I am struggling to get married..no one is near me who is practicing Muslim...they don't even know about our prophets and quran.. I am trying to adopt single life❤️. May Allah bless us to serve humanity
Quran 24:33 - “And let those who cannot find a match keep chaste till Allah give them independence by His grace.” I think it also related to those who have no means to marry to abstract themselves from unlawful intercourse. No everyone wants to marry and that’s fine. I understand it is recommended but let people choose. Especially women. Many don’t want to marry ever or not at this current time. But r pressured due to society and family. May allah grant us a deeper understanding and guidance inshallah
Im a young man living in America. My concern right now is whether or not to marry from my community (mainly non muslims). My mom offers to find someone for me in Africa but I don't think I can marry someone I haven't met and since Marriage is a life long commitment I really don't wana hurt them later on. Im stuck but Allah is the best of planners. Im sure He'll find a way out for me and all my brothers and sisters in the same situation.
For sure is Allaah the best Planer but you choose which path and that path leads you to certain plan. If you are acting eightfully than you have the better path to better plan but if you areabusive then that paths leada you to another plan.
You are delusional. Of course you need to know a person well before you get married to them. That's a fact: couples who don't know each other before marriage regret their decisions their whole life.
I am also a single woman 50 Y old. I m very torchered by society for my status. You all know METALS are SOLID. MERCURY is one n only liquid metal. Scietist never try it for making SOLID. They found a unique use of Mercury in Thermometer. Lord of universe always knows your deeds, your status. You are also aware about your duty in society. Allah SWT become WEDDING is SUNNAH not FARDH. I always respect SUNNNAH BY HEART. But if I feel that I am not want to marry whats problem to society??? In India Society and Priests create a problem mentally and economically for SINGLE WOMAN. Very tough life in INDIA for Single Woman.
after 2 marriages I am OK to go for the third time don't stay alone it's hard and not healthy in the long term, pray for Allah to find the wright one inshalah even after 100 failed marriages put trust in Allah, also we men we don't need to take our wives for granted and women please don't drag your husbands to material life, share the same goal of vision which is serving Allah and his path, don't attempt to impress your FAMILY, CULTURE, COMMUNITY, EGO and inshallah you will find the knight or the queen you asked for, peace ...
I am a 32 years old Turkish woman living in France and single since forever and never get any proposals. At 1st when I was younger my family had always fear me about men, that I have to be far from them and never approach men cause it is haram, I was student at this time. But now they force me to marry and meet someone in order to marry.. the problem is that they put me those barriers before and now they are pushing me to marry...By the way now all the men in my surroundings are married and I dont know any single muslim man. No one is helping me to marry a good muslim man even my family doesnt help to meet someone🤦♀
Same situation as yours, turned thirty this Feb, extremely depressed cz lonliness is very difficult to cope with, I think I would die soon, struggling with lonliness since twelve years. Never married or never been physical with anyone. How do u cope with loneliness? 😢
I am 68 years and never been married. Alhamdulillah I had very supportive upbringing and supportive family (brothers and sister). I had graduate education and good career as univ lecturer. I retired since 2021. To overcome loneliness, I have a set of friends that accompany me sometimes just for chatting or traveling around or out of the town. I also still work partime as online tutor in chemistry I rely on Allah SWT through the Shalat and reading the Qur'an. You are still young, under the 35 y o. You still have time. Ask you relatives, people in the near Masjid to help you. Meanwhile, make yourself beautiful by taking care of your physical and psychological self. Ask the help of Allah SWT. In Syaa Allah you get what you want.
i am from Indonesia 🇮🇩. I really want to get married, but I have a hard time getting women..because I'm poor. hopefully here I find a woman, who can live together..up to jannah. aamiin yaa robbal aalamiin.. laa haula walaa quwwata ila billahil aliyyil adziin..
I searched "aromanticism in Islam" because I'm an aromantic Muslim and I was trying to find content discussing this combination of identities. I came across this video and even though the topic wasn't necessarily about aromanticism, some of the information delivered resonated with me and got me thinking. For example, at 01:21: " Is it [marriage] really a source of fulfilment or not?... Can I find fulfilment even outside of that or until I find that?" This really put things into perspective for me because I always thought to be committed to someone, you'd have to be happy with yourself in order to be able to fulfil that person. I mean, how would you be able to make someone else happy when you're not happy with yourself? It turns out this can be something you can work on together.
