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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @Teosgame
    @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +3803

    Felt ready to talk a bit about the last couple years and how it's been to go through a divorce on RUclips! This wasn't easy to do but I'm happy about what I've said. Video will stay up for a while and then I'll probably archive it feeling I've had my say :) I ask that you continue showing respect around the topic on both sides. Much love everyone, excited to move on from this!
    I know the audios kinda bugged (render glitch), I couldn't be arsed fixing it

    • @Raham98
      @Raham98 4 месяца назад +56

      We love you Teo

    • @CoCo.-_-
      @CoCo.-_- 4 месяца назад +20

      Haven't watched it all yet, but take care teo, your wellbeing comes first vs the Internet strangers

    • @seanwhittaker110
      @seanwhittaker110 4 месяца назад +8

      Much love and support!

    • @theundertaker2648
      @theundertaker2648 4 месяца назад +7

      You had a podcast with Mr. Briefcase!? Also, have watched you since 2016 and will continue to do so.

    • @LITTLEBRAT775081
      @LITTLEBRAT775081 4 месяца назад +5

      title got me to show up

  • @Tomographic
    @Tomographic 4 месяца назад +3215

    I have so much deep respect for you, Teo. You've always come across as a level headed guy who wears his heart on his sleave and genuinely loves creating content and entertaining an audience. "I did as best as I could" is such a healthy mentality. Glad you're in a good place right now and figuring things out at your own speed. Much love 🧡

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +482

      Ey much love to you buddy this was very nice

  • @AndroidTwenny
    @AndroidTwenny 4 месяца назад +8054

    So sorry to hear about you and Flash, hope things work out

    • @AndroidTwenny
      @AndroidTwenny 4 месяца назад +1118

      on a real note though; hope everything is going well on your end! Being in the public eye can feel like a major chore, things start to melt together in terms of your personal life and what people think they need to know about you. I'm almost 26 now and I've been following you for almost half my life, you and the boys have been one of the few constants that have gotten me through a lot of things, and all I can offer in return is a nice crisp 3 year twitch sub and my genuine support.
      You will always be your own person, regardless of what entitled people online think they "deserve" to know about you or not. I can only imagine the weight of being an online figure brings out some interesting kinds of people, but they can never take away the fact that you are, and will always be, your own person

  • @suckmadeek
    @suckmadeek 4 месяца назад +589

    Tbf i noticed alex disappearing from videos so i did the "logical" thing and started going through every social media form both parties and then i saw what i saw and left it there and never asked again

  • @MerMeii
    @MerMeii 4 месяца назад +297

    My ex showed me your channel, and we spent most of our dinners, nights on the couch, binging your content. We were about 16 at the time, and honestly saw a lot of our own relationship, being similar to yours/alex’s.
    We saw the tweet when it came out, and I was sad, and couldn’t understand it at first.
    But then, a year later, after being together for five years, I could. Because we split too.
    What some people on the internet don’t realise, is sometimes, people just don’t work out, and that’s okay. That’s sometimes how it is, and it doesn’t mean we regret any of it, or that there’s some massive drama - it just doesn’t work sometimes. The courage you had for speaking up about it when it was still fresh, is amazing.
    We obviously weren’t married like the two of you were, but we were still together for a long time - and that shit is crushing when it ends. Getting soppy now, but going through a divorce or separation, with someone you’ve basically made your life with, is an awful experience. And you know what? You did fucking incredible at handling it. I certainly couldn’t have done what you’ve done, in a million years.
    I almost stopped watching your content, not because of you, but because of the memories. and you know what? I’m so glad I didn’t. Because you were one of the only things that got me through.
    Thanks for being amazing, Teo. You’ve made me laugh in some of my darkest days, and I’m sure you’ll continue to do so :)
    P.s beata (I think that’s how it’s spelt) is rad asf

  • @PoachedPenguin
    @PoachedPenguin 4 месяца назад +1010

    I met my ex wife right around the time you met Alex. We got married right before you did, and then we divorced right before you did. I was a mess and it sucked ass, but at no point did I have to deal with people online analysing my relationship. I don't know if I could have. I've had a lot of respect for the way you've handled the last couple of years. From my pov, you nailed it. Much love

  • @tylerash9099
    @tylerash9099 4 месяца назад +1513

    Hey Teo! Thank you for posting this, I have been around for 10+ years and am genuinely glad you are happy. Thank you for including us, we love you!

  • @DosDares
    @DosDares 4 месяца назад +744

    RUclips algorithm is so weird. It decided THIS video, will be your viral video and introduction to new audiences.

