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The thing I love the most about your journey is that it’s so “natural”. The good days, the bad days, the beauty of each emotion you felt. I often think of that when I’m reflecting on my own journey thus far. I’ve never had the guts to persist like this. It hurts the ego. I’ve also never put this many boundaries in place in my life until now. I upped the bar on everything. I feel like a super hero. I feel like the writer and director. It’s incredibly empowering. BUT, the hard days are still just that… hard. Being a conscious creator takes a lot of courage and trust.
@@queengorjess i was in no contact and blocked since 9 months but one day eventually i mes him and it got double blue tick then like corri told we chat randomly and now everything goes well we met after that everything is perfect nowww we are happily married noww😊😊😊
This reminds me of my story, I told him I can’t talk to him anymore, we agreed to be friends and he told me he had love for me but he was not treating me like a friend and I was getting annoyed so I stopped talking to him. I cried afterwards and I was like omg what have I done 🤣 it was the best thing for me tbh and I’m glad I did it, I chose myself too. We’ve spoken a few times but I have no expectations when we speak. I’m fine 99% of the time now, I used to cry every day it was sooooo bad but I’m okay and I’m soo happy! I sing and dance 24/7 😂 and I do things I enjoy, when it comes to my sp I guess i just know it’ll happen? I’m not stressing over it anymore and it’s not my main priority anymore either, I enjoy life soooo much more now. I wanted a really long loving message too or for him to turn up at my door with flowers declaring his love for me 🤣 but tbh I don’t mind now, it’ll happen in the best way possible, thank you for this video Corri. You always help keep my on track, you’re looking lovely as always 💕
@@dr.m6152 he actually reached out and apologised! We speak a lot and he calls me most nights, he tells me he misses me and regrets a lot of things he did.. I think it happened when I solely focused on myself and doing things that make me happy without worrying about what anyone else thinks ❤️
Your vids help me so much, Corri. After years of loving and manifesting the same person, I'm finally hitting a point with my self-concept where I'm like, "okay, so what's plan B in terms of what I want and deserve?" But then I'll wake up feeling really sad about this particular man. Basically you make me feel NORMAL for going through a PROCESS with FEELINGS, when there's so much shaming out there for doing just that. xo
Just thought I’d comment because I feel like this comment really made me feel like I’m not alone. I myself have felt like an I giving up or should I? I’ve felt that I was giving you without even trying at times, but the truth is giving in to the present moment and somehow being in control without controlling anything if that makes sense it’s like when you let go and just let be things will unfold cause you aren’t getting in the way of what you want and sometimes that feels like you are not trying anymore like you’re almost giving up but truth is in not “trying” you are letting the universe and the invisible work that happen behind the scenes and occur to be laid out as it needs to for the better. I think what’s kept me on track is knowing everything is happening how it needs to as long as I keep myself in that vibration and that even on the bad days I’ll be okay because we need some rain for the rainbow and in this “bad” days you can learn so much so it’s like an opportunity and seeing it that way rather than just beating yourself up makes us heal and grow as we should :) again thank you and much love and peace to you and your dreams, keep persisting and not resisting you got this.
@@marsandrade1120 I'm so happy my post made you feel that way! ❤ It's been a long road, as long as Corri's...it can be discouraging when you've persisted in visualizations and affirmations for years at a time, regarding something that feels so much like yours, only to wake up one day wanting little else but to feel good about yourself! At the moment I feel utterly adrift, because there hasn't been a time in a long time when I wasn't *actively practicing* something, some manifesting practice or other. I can get scared, given my time of life, that the fire has just gone out. I've started over from failure a dozen times. But I do want to be happy. I deserve to have my love returned. Maybe my spring and summer were barren because the most fecund harvest comes in autumn. Anyway, it has NEVER helped to flog myself for "messing up" my process.
