Healing slowly from this disease....it Changes what you are, How you think or How you behave and feel, Recently I discovered what my complex trauma that makes want to go back... Am getting stronger bit by bit
It's so dangerous. You have the physical Zina committed a single man & woman are affected. But Pornography is such that the entire world is affected it only takes one prostitute. Then what is the case if there are 1000.
Well to be honest children have no sexual urge they feel nothing towards to opposite sex, when i was a child i hated girls and thought they were smelly until i went high school and hit puberty then all that changed
By the grace of Allah, I have been traveling to different countries. I noticed that my Facebook and Google accounts work differently in various countries. Although these platforms claim that the content is customized, I have observed that the same account shows different suggestions based on location. They say it is customized, but the same account will show different recommendations. In Muslim countries, for example, the second or third suggested video will often be explicit, while in Europe, it will not suggest such content. Even if you search for explicit content, the results differ. In Muslim countries, explicit content appears more frequently in search results. In my opinion, some internet giants may be deliberately trying to influence or undermine the moral values of the Muslim youth. I believe Muslim leaders should address this issue. One potential solution could be to follow the UAE’s example and ban pornographic websites.
Our muslim parents think we become stable first and then get married and this single thing destroys us. We are neglected throughout the life and end of the day we get blamed for mistakes which are inevitable
I agree with you. However one must differentiate between outer circumstances and decision you make for yourself. Yes, your mistakes may have been a result of certain injustices by society and/or parents; neverthenless is it your own responsibility to firstly abstain and heal yourself and then taking action. And to heal yourself, you have to stop seeing the fault in others for your own mistake (by you I don't mean you in particular, I mean in general) and make up 100% for it. And yes, it hurts. But it is this pain, that cleans your heart and opens the door of your heart for Allah, who is only waiting for you to open it. One must live with the pain of the consequences and accept it, while still being hopeful. In this moment you are literally a muslim (submitter), saliman lil haqq (submitting to the truth). At this point Allah will help you, be certain of that
@@saqi3586well said, I’m working on holding myself accountable instead of blaming parents because.. I was the one who fell for the trap of Shaytan at 13, now at 24, it’s been rough fighting this beast and with the help of Allah, surely there is victory ✌️
@@abdullahiabdi2660 Ahsant Akhi. It just makes me very sad and angry seeing how weak we have become. Muslim men are supposed to have honor, healthy pride and power and to be like a mountain for the women and weak ones. But we are currently asleep and distracted by all the pleasures
سُبْحَانْ الله ! "If you find someone pleasing to you, marry your child to them. For if you don't, there will be fitnah and uncontainable corruption" 😢
Porn is also sex education because we learn so much different sex position and so many ways to satisfy a woman. Our women don’t believe in diet and exercise. We don’t see beauty in them anymore. Of course if we had a young beautiful woman at home it will definitely help to lower our gaze. But when you are stuck with a middle age overweight woman who don’t believe in diet and exercise what do you expect. Talk is cheap we need solutions to our problems.
I guarantee, this astronomical rise in porn searches began with the advent of the smart phone...at your fingertips, discreet, with you 24/7, so as to never miss an opportunity to prey on you, when you're weak...and every single Tom, Dick & Harry has one! Everyone! They may not have food to eat, but they have a smartphone! We need to give them up, have to, there is no other way
I have a serious issue with this sin. my soul feels black and its scary when i used to be so god fearing. also guys just a word of warning - once exposed to prolong periods it is near impossible to fall in love as you just see woman as objects. you feel disgusted with yourself and wonder if it is reversible. kids its not worth destroying your soul over. your mariage will suffer as you dont find pleasure with the person anymore only in a fantasy video. just saying this to stop others from doing my mistakes.
It is reversible my dear brother in Islam. I recommend reading the book ”Your Brain on Porn” by Gary Wilson. Have faith and hope in Allah. You can overcome the whispers of Shaytan inshallah.