  • @Mrdarklink67
    @Mrdarklink67 4 месяца назад +10

    Just a guy thanking another guy he has been watching for +10 years for the joy he brought him. Much love Teo, you are a nice guy :)

  • @Voiy
    @Voiy 4 месяца назад +54

    So much love for you Teo. Being in the public eye and going through something deeply personal has got to be incredibly tough because you can't hide away from it. There's no right or wrong way to handle these things but from the outside you've done an incredible job man. Your approach to content, the "making videos with people I love" is such a special thing and it's why you're so loved by everyone. Happy to see you feeling in a much better place now dude. Keep going at your own pace. Much love

  • @Fbcos221
    @Fbcos221 4 месяца назад +357

    Sometimes you watch these longer introspective videos(for lack of a better word) and you wanna leave an equally long, supportive comment. But honestly I just woke up lmao and the words just aren't coming and I'd just be saying what countless others have already said before, so long story short -- much love.
    Special shout-out to the community during those years for being willing to inform those people who might've missed the tweet. I saw a lot of people asking, and a lot of people answering. Hopefully that helped lessen the load a bit

  • @rynr_
    @rynr_ 4 месяца назад +1738

    I'm feeling a little behind, never knew Teo ever got married. Huh.

  • @MARCUSK298
    @MARCUSK298 4 месяца назад +1430

    It must feel really strange to keep seeing comments about it
    I hope ur all good dude, know ur appreciated, from a random stranger on the interweb

  • @justaplant.
    @justaplant. 4 месяца назад +7

    I've been here since the first TTT video and i guess i kinda grew up with you as a daily or weekly occurrence. I genuinely dont see a difference between those videos that i fell in love with and the videos you make now. Your just having fun with friends or being yourself playing horror games. Its good to hear you say you feel like your in a good place. Going through something like that, especially having it so public online, can tear down communities. But this community has been extraordinary and you have been absolutely wonderful to hear talk about everything. Thank you Teo.

  • @godlynectar7339
    @godlynectar7339 4 месяца назад +9

    The biggest reason I’ve stayed so loyal to this channel is the way you connect with your community and your style of playing with friends and loved ones. I would watch just you play games all day, but I think friends like Flash, Sammy, Yomo, Pata, Floppy, Lukas, Paddy, and others I may have missed really are what make TeosGame really special. In the 8-9 years I’ve been a subscriber, it’s been a unique viewing experience and a pleasure to be a part of.

  • @cadenbird4311
    @cadenbird4311 4 месяца назад +208

    Man having a separate office for gaming/streaming sounds really cool! It helps separate job from home, excited about the new set up teo! Happy to see you are doing well

  • @timo7846
    @timo7846 4 месяца назад +215

    Teo, I usually never comment on videos, but the way you're able to convey your true emotions and thoughts is honestly too incredible not to comment on.
    I've been a subscriber for about 6 years now (I think?) and watching your personal growth has been one of the most continuously elevating experiences I've had so far in my life. Even though I'm aware we've never personally met or even talked for that matter, I feel like you've truly mastered how to be an incredibly loveable and relatable person; something very rare to find on the internet nowadays.
    I hope the disrespectful persons online never take away from the large amount of people here to support and respect you no matter what

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +48

      Appreciate that, thank you!

  • @sir_wheat_thins
    @sir_wheat_thins 4 месяца назад +163

    gonna get buried but as a follower since the early Siege days i'm happy to see you happy man, genuinely

  • @duncanaronson1735
    @duncanaronson1735 4 месяца назад +52

    Hey Teo - much love from a long-time viewer (like, LAGxPeanutPwner old). I hope you take a moment to listen to yourself in this video and recognize how far you must have come. Because from the way you articulated yourself, I could see your efforts to work and think, and probably agonize, through the old hurts to a healthy relationship with yourself and the world. I felt like giving you a big hug. Here's a big virtual one

  • @illuminelf
    @illuminelf 4 месяца назад +5

    I want to touch on the part where you discussed, "I don't regret doing it like that, but I should have done it differently." I believe you did it in a way that was safest for you mentally. You have discussed multiple times in this video how you weren't ready to discuss your divorce at your time. You being in a good place now is what made this video possible. This channel has been like a soft reel of your growth not just career wise but also you as a person. I feel incredibly lucky that, as a fan, you allow us even the smallest glimpse into your life even though you are by no means obligated to do so. You share with us stories about your personal life (like scaring your niece and nephew on halloween), you show us your loved ones (Beata, Flash, Sammy, etc.), and you show us vulnerable sides of you (crying over receiving lovely gifts) and I think many people forget how much of a privilege that is as a fan base.
    Thank you for being you and I hope to continue watching you grow as not just a content creator, but as a person.
    Much love.

  • @KorpNic
    @KorpNic 4 месяца назад +104

    Hey Teo,
    I know you mentioned not liking being overanalyzed, but I just wanted to say how proud I am of you for making this video. It seemed like it took a lot of courage, and I’m really glad you decided to take the leap and just go for it. I’ve been a fan for twelve years now, and seeing you work through these emotions was tough but also really meaningful. I hope everyone involved is doing well, and that this marks the beginning of something even better for you.
    You mentioned not wanting any apologies, so instead, I want to thank you-not just for bringing so much love and happiness into my life, but for teaching me the strength in showing both vulnerability and courage.
    Much love from a long time legend (biggest of fan) ❤