Thank you. I'm having a "down" day after thinking I was fully stable and I was feeling really guilty about it (which made me feel even worse) but watching this helped ease the guilt a bit. This came at the right time 💜
I reached out to my SP the one I love after 60 day no contact. SheUsed to be upset with me and told me how she felt and I apologized to her she felt like I was smothering and controlling. I assured her I have changed I was going through some things myself at the time. So now its a matter of time before she fully opens up and where in Reunion. I'm really not anxious anymore because I want this to be the final step towards a permanent commitment because we have an amazing life to live together.
Corri this is so good. There's too much of this airy fairy "live in the end" bullshit which doesn't allow people to process and consider "how would I act if I loved, respected and trusted myself?"
You are such a gem Corri! This video is so helpful to see how naturally things can unfold without this sense of urgency and a grandiose love confession. I think I rather prefer it this way. A lot of us are expecting the big gesture but we aren't truly ready for that and it may actually throw us off! It reminds me of when my ex (not my SP) told me he loved me for the first time, that was the first time some one told me they loved me and even though I wanted him to finally say it, boy was I NOT ready for it, I was there frozen for a good 5 mins before I could say it back. I've seen that we get what we're actually ready for so this slow and steady approach just makes so much sense for about 90% of us.
Thanks Corri T!!! I don't know how you done it being miles apart from your sp I really admired you for that! Compared to me and my SP in no contact and we're living in just the same neighborhood, just a few meters away(I know circumstances don't matter). So really this time I have to keep persisting and work on my sc and your story really inspired me to have self trust and let things unfold. I can't wait to share my sp success story soon. ❤️❤️❤️
I just adore you, really. You are so real world and comforting. I only recently learned that boundaries are a form of self love, I went down the rabbit hole (for years) where I accepted a FWB situation and tried to “ignore the 3D”. That felt crappy, terrible, and horribly triggering when I discovered he’d been with someone else. That was the point when years of repressed anger exploded (it was not pretty). I’ve learned now I really want to have a fresh start, but I come first. Like you, I cannot accept “I love you” unless it’s from my committed partner, otherwise I’m going to stay over here and keep making myself feel good and keep getting more confident and more beautiful and more stable now that I’m not in a state of constant triggers. 😊 I vow to respect my needs and my body.
I Know itsie they tell us Dont REACT but whenits u ure 3D? NO WAY ur NOTgonna come sleep with ME n then calll OTHER woman!! im sorry thats just FUKKIN disrespectful !!!this guy i was with gave ME cardiac arrest telking zmE we r Fwbs he xan fuk who ge wants n id affirm SC sp whatever but he was a Monster he became insane Blowinf up at me cursing me out calls girls ib front ME luke R u waiting 4 ME to EXPLODE on ure ass id block him gabg up the phone on him he seriouy made MY stomach churn id feel nausous n wanna BOLT from Him i started hating him MYSELF for not goung off on him n ONE day i had ENUFF WE had spent tbe night n he calls THIS gurl in FRONT of his friend i Got soo madddd n durespected i whaked his head on BOTH sides ge gets up turns around i socked his balls Grabved My phone n bolted blocked EVERY damn platform He calks me 2 hrs later ... asks me y i did that? I was like dude u HAVE tbe Nerve ti ASK r u INSANE ??? I didnt wabt anything to DO with him but ifc he foubd EVERY excuse in the book... by then i was sik of.BEING.quiet.i exploded.on him completely about EVERYTHING !!! I was sooo tired of him then he starts accusing ME n his vrother correspinding i didnt EVEN soeak tk the brother tbe NEXT day tbe brother calks me its been a shit show wuth this MF since n this was Valenday i swear i could write a daytime emny script the BS thats happened im TIRED n all I WANT is MY sp idc about HIM even if he Proprsed to Me Rn id never marry him hes CRAZY PHYCO idont Need yo manifest trainwrecks in MY life hes NUTS !!! Htf i met HIM idont Even KNOW i just wanna manifezt NEVER meeting HIM !!! I HaTE his GUTS !!!!!
This is EXACTLY what happened to me, I had to say this, but have been regretting it because our contact stopped after I said it - I’m feeling a lot more hopeful now
I had contact last night, and I replied this morning with my boundaries (in-line with his email) - as you mentioned it is because I can get on with life whether he is here or not. I care for him. Let’s see.
