Don't worry Bm, it's alright! Things like this happen a lot. Some call it seasonal depression, while other times it's just because we're tired. Many times when we're pretty active in our lives, we tend to raise the bar on ourselves. Expecting too much even when the capacity is low. And it's completely normal, we tend to overwhelm ourselves because of this. Which leads us to underperform rather than performing better. Sometimes we just need to cool off, y'know. Take a whole day or two, get your bearings. It's actually important, otherwise the body will be burnt out and more will be lost. If you're feeling down because you're not able to do things even though there's no reason why you can't, take a break. Get some rest and calm down, we all need it! Don't worry about always meeting expectations, even the mightiest of us need some time to rest to keep up the facade. I hope you're doing well, Bm! You got us anyways, here to support you! 💯
failure is a major step in success, eventually you will find the answer and break through this process. i dont have anything super beneficial to say so ill try to keep it short but just know that we learn from mistakes, even if they aren't as obvious. eventually your procrastination will teach you how to push through and just do what you might be avoiding. something i learned from a book i read (thank you dan howell. love that guy.) is the 5 minute rule, if there is something you are procrastinating just do it for 5 minutes, and then you can stop. most times you will continue past 5 minutes and realize its not so bad, or you won't even realize 5 minutes have already passed. its allllll about that starting point. even if you do stop at 5 minutes, hey atleast you got 5 minutes of work done just try to not push yourself to hard or it will just backfire!! hope you get passed this dreaded task and know we support you!!
I feel this so deeply. Thank you for being vulnerable. Often times, when trying to find motivation to push past my fear of failure, I end up comparing myself to people who are much farther ahead. People who have great success behind them, and skills to prove that their fear of failure is only in their head. I don't have that. I don't have any proof that I'm good at anything and when I try to learn I get frustrated with my lack of progress. In the end, I feel more like a failure than before. I think the best way to get past that anxiety is to have the encouragement from others.... I always push people away because I'm afraid of messing up, Afraid of being vulnerable, afraid afraid afraid!! Please don't push away people who support you. Please don't hide yourself from them. You have something SO special and unique to share with the world... because it's yours. And no one else can do you like you can! You will find success and happiness one day, but until then you will feel like a failure.... but only by continuing to learn can we ever free ourselves from our self-doubt! Hold on to that hope! Use the warmth of kind-hearted people fuel your fire! And when that fire burns out, it's time to rest. You find hope again... We will get through this together ❤️ I believe in us
You are not a failure. Look at yourself. You are a RUclips content creator. That's more than 6 billion other people. I can't say that about myself. I think you touched on this before, that playing Minecraft makes you feel alone. I fired up my world a few weeks ago, and I found a new cave. I had to shut it down though because I felt like I couldn't explore alone. i haven't played since. I looked at your other channel, and I appreciate the effort you put into these videos. I tried creating a dash cam video for a drive to the Japanese grocery store this morning. Clipchamp was not in the mood. That doesn't mean I'm a failure, I just have to try again later. I like watching your videos because you play better than I do. I died a lot early game, and then I played okay but died in lava a few times. It sucks, but it happens to everyone who doesn't play Creative Mode. Now having watched your video, it sounds like you are afraid to try things because of how you will be judged by others. Let me tell you about something I learned in my 40s -- People will just find any reason to judge you. They'll just make up a whole bunch of rules for everyone else to follow, but their rules aren't exactly legal. They just do it to feel better about themselves and their own failures. And you know what to say to those people? Nothing. No one can judge you because they are not you. You are not breaking any laws by being you. Just be you and keep playing MC.
Its okay just try please it will work and please don't call yourself a disappointment .Trust me just relax and don't call yourself a disappointment please you need a break and take a vacation.
