If you're looking for more exercises + worksheets, try out the Dream Life Series! It's a 10-part email + video series with bonus content to help you achieve your goals, long-term! ▸ Learn more about it here: DREAM LIFE SERIES | bit.ly/2I4UAO7 Q: What other types of interactive exercises would you be interested in seeing?
Lavendaire Q&A: Assessing overwhelm and turning it into baby steps. ...when every task on your list takes more time than you have and you feel like you can’t get enough of a task done to take the thing off your list.
You are so inspiring I'm 14 and I'm sick with a deadly disorder and I've been sick in the hospital quiet a lot. If there is one thing being sick has taught me is live everyday like its your last, because for me and many other kids that are sick, we know it could be and I hope everyone starts to live the life to the fullest. I'm now starting my recovery and I'm feeling so much more motivated. You lavendaire are an inspiration that are helping me get through this. Thank you so much 💖💖💖
Eek I love this video - escaping busy-ness and working on what matters is the only way to get to where you want to go! At the same time, letting yourself drown in 'busy' tasks that aren't really getting you anywhere is so easy to do - and feels so productive - it's such a trap. Always love your content girl 💖
hey aileen, I know you probably won't see this, but the other day I had a really bad breakdown due to schoolwork, and this video has really helped me learn how to not get so overwhelmed. thank you 🌻
I've felt like a complete mess the last 2 weeks with tasks and assignments building up and being in a constant race to keep up. I had no idea how to prioritise. I just writing to-do lists everyday then procrastinating😩 this video is so practical and has really helped - thank you so much!!
I literally just clicked on this bc I felt overwhelmed with revision and I needed a mental breather and I had no idea Friday's video would be the answer to my problems 😂😂 Now I have a not-so-intimidating list of what to do next in terms of school and my mind feels way clearer. Thanks, Aileen! 💕
Brilliant! I loved this video and it really helped to narrow down and spotlight what I need to do right now, instead of being frantic! Thank you so much 💓 xx
I actually took the time to do the exercise even though I'm barely with my eyes opened and Io actually loved it. Thank you so much, I was needing that. ♥
I liked this interactive video! I found a lot of these ideas were floating around my head and I knew what I had to do, but writing them down made them seem so much more tangible and urgent. I also found that as I went through each step I would go back and add more to my original list and find other priorities I'd previously glossed over as 'expecting them to happen anyway' only to realize I had no plan to MAKE them happen! thank you Lavendaire x
Yes, thanks .I am a husband, Father, only son to elderly parents, member of local church, full time employee, and friend to many younger children on my street who I try to give direction to. I often feel overwhelmed due to my lack o prioritization. This video has helped. I decided to take care of my home as the number one priority. I have had a mice problem for a while and have not been able to block them from coming into hour home. But for the rest of this month and next month, I am going to laser focus on all I can do. I have been told you cant block them out completely but I am going to try. I know too much information, lol
It's seems very simple when you say..but it blow my mind when I wrote down everything! Now only I am realizing the fact that, how far away I am from my so important tasks... thank you so much for this wonderful video! Love you😘
I really like the idea of having interactive exercises in videos. Instead of saying, do this exercise after the video, you give the incentive that it's a part of the video, not just an afterwards activity, because most people won't do it afterwards. Anyway, I did do what you said, and my main goal for the next 3 months is writing. I want to be an editor/writer, yet I don't write, and I haven't for a very long time. Obviously, that's quite important for the career I'm pursuing, so I sat down and wrote a poem that eventually turned into an awesome expression and therapeutic exercise for myself. So thank you for this wonderful video. I do plan on continuing this exercise!
I really feel that proritizing stuff. Especially in school, they give us sooo much homework and projects (barely anybody in class sleeps anymore) and these teachers just expect that we're going to give our always 1000%... I have so much more to say, but for now I'm just thankful to have randomly clicked on this video. 💕💕💕 Lots of love from the Philippines 💙
Amazing video! I realized I did some of these things but this video really helps to organize the whole concept of simplifying your priorities. Thanks so much! ✨
I really love this exercise! It forces me to pick on thing to do at a time. I have such an issue multi tasking and never really accomplishing anything. Thanks please post more! Super helpful video. I'm sure I'm gonna watch it a hundred more times this year to keep myself focused on my goals 💜💜
You are amazing! I have OCD and also have to deal with information overload. This video helps me to finally writing down my top goals and makes me feel much less lost on the amount of choices we have. Thank you, keep doing such a great work!