Nobody should be pressurized to get married. Male and female alike. The societal pressure to get married is exactly the reason why families have problems
I think this is a very relevant topic the show has touched on. However, I’m not sure whether one can find the fulfilment a marriage provides via other sources. The intimacy provided in a functioning marriage cannot be replicated in other relationships, as it is very unique to marriage. Therefore, I believe finding ‘fulfilment’ through friendships etc. is a false equivalency. They provide other types of social fulfilment and they may overlap some of the qualities marriages provide but will never completely fill the void. (Just my opinion)
No substitute for marriage? And what's your logical proof? (Hint: there isn't one). Thousands of couples never get married, or marry only after living with each other for years in a relationship. That's fact. Your statement is, on the other hand, cr*p.
Farhan Ahmed from an Islamic perspective there is no substitute to marriage... this is an Islamic based channel so maybe your opinions are relevant else where.
I really hate this behaviour of married people they forced their life and standard and wants and belief to me, they always try to tell me that you're unhappy if you don't get married, I mean I know my need and wants as long as I'm away from haram stuff I'm happy, I'm not involved in any haram relationship, nor I'm gonna be in it in shaa Allah, I hope they stop forcing their ideology based on society standard and their experiences to other's life, c'mon grow up, I see my parents from my childhood they are never been happy of their married life and many others living in zombie mood, Nor I'm forcing anyone to not get married, everybody matured enough to figure out what they want
Firstly I want you to thank for considering the single people and revealing them in your concerns.Secondly , I try to live single, which I believe this may be my test chosen by Allah (I am not sure He Almighty knows the best),and it is really hard to be single in the society generally the married couple are thought to have hardships but honestly it is not..I want to state some of my difficulties that only Allah understands and knows..Any person wants to be loved,cared, thought both emotionally and physically..and that is definitely why Allah suggests us to marry the right person( He definitely knows our needs and doesn't want us to be lonely in this harsh life), I mean in order to be cared ,be loved,be supported,be understood by a man or for man by a woman..as a hardship I live there is none to share your feelings your thoughts , most of the time you have to be alone wherever you are or whenever you have been.Especially when people around you are married, you unfortunately get very very lonely,they even begin to isolate you from their speeches..cause they r right, there is very little common talk among us..they have new relatives ,new home, and may be children.. another hardship I have been lived ..in the work place,if you r single, they start to think you have much more time to work and less freedom to stay away from the stuffs they order..( sadly I declare and particularly if you work in a less developed country like Turkey,which is my second love after my parents)..you don't have children so you can work more hours or in a harder condition..moreover again their speeches about their married life make a single person sad or disappointed or sometimes isolated...for the relatives O except from my parents I couldn't generally be a type of visiting relatives due to education and volunteering work, but of course in eid days or unfortunately in a funeral we get somehow together ,so alhamdulillah I didn't have a sad chance of being pitied on me for not being married..also you can guess that there is a generation gap between my relatives ,my parents and the people of my ages..therefore whatever and whenever they say sth about my not being married I just listen and pretending that I care their thoughts that are mostly far away from my understanding but if there is mature thought ,then I really sincerely listen and care ,for example Allah knows the best hold on Him,He is the great planner for you and all of us. .keep patience..I mostly listen my mentally matured grown ups relatives..last but not least I want to say that a non married person may not want to go anywhere where couples are next to one another where they may be felt that they are single alone..please everyone should know that a non married person does not want to be alone ,this is Allah's plan,don't make them isolated and please,please,please pray for them and feel mercy on them,pleasehave empathy and try to think the circumstances of theirs and yours may be very very different,you may be rich and many friends to help you bit some can only have family to help and very few friends to talk even none ...and and (not finishing ands )you may be married even have children ,This can be ,for sure, someone's wishes ,please don't complain about your marriages your children( I am not talking about the people who have many difficulties in their marrieges as a test may Allah send them His grace and mercy and patience..)and please be grateful whatever you have and don't have..and me and the ones like me surely try to find a good match we try ,pls don't think that why we don't choose or haven't married so far, know that this is not bec of us but what is written for us ..pls know them all..May Allah protect and provide all the Muslims and muslimahs, the innocents, the ones who are in need of help with hayr, Barakah and grace..