  • @PugViking
    @PugViking 4 месяца назад +113

    You and all your friends have been such a pillar of joy in times of loneliness and depression. I wish you all the very best, Teo. Remember that it’s often the loud minority that get under your skin, and the silent majority that only wish you well.
    Being such a public person like you are comes with a lot of unnecessary crap like gossip and negative people, which I’m sure they’re just struggling to find their place in the world and take it out on other people. To those I say: allow yourself to get some professional help. Mental health is important, and you’re only gonna reinforce bad habits by being mean to others. There is other ways - better ways - to improve your self worth. Take care, my dudes. ❤️

  • @MariusBroddesson
    @MariusBroddesson 4 месяца назад +1213

    I thought he meant he was divorcing RUclips

  • @DozerTM
    @DozerTM 4 месяца назад +115

    You’re strong Teo, and we all love you. Keep going man, ur the best. 💚💚

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +34

      Ah you didn't have to do that, thank you

  • @Ozias_
    @Ozias_ 4 месяца назад +4

    It’s not easy to be open about something as personal as this, a lot of respect to you buddy. And I want to say that it makes a big difference for those of us who’ve been through similar experiences. This video really hit home for me. I know we’ve talked in private a few times, and I was doing well, but I guess I gave in, and my separation sent me down a destructive path. I completely shut out everyone & everything as everyone around me kept reading into my marriage.
    Watching you share this just reminded me about openness and being vulnerable with people you care about is important and has given me a lot of clarity and strength to move forward out of this cycle I'm in.
    I’m glad you are in a good place bud and much love to you and Beata🤍🤍

    • @mistertrick
      @mistertrick 4 месяца назад

      all the love Ozias!!! ❤

  • @mojojoe2225
    @mojojoe2225 4 месяца назад +199

    Nobody is obligated to know what is going on in your personal life, Teo, but you are incredibly generous to share these kinds of things with your audience and it shows how much you truly care about your community. Regardless, you'll continue to make people feel included and you'll make them feel happy. You're a great person, man!! Keep up the beautiful work

  • @DJgriff-mi4kt
    @DJgriff-mi4kt 4 месяца назад +171

    Hey hope you end up doing ok never feel pressured to talk about something your not ready to talk about thanks for the content you got me through some rough time keep up the good work

  • @nyx3027
    @nyx3027 4 месяца назад +40

    Hey Teo. I’m truly glad to hear you’re in a really good place mentally right now. You been my favorite content creator for what 10 or so years now and I just wanted to thank you for getting me through so many rough years. I’m in a much happier place now myself as well and my wife and I now watch your videos together every time.
    We’re excited for whatever content you decide to make, but if I had to request it would be more content like the Aquarium making video.
    Anyways much love Teo.
    Ps I like the new haircut unlike the guy in Narnia.

  • @shaniae.8121
    @shaniae.8121 4 месяца назад +6

    "My channel, on RUclips, is about videos (mainly games) with people I love."
    And that's one of the reason I love being here. You show the fun and joy of relationships (of all kinds) through the fun and joy of games.
    It's a very deep feeling that affects me pretty well by making me feel like I'm a part of this love and joy, which doesn't help with the parasocial aspect. Double-edged sword.
    Thanks for putting this up, Teo. Genuinely. As one of the ones that was curious and confused, but trying to be respectful to your life and privacy - it is really appreciated as a viewer.

  • @PatchesAndPieces
    @PatchesAndPieces 4 месяца назад +1451

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +197

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @itsdylanjenkins
    @itsdylanjenkins 4 месяца назад +75

    We're proud of you, Teo. Thank you for keeping your head up and never faltering. What you see as missteps the rest of us see as working hard to entertain us while you yourself are living through hell. We don't take that lightly. Your ability to stay positive no matter the circumstance is a trait I am oh so envious of.

  • @chaknulu2953
    @chaknulu2953 4 месяца назад +57

    Been watching you since 2017 teo. You deserve privacy. Everyone does. I’m glad that you opened up to us and I wish you the best! Looking forward to the next video

  • @Evanz111
    @Evanz111 4 месяца назад +4

    “I know a lot of the internet is like that, but that’s not what I’m about” - massively respect how sincere you’ve always been with your audience. Crazy to think I’ve been watching you for nearly 16 years, and you’re one of the only creators I know who hasn’t got involved in some huge drama or gone all unhinged. I really appreciate that.
    Looking forward to the skydiving vlog, that sounds awesome! Hang in there Teo, wishing you and your loved ones all the best ✨

  • @Seven-ol5ed
    @Seven-ol5ed 4 месяца назад +751

    Keep on keeping on

    • @Marcynetik
      @Marcynetik 4 месяца назад +37

      Death Stranding Enjoyer????

