Allahu Akbar! I cannot express the amount of happiness and contentment I feel whenever asiya aunty comes for the MA podcast. Yaa Allah please answer my prayers regarding asiya aunty that she starts her own channel and we all can benefit from this knowledgeable personality. Ali sir please please please convey my msg to her that I personally want her start her channel and let us drink from her cup... With lots of love and duas Binte Khalid Mumbai, India
Every woman wants a partner who is 1 level up than hers. A woman will only submit and "adjust" if she knows that the guy is physically, mentally and financially more stronger than her and can take care of the next gen better than her. So rather than telling women "to adjust" to what suits a guy, why don't you ask men to step up their game and be in the actual leadership roles rather than being Mama's little boys trapped in a 40 year old body?
It wont work. Women have become worthless. Full stop. By preventing four wives they have made themselves worthless. Even a mature man will not value his wife. You cant assign value to something that is worthless.
@@MyRaahim Even in deen men are the Qawam. The guardians but unfortunately not many men follow the true spirit of the deen rather only remember deen when it comes to "4 shaadia" lol
So far the Best MA Podcast. We want part 2 . Relevent questions & practical scenario solutions given by both the guests. Some kind suggestions for MA Podcast : •invest in a mobile holder for the host •include the guest social media handle in the description Jazaka Allah khair.
My husband is a classic example of a narcissist. He has never even spoke to his children about life in general. We have been married for ten years. He buys them everything but never sits down with them to have a father-son, father-daughter conversation. I agree his parents never spoke to him, that is why he never knew about this kind of bond with kids. But hes 40 years old, its high time he learns to be a father. He can watch youtube videos to learn about healthy relationship with his kids. I am not even talking about my relationship with him here. Because at this point in my life i have given up on fixing him. Its not my job. He hasn’t touched me in a year, he has gfs, he blackmails, he manipulates, he is a criminal too. only reason i allow him in our lives is financial dependency on him. I dont make enough money to raise 3 kids on my own. All your talk about respect and blah blah is for those men who deserve respect. Those were men of prophet Muhammads time. Todays man specially south asian man, is nothing but an evil narcissist 80% of them.
Even in Quran Allah says, give them hidayat and dont be sad or try to fix them if they dont listen. Here you want women to adjust to such evil men, who dont even pray once in their lifetime, who dont even know anything about Islam and women’s rights. Much of your talk is cultural.
Badi dukh ki baat hai app jis thali me kha rahi hai wosi me ched kar rahi hai. App k under ak ℅ bhi saram hai. App paiso k liye reh rahi hai. App ko toh app k ghar wale na rakhe apne ghar me. 10 saal baad maloom pada tujhe ki wo criminal hai aur kiya kiya baqwas kar rahi hai. Kitni negative aurat hai chollo bhar pani me doop mar.
Come off it, you can get on the benefit system and feed your kids. He sounds like an asshole, but what you have to understand it that ALL the problems in the world Come from WOMEN. Thats why more women will be in hell. Had women not prevented four marriages you would have been able to divorce him easily and another married man would be ready, waiting to marry you. If there were four wives you would only need to worry about how you look, what to cook, keeping the house clean, keeping the kids clean, every FOURTH evening. The rest of the days you would live how you want to. Women are so stupid, that the new generation of young women are getting old and ugly waiting for a proposal. If i were you i would have left this man a long time ago, despite money issues. A woman i know did that, she didnt care if she would have money or not. It turns out that her life got much better, she had more money and she raised her kids how she wanted without his interference. Although no doubt she moved hell and high water to make sure that he stayed in their lives otherwise no amount of money can make up for an absent father, kids lose their mind. And she ended up re marrying and she says to people that Allah wanted me to have a better, richer life, thats why he had written divorce for me.