I want to get married to a Muslim woman and convert to Islam. Please help me connect with single Muslim women who want to get married now if you can. I live in Hampton roads Virginia
I wanna get married so bad, bcz I want to feel loved and cherished I want to be his first in everything being a second child I was always been put second, my parents are great but they always put my sister first I also put my sister first she is an Angel, but I want my husband to be his first
I am 29 and i have tried hell lot of times but nothing ever worked. And the last guy I liked and chose for marriage got cancer and the marriage was called off.. Not sure what Allah's plan is but we need to keep our trust on Him and wait.
Excellent subject handled in good taste and without judgements. Contrary to social norms, relationships are not a gauge of social development nor should it be assumed as the "next step" in a person's life. Pair-bonding, generally, and marriage in particular are highly responsible and demanding commitments requiring ceaseless negotiations and compromise. It is false to believe or posit that relationships are for everyone or that all people are up for the challenge. Oh, and Polygamy? Don't even get me started......
The show is called let the Quran Speak yet I've only heard opinions instead of Quran. I think you should change the name of the show to something That better represent its nature.
@@whisperingwhiskerss4877 when I hear let the Quran Speak I expect to hear : - first the problem being discussed - second, hear Quran - third, a explanation of the ayant that was just read and and the benefits of them on dealing with the said problem plus some back up examples from the Sunnah to solidify the meaning to the viewers. Instead what we got is people speaking their opinions on matters based on some modern western understandings. This is unfit to be called let the Quran Speak, if you don't intend to give Quran some time in your show better change the title.
@@RamoLasiaf The hell is wrong with you, Social Darwinist? The Quran should be open to interpretation to everybody. And there is no such 'encoded' information in the Quran. I can literally type anything and you will be able to find patterns and 'encoded' information in it. That's human nature, we search for patterns even when there aren't any. Please get a life instead of perpetuating misinformation.
Most muslimahs don't like intimacy at all . They only do it as a duty to please the husband. X is the most painful and unwanted thing for every muslimah. We are just forced to do it. Its just like childbirth which no muslimahs wants to go through but has to do it. For children . Ever wondered why so many muslimahs who are independant and are from good families don't want a hubby because they have all the luxury without being intimate or to have x.
Tbh It so better to be live single in today's time Coz mostly Muslim women go for materialistic things not for character And I lost the faith in nikkah to today's women So being single is best to live
People who think they are not good enough for marriage sure have a serious problem. Are they terminally ill? I hate to say it but I don't think they have strong family support. Too much movies and TV dramas at a young age tend to influence them against the right concept of marriage and family life. This discussion is not based on Quran and Sunnah but rather on people's desires.
Interesting conversation between two modern Muslim ladies. Asma uses the terminology 'God' rather than Allah. Quran has no texts for loneliness but has the nearest Love these texts: 8:63, 30:21, 59:9-10 and 60:7 (A Yusuf Ali's translation). Compare with Holy Bible - Tyndale verse finder has for LONELINESS the following references Genesis 2:18, 1 Kings 19:14-18, Psalm 68:6, Ecclesiastes 4: 10-11 and Matthew 28:20. An Imam or Parish Priest should be able to provide useful leads in their respective social and cultural circles.
To die single, isolated in a cold, dim, and lonely apartment on the 16th floor with only a little cat for the company ? I don't think it's a good idea. Better get married. To all singles, let me say to you 'your other half is out there! If you seek you will find!'.
