What happens when one child is loved but the other isn’t? // Sims 4 parenting experiment
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- Опубликовано: 15 июн 2023
- Have you ever wondered how much impact your sims parenting really has on their children? If the answer to that question is yes then you might find this video useful!
For todays video my parent sim is going to treat her two daughters very differently to see how much it impacts them. What happens when one child is loved and the other isn’t?
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How do i make only 1 child loved
Omg so many names
A list for assassination 😂
Parents should never favor one child over the other.
Max is gonna be on Reddit asking if she’s the AH for cutting off her family. 😂
HELPPPPP
“AM I THE JERK”
FRRR
LOLLL
I'd probably reply NTA, that Mom sounds like a real bish... Lol.... 😂😂
"Could be worse, Max. Could be in an inbreeding challenge" that got me dying
5:30 omg I loved that comment
And I thought I misheard this. xD omg...
I didn't know it was a thing
Ew
That made me laugh so hard lol
5 minutes in and i already wish Max got adopted by someone else
Same
Same ....
Same
Same
Same
Next challenge should be that Max gets adopted by a better family and has to complete ALL of the childhood aspirations on long lifespan!
No I’m kind of curious what would happen if her mom would keep bullying her throughout her teen years
@@prisonisinourminds8070 I think we all know what would happen which is actually sad
@@xxxnarurto5747 🤷♀️🤷♀️ I mean I’m not sure if the pack works that well tbh
@@xxxnarurto5747what do you think would happen then ?
@@iiiiiiiggggsewer slide
I didn't even know that children could get fears, it's never come up in my gameplay... Very interesting, I sense good ol' trauma in my sims' future
Lmao
Lmaoo
Really? Until I turned off fears entirely every single one of my child sims got fear of the dark pretty much instantly. And it was bugged at the time - if you “cured” it it didn’t actually remove it, just swapped it so they were always afraid during the day instead of at night. Did they ever fix that?
Idk i think it’s from some sort of pack because i never got them until i got a load of mods and packs
@@ameliaguerreirox Pretty sure it’s base game. But it was just introduced to the game last summer when they replaced the old whims system with the new wants & fears - that was when high school came out, and one of the annoying things was that while whims were in all the packs the new wants & fears launched with base game and high school compatibility only. Presumably they’ve continued including them in packs since then, but I’ve had the whole system turned off (first via mod, then via game setting once they fixed it) since just a month or so after the launch. I don’t own the high school pack.
Can't help but notice how the way they're dressed up became almost opposite when they were aged up. As kids, Max had simple clothes, easy to wear or move in; while, Kary had princessy, aesthetic clothes, and lots of pink. But Max as a teen is dressed up - skirt, pink shirt, a brimmed hat - it's as if she was trying to copy Kary (maybe to try and make her mom like just as much if not more?); while Kary is dressed comfortably. As if she doesn't care what she wears because she won't be feeling insecure at all.
I don't that was just the scenario that popped into my head as soon as I saw their aged up looks :(
😢 damn poor maxi
Dang that's sad lol
@@sketchatunes do u even know when to use lol? U remind me of those people that think lol means lots of love
Me: I feel like watching something wholesome
Also me: *stops watching a Lilsimsie video about building a thift and bubble tea shop to watch a WhinyBrit video about traumatizing children*
😂I just watched that video last night.
@@kawaiitasha8 SAME😂
It all just depends on the mood
I just got done watching lilsimsi building a Barbie house, it came out so pretty 😭
I Found my people.
Damn when Max cried into her plushie friend, that really broke my heart!
right i had to remind myself this is just a game 😭
man i shed some tears, just knowing that there are children in real life that have to go through that.
Same! Poor Max! Have a better life!
I half expected the mom to break Max's plushie friend.
I actually freaking cried. Had to pause and remind myself it was a scenario in sims
This experiment is what my childhood was like. This hit home so hard for me. If anyone's feeling the same know you are loved, and good things are coming your way!!! Dont give up hope.
