I hope the lady in this story see this comment: Don’t be sad, tsis txob tu siab. It’s actually better that these people are not your blood brothers and sisters, that way you can think that they treat you as an outsider and not love you very much because they aren’t your blood, so it is what it is. If you had actual blood brothers and sisters, and you got treated like an outsider and got no love, imagine how sad that would be. You’d be even more heartbroken if they were your blood. But since they ain’t, don’t sweat it too much and no need to be so sad.
Your family is your kids and husband not others. I wouldn’t waste my time with people who don’t love/care about me. Don’t be desperate because they can see right through you and will take advantage of you.
Hmong people need to learn to live without the help and support of relatives like the old days. Old traditions requires too much outside help to get things done like funerals and wedding. Just go the American way and keep the circles small and close and focus on your own little family! Live is short cut out the haters in your life woman.
Oyo, don't pay too much attention and spend too much time on those people who don't see your values. They are just side distractions and often times, they are fighting their own battles too. Kind and generous people will be kind and generous wherever and whoever they are with. Those who are unkind will be unkind no matter where they are and who they are with. As we aged, we collect quality people and it's not about quantity anymore. Sometimes, less is more.
Don't be sad even blood brothers and sisters are not all loving. Just love your husband and children because they are truly the ones who you get love from.
I agree. I have 3 useless brothers. My husband also has 2 useless brothers. We help them but when we call, they are not available. 🙄In this century, your brothers are mekas people that you pay to get the job done.
tus me viv ncaus aw yog lawm os mog es koj txhob tu siab heev thiab os muab xav rau tej uas koom niam koom txiv los twb tseem tsis txawj sib thiab nawb mog ua neej nyob ces ib leeg nim muaj ib txoj kev nyuaj siab os mog
Li ntawd kuv thiaj li tsis mus khiav leej twg li os nawb txoj neej neeg no ces yog kuv kiag thiab ntshe ib hnub yus tuag ces tsis muaj nyab nus tsis muaj viv ncaus yuav tuaj hlub li os lawv txoj mi kev twm zeej mus zeem luag xwb ces tu2 siab kawg li os mog
Tu siab dabtsi na, twb tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws es lawv ua phem npaum cas los koj tseem pheej mus thawj lawv over and over..love yourself, ur husband and kids..
This story resonates with me with an exception that my siblings are my blood. Smh. Sis, you are not alone!! I’m the only daughter in my family too. They only make you become smarter and make you realize that you don’t really need them. They’re not worth your time. They will never see your love you give them because they don’t even love themselves. You need to be grateful that you have no siblings!! They don’t deserve you and won’t see good in you no matter how hard you tried. Focus on yourself and all you need are your children and your husband. The more they hate the less money you spend!!!! Be happy and be grateful. 😊😊
These families are selfish. While stick around with them…??? You have 6 sons. Soon you will have 6 daughter-in-laws…if you love them, they will love you back…👍🤠!!!
I don’t know why you ( tus siab) you have your kids and your husband. They are the most important people in your life. Remember this is America not Lao. If they don’t no part of you that fine. At the end is the day is about your family. No body else.
Same here. I don’t understand why nws ntsaw lawv txoj kev hlub ua luaj na? Just focus on your own family and stop begging for their love. They will see right throw you and take advantage of you.
Sister why u keep wait for these people to love you. If it me I would just walk away from this people move on. These people don't love you at all. You just love yourself and depend on your kids and your husband.
Sister, you will be set free when you stop caring and waiting for your cousin to treat you as family. It’s okay, let go and stop waiting. It’s your fault you keep getting disappointed. You keep letting them walk all over you.
Txhob tu siab os mog tus phauj, nco nroov tias yus ib leeg xwb os nawb koj yuav tau hlub lawv ib yam li lawv hlub koj xwb nawb mog. Don't waste your time
Learn to love yourself and live for those who love you only. Once you learn to do that, your life will be much better off and will be stress free. A lot of people are fakes, stay away from them.
When you don't have any siblings you don't count on anyone. If you do or give anything, don't expect anything in return or you set yourself up for disappointment.
Yog lawm os! Kuv twb twm zeej li koj thiab. Kuv cov but tsis hlob yug los yeej coj li koj cov nus rau kuv thiab os! Thaum ntej kuv yeej tu2 siab thiab. Tiam sis tu2 siab tu tsis tau lawm ces cia li ua tau ib siab lawm os. Koj txob tu2 siab mog. Kuv los yeej yog ib tus raug li koj thiab os😭😭😭
Cas pheej ntshaw luag kev hlub ua luaj tsis tos leej twg li os. Twb muaj koj niam pog txiv yawg koj tus txiv cov menyuam ne cov no xwb thiaj Yog kev hlub os. Kuv li kuv tsis tos lwm tus kev hlub dua ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv lawm ces tus txiv thiab cov menyuam xwb thiaj tsis tu siab
Tus me niam hluas aw kuv yeej xav li ko mas lub ntiaj teb no kuv niam thiab txiv yug kuv ib leeg xwb kuv thiaj tsis mus zeem leej twg li raw2 siab mus work xwb mas tu siab tshaj li os mog
Tu siab kawg niam hluas koj zaj neej neeg no rau ib yam li kuv thiab os txhob mus zeem lawm mog luag ntxub ntxug yus li😢 kuv lam nyob Tim mekas no xwb los tu tu siab kawg.😢
Ua ib siab hlub koj tus txiv hos mog Viv ncawm tso cias siab lwm tus yuav hlub koj tsis muaj leej twg lawm k I h tus txiv this koj cov me nyuam lawm xwb mog
Tus viv ncaus aw cas kuv yog neeg twm zeej li koj thiab kuv lub neej ces zoo koj koj hais thiab o tu tu siab,,😭😭😭kawg nkaus li o tsi muaj ngab muaj nus muaj nus muaj viv muaj ncau yuav hu xov tooj noog yus moo tias puas noj qab ngob zoo tsi muaj tus yuav tim ib pob mov su rau yus li o......
