To OP of story 1. Here is the best relationship advice my mother, now past, ever gave to me... (For context, I was in a rocky relationship myself, holding my newborn daughter). My mom looked me in the eye and asked me, 'Is this what you would want for her (refering to my daughter)? If this isn't good enough for her, it's not good enough for you.'
Also story 4 is sad. She is so concerned with keeping her mom happy and not ruining the relationship meanwhile her mother let's the step-dad talk and treat her that way smh. I hope she gets her own place . I really want an update on that story
Story 1: I think your New Years resolution needs to be finding some solid friendships this year, finds friend who become family to you. I gained an unexpected friendship this year that’s been such a huge blessing, her & her family have become family to me in such a short time. I also went through a rough break up this year and they were there for me all the way through. Put yourself out there. I also did meet this girl through work, I think regardless you’re going to find those people in your life but make it a priority for yourself this year. Sending love ❤️
Y’all are my favorite RUclips family! Thanks for being a part of our holiday season, and Merry Christmas! Such a great way to wind down my Christmas Day while my family heads to bed
for story one : i don't see why op can't ask a friend to spend their christmas with? i know holidays are super family oriented but i went with my friend to her house for thanksgiving and had an amazing time! it was a bit awkward to ask but it was so worth it and the awkwardness went away minutes after asking!
Happy holidays family!❤ Also story 2....the mother was dead ass wrong for not stopping her son from assaulting him over and over again...hes going to think that behavior is okay and end up putting his hands on the wrong person and is going to either get his ass beat or end up in jail . She needs to actually parent him
Story 1: my life blew up about 4 weeks ago due to me splitting from my Fiancé - and the first thing on everybody's mind was 'where are you spending Christmas?! In a time where I was so lonely- I've never known such an outpouring of love. People I wouldn't even consider 'close' invited me. However, I've chosen to stay with my partner (no longer Fiancé) and it has been very much the same - you don't know how loved and surrounded you are ❤ xxxx
NO parent is a GOOD parent if they are Abusive to the other parent ir child OR ig they watch their partner abuse the child. Story 3: Please take your child and leave. This an ABUSIVE relationship. He doesn't respect or love you. Look at his actions, don't don't listen to his words. I am afraid he will escalate quickly as he already has proven to haven't a damaging trigger temper. Gather essentials while he is away and ask only trusted friends or a police escort to help leave.
Last story: OP should start by blocking the ex friends from all social media and letting all current friends know to not provide them with information about the wedding. A simple text response to them asking about being invited with a simple "We appreciate that you are excited for us, at this time however we are only inviting close friends and family" and block. Why would you want to have people in your life that don't value you and are clearly only in it to bring you down
First story... Something I was taught as a quiet and timid child... youngest of 4 with 3 very outgoing and confident older siblings... A very northern British saying (I think)... "Shy kids get nout; the worst they can say is no"
For story number three I believe OP needs to start documenting when he’s drinking, how he talks to her, his behavior because if she just leaves with the kid, he can call the police and say she’s kidnapping his child which will not look good in court he will most likely do so if he’s petty enough and will take her to court for full custody just because he wants to see her reaction getting her kid taken away from her. She is gonna have to start documenting everything between them and between the kid and once she gets that she needs to go to the police station and file for temporary custody and everything to get that all sorted out before she leaves the state because if she leaves, before everything is sorted out she could get in trouble with the law if he gets the law involved which will be a much more messy situation.
The problem with the girl in the first story is that she wants someone else to bring the magic to her. Just like with everything else, we OURSELVES have to create what we want to experience. If we wait for other people deliver what we want, or expect for it to fall from the sky, we are going to have a very boring, lackluster life. We need to get off the passenger seat and move over to the driver's seat and be the change we want to see.
Story 3... To be honest I don't feel like you actually answered this person and totally missed their initial wording that they wanted advice on HOW to tell the partner they were moving home. (Rather than 'should I') You guys got so caught up in reassuring the person that leaving the partner was the right choice that it felt like U actually dismissed the actual question 🤔
Happy Chrismahanukwanzakah!
Thank you THT, FKS, and MWM for getting me through the year!!
To OP of story 1. Here is the best relationship advice my mother, now past, ever gave to me... (For context, I was in a rocky relationship myself, holding my newborn daughter). My mom looked me in the eye and asked me, 'Is this what you would want for her (refering to my daughter)? If this isn't good enough for her, it's not good enough for you.'
Literally teared up a little seeing y'all posted, dull Xmas for me (we'll celebrate Saturday ❤) thanks for something enjoyable to do 😊🙌
In a similar boat. Merry Christmas 🎄
Also story 4 is sad. She is so concerned with keeping her mom happy and not ruining the relationship meanwhile her mother let's the step-dad talk and treat her that way smh. I hope she gets her own place . I really want an update on that story
Story 1: I think your New Years resolution needs to be finding some solid friendships this year, finds friend who become family to you. I gained an unexpected friendship this year that’s been such a huge blessing, her & her family have become family to me in such a short time. I also went through a rough break up this year and they were there for me all the way through. Put yourself out there. I also did meet this girl through work, I think regardless you’re going to find those people in your life but make it a priority for yourself this year. Sending love ❤️
Story 3- it does not get better with someone like this. Leave now. (It also doesn't get easier to leave after having the kids).