You are such an inspiration to me. I'm suffering from depression and anxiety for many years.Trying hard each day without medicine as its not helping me now.Your video really uplifts my mood. Please do videos on how to deal with depression anxiety.love u a lot.
This was really helpful in making a concrete plan for my summer! Since I won't be working but have a lot of personal projects I want to work on, this helped me to visualize what I need to do. I did not have to cross anything off though because the initial step of only thinking about the next three months kept my list fairly focused.
Definitely like this idea, and I will have to give it a try once my exams are done. I suppose in essence I have done it by choosing to only worry about my exams right now, and everything else can wait 😂😅
Hello, Aileen! I'm from Thailand. Love all of your videos! Thank you so much for this video; it helps me a lot. I like an interactive exercise, so please do more :)
This video came in the best moment. I am super ambitious and want to do everything without being realistic with time...and then, I end Up frustrated. Same with social life.. I cant find the way to work on my own proyects and socialize....its hard but im. still learning. thanks for sharing!
Hi Aileen, through a stroke of serendipity, I found your channel and I'm loving it so far! Thank you for the great content and the obvious effort you pour into each video. This method was very simple, easy to follow, and easy to incorporate. The interactive spin on this video is cute :) I see so much potential in you and I'm excited to join you on your journey to stardom ^_^
Yay! This video helped me so much. I try this method and fail but after applying your interactive exercise, I was able to sleep easy with a clear head and I woke up feeling so rejuvenated and empowered to tackle the next thing on my list. Thanks so much! I also listen to your podcast. We have a lot of strategies in common. You're awesome!
I had 3 different parties to attend at the same time, Had some school work to do, and just so much.. this video came at the right time, I can easily decide now!!!!!!!!! thank you this video was made for me!😊 i love you, Aileen,😍
In video exercise is awesome. Love your simple and clear presentation. Just stumbled upon your channel. I will rewind this video and pause to complete the exercise. 2 thumbs up!
Once again, you are so sweet and so inspiring. You have inspired me to write my own book about something that is important to me, addiction. Maybe start an addiction blog soon :). Fingers crossed! Thank you for your videos and being real.
YES this video is is perfect for me IN my last week of my assignment :( I m doing and handing in what I can - what grade will come, will come. Then also for my summer projects- i will be running back to this video. Bless you again and again :) xxx
I really like your tips! unfortunately, the priorities I decided to be important can't be done right away, so I couldn't follow the last instruction, but thanks anyways! You're great!
That exercise was amazing 😆. Everything you said before sounded right, but when I did the exercise I realized how to put into action all those things. Especially when I had to cross over what was not a priority, it was little hard because I wanted to do them, but it was also relieving 😄. Thanks a lot!!!
This exercise was really helpful, there's a lot I want to do and accomplish but now I understand I can't do all those things at once and must do 1 thing at a time~ thanks Lavendaire 🎀
Thanks for the video! What if everything on my list is really important and hard to quantify (e.g., job search, reading, meditation, finish doctoral dissertation)? Maybe I should have process-oriented goals for the next one and three month(s) and postpone the next steps to later months? Or maybe I need to carve out certain days/times during the day to do each? Thanks!
Thank you! I am currently studying for a test to get into med school while simultaneosly having to study for exams at university. It is just so much :/ I just needed to prioritize and made a plan while watching this video! Again thank you! P.S. Those interactive videos are awesome! :D
Even though I don't really like it, my most important goal is to maintain my GPA. I've been expecting myself to learn the basics of art, learn photoshop, learn blogging, start an art account this year, but focusing on school is way too important. haha
Might I add, that sometimes when we do create these steps to follow, we often stop short from following through with the plan. It may be because the planning and organizing process itself can be mentally draining. Step 6 is the most important step because it's the step that turns wishing thinking into results. As Napoleon Hill puts it in, "Think and Grow Rich," we have to find that definiteness of purpose and start whether we're ready or not.
If you're looking for more exercises + worksheets, try out the Dream Life Series! It's a 10-part email + video series with bonus content to help you achieve your goals, long-term!
▸ Learn more about it here: DREAM LIFE SERIES | bit.ly/2I4UAO7
Q: What other types of interactive exercises would you be interested in seeing?
Lavendaire
Q&A: Assessing overwhelm and turning it into baby steps. ...when every task on your list takes more time than you have and you feel like you can’t get enough of a task done to take the thing off your list.
