Lmao as a tattoo artist myself, this is horrible advice. You should care, care a lot! Do your research, pick an artist that matches up and is stoked about the project, follow their guidelines and tip them well.
I was talking with my artist during my last session and explained I went to shops at 17, so I would have a shop picked out when I was 18, to see their artists portfolios and ask them how they sanitized stuff. He was blown away I didn’t realize how many people just wing it.
Rip it and grip it. You have a whole life to make good decisions while reflecting on the poor ones. I don't regret my tattoos even though I'd have done them different.
@@darienmcnew4013 not the experience and guess what they will be easy to cover up with more tattoos. If you want to plan that's not a problem. But some people like hitting that go button. Full speed ahead. toot toot.
I don't think she's saying "Don't care about your tattoos," she's saying "Don't let what other people think stop you from getting tattoos if you want to." THAT'S what she's saying you shouldn't care about imo
@@rozzer666 when I see ppl that have tribal tatts (ppl that aren’t closely related to a pacific Oceania tribe) I feel like they look like massive douche bags and I wanted tribals tatts when. I was 16 and thank the lord I didn’t go through with it. Tribal tatts are really weak as well in my opinion they just don’t look good on Caucasian men nor African American men. They just look bad. They look good if you’re like apart of the Minoans or Hakka
I've got some bad work that I'm not happy about. I'm more regretful of wasting real estate. Hell, half the time I forget I even have tattoos. Idk how you regret something that has nearly no impact on your life
Here's real advice. You get what you pay for. Pay up, go high quality, nothing looks more shit than tats that look like they were done in prison. And triple think every tat, you have very limited space. Pick what you'll likely love tomorrow not just what you love today.
This is 100% the best advice coming from someone who got cheaper tattoos at 14 and 17 and now at 30 has 5/6 crappy tattoos they don't like. Including a cover up (says alot about me making bad choices) but I definitely wish I had saved up and got 1/2 decent tattoos instead. Also what's popular for tattoos now will look crap and old in 10 years time. Think carefully if you're tattoos have meaning you'll less likely regret them. But above Everything is this comment get a decent tattoo artist, who knows what they are doing, and put abit of money into it after all it's permanent. If you spend money on nice clothes and getting your hair done (temporary changes) think about it the tattoo is going to be with you for the long haul. Make sure it's not shit and if you aren't happy with the way things are going say something don't let it carry on and get worse and worse!! I literally let that happen and have 2 good any roses with green leafs on my hip bone. I said I didn't want green he said I had to or it would look stupid. So wish I'd stopped it there and then but I was silly I suppose.
Juat playing a but of devils advocate here- I've seen some terrible prison tats, but thrn I've seen some so amazing and beautiful that I can't believe they were done with a broken pen and burnt toilet paper. Just gose to show sometimes it really is just the artists skill!
thats what i have been trying to do, i want a tattoo, but it doesnt come to mind something meaningful and cool to tattoo, and where to put it. however, i think i finally have come up with a tattoo with the meaning and looks that i was looking for, only thing left, where to put it
"Who cares?" Lol, you're getting a tattoo, not choosing tea or coffee for breakfast. As my Pa said when I expressed my desire for getting one: "If you feel like you're not complete without it and should have been born alongside it, then go get it... otherwise, wait and think it over one more time. Think about when you'll be old and if if you'll still want to display it proudly then. And if you're already considering tattoo removal as an option, then forget it." Nothing worse than an irresponsible and shortsighted tattoo artist
@@Me-dj2sz Yup, pretty new for me. Most inked people I know actually care a big deal about their tattooes. Give meaning to them. The uncaring attidude is often mistaken for coolness, when it's actually lack of thought or opinion. No real right or wrong way of wearing one's tattooes... just a matter of pride or regret
@@falcon8467 What you describe sounds more like a vibe than an attitude, I have an uncaring vibe, it doesn't mean I don't actually care about what I should care about, if that makes any sense
@@Me-dj2sz You say that now because you’re young wait until you’re 40 and trying to advance in a professional career and you have yolo tattooed on your face.
My advice is, it will be on your body forever. You will love your tattoos some days and you may hate them other days. Really love your tattoo and have some sort of sentiment for it before you pull the trigger. No matter what as long as you go in knowing it has some sentiment, you'll never forget. Even if time changes and you become a different person, you can still appreciate the old version of yourself. It is painful and cost alot to remove a tattoo, however not impossible. Think about your future and careers you may find in your future or at the time. Tattoos and the contents of the tattoos, plus placement of tattoo can interfere with how people perceive you. As well as interfer with job opportunities. Keeping this in mind will help you make the choices that best suit your life style. Personally both my hands, fingers, and feet are tattooed, as well as my neck. I only mentioned these tattoos because they are the spots most people avoid for that exact reason. I myself with tattoos can say this is indeed true for myself and my experience and you can take it as you will. Best of luck if you are thinking of getting a tattoo, I hope this was helpful.
Okay, so I have five tattoos at the age of 42 (first tattoo was done at the age of 17) and I love all of them. My advice, if you want to get a tattoo, wait a month or two to see if you feel the same way, don't get it right away. you'll be surprised how many times you back out from a particular tattoo.
Sat on whether to get one for a couple years...was graduation present to myself...and I'm not nor have I disappointed my parents. At 18 I could do what I wanted. As I respect their opinion it's still my decision. This kind of persons mentality is why people with tats get a bad rap to today. What I got from what she said was "get tattoos just to say fuck the world". Boiled down to its simplest form.
Thats good advice you gave. I am covered from my neck line down to my ankles. Most I still love there are a few I would never have gotten. Luckily, I did indeed wait a bit to decide on hands and neck. I never got that done. Im glad. People have no clue im inked until i wear a tank or polo shirt which is rare. I wanted a job after the Navy. Great advice
I agree. I’m 17 years old with a full leg sleeve. Also have my upper arm and shoulder done. Wanted to say I have no visible tattoos on my body when wearing pants and regular sleeved shirts. Dickies shorts and shirts keep everything covered well nice and baggy 😂
y’all took this the wrong way 💀 she’s not saying “go get one on impulse at a shady shop without doing research” nor is she “advertising” to young people. she’s saying if you’re scared, and you’re worried your parents will be disappointed even after you’ve moved out, it doesn’t rly matter and you should just get the tattoo.
@@a_usernamehere3680 true😂 ur parents aren’t disappointed in u bruh ur like 12, most these kids think cuz they mom yell at them means she disappointed😂 these kids r stupid bruh n fake depressed💀
My inexperienced, 19 years old advice is: Think for months/years prior, look at the portfolio of the studio & the artist, save up more money than you think you'll need, don't steal designs, but it's nice if you have inspos, that you can show your artist, if you're not pleased with the design feel free to say no to it: it's your body after all.
Flash is cool. If I want, I can request extra details and different colors. Well, first I need a nice artist who would oblige to make the changes to the flash.
Best advice is draw it on with marker and walk with it for a week. "But that looks dumb!" Exactly, if you can't handle the marker for a week imagine ink when your entire life style changes, which it 100% will multiple times
I do this before every tattoo. Great advice! it really does make for (sometimes) wiser art choices and you get to work out details and play with placement to make it easier when you take it to your artist 😌
With a marker? 😅😂😅😂😅 no just no 😅😂😅😂😅 Get a temp tattoo sure but dont draw it on with a marker 😅 it wont look anything like a tatoo and will look terrible. Theres so many temporary tattoo iptions i agree with, but not a "marker" 😂🤣
Definitely find a good artist and take time to know what you want. I hate people that have tatts and they're like "yeah I have no idea why I got it, there's no significant mean for it"
@@Cyborg_Lenin talking as if you speak for every person ever you’re probably about 12 and religious 😂 keep your dads outdated opinions to yourself and keep playing them video games, I’m sure you disappoint him more than anyone who’s got tattoos ever disappointed their parents
@@techsk8er1O5 i mean some people treat their skin like canvas, and you know, they're allowed. Tattoos are art, in the end. Art doesn't always has to have a deep meaning. Art could be a doodle of a rat smoking a fat dart and that's okay
From my experience people that have a lot of tattoos and are happy with them in the long term tend to be a very particular type of person. I think if you’re someone who overthinks stuff, just don’t do it, you’ll overthink it before, and afterwards
This is so true, my boyfriend is covered in tattoos and is a care free type of person. No worries about the future etc. Meanwhile I am still thinking about a small tattoo and how it may have impact on my future.
You either hold value to the tattoo and what it means to you or you value your body and what you put on it. I'm a very fickle person who overthinks everything but when it comes to tattoos I will get one on a whim and love it just as much as one I'd get after planning for years.
@@222beau I’ve always worried about whether having tattoos would affect my employment/my future but decided to get tattooed around my boobs. So literally no one would see them unless I’m naked or wearing a bikini. Most people in my life don’t even kno I hv any tattoos because of their placement. So literally just depends on where u get tattooed.
My first tattoo I wanted, the artist told me if you still want it after a year then get it. Needless to say I changed my mind so often and was glad I didn’t pull the trigger on it. So my advice would be to make sure you REALLY want it, it will be on your body forever, so make it count.