BTW, if anyone did have a childhood like this, I would highly recommend the song "hansel" by sodikken if you need a good cry after watching this
I'm going through this myself, stay strong yall
@@ashleykinnie3175 I listened to the song and it sounds like ass im sorry 💀
I’m so sorry :(
I hope your doing ok😢
31 just diagnosed with PTSD due to childhood. The only thing that literally keeps me going, is knowing I'm not alone. Because quite honestly, sometimes it makes me feel like I'm reaaaaaly messed up. Thanks for your comment ❤ We are stronger for it 💪
"They're just pixels"
I tell myself this too, as I'm doing horrific things to them 😅😅
Why?)
@@behindmyblueeyes99fun 💀
@@Ivy30💀
Some god:
"They're just atoms"
I did this by mistake. The loved one turned into a worldwide star, mainly an actor but also a singer. My second daughter became evil, even tho nobody had that trait before her. She's lvl 10 in criminal career.
I did to it's just so easy to accidently lock your toddler in their room and forget about them but they didn't become evil they got taken away should've eaten bee chicken nuggets then she wouldn't be in time out
Literally villain origin story 🤣
It's ironic that you can still give a Sim with the low self-esteem trait the Self-Assured trait. That should be cancelled out, as it conflicts with low self-esteem.
Literally first thing that hit my mind
I think you can be both tbh.
Basically it's narcissism. Hiding insecurity behind a mask of self assuredness
I had both as a child lol
Not really. You can have inferiority complex and delusions of self-grandure at the same time.
Personally I feel like as they get older Karissa should help max after she realizes what her mother is doing and she can do something about it. Both max and Karissa should have a happy ending because max deserves it after everything and Karissa never did anything wrong it was really just the mom.
To deepen the lore, maybe Karissa wanted to help Max/felt bad but didn’t do anything in fear of being abused too.
@@itrashcant7947 Yes! I agree!
Sadly, in reality the golden child often ends up just as obnoxious as the parents though
@@groffsauce454thats why they said often, but sadly is more common to see it like that :(
I wonder what happened if you started from infants only doing the bare minimum for 1 and going above and beyond completing all milestones for the other. Great video, as always keep it up.
I'm gonna try this now
Started this as well. Have one girl in a princess room, and her twin is in the small room with the "heavy traffic" carpet and "mold-y" wallpaper.
I did this once when I was doing the decades Challege cause I had twins and felt like the oldest aka my heir was too avarege and as only the mom could educate I made her go on and beyond with the heir and just sort of help the younger one. Turns out the heir died on war and it was only when the youngest survived that I notice how much I negleted that men 😭
@@admiravelmundodemel5760I had the similar experience in the Sims, my sim had twins, and one was very smart golden girl spellcaster while another one accidentally turned out to be hybrid (spellcaster + werewolf), but her werewolf form was pretty broken + she somehow started shape shifting since childhood (I think I messed up some mods to make this happen). It was a complete accident, but I just went with this and gave her cc ADHD trait. I eventually wanted to make her an addict with BD mod and kill her by ov*rdose, and I started that, but suddenly the first girl who supported to be my heir, died 🥲 Broken girl beat her addiction, became famous archaeologyst and maxed out quite a few skills despite having ADHD and needing Adderall for basically everything. I was honestly very proud of her by the end 😅 went from the most broken and cursed sim I ever had to one of the coolest one.
when max crawled in bed and cried, i lowkey teared up. poor kid.
Oh man, growing together feels like how the game should have been from the start!
"I didn't treat the human kids like this though. Well, I couldn't, I was too hungover."
Dead!! 😂😂😂
“I’m feeling particularly cruel today” LMFAO
I love that your comfort for poor Max is 'oh honey, don't be sad, I'll make your life the best in the world as an adult. And your sister, she can go in a dumpster.'
My teen sim aged up with high confidence and still got the funniest no one cares about me sulky moodlets when the parents even spoke to the younger children. I really like the new pack.