Another bm break, another cam yap sesh I’m not going to assume I know whats going, but I’ve felt and am feeling something similar. There’s so much you NEED to do, and everyone is watching, and everything is hinging on this, and for some reason you just can’t do anything. You procrastinate, and you torture yourself for not getting anything done. It’s the most crushing, painful feeling, and I am so sorry that you have to feel that way. I hold my self to an unfair standard and I constantly punish myself for every single shortcoming or procrastination. Frankly, I can’t stop doing that; that’s how I’m wired and it feels impossible to stop. What I do know though is that if you kick a horse while it’s down, it’s not going to run faster. Work through your mistakes with yourself, BE PATIENT with yourself, because finding the right answer is more important than punishing a mistake. I promise you there IS a reason you cant get things done. It is so easy to minimize your pain or your struggle, or just straight up ignore it, but it doesn’t go away. For me, it’s because I’m hurting. It took four and a half years to admit that to myself. I lost or threw away basically everything, and it is so hard to get out of bed. I had to feel that and accept that before I could make any real progress, something I’m still working on. It sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of loss and pressure, and you need to let yourself feel that. When it comes to pressure, I havent figured out that one out yet. With my anxiety/paranoia, everyone is an enemy and is judging or is praying on my downfall. It’s a product of stress and other things and these people do care about me and aren’t those things. Knowing that in my head is one thing, but feeling it is another m. Best option so far is to gaslight myself into believing it:) Have some grace with yourself, let yourself feel, and again, know that youre not alone. Good luck and dont give up:) o7
You got this. You are doing very well for starting. Most people don't even reach a 1000 subscribers in there 1st year. You are doing extremely well to be feeling like you failed. You've already reached enough subscribers to be monetized now you just wait for the watch time. Keep it up
Don't be afraid to fail. It teaches you more than sucess does, the more you know theless you fail. You are not a failure, a failure is someone who gives up. And procrastination? Please, 99% of people do it. Take a break. Go back to those friends, laugh smile goof off. You will never be perfect, and you shouldn't want to be. Perfection is the dumbest thing ever. If your perfect and do evetything right all the time, youll feel shitty, and when you eventually do fail, because you will, it will be earth shattering. bm, i may not know you, but i know what your going through. You are pefectly imperfect. Take a break. Breathe. Dont be so hard on yourself and things will go smoother. Dont be perfect. You are an amazing person who is under a lot of stress. It gets better. Trust.
Good job on 1.19K subs I only have like 5 or six or something your going to be a successful person okay I'm kinda lazy but you just got to work through it your going to be very successful
I have never been this emotional, but u got this try to be more positive , try u got this stop being so negative, and u have done something , u played minecraft and talked to us stop being so negative do your best
A scout's motto is do your best, your best ,not others, try to impress yourself. Try. Don't try to follow everybody's expectations, it won't work. Do what u like , and get Finch, it helps with self care . 9:09 👌🥹✌️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Don't worry Bm, it's alright! Things like this happen a lot. Some call it seasonal depression, while other times it's just because we're tired.
Many times when we're pretty active in our lives, we tend to raise the bar on ourselves. Expecting too much even when the capacity is low. And it's completely normal, we tend to overwhelm ourselves because of this. Which leads us to underperform rather than performing better.
Sometimes we just need to cool off, y'know. Take a whole day or two, get your bearings. It's actually important, otherwise the body will be burnt out and more will be lost.
If you're feeling down because you're not able to do things even though there's no reason why you can't, take a break. Get some rest and calm down, we all need it! Don't worry about always meeting expectations, even the mightiest of us need some time to rest to keep up the facade.
I hope you're doing well, Bm! You got us anyways, here to support you! 💯
failure is a major step in success, eventually you will find the answer and break through this process. i dont have anything super beneficial to say so ill try to keep it short but just know that we learn from mistakes, even if they aren't as obvious. eventually your procrastination will teach you how to push through and just do what you might be avoiding.
something i learned from a book i read (thank you dan howell. love that guy.) is the 5 minute rule, if there is something you are procrastinating just do it for 5 minutes, and then you can stop. most times you will continue past 5 minutes and realize its not so bad, or you won't even realize 5 minutes have already passed. its allllll about that starting point. even if you do stop at 5 minutes, hey atleast you got 5 minutes of work done
just try to not push yourself to hard or it will just backfire!! hope you get passed this dreaded task and know we support you!!
I feel this so deeply. Thank you for being vulnerable. Often times, when trying to find motivation to push past my fear of failure, I end up comparing myself to people who are much farther ahead. People who have great success behind them, and skills to prove that their fear of failure is only in their head.
I don't have that. I don't have any proof that I'm good at anything and when I try to learn I get frustrated with my lack of progress.
In the end, I feel more like a failure than before.
I think the best way to get past that anxiety is to have the encouragement from others.... I always push people away because I'm afraid of messing up, Afraid of being vulnerable, afraid afraid afraid!!
Please don't push away people who support you. Please don't hide yourself from them.
You have something SO special and unique to share with the world... because it's yours. And no one else can do you like you can!
You will find success and happiness one day, but until then you will feel like a failure.... but only by continuing to learn can we ever free ourselves from our self-doubt! Hold on to that hope! Use the warmth of kind-hearted people fuel your fire! And when that fire burns out, it's time to rest. You find hope again...
We will get through this together ❤️ I believe in us
It’s ok bm😢 You’re doing amazing. Keep going at your own pace ❤️
You are not a failure.
Look at yourself. You are a RUclips content creator. That's more than 6 billion other people. I can't say that about myself. I think you touched on this before, that playing Minecraft makes you feel alone. I fired up my world a few weeks ago, and I found a new cave. I had to shut it down though because I felt like I couldn't explore alone. i haven't played since.