Like I want to get a specific tattoo and I have wanted it for many years...but my parents arnt into tattoos...and tbh idk if I should since I cant stand pain....maybe I shouldn't hmm
Counter point. My first tat was a small paw on my forearm just cuz. And I could have waited the year that it ended up taking me to realized I wanted it bigger, but for that whole year, I just had a small lil tattoo that was less neat that in was gonna be. The counter point being, after you get it, you'll probably be fine with it. Ultimately it's just a drawing on some skin.
as someone with multiple tattoos, don't just do it. make sure you have a credible artist and you're positive this is something you want permanently on your body. i used to draw it on my body for a few weeks so I'd really know how I felt about it before I did anything I couldn't just wash off also think through what you want, I'm young now but I remember wanting the dumbest tattoos a couple years ago for the simple reason they looked cool on someone else but I know id hate it being on my body right now, you do grow out of things and ideas so don't spontaneously get something because you like it. i have 6 tattoos that mean a lot to me and I don't regret any of them after a few years because they're more than just a cool design or a phase i went through. remember, this is permanent and will be a part of you forever so think about how you'll feel in 5, 10 or 15 years
Tattoos are a work of art do what is best for you honestly. It's best to find something that suits your body and personality. Tattoos are expensive, good tattoos aren't cheap while bad tattoos are tacky. Each to his own.
Ah, yes. A girl who looks no older than 23, who mentions her disappointed parents, is exactly the type of person I want giving other people advice about permanent decisions.
Big advice I can give, dont get your partner's name tatted on you regardless how much you love them. Anything can happen. I didn't listen and I learn the hard way.
This is definitely the best advice you can give someone when it comes to getting a tattoo. I never did but have so many friends that did and then had to get it covered up.
Yep. Pretty much. Grew up in a traditional Asian household where even having hair in medium length was unacceptable. Well today I'm tatted with hair that goes to my mid back and absolutely no regrets.
@@muhammadrauf2600 It means an Asian household who has traditional (old school conservative) views, meaning only girls should have long hair, boys like blue girls like pink, tattoos are Satanic or are only for criminals etc. Stuff like that.
@@muhammadrauf2600 probably was referring to his specific ethnicity and didn't broaden his terminology because most people are too ignorant to understand the difference between traditional Chinese vs Japanese vs Viatnamese vs Koren vs etc. etc.
Tbh I’d more go along the lines of “dont shy away from doing it because other people tell you not do. Do it bc you want to”. Do research into who you go to! A tattoo doesn’t have to mean anything deep, but making sure you go to a clean shop and it helps to do some research into the artist (though, walk ins are also fun! Great way to support newer artists)
I literally just got flowers on my hip because I just wanted flowers I tried to think of some sort of meaning behind it but couldn’t conjure up anything
@@brucegelman5582 actually if you read the comment, he didn't say he did. He just stated that advice you get from people who use the phrase "who cares" adjacent to said "advice" is probably not good advice to a general population of developing teenagers/young adults.
How can you come to such a conclusion from merely her appearance and just one opinion of hers that you disagree with? I'd be more than happy to have her pump out my kids 😏
Besides something gang related or relationship related, I have never met a single person who regrets their tattoos Good or bad, it marked a time in your life, so just get them when things are going okay and you'll be fine
Make sure you will never regret it. Think about : The art, your parents, your future, the tattoo artist, the side effects, and maybe some other things too.
@@Poltergeistprincess of course i will still do, eventho i am grown up already. I am an Asian after all, hehe and even if i am not Asian. Parents still will be one of the most important before i decide about tattoo. Hehe
If your skin is sensitive and you don’t have a high pain tolerance, probably skip a tattoo that’ll be on your joint or in an area with little to no fat for your first one. I have sensitive skin and got my first tattoo right on my hip. Even with a bigger needle, I could barely hold still from how bad it hurt.
I started getting tattoos at 16 and regret none of them. Take care of them afterwards it is literally an open wound. Do your research on the shop and artist find one that specializes in what you’re wanting to get and just go for it. And if you’re scared get one anyways you’ll be happy with it after it is done
If you are not 100% sure what you want, then dont do it.. if you are go for it ! I "challange" my own new tattoos idés and drawings for a minium of 1 month if I still like it after that. Then the mission is a go :D
I do the same, I'll sit on it for a while and show people who's opinions matter and get helpful input. It's always a good idea to other people's input and ask yourself "will this matter in 5 years?"
Same but with a 2 year rule which I like as sometimes I love something for close to a year then think butttt if it went more like this and am happy, but sometimes it’s a pain to wait that long but it means I’m a lot less likely to regret it in another 2 yrs 😂 but I agree with the design and wait and keep designing for any period of time
My mom was the one who encouraged me to finally get a tattoo and it ended up being an excellent decision, so no, not all parents are gonna be disappointed 😂. My advice is as follows, tho - make sure to get a tattoo ONLY when you're sure that you really want it and will continue to want it in the future. Otherwise, you're gonna end up with a lot of regrets inked under your skin and you WILL care 😂
@@D00Rb3LL I mean, how old are you? 😂 If you're below 18, I would ask you if you're sure you wanna get it, bc often, kids end up getting tattoos that they regret several years later. My best friend is a tattoo artist (they did my half-sleeve) - the amount of adults coming in for cover ups or touch ups and tattoo removals of tattoos they got when they were young is quite big. 😂 So, if I were your parent, I'd probably ask you to sit down and think about it and only make a decision when you're really sure. Bur that's just me. You gotta remember that not everyone likes tattos. Your dad may simply dislike tattoos in general, which is absolutely, demonstrably fine - not everyone is a fan and in some cultures and religions, tattoos aren't exactly well-liked or well-received. So, it's all about different tastes, preferences and perspectives. If you're an adult capable of making rational decisions or even a teen who's certain about what they want and already have their style and perspective established (which certainly isn't common) I'd say go for it.
Or just don't work somewhere that cares. Ink in my skin is irrelevant to my abilities as a worker. I'm a person, not a robot. And with the worker shortage these days, jobs can't really afford to be picky about what their workers appearance looks like.
@@snailgirl420 I agree with that, but if you want a solid office job where you make good money (like I want when I graduate college this year), then try to avoid the face, neck, and probably hands. If you’re gonna work in a restaurant or in retail they probably won’t care a whole lot. So to each his own. Just trying to give useful advice for people planning on getting a tat 👍
@@philipmacrevis3086 Either way, it's too late in my case. Lol. I got some hearts next to my eye and my Snailboi logo (my profile pic) on my neck. But my boss doesn't care, and I am banking on working here till my music career takes off. Not planning on being rich by any means, but if I can just pay my bills with music? I will be satisfied.
I'm a tattoo artist and I completely understand what she is saying, but maybe you should put a bit of thought into it. Make sure you research the place you want to get it and the tattoo artists in your area. I've had so many people get tattoos in really painful places just because they didn't do their research and they would have been happy with it anywhere else. Also you get what you pay for so if you want to spend very little for a big piece then I can guarantee it's most likely going to be low quality. Choosing a tattoo is a whole other thing, and I agree with her on this part. Get whatever you want as long as it's responsible and you don't think you'll regret it in the future. It doesn't have to mean anything to you, it could just be something you think is pretty. I have so many tattoos and only one or two actually mean something to me. As long as you are okay with having something on your body forever then it's okay. If you do end up regretting it then you can get it covered up or removed. I recommend getting it covered up if it's possible because you can get some really cool cover up designs.
@@Weeniehutnurse But most people aren’t happy once they hit their 30s, the ink is fading, their skin is drying out, and their pretty flowers are wilting. There’s a reason why it wasn’t socially acceptable until the “gibs me” generation took over.
@@Weeniehutnurse Wait so I can’t say most, but you can? I can point to the ever increasing tattoo coverup industry. All you can say is “I like mine still”
You will regret it someday. You’re tastes will change, trends will change, you’re idea of what is “cool” will change. Don’t do it. Tattoos don’t mean shit, and you won’t get any cool points. There is zero originality left.
Memorial pieces, kids names, illness battle representation (like a piece dedicated to beating cancer or addiction), there's a fuck ton of reasons that absolutely DO mean something. Not every tattoo is a trend, just say you're a shallow, judgemental piss baby and leave
“Who cares” You should, a lot. Care about who the artist is, what you’re getting, and the placement. It’s on your body forever. Others don’t need to care, but YOU need to.
@@reaganjaegan who hurt her? Ah no wait, she said it pretty immediately: herself. Why would she mention immediately her disappointed parents? Lmao. Also: what an original comment! Virgin enough?
It took me 2 years to decide on the final design of my first tattoo, and then I sat on it for another 6 months before actually getting it done. And I can honestly say that I still love the tattoo and proudly show it off when I can. Nothing good ever came from the "hey, you wanna get tattoos today?" Type of question
Depends. I can walk in to any traditional shop with good artists and pick off the wall same day and be more than satisfied with it on my body. Most Traditional artists appreciate walk ins for flash, it’s part of the culture.
I can remember getting my 1st and 2nd tattoo and my mom was upset. The 3rd one I hid from her. Eventually she found out and she told me “ the next tattoo you get, I am ripping it with your skin off your body”. GOD rest her soul in Heaven. Looking down I know she is shaking her head at me. I’ve got both arms half sleeved, both biceps have a tattoo, both should blades tattooed and my right calf tattooed.