@Lavendaire How to works with emotions ☺
You are so inspiring
I'm 14 and I'm sick with a deadly disorder and I've been sick in the hospital quiet a lot. If there is one thing being sick has taught me is live everyday like its your last, because for me and many other kids that are sick, we know it could be and I hope everyone starts to live the life to the fullest. I'm now starting my recovery and I'm feeling so much more motivated. You lavendaire are an inspiration that are helping me get through this. Thank you so much 💖💖💖
sending you love & strength, my dear! 💞✨ you're an inspiration. love you!
kawaiisparkle how are you now? 💟
Lavendaire. I watch this video whenever I need direction. Back in 2017, it helped me switch jobs and prioritize what I wanted to become. Thank you.
Eek I love this video - escaping busy-ness and working on what matters is the only way to get to where you want to go! At the same time, letting yourself drown in 'busy' tasks that aren't really getting you anywhere is so easy to do - and feels so productive - it's such a trap. Always love your content girl 💖
thank you dear!!
muchelleb waaaah you two are my ultimate faves!💖💖
Definitely!
hey aileen, I know you probably won't see this, but the other day I had a really bad breakdown due to schoolwork, and this video has really helped me learn how to not get so overwhelmed. thank you 🌻
As someone who is in the middle of capstone, finals and job hunting, this was super helpful! Thanks Aileen!
you can do it! 💪
loved the exercise.. please do more such videos.. loving the series =)
:) thanks
I will start writing my assignment riiiiigghhthttt after this video...
It was due 47 minutes ago :D
:D you can do it girl
I've felt like a complete mess the last 2 weeks with tasks and assignments building up and being in a constant race to keep up. I had no idea how to prioritise. I just writing to-do lists everyday then procrastinating😩 this video is so practical and has really helped - thank you so much!!
I literally just clicked on this bc I felt overwhelmed with revision and I needed a mental breather and I had no idea Friday's video would be the answer to my problems 😂😂 Now I have a not-so-intimidating list of what to do next in terms of school and my mind feels way clearer. Thanks, Aileen! 💕
aww that's so great! good luck with everything!
Brilliant! I loved this video and it really helped to narrow down and spotlight what I need to do right now, instead of being frantic! Thank you so much 💓 xx
amazing 😊
I actually took the time to do the exercise even though I'm barely with my eyes opened and Io actually loved it. Thank you so much, I was needing that. ♥
Omg new motto. Its better to be effective at whats important than efficient in whats not. YESSSS.
I liked this interactive video! I found a lot of these ideas were floating around my head and I knew what I had to do, but writing them down made them seem so much more tangible and urgent. I also found that as I went through each step I would go back and add more to my original list and find other priorities I'd previously glossed over as 'expecting them to happen anyway' only to realize I had no plan to MAKE them happen! thank you Lavendaire x
so glad it helped! xx
*YES to saying NO*! ❤ Learning to be OK with saying No is what has helped me with your first point of honing in on just 1-3 things. 💪
I love her back to basics series it really helps me and helps me find motivation and inspiration its truley helpful
Yes, thanks .I am a husband, Father, only son to elderly parents, member of local church, full time employee, and friend to many younger children on my street who I try to give direction to. I often feel overwhelmed due to my lack o prioritization. This video has helped. I decided to take care of my home as the number one priority. I have had a mice problem for a while and have not been able to block them from coming into hour home. But for the rest of this month and next month, I am going to laser focus on all I can do. I have been told you cant block them out completely but I am going to try. I know too much information, lol
It's seems very simple when you say..but it blow my mind when I wrote down everything! Now only I am realizing the fact that, how far away I am from my so important tasks... thank you so much for this wonderful video! Love you😘
yes it makes a big difference to write everything down & actually do the exercise! :) good luck with everything!
I really like the idea of having interactive exercises in videos. Instead of saying, do this exercise after the video, you give the incentive that it's a part of the video, not just an afterwards activity, because most people won't do it afterwards.
Anyway, I did do what you said, and my main goal for the next 3 months is writing. I want to be an editor/writer, yet I don't write, and I haven't for a very long time. Obviously, that's quite important for the career I'm pursuing, so I sat down and wrote a poem that eventually turned into an awesome expression and therapeutic exercise for myself.
So thank you for this wonderful video. I do plan on continuing this exercise!