There is no use in getting married if the other person is the wrong person. I was married for 8 years and it was emotionally and mentally excruciating for me. I have been single for 5 years now and loving every moment of it. The trick is simply to pursue things for yourself: learn a new skill, pickup new hobby, work for yourself and spend on yourself, pursue higher education, etc. The possibilities are endless, and no one is around to tell you what you can or cannot do. I hope I don't come across as bitter lol ... But my experience and observation of men in today's world is basically this: 1. A man can be traditionalist, progressive or centrist. Obviously you will want balance. How easy is it to find that balance in a Muslim man? 2. A man may still have both parents, one parent or no parent. If he still has his mother, how ready are you to share him, or share your couple life with her? (A lot of Muslim mothers from certain cultures can be overbearing - just stating a fact) 3. A man can be independent or a man-child. There are more men-children today living in first and second world countries than there are proper men. How will you differentiate a proper man from a man-child? (you can of course, you just need to be very aware of the signs to look for) Those are some points of consideration I can share from experience. It's only human nature to think the grass is greener on other side. I've been there and do not wish to return lol (unless the man can rival the Prophet's treatment of women ... The irony of that being any suggestion of the sort to some Muslim men is considered offensive somehow lol ... I've had someone retort to me "Yes but he was a prophet right? I'm not!" as if aspiring to conduct oneself as the Prophet conducted himself is humanly impossible sigh)
Die alone? Okay do married people die with their husbands? We all came alone and will die alone while marriage is Sunnah we must know our purpose is to please Allah and gain jannah and if we can’t find a moral match it’s better to live pleasing Allah guarding your chastity and die on 16th floor with a kitten
Qur'an 4:34 (Pickthall)-Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret what Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High Exalted, Great. Sahih Al-Bukhari 2658-The Prophet (the blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said: "Yes." He said: "This is because of the deficiency of her mind."
Then,you should Raise finger on Nature that Women has such an Enourmous Amount of 9 Months LABOUR PAIN to have baby but Man has no Such pain.............Is it not Unfair by NATURE???? Women have Menses but man is free from mensus,is also not Unfair by NATURE???? IF u are on Criticize,then criticize everything practical thing too
u hv read 4.34,..but Not understood..all the financial Resposibility is given on shoulder of Man by 4.34..Women have win in this case...its Not Compulsary for women to earn but its Compulsary for man to earn..............about the hadith,if it is Authentic, its Not that u perceiving............its Has Depth meaning.......
@@xyzabc6898 That's basic biology. The consequences of natural selection, sexual dimorphism in humans. But it doesn't have to be that way. Look at hyenas: their packs have matriarchal societies. It is human culture, including these narratives that Islam picked up, that should be criticised. Get a life. Don't defend a belief that sees women as inferior to men.
Beautifully said sister. I am 28, no one can say I never tried, it just hasn't worked out. What is meant to be will be, leaving it to Allah SWT
Me too
I'm not a muslim and my boyfriend just broke up with me after 4 years, why is youtube recommending this video to me lol
but I like her very much
Awh no! That's sad. Take care! :( It'll be alright. Just don't think about it too much.
Maybe it’s a sign!
@@farhanahmed2508 Thank you so much
@@aminasmith9341 Maybe. But a sign for what exactly? I'll have to find out. :D
@@lenar.1691 u will catch little signs u may reach to the truth
I'm glad I'm single...I've never felt comfortable with marriage
I am struggling to get married..no one is near me who is practicing Muslim...they don't even know about our prophets and quran..
I am trying to adopt single life❤️.
May Allah bless us to serve humanity
@you are enough India West Bengal.... there are muslim but they dont have the real faith
@@bez1196 bro...i am not living there...
@you are enough I was just joking. Hopefully the brother wasn't offended, but I deleted my comment nonetheless.
@@imamulhossain6419 Have you considered moving to a different region brother? To a place with a stronger community? May Allah make it easy for you.
@@imamulhossain6419 there are people who are practicing islam... U didn't meet that doesn't mean no one's here !!!! I live here !! I practice !!!
Quran 24:33 - “And let those who cannot find a match keep chaste till Allah give them independence by His grace.” I think it also related to those who have no means to marry to abstract themselves from unlawful intercourse. No everyone wants to marry and that’s fine. I understand it is recommended but let people choose. Especially women. Many don’t want to marry ever or not at this current time. But r pressured due to society and family. May allah grant us a deeper understanding and guidance inshallah
Im a young man living in America. My concern right now is whether or not to marry from my community (mainly non muslims). My mom offers to find someone for me in Africa but I don't think I can marry someone I haven't met and since Marriage is a life long commitment I really don't wana hurt them later on. Im stuck but Allah is the best of planners. Im sure He'll find a way out for me and all my brothers and sisters in the same situation.