I looked at your other channel, and I appreciate the effort you put into these videos. I tried creating a dash cam video for a drive to the Japanese grocery store this morning. Clipchamp was not in the mood. That doesn't mean I'm a failure, I just have to try again later.
I like watching your videos because you play better than I do. I died a lot early game, and then I played okay but died in lava a few times. It sucks, but it happens to everyone who doesn't play Creative Mode.
Now having watched your video, it sounds like you are afraid to try things because of how you will be judged by others. Let me tell you about something I learned in my 40s -- People will just find any reason to judge you. They'll just make up a whole bunch of rules for everyone else to follow, but their rules aren't exactly legal. They just do it to feel better about themselves and their own failures. And you know what to say to those people? Nothing. No one can judge you because they are not you. You are not breaking any laws by being you. Just be you and keep playing MC.
Its okay just try please it will work and please don't call yourself a disappointment .Trust me just relax and don't call yourself a disappointment please you need a break and take a vacation.
im sorry to hear this i hope you feel better soon ❤
Same ❤ u
Another bm break, another cam yap sesh
I’m not going to assume I know whats going, but I’ve felt and am feeling something similar. There’s so much you NEED to do, and everyone is watching, and everything is hinging on this, and for some reason you just can’t do anything. You procrastinate, and you torture yourself for not getting anything done. It’s the most crushing, painful feeling, and I am so sorry that you have to feel that way.
I hold my self to an unfair standard and I constantly punish myself for every single shortcoming or procrastination. Frankly, I can’t stop doing that; that’s how I’m wired and it feels impossible to stop. What I do know though is that if you kick a horse while it’s down, it’s not going to run faster. Work through your mistakes with yourself, BE PATIENT with yourself, because finding the right answer is more important than punishing a mistake.
I promise you there IS a reason you cant get things done. It is so easy to minimize your pain or your struggle, or just straight up ignore it, but it doesn’t go away. For me, it’s because I’m hurting. It took four and a half years to admit that to myself. I lost or threw away basically everything, and it is so hard to get out of bed. I had to feel that and accept that before I could make any real progress, something I’m still working on. It sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of loss and pressure, and you need to let yourself feel that.
When it comes to pressure, I havent figured out that one out yet. With my anxiety/paranoia, everyone is an enemy and is judging or is praying on my downfall. It’s a product of stress and other things and these people do care about me and aren’t those things. Knowing that in my head is one thing, but feeling it is another m. Best option so far is to gaslight myself into believing it:)
Have some grace with yourself, let yourself feel, and again, know that youre not alone.
Good luck and dont give up:) o7
We support you and encourage you. Hang in there!
The more you try the better you get and the less you try the worst you get
you got it girl!!! take care 💕
Don’t give up I gave up now I am regretting it because what ever I try to do it won’t revive my chancel, you still have a fan base use it you got this
This happens a lot it’s hard but it’s not impossible and that’s enough for me
This video: Reflects my entire life
You can cry ,what's wrong,and I have never seen your channel, but it's ok you are not a failure ,and you can.
You got this. You are doing very well for starting. Most people don't even reach a 1000 subscribers in there 1st year. You are doing extremely well to be feeling like you failed. You've already reached enough subscribers to be monetized now you just wait for the watch time. Keep it up
Don't be afraid to fail. It teaches you more than sucess does, the more you know theless you fail. You are not a failure, a failure is someone who gives up. And procrastination? Please, 99% of people do it. Take a break. Go back to those friends, laugh smile goof off. You will never be perfect, and you shouldn't want to be. Perfection is the dumbest thing ever. If your perfect and do evetything right all the time, youll feel shitty, and when you eventually do fail, because you will, it will be earth shattering. bm, i may not know you, but i know what your going through. You are pefectly imperfect. Take a break. Breathe. Dont be so hard on yourself and things will go smoother. Dont be perfect. You are an amazing person who is under a lot of stress. It gets better. Trust.
Dear friend, you should stop blaming your self, what you are doing is ok
You don't have a problem . 3:45
Good job on 1.19K subs I only have like 5 or six or something your going to be a successful person okay I'm kinda lazy but you just got to work through it your going to be very successful
Hey your quite successful on this channel you got 200 subscribers in 14 hours your going to be successful.
It’s ok bro it’s happened to me before too
You’re not a failure you have1.19k subs
I have never been this emotional, but u got this try to be more positive , try u got this stop being so negative, and u have done something , u played minecraft and talked to us stop being so negative do your best
A scout's motto is do your best, your best ,not others, try to impress yourself. Try. Don't try to follow everybody's expectations, it won't work. Do what u like , and get Finch, it helps with self care . 9:09 👌🥹✌️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Please get mental help
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Did they die? We're your friends you can tell us. I want to help you.
Wait your family member passed?
Build a house and make a chest so you can put your stuff in the chest. 😊😊😊
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