ca zaj no e yuav zoo kiag li kv lub neej kv xav tia ntiaj teb no muaj kv ib leeg xb no o kv tu siab tshaj plaw li o cuag li kj muab kv lub neej lo tham thiab o tu siab tshaj plaw li o kv zoo li kj zaj dab neeg no kiag o yus tsi muaj viv ncau tsi muaj nus ce yus yeej yg tus swb o
Tus sister aw qhov zoo tshaj ces yog tsis muaj tsis txhob qig thiab txhob txais thiaj tsis tu siab. Yog luag tsis hlub los tsis txhos thov kom luag hlub os
Sis...you are stronger than you think! Life is too short to stress and be sad over ungrateful people whether it is blood related or strangers. Please DO NOT WASTE ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME. Take your own advice at the end of your story.
Tus me viv ncaus tsis muaj los txob tu22 siab tsis yus luag ces niam thiab txiv yug ces lawv yeej hlub es yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua mog es txob ntshaws luag li os mog .es yus tus txiv hlub2 lawm ces hlub koj tus txiv zoo dua mog .es tsis tas yuav hlub lwm tus os es koj tus kheej thiab koj tus txiv xwb mog es txob cia siab tias luag yuav hlub yus .es khaws yus cov nyiaj thiaj pab tau yus mog es ua ib siab mog es peb tsis muaj niam muaj txiv luag yeej tsis nav yus mog es cia koj lub zog nyob zoo dua .es tsis tas ntshaw leej twg lawm viv yus tsis lawm ces txob tu22 siab os . es me viv ncaus ua ib siab mog kuv pab lhub koj thiab os me viv ncaus aw!!.kuv wb tsis niam thiab muaj viv ncaus los ua ib mog yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog....
Hmoob os hmoob aw yus twb paub tusiab cas ho tsis paub xav na .yus twb ua neej zoo dua luag tabsis ntshe yus nplaum dhau pheek as xaim luag es luag thiaj ntshai xwb. Kuv li kuv tsis muaj leejtwg hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsis zeem leejtwg ua Viv ncaus ua nyab nus li os yeej paub tias luag yuav tsis k yus ces yog yus twb ua neej zoo dua luag ces yus yuav tsum txhob tos luag, tsheb me tsheb loj los yus muaj tas tsis as xaim leejtwg li. Yus tsis nplaum rau leejtwg ces yus txhob nplaum2 rau yus. Txhob tos luag li nawb yog yus paub tias luag twb tsis hlub yus
Kj lub neej tu siab kawg li os kv txiv lawv los twb g muaj ib tus muam li lawv ces mus zeem muam kwv muam tij xwb los kv txiv lawv yeej hlub2 lawv kawg li tab mas yeej muaj ib qhov tu siab li kj os g yog yus muam niam txiv ib plab ces txawm hlub npaum li cas los g cuag lawv tus nrog lawv ib plab li
Tu mim sister aw be strong tu tu siab los tsis muaj neeg hlub thiab pab tau yuv..os..rau siab ua yuv lub neej xwm os..hlub yuv tu keej xwm os..kuv los at the end I'm actually by myself too..before I'm feeling sad and tu siab i dont have brothers or nyab that love me either but no one would say nwm tu tu siab peb yuav tsu hlub nwm..no..so now I'm stay strong just love myself and love my kids and love my grand childrens..so I can have a long life living ..
Tus niam tsev txua yam no tim koj xwb vim koj ntsaw ntsaw neej tsab nyab nus kwv tij kev hlub vim koj tsis muaj nyab nus es koj pheej mus zeem zeem lawv ne tim koj tsis tu siab li koj thiaj li mus hlub hlub cov sab nraum luag ua neej poob qab koj luag twb tsis khes khes koj lo koj pheej xav xav tau luah kev hlub ne peb ua neeg nyob tsis txhob mus ntsaw ntsaw luag kev hlub kev pab luag tsis yog yus niam yus txiv es cas ho mus pab pab nyiaj rau luag na tim koj xwb txhob tu tu siab peb ua neeg nyob yus hlub yus tus lheej mas luag khib khib koj es luag myaj noj luag twb tsis khes txog na cas tseem yuav mus koom luag mov noj thiab na ntse koj tshuav lawv nqe pob ntse koj yog hom poj niam tsis puv 100 es thiaj li mus pab luag hnub no mus txhob tos luag kev hlub
Txhob tu siab, yog tsis xav li cas no tuaj khiav tuaj nrog kuv ua nus muag nawb. Kuv nyob Fresno no, kuv cov muam uas koom niam koom txiv los muaj, cov tij yug kwv yug los muaj tab sis kuv yeej tsis nco tias tus twg yog tus koom niam koom txiv no as, kuv ho xav tias tus twg nyob ze kuv ces kuv hlub tus ntawd xwb thiab leej twg hlub kuv ces kuv hlub tus ntawd xwb. Leej twg niaj hnub hu rau kuv ces tus ntawv tau kuv txoj kev hlub xwb laiv, tuaj nrog peb cov nus muag sib hlub nawb.