For sure is Allaah the best Planer but you choose which path and that path leads you to certain plan. If you are acting eightfully than you have the better path to better plan but if you areabusive then that paths leada you to another plan.
We are responsible for ourselves
You never know the same person your mom is finding for you may very well turn out to be someone with a great personality. Pray to Allah for guidance.
Find children of Israel Bani israil family woman
You are delusional. Of course you need to know a person well before you get married to them. That's a fact: couples who don't know each other before marriage regret their decisions their whole life.
I am also a single woman 50 Y old. I m very torchered by society for my status. You all know METALS are SOLID. MERCURY is one n only liquid metal. Scietist never try it for making SOLID. They found a unique use of Mercury in Thermometer. Lord of universe always knows your deeds, your status. You are also aware about your duty in society. Allah SWT become WEDDING is SUNNAH not FARDH. I always respect SUNNNAH BY HEART. But if I feel that I am not want to marry whats problem to society??? In India Society and Priests create a problem mentally and economically for SINGLE WOMAN. Very tough life in INDIA for Single Woman.
after 2 marriages I am OK to go for the third time don't stay alone it's hard and not healthy in the long term, pray for Allah to find the wright one inshalah even after 100 failed marriages put trust in Allah, also we men we don't need to take our wives for granted and women please don't drag your husbands to material life, share the same goal of vision which is serving Allah and his path, don't attempt to impress your FAMILY, CULTURE, COMMUNITY, EGO and inshallah you will find the knight or the queen you asked for, peace ...
For you, you weakling 🙃but it's ok
I am a 32 years old Turkish woman living in France and single since forever and never get any proposals. At 1st when I was younger my family had always fear me about men, that I have to be far from them and never approach men cause it is haram, I was student at this time. But now they force me to marry and meet someone in order to marry.. the problem is that they put me those barriers before and now they are pushing me to marry...By the way now all the men in my surroundings are married and I dont know any single muslim man. No one is helping me to marry a good muslim man even my family doesnt help to meet someone🤦♀
Same situation as yours, turned thirty this Feb, extremely depressed cz lonliness is very difficult to cope with, I think I would die soon, struggling with lonliness since twelve years. Never married or never been physical with anyone.
How do u cope with loneliness? 😢
I am 68 years and never been married. Alhamdulillah I had very supportive upbringing and supportive family (brothers and sister). I had graduate education and good career as univ lecturer. I retired since 2021.
To overcome loneliness, I have a set of friends that accompany me sometimes just for chatting or traveling around or out of the town.
I also still work partime as online tutor in chemistry
I rely on Allah SWT through the Shalat and reading the Qur'an.
You are still young, under the 35 y o. You still have time. Ask you relatives, people in the near Masjid to help you. Meanwhile, make yourself beautiful by taking care of your physical and psychological self. Ask the help of Allah SWT.
In Syaa Allah you get what you want.
I have this problem. Inshallah I’ll find someone 🙂
i am from Indonesia 🇮🇩.
I really want to get married,
but I have a hard time getting women..because I'm poor.
hopefully here I find a woman,
who can live together..up to jannah.
aamiin yaa robbal aalamiin..
laa haula walaa quwwata ila billahil aliyyil adziin..
I searched "aromanticism in Islam" because I'm an aromantic Muslim and I was trying to find content discussing this combination of identities. I came across this video and even though the topic wasn't necessarily about aromanticism, some of the information delivered resonated with me and got me thinking.
For example, at 01:21: " Is it [marriage] really a source of fulfilment or not?... Can I find fulfilment even outside of that or until I find that?"
This really put things into perspective for me because I always thought to be committed to someone, you'd have to be happy with yourself in order to be able to fulfil that person. I mean, how would you be able to make someone else happy when you're not happy with yourself? It turns out this can be something you can work on together.
Hi im also a Muslim Aromantic.! Nice to meet !
I know it feels we arent talked about enough!