My teen sim got jealous of his infant sibling reaching a milestone 💀 it’s hilarious
@viys3261 I was playing the Goth family and Cassandra was jealous of her brother playing the violin since he had a higher skill than her 😂
@@xChaosFlower😂😂😂😂😂
Turns out if you treat the big stuff animals badly their eyes will close (eyes will be "U" shaped in a closed manner if treated bad) and when you treat them nice the stuffed animal will open their eyes, and if you continue being nice to them they'll get happy (happy eyes are "n" shaped)
I love this Max is like Harry Potter with how she is treated.
Yes and Karissa is like Harry‘s cousin Dudley 😂
@@Stayville_Clownhahahahaha 😂
Next episode: Max runs away to Glimmerbrook and becomes a Spellcaster.
@@lateoclock4281 Holy musical theater yes
Yeah, too bad she wasn't a spellcaster with the spell that makes food, cause then at least she could have some good food and not have unbalanced meals, that's the only way the girls in my game ever ate, cause their mom never cooked for them, I had a mod which lets kids be spellcasters, so they had magic.
can we just talk abt how the mom was making salad and started picking at her ear wax, looks at it, then goes back to tossing the salad WITH HER HANDS
I have a Sim who currently has 19 children, no more than 7 have ever lived together in the house. I mostly let them do whatever they want, and I don't do much with the mom either, and it's so interesting to see how they autonomously interact with so many kids. Usually one kid in a set of twins (she has 3 sets!) feels very ignored.
Basically all the kids feel neglected except for 3 of them, one of whom will NOT stop calling after I moved her out.
8:25 “would you believe I used to work at a preschool” had me rolling 😭
This video and comments are therapeutic for me because I grew up as Max. I was always the scapegoat and unsupported through most. When you said "Carissa gets gifts and Max gets orders" I felt that.
Dang, friend, I’m so sorry!! Hope you’re doing ok now.
I love it when the Sims do things like slam doors when they get an attitude. My favorite has to be when teen sims do that specific walk they do when they're in a mood, dragging their feet with their head hanging back and a grimace on their face. It makes me laugh every time.
This experiment didn't make me quite as sad as others as I don't get attached to my sims in the slightest. I could play a sim from birth to death on long life span, they die, and I'm just on to the next lol. The ones that make me sad are pet cat deaths 😂
My sim cat died today 😭
Anyone else notice that at 3:09 the mom digs through her ear and then immediately starts hand tossing the salad? 🤢
The special ingredient is love... and with love I mean earwax.
@@happytofu5Laughed my ass off at this. 😂
@@happytofu5yeah it adds flavour
I thought I was seeing things!! 😂
It's interesting how Max never got taken by social services
“what would it do to children if one of them was loved and the other one wasn’t?”
ah yes, the angela and lilith pleasant style of parenting
Who are they ?
@@randomnonsense5781family from the sims 2. From the base game
@@Ola-cb1xt oh thanks ❤
@@randomnonsense5781 you're welcome
@@randomnonsense5781 sorry i didn't get to this right away, but as ola-cb1xt said, they were a set of teen twins from the Pleasant family in the base game of the sims 2. Angela had been raised well, with lots of positive memories from childhood, meanwhile Lilith had been raised poorly and had negative relationships with all of her family as well as poor grades in school.