I really feel that proritizing stuff. Especially in school, they give us sooo much homework and projects (barely anybody in class sleeps anymore) and these teachers just expect that we're going to give our always 1000%... I have so much more to say, but for now I'm just thankful to have randomly clicked on this video. 💕💕💕 Lots of love from the Philippines 💙
what an eye opener !! thanks love
Learning to say "no," whether to yourself or others, is huge!!!
Amazing video! I realized I did some of these things but this video really helps to organize the whole concept of simplifying your priorities. Thanks so much! ✨
I love love love what you say here. So much wisdom. All of your videos are great but this is one of the very best.
the activity helped sooooo much.. thank you so much.... really helped me to get my act together
I really love this exercise! It forces me to pick on thing to do at a time. I have such an issue multi tasking and never really accomplishing anything. Thanks please post more! Super helpful video. I'm sure I'm gonna watch it a hundred more times this year to keep myself focused on my goals 💜💜
Love this interactive idea! I wasn't expecting to cut down the ideas and just pick one! Great idea.
Feeling so disorganized right now. thank you so much for this.
You are amazing! I have OCD and also have to deal with information overload. This video helps me to finally writing down my top goals and makes me feel much less lost on the amount of choices we have. Thank you, keep doing such a great work!
This interactive type of videos is great!
You are such an inspiration to me.
I'm suffering from depression and anxiety for many years.Trying hard each day without medicine as its not helping me now.Your video really uplifts my mood. Please do videos on how to deal with depression anxiety.love u a lot.
I’m Absolutely loving is interactive videos... Nice change of pace from every other make up tutorial✨
This was really helpful in making a concrete plan for my summer! Since I won't be working but have a lot of personal projects I want to work on, this helped me to visualize what I need to do. I did not have to cross anything off though because the initial step of only thinking about the next three months kept my list fairly focused.
Definitely like this idea, and I will have to give it a try once my exams are done. I suppose in essence I have done it by choosing to only worry about my exams right now, and everything else can wait 😂😅
haha right!
Hello, Aileen! I'm from Thailand. Love all of your videos!
Thank you so much for this video; it helps me a lot.
I like an interactive exercise, so please do more :)
This video came in the best moment. I am super ambitious and want to do everything without being realistic with time...and then, I end Up frustrated. Same with social life.. I cant find the way to work on my own proyects and socialize....its hard but im. still learning. thanks for sharing!
Hi Aileen, through a stroke of serendipity, I found your channel and I'm loving it so far! Thank you for the great content and the obvious effort you pour into each video. This method was very simple, easy to follow, and easy to incorporate. The interactive spin on this video is cute :) I see so much potential in you and I'm excited to join you on your journey to stardom ^_^
I love it. Thank you for making this! I often find myself so overwhelmed this time of year, so this really helps!
i saw this at the perfect time. thank you so much. much love 🌹
😊✨
Hi Aileen, I appreciate you and all that you do. Thanks a lot and all the best!
Very smart thank you so much Lavendaire! I always loved the baby step concept & the movie w/ Bill Murray.
Learning to say no is going to be one of my biggest goals for 2018!
I love this format of video! Please keep doing more of them!! I just got a ton done and am that much closer to writing a 10 minute play! :)
nice!! ✨ that's so amazing!
I loved it. Thank you so much. I needed this so much!!
Yay! This video helped me so much. I try this method and fail but after applying your interactive exercise, I was able to sleep easy with a clear head and I woke up feeling so rejuvenated and empowered to tackle the next thing on my list. Thanks so much! I also listen to your podcast. We have a lot of strategies in common. You're awesome!
AHHH I'm so early this time!!! Love you :D
Fancy Nancy TV love your channel ~
aw love you nancy!
Love the way you strip everything to the essential !! :) The biggest advice I want/always need to follow is "better done than perfect". :)
Kelyrin's Cooking & Bento 🤗🤗
This video is helping me so much and you should definitely post more shadow work prompts!!
thank you for this video I really needed it today ♡
Aileen, you are so helpful. It works for me and now I'm busy doing that step 6, thank you, keep inspiring❤
So much thanks! I loved doing this activitie with you, thank you for sharing your knowledge💓
Your videos are like therapy. 💓
this exercise was seriously so helpful, I feel so much better now that everything is prioritized
yay!! ✨
I had 3 different parties to attend at the same time, Had some school work to do, and just so much..
this video came at the right time, I can easily decide now!!!!!!!!!
thank you
this video was made for me!😊
i love you, Aileen,😍
Thanx a ton for this one! Would like to see more interactive videos. Love n hugs! #yougogirl
thanks love 💞
LOVED IT, SO USEFUL !