  • @juanvillalpando5387
    @juanvillalpando5387 4 месяца назад +10

    Ive been subbed for over 6 years man, this is one of the few times you have opened up about you’re serious private life and im glad your finally able to reach out to you’re viewer’s and clear everything both for you’re self and the channel.
    Thank you for taking me through my childhood 👍

  • @Phreezyy
    @Phreezyy 4 месяца назад +65

    from 11:58 to 12:07 i was crying laughing.
    "does that pause? huUUuUUuuUUuH"

  • @mylife1221
    @mylife1221 4 месяца назад +5

    I've watched you sporadically ever since the MW2 trolling days, and I really appreciate how personal you make your online presence. It's not easy and it's setting yourself up for possible privacy issues but I think you handle it so well. It really helps me connect to you. Thanks for everything you do!

  • @primerebel
    @primerebel 4 месяца назад +1

    Something I will always love about you and your channel is how genuine you are. So when it's you playing with friends and people you love its amazing to watch and see people having fun! On the downside when something bad happens it does suck as a viewer to see you in pain or to see someone we liked seeing not be around as much. But that's just life. Gotta deal with the bad times, and appreciate the good times. Glad to hear your doing well and looking forward to seeing your skydiving video! Much love 💜

  • @jakeking974
    @jakeking974 4 месяца назад +890

    See, I only went as far as the first time I saw Beata, it clicked in my head that I hadn't seen her in videos for a while, so I left a comment asking if anyone knew what happened? I never got an answer even from the rest of the community, so I just assumed it wasn't publicly known and that's okay, so I never mentioned it again. I wish the rest of the confused idiots like me on here would do the same and just let creators be people too. Just because your job is to be on camera doesn't mean your life needs to be on camera, you're not a vain reality TV star, you're SUPPOSED to have a life outside this community because neither side here needs to be using parasocial relationships as a crutch.

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +268

      Very insightful comment, much love bud

  • @Chris_rose666
    @Chris_rose666 4 месяца назад +9

    being a public personality and having a relationship end is very challenging. there will always be people asking about them, asking about why it ended and some people are even going to be mad or rude about it. i cant even begin to imagine how tough that must be or low key frustrating getting those messages or comments could be. hopefully all is well and this video helps clear the air and minimize comments like that. keep up the great work always love watching the content

  • @ian_eyaaan20
    @ian_eyaaan20 4 месяца назад +38

    6:45 “my community is very nice…” some might say one’s overall community is a reflection of the youtuber, and you’re definitely someone that people love & wanna stick around for :) love to my favourite person on the internet❤

  • @torrix_4595
    @torrix_4595 4 месяца назад

    Hi Teo, I've been a fan of your content all the way back from the LagX days!
    Your videos has genuinely had an incredibly positive affection on me growing up alongside your content. Coming home from bad days in school and being able to watch your content that just literally never fail to make me laugh and have a good time. I am 100% serious when I say that I literally don't think I've been able to watch a video of yours without laughing (apart from the occational serious video perhaps, but even then you usually tend to find a way).
    Throughout all your years on youtube, you have consistently stuck to being respectful, positive, humble and stayed out of drama. Which I think has helped create a relatively positive and respectful community, and in turn given you the fruits of your labor. Of course there are always some bad apples, and the internet is the internet sadly, but your career on RUclips has definitely been a great one and will continue to be great for as long as you do it.
    If you end up coming across my comment, I hope you have a great rest of your day! Much love from Norway

  • @classyhoboclips7805
    @classyhoboclips7805 4 месяца назад +2

    teo ive been watching you since 2014, and i just want to say your non fakeness on youtube is what keeps me around its just a dude plying games online with a crew no drama and its just so pure. thanks for this video as like you said this was probably a better format and video to explain this situation great video and very well done!

  • @calebchandler7503
    @calebchandler7503 4 месяца назад +12

    Hey Teo, I just want to say that I respect that you made this video and thank you for that. I have been watching you since siege days and I still have found you the best RUclipsr/streamer I’ve watched. You have helped me through a lot, so I’m sorry for what you’ve been going through, and I’m glad that you’re in a good place now. Just know there are people that are thankful for you and will always stick with you no matter what. Thanks man!

  • @graindorr6-hots750
    @graindorr6-hots750 4 месяца назад +18

    Been with you for like 9 years now... Im glad to see you happy and stuff, that things went good for you. When i was 13 and my parents divorced i was smiling at your r6 videos, that keep me up.
    I hope me as a part of community, and your community itself will make you smile also :)
    Keep on good work Teo ❤ You make people smile

  • @Gobeux
    @Gobeux 4 месяца назад +7

    I cant imagine how difficult it was to try to tell your audience about the split. You are completely valid for the way you approached it and i hope the majority of your fans continue to show maturity and respect. Much love Teo ❤

  • @alphalfa2092
    @alphalfa2092 4 месяца назад

    This feels like a good video to express my appreciation for you and your content. I’ve watched your videos consistently for 10 years now and have always tried to share your channel with my friends to hopefully set a standard of friendship I want in my life. You and your group are all such amazing people and for that reason alone your channel has always been at the top of my list. Thank you for it all and for sharing this with us! Perfect example of who you are as a person and what your channel represents. Much love Teo!