Best advice I’d think about placement. You’ll probably want more and you want them to all work together. Don’t take up good real estate with something that will be in the way. Also reasearch what makes a good tattoo! Really study the line work and shading and find an artist who can do it well. Allot of people think oh that looks good but when you really scrutinize it with the proper knowledge most tattoos are shit. Choose wisely.
As a tattooed person who just did it, don't. The chance you'll regret it is very high. You wouldn't wear the clothes you wore ten years ago, imagine what having a motive you don't like anymore in your skin feels like. Plus, you will get judged. That will suck someday.
“Make sure you won’t regret it” is good advice but most people evolve and change so often that even if you think you’ll Iove it forever that might not be the case.
@@soulspace9088 Most are from an old friend who wasn’t a pro at that time… my lines are all fat and blown out on all of the tattoos he did. Also the tattoos that I chose I thought meant something to me but now that I’m older it all just looks out of place. I hate to admit but I literally have a HUGE “No Regrets” tattoo on my forearm. 🤣💀 I’ve got every f*cking cliche tattoo from the early 2000s. It’s bad. I’d love to find someone who specializes in coverups.
"Your Parents probably already disappointed in you, some point, somehow": *Good Advice* "Just do it, you'll have fun, you won't regret it, who cares".. : *Bad Advice*
I guess I’ll give my opinion when it comes to just getting tattooed in general I feel like a lot of people overstressed their meaning which don’t give me wrong meaningful tattoos with a good representation or some of the best but tattooing is also fun it’s art it can be as simple as if you’d like oranges in orange tattooed at the same time
When ppl ask me what my tattoos mean I tell them none of them mean anything except the portraits of my parents. I have both my arms fully done and my whole entire chest done. I thought of all of my tattoos the day of my appointment. I just enjoy the art, no meaning at all to any of them. Some ppl are shocked when I say that but I also think its not that serious guys...lol yes its permanent but it doesnt have to mean anything. I have all black and grey realism and the thing I absolutely love that ppl say when they see my tattoos is "Wow, your tattoos arent tattoos, its real art. They are well done tattoos" I love that more than anything. Appreciation for my tattoos. I like when ppl like my tattoos simply for it being well done tattoos!
My first tattoo i got because I just literally have always like mermaids and sometimes people just don't get it,,,like I just have always thought they were pretty lol
Only 2 of my tattoos have meaning and they both got fucked up, one for my grandmother that was done badly and now, 13 years later, you can't even read it and one for my son which is supposed to say Leo, but they spelled it Lea instead, all of my others have no meaning, I just liked them and they all turned out great
If I have learned one thing in life is never trust people looking like this. Ik sounds like an aholle thing to say but having many social interactions with people like her in the past(crazy colours on hair, multiple tattoos, tons of piercings etc) one thing I can confirm is that they *do* come from broken families and are kids of absent parents and always see life the "you only live once, live crazy, do now, regret later" mentality, which slowly ruins them.
@@alcoholikosnaftis sooo no one ever taught you not to judge a book by its cover??? Cause I'm sure you know every single person that "looks like that" in and out.
@@804_Rider I just said I have lived with these people, had friendships and romantic relationships with them, aspired adopt this style too. I have opened up to them and they have opened up to me. Also the way you look, talk, act, decide stuff is a mirror of yourself, basic phycology that applies to every single human. But yes I judge the book by its cover I guess😂
@@alcoholikosnaftis I happen to have purple/blue hair and my share of piercings. I have a very close and healthy relationship with all of my direct family and do not come from a broken home 🙃 I also work in healthcare and am very successful thank you very much. Maybe you should check your assumptions at the door and learn to judge people for their actions and not their appearances.
@Hugh Mongous the author is not always the person who writes the blurb. judging the cover means seeing the book through somebody else’s eyes, reading the book means seeing it with your own.
honestly, almost didn't get my chest done because I thought my grandma (she's my angel) would hate looking at it, but I got it done and then showed her a couple days later and turns out she's really happy for me and likes it. My next tattoo is going to be her favorite flowers, hope she loves it
@@beefortebrea9386 no they clearly wanted a tattoo in general but almost didn't because they cared about Grandma's feelings, the opposite of what you're saying. Super glad grandma is so awesome- she is happy that Dai is happy, that's so sweet
I waited too long. I wanted one since I was 12. I am 28 now, got my first tattoo, waited a week, and then got 3 more. HAHA, next month, I'll get a bigger piece and hopefully end 2023 with at least 2 more sessions.
Given that all her tattoos look really good, I don’t think she meant don’t put care into your tattoo/artist. I think she meant don’t think too hard about others opinions where it concerns your art. But I could be wrong, just how I interpreted it.
agreed, I think this is good advice for a specific type of person (like her). maybe not for everyone but some people can definitely pull it off without overthinking & wont end up regretting it
Wait at least a year, and if you still badly want one, plan it out properly with budget, tattoo arist motive etc. The tattoo is permanent, and tattoo removal leaves scars. If your not 110% sure, dont get one.
Get an artist buddy to draw it on with a sharpie for a week or two until the concept of the tattoo itself loses novelty. Then you will know if you actually like it and will get a small insight into how you might feel YEARS down the line.
I said “f*** it” when I was goin’ for my 1st tatttoo. My parents don’t approve bc “it’s a sin” but at the end of the day… it’s my body & I’m one sleeve down so they can’t stop me 😂
@@vikarsan3296 Imagine thinking you can't live your own life just because your parents did the bare minimum for the child *they* decided to have. If I were you, I'd be damned if *anyone* thought they were entitled to *my* body.
I can see how insecure she is lol towards the end I thought she was gonna start crying talking about how her parents are disappointed in her.. Poor girl
Goes into a tattoo artist drunk and gets a tattoo of bowser on a surfboard playing a double neck guitar with sunglasses winking all behind a cross which is also behind a pot leaf
Sad ain't it. One lesson I have learned is never seek advice from people looking, speaking and thinking like her. Ik sounds like what an aholle would say but trust me the way people look is the mirror to who they are
@@alcoholikosnaftis don’t feel like an ahole, this person CLEARLY makes terrible decisions. These people are peasants and filler in the world. They contribute nothing and offer nothing other then their terrible advice. Social media gave these people a megaphone and a sense of entitlement that everyone should listen and respect their opinion. The end is near…
Where I live we have quite a lot of tattoo shops and you can only book tattoos in advance, you can't just drunkenly walk into a shop and get one done there and then, I think that's a good idea, keeps people from making "drunken mistakes" and regretting them 😄
I say definitely pay close attention to the design of your tattoo before they start! I got my first tattoo at 18. The artists was kind and he did a great job. I’m only 21 but I still love it. I didn’t pay close enough attention to the design *I* gave him and noticed after getting it that one of the smaller flowers in the design looked a little weird. If I had thoroughly looked at the image before giving it to the artist I would’ve had him tweak that flower a bit. BUT instead of hating that flower I take it as a reminder of 1. I need to pay more attention with tattoos lol and 2. Nobody/nothing is perfect. The piece is absolutely beautiful even with that minor flaw. And people go too hard on themselves for their flaws or mistakes.
do your research with tattoo artists, don’t just go to anyone. and make sure they sanitize their supplies bc they can ruin your skin right quick and you’ll definitely regret it
If your job is the type to care that you have tattoos, then just don't work there, because you're gonna be treated like a robot and not a person anyway. Fuck that. There is a worker shortage, not a job shortage, they can't afford to be picky. And the ink in my skin has nothing to do with my ability as a worker, it's completely unrelated and discriminatory.
your tattoos don't need to have a deep meaning but you should at least be smart enough to make sure you'll like them in 5 years and it's kinda hard to do that when your first thought is "fuck my parents I'm getting a tattoo because they won't let me"
I'm pretty sure she is a grown adult who probably grew up in a strict household and let that hold her back for sometime and she is not just some rebellious teenager. Why can't women speak without yall doing this?
Yeah I don't think any sane person would define the experience of getting a tattoo as "fun" irrespective of how badly they want one or love it afterwards.
Before even coming to the comment section I could tell there would be a whole bunch of people hating on her just because she gave some bad advice, yet these people probably have nothing better to do then to come on RUclips and write stupid comments to make themselves feel better. Great job guys! EDIT; she definitely makes a lot more money and the people hating on her too LMFAOOOO
“Your parents are probably already disappointed in you, so just do it.” Hahah. I used that same logic when someone offered me heroin for the first time. 😂 no really though, just do it, but only if you know the tattoo artist knows his/her sh!t and you know you will be happy with their work. Try to get pieces that you know you won’t regret. Artwork that has meaning to you. Also, just know that it is risky to get ink done on areas of your body that can’t be concealed by clothing, such as hands, the neck, etc. As dumb as it may be, people judge.. and you’re essentially closing many doors on yourself by not heeding that advice. It sucks to miss out on career opportunities over tattoos. I LOVE tattoos and am working on completing 2 sleeves, and I’m really wanting to get the back of my hand done as part of my left arms sleeve, but even my tattoo artist talked me out of it and convinced me to work on other areas first before making that choice, which I appreciate him doing. It’s not something you should just do on a whim. Oh, and lastly, don’t get face tattoos.. they look horrible 😂 just messing around kinda, but in MY OPINION it’s a shame when a pretty girl gets face tattoos especially. Women with tattoos are sexy as hell.. but don’t mess with the face! This chick in the video looks really good with what she has done.. It would be a shame if she inked her face. That’s just me though.