Please monitor your kids amd make sure they don't learn toxic behaviour. Set a good example for them. And try to stand on your feet. May Allah help you come out of abuse. Ameen
@@mohdaadil9057Mary experience ka mutabiq jb Ak bewi jb apny Haq or haqoq ka leya bat karty hai tu osay hamri society mai bad ikhkaq or bad zuban kaha jata hai... Or jab wo chup chap sahay tu apna zehni tawazn kho jati hai phir osay Pagal kaha jata hai 😊
Really great episode! Both the speakers brought up great points! Br. Muhammad Ali, I liked how you directed the talk. JazakumALLAHu khair. Salams from Illinois, U.S.
ماشاءاللہ very good discussion. Wish there was an English version to this, for those who cannot understand Urdu well. For couples who have arguments / fights should feel happy that they are still together, as they are just making the bottle bigger so the drops Don’t overflow. Just a thought 😊
Dua to Fix all your family issues: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔ Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
When you feel like giving up upon your Dua's Remember ALLAH's promise when He say: "I'll provide for you from place you would have never imagined" (Quran:65:3)
What about who treats wife like a maid (they just st want things to be done) not there in wife happiness, in your sickness or or when she is emotionally hurt or down due to anything
Very genuinely presented by both speakers. Jazakallah khairan brother Ali. We needed such talks. I was in need of such talk. Though it covered less of my confusion but generally covered a lot. Very impressive.
Masha allah..bht behtareen ..ye bht zaroori tha. Specially young couples k liye..bht ache points diye h ap sab ne .jazak allaho khairan kasera. Love from india .
Very healthy debate I agreed with this and I am talking about this that we should educate our child’s either daughter or son about there married life under rules of Islam
What a beautiful way to contribute to the understanding of Islam. May Allah bless him with success in all his endeavors. This is a true example of how patience and positivity can make a significant impact. May Allah grant him strength and resilience.
ALLHAMDULLULAH , Allah ap sb s razi ho, ap sb bht bhtreeen ustaad hn hmary, hm bht lucky hn , hmary swalon k jwab itni khubsurti s dety hain k hmary dill skoon m a jaty, Allah ap sbko dunya r akhrat ka skoon dy, jazakAllah khairan kaseerah fidunya wal akhirah Ameen ♥️♥️
Ali bhai lagta hai aapne ramadan main weight gain kar lya😅. Masha'Allah tabarak'Allah Allah apko aur apki team ko ajjar de aur khushiyan de ache ache topic launch karte hain
Mashallah...it's really helpful for our generation...they need really like this teacher who teached them how to handle every situation.....keep it up...
Such podcasts are really needed these days spcly when the kids are on the edge of disasters. What am practicing in my family for namaz habbit, with the same circumstances.. tht i said to my kids one namaz one day atleast.m and add another every 2 weeks.. i have 2 kids and this idea is working Alhamdulillah, still am on their back to push them, as kids become a lil lazy etc but i always scold them if needed, i mean if they ignore my order to offer their prayer. And Inshallah i believe one day Allah will succeed me in this way. Its my suggestion to all sch mothers who are struggling with this issue to try thia idea.
Please Sir please One Podcast about Prgnant women...kitna jhelti h wo new new marriage hoti h...adjust bhii nahi ho pati...good news aa jati...jiski wjh se jo changes aate usme jo Inlaws ka behaviour hota h...plz
Good news tbhi ati hy jb physically relationship bnta hy husband should understand this k he should give some time to her wife nd also thori understanding create hni chahye comfortable zone creates hna chahiye dono main.. Good news k lye bht time para hy at least 1 year to khud aik dusre ko time dena chahye.... Enjoy krna chahiye Bht br aisa hta hy k foran se physically relationship bna liya jata hy then ALLAH maaf krain divorces ho jaati hain nd in the end child ko suffer krna prta hy... Is lye aik dam se family plan ni krni chahiye.. Love marriage mai koi issue ni hy agr waqai mai love marriage hy aur kaafi time se understanding hy couple mai .....to agr understanding hy aur ye b maloom hy k zindagi achy se guzaar skty hain...but arrange marriages main kuch time bd plan krna chahiye Its my thinking...