  • @zombycow
    @zombycow 4 месяца назад

    Seeing something like this has really resonated with me. I've been going through a rough time in the aftermath of a breakup and I feel like hearing more people speak out about situations like this makes me feel less alone. Especially in saying that you shouldn't beat yourself up because you did the best that you could at the time felt nice hearing it come from a real person instead of some dumb Facebook post that has like 20k bots commenting on it. I think we'll all make it through this kind of stuff together. RUclips channels like this harbor the kind of human growth that this platform has always needed. We love you, Teo. Keep being the real you, man.

  • @StefKa02
    @StefKa02 4 месяца назад +4

    Been around for so many years, youve really shaped who I am Teo in absolutely positive ways. I'm very happy you're at a better place now and even though you probably won't see this i want to thank you for the many many years of laughter and smiles youve put on my face.
    Playing games with people you love has truly been why your channel is special and you've taught me it's part of what makes life worth it
    You rock and you have nothing to feel bad about in regards to how you handled this whole thing ❤

  • @cleverpotato814
    @cleverpotato814 4 месяца назад +34

    We love you and Beata! So glad you're still doing this buddy. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @RanThaMan10
    @RanThaMan10 4 месяца назад +44

    good luck bro i ain’t been watchin recently but used to watch u play siege a ton u we’re nice and funny i hope things go better sir ❤❤❤

  • @martefala
    @martefala 4 месяца назад

    As someone who filters in and out of the chanel but has been here for a WHILE im just happy to see you grow and happy to see you work on yourself. I always maintained the mentality that all of this is secondary and that you (well, surviving lol) having fun and going on with your life comes first.
    Also thank you to my brother Pedro for introducing me the gang years ago lol, i dont know if he knows i still watch it but its because of one of my most cherished people online that i watch you, so there's that. Happy to see you growing my man.

  • @TylerLieland
    @TylerLieland 4 месяца назад

    Hey teo! I’ve been watching your channel for about 11 years now, and I jsut wanted to say I’ve always loved your content and how you attempt to balance being open and earnest with your viewers and what information you keep closed in. Through all your different videos of the hardships you’re faced it’s always lovely to see your determination and the adversity you bring to the situation. Love the videos and I hope we can all continue to support you through you feeling out the direction you want to go. You have my support!

  • @sirfancy3876
    @sirfancy3876 4 месяца назад +23

    Goodness, i haven't seen one of your videos in a long while and this is the first thing that's come into my feed in a long time. This is definitely news to me, but I'm at least glad you seem to be doing okay. You're one of my favorite content creators even if I don't view often, and I hope things get better for you

  • @Rupen1708
    @Rupen1708 4 месяца назад +349

    i mean its life but all i wanna know is when are you and flash gonna get married

  • @johnquituizacavilla2941
    @johnquituizacavilla2941 4 месяца назад +5

    Hi Teo glad to see u are doing better, I’ve been watching since ur first siege videos, one of the few youtubers that just seem so genuine TY, hope things keeps getting better, much love man

  • @samanthatimpany8326
    @samanthatimpany8326 3 месяца назад

    I haven't been a large part of your channel since your announcement on twitter two years ago even though I used to be a presence and would watch every video and then also cheer when you reposted on more teo. I am so incredibly moved by this video and how see through you made your feelings! It's an amazing thing what you've done with this and I will do everything to make sure I am more of a presence on your channel as I was before. You are a master of words and emotions Teo! Thank you for being you!

  • @jaxgaming8654
    @jaxgaming8654 4 месяца назад

    Hi Teo, I first just wanted to start off by saying what an amazing job you did with the way you went about telling everyone. Going through breakups in any way shape or form is a very personally and hard topic for anyone to talk about. It is up for the individual in the situation to choose how they decide to go through it and how they can make it work to mention it to their community, whether 1.42 Million, or even just a handful of people. Just like you said, there should be no regrets in how you told people and I am sure others would agree. Anyway, I just love seeing how happy you are now and how much you have changed and matured over the years of me watching you. You have helped me through so many hard times, and it is about time I showed you how much I care you and your wellbeing, as you clearly care for all of ours. Anyway, cheers man and I hope that this all helped your process become a little bit easier. Much love buddy:)

  • @alexcutie49
    @alexcutie49 4 месяца назад +4

    2:23 oh… Teo… 🥺
    You went through your divorce exactly the same time I did… distracting yourself was the right thing to do. I distracted myself with your videos 🤘🏾
    I’m proud of you. You made it. You are still here. And trust me, you are worthy of love💜
    Keep doing you. You are absolutely wonderful.