Very old and outdated lecture that doesn’t address the solutions to our problems in life. Just a bunch of talking points that doesn’t offer any solutions to modern day problems.
These stats r not correct. Porn sites are banned in pakistan so how pakistan as a location showing up in these stats. Please use correct referneces n sources
Sheikh Hamza Yusuf may Allah bless you and your Family!
Ameen
Pornography creates Misery. Peace comes through Spirituality.
Yes
Healing slowly from this disease....it Changes what you are,
How you think or How you behave and feel,
Recently I discovered what my complex trauma that makes want to go back...
Am getting stronger bit by bit
@ Keep asking Allah for help
It's so dangerous. You have the physical Zina committed a single man & woman are affected. But Pornography is such that the entire world is affected it only takes one prostitute. Then what is the case if there are 1000.
@@qissaofislam i am in this addiction from past 10-15 years i am so fkd up :(
A very appropriate n much needed talk - much thanks n prayer!
You are welcome. May Allah bless you
May Allah SWT bless you and the listeners of this lecture
Ameen. May Allah guide them
I am in love with How Shaykh Hamza Yousuf propagates.
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Desire is an emptiness to fill a void....wow
@@M2ohamad ☝🏻👍🏻
Hamza Yusuf is my Teacher 💚
❤️❤️❤️
Our teacher
Pornography will make life unbearable for people, and will take anyone to the abyss of Hell ;
Indeed
the more you consume the harder life becomes to endjure
Indeed
Oh Allah please save us and our generations to come from this filth and be pleased with us. Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
@@InaA-jy1qo ❤️❤️
It's true. If you notice children are disgusted by a couple kissing and if they see more, they'll puke. That is a pure state that we lost as Muslims.
Well to be honest children have no sexual urge they feel nothing towards to opposite sex, when i was a child i hated girls and thought they were smelly until i went high school and hit puberty then all that changed
Machallah the brother shared an indescribable amounts of knowledge.
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Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarahkatuh, Ya Sheikh, I'm highly enlightened and motivated by you. Jazakumullahul-khairan
Wa Alykumussalam. Wa iyyakum . ❤️
May Allah prevent us from this filth ❤❤ ameen
Ameen
By the grace of Allah, I have been traveling to different countries. I noticed that my Facebook and Google accounts work differently in various countries. Although these platforms claim that the content is customized, I have observed that the same account shows different suggestions based on location. They say it is customized, but the same account will show different recommendations. In Muslim countries, for example, the second or third suggested video will often be explicit, while in Europe, it will not suggest such content. Even if you search for explicit content, the results differ. In Muslim countries, explicit content appears more frequently in search results.
In my opinion, some internet giants may be deliberately trying to influence or undermine the moral values of the Muslim youth. I believe Muslim leaders should address this issue. One potential solution could be to follow the UAE’s example and ban pornographic websites.
Indeed
Our muslim parents think we become stable first and then get married and this single thing destroys us. We are neglected throughout the life and end of the day we get blamed for mistakes which are inevitable
Agree
I agree with you. However one must differentiate between outer circumstances and decision you make for yourself. Yes, your mistakes may have been a result of certain injustices by society and/or parents; neverthenless is it your own responsibility to firstly abstain and heal yourself and then taking action. And to heal yourself, you have to stop seeing the fault in others for your own mistake (by you I don't mean you in particular, I mean in general) and make up 100% for it. And yes, it hurts. But it is this pain, that cleans your heart and opens the door of your heart for Allah, who is only waiting for you to open it. One must live with the pain of the consequences and accept it, while still being hopeful. In this moment you are literally a muslim (submitter), saliman lil haqq (submitting to the truth). At this point Allah will help you, be certain of that
Being stable, so no one should 😂
@@saqi3586well said, I’m working on holding myself accountable instead of blaming parents because.. I was the one who fell for the trap of Shaytan at 13, now at 24, it’s been rough fighting this beast and with the help of Allah, surely there is victory ✌️
@@abdullahiabdi2660 Ahsant Akhi. It just makes me very sad and angry seeing how weak we have become. Muslim men are supposed to have honor, healthy pride and power and to be like a mountain for the women and weak ones. But we are currently asleep and distracted by all the pleasures
Bismillah jazakallahu khairan ❤️
Wa iyyakum
Thank you.