@@sureqthirtyseven exactly ! But getting a tattoo is as bad as an STD or a felony apparently hahaha shit a hole sleeve must be the equivalent to killing somebody to this bloke 🤣
@@kanethomo2483 HURR DURR CLOWN MEME. You completely ignore the point to get butthurt and defensive over your bad decision. I’m criticizing how OP justified your nasty skin disfigurement, not say it’s literally equal to murder. Though you do murder your chances at getting a good job.
Don’t listen to her. Nobody can predict 5,10, 25, 40 years down the road what you will or will not regret. Just think of the hundreds phases you’ve already passed through. Most are just memories because they don’t leave an indelible mark if where you were.
Bruh Imagine giving such as bad advice being “experienced” in tattoos… Wym who cares??? Maybe the person that is going to keep ink on their body all life of maybe something they don’t want anymore
@@tilly3702 that has nothing to do with old school parents bro, it's just the bad advice form this girl. It's plenty of people that regrets a tattoo, specially when you do it when you are young, so fucking think before doing a tatto and maybe earlier than 18 yo it's not the best cuz the mentality changes a lot in this years. That's just facts. Saying "fuckit, who cares you will not regret it" it's just false.
I have tattoos and piercings I don't care if my kids do it as long as they are of age and do lots of research and thinking before making the permanent decision. What u want at 18 might not be what you want at 25 or 30 so makes sure it is something they can live with.
"your parents are probably already disappointed in you... " This is an awful thing to say. i understand not all parents are the same but why... Getting tattoos doesn't mean your parents are disappointed in you. its a form of art and Expression *almost* everyone gets 1 tat. DONT "Just do it," You will regret it of you don't take the time to read up about tattoos, thinking about a design or anything like that.. im disappointed in this video tbh Cover ups aren't always an option and getting them removed is thousands of dollars and you may never be able to put a tattoo there again. so think before you do anything
I had 9 tattoos done , the first when I was 16 and the last when I was 25. I loved them and was proud of them..but at 37 now , I really regret it. Shes very young and good looking now , but wait until she reaches her 40s and 50s , theres a very high probability she will regret some if not ill of them.
Lmao as a tattoo artist myself, this is horrible advice. You should care, care a lot! Do your research, pick an artist that matches up and is stoked about the project, follow their guidelines and tip them well.
I was talking with my artist during my last session and explained I went to shops at 17, so I would have a shop picked out when I was 18, to see their artists portfolios and ask them how they sanitized stuff. He was blown away I didn’t realize how many people just wing it.
Rip it and grip it. You have a whole life to make good decisions while reflecting on the poor ones. I don't regret my tattoos even though I'd have done them different.
@@dashcamcalifornia5003 so you do regret them than lmao
@@darienmcnew4013 not the experience and guess what they will be easy to cover up with more tattoos. If you want to plan that's not a problem. But some people like hitting that go button. Full speed ahead. toot toot.
I don't think she's saying "Don't care about your tattoos," she's saying "Don't let what other people think stop you from getting tattoos if you want to." THAT'S what she's saying you shouldn't care about imo
You also won't regret taking your time choosing an artist and really fleshing out your ideas. Don't look for cheap deals. You get what you pay for.
Exactly!!!!!!!!
The most expensive tat in my body is not that expensive, i only paid 50 dollars for it
I learned this the hard way when I was 17 getting my first tatt.
“fleshing” out your ideas, haha I see what you did there 😆
@@ban3252 and it’s also probably very small and you probably have only a few
Tattoo removal people are rubbing their hands together like..... we're in business 🤣
The local tattoo shop has the laser removal connected to it
@@gdigital13 it's located at the back, it's a 9ne way kind system 🤣
Business is booming boys!
Low key joint marketing op. Looool kidding 😁
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"Go get that tattoo you've been wanting. An ass whooping is temporary, swag is forever"
😂
exactly! 😆💅
Period
I lost it when you said "An ass whooping is temporary..."
She’s from the yolo era
I’m very glad I didn’t get the tattoos I wanted when I was 16
Unfortunately I got the ones I liked when I was 17. Now I'm heavily covered in tribals
i did. i’m 16 rn. bought a tattoo machine off amazon. love them all.
@@qqy hopefully you always will. My point was that we don't always get older and like the same things we did when we was younger
@@rozzer666 when I see ppl that have tribal tatts (ppl that aren’t closely related to a pacific Oceania tribe) I feel like they look like massive douche bags and I wanted tribals tatts when. I was 16 and thank the lord I didn’t go through with it. Tribal tatts are really weak as well in my opinion they just don’t look good on Caucasian men nor African American men. They just look bad. They look good if you’re like apart of the Minoans or Hakka
@@qqy you won't, they probably look like shit.
“You won’t regret it”
Says no one with bad tattoos.
I bet she regrets her tattoos less than her parents regret having her
I've got some bad work that I'm not happy about. I'm more regretful of wasting real estate. Hell, half the time I forget I even have tattoos.
Idk how you regret something that has nearly no impact on your life
I got a "fuck it" tattoo cuz I had the "fuck it" attitude that day and I 100% regret it
@@angiecastaneda9001 and that’s why you regret it
@@angiecastaneda9001 then just black it out
This woman seems to be an expert in masking her regrets!
Lol she had nothing to regret. If u don’t want to get tattoos don’t lol but don’t hate on the ppl like me that loveee them.❤️
@@sethaniecoles3219 so sorry but this person isn’t hating on u so it didn’t need to said 👍 I see this all the time so that’s why I’m sayign
Copium
@0-KINGSLOTH-0 you can see the pain on her face when she said your parents are already disappointed 😢
she will look like a monster in her 60's or 70's, if she will last that long lol
Here's real advice. You get what you pay for. Pay up, go high quality, nothing looks more shit than tats that look like they were done in prison. And triple think every tat, you have very limited space. Pick what you'll likely love tomorrow not just what you love today.
This is 100% the best advice coming from someone who got cheaper tattoos at 14 and 17 and now at 30 has 5/6 crappy tattoos they don't like. Including a cover up (says alot about me making bad choices) but I definitely wish I had saved up and got 1/2 decent tattoos instead.
Also what's popular for tattoos now will look crap and old in 10 years time. Think carefully if you're tattoos have meaning you'll less likely regret them. But above Everything is this comment get a decent tattoo artist, who knows what they are doing, and put abit of money into it after all it's permanent. If you spend money on nice clothes and getting your hair done (temporary changes) think about it the tattoo is going to be with you for the long haul. Make sure it's not shit and if you aren't happy with the way things are going say something don't let it carry on and get worse and worse!! I literally let that happen and have 2 good any roses with green leafs on my hip bone. I said I didn't want green he said I had to or it would look stupid.
So wish I'd stopped it there and then but I was silly I suppose.
Juat playing a but of devils advocate here- I've seen some terrible prison tats, but thrn I've seen some so amazing and beautiful that I can't believe they were done with a broken pen and burnt toilet paper.
Just gose to show sometimes it really is just the artists skill!
I've seen some really good tattoos that were done in prison.
Tattoo artists commit crimes to.
thats what i have been trying to do, i want a tattoo, but it doesnt come to mind something meaningful and cool to tattoo, and where to put it.
however, i think i finally have come up with a tattoo with the meaning and looks that i was looking for, only thing left, where to put it
Crazy how your advice helps ppl more than hers 😭😭😭 hers is just like a fuck it you only live once type of advice 😂😂
"You won't regret it" more like "cover ups exist" 💯☺️
Lol please your the type to get botox and plastic surgery....face lifts exists when your 90 also 🤔😬🤷🤦😬👇
@@goatimus6676 I’ll be issuing you a ticket for misdemeanor cringe
@@goatimus6676 you could at least try to not sound pathetic 😅
@@jesushodlsxrp3555 now that's actually funny...
As if cover-ups can fix anything lmao. Try covering up a black and white arm piece
“Just do it. your parents are probably already disappointed in you…”
Thanks
And embarrassed of her.
Humiliated, ashamed...
Well she is speaking from expirience.
She's basically admitting that she's no one special that a tattoo would hurt her any further, socially. I agree.
Shes projecting her rationalisation/reasoning for getting her tattoos
"Who cares?"
Lol, you're getting a tattoo, not choosing tea or coffee for breakfast.
As my Pa said when I expressed my desire for getting one: "If you feel like you're not complete without it and should have been born alongside it, then go get it... otherwise, wait and think it over one more time. Think about when you'll be old and if if you'll still want to display it proudly then. And if you're already considering tattoo removal as an option, then forget it."
Nothing worse than an irresponsible and shortsighted tattoo artist
Or ppl just rlly don’t care😂😂 new concept for u I see.
Not caring about your body is sad.
@@Me-dj2sz Yup, pretty new for me. Most inked people I know actually care a big deal about their tattooes. Give meaning to them.
The uncaring attidude is often mistaken for coolness, when it's actually lack of thought or opinion.