  • @ralvarezjr92
    @ralvarezjr92 4 месяца назад +6

    It takes a lot to open up about this. Im happy you find comfort in being able to talk about it. We love you

  • @pigman3609
    @pigman3609 4 месяца назад +129

    i respect your private life teo, buuuuut what happened to the beautiful fish tank

  • @Sergeant-Stutters
    @Sergeant-Stutters 4 месяца назад

    There are a handful of things/people that have inspired me forward throughout my life, and you have been one of them. You always felt so genuine, like you wear your heart upon your sleeve - something I myself take pride in doing. In all honesty, I've not watched much of your content over the last couple of years, and I think it's because I was feeling the disconnect you yourself spoke of during this video. I could feel the anxiety in you, and the videos shifted more from "haha funny content" to "damn I hope he's okay".
    Being here now, two years down the line, this video popped up in my feed and I knew right away upon watching it that the connection was breathing again. Perhaps it's not the same as it once was - but it never will be. You're a new man, this is a new world. But that core that I've watched for all these years, that heart that you've always seemed to display upon your shoulder? I can see it again. I can see *you* again.
    I look forward to whatever you've got cooking up in the future, man. Continue to take care of yourself, continue to wear that beautiful heart upon your sleeve, and continue to make the best out of this life we've all been given.
    Wishing you the best my dude.

  • @thypuddio2965
    @thypuddio2965 4 месяца назад

    I'm happy you are in a good place now and are figuring things out! You have a wonderful community, of which most people are usually really accepting and just so lovely and I'm happy I've been part of it for many years now :3 Keep doing what you love and how you want to do it, because you are one of the few youtubers/streamers where I feel like I'm actually watching a genuine person who's just having fun with friends, the friends either being your literal friends or the entire community

  • @robfullman2326
    @robfullman2326 4 месяца назад +4

    Such an emotionally mature and genuine guy, that’s why you’ve had success man. It frustrates me that you’ve not had larger success, and reached a wider audience. That being said, this is such a great and close-knit community and that is due to you and who you are. I think there’s greater value in that than subscriber numbers. Be proud of who you are and the people you have brought together.

  • @meg_1297
    @meg_1297 4 месяца назад +212

    I had such a outer body experience when watching this video, you know that feeling when you are looking at someone you know and then for a second it feels like you are seeing them for the first time and you are kinda like woa. Like I watch teo because I love his videos they are funny and sweet and literally make me cry laughing but somewhere along the lines I somehow knew something had happened at the xmas stream, then this year in a stream teo was talking about anxiety and I mentioned I had gotten through my therapy and he and chat congratulation me and I felt so proud of myself?? Like... when did that happen? When do you start walking that para-social line, is there only bad in it or can it sometimes be good? Is being para-social a two way street? As a viewer is it more unhealthy for you to be so invested in someone who if not for the internet you wouldn't have known or is it more unhealthy for the streamer? CAN you consume a content creator in a healthy way???
    I feel like I need to take a edible and then lie in bed for a hour watching those baby sensory videos. Much love teo

    • @Teosgame
      @Teosgame  4 месяца назад +151

      There are actually studies I've read about that parasocial relationships online can have a positive effect on you. But the balance is indeed a hard one to keep in check. Much love to you, enjoy the edible

  • @Nancy2551-g6i
    @Nancy2551-g6i 4 месяца назад +11

    Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

  • @GoblinICON
    @GoblinICON 4 месяца назад

    Love your channel so much, Teo, I've been following for probably 6 or 7 years. You are my #1 favorite channel and I'm not much of a commenter, or a stream viewer, but I watch every upload. You have been just as enjoyable to watch lately as you ever have been, and your friend group is what makes the channel really shine. I love what you and your friends do together, and I love how much you all care about each other. Enjoy your personal life, no matter how much you decide to share! Thanks for always being so fun to watch.

  • @BodenBanditen
    @BodenBanditen 4 месяца назад

    Teo you are a wonderful human, I have watched you since I was a child, sometimes off and on but always there, and as I have grown so have you. It's wonderful to see how far you've come, as have I. You have always been humble and I strive to be as humble and kind as you. You have always been my comfort youtuber through the years.
    Currently as I am writing this and reflecting on the years my eyes have started to tear up. Seeing you still the same humble and kind person that I first watched all those years ago and reflecting on what I have been doing and things that have happened in my life I get a feeling of calm and stillness. The calm of watching the sunrise or sunset after a long day or night and feeling like everything will be ok and everything will work out sooner or later. The stillness I got when I stod outside my work after the nightshift feeling the breeze of the autumn wind on my exhausted body. I felt more than anything, Alive.
    I dont know what this has to do with you, but I feel honored to hear you speak your heart so then I will speak mine.
    Thank you for the all the years Teo and to many more!
    The Northern Swede

  • @jundramao5561
    @jundramao5561 4 месяца назад +12

    Loved the video, the context the story and the open arms and open conversation I’ve always loved about your channel and community. Very welcoming and open group here and it’s all because if you, love it

  • @incendiary6243
    @incendiary6243 4 месяца назад +46

    Much love Teo! Your relationship(s) arent anyone's business but your own, so I dont think you should feel bad or any guilt for waiting this long!

  • @VCAOx
    @VCAOx 4 месяца назад +4

    haven’t watched you for awhile so this video was very helpful im glad to hear your doing better and hope the best for you future Teo !

  • @seamusgeorge7908
    @seamusgeorge7908 4 месяца назад

    Man Teo, you are one of the best RUclipsr's I have ever seen. You have a fantastic community here to support you every step of the way. You are a genuine good person and whatever you plan to do we have your back man. I have been watching for 4+ years at this point, and I am really proud of how far you have come. Keep up the great work brother, and I can't wait to see what you have in store for the future. Much love!!!