You are welcome
سُبْحَانْ الله !
"If you find someone pleasing to you, marry your child to them. For if you don't, there will be fitnah and uncontainable corruption" 😢
🤲🏻✨
Your choice of the word child is rather childish
@@fasalalbana4913 my english no good
Barakallahu fik
@@mohammedfauzongokho5726 Wa feekum
Barrakah Allah
Wa feekum
Cinammon honey and tumeric yummy in my tummy alhamdolillah this has helped so muched wallahi alhamdolillah
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Helped with what?!
MashAAllah
❤️🤲🏻
Powerful
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Porn is also sex education because we learn so much different sex position and so many ways to satisfy a woman.
Our women don’t believe in diet and exercise.
We don’t see beauty in them anymore.
Of course if we had a young beautiful woman at home it will definitely help to lower our gaze.
But when you are stuck with a middle age overweight woman who don’t believe in diet and exercise what do you expect.
Talk is cheap we need solutions to our problems.
MARRY WOMENS ...LIKE ME 38 YEARS OLD AND HAVE 4 GETTING ANOTHER NEXT
Does anyone know of the lecture title or link for the segment beginning 7:41 ?
Corresponding paper, "Climbing Mount Purgatorio: Reflections from the Seventh Cornice" by Hamza Yusuf
@@Tetardo wonderful, thank you
I guarantee, this astronomical rise in porn searches began with the advent of the smart phone...at your fingertips, discreet, with you 24/7, so as to never miss an opportunity to prey on you, when you're weak...and every single Tom, Dick & Harry has one! Everyone! They may not have food to eat, but they have a smartphone! We need to give them up, have to, there is no other way
This industry is run by the Saturday people.
Yes
How old is this lecture? I bet the stats now have increased exponentially at 2:38
Where to find the link for the paper he mentioned to read?
It called Desire and the Tainted Soul: Islamic Insights into Lust, Chastity, and Love, but I can’t find a link/paper to actually read the whole thing
He covers a lot in his video titled How Lust Becomes a Counterfeit Love
Corresponding paper, "Climbing Mount Purgatorio: Reflections from the Seventh Cornice" by Hamza Yusuf
@@Tetardo Jazakhallah Khair!!😊
6:18 - !!
23:00-
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18:32
If photography was not there.... Muslims would have......escaped from...
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He looks like Peter Sutcliffe 9:31
Ok
15:00
I have a serious issue with this sin. my soul feels black and its scary when i used to be so god fearing. also guys just a word of warning - once exposed to prolong periods it is near impossible to fall in love as you just see woman as objects. you feel disgusted with yourself and wonder if it is reversible. kids its not worth destroying your soul over. your mariage will suffer as you dont find pleasure with the person anymore only in a fantasy video. just saying this to stop others from doing my mistakes.
May Allah protect you
It is reversible my dear brother in Islam. I recommend reading the book ”Your Brain on Porn” by Gary Wilson. Have faith and hope in Allah. You can overcome the whispers of Shaytan inshallah.
Porno graphy ... Connection with HELL😮 ...
@@saqibali45 yes
❤❤❤❤❤❤THAT IS TRUE😇🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌙💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🌟☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️
@@mosesbasyarahil ❤️❤️❤️
Make it easier. So they are apllying not us 😢
18:32
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Very old and outdated lecture that doesn’t address the solutions to our problems in life.
Just a bunch of talking points that doesn’t offer any solutions to modern day problems.
It doesn't offer solution for losers, yes. You are absolutely right brother
These stats r not correct. Porn sites are banned in pakistan so how pakistan as a location showing up in these stats. Please use correct referneces n sources
These are correct.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Make it easier. So they are apllying not us 😢