No real right or wrong way of wearing one's tattooes... just a matter of pride or regret
@@falcon8467 What you describe sounds more like a vibe than an attitude, I have an uncaring vibe, it doesn't mean I don't actually care about what I should care about, if that makes any sense
@@Me-dj2sz You say that now because you’re young wait until you’re 40 and trying to advance in a professional career and you have yolo tattooed on your face.
My advice is, it will be on your body forever. You will love your tattoos some days and you may hate them other days. Really love your tattoo and have some sort of sentiment for it before you pull the trigger. No matter what as long as you go in knowing it has some sentiment, you'll never forget. Even if time changes and you become a different person, you can still appreciate the old version of yourself. It is painful and cost alot to remove a tattoo, however not impossible. Think about your future and careers you may find in your future or at the time. Tattoos and the contents of the tattoos, plus placement of tattoo can interfere with how people perceive you. As well as interfer with job opportunities. Keeping this in mind will help you make the choices that best suit your life style.
Personally both my hands, fingers, and feet are tattooed, as well as my neck. I only mentioned these tattoos because they are the spots most people avoid for that exact reason. I myself with tattoos can say this is indeed true for myself and my experience and you can take it as you will. Best of luck if you are thinking of getting a tattoo, I hope this was helpful.
Okay, so I have five tattoos at the age of 42 (first tattoo was done at the age of 17) and I love all of them. My advice, if you want to get a tattoo, wait a month or two to see if you feel the same way, don't get it right away. you'll be surprised how many times you back out from a particular tattoo.
This... much like many decisions in life 👍👍
mine its been more than 2 years and still see it the same way the first day I want it lol. still a tatto virgin :d
Actual good advice
Sat on whether to get one for a couple years...was graduation present to myself...and I'm not nor have I disappointed my parents. At 18 I could do what I wanted. As I respect their opinion it's still my decision. This kind of persons mentality is why people with tats get a bad rap to today. What I got from what she said was "get tattoos just to say fuck the world". Boiled down to its simplest form.
Thats good advice you gave. I am covered from my neck line down to my ankles. Most I still love there are a few I would never have gotten. Luckily, I did indeed wait a bit to decide on hands and neck. I never got that done. Im glad. People have no clue im inked until i wear a tank or polo shirt which is rare. I wanted a job after the Navy. Great advice
Remember in high school how you didn't feel as bad for getting an F when you found out your friend also got an F?
Haha, I love that.
@@BeReal918 A: you've never struggled in high school apparently. B: not all tattooed people are the same dude😑
@@BeReal918 Dawg I don’t think that’s a tattoo problem I just think you made some bad life choices
Misery loves company
@@BeReal918 Cool dawg. Keep it up, health is #1
Best advice I was given was from JJ Peters when I turned 18 and it was “start with your legs.”
Lots of kids these days have horrible tattoos only on their lower arms. That is legit one of the best advise I’ve heard
yes!! i agree. i got a ton on my legs and rarely have to see them
JJ is a fucking legend. Love IKTPQ!
I agree. I’m 17 years old with a full leg sleeve. Also have my upper arm and shoulder done. Wanted to say I have no visible tattoos on my body when wearing pants and regular sleeved shirts. Dickies shorts and shirts keep everything covered well nice and baggy 😂
@@pikkisful great advice save the money tats for your arms
y’all took this the wrong way 💀 she’s not saying “go get one on impulse at a shady shop without doing research” nor is she “advertising” to young people. she’s saying if you’re scared, and you’re worried your parents will be disappointed even after you’ve moved out, it doesn’t rly matter and you should just get the tattoo.
then she should say that. This is advice on whether or not to be worried about others opinions. Not the actual tattoo portion.
“Your parents are probably already disappointed in you”…I felt that one, but you’re not wrong
I can see why her parents would be disappointed with her.
Lmao sounds like a her problem tbh
@@a_usernamehere3680 true😂 ur parents aren’t disappointed in u bruh ur like 12, most these kids think cuz they mom yell at them means she disappointed😂 these kids r stupid bruh n fake depressed💀
@@YoHoeKraveMo exactly
I got my first tattoo with my parents when I was 18 . Your parents dont have to be disappointed , just try to convince them . Maybe it will work .
This is the advice that when you're 20 makes so much sense but you look back 10 years later and realize how stupid you were 🤣
Just look at the finished product.
Yeah my grandpa has tattoos he always told me that they were too permanent for someone as dumb as he was
😆
I don’t regret any of my tattoos from my early 20s but I wasn’t stupid and I made sure they where all things I loved.
@@captainuniversal3680 I want to know what they are!! XD
"Parents are temporary... Tattoos are forever "
Lmaoooo nice (Randy marsh voice) 😂😂
Bro 😂😭😭
The love of parents is forever as long as you had good loving parents
🤣🤣🤣
Except they fade and need to be redone
My inexperienced, 19 years old advice is: Think for months/years prior, look at the portfolio of the studio & the artist, save up more money than you think you'll need, don't steal designs, but it's nice if you have inspos, that you can show your artist, if you're not pleased with the design feel free to say no to it: it's your body after all.
Flash is cool. If I want, I can request extra details and different colors. Well, first I need a nice artist who would oblige to make the changes to the flash.
Best advice is draw it on with marker and walk with it for a week.
"But that looks dumb!"
Exactly, if you can't handle the marker for a week imagine ink when your entire life style changes, which it 100% will multiple times
This is some solid advice 🙌
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I do this before every tattoo. Great advice! it really does make for (sometimes) wiser art choices and you get to work out details and play with placement to make it easier when you take it to your artist 😌
I did this with my first tattoo and still likes it
With a marker? 😅😂😅😂😅 no just no 😅😂😅😂😅
Get a temp tattoo sure but dont draw it on with a marker 😅 it wont look anything like a tatoo and will look terrible.
Theres so many temporary tattoo iptions i agree with, but not a "marker" 😂🤣
"Go for it", absolutely, but also please put time and energy into finding a sanitary, reputable salon and a good artist-
Absolutely not. You will regret it 90% of the time. Espetislly if you are under like 25.
Definitely find a good artist and take time to know what you want. I hate people that have tatts and they're like "yeah I have no idea why I got it, there's no significant mean for it"
@@Cyborg_Lenin talking as if you speak for every person ever you’re probably about 12 and religious 😂 keep your dads outdated opinions to yourself and keep playing them video games, I’m sure you disappoint him more than anyone who’s got tattoos ever disappointed their parents
@@techsk8er1O5 i mean some people treat their skin like canvas, and you know, they're allowed. Tattoos are art, in the end. Art doesn't always has to have a deep meaning.
Art could be a doodle of a rat smoking a fat dart and that's okay
@@northernlink8521 You wrote so much, yet said nothing. Go into politics, yours skills will come in handy.
From my experience people that have a lot of tattoos and are happy with them in the long term tend to be a very particular type of person. I think if you’re someone who overthinks stuff, just don’t do it, you’ll overthink it before, and afterwards
This is so true, my boyfriend is covered in tattoos and is a care free type of person. No worries about the future etc. Meanwhile I am still thinking about a small tattoo and how it may have impact on my future.
@@222beau if its small, depending on where it is. It wont impact your future at all probably
You either hold value to the tattoo and what it means to you or you value your body and what you put on it. I'm a very fickle person who overthinks everything but when it comes to tattoos I will get one on a whim and love it just as much as one I'd get after planning for years.
Depends what things you overthink about, I overthink a lot but I don’t really think much when it comes to getting tattoos done
@@222beau I’ve always worried about whether having tattoos would affect my employment/my future but decided to get tattooed around my boobs. So literally no one would see them unless I’m naked or wearing a bikini. Most people in my life don’t even kno I hv any tattoos because of their placement.
So literally just depends on where u get tattooed.
The toughest decision for me is the placement 😂
I know ****ing right!
My first tattoo I wanted, the artist told me if you still want it after a year then get it. Needless to say I changed my mind so often and was glad I didn’t pull the trigger on it. So my advice would be to make sure you REALLY want it, it will be on your body forever, so make it count.
Like I want to get a specific tattoo and I have wanted it for many years...but my parents arnt into tattoos...and tbh idk if I should since I cant stand pain....maybe I shouldn't hmm
That’s actually why I have never gotten a tattoo. I know I will like something for a while then want to change it.., can’t do that with a tattoo. Lol
@@hereweare9096 I just want a small smile tattoo on my wrist
Counter point. My first tat was a small paw on my forearm just cuz. And I could have waited the year that it ended up taking me to realized I wanted it bigger, but for that whole year, I just had a small lil tattoo that was less neat that in was gonna be.
The counter point being, after you get it, you'll probably be fine with it. Ultimately it's just a drawing on some skin.
Yes! That’s why they say don’t get a tat until your an adult. Your views and outlook will change so many times after 16 or 18
She really said you’re a disappointment. We love to see it💅🏽💖
She's not wrong tho 😂😬
@@oyabun9650 speak for yourself bud.
@@wolfy4734 did I say anything else lulul
@@oyabun9650 omegalul
@@oyabun9650 you just did
as someone with multiple tattoos, don't just do it. make sure you have a credible artist and you're positive this is something you want permanently on your body. i used to draw it on my body for a few weeks so I'd really know how I felt about it before I did anything I couldn't just wash off
also think through what you want, I'm young now but I remember wanting the dumbest tattoos a couple years ago for the simple reason they looked cool on someone else but I know id hate it being on my body right now, you do grow out of things and ideas so don't spontaneously get something because you like it. i have 6 tattoos that mean a lot to me and I don't regret any of them after a few years because they're more than just a cool design or a phase i went through. remember, this is permanent and will be a part of you forever so think about how you'll feel in 5, 10 or 15 years
Tattoos are a work of art do what is best for you honestly. It's best to find something that suits your body and personality. Tattoos are expensive, good tattoos aren't cheap while bad tattoos are tacky. Each to his own.