Tryning sab say phalye saas ki honi chiue or agar saas bipolar ho to us ko betay ki shadi bilkul bhi nahin karne chiye ,,kun k wo talaq karwa dete hay apnye betye ko bool kar..so traning to saas ki hi hone chiye.
Just an opinion Sir, Thumb rules don't seem to work in such affairs. It takes virtue and wisdom that can only be developed through worshipping one and only Allah. Times, demands, standards and expectations will keep changing on the timeline. Thank you.
@Muhammad Ali Bhai please change the title of the video, it feels bit strange to share it with someone due to a strong title (divorce) to any couple who just have little misunderstandings between them but if we share it with those they might feel awkward and think that they have came on this stage where people are sharing divorce related stuff. Jazakallah ❤
اللهم بارك Aunty is very very good and unbiased, I wish for her to come uk or even go to our Mirpur city for dars & we will compensate her well….my outlaws sorry I meant in-laws need a nasiha…… بارك الله فيكم
Sir I feel there is a problem with the audio of the video, as sometimes it gets too low, making it really hard to listen, although I am listening on full volume
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Please invite aunty asiya frequently in your podcasts because she really understands and represents female psychology in unbiased way ❤❤❤
Correct
Really amazing podcast. Its a treat to hear Asiya Anti, it feels like she is talking on behalf of every muslim women
And also her voice is much audible
Allahu Akbar! I cannot express the amount of happiness and contentment I feel whenever asiya aunty comes for the MA podcast.
Yaa Allah please answer my prayers regarding asiya aunty that she starts her own channel and we all can benefit from this knowledgeable personality. Ali sir please please please convey my msg to her that I personally want her start her channel and let us drink from her cup...
With lots of love and duas
Binte Khalid
Mumbai, India
Feeling same. Want the same
Agree with u sister… really need it
From Mumbai, India
Agree with you or please regularly call her in your podcast brother
Every woman wants a partner who is 1 level up than hers. A woman will only submit and "adjust" if she knows that the guy is physically, mentally and financially more stronger than her and can take care of the next gen better than her. So rather than telling women "to adjust" to what suits a guy, why don't you ask men to step up their game and be in the actual leadership roles rather than being Mama's little boys trapped in a 40 year old body?
It wont work. Women have become worthless. Full stop. By preventing four wives they have made themselves worthless. Even a mature man will not value his wife. You cant assign value to something that is worthless.
@madihaalikhan1582 💯💯💯
Where did Deen go ??
Problem starts ,when you leave Deen ..
@@MyRaahim Even in deen men are the Qawam. The guardians but unfortunately not many men follow the true spirit of the deen rather only remember deen when it comes to "4 shaadia" lol
makes sense !
So far the Best MA Podcast. We want part 2 . Relevent questions & practical scenario solutions given by both the guests.
Some kind suggestions for MA Podcast :
•invest in a mobile holder for the host
•include the guest social media handle in the description
Jazaka Allah khair.
My husband is a classic example of a narcissist. He has never even spoke to his children about life in general. We have been married for ten years. He buys them everything but never sits down with them to have a father-son, father-daughter conversation. I agree his parents never spoke to him, that is why he never knew about this kind of bond with kids. But hes 40 years old, its high time he learns to be a father. He can watch youtube videos to learn about healthy relationship with his kids. I am not even talking about my relationship with him here. Because at this point in my life i have given up on fixing him. Its not my job. He hasn’t touched me in a year, he has gfs, he blackmails, he manipulates, he is a criminal too. only reason i allow him in our lives is financial dependency on him. I dont make enough money to raise 3 kids on my own. All your talk about respect and blah blah is for those men who deserve respect. Those were men of prophet Muhammads time. Todays man specially south asian man, is nothing but an evil narcissist 80% of them.
Even in Quran Allah says, give them hidayat and dont be sad or try to fix them if they dont listen. Here you want women to adjust to such evil men, who dont even pray once in their lifetime, who dont even know anything about Islam and women’s rights. Much of your talk is cultural.
As you mentioned he is a narcissist, it is a personality disorder and never change. How u feel now?