I am at that point where I am OK no matter what is happening... It took me 5 month's to get here but the feeling is amazing. When you know how beautiful you are this fear of omg what is going to happen goes away. It is liberating state of mind. ❤️
Thank you for this. I put up boundaries everytime he came back, Idk how many times he has come back but I could not deal with how he showed up so I feel like putting up with that is not honouring myself, that why would I put up with it if it's hurting me? Ignoring 3D feels like not honouring myself. I still have not given up on him and us, working on myself more.
I’m back to this video and today I am resonating with it. I saw this video about 3 weeks ago and I was sad afterwards, I was holding so tight to the fact that even though I was receiving crumbs, I was going to be that girl that ignored the 3d and made it. Well 2 days ago I saw something in 3D without looking and it broke my heart and I was like hell no. I chose ME. So I did exactly this told him that I wished him happiness and that I would always loved him but I am done with 3P situation. It was the hardest thing to do and is not the 1st time I’ve done it. But this time was different I didn’t fight it I was just like I know I’ve been working on myself the last 6 months. And I know he is going to be my husband. But till then I am enjoying my life and will definitely not accept his crumbs. I just wrote 3P a goodbye letter. And I actually have this feeling of I finally did it, I truly let go. What a relief 🥰😍I feel amazing 🤩 thank you for the video that made me cried last time, but today was yeap you are correct.😊
SO proud of you! Thank you for this inspiring comment! You had the opportunity to choose yourself and you did it!! That feeling of choosing you can never leave you now. Now let the magic of your life unfold 💕
Thank's Corri! Could you maybe do another clip about No Contact situations? I am working now since almost a year with this topic, no idea if I should eventually give up my manifestation or not. I had times were I accepted and felt very trustful, positive - it's not that I am exaggerated emotional - also I've softening a huge part of my limiting believes - but nothing is happen in my reality
Maybe I feel sad because a part of me knows that I'm not 'meant to be with' her? - you know, the 'divine selection' thingy. Keeping going is so damn painful. I don't think I can anymore, because it's bringing up everything at once about what I see as wrong with me and my life. 😔
Thank you so much dear corri mam for this wonderful video🙏❤️🦋. I really needed to hear this. I am so grateful that i found you and your helpful videos😘. Love you so much dear mam❤️🤗🧿. God bless you mam❤️🌈🌹. Love and light to you from India 🇮🇳🙏❤️🌞🌈🦋🤗🧿🌹
Love the video!!! Hmm, 2 months into no contact he did asked to meet up and he said he wanted to be friends. I thought he's being selfish as he wants me as an option plus I just felt unprepared emotionally. But he did left some chocolates at my front door and a piece of tissue paper sying "sorry, can we be friends". Tbh i felt kinda disrespected with the tissue paper. Im torn between honouring myself and wanting him back. We were in a loving relationship for 6 years. I realised i put myself pretty high so im easily triggered when things go south. Is that counts as fear or limiting beliefs?
I think the tissue paper thing may just be a reflection of your old self concept and the 3D hadn’t caught up yet. It feels triggering because it’s like “huh? don’t you realise who i am now!?” Lol.. stay focussed on how you feel about yourself, you obviously don’t need the tissues. 👑💕
Why do I feel unsure again and kind of confused now that we are in contact again and I know it didn’t work out with the other woman? I am kind of falling back to my old pattern and I was doing sooo great 😅what is that and how to fix it? I don’t want to chase again or be afraid to loose the contact again ❤thank you!