Y’all are my favorite RUclips family! Thanks for being a part of our holiday season, and Merry Christmas! Such a great way to wind down my Christmas Day while my family heads to bed
for story one : i don't see why op can't ask a friend to spend their christmas with? i know holidays are super family oriented but i went with my friend to her house for thanksgiving and had an amazing time! it was a bit awkward to ask but it was so worth it and the awkwardness went away minutes after asking!
Story 3: great response. 100% everyone will be healthier when closer to their support system ❤
Happy holidays family!❤
Also story 2....the mother was dead ass wrong for not stopping her son from assaulting him over and over again...hes going to think that behavior is okay and end up putting his hands on the wrong person and is going to either get his ass beat or end up in jail . She needs to actually parent him
Merry Christmas Jerry, love the new studio ❤
Dads studio 😍 Merry Christmas family!! 🎄
Story 1: my life blew up about 4 weeks ago due to me splitting from my Fiancé - and the first thing on everybody's mind was 'where are you spending Christmas?! In a time where I was so lonely- I've never known such an outpouring of love. People I wouldn't even consider 'close' invited me.
However, I've chosen to stay with my partner (no longer Fiancé) and it has been very much the same - you don't know how loved and surrounded you are ❤ xxxx
Story number 4, your parents are depending on you wayyy too much . They need to figure it out as the parents.
NO parent is a GOOD parent if they are Abusive to the other parent ir child OR ig they watch their partner abuse the child.
Story 3: Please take your child and leave. This an ABUSIVE relationship. He doesn't respect or love you. Look at his actions, don't don't listen to his words. I am afraid he will escalate quickly as he already has proven to haven't a damaging trigger temper. Gather essentials while he is away and ask only trusted friends or a police escort to help leave.
I love the new set! I am wrapping up my awesome Christmas with this episode...really adds to a great day ❤
I love you guys! Thank you for everything you do! You make a difference in my life everyday! ❤
Merry Christmas Dad!
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!! 🎉
Feliz Navidad everyone ♥️🙌🏼
Getting this episode today is the best holiday gift!
I was waiting for a show all morning so I could do something with my Christmas while I feel alone. Christmas wish came true
Happy Christmas and Happy Hanukkah. ❤️💚🎄🎄🕎🕎
Thank you!! I needed a little motivation before I clean and cook a huge feast for my mom tonight ❤
🎄MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎄
merry christmas yall glad i’ve started to listen to father knows i always love me some tht
love you all!! happy holidays and happy new year ♥️
Merry Christmas to your family ! Thank you so allowing us to become your family 💖🎄
Merry Christmas 💛💛 love you guys
🎵 he didn't start the fire🎵
Last story: OP should start by blocking the ex friends from all social media and letting all current friends know to not provide them with information about the wedding. A simple text response to them asking about being invited with a simple "We appreciate that you are excited for us, at this time however we are only inviting close friends and family" and block.
Why would you want to have people in your life that don't value you and are clearly only in it to bring you down
First story... Something I was taught as a quiet and timid child... youngest of 4 with 3 very outgoing and confident older siblings... A very northern British saying (I think)... "Shy kids get nout; the worst they can say is no"
Merry Christmas THT fam ❤
Happy Hanukkah!
omg im early HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONEEE
First one! Finally! Dreams do come true
Woohoo 🎉❤
For story number three I believe OP needs to start documenting when he’s drinking, how he talks to her, his behavior because if she just leaves with the kid, he can call the police and say she’s kidnapping his child which will not look good in court he will most likely do so if he’s petty enough and will take her to court for full custody just because he wants to see her reaction getting her kid taken away from her. She is gonna have to start documenting everything between them and between the kid and once she gets that she needs to go to the police station and file for temporary custody and everything to get that all sorted out before she leaves the state because if she leaves, before everything is sorted out she could get in trouble with the law if he gets the law involved which will be a much more messy situation.
First order of business is buy the car from step dad. Ask him for a price and put it in your name. Then move out
For the girl in story 3: please look into alanon regardless of if you stay with him or not. It’s extremely helpful for loved ones of alcoholics
The problem with the girl in the first story is that she wants someone else to bring the magic to her. Just like with everything else, we OURSELVES have to create what we want to experience.
If we wait for other people deliver what we want, or expect for it to fall from the sky, we are going to have a very boring, lackluster life. We need to get off the passenger seat and move over to the driver's seat and be the change we want to see.
It’s alway a no, until you ask.
Story 3...
To be honest I don't feel like you actually answered this person and totally missed their initial wording that they wanted advice on HOW to tell the partner they were moving home. (Rather than 'should I') You guys got so caught up in reassuring the person that leaving the partner was the right choice that it felt like U actually dismissed the actual question 🤔
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