  • @yrat2cool
    @yrat2cool 4 месяца назад

    Its good to hear that you're doing well my man. High emotions with high stress and anxiety is never good to deal with, let alone at the same time.
    I thank God that you have found some calm, as i know the trouble of being overwhelmed. Im praying for you, brother, as i have been watching your videos since before highschool. You have had an impact on my life and i pray for nothing but the best for you and everyone.
    Thank you for being you, and thank you for all the laughs and encouragement along the way! God bless, and stay safe my man!

  • @BobsiDevlog
    @BobsiDevlog 4 месяца назад +19

    Thanks for the update. Been around for 10 years, and I remember balling my eyes out to your video about going full time content creator and that being a big step. They grow up so quick.

  • @dynamicdeadeye8158
    @dynamicdeadeye8158 4 месяца назад +6

    We will always love and support you teo. Thanks for being strong enough to open up to us about this, I could tell it wasn’t easy.

  • @Jay-xq6rz
    @Jay-xq6rz 4 месяца назад +14

    I was one of the people who wasn’t up to date, felt bad in a stream when I mentioned something. It was much earlier though. Happy you’re growing

  • @chisosa7462
    @chisosa7462 3 месяца назад

    Good to just see you happy man, you carried me through hs and my college career for about 6 years. Missed the this in the last 2 years as I’ve only seen some vids here but always have loved your content, which was always genuinely a happy and fun vibe so thank you again!

  • @CloudyDeveloper
    @CloudyDeveloper 4 месяца назад

    I don't know how long I've been watching but I have been a casual watcher for a couple of years now, definitely watched throughout my years in college. This may sound a bit weird but honestly, I was going through a tough time mentally as I didn't know who I was, had no confidence, and was anxious and pessimistic about EVERYTHING. The joys of becoming an emotionally mature adult lol. Seeing you go through something that I was so afraid of myself and seeing you bounce back and be as happy as you are now (at least from what we see) actually really helped me in a way. It kind of showed me that when these things happen, it's okay. It's what builds character and life experience, these events aren't what define us and happiness isn't gone forever, it will come back as long as we don't let these events define us and keep on going.
    Anyways, thanks for being a part of my own healing/growing process and having a positive impact on my life, "random" stranger. Seeing the dynamic you have with your friends has always put a smile on my face. I hope you continue doing what you do for a long time.

  • @OwlLover45678
    @OwlLover45678 4 месяца назад +9

    The maturity you've displayed is such a remarkable and the most role model act of you to do. Whether I want to go to your streams and vids to laugh, experience and learn, this is the best community to do it. I hope you never look at your views and belittle it because the people who are active in this community are the most genuine people I've met (well, never met technically but you get the point). I speak for myself and many others when i say Thank you for giving us the Teo the world deserves to see. ♥️

  • @ian_eyaaan20
    @ian_eyaaan20 4 месяца назад +13

    14:46 i did not expect that beata clip 😂😂😂

  • @dantethetricksterstyle
    @dantethetricksterstyle 4 месяца назад

    You are a good man, we dont need to know everything about your personal life simply out of respect but appreciate you for being you and opening up to us, it hurts me to know you had to deal with people prying you and the simple stupid human curiosity of everyone, but you have been making people smile for years and been alot of peoples hopes over these years and we have always appreciated you mate. Anxiety is painful and at points, you even dehumanise yourself but you are and have been a great human. Doesn't matter what you do in your own time or how you think of yourself, you are great man with a matching heart, and i truly have been wishing the best for you and cheering you on over this long journey as im sure alot of others have been aswell, just know you have a whole community that loves you and truely appreciates the time, efforts and thoughts put into your work and spending time with your online family, we got your back to the very end so keep pushing on and we will follow along with you brother 🫡

  • @florianmuller9534
    @florianmuller9534 4 месяца назад +3

    I was going to write some big paragraph, but I couldnt find the right words for it. Your Content entertained me in some really shitty times. You seem like a good person and I'm glad you are doing better and finding ways to go forward.

  • @joshgoble3231
    @joshgoble3231 4 месяца назад

    Love you bro, been an inspiration to me for as long as I can remember. Got me through high school, university, and now full time work for several years. So much respect for your genuine and vulnerable approach, I wish you nothing but the best and I will continue to watch and support until the day you decide to stop. Bless you Teo

  • @cradox-354
    @cradox-354 4 месяца назад

    A part of what makes me love watching your videos is how human and down to earth you are teo, being able to hear you open up about these things brings me closer to this channel everytime and I feel like I speak for the whole community when I say that we appreciate the person you are and being able to relate to u on a personal level is so refreshing in a time where RUclips has become a platform of pumping out mindless clickbaity content. You will always have my support teo thank you for constantly being genuine. ❤