Ah, yes. A girl who looks no older than 23, who mentions her disappointed parents, is exactly the type of person I want giving other people advice about permanent decisions.
Lol
Haha exactly what I was thinking.
You sound like someone who allows their parent to treat them like a slave
@@JulyIzHere Or maybe someone with common sense...
@@JulyIzHere judging by ur comment it sounds like your parents are disappointed in you lol
Big advice I can give, dont get your partner's name tatted on you regardless how much you love them. Anything can happen. I didn't listen and I learn the hard way.
This is definitely the best advice you can give someone when it comes to getting a tattoo. I never did but have so many friends that did and then had to get it covered up.
Yep. Pretty much. Grew up in a traditional Asian household where even having hair in medium length was unacceptable. Well today I'm tatted with hair that goes to my mid back and absolutely no regrets.
be yourself, not what other people want you to be.
What is a "traditional Asian household"?
Do you speak for all type of Asian or something?
I'm Asian and I don't understand what you mean.
@@muhammadrauf2600 It means an Asian household who has traditional (old school conservative) views, meaning only girls should have long hair, boys like blue girls like pink, tattoos are Satanic or are only for criminals etc. Stuff like that.
@@muhammadrauf2600 probably was referring to his specific ethnicity and didn't broaden his terminology because most people are too ignorant to understand the difference between traditional Chinese vs Japanese vs Viatnamese vs Koren vs etc. etc.
Which is weird because having long hair used to be a pretty normal thing in Asia
Yes…great advice, and delivered with all of the confidence of someone who clearly has their life together…
😄😂😁🤣🤣🤣Exactly.🤣😁😂😄😂😁
don’t take life so seriosly
Idk man tattoo artists make pretty good money. Try living your life instead of spewing hate to someone you'll never meet face to face
Tbh I’d more go along the lines of “dont shy away from doing it because other people tell you not do. Do it bc you want to”. Do research into who you go to! A tattoo doesn’t have to mean anything deep, but making sure you go to a clean shop and it helps to do some research into the artist (though, walk ins are also fun! Great way to support newer artists)
??? That’s literally what she said, just not directly
I’m of the mind of, if a tattoo doesn’t mean something it’s a waste of time and money
@@rabbi4skin666 it may be for you, but it's def not a waste for some people 🤷
@@rabbi4skin666 not necessarily. if you really want a cool piece of art on your body it’s not a waste
Idk y’all, none of my tattoos have any meaning. I just got them cause I liked it and I don’t regret them one bit.
Same, there's no need to have a cryptic message behind them. I got all of mine because I thought they looked pretty
I literally just got flowers on my hip because I just wanted flowers I tried to think of some sort of meaning behind it but couldn’t conjure up anything
Still needa pick a decent artist thoooo
@@DobbsWorld that's a no brainer tbh
@@DobbsWorld going to the right artist is key. I think u can enjoy any tattoo u get as long as it comes out with quality lines and shade work.
Whenever your advice includes the phrase "who cares", it's not good advice
Why do you care what other people think?
@@brucegelman5582 actually if you read the comment, he didn't say he did. He just stated that advice you get from people who use the phrase "who cares" adjacent to said "advice" is probably not good advice to a general population of developing teenagers/young adults.
@@brucegelman5582 reading must be hard for you
@@vermin5367 Why do you care what I think?
@@omarlemus5150 Why do you care if reading is or is not burdensome for me?
Don't just do it to go against your parents. Do it because you want to and do your RESEARCH.💀
Seems like a real upstanding citizen. I’m sure she’ll be a great mother one day.
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Hey man, nothing wrong with an inked up baby mama 🤧
That’s a dumb comment. You don’t know how she would be based off of a 20 second video.
@@TheGlobfather619 It's the way she's acting
How can you come to such a conclusion from merely her appearance and just one opinion of hers that you disagree with? I'd be more than happy to have her pump out my kids 😏
Besides something gang related or relationship related, I have never met a single person who regrets their tattoos
Good or bad, it marked a time in your life, so just get them when things are going okay and you'll be fine
I regrets 3/5 of mine 😂
I know so many people who regretted them especially if they got them young
This 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Make sure you will never regret it. Think about : The art, your parents, your future, the tattoo artist, the side effects, and maybe some other things too.
The ink will stay in the blood
+1
Don't think abt ur parents if you're grown if they don't like then they can get over it
Ur other points r valid tho
@@Poltergeistprincess of course i will still do, eventho i am grown up already. I am an Asian after all, hehe and even if i am not Asian. Parents still will be one of the most important before i decide about tattoo. Hehe
If your skin is sensitive and you don’t have a high pain tolerance, probably skip a tattoo that’ll be on your joint or in an area with little to no fat for your first one. I have sensitive skin and got my first tattoo right on my hip. Even with a bigger needle, I could barely hold still from how bad it hurt.
I started getting tattoos at 16 and regret none of them. Take care of them afterwards it is literally an open wound. Do your research on the shop and artist find one that specializes in what you’re wanting to get and just go for it. And if you’re scared get one anyways you’ll be happy with it after it is done
If you are not 100% sure what you want, then dont do it.. if you are go for it ! I "challange" my own new tattoos idés and drawings for a minium of 1 month if I still like it after that. Then the mission is a go :D
I do the same, I'll sit on it for a while and show people who's opinions matter and get helpful input. It's always a good idea to other people's input and ask yourself "will this matter in 5 years?"
@@TheDeviIDogg yes yes! So true :)
Same, mostly because I don’t have the money at the time though, so it works out well 😂
1 month is way too short. You should give it at least a year imo. That should really tell you if you really want it or not.
Same but with a 2 year rule which I like as sometimes I love something for close to a year then think butttt if it went more like this and am happy, but sometimes it’s a pain to wait that long but it means I’m a lot less likely to regret it in another 2 yrs 😂 but I agree with the design and wait and keep designing for any period of time
Idk if it's a good idea to take the advice of someone in their mid-20s that you won't regret something.
Nailed it 👍.
Truth
Young sexy and covered in shit tattoos.... you wont regret it lmfao
@@tomwelshshore Also works at a tattoo parlor and not in a professional office space.
“You’re parents are already disappointed in you somehow.” Sounds like projection to me.
Her expression as she said all that made me not want to get a tattoo haha
Good choice brother. Tatoo makes shitt faces lockable nothing more.
@@gamefreak8503 im sorry, what? 😂
You don't need to put ink on your body I mean who really thinks this looks good? Her tattoos give me major anxiety
My mom was the one who encouraged me to finally get a tattoo and it ended up being an excellent decision, so no, not all parents are gonna be disappointed 😂. My advice is as follows, tho - make sure to get a tattoo ONLY when you're sure that you really want it and will continue to want it in the future. Otherwise, you're gonna end up with a lot of regrets inked under your skin and you WILL care 😂
Mine would be 😂, i hinted to them that I wanted to get a sleeve n my dad said:
“Please don’t do it” 😂 with a look of concern on his face
@@D00Rb3LL I mean, how old are you? 😂 If you're below 18, I would ask you if you're sure you wanna get it, bc often, kids end up getting tattoos that they regret several years later. My best friend is a tattoo artist (they did my half-sleeve) - the amount of adults coming in for cover ups or touch ups and tattoo removals of tattoos they got when they were young is quite big. 😂 So, if I were your parent, I'd probably ask you to sit down and think about it and only make a decision when you're really sure.
Bur that's just me. You gotta remember that not everyone likes tattos. Your dad may simply dislike tattoos in general, which is absolutely, demonstrably fine - not everyone is a fan and in some cultures and religions, tattoos aren't exactly well-liked or well-received. So, it's all about different tastes, preferences and perspectives. If you're an adult capable of making rational decisions or even a teen who's certain about what they want and already have their style and perspective established (which certainly isn't common) I'd say go for it.
@@tn-t i am 20
@@D00Rb3LL in which case, the second part of my reply applies
Actual advice: avoid areas that would keep you from getting hired for a job (face, neck, etc.)
Or just don't work somewhere that cares. Ink in my skin is irrelevant to my abilities as a worker. I'm a person, not a robot. And with the worker shortage these days, jobs can't really afford to be picky about what their workers appearance looks like.
@@snailgirl420 I agree with that, but if you want a solid office job where you make good money (like I want when I graduate college this year), then try to avoid the face, neck, and probably hands. If you’re gonna work in a restaurant or in retail they probably won’t care a whole lot. So to each his own. Just trying to give useful advice for people planning on getting a tat 👍
@@philipmacrevis3086 Either way, it's too late in my case. Lol. I got some hearts next to my eye and my Snailboi logo (my profile pic) on my neck. But my boss doesn't care, and I am banking on working here till my music career takes off. Not planning on being rich by any means, but if I can just pay my bills with music? I will be satisfied.