Corrie I really love this video and your honesty but I do have a question. What if there is some regret for not setting boundaries in the past with your SP and now your in silence. This made me think back and I would of set boundaries and not felt like I let him walk all over me cause deep inside I was scared to lose him at the time. I guess I wish I could of done things differently…
You only ever know what you know. You only ever do what you think is best at the time. You can forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know ❤️
How do you separate yourself when you in the same company? I really like your idea of setting boundaries, just not sure how to and how did you word it to him that you don't want to see him anymore? Also thanks Corri love your videos! 😊
I basically said something like “I can see and feel that you’re not in a place right now to really be with me the way I would want. Because I love you so much, it is really hard for me to be half in and half out. I have to be honest with myself and tell you that this situation isn’t right for me and it is making me sad. I need to set you free for now and maybe at some point we will be able to be in the right time and place. This isn’t your fault, it is just how I feel right now”. It was not blamey or making him responsible, it was just me being honest with myself with total love and respect to both of us ❤️
Corrie, I wouldn't mind your opinion on this if you see it. My person finally reached out to me Christmas night, and it took another long and anxious month until we finally met up. He has a really avoidant personality, think ostrich with his head in the sand, and stubborn about it. We caught up twice more in February, I sent a message last Friday and he hasn't replied. Which confuses me as he messaged that he cares about me and he does things like drags the chair around the table to sit next to me rather than across from me, talks about we should do this we should get matching T-shirts, etc. It feels like the end of the road, but is this the conforming part of the process? I forget that things need to harden into fact and keep looking at success stories where the person just comes through full force, although I know others experience it where their person comes in slowly in drips and drabs. I don't know what to think.
Stop saying/thinking he has an avoidant personality first off :) …he doesn’t. It’s what you are projecting on to him. Start projecting he is loving caring and loves coming towards you. Then stop saying he is stubborn. Again, he isn’t. You are projecting that to him by saying/thinking it. Say/think/assume the opposite.
@@char6457 yes I'm working on seeing him differently. I'm revising incidences now. I guess I'm thrown because you see success stories where they come in full force, show up on your doorstep completely different whereas mine came back in as an agonising trickle and appears to have changed only in the very slightest. Wouldn't have minded a little more encouragement reflected back 😑
@@Bunyip3124 it is definitely not always like that. That’s why I did this video! ❤️ go back to self concept and feeling worthy and deserving of everything. In time all those things you want will come xx
GOd This SOUNDS like ME my phone ALWAYS sendsrhing idot want THEN im lime seriouslyyy?? THIS is embrresing mortifing etc ive had this with SOO many ppl ... THIS is what happen with ME n Sp Corri literally this PAST week i reached out to HIM about a work reccomendation .... I called HM n Then hes talking talkng tels ME hes NOT with the wife i actually didnt hear him so i had to say what He tells ME again ..... THEN he suddenly says IF u wanna b in concact b upfront etc tell ME st8t out i wassoooo SHOCKD corri i didt KNOWW what to say soo i brushed him off he suddenly got all cold corri i HEARD it in HIS voice but i couldnt bring MYSELF to tell him Yess I was sooo Scared We Have a CRAZY ass story ...but the WHOLE night i didnt Know WHAT to Do tel him not ..i kept visialuzing affirming but NOTHIG next day i called him bak about the job (excuse ) AGAIN we talked 40 min n THEN he offers ME.a job i was sooo phyced corri! THEN i by accident cdialed him i meant MY dad 🤦♀️ but i didnt realize soo the whole night i wS affirming meditating etc HE cals first THJNG in the am i was sooo happy but i was exausted n didnt answer i called him bak 2 hrs later ge didnt answer ... he calls bak BUT he blew up on ME started accusing ME imma harrwsz him AGAIN ..xalk him 50 × Times i got sooo agitated i told him NO idk wtf i didng xall u well turns out i DID ... i hung up with him told him my dads calling ill talk to u subday bam i was sooi Dissapoibted Thats what happebed i wabtwd HIM TO invite ME over etc nothing n We r neighbors Now literally from thailand bak i was married im Divorced now n Now We r neighbors his wife LEFT ... I Just WANT to see him !! BUUT no matrwr How many affs how much SC how much fantasizing living the END nothinggggg PUSHES out !!! N i swear corri i DONTVwant anyone ELSE!! IVE veen proprsed to non stop i dont WANT anyone but HIM we r not xses but since i MET him ive not gotten him outta my MIND this NEVER happened with ME with anyone !! I want Him !! But my damn sub con doesnt DO anything.to push out what i WANT !!! But he says he has nothing ronantic for ME im like fine i respect that idobt care to b intimate i just want us to b friends again tho i wont say no IF he wants to b intimate ... i Miss him soo much 5 yrs since we sopped being friends..n istill miss him 😢
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The thing I love the most about your journey is that it’s so “natural”. The good days, the bad days, the beauty of each emotion you felt. I often think of that when I’m reflecting on my own journey thus far. I’ve never had the guts to persist like this. It hurts the ego. I’ve also never put this many boundaries in place in my life until now. I upped the bar on everything. I feel like a super hero. I feel like the writer and director. It’s incredibly empowering. BUT, the hard days are still just that… hard. Being a conscious creator takes a lot of courage and trust.