  • @krypticpanda6670
    @krypticpanda6670 4 месяца назад +93

    Proud of you Teo, keep pushing

  • @el-magnifico3485
    @el-magnifico3485 3 месяца назад +3

    Dam i havent watch you in a year and so much has change im glad to hear ur in a better place ❤

  • @olekan1351
    @olekan1351 4 месяца назад +15

    As long as you’re happy, we’re happy. Much love brother! ❤

  • @liquidspear6036
    @liquidspear6036 3 месяца назад +1

    I can't say how much I appreciate this video and you opening up to your community, but it really meant something, I think to all of us. It's another nod to your humanity, which is something rarely found nowadays. I've been inspired by you to create my own RUclips videos almost a decade ago from you, and although it was just a hobby, I cannot express enough how much joy I got from those 40 views, and how much of an influence you were! Stay true to yourself Teo, we love you, greatness awaits! - Gerrit

  • @hfmadness6
    @hfmadness6 4 месяца назад

    I'm happy to hear that you're healing and moving forward with a smile on your face and optimism in your heart. I remember a video with Beata where you were bright and happy and laughing from your chest, which was super wholesome and nice to see. You've long been my favorite YTer, helped me see joy and humor and happiness in darker times, and consistently been a wholesome and wonderful person the entire time. I look forward to your own future, the future of the channel, and more funny videos that make me cry laughing.
    You're the original Legend.

  • @bradyhurd5395
    @bradyhurd5395 4 месяца назад +4

    teo literally looks the best he ever has

  • @lukaswest9246
    @lukaswest9246 4 месяца назад +53

    Hey Teo, love the content and I have been watching for almost 8 years. I always was wondering what happened but it didn't feel right to ask. Thanks for talking about it.

  • @harrymorgan5258
    @harrymorgan5258 4 месяца назад +37

    Been waiting for this a while, congrats for taking the step. Much love!

  • @jayv7261
    @jayv7261 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing Teo. I’ve always loved your content since I found you in 2016. What always was my favorite thing about you as a content creator was that you seemed way more personal and involved with your subscribers and it felt way more close than just a creator and their subscribers. Thank you for all your work into your videos before and after your divorce. Keep your head up man. Love ya ✌🏻

  • @scolyo
    @scolyo 4 месяца назад

    Videos like this give me the chills in the best way. seeing someone ive watched for years on end finally just talk about himself and how hes feeling. The raw emotion i see from Teo sometimes makes me feel like hes authentic which is something i find extremely lacking in a lot of my life. Thank you for being you and i hope you find your new path and vision in due time. Much love my man ❤

  • @nldiego9660
    @nldiego9660 4 месяца назад +10

    Hey Teo I usually are not the commenting type. But I love your videos for the past years. This videos show you have so much respect to yourself and us as an audience. You did the best you could in puplic and private life and you dont have to feel sorry for how you have acted when not in a good place. You have handeled this as a person who has been trough alot and thats for us to understand. There is just no perfect way to handle this for anyone. Much love i wish you the best -Loyal viewer

  • @HodarWolfsbane
    @HodarWolfsbane 4 месяца назад +6

    The title made me think my safe space was leaving RUclips😂, much love boss man ♥️

  • @TreeEcho
    @TreeEcho 4 месяца назад +7

    There are always going to be things which are very hard to think and talk about. I’m proud of you Teo! Retail comment is so true btw

  • @Future7298
    @Future7298 4 месяца назад

    Subbed I believe almost 6 - 7 years ago, and it’s sad to see things didn’t work out and that you’ve been going through this for so long. While I may not watch your content as often, you did help a lot with keeping me entertained during high school, and I can’t thank you enough for that. I wish you the best Teo ❤

  • @93Rosalind
    @93Rosalind 4 месяца назад

    Hey Teo, as someone who has just recently through a really messy separation, where I have been dragged online and in person because of it, I so appreciate your down to earth, respectful approach to speaking about your divorce, and your introduction to Beata to the channel. When it came out that you and Alex had divorced, my ex would speak so horribly about her, and honestly it was such a wake up call for how disrespectful he was and would be towards me. Change happens, whether we want it to or not sometimes, and if we have the option we should always do things for our wellbeing and happiness, even if they are difficult. Regardless of whatever happened or didn’t happen, it’s absolutely none of our business, and I’m glad to continue supporting you both in your online content. And as an over analyser myself I appreciate how you said that we should not be hard on ourselves for how we do things in the moment, we will never be perfect, it’s about reflecting and trying to do better in future that means the most. Much love to you and Beata, this must have been such a hard time for you as a couple as well, with online speculation and unwanted opinions being thrown your way. I hope that this video reduces (the internet never really stops unfortunately) the amount of unnecessary comments and opinions. I’m glad you felt supported enough in this awesome community to share your feelings, I hope it’s a bit of a weight off of your back 💜

  • @splitcoin123
    @splitcoin123 4 месяца назад +33

    me and my ex of ten years where goin thought it at the same time as you. We separated literal the same as you ( 90s kids timing) ... But I found someone else to spend my since then and been very happy and it sucks when someone brings up the past but it made us who we are today bro.. love ya from cali