@@neetaspirant1684 Omg this comment was a year ago.... I don't even remember writing this. I've changed now and no longer use the term aromantic lol
@@jazzmp4 ohh okay🩶 may Allah bless You🩶
Nobody should be pressurized to get married. Male and female alike. The societal pressure to get married is exactly the reason why families have problems
I think this is a very relevant topic the show has touched on. However, I’m not sure whether one can find the fulfilment a marriage provides via other sources. The intimacy provided in a functioning marriage cannot be replicated in other relationships, as it is very unique to marriage. Therefore, I believe finding ‘fulfilment’ through friendships etc. is a false equivalency. They provide other types of social fulfilment and they may overlap some of the qualities marriages provide but will never completely fill the void.
(Just my opinion)
Not just your opinion sis the this is the way of Islam too. There is no substitute to marriage.
No substitute for marriage? And what's your logical proof? (Hint: there isn't one). Thousands of couples never get married, or marry only after living with each other for years in a relationship. That's fact. Your statement is, on the other hand, cr*p.
Farhan Ahmed from an Islamic perspective there is no substitute to marriage... this is an Islamic based channel so maybe your opinions are relevant else where.
@@farhanahmed2508 sure if you want Zina go ahead there are many roads to hell fire but only one road to Jannah, the road of obeying Allah.
I really hate this behaviour of married people they forced their life and standard and wants and belief to me, they always try to tell me that you're unhappy if you don't get married, I mean I know my need and wants as long as I'm away from haram stuff I'm happy, I'm not involved in any haram relationship, nor I'm gonna be in it in shaa Allah, I hope they stop forcing their ideology based on society standard and their experiences to other's life, c'mon grow up, I see my parents from my childhood they are never been happy of their married life and many others living in zombie mood, Nor I'm forcing anyone to not get married, everybody matured enough to figure out what they want
Married people are the most miserable people I've ever seen. Idk why they want the rest of us to be miserable as well
I hope you get married inshallah because getting married is a Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAWS).
Maktoub what Allah (swt) wrot for us we should be thanking Allah (swt)
Firstly I want you to thank for considering the single people and revealing them in your concerns.Secondly , I try to live single, which I believe this may be my test chosen by Allah (I am not sure He Almighty knows the best),and it is really hard to be single in the society generally the married couple are thought to have hardships but honestly it is not..I want to state some of my difficulties that only Allah understands and knows..Any person wants to be loved,cared, thought both emotionally and physically..and that is definitely why Allah suggests us to marry the right person( He definitely knows our needs and doesn't want us to be lonely in this harsh life), I mean in order to be cared ,be loved,be supported,be understood by a man or for man by a woman..as a hardship I live there is none to share your feelings your thoughts , most of the time you have to be alone wherever you are or whenever you have been.Especially when people around you are married, you unfortunately get very very lonely,they even begin to isolate you from their speeches..cause they r right, there is very little common talk among us..they have new relatives ,new home, and may be children.. another hardship I have been lived ..in the work place,if you r single, they start to think you have much more time to work and less freedom to stay away from the stuffs they order..( sadly I declare and particularly if you work in a less developed country like Turkey,which is my second love after my parents)..you don't have children so you can work more hours or in a harder condition..moreover again their speeches about their married life make a single person sad or disappointed or sometimes isolated...for the relatives O except from my parents I couldn't generally be a type of visiting relatives due to education and volunteering work, but of course in eid days or unfortunately in a funeral we get somehow together ,so alhamdulillah I didn't have a sad chance of being pitied on me for not being married..also you can guess that there is a generation gap between my relatives ,my parents and the people of my ages..therefore whatever and whenever they say sth about my not being married I just listen and pretending that I care their thoughts that are mostly far away from my understanding but if there is mature thought ,then I really sincerely listen and care ,for example Allah knows the best hold on Him,He is the great planner for you and all of us. .keep patience..I mostly listen my mentally matured grown ups relatives..last but not least I want to say that a non married person may not want to go anywhere where couples are next to one another where they may be felt that they are single alone..please everyone should know that a non married person does not want to be alone ,this is Allah's plan,don't make them isolated and please,please,please pray for them and feel mercy on them,pleasehave empathy and try to think the circumstances of theirs and yours may be very very different,you may be rich and many friends to help you bit some can only have family to help and very few friends to talk even none ...and and (not finishing ands )you may be married even have children ,This can be ,for sure, someone's wishes ,please don't complain about your marriages your children( I am not talking about the people who have many difficulties in their marrieges as a test may Allah send them His grace and mercy and patience..)and please be grateful whatever you have and don't have..and me and the ones like me surely try to find a good match we try ,pls don't think that why we don't choose or haven't married so far, know that this is not bec of us but what is written for us ..pls know them all..May Allah protect and provide all the Muslims and muslimahs, the innocents, the ones who are in need of help with hayr, Barakah and grace..
