on with someone else, what is the other path? live single forever?
Of course you can :)
Cutting cords to twin flames is dangerous.
Not sure it's dangerous, but it doesn't work, as they are you.
Why is it dangerous? I cord cut all the time, every little thing, jobs, people that no longer serve me, my little home etc, And then I make my own cord to things that I do want. For instance, I want a job that makes me very successful, so I imagine a job and I put a cord to it. I imagine a beautiful lovely house, and I put a cord attached to me to it, etc. And it works. It isn’t black magic, it is just energy. Everything is just energy. because I sincerely believe that if it is meant to be, it will always come back. That is how the universe works. My faith in God (universe) lets me know everything happens in divine order and timing.
I’m looking for new love
Thank you : )
Yes but the person is in your bed with you not in a dream,, makes no sence for me
I don't know if it's just me but I'm.struggling to find the actual advice on how to do this from this video
You can't really get rid of your twin...
@@TwinFlameSpyrit I don't know what to do anymore. I feel trapped.
@@jmarie7405 most of these people don't give any steps but rather talk in circles. It's obnoxious as some of us are looking for actual techniques. It seems like they're more about promoting their paid programs rather than providing info.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit So if you can't get rid of then, where is your video on how to get married? I mean I am in therapy to heal and I hope one day that I could love someone else, but I don't want to think of that now. It's been since November, I hope in like 5 years, I will be okay. Are you saying because we know we found our twin, we could never marry? I am confused about all this. I am taking good care of me. I am trying my best. I am doing good things, but I always look around the corner and wonder why I can't see him...
Do we let go when they will never choose us? As They will never see you as their first option?
They mirror your blocks. So work on seeing yourself as your first option.
Thank you so much for your reply@@TwinFlameSpyrit
It is a crazy feeling
Thankyou
I wasn’t expecting to be a Twin flame I don’t like certain things.
Even I still want to be with my Girlfriend can twin flames become Soulmate.
They run i stopped chasing
When I deactivate my social media I breath better. I know he lives to stalk me, but expects me to put up with less than I deserve and be the chaser. It will never happen. It was draining. I pray we can shake eachother as it's not healthy.
Can your twin flame be part of your soull tribe?
You are my hero 🤣🤣
I love your jokes btw :)
I dont like Jeff and Sheilia. But I like you.
It's ok. Thanks. You probably don't know them very well. 😊
you have a styyyle!! :D
Oh, thank youuu! :)
One month and everything is like crashed.sometimes its better to learn from anothers experiences.
If you feel like you want to get rid of them, it means you don't want to fully heal. It means you want to stay stuck
How do you mean that?
@@Witchyrose2349 I mean if you want to get out of the twin flame journey, it means you forgot why you came here and you still have healing to do because if you got to a place where you were mostly healed, it wouldn't be painful. I'm not there yet but compared to 5 months ago, I've healed most of my blocks and I no longer cry for him
its as simple as this not this lifetime
Idk why anyone would want to get rid of their twin flame. It didn't work because you got to figure out what to do to wake them up. You didn't try hard enough you didn't do all the work or take all the steps. This makes me sad.
🤔 what do u mean?u mean to tell me that the purpose is to wake them up?
@@marissatemotio1320 yes. Meditate and do the spiritual work. You heal yourself you heal them . Your twin flame mirrors you. You can literally do the work for them. By healing you you heal them. Be positive. Get rid of all negativity.
@@knepp00865 Yea…Mine doubled the negative energy by betraying me, she told me I didn’t do anything wrong. It was the principle of being someone else as well and such that makes her feel as not unique or like she can’t be herself or happy. Even though we’re the same not copy’s we’re equally as unique and special, i told her that but she was cold. Saying some passive aggressive stuff which set me off to call her a disgusting narcissist, for manipulating and using me for her happiness then backstabbing me while leaving/abandoning me. To take the energy for herself. That seemed to make her break down but we blocked each other from there. I unblocked what i call the dark star chakra, which shows you dark truths and lessons to go through in order to fulfil your life and inner peace and get enlightened through that. So i guess that’s why i said what i said and continued mirroring negative energy without online contact. But i stopped because i had a burn out and now i had enough, so i’m working on myself. Burning my ego away. (Srry for the long message)
Twin flame or a f….ing narcisist?
Or both?
Thanks for the laugh
Omg fuckin hilarious
Just a suggestion to be more inclusive... use they/them personal pronouns.
This lady said nothing.
This lad left a very deep comment.
lol@ stalking!
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