I'm a tattoo artist and I completely understand what she is saying, but maybe you should put a bit of thought into it. Make sure you research the place you want to get it and the tattoo artists in your area. I've had so many people get tattoos in really painful places just because they didn't do their research and they would have been happy with it anywhere else. Also you get what you pay for so if you want to spend very little for a big piece then I can guarantee it's most likely going to be low quality. Choosing a tattoo is a whole other thing, and I agree with her on this part. Get whatever you want as long as it's responsible and you don't think you'll regret it in the future. It doesn't have to mean anything to you, it could just be something you think is pretty. I have so many tattoos and only one or two actually mean something to me. As long as you are okay with having something on your body forever then it's okay. If you do end up regretting it then you can get it covered up or removed. I recommend getting it covered up if it's possible because you can get some really cool cover up designs.
Worst advice I’ve ever heard 🤣
It’s not advice lmao.
It’s her rationalizing her bad decisions.
Not really, it’s your body who cares what others think. If you’re happy you’re happy
@@Weeniehutnurse But most people aren’t happy once they hit their 30s, the ink is fading, their skin is drying out, and their pretty flowers are wilting. There’s a reason why it wasn’t socially acceptable until the “gibs me” generation took over.
@@blank-vj1mc I feel like when you say “most people” you’re exaggerating since most people are actually fine with their ink still
@@Weeniehutnurse Wait so I can’t say most, but you can? I can point to the ever increasing tattoo coverup industry. All you can say is “I like mine still”
You will regret it someday. You’re tastes will change, trends will change, you’re idea of what is “cool” will change. Don’t do it. Tattoos don’t mean shit, and you won’t get any cool points. There is zero originality left.
Memorial pieces, kids names, illness battle representation (like a piece dedicated to beating cancer or addiction), there's a fuck ton of reasons that absolutely DO mean something. Not every tattoo is a trend, just say you're a shallow, judgemental piss baby and leave
The psychology of gen z “Just do it, Who cares” 😂😂😂
that is probably the best way of thinking if you are a regular citizien
oh trust me if that was it we'd have wayyy less anxiety
@@genderlessmonster4284 regular drone*
yolooooooo
“Who cares” You should, a lot. Care about who the artist is, what you’re getting, and the placement. It’s on your body forever. Others don’t need to care, but YOU need to.
What a great advice. “I think very low of myself, I disappoint the people around me, please be like me, so I am not alone, why not, fuck it”. GG
Who hurt you
@@reaganjaegan who hurt her? Ah no wait, she said it pretty immediately: herself. Why would she mention immediately her disappointed parents? Lmao. Also: what an original comment! Virgin enough?
Yeah, don’t do it. Who cares.
You’ll be glad you didn’t end up looking like the back wall in the last stall at a truck stop toilet in 1986👍🏼
It took me 2 years to decide on the final design of my first tattoo, and then I sat on it for another 6 months before actually getting it done. And I can honestly say that I still love the tattoo and proudly show it off when I can.
Nothing good ever came from the "hey, you wanna get tattoos today?" Type of question
Depends. I can walk in to any traditional shop with good artists and pick off the wall same day and be more than satisfied with it on my body. Most Traditional artists appreciate walk ins for flash, it’s part of the culture.
I can remember getting my 1st and 2nd tattoo and my mom was upset. The 3rd one I hid from her. Eventually she found out and she told me “ the next tattoo you get, I am ripping it with your skin off your body”. GOD rest her soul in Heaven. Looking down I know she is shaking her head at me. I’ve got both arms half sleeved, both biceps have a tattoo, both should blades tattooed and my right calf tattooed.
Best advice I’d think about placement. You’ll probably want more and you want them to all work together. Don’t take up good real estate with something that will be in the way. Also reasearch what makes a good tattoo! Really study the line work and shading and find an artist who can do it well. Allot of people think oh that looks good but when you really scrutinize it with the proper knowledge most tattoos are shit. Choose wisely.
As a tattooed person who just did it, don't. The chance you'll regret it is very high. You wouldn't wear the clothes you wore ten years ago, imagine what having a motive you don't like anymore in your skin feels like. Plus, you will get judged. That will suck someday.
😂
"You won't regret it" bahaha what, is this coming from a 20 yo?
“Make sure you won’t regret it” is good advice but most people evolve and change so often that even if you think you’ll Iove it forever that might not be the case.
When you don’t know what to do with your hands
When you're 60 years old on the beach ,those tattoos are faded and discolored, they are going to look sooooo GOOD !
When I’m 60 years old I’ll looks sooooooo GOOD! ;)
@@borisstefanoski7960 Hahahaha. I hope so as well !
Why would you be 60 and on the beach? It’s not like you’d otherwise look great. I’d be more interested in the tattooed old lady.
@@xxfox Tattooed old bat on the beach ???? Gross.
The human body in general doesn't look good when it reaches its 60s, regardless of tattoos, so this is a moot point.
I’m covered in my mid 30s. I regret every single one!
Brave of you to admit that. What’s changed your views on having ink?
@@soulspace9088 Most are from an old friend who wasn’t a pro at that time… my lines are all fat and blown out on all of the tattoos he did. Also the tattoos that I chose I thought meant something to me but now that I’m older it all just looks out of place. I hate to admit but I literally have a HUGE “No Regrets” tattoo on my forearm. 🤣💀 I’ve got every f*cking cliche tattoo from the early 2000s. It’s bad. I’d love to find someone who specializes in coverups.
"Your Parents probably already disappointed in you, some point, somehow": *Good Advice*
"Just do it, you'll have fun, you won't regret it, who cares".. : *Bad Advice*
Bro you down bad this comment was not it homie
I guess I’ll give my opinion when it comes to just getting tattooed in general I feel like a lot of people overstressed their meaning which don’t give me wrong meaningful tattoos with a good representation or some of the best but tattooing is also fun it’s art it can be as simple as if you’d like oranges in orange tattooed at the same time
When ppl ask me what my tattoos mean I tell them none of them mean anything except the portraits of my parents. I have both my arms fully done and my whole entire chest done. I thought of all of my tattoos the day of my appointment. I just enjoy the art, no meaning at all to any of them.
Some ppl are shocked when I say that but I also think its not that serious guys...lol yes its permanent but it doesnt have to mean anything. I have all black and grey realism and the thing I absolutely love that ppl say when they see my tattoos is "Wow, your tattoos arent tattoos, its real art. They are well done tattoos" I love that more than anything. Appreciation for my tattoos. I like when ppl like my tattoos simply for it being well done tattoos!
My first tattoo i got because I just literally have always like mermaids and sometimes people just don't get it,,,like I just have always thought they were pretty lol
Only 2 of my tattoos have meaning and they both got fucked up, one for my grandmother that was done badly and now, 13 years later, you can't even read it and one for my son which is supposed to say Leo, but they spelled it Lea instead, all of my others have no meaning, I just liked them and they all turned out great
Good to know my parents are disappointed in me. I mean, I definitely already knew that but it’s always fun to have a cute little reminder.
If I have learned one thing in life is never trust people looking like this.
Ik sounds like an aholle thing to say but having many social interactions with people like her in the past(crazy colours on hair, multiple tattoos, tons of piercings etc) one thing I can confirm is that they *do* come from broken families and are kids of absent parents and always see life the "you only live once, live crazy, do now, regret later" mentality, which slowly ruins them.
@@alcoholikosnaftis sooo no one ever taught you not to judge a book by its cover???
Cause I'm sure you know every single person that "looks like that" in and out.
@@804_Rider I just said I have lived with these people, had friendships and romantic relationships with them, aspired adopt this style too. I have opened up to them and they have opened up to me. Also the way you look, talk, act, decide stuff is a mirror of yourself, basic phycology that applies to every single human. But yes I judge the book by its cover I guess😂
@@alcoholikosnaftis
I happen to have purple/blue hair and my share of piercings. I have a very close and healthy relationship with all of my direct family and do not come from a broken home 🙃
I also work in healthcare and am very successful thank you very much.
Maybe you should check your assumptions at the door and learn to judge people for their actions and not their appearances.
@Hugh Mongous the author is not always the person who writes the blurb. judging the cover means seeing the book through somebody else’s eyes, reading the book means seeing it with your own.
honestly, almost didn't get my chest done because I thought my grandma (she's my angel) would hate looking at it, but I got it done and then showed her a couple days later and turns out she's really happy for me and likes it. My next tattoo is going to be her favorite flowers, hope she loves it
You got it because you wanted to spite your loved one?
@@beefortebrea9386 no they clearly wanted a tattoo in general but almost didn't because they cared about Grandma's feelings, the opposite of what you're saying.
Super glad grandma is so awesome- she is happy that Dai is happy, that's so sweet
Hii
Some guys don't date women with tats.
Chest tats on women are pretty much always a terrible idea. They look like trash and they look even worse a few years later when things start drooping
I waited too long. I wanted one since I was 12. I am 28 now, got my first tattoo, waited a week, and then got 3 more. HAHA, next month, I'll get a bigger piece and hopefully end 2023 with at least 2 more sessions.