Bekle ablacim, o adam gelir bir gun
I want to get married to a Muslim woman and convert to Islam. Please help me connect with single Muslim women who want to get married now if you can. I live in Hampton roads Virginia
I wanna get married so bad, bcz I want to feel loved and cherished I want to be his first in everything being a second child I was always been put second, my parents are great but they always put my sister first I also put my sister first she is an Angel, but I want my husband to be his first
I am 29 and i have tried hell lot of times but nothing ever worked. And the last guy I liked and chose for marriage got cancer and the marriage was called off.. Not sure what Allah's plan is but we need to keep our trust on Him and wait.
😢
Its very had I tell you
2:30 Wished our society understands this 😢
Masha Allah.. I am amazed by both of Ur discussion.. Need for the hour..Thank you..
Excellent subject handled in good taste and without judgements. Contrary to social norms, relationships are not a gauge of social development nor should it be assumed as the "next step" in a person's life. Pair-bonding, generally, and marriage in particular are highly responsible and demanding commitments requiring ceaseless negotiations and compromise. It is false to believe or posit that relationships are for everyone or that all people are up for the challenge. Oh, and Polygamy? Don't even get me started......
ufff not being married especially in the west will deff lead to or get to close to some serious haram stuff but being married has its challenges too
Ma Shaa Allah... good job 👍👍...
The show is called let the Quran Speak yet I've only heard opinions instead of Quran. I think you should change the name of the show to something That better represent its nature.
What are you talking about...you clearly don’t watch this channel enough.
@@whisperingwhiskerss4877 when I hear let the Quran Speak I expect to hear :
- first the problem being discussed
- second, hear Quran
- third, a explanation of the ayant that was just read and and the benefits of them on dealing with the said problem plus some back up examples from the Sunnah to solidify the meaning to the viewers.
Instead what we got is people speaking their opinions on matters based on some modern western understandings. This is unfit to be called let the Quran Speak, if you don't intend to give Quran some time in your show better change the title.
@@RamoLasiaf The hell is wrong with you, Social Darwinist? The Quran should be open to interpretation to everybody. And there is no such 'encoded' information in the Quran. I can literally type anything and you will be able to find patterns and 'encoded' information in it. That's human nature, we search for patterns even when there aren't any. Please get a life instead of perpetuating misinformation.
What an informative video!
Soo well said.
He left because his parents said I am not right for him.
It is HALF YOUR RELIGION TO MARRY and to make Hajj
Duh
No believing woman should stay single. May Allah make our marriage easy and give us baraqah. Oh Allah, grant us a righteous partner. Ameen
If there was any man that was worth it, they wouldn't. Too many crust bags though
Hi
Most muslimahs don't like intimacy at all . They only do it as a duty to please the husband. X is the most painful and unwanted thing for every muslimah. We are just forced to do it. Its just like childbirth which no muslimahs wants to go through but has to do it. For children . Ever wondered why so many muslimahs who are independant and are from good families don't want a hubby because they have all the luxury without being intimate or to have x.
Tbh
It so better to be live single in today's time
Coz mostly Muslim women go for materialistic things not for character
And I lost the faith in nikkah to today's women
So being single is best to live
People who think they are not good enough for marriage sure have a serious problem. Are they terminally ill? I hate to say it but I don't think they have strong family support. Too much movies and TV dramas at a young age tend to influence them against the right concept of marriage and family life. This discussion is not based on Quran and Sunnah but rather on people's desires.
assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarokaatuh..
would you be my wife?