I love your comments, you are such a good writer ❤️ you are a super hero 💫💕☺️
@@createwithcorri my story was the same aa yours corri
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@@queengorjess i was in no contact and blocked since 9 months but one day eventually i mes him and it got double blue tick then like corri told we chat randomly and now everything goes well we met after that everything is perfect nowww we are happily married noww😊😊😊
@@gods_angel703 That is so fricken awesome! Thank you for responding 🙏🏻💕
This reminds me of my story, I told him I can’t talk to him anymore, we agreed to be friends and he told me he had love for me but he was not treating me like a friend and I was getting annoyed so I stopped talking to him. I cried afterwards and I was like omg what have I done 🤣 it was the best thing for me tbh and I’m glad I did it, I chose myself too. We’ve spoken a few times but I have no expectations when we speak. I’m fine 99% of the time now, I used to cry every day it was sooooo bad but I’m okay and I’m soo happy! I sing and dance 24/7 😂 and I do things I enjoy, when it comes to my sp I guess i just know it’ll happen? I’m not stressing over it anymore and it’s not my main priority anymore either, I enjoy life soooo much more now. I wanted a really long loving message too or for him to turn up at my door with flowers declaring his love for me 🤣 but tbh I don’t mind now, it’ll happen in the best way possible, thank you for this video Corri. You always help keep my on track, you’re looking lovely as always 💕
How are you today?
Update?
@@dr.m6152 he actually reached out and apologised! We speak a lot and he calls me most nights, he tells me he misses me and regrets a lot of things he did.. I think it happened when I solely focused on myself and doing things that make me happy without worrying about what anyone else thinks ❤️
Oh my god. So much effort for one SP when the whole world is full of amazing potential partners.
Tell my inner child that a few years ago 🤣
Your vids help me so much, Corri. After years of loving and manifesting the same person, I'm finally hitting a point with my self-concept where I'm like, "okay, so what's plan B in terms of what I want and deserve?" But then I'll wake up feeling really sad about this particular man. Basically you make me feel NORMAL for going through a PROCESS with FEELINGS, when there's so much shaming out there for doing just that. xo
Just thought I’d comment because I feel like this comment really made me feel like I’m not alone. I myself have felt like an I giving up or should I? I’ve felt that I was giving you without even trying at times, but the truth is giving in to the present moment and somehow being in control without controlling anything if that makes sense it’s like when you let go and just let be things will unfold cause you aren’t getting in the way of what you want and sometimes that feels like you are not trying anymore like you’re almost giving up but truth is in not “trying” you are letting the universe and the invisible work that happen behind the scenes and occur
to be laid out as it needs to for the better. I think what’s kept me on track is knowing everything is happening how it needs to as long as I keep myself in that vibration and that even on the bad days I’ll be okay because we need some rain for the rainbow and in this “bad” days you can learn so much so it’s like an opportunity and seeing it that way rather than just beating yourself up makes us heal and grow as we should :) again thank you and much love and peace to you and your dreams, keep persisting and not resisting you got this.