Badi dukh ki baat hai app jis thali me kha rahi hai wosi me ched kar rahi hai. App k under ak ℅ bhi saram hai. App paiso k liye reh rahi hai. App ko toh app k ghar wale na rakhe apne ghar me. 10 saal baad maloom pada tujhe ki wo criminal hai aur kiya kiya baqwas kar rahi hai. Kitni negative aurat hai chollo bhar pani me doop mar.
Come off it, you can get on the benefit system and feed your kids. He sounds like an asshole, but what you have to understand it that ALL the problems in the world Come from WOMEN. Thats why more women will be in hell. Had women not prevented four marriages you would have been able to divorce him easily and another married man would be ready, waiting to marry you. If there were four wives you would only need to worry about how you look, what to cook, keeping the house clean, keeping the kids clean, every FOURTH evening. The rest of the days you would live how you want to. Women are so stupid, that the new generation of young women are getting old and ugly waiting for a proposal. If i were you i would have left this man a long time ago, despite money issues. A woman i know did that, she didnt care if she would have money or not. It turns out that her life got much better, she had more money and she raised her kids how she wanted without his interference. Although no doubt she moved hell and high water to make sure that he stayed in their lives otherwise no amount of money can make up for an absent father, kids lose their mind. And she ended up re marrying and she says to people that Allah wanted me to have a better, richer life, thats why he had written divorce for me.
Please monitor your kids amd make sure they don't learn toxic behaviour. Set a good example for them. And try to stand on your feet. May Allah help you come out of abuse. Ameen
Very informative topic. May Almighty put barakah in our lives.
Salam!
الحمدللہ ۔
Asyia Appa Buhat Axhi Explination Deti Hain.
True representation of A Muslim Girl. ماشاءاللہ 😊
say Allahumma barik for someone else.
Sir qaiser said very well
Take it very serious
Aurat jb ghar tornea chahe phir wo nahi bachta
Aesa nhi koi ladki be waja Ghar nhi todna chahti
One of the best podcasts ever. May Allah bless you all!
Ali bhai really you are great man always bring a informatic podcast
Allah hume deen mai istqamt dai Ameen
Aunty Asiya bahut acche se non-baised khayalat paish krti hai.
Ye podcast se logo ki madad hogi InShaAllah.
A big cause of divorce in our society is joint family system
Agree
Pakistan mien divorce. family ki wajah se hi hoti hai.
Agree with you😢
Joint family system nai zaban darazi Biwi ki aur nafarmani khavind se
@@mohdaadil9057Mary experience ka mutabiq jb Ak bewi jb apny Haq or haqoq ka leya bat karty hai tu osay hamri society mai bad ikhkaq or bad zuban kaha jata hai... Or jab wo chup chap sahay tu apna zehni tawazn kho jati hai phir osay Pagal kaha jata hai 😊
Really great episode! Both the speakers brought up great points! Br. Muhammad Ali, I liked how you directed the talk. JazakumALLAHu khair. Salams from Illinois, U.S.
Yaa Allah protect me and my muslim brethren from the curse of zinna in all forms ameen
Sooo happy to see Qaiser Ahmed Raja here,,,,,,❤
ماشاءاللہ very good discussion. Wish there was an English version to this, for those who cannot understand Urdu well. For couples who have arguments / fights should feel happy that they are still together, as they are just making the bottle bigger so the drops Don’t overflow. Just a thought 😊
Learn urdu then
I want mufti tariq masood in devorce MA PODCAST
Please invite asiya aunty frequently unko sunkar sukun milta h.... love from India
Such a treat to listen to Qaisar Ahmad Raja sahib.. amazing
One of the best podcasts ever. Each and every individual had beautiful views. May Allah bless you all!
Dua to Fix all your family issues:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔
Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
Alhumdulilah, great podcast.