A version of them does exist in the sims 4 with discover university, but aside from a vaguely similar fashion sense and being redheads, they're nothing like the real Angela and Lilith
I feel like I watching someone process their childhood trauma 😭😭
“DO NOT SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR” 😂😂
The way you just talk to the mom every time she makes a mistake or annoys you the way you just call her out it’s just funny😂😂😂😂
This reminds me a bit of a family I had in Sims 2, my sim had twins and it was the first time ever, I was a kid who didn't know how to take care of two babies at once so one wasn't as well taken care of as the other XD
This experiment seems a bit harsh even for just AI/ computer generated kids 💀
Still watching because I'm curious. Already feel bad for the other girl
You should totally do a challenge where you give one child social interaction and keep the other child with no social interaction
Ikr
Yelling at the Sim for slamming to fridge door got me 🤣🤣🤣
this was unexpectedly triggering 💀i've never related to a sim more, i'm literally max. living this kind of childhood is how you develop personality disorders and mental illness
Hope it gets better for you out there
"its okay max we can make karissa homeless!!" IM DYING THAT WAS SO FUNNY
If you just let the child age on their own with no birthday cake, they get a sad moodlet that says forgotten birthday
“We’ll just make a garden salad because we don’t have any cooking points- HEY DONT SLAM THAT FRIDE DOOR-* continues talking about her plan for the video* “ had me dying 😂😂
I also struggle tryin to be intentionally shitty to other sims, especially the little ones, but if I'm playing a mean or evil sim, i have to remember that they're a dick so I have to act like one. I rarely play Hates Children sims, too. so when I played Sergio Romeo, he and Zoe Patel had an "unwanted" child (she was happy, he was not obviously) and he got a want to crush a child's dream, i had him direct all that on his own kid. super harsh. but of course this is happy and cheerful sims 4 and they end up being friends autonomously cuz sims 4 logic. 🤷♀
"What happens if one child is loved and the other isn't?"
Ah feels like being back home
I highly reccomend growing together. I also have parenthood which helps but growing together makes them feel like complexed people with relationships.
I feel so bad for Max :( I hope you'll make a part 2 where Max and Karissa turn tables (as in Max turns out to be more successful than Karissa)
Actually, it seems like Klarissa and Max were alright friends in the end and Klarissa didn't really treat her sister badly. Mom deserves all the punishment though lol
Karissa shouldn’t be punished just because the mom was awful. She didn’t do anything wrong and was actually good friends with max at the end. Kind of messed up to wish ill on her just because of a situation outside of her control.
Kinda fucked up. It’s not Kirissa’s fault she had a better childhood than Max. Punishing a child just because they have a good trauma free life is horrible. :(
@@RazzleMazzleTazzlefacts💯
Is this like a mod or a specific Sims add on?
As a add on to this experiment, see if you have 2 kids, one with top notch infant + toddler and one with un happy infant and toddler then do the same thing in this video and see if anything changes
wild coming to watch this right after i finished my week of early childhood training. feels like an extra training exercise lol
I love Brit’s dark sense of humor lmao
"well i couldn't i was too hungover" 💀
I never thought I would see this day. Ms. Brit actually playing a golden child story! 😮 No doubt a lot of people who grew up with a golden child sibling can relate to this. ❤
did anybody else see the mom pick her ear INTENSELY and then mix the salad with those same waxy fingers all within 3 unclean seconds
Even Shrek disapproved of this wow..
Thank you Karla for always providing such amazing gameplay and videos that answer these questions that we all have but don’t have the strength to do 😂
omg this is the first video ive watched of hers and im so mesmerized by her voice its absolutely angelic.
Can we get a part 2 of them as teens please
I think you’d be great doing a Cinderella challenge or a Big Sister challenge. That would be fun to watch.
I think you should make this a series and make it longer, instead of 5 days in game. Maybe in that way it could have more consecuences for the girls
Your videos are so amazing, makes me wanna play The Sims again! Love from Brazil
Olha, uma companheira! 😊
3:08 I CANT BE THE ONLY 1 WHO SAW HOW SHE PICKED IN HER EAR AND THEN MIXED THE SALAD 😭😭
Not the mother picking her ear and mixing the salad with hands 🫣😭
LMAO it happened as i saw your comment, lmao ewwwwy😫
I did this a while ago and I started CRYING while playing my sims 4 nobody in the family liked the hated child and I felt so bad, she started getting low confidence traits and was always crying in the rain, so 2 hours in I made a rich lady adopt her and now they are happy together while she plays violin to her hearts content
"Could be worse max, could be in an inbreeding challenge" 😭
This is literally my story. The bike was a trip to Disney in Florida. My brother and sister were suprised in front of me, i had to stay home. Its typical scapegoating. This type of thing all my childhood years. Ive been diagnosed with 8 mental illnesses
WHY? That’s so awful.
Oh look! A simulation of my Childhood! This will be a fun trip down memory lane!