In video exercise is awesome. Love your simple and clear presentation. Just stumbled upon your channel. I will rewind this video and pause to complete the exercise. 2 thumbs up!
Too good.
I learn a lot from your videos.
I am a huge fan of yours!😊
Loved it! Thank you!!
Once again, you are so sweet and so inspiring. You have inspired me to write my own book about something that is important to me, addiction. Maybe start an addiction blog soon :). Fingers crossed! Thank you for your videos and being real.
you are such an inspiration! thank you so much
Genial video!! Muchas muchas gracias! Un abrazo desde Chile
great video. you're so inspring. Your set up is always beatiful too!
aw thanks love
This came exactly when I needed it. Thank you!
AWESOME! This is great advice. Just signed up for your newsletter.
Very good videos. Especially editing. Can i know which editor u are using? Love your videos♥️ take care ☺
YES this video is is perfect for me IN my last week of my assignment :( I m doing and handing in what I can - what grade will come, will come. Then also for my summer projects- i will be running back to this video. Bless you again and again :) xxx
I really like your tips! unfortunately, the priorities I decided to be important can't be done right away, so I couldn't follow the last instruction, but thanks anyways! You're great!
That exercise was amazing 😆. Everything you said before sounded right, but when I did the exercise I realized how to put into action all those things. Especially when I had to cross over what was not a priority, it was little hard because I wanted to do them, but it was also relieving 😄. Thanks a lot!!!
This was such a helpful and lovely video!
I will be reading my book after watching this!
Thank you for being an inspiration :)
I needed this every year in college LOL
lovely ideas.......thank you very much for this
Thank you very much ma'am..
you have made my clumsy mind so clear within few minutes..
thanks a ton..
😍
So helpful thank you lavendaire
This exercise was really helpful, there's a lot I want to do and accomplish but now I understand I can't do all those things at once and must do 1 thing at a time~ thanks Lavendaire 🎀
Amazing tips! I just found your chanel and i'm loving it. Thank you!
Your videos are such an inspiration
Great video. I totally have trouble prioritising and so this was very helpful x
Thanks for the video! What if everything on my list is really important and hard to quantify (e.g., job search, reading, meditation, finish doctoral dissertation)? Maybe I should have process-oriented goals for the next one and three month(s) and postpone the next steps to later months? Or maybe I need to carve out certain days/times during the day to do each? Thanks!
wow that was EXTREMELY helpful
WANT MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS...that was an amazing useful exercise...You are just amazinggg😍😍
Thank you! I am currently studying for a test to get into med school while simultaneosly having to study for exams at university. It is just so much :/ I just needed to prioritize and made a plan while watching this video! Again thank you!
P.S. Those interactive videos are awesome! :D
Loved this!
I just found your channel and I can't stop watch you 💛 you inspired me you are so sweet and lovely ❤️❤️❤️ sending love from Saudi Arabia - keep going
Great video! I just will differently be working more efficiently.
Perfect timing for exam season!
good luck with exams!
Lavendaire thanks!!
Even though I don't really like it, my most important goal is to maintain my GPA. I've been expecting myself to learn the basics of art, learn photoshop, learn blogging, start an art account this year, but focusing on school is way too important. haha
I really like your videos!! keep doing video's like this!! it's so inspiring and motivating!
this was super helpfull, thankyou
Super helpful! Thank you! 👍🏼
Love your videos! And this is exactly what I needed ar the moment, so helpful and inspiring. Thank you so much! ^___^
I love these seriesss
Loved the video! Great tips!!
thanks!
Might I add, that sometimes when we do create these steps to follow, we often stop short from following through with the plan. It may be because the planning and organizing process itself can be mentally draining. Step 6 is the most important step because it's the step that turns wishing thinking into results.
As Napoleon Hill puts it in, "Think and Grow Rich," we have to find that definiteness of purpose and start whether we're ready or not.
THIS IS AWSOME!
Love this!! It was so helpful, thank you 💕
This is so helpful!!
awesome exercise ! Thank you Aileen :D i now know what i HAVE TO focus on .
This is perfect! We want to do more like this on mine and my boyfriends channel! 😀 Antony & Tom