May Allah سبحانه و تعالى increase you all and us in ilm and aml.Ameen
When you feel like giving up upon your Dua's
Remember ALLAH's promise when He say:
"I'll provide for you from place you would have never imagined"
(Quran:65:3)
What about who treats wife like a maid (they just st want things to be done) not there in wife happiness, in your sickness or or when she is emotionally hurt or down due to anything
Best guests and best host ….such a beautiful discussion 💯
MashaAllah Zabardast podcast.❤❤❤
Very genuinely presented by both speakers. Jazakallah khairan brother Ali. We needed such talks. I was in need of such talk. Though it covered less of my confusion but generally covered a lot. Very impressive.
Yaa Allah bless my beloved father and have mercy on him and make his grave for him a beautiful garden of jannat ul firdaus ameen
Masha allah..bht behtareen ..ye bht zaroori tha. Specially young couples k liye..bht ache points diye h ap sab ne .jazak allaho khairan kasera. Love from india .
I really like podcast 😊mean MA podcast. It is always different and impressive.full of lesson. Stay happy Ali bhae.Jazak Allah
A MUST SEE FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES
Qaiser bhai is Pearl of IMAAN UNION
Please also do podcast on single parenthood
Ali bhai is blessing... Allah raazi ho insy❤
Very healthy debate
I agreed with this and I am talking about this that we should educate our child’s either daughter or son about there married life under rules of Islam
Behtreen
What a beautiful podcast ❤️
What a beautiful way to contribute to the understanding of Islam. May Allah bless him with success in all his endeavors.
This is a true example of how patience and positivity can make a significant impact. May Allah grant him strength and resilience.
ALLHAMDULLULAH , Allah ap sb s razi ho, ap sb bht bhtreeen ustaad hn hmary, hm bht lucky hn , hmary swalon k jwab itni khubsurti s dety hain k hmary dill skoon m a jaty, Allah ap sbko dunya r akhrat ka skoon dy, jazakAllah khairan kaseerah fidunya wal akhirah Ameen ♥️♥️
Best podcast ever. So much wisdom
Amazing personalities and Amazing podcast😊😊❤
Perfect panel masha Allah everybody has such valuable advice to offer
She is great speaker
Sir Ali please invite sir Sahil Adeem n discuss his portal theories...
Pleaseseee also discuss single parenthood
this guy definitely worth listening!!
Masha Allah
how can we get in touch with the lady speaker in the video for counselling?
Ali bhai lagta hai aapne ramadan main weight gain kar lya😅. Masha'Allah tabarak'Allah Allah apko aur apki team ko ajjar de aur khushiyan de ache ache topic launch karte hain
Mashallah...it's really helpful for our generation...they need really like this teacher who teached them how to handle every situation.....keep it up...
I wish husband and wife give respect to each other. Than every problem is solve-able.
Very knowledgeable discussion as always . May Allah SWT give brother M.Ali more power to conduct these kind of podcast .
Such podcasts are really needed these days spcly when the kids are on the edge of disasters. What am practicing in my family for namaz habbit, with the same circumstances.. tht i said to my kids one namaz one day atleast.m and add another every 2 weeks.. i have 2 kids and this idea is working Alhamdulillah, still am on their back to push them, as kids become a lil lazy etc but i always scold them if needed, i mean if they ignore my order to offer their prayer. And Inshallah i believe one day Allah will succeed me in this way. Its my suggestion to all sch mothers who are struggling with this issue to try thia idea.
جزاکم اللہ خیرا کثیرا کثیرا کثیرا کثیرا کثیرا کثیرا کثیرا
بہت ھی حساس لیکن عام موضوع کا انتخاب
very informative although i am not married but ,this session gave me insight to such a tough matter
SubhanAllah! Absolutely amazing podcast..Mashallah.. JazakAllah khair
Only way to have a happy family is that both husband wife should prioritise each other first. Only then can a family thrive
Please Sir please One Podcast about Prgnant women...kitna jhelti h wo new new marriage hoti h...adjust bhii nahi ho pati...good news aa jati...jiski wjh se jo changes aate usme jo Inlaws ka behaviour hota h...plz
Good news tbhi ati hy jb physically relationship bnta hy husband should understand this k he should give some time to her wife nd also thori understanding create hni chahye comfortable zone creates hna chahiye dono main..