Given that all her tattoos look really good, I don’t think she meant don’t put care into your tattoo/artist. I think she meant don’t think too hard about others opinions where it concerns your art. But I could be wrong, just how I interpreted it.
agreed, I think this is good advice for a specific type of person (like her). maybe not for everyone but some people can definitely pull it off without overthinking & wont end up regretting it
Instantly all your relationship options went from 7-9/10 engineering majors to 0-5/10 pitbull owners with nephews they refer to as “bubba”
She’s projecting hard
It's called being facetious
Wait at least a year, and if you still badly want one, plan it out properly with budget, tattoo arist motive etc. The tattoo is permanent, and tattoo removal leaves scars. If your not 110% sure, dont get one.
Get an artist buddy to draw it on with a sharpie for a week or two until the concept of the tattoo itself loses novelty. Then you will know if you actually like it and will get a small insight into how you might feel YEARS down the line.
I said “f*** it” when I was goin’ for my 1st tatttoo. My parents don’t approve bc “it’s a sin” but at the end of the day… it’s my body & I’m one sleeve down so they can’t stop me 😂
Ya after wiping your stingy ass for over a decade f it right sounds like a bastard move
@@vikarsan3296 Imagine thinking you can't live your own life just because your parents did the bare minimum for the child *they* decided to have. If I were you, I'd be damned if *anyone* thought they were entitled to *my* body.
I can see how insecure she is lol towards the end I thought she was gonna start crying talking about how her parents are disappointed in her.. Poor girl
Yeah…. She didn’t look like that, but I’m sure you would be happy to see it.
@@Houseproudasamotherhen it's pretty obvious she is
@@Mr.StealYoCat I don't agree
@@9alt0 I could be wrong
Goes into a tattoo artist drunk and gets a tattoo of bowser on a surfboard playing a double neck guitar with sunglasses winking all behind a cross which is also behind a pot leaf
Ok I understand what you’re saying but that tattoo would absolutely slap 100%
"Who cares"
The song of a generation. A precursor to the end.
Sad ain't it. One lesson I have learned is never seek advice from people looking, speaking and thinking like her. Ik sounds like what an aholle would say but trust me the way people look is the mirror to who they are
@@alcoholikosnaftis don’t feel like an ahole, this person CLEARLY makes terrible decisions. These people are peasants and filler in the world. They contribute nothing and offer nothing other then their terrible advice. Social media gave these people a megaphone and a sense of entitlement that everyone should listen and respect their opinion. The end is near…
@@blakerich5804 when the end comes I hope u go first…
@@surekya you’d rather those people survive? Good luck is all I have to say, y’all won’t last long lol.
I choose wisely when it comes to Tattoos because I want to be proud of them and don't have any drunk ideas 😂
Where I live we have quite a lot of tattoo shops and you can only book tattoos in advance, you can't just drunkenly walk into a shop and get one done there and then, I think that's a good idea, keeps people from making "drunken mistakes" and regretting them 😄
Now that’ll “teach her parents a lesson”. Ha!
I say definitely pay close attention to the design of your tattoo before they start! I got my first tattoo at 18. The artists was kind and he did a great job. I’m only 21 but I still love it. I didn’t pay close enough attention to the design *I* gave him and noticed after getting it that one of the smaller flowers in the design looked a little weird. If I had thoroughly looked at the image before giving it to the artist I would’ve had him tweak that flower a bit. BUT instead of hating that flower I take it as a reminder of 1. I need to pay more attention with tattoos lol and 2. Nobody/nothing is perfect. The piece is absolutely beautiful even with that minor flaw. And people go too hard on themselves for their flaws or mistakes.
do your research with tattoo artists, don’t just go to anyone. and make sure they sanitize their supplies bc they can ruin your skin right quick and you’ll definitely regret it
Great advice for someone who doesn’t want to work in a professional setting
If your job is the type to care that you have tattoos, then just don't work there, because you're gonna be treated like a robot and not a person anyway. Fuck that. There is a worker shortage, not a job shortage, they can't afford to be picky. And the ink in my skin has nothing to do with my ability as a worker, it's completely unrelated and discriminatory.
Ah yes cause everyone should look the same, talk the same, think the same. But let me guess...free thinker?
your tattoos don't need to have a deep meaning but you should at least be smart enough to make sure you'll like them in 5 years and it's kinda hard to do that when your first thought is "fuck my parents I'm getting a tattoo because they won't let me"
She doesn't mean that, she means don't let opinions of others dictate what you do with your body
I'm pretty sure she is a grown adult who probably grew up in a strict household and let that hold her back for sometime and she is not just some rebellious teenager. Why can't women speak without yall doing this?
She looks like a race car with loads of sponsors - a pretty race car at that ❤
Yeah I don't think any sane person would define the experience of getting a tattoo as "fun" irrespective of how badly they want one or love it afterwards.
It was fun getting mine, I would definitely describe the experience as fun
Funny enough my mom loves tattoos and came with me for my first one and then got one when i was starting my sleeve
Don't waste space!
Thank you! To many do that :D
Before even coming to the comment section I could tell there would be a whole bunch of people hating on her just because she gave some bad advice, yet these people probably have nothing better to do then to come on RUclips and write stupid comments to make themselves feel better. Great job guys! EDIT; she definitely makes a lot more money and the people hating on her too LMFAOOOO
Terrible advice. This is probably why her parents are disappointed
True
“Your parents are probably already disappointed in you, so just do it.”
Hahah. I used that same logic when someone offered me heroin for the first time. 😂 no really though, just do it, but only if you know the tattoo artist knows his/her sh!t and you know you will be happy with their work. Try to get pieces that you know you won’t regret. Artwork that has meaning to you. Also, just know that it is risky to get ink done on areas of your body that can’t be concealed by clothing, such as hands, the neck, etc. As dumb as it may be, people judge.. and you’re essentially closing many doors on yourself by not heeding that advice. It sucks to miss out on career opportunities over tattoos. I LOVE tattoos and am working on completing 2 sleeves, and I’m really wanting to get the back of my hand done as part of my left arms sleeve, but even my tattoo artist talked me out of it and convinced me to work on other areas first before making that choice, which I appreciate him doing. It’s not something you should just do on a whim. Oh, and lastly, don’t get face tattoos.. they look horrible 😂 just messing around kinda, but in MY OPINION it’s a shame when a pretty girl gets face tattoos especially. Women with tattoos are sexy as hell.. but don’t mess with the face! This chick in the video looks really good with what she has done.. It would be a shame if she inked her face. That’s just me though.
They’ll forget about the first tattoo once they see the second one ! So don’t stress and just keep getting tattoos! 🤣
They’ll forget about the first kid/std/felony once they see the second! What horrible advice.
@@blank-vj1mc getting tattoos has nothing to do with the shit you just listed.
@@sureqthirtyseven exactly ! But getting a tattoo is as bad as an STD or a felony apparently hahaha shit a hole sleeve must be the equivalent to killing somebody to this bloke 🤣
@@blank-vj1mc 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@kanethomo2483 HURR DURR CLOWN MEME.
You completely ignore the point to get butthurt and defensive over your bad decision. I’m criticizing how OP justified your nasty skin disfigurement, not say it’s literally equal to murder.
Though you do murder your chances at getting a good job.
Don’t listen to her. Nobody can predict 5,10, 25, 40 years down the road what you will or will not regret. Just think of the hundreds phases you’ve already passed through. Most are just memories because they don’t leave an indelible mark if where you were.
Bruh Imagine giving such as bad advice being “experienced” in tattoos… Wym who cares??? Maybe the person that is going to keep ink on their body all life of maybe something they don’t want anymore
You can tell the people who actually like tattoos apart from the people taking orders from their old school parents in these comments...
@@tilly3702 that has nothing to do with old school parents bro, it's just the bad advice form this girl. It's plenty of people that regrets a tattoo, specially when you do it when you are young, so fucking think before doing a tatto and maybe earlier than 18 yo it's not the best cuz the mentality changes a lot in this years. That's just facts. Saying "fuckit, who cares you will not regret it" it's just false.
@@lucamazzetta6003 she's saying don't let peoples opinion control you? But let me think your an independent thinker that go against the crowd. 🙄
@@jesterparty6947 yeah sure bro nice reply, such a good argument and information you just gave, lol
Inked really posted this bs advise from a tiktok ethot? damn yall climbed all the way up just to dive head first from the top ahaha
There is a whole industry of tattoo removal for people that regret it.
I have tattoos and piercings I don't care if my kids do it as long as they are of age and do lots of research and thinking before making the permanent decision. What u want at 18 might not be what you want at 25 or 30 so makes sure it is something they can live with.
When your justification starts with "your parents..." think more.
"your parents are probably already disappointed in you... "
This is an awful thing to say. i understand not all parents are the same but why...
Getting tattoos doesn't mean your parents are disappointed in you. its a form of art and Expression *almost* everyone gets 1 tat. DONT "Just do it," You will regret it of you don't take the time to read up about tattoos, thinking about a design or anything like that..
im disappointed in this video tbh
Cover ups aren't always an option and getting them removed is thousands of dollars and you may never be able to put a tattoo there again. so think before you do anything
What a brave young lady.......she tattooed her whole body just to show us how not to get tattoed.
I had 9 tattoos done , the first when I was 16 and the last when I was 25. I loved them and was proud of them..but at 37 now , I really regret it. Shes very young and good looking now , but wait until she reaches her 40s and 50s , theres a very high probability she will regret some if not ill of them.