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Interesting conversation between two modern Muslim ladies. Asma uses the terminology 'God' rather than Allah. Quran has no texts for loneliness but has the nearest Love these texts: 8:63, 30:21, 59:9-10 and 60:7 (A Yusuf Ali's translation). Compare with Holy Bible - Tyndale verse finder has for LONELINESS the following references Genesis 2:18, 1 Kings 19:14-18, Psalm 68:6, Ecclesiastes 4: 10-11 and Matthew 28:20. An Imam or Parish Priest should be able to provide useful leads in their respective social and cultural circles.
Lol I get that I'm single and to die alone but why does RUclips suggest these vidoes
This is exactly what I was thinking 🤣 smh 🤦♀️
@@whisperingwhiskerss4877 lifes hard lol
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My name is also asma 😊😄😄
What's " a bed of roses" meant ?
While at least your husband won't beat you or say talaq
To die single, isolated in a cold, dim, and lonely apartment on the 16th floor with only a little cat for the company ? I don't think it's a good idea. Better get married. To all singles, let me say to you 'your other half is out there! If you seek you will find!'.
There is no use in getting married if the other person is the wrong person. I was married for 8 years and it was emotionally and mentally excruciating for me. I have been single for 5 years now and loving every moment of it. The trick is simply to pursue things for yourself: learn a new skill, pickup new hobby, work for yourself and spend on yourself, pursue higher education, etc. The possibilities are endless, and no one is around to tell you what you can or cannot do.
I hope I don't come across as bitter lol ... But my experience and observation of men in today's world is basically this:
1. A man can be traditionalist, progressive or centrist. Obviously you will want balance. How easy is it to find that balance in a Muslim man?
2. A man may still have both parents, one parent or no parent. If he still has his mother, how ready are you to share him, or share your couple life with her? (A lot of Muslim mothers from certain cultures can be overbearing - just stating a fact)
3. A man can be independent or a man-child. There are more men-children today living in first and second world countries than there are proper men. How will you differentiate a proper man from a man-child? (you can of course, you just need to be very aware of the signs to look for)
Those are some points of consideration I can share from experience. It's only human nature to think the grass is greener on other side. I've been there and do not wish to return lol (unless the man can rival the Prophet's treatment of women ... The irony of that being any suggestion of the sort to some Muslim men is considered offensive somehow lol ... I've had someone retort to me "Yes but he was a prophet right? I'm not!" as if aspiring to conduct oneself as the Prophet conducted himself is humanly impossible sigh)
Where is my other half ? Couldn't find yet
Die alone? Okay do married people die with their husbands? We all came alone and will die alone while marriage is Sunnah we must know our purpose is to please Allah and gain jannah and if we can’t find a moral match it’s better to live pleasing Allah guarding your chastity and die on 16th floor with a kitten
Living single is the best. Especially when you're a woman lol
If woman let her husband to be polygamous that's safe
Not really...it comes to a point where you need companionship
@@mrbacker5780 why would we even want that?
This is hilarious to me.. but I'm no one to judge. How is it I can see when people are mocking islam la hawla😮
Are we all delusional? We are human beings we aren't supposed to be alone....what's the point of the video
Qur'an 4:34 (Pickthall)-Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret what Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High Exalted, Great.
Sahih Al-Bukhari 2658-The Prophet (the blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said: "Yes." He said: "This is because of the deficiency of her mind."
Get a life bro. What r u even doing on a muslim channel.
Then,you should Raise finger on Nature that Women has such an Enourmous Amount of 9 Months LABOUR PAIN to have baby but Man has no Such pain.............Is it not Unfair by NATURE????
Women have Menses but man is free from mensus,is also not Unfair by NATURE????
IF u are on Criticize,then criticize everything practical thing too
u hv read 4.34,..but Not understood..all the financial Resposibility is given on shoulder of Man by 4.34..Women have win in this case...its Not Compulsary for women to earn but its Compulsary for man to earn..............about the hadith,if it is Authentic, its Not that u perceiving............its Has Depth meaning.......
@@xyzabc6898 That's basic biology. The consequences of natural selection, sexual dimorphism in humans. But it doesn't have to be that way. Look at hyenas: their packs have matriarchal societies. It is human culture, including these narratives that Islam picked up, that should be criticised. Get a life. Don't defend a belief that sees women as inferior to men.