Good news k lye bht time para hy at least 1 year to khud aik dusre ko time dena chahye.... Enjoy krna chahiye
Bht br aisa hta hy k foran se physically relationship bna liya jata hy then ALLAH maaf krain divorces ho jaati hain nd in the end child ko suffer krna prta hy...
Is lye aik dam se family plan ni krni chahiye..
Love marriage mai koi issue ni hy agr waqai mai love marriage hy aur kaafi time se understanding hy couple mai .....to agr understanding hy aur ye b maloom hy k zindagi achy se guzaar skty hain...but arrange marriages main kuch time bd plan krna chahiye
Its my thinking...
both speakers were amazing
It's Time - Marital Education Subject Must Be Taken Seriously To Save Families . 👍
Excellent...💯
Assalamualaikum Ali Bhai Allah apko bht kamyab kare main India se hu or main regular apka bayaan sunti hu or Amal me lane ki koshish kr rahi hu
Assalam alikum Ali bhai it is important topic and i learned a lot from this topic thanks for all
Jazakallah khair. Allah humein samjhne ki, aur apni life mein practically apply karne ki tofeek de.
Tryning sab say phalye saas ki honi chiue or agar saas bipolar ho to us ko betay ki shadi bilkul bhi nahin karne chiye ,,kun k wo talaq karwa dete hay apnye betye ko bool kar..so traning to saas ki hi hone chiye.
16:28 sahil adeem podcast Loading
Thanks for this topic
Just an opinion Sir, Thumb rules don't seem to work in such affairs. It takes virtue and wisdom that can only be developed through worshipping one and only Allah. Times, demands, standards and expectations will keep changing on the timeline. Thank you.
Mashaa Allah..getting alot of from Ali bhai
Bht zaroori ho gya hy ab mufti tariq masood ko bulaen ab
Triple gems are my too much favourite also Sahil Adeem very logical questions & answers ❤❤❤❤
Jazak Allah ❤
Reall . Alhamdulillah to have great scholars n that is a woman.
Really touched to " provide her own corner".
JazakALLAH
@Muhammad Ali Bhai please change the title of the video, it feels bit strange to share it with someone due to a strong title (divorce) to any couple who just have little misunderstandings between them but if we share it with those they might feel awkward and think that they have came on this stage where people are sharing divorce related stuff. Jazakallah ❤
Please youth ko aisy podcast ki zarooret hai...plz carry on
37:12 how beautifully she explained it MashAllah ❤
The last point by Baji is amazing
اللهم بارك
Aunty is very very good and unbiased, I wish for her to come uk or even go to our Mirpur city for dars & we will compensate her well….my outlaws sorry I meant in-laws need a nasiha…… بارك الله فيكم
Good job as usual
Yess plz do podcast with Sahil sir
too good...barakALLAH O FEEK
Coaching before merriage according to Islamic, social and modern values is most important as i see .
I invite everyone to listen to the Holy QURAN.
Helpful podcast ❤
JazakAllah khair
جزاك الله خيرًا كثيرآ
Buht acha topic apny ali Bhai choose kiye..... Jazaak Allah ❤❤
JzakaAllah khair
Sb se ehem marriage m ye he k mian beewi ek dusre k emotions ko smjhen aur khyal rkhen aur express kren apne emotions ko ek dusre se.
Ali Bhai Jazkallah yar sister raised a valid point overseas people should send money separately to their wife's.
Yaa Allah grant me and my fellows good marks in final year exam ameen
Ameen
Extra marital affairs is the actual reason of divorces
Very informative video please keep on making such content
This video clear many confusion
May Allah give you rewards Ameen❤️
The best lecture ever
My 2 favorites in your podcast ❤
Jazakallah.....Amazing podcast, need of the day.
Sir I feel there is a problem with the audio of the video, as sometimes it gets too low, making it really hard to listen, although I am listening on full volume