Why is Megan insisting that her children should receive inheritance from John's parents? She has to check her children's paternal and maternal grandparents for inheritance.
It's surprising that Megan is so insistent about her children receiving inheritance from John's parents. She should focus on their own grandparents for that.
The grandparents and father should be worried about how Megan treats those kids when the father is not around. I wouldn’t change the Will so soon, that marriage might not last, what then?
She should be looking at both the children's paternal and maternal grandparents for any potential inheritance. It's important to be fair and not make unreasonable demands. What do you think is the best way for Megan to handle this situation?
Megan didn’t make a mistake. She made a choice. She chose to threaten the grandparents for their money. She wanted it & when it didn’t work in her favor now she wants to be a victim. Her behaviors unacceptable, end of story
I won't give stepmom kids anything. Let stepmom parents give to step kids. What are you so worried about its not your worry.😮 Is the stepmom parents giving anything to your grandkids in their Will? I don't think so! I don't think this marriage is going to last anyway 😕 so don't 🤷 worry. And I hope your Son is not stupid enough to adopt stepmom kids. Lord help him.
Truly it's not her place to ask you that! Wow unbelievable, the nerve of some pp!!! Just cause she married your son and had 2 kids already-not Biologically your grand kids. Does not make them entitled to anything
The moment Megan threatened to withhold the children from John’s parents is the moment that all Trust was permanently lost, and any Trust needs to stay lost. She can cry about her insecurities and it being a “mistake” all she wants, she made a choice to play this game, and everybody, including John, needs to keep an eye on her. Money causes people to get stupid, and Megan no longer deserves the benefit of the doubt, and I was glad to hear that even John is wary.
John is working and has a job also! Sounds like she living beyond her means. possibly married only for financial greed😢...John is in a marriage that cld be fatal attraction!
One of my biggest fears is being in John’s situation and being so blinded by love that I wouldn’t be willing to scorch the earth in retaliation to my wife’s actions.
Yeah I would not be doing anything for her children. They have their own grandparents if their grandparents don’t have anything to leave them then that’s not their problem. I can’t stand stepfamily acting entitled to things they have no claim to.
Why do all these people in these stories all have to go through counseling to solve clear cut decisions in their stories? They all come off as weak minded and spineless.
So, she threatened them & lied to them but they cave so she gets what she wants anyway, even if its in a lesser form?! The kids have other grandparents. Its nice they love the other kids but i wouldn't have given in to Megan's demands. They taught her that she can di what she wants as long as she acts sorry.
The step children have other parents for inheritance also. Will they be required to share that with their step siblings? I think not. So, the plan is to divert more money to the four grandchildren for college educations. That could be considered nice. However, I never heard any considerations for their daughter whether or not she has children. The original will was fair; 1/2 to each sibling. Now it looks like john is screwing the daughter In order to give his son's children more money. So, in the end , the wicked stepmother did cause a change in the will and did screw john's daughter.
NTA wtf is Megan talking about ?! Her kids have their own grandparents and father. Seriously she’s got absolutely no business even asking about her brand new husbands parents assets. No seriously cut her and her kids off, they have their own grandparents, her kids will inherit double. You are entertaining this woman pushing her kids on you when really you should be wondering about why so much you and not so much their own bio family. Aren’t you wondering if she’s alienating her children from their own bio family on dad’s side ?! Also you don’t have to do what she asks, you can do whatever you want without telling her. Please update what’s happens after your daughter finds out what the new sil tried to pull, and is still pulling via emotional blackmail.
Those grandchildren is not your grandchildren so you are not bound to make will for them. You can help as much as you can because they become apart of your family, person she should demand will from his the children real grandparents. A bet they realise she is a gold digging that why her marriage fall apart. She is using the children to get what she want. Furthermore the children she is threatening you with is not her she is too bright. She have no right over then.
Why is Megan insisting that her children should receive inheritance from John's parents? She has to check her children's paternal and maternal grandparents for inheritance.
Yeah... I'm sure glad that Megan's parents are doing the same for OPs grand children! What wonderful people!
It's surprising that Megan is so insistent about her children receiving inheritance from John's parents. She should focus on their own grandparents for that.
The grandparents and father should be worried about how Megan treats those kids when the father is not around.
I wouldn’t change the Will so soon, that marriage might not last, what then?
She should be looking at both the children's paternal and maternal grandparents for any potential inheritance. It's important to be fair and not make unreasonable demands. What do you think is the best way for Megan to handle this situation?