2:38 “DO NOT SLAM THAT FRIGDE DOOR!” She sounds like my mom 😢
Same, this video is too accurate 💀
Max and I are the same, please give her a good future, pure happiness.
Can't wait to you replicate the stanford prison experiment but you're the gaurd
I didn't even know children could be influenced into developing different fears and traits! Might be because the last time i played the sims 4 was in 2018 or 2019, i feel like there weren't these many choices! I was so invested into this video
I like oddly specific videos like these, keep it up!
DO NOT SLAM THAT DOOR!
Just wanted you to know I love you best as far as sim RUclipsrs go, you're the best 🥰😊 don't ever stop sharing your gameplays
My brothers baby mama played this challenge in real life. Her oldest was her golden child whole her honest was treated like crap. They are both early 20s now and believe it or not it was the "Golden child" that cut off her mom while the youngest has limited contact. The oldest was expected to be prefect and had really high standards while the youngest had almost no expectations and no real parenting. They both have anxiety and depression as a result of their mom. The oldest has ocd though she's in college and doing well in college. The youngest has a decent job though she does drink a lot, was into more hardcore but now only smokes weed and vapes. She's only 20 so hopefully as she gets older she'll stop drinking so much. To be honest I'm proud of both girls, they both had a hard time growing up and even pitted against each other (they get along now) by their mom. Their mom was and is a hardcore drug user who had a parade of men coming in and out of their home (some were not good at all to my nieces), called even my youngest niece the N word with the hard R at the end because she's mixed (my brother is half black and is only the biological father to the youngest but he loves the oldest as his own too) I think of their mother as the destroyer of lives because she will try to destroy the life of anybody in her life if she thinks they have wronged her in any way even if they are her own children. There's so much more even but that's all another long story.
Over too soon! I was so invested and wanted to know how their lives turn out as adults.
The second you said “I’m feeling cruel today” I knew I was gonna love your channel
I had to stop watching at this part I’m a pusssyyy😢😢😢 11:22
One of the best things I've watched in a while!
Lmao you had me dying at “DONT SLAM THE FRIDGE DOOR”
“Feeling particularly cruel today”. Same Karla. Same.
I just have stumbled upon your channel and your videos and content are already a great entertainment for me haha, amazing sims content!!! ❤
😭 I need more of this family i wish it was a series
“Well I couldn’t, I was too hungover” 😂😂😂😂 that got me cracking up
“Max has some... Pet shit in her inventory, that must've been her gift.” had me dying 😂
Not your adult sim picking her ear and then making salad 🤣
I've never felt so sad over some pixels. 😢
I kinda want to hear about you working at a preschool hungover XD
Does anyone remember those Gacha “Favorite child” skits were one girl is loved and spoiled and the other isn’t and is abused for some reason. And in the end the non-favorite ends up being “uLtRa rAre AlPha”.
This is what it reminds me of 😭😂
Your videos are great! Thank you for what you do 😊
The fact she got mad for the mum to slam the fridge door
This was in my recommended i have no clue why i dont even play the sims but this is funny AF 😂
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i just found this yt channel but i love it so much. i normally watch cas videos, but this makes me want to watch more gameplay
2:38 “do not slam that fridge door!” 😂
i waited all day for you to post!!! so excited that you did :)
I feel like the parenthood mechanics should have the kids learn from what the parents do in the same room. That way the example set by the parents would have some impact on their behavior, even if they don't interact directly.
I love your voice. It's so nice to hear you talking ❤
I was treated differently & it still affects me til this day is why I treat all my children the same and try to do better as a mother ❤
You seem like a good parent, I wish my parents were like that lol 🥲
You always literally have so many good ideas for the sims ! Love it ❤
"Where you going, mopey-bollocks?" got me good!
I was the unloved child. My older brother was the "golden child". I told my mother I wished she had let me die when I was an infant.
"DO NOT SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR!" That scared me so bad 😭! I thought that you were my mom 💀.
“I was too hungover” BYE IM GONE
Wow your voice is so beautiful and calming! I could listen to you for hours 😄💕