Koj cov neej tsa ko tsis yog neej tsa hos niag tsa nees xwb os me viv ncaus txhob tu siab mog tsum kiag txoj ke zeem neej tsa os yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog tus txiv neej hlub yus tshaj ces yog yus txiv xsb tus poj niam hlub yus dua ces yog yus niam xwb mog lawv
koj cov nus mas siab phem thiab nkhaus kawg li, kuv los tsis muaj ib tus phuam li thiab ov mog, kuv los yeej tsaug tib cov teeb meem li koj thiab os mog me muam aw.. tsis txhob tu tu siab ov mog ua siab loj,
Nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej no mas yog koj ho muaj viv ncaus los yog kwv tij koom niam koom txiv los haj yam zoo xwb, tab sis yog koj ho tsis muaj los tsis ua cas vim txoj kev vam meej yog koj tej txheeb ze no lawm ntag. Koj yeej meem siv zog khwv kom muaj nyiaj thiab noj tsis ntshaw leej twg lawm ces txheeb ze nyob rau hauv tej no lawm xwb.
Nyob lub teb chawm meskas no tsis muaj ib tus nu hlub los tsis ua cas lis os. Ntawm wb tsev neeg los ib yam kuv niam tais muaj peb tus ntxhais xwb ntawm wb hos muaj 5 tus tub xwb tsis muaj ib tus ntxhais lis thiab os tabsi kuv hais rau poj niam tias tub ntxhais los yeej hlub nyob lub teb chawm no nyob cov mes nyuam lub siab saib lawm puas txawb xav xwb os.
Tus sister yus twb muaj yus cov menyuam es cov nus cov vicaus lawv twb ua tau ntau ntau yam rau kj es kj saib kj tus kheej g muaj nuj nqi. Lub ntuj twb hlub kj tshaj li os.
Ua neeg twm zeeg los kam liam os tus sister! Blood los lawm yeej tsis hlub yus ib yam li thiab os sister! Yus twg muaj sister thiab brothers thiab los yeej tseem twm zeeg thiab os sister aws don’t be sad sis be strong!
Sister, don't be sad at all. Having a sibling isn't any better. I have a family of 13 siblings and it's all hell break loose only. Don't be sad at all. Love comes in all ways. Blood is not ALWAYS THICKER than water. You really need to just love your husband, your own family, and your children. Don't depend on others and don't look forward to others. Learn to love yourself. If your other "so called" siblings don't love you and care for you, just ignore and live your life to the fullest. It's best to leave everyone alone and separate yourself from everyone else. Trust me, you aren't missing out on anything. Please just love yourself and your family.
Me niam ntsuab teev aw... Ca kuv e nim yog lo yog tib tug ntxhai xwb thiab ce kuv niam ntshaw2 nyab nu thiab viv mcau e luag twb tsi xam muaj kuv li tiag... E ua tsaug qhov koj muab lo tham pub rau sawv daw mloog os luag ce nim muab cai nphos rau sab rauv muaj noj lo luag nim hu txij luag cov niam txiv ib plab yug xwb os mog😢😢
It's ok you don't need siblings as long as your husband loves you. Sometimes siblings are just headaches. They can even stab you in the back too. I have 3 brothers n 3 sisters I'm a middle child. It's not all good n sunshine.
Don’t be sad sister. I can be your sister…. It doesn’t take blood to be relatives. All it takes is a pure heart. The more the merrier… some people are just narrow minded.
U can't fault them for not being able to love u as their own sister. U have no siblings so koj thiaj tu tu siab. But if u have siblings u will understand and feel the same way. There's just a different connection between blood siblings. And even blood siblings still become enemies too.
Tus niam tsev aw, twb tuaj ua neej nyob meskas teb no vaj huam sib luag lawm txawm yus niam yus txiv yug tau yus tib leeg xwb los yus nyob txij yus ciaj ciam xwb txhob mus ntshaw ntshaw tej nyab nus, tej viv ncaus uas yog niam hlob txiv ntxawm yug los ua yus txheeb yus ze li koj ma. Yus lub neej yuav zoo li cas los yus nyob txij yus txoj kab liab rov los xwb thiaj tsis raug luag saib tsis taus yus li ko. Koj nim mus piav kev tu siab rau lawv, mus quaj kev tu siab rau lawv los tseem ua rau lawv haj yam ntxub hais lus saib tsis taus koj xwb. Tso tseg hmoob txoj niag kev ntshaw neej tsa ntshaw viv ncaus xyaum coj li mab sua yus ib leeg xwb los yus yeej ua taus neeg nrog lub teb lub chaw li tej mab sua. Ib qho los quaj ob qho los quaj ces yog neeg quaj taug tsis muaj peev xwm tab tom ua kom luag tsis nyiam yus xwb. Koj yuav tsum zoo siab rau koj lub neej thiab txhua yam koj muaj xwb.