@@marsandrade1120 I'm so happy my post made you feel that way! ❤ It's been a long road, as long as Corri's...it can be discouraging when you've persisted in visualizations and affirmations for years at a time, regarding something that feels so much like yours, only to wake up one day wanting little else but to feel good about yourself! At the moment I feel utterly adrift, because there hasn't been a time in a long time when I wasn't *actively practicing* something, some manifesting practice or other. I can get scared, given my time of life, that the fire has just gone out. I've started over from failure a dozen times. But I do want to be happy. I deserve to have my love returned. Maybe my spring and summer were barren because the most fecund harvest comes in autumn.
Anyway, it has NEVER helped to flog myself for "messing up" my process.
Thank you. I'm having a "down" day after thinking I was fully stable and I was feeling really guilty about it (which made me feel even worse) but watching this helped ease the guilt a bit. This came at the right time 💜
Never feel guilty for feeling what you feel. Gently observe it and then move yourself back to where you’re heading ❤️
@@createwithcorri Will do. Thanks for always helping and being so kind ❤
Your story is very similar to mine! You inspire me to do this 😌
I reached out to my SP the one I love after 60 day no contact. SheUsed to be upset with me and told me how she felt and I apologized to her she felt like I was smothering and controlling. I assured her I have changed I was going through some things myself at the time. So now its a matter of time before she fully opens up and where in Reunion. I'm really not anxious anymore because I want this to be the final step towards a permanent commitment because we have an amazing life to live together.
Corri this is so good. There's too much of this airy fairy "live in the end" bullshit which doesn't allow people to process and consider "how would I act if I loved, respected and trusted myself?"
YES!
You are such a gem Corri! This video is so helpful to see how naturally things can unfold without this sense of urgency and a grandiose love confession. I think I rather prefer it this way. A lot of us are expecting the big gesture but we aren't truly ready for that and it may actually throw us off! It reminds me of when my ex (not my SP) told me he loved me for the first time, that was the first time some one told me they loved me and even though I wanted him to finally say it, boy was I NOT ready for it, I was there frozen for a good 5 mins before I could say it back. I've seen that we get what we're actually ready for so this slow and steady approach just makes so much sense for about 90% of us.
Thanks I just just set boundaries with him and I don’t like how he’s showing up so I’m gonna back away 🥰 this was helpful
Thanks Corri T!!! I don't know how you done it being miles apart from your sp I really admired you for that! Compared to me and my SP in no contact and we're living in just the same neighborhood, just a few meters away(I know circumstances don't matter). So really this time I have to keep persisting and work on my sc and your story really inspired me to have self trust and let things unfold. I can't wait to share my sp success story soon. ❤️❤️❤️
I just adore you, really. You are so real world and comforting. I only recently learned that boundaries are a form of self love, I went down the rabbit hole (for years) where I accepted a FWB situation and tried to “ignore the 3D”. That felt crappy, terrible, and horribly triggering when I discovered he’d been with someone else. That was the point when years of repressed anger exploded (it was not pretty). I’ve learned now I really want to have a fresh start, but I come first. Like you, I cannot accept “I love you” unless it’s from my committed partner, otherwise I’m going to stay over here and keep making myself feel good and keep getting more confident and more beautiful and more stable now that I’m not in a state of constant triggers. 😊 I vow to respect my needs and my body.
I Know itsie they tell us Dont REACT but whenits u ure 3D? NO WAY ur NOTgonna come sleep with ME n then calll OTHER woman!!
im sorry thats just FUKKIN disrespectful !!!this guy i was with gave ME cardiac arrest telking zmE we r Fwbs he xan fuk who ge wants n id affirm SC sp whatever but he was a Monster he became insane Blowinf up at me cursing me out calls girls ib front ME luke R u waiting 4 ME to EXPLODE on ure ass id block him gabg up the phone on him he seriouy made MY stomach churn id feel nausous n wanna BOLT from Him i started hating him MYSELF for not goung off on him n ONE day i had ENUFF WE had spent tbe night n he calls THIS gurl in FRONT of his friend i Got soo madddd n durespected i whaked his head on BOTH sides ge gets up turns around i socked his balls Grabved My phone n bolted blocked EVERY damn platform He calks me 2 hrs later ... asks me y i did that? I was like dude u HAVE tbe Nerve ti ASK r u INSANE