Just shows how greedy she is@@DreamyBlox0812
Take a drink whenever the OP is "reminded" of things, especially of Lisa. But don't actually or you will have alcohol poisoning by the end
It's true, the constant reminders about Lisa are overwhelming. It's clear she's still very much in OP's thoughts.
Like it’s actually annoying
Megan didn’t make a mistake. She made a choice. She chose to threaten the grandparents for their money. She wanted it & when it didn’t work in her favor now she wants to be a victim. Her behaviors unacceptable, end of story
I won't give stepmom kids anything. Let stepmom parents give to step kids. What are you so worried about its not your worry.😮 Is the stepmom parents giving anything to your grandkids in their Will? I don't think so! I don't think this marriage is going to last anyway 😕 so don't 🤷 worry. And I hope your Son is not stupid enough to adopt stepmom kids. Lord help him.
End of story, end of marriage is how that should be. Never talk about finances with the new person.
Truly it's not her place to ask you that! Wow unbelievable, the nerve of some pp!!! Just cause she married your son and had 2 kids already-not Biologically your grand kids. Does not make them entitled to anything
The moment Megan threatened to withhold the children from John’s parents is the moment that all Trust was permanently lost, and any Trust needs to stay lost.
She can cry about her insecurities and it being a “mistake” all she wants, she made a choice to play this game, and everybody, including John, needs to keep an eye on her.
Money causes people to get stupid, and Megan no longer deserves the benefit of the doubt, and I was glad to hear that even John is wary.
Megan's threats and manipulation are shocking. It's good that John is addressing the issue and they are working on rebuilding trust.
John is working and has a job also! Sounds like she living beyond her means. possibly married only for financial greed😢...John is in a marriage that cld be fatal attraction!
One of my biggest fears is being in John’s situation and being so blinded by love that I wouldn’t be willing to scorch the earth in retaliation to my wife’s actions.
Yeah I would not be doing anything for her children. They have their own grandparents if their grandparents don’t have anything to leave them then that’s not their problem. I can’t stand stepfamily acting entitled to things they have no claim to.
Grand-dad it is what it is.! If she don't want her children around you? John will see her for who she really is??
The 2 children are not Megan's .
John's parents shldnt of discusted that with her. No that's between John and his parents...period she has some Big ones for a female!
Why do all these people in these stories all have to go through counseling to solve clear cut decisions in their stories? They all come off as weak minded and spineless.
Good thing opinions are like butt holes. Everyone has them and sometimes, it’s just crap.
So, she threatened them & lied to them but they cave so she gets what she wants anyway, even if its in a lesser form?! The kids have other grandparents. Its nice they love the other kids but i wouldn't have given in to Megan's demands. They taught her that she can di what she wants as long as she acts sorry.
If she that insecure? Maybe she shld not have married a man with children. For God sakes, what if John's 1st wife was still alive?
Beautiful grandparents.
well what's her dilemma than? if John agreed to doing it 4 ways! which I can't imagine him not fulfilling his parents wishes?
Treat them as your own but they have 4 grandparents to give them
The step children have other parents for inheritance also. Will they be required to share that with their step siblings? I think not.
So, the plan is to divert more money to the four grandchildren for college educations. That could be considered nice. However, I never heard any considerations for their daughter whether or not she has children. The original will was fair; 1/2 to each sibling. Now it looks like john is screwing the daughter In order to give his son's children more money. So, in the end , the wicked stepmother did cause a change in the will and did screw john's daughter.
You needed to tell John to look up Megan every carefully 😊 or paternity test or hire P.I SOMETHING ELS
NTA wtf is Megan talking about ?! Her kids have their own grandparents and father. Seriously she’s got absolutely no business even asking about her brand new husbands parents assets. No seriously cut her and her kids off, they have their own grandparents, her kids will inherit double. You are entertaining this woman pushing her kids on you when really you should be wondering about why so much you and not so much their own bio family. Aren’t you wondering if she’s alienating her children from their own bio family on dad’s side ?! Also you don’t have to do what she asks, you can do whatever you want without telling her. Please update what’s happens after your daughter finds out what the new sil tried to pull, and is still pulling via emotional blackmail.
You can tell that this is written by an old man.
Wtf is that title
Grand-dad it is what it is.! If she don't want her children around you? John will see her for who she really is??
Those grandchildren is not your grandchildren so you are not bound to make will for them. You can help as much as you can because they become apart of your family, person she should demand will from his the children real grandparents. A bet they realise she is a gold digging that why her marriage fall apart. She is using the children to get what she want. Furthermore the children she is threatening you with is not her she is too bright. She have no right over then.