Cas yuav mus ruam2 tag npaum os tus mes vivncaus awb. Hlub yus tus txiv thiab cov mes nyuam thiaj li muaj nuj nqis os mog. Koj yeej yug los tsis muaj vivncaus ces uas ib siab os.
Tus niam tsev tim koj xwb vim koj tsis muaj niam muaj txiv lo nyob kom taus taus mas koj oheej mus muab nyiaj mus plawm plaws lawv kev hlub ne tos mob mob koj siab na peb ya neej nyob txhob ntsaw ntsaw nyab nus kev hlub vas loj tseem tu siab na luag tsis hlub yus ces yus tsis tshuav luag nuj nqe lo pob ruam lo ntse na tus niam tsev
I hope the lady in this story see this comment:
Don’t be sad, tsis txob tu siab. It’s actually better that these people are not your blood brothers and sisters, that way you can think that they treat you as an outsider and not love you very much because they aren’t your blood, so it is what it is. If you had actual blood brothers and sisters, and you got treated like an outsider and got no love, imagine how sad that would be. You’d be even more heartbroken if they were your blood. But since they ain’t, don’t sweat it too much and no need to be so sad.
Your family is your kids and husband not others. I wouldn’t waste my time with people who don’t love/care about me. Don’t be desperate because they can see right through you and will take advantage of you.
Hmong people need to learn to live without the help and support of relatives like the old days. Old traditions requires too much outside help to get things done like funerals and wedding. Just go the American way and keep the circles small and close and focus on your own little family! Live is short cut out the haters in your life woman.
Oyo, don't pay too much attention and spend too much time on those people who don't see your values. They are just side distractions and often times, they are fighting their own battles too. Kind and generous people will be kind and generous wherever and whoever they are with. Those who are unkind will be unkind no matter where they are and who they are with. As we aged, we collect quality people and it's not about quantity anymore. Sometimes, less is more.
Don't be sad even blood brothers and sisters are not all loving. Just love your husband and children because they are truly the ones who you get love from.
So sad. Even real brother sometimes don’t even care for you so don’t be sad. Just love yourself and your little family.
Agreed
I agree. I have 3 useless brothers. My husband also has 2 useless brothers. We help them but when we call, they are not available. 🙄In this century, your brothers are mekas people that you pay to get the job done.
Agree! Your own kind will love outsiders more than you.
Agreed!
I’m strongly agree. I have only one blood brother but he don’t even care when I’m he don’t even visit me at all. 😢
tus me viv ncaus aw yog lawm os mog es koj txhob tu siab heev thiab os muab xav rau tej uas koom niam koom txiv los twb tseem tsis txawj sib thiab nawb mog ua neej nyob ces ib leeg nim muaj ib txoj kev nyuaj siab os mog
Li ntawd kuv thiaj li tsis mus khiav leej twg li os nawb txoj neej neeg no ces yog kuv kiag thiab ntshe ib hnub yus tuag ces tsis muaj nyab nus tsis muaj viv ncaus yuav tuaj hlub li os lawv txoj mi kev twm zeej mus zeem luag xwb ces tu2 siab kawg li os mog
Tu siab dabtsi na, twb tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws es lawv ua phem npaum cas los koj tseem pheej mus thawj lawv over and over..love yourself, ur husband and kids..
This story resonates with me with an exception that my siblings are my blood. Smh. Sis, you are not alone!! I’m the only daughter in my family too. They only make you become smarter and make you realize that you don’t really need them. They’re not worth your time. They will never see your love you give them because they don’t even love themselves. You need to be grateful that you have no siblings!! They don’t deserve you and won’t see good in you no matter how hard you tried. Focus on yourself and all you need are your children and your husband. The more they hate the less money you spend!!!! Be happy and be grateful. 😊😊
Txhob tu siab mog tus me muam… kuv los twb zoo ib yam li koj thiab os mog… kuv tsis muaj ib tug muam li thiab os kuv niam yug tau kuv thiab ib tug kwv xwb… tsis muaj txoj hmoo kuv tus me kwv tso kuv niam wb tseg laem thiab… ces tshuav kuv ib leeg lawm xwb os… kuv kuj yog koj ib tug nus thiab os txhob tu siab mog… kuv xav paub yawm yij neb thiab os
Koj nug niam Ntsuab Teev nawb kom nws muab kuv tus xov tooj rau koj
These families are selfish. While stick around with them…??? You have 6 sons. Soon you will have 6 daughter-in-laws…if you love them, they will love you back…👍🤠!!!
Yep. You can be the leader of your own powerful clan. No need wanting to be a part of other people's clans.
Absolutely love this advice!! 💯❤
Peb hmoob niaj hnub no kiag los tseem muaj ib cov neeg siab me2 ti thiab coj nqaim npaum no thiab,, pab koj tusiab os tus muam
I don’t know why you ( tus siab) you have your kids and your husband. They are the most important people in your life. Remember this is America not Lao. If they don’t no part of you that fine. At the end is the day is about your family. No body else.
Same here. I don’t understand why nws ntsaw lawv txoj kev hlub ua luaj na? Just focus on your own family and stop begging for their love. They will see right throw you and take advantage of you.
Sister, txhob tu siab. Cov muaj nus muag los muaj ib co twb tsis sib hlub thiab. Kav tsij rau siab ua koj lub neej hlub koj pab txiv tub xwb. Koj txiv Ntxawm lawv cov tub cov ntxhais ces koj twb paub lawv cov siab tav lawm es txhob mus poob Koj tej nyiaj ntxiv rau lawm tsis muaj nqi os mog. Tus nus tus vivncaus twg hlub yus los mam khiav tab sis txhob muan koj tej nyiaj mus poob yam tsis muaj nqi mog. Nrog hlub koj.
Tu siab kawg. Yav no lawm tom ntej. Leej twg hlub yus mam hlub tus ntawv xwb. Good story. Thank for sharing.
Quit your crying and cut your loss. Love your husband and your children's and be happy.
Sister why u keep wait for these people to love you. If it me I would just walk away from this people move on. These people don't love you at all. You just love yourself and depend on your kids and your husband.
Thov Vajtswv foom Koob hmoo rau koj os mog. Luag ua phem los thov Vajtswv tog muab ua qhov zoo rau koj xwb os mog.
Tsis yog niam txiv ib plab txob tos lawv hlub koj os yus muab yus cov menyuam ua yus cov viv ncau thiab yus cov nyab nws xwb os mog txob cia siab os mog
koj haig yog kawg tsw hlub koj tsw tas hlub2 kiavbluag ntau koj lub neej tseem yuav muaj kev nyuab tshaj kom tsw tas poob nyiaj hlub koj tseev neej xwb mog
Sister, you will be set free when you stop caring and waiting for your cousin to treat you as family. It’s okay, let go and stop waiting. It’s your fault you keep getting disappointed. You keep letting them walk all over you.
Txhob tu siab os mog tus phauj, nco nroov tias yus ib leeg xwb os nawb koj yuav tau hlub lawv ib yam li lawv hlub koj xwb nawb mog. Don't waste your time
Learn to love yourself and live for those who love you only. Once you learn to do that, your life will be much better off and will be stress free. A lot of people are fakes, stay away from them.
When you don't have any siblings you don't count on anyone. If you do or give anything, don't expect anything in return or you set yourself up for disappointment.
May GOD BLESS you! What you have done and feel is not wrong because you have a heart of gold and so much love.
Yog lawm os! Kuv twb twm zeej li koj thiab. Kuv cov but tsis hlob yug los yeej coj li koj cov nus rau kuv thiab os! Thaum ntej kuv yeej tu2 siab thiab. Tiam sis tu2 siab tu tsis tau lawm ces cia li ua tau ib siab lawm os. Koj txob tu2 siab mog. Kuv los yeej yog ib tus raug li koj thiab os😭😭😭
Cas pheej ntshaw luag kev hlub ua luaj tsis tos leej twg li os. Twb muaj koj niam pog txiv yawg koj tus txiv cov menyuam ne cov no xwb thiaj Yog kev hlub os. Kuv li kuv tsis tos lwm tus kev hlub dua ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv lawm ces tus txiv thiab cov menyuam xwb thiaj tsis tu siab
Tus me niam hluas aw kuv yeej xav li ko mas lub ntiaj teb no kuv niam thiab txiv yug kuv ib leeg xwb kuv thiaj tsis mus zeem leej twg li raw2 siab mus work xwb mas tu siab tshaj li os mog
Tu siab kawg niam hluas koj zaj neej neeg no rau ib yam li kuv thiab os txhob mus zeem lawm mog luag ntxub ntxug yus li😢 kuv lam nyob Tim mekas no xwb los tu tu siab kawg.😢
Txhob tusiab os peb twb muaj nus los peb cov nus los twb tsis hlub peb li os.
Ua ib siab hlub koj tus txiv hos mog Viv ncawm tso cias siab lwm tus yuav hlub koj tsis muaj leej twg lawm k I h tus txiv this koj cov me nyuam lawm xwb mog
Tus viv ncaus aw cas kuv yog neeg twm zeej li koj thiab kuv lub neej ces zoo koj koj hais thiab o tu tu siab,,😭😭😭kawg nkaus li o tsi muaj ngab muaj nus muaj nus muaj viv muaj ncau yuav hu xov tooj noog yus moo tias puas noj qab ngob zoo tsi muaj tus yuav tim ib pob mov su rau yus li o......
Yog lawm os tus me muam aw peb cov twm zeej mam li sib hlub os nawb..
Txhob tu siab. Txawm ib plab kiag los twb tsis sib hlub. 😢
Lawv tsis hlub Los tseg lub ntuj yeej hlub thiab pab koj lub neej Kom zoo li zoo tau nawb
ca zaj no e yuav zoo kiag li kv lub neej kv xav tia ntiaj teb no muaj kv ib leeg xb no o kv tu siab tshaj plaw li o cuag li kj muab kv lub neej lo tham thiab o tu siab tshaj plaw li o kv zoo li kj zaj dab neeg no kiag o yus tsi muaj viv ncau tsi muaj nus ce yus yeej yg tus swb o
They don't like you, don't bother them
Tsis txhob tus siab mog...viv kv twb 1leej li kj thiab mas, kv tsis tos leej twg lawm thiab.. you're not alone nawb mog!
Txob tu siab os tus Viv ncaus aw kuv los yeej yog ib leeg ntxhais twm zeej li koj thiab os
Yes, love yourself. And only love those who love you.
Tu siab kawg yom o 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
niam laus aw lub neej twm zeej ce yeej tu siab os
Tus sister aw qhov zoo tshaj ces yog tsis muaj tsis txhob qig thiab txhob txais thiaj tsis tu siab. Yog luag tsis hlub los tsis txhos thov kom luag hlub os
txhob tus siab os me Viv ncaus aw
Viv ncaus aw....nrog koj tu siab kawg li os...tab sis muab xav tias lawv twb tsis yog koj niam yug lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li os...txhob hlub2 lawv lawm thiab nawb, hlub tus neeg hlub yus xwb tus tsis hlub yus tsis txhob hlub thiab vim koj hlub lawv los yeej tsis muaj nqis li os.
Mloog zaj neej neeg no tu tu siab kawg vim kuv tsi muaj nyab nus thiab niam txiv los tsi muaj kuv tsi mus zeem leej twg.😢😢😢
Sis...you are stronger than you think! Life is too short to stress and be sad over ungrateful people whether it is blood related or strangers. Please DO NOT WASTE ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME. Take your own advice at the end of your story.
Tus me viv ncaus tsis muaj los txob tu22 siab tsis yus luag ces niam thiab txiv yug ces lawv yeej hlub es yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua mog es txob ntshaws luag li os mog .es yus tus txiv hlub2 lawm ces hlub koj tus txiv zoo dua mog .es tsis tas yuav hlub lwm tus os es koj tus kheej thiab koj tus txiv xwb mog es txob cia siab tias luag yuav hlub yus .es khaws yus cov nyiaj thiaj pab tau yus mog es ua ib siab mog es peb tsis muaj niam muaj txiv luag yeej tsis nav yus mog es cia koj lub zog nyob zoo dua .es tsis tas ntshaw leej twg lawm viv yus tsis lawm ces txob tu22 siab os .
es me viv ncaus ua ib siab mog kuv pab lhub koj thiab os me viv ncaus aw!!.kuv wb tsis niam thiab muaj viv ncaus los ua ib mog yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog....
Hmoob os hmoob aw yus twb paub tusiab cas ho tsis paub xav na
.yus twb ua neej zoo dua luag tabsis ntshe yus nplaum dhau pheek as xaim luag es luag thiaj ntshai xwb. Kuv li kuv tsis muaj leejtwg hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsis zeem leejtwg ua Viv ncaus ua nyab nus li os yeej paub tias luag yuav tsis k yus ces yog yus twb ua neej zoo dua luag ces yus yuav tsum txhob tos luag, tsheb me tsheb loj los yus muaj tas tsis as xaim leejtwg li. Yus tsis nplaum rau leejtwg ces yus txhob nplaum2 rau yus. Txhob tos luag li nawb yog yus paub tias luag twb tsis hlub yus
Kj lub neej tu siab kawg li os kv txiv lawv los twb g muaj ib tus muam li lawv ces mus zeem muam kwv muam tij xwb los kv txiv lawv yeej hlub2 lawv kawg li tab mas yeej muaj ib qhov tu siab li kj os g yog yus muam niam txiv ib plab ces txawm hlub npaum li cas los g cuag lawv tus nrog lawv ib plab li
Tu mim sister aw be strong tu tu siab los tsis muaj neeg hlub thiab pab tau yuv..os..rau siab ua yuv lub neej xwm os..hlub yuv tu keej xwm os..kuv los at the end I'm actually by myself too..before I'm feeling sad and tu siab i dont have brothers or nyab that love me either but no one would say nwm tu tu siab peb yuav tsu hlub nwm..no..so now I'm stay strong just love myself and love my kids and love my grand childrens..so I can have a long life living ..
3 cov Twm zeej no mas tu siab tshaj li os
Yg kj lub neej tseem txom xyem thiab ma mtshe lawv tseem yuav txub kj tsaj os mog hlub kj os txhob hlub lawv lm os mog hlub tu kheej nawb
Sister, mloog koj zaj dab neeg tu tu siab tag yog tsis muaj neej nus hlub koj no los cia kuv mam ua koj ib tug dab laug los tau.
So sad. Yug los ua neeg nyob tsis muaj viv ncaus thiab nus mas tus siab heev.
Tus niam tsev txua yam no tim koj xwb vim koj ntsaw ntsaw neej tsab nyab nus kwv tij kev hlub vim koj tsis muaj nyab nus es koj pheej mus zeem zeem lawv ne tim koj tsis tu siab li koj thiaj li mus hlub hlub cov sab nraum luag ua neej poob qab koj luag twb tsis khes khes koj lo koj pheej xav xav tau luah kev hlub ne peb ua neeg nyob tsis txhob mus ntsaw ntsaw luag kev hlub kev pab luag tsis yog yus niam yus txiv es cas ho mus pab pab nyiaj rau luag na tim koj xwb txhob tu tu siab peb ua neeg nyob yus hlub yus tus lheej mas luag khib khib koj es luag myaj noj luag twb tsis khes txog na cas tseem yuav mus koom luag mov noj thiab na ntse koj tshuav lawv nqe pob ntse koj yog hom poj niam tsis puv 100 es thiaj li mus pab luag hnub no mus txhob tos luag kev hlub
Txhob tu siab, yog tsis xav li cas no tuaj khiav tuaj nrog kuv ua nus muag nawb. Kuv nyob Fresno no, kuv cov muam uas koom niam koom txiv los muaj, cov tij yug kwv yug los muaj tab sis kuv yeej tsis nco tias tus twg yog tus koom niam koom txiv no as, kuv ho xav tias tus twg nyob ze kuv ces kuv hlub tus ntawd xwb thiab leej twg hlub kuv ces kuv hlub tus ntawd xwb. Leej twg niaj hnub hu rau kuv ces tus ntawv tau kuv txoj kev hlub xwb laiv, tuaj nrog peb cov nus muag sib hlub nawb.
I’m afraid this will be my only daughter in the future. I hope she’ll know that she’s more than enough and the most important thing. 😢
Tus sister love yourself, your kids and husband only. Don't bother with your cousins and step brothers. God bless you
You do you. Only you & your little family is important.
Tu siab tiag22 o
Koj cov neej tsa ko tsis yog neej tsa hos niag tsa nees xwb os me viv ncaus txhob tu siab mog tsum kiag txoj ke zeem neej tsa os yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog tus txiv neej hlub yus tshaj ces yog yus txiv xsb tus poj niam hlub yus dua ces yog yus niam xwb mog lawv
koj cov nus mas siab phem thiab nkhaus kawg li, kuv los tsis muaj ib tus phuam li thiab ov mog, kuv los yeej tsaug tib cov teeb meem li koj thiab os mog me muam aw.. tsis txhob tu tu siab ov mog ua siab loj,
Tus me Viv ncaus aw kuv twb tsis muaj kuv yeej tsis tu siab rau Leej twg yus hlub yus tus kheej mog
Txhob ntshaw2 nyab ntshaw nus os, tsis muaj los txhob tus siab xam tias cov muaj twb tsis sib hlub. Yus av tsij hlub2 yus tus kheej, hlub yus tus txij nkawm thiab cov menyuam xwb.
Txhob tu siab tsis yog koj ib leej xwb peb los ib yam os hlub yu pab txiv tub xwb mog
Kuv twb zoo li koj thiab os kuv niam twb tso kuv pov tseg lawb thiab os
Nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej no mas yog koj ho muaj viv ncaus los yog kwv tij koom niam koom txiv los haj yam zoo xwb, tab sis yog koj ho tsis muaj los tsis ua cas vim txoj kev vam meej yog koj tej txheeb ze no lawm ntag. Koj yeej meem siv zog khwv kom muaj nyiaj thiab noj tsis ntshaw leej twg lawm ces txheeb ze nyob rau hauv tej no lawm xwb.
Nyob lub teb chawm meskas no tsis muaj ib tus nu hlub los tsis ua cas lis os. Ntawm wb tsev neeg los ib yam kuv niam tais muaj peb tus ntxhais xwb ntawm wb hos muaj 5 tus tub xwb tsis muaj ib tus ntxhais lis thiab os tabsi kuv hais rau poj niam tias tub ntxhais los yeej hlub nyob lub teb chawm no nyob cov mes nyuam lub siab saib lawm puas txawb xav xwb os.
Tus sister yus twb muaj yus cov menyuam es cov nus cov vicaus lawv twb ua tau ntau ntau yam rau kj es kj saib kj tus kheej g muaj nuj nqi. Lub ntuj twb hlub kj tshaj li os.
😭😭😭😭😭 hlub2 koj li os niam laus
Ua neeg twm zeeg los kam liam os tus sister! Blood los lawm yeej tsis hlub yus ib yam li thiab os sister! Yus twg muaj sister thiab brothers thiab los yeej tseem twm zeeg thiab os sister aws don’t be sad sis be strong!
Sister, don't be sad at all. Having a sibling isn't any better. I have a family of 13 siblings and it's all hell break loose only. Don't be sad at all. Love comes in all ways. Blood is not ALWAYS THICKER than water. You really need to just love your husband, your own family, and your children. Don't depend on others and don't look forward to others. Learn to love yourself. If your other "so called" siblings don't love you and care for you, just ignore and live your life to the fullest. It's best to leave everyone alone and separate yourself from everyone else. Trust me, you aren't missing out on anything. Please just love yourself and your family.
yus yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej nrog rau yus tsev neeg ua ntej tso
Your devotion, anyone would love to have you.
Ua Cas tsis mus ua vaj tswv cov neeg lauj xib hwb Mas pab dawb xwb tsis yuav nyiaj li naj leej twg txom nyem kav tsij mus nrhiav cov ntseeg xwb mog tuag tsissiv nyiaj ntau li cov gub kev cai lawd
Yus zoo Yus siab es txhob tu siab lawv twb tsis hlub yus li koj hais nas😢
Tsev neeg,,, neej pau g yog neejtsa no yog siab dev tiag tiag
Hlub koj! Thank you for your wisdom!
Sister, I will be more than happy to be your sister. I'm sorry that you went through those situations.
Cov neeg tsis txawj xav ces muaj ntau pab ntau muaj tsawg pab tsawg, vim neeg twm Zeej xav noj kheej thiaj coj li ntawd.
Me sister aw koj tsis txhob tu siab tag22 thiab os nawb cov tsis yog koom niam tsis koom txiv yug 1 plab ces koj tsis txhob cia22 siab tos lawv yuav hlub yus os nawb mog cov tsis koom niam twb koom txiv los twb tsis hlub yus li thiab os nawb
Me niam ntsuab teev aw... Ca kuv e nim yog lo yog tib tug ntxhai xwb thiab ce kuv niam ntshaw2 nyab nu thiab viv mcau e luag twb tsi xam muaj kuv li tiag... E ua tsaug qhov koj muab lo tham pub rau sawv daw mloog os luag ce nim muab cai nphos rau sab rauv muaj noj lo luag nim hu txij luag cov niam txiv ib plab yug xwb os mog😢😢
Naim lau aw ca koj hai tau tu siab ua luab li na 😢
It's ok you don't need siblings as long as your husband loves you. Sometimes siblings are just headaches. They can even stab you in the back too. I have 3 brothers n 3 sisters I'm a middle child. It's not all good n sunshine.
U tu py Thiab kev txheeb ze yog u cov me nyuam Thiab u tu txiv
Don’t be sad sister. I can be your sister…. It doesn’t take blood to be relatives. All it takes is a pure heart. The more the merrier… some people are just narrow minded.
Niam laus aw tsis txawj siv nyiaj muab peb siv
U can't fault them for not being able to love u as their own sister. U have no siblings so koj thiaj tu tu siab. But if u have siblings u will understand and feel the same way. There's just a different connection between blood siblings. And even blood siblings still become enemies too.
Txhob to lawv kev hlub tsam nkim zog os
Niam laus aw koj hais ib zaj dab nees rau kuv os
Tus muam aw txhob tu tu siab heev os. Kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv thiab koj cov me nyuam xwb os.
Love and depend on your husband's siblings better than others
😂funny that you said that. My husband’s brothers are the least reliable people. His only sister is just as unreliable. I rather rely on outsiders.
yog lwm os koj haj tau tu kuv sjab ua lauj li os 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tus niam tsev aw, twb tuaj ua neej nyob meskas teb no vaj huam sib luag lawm txawm yus niam yus txiv yug tau yus tib leeg xwb los yus nyob txij yus ciaj ciam xwb txhob mus ntshaw ntshaw tej nyab nus, tej viv ncaus uas yog niam hlob txiv ntxawm yug los ua yus txheeb yus ze li koj ma. Yus lub neej yuav zoo li cas los yus nyob txij yus txoj kab liab rov los xwb thiaj tsis raug luag saib tsis taus yus li ko. Koj nim mus piav kev tu siab rau lawv, mus quaj kev tu siab rau lawv los tseem ua rau lawv haj yam ntxub hais lus saib tsis taus koj xwb. Tso tseg hmoob txoj niag kev ntshaw neej tsa ntshaw viv ncaus xyaum coj li mab sua yus ib leeg xwb los yus yeej ua taus neeg nrog lub teb lub chaw li tej mab sua. Ib qho los quaj ob qho los quaj ces yog neeg quaj taug tsis muaj peev xwm tab tom ua kom luag tsis nyiam yus xwb. Koj yuav tsum zoo siab rau koj lub neej thiab txhua yam koj muaj xwb.
Cas yuav mus ruam2 tag npaum os tus mes vivncaus awb. Hlub yus tus txiv thiab cov mes nyuam thiaj li muaj nuj nqis os mog. Koj yeej yug los tsis muaj vivncaus ces uas ib siab os.
Who cares lawv tsi hlub yus los yus nyob yus mas cas yuav ua luaj nas yus hlub yus tus kheej os
You should just love your husband side of the families. They are the one will love you.
Tsis yog niam txiv ib plab yug Tsis txhob hlub tag tag os me viv ncaus aw lawv hlub yus saum daim tawv xwb os nawb 😢
Tus niam tsev tim koj xwb vim koj tsis muaj niam muaj txiv lo nyob kom taus taus mas koj oheej mus muab nyiaj mus plawm plaws lawv kev hlub ne tos mob mob koj siab na peb ya neej nyob txhob ntsaw ntsaw nyab nus kev hlub vas loj tseem tu siab na luag tsis hlub yus ces yus tsis tshuav luag nuj nqe lo pob ruam lo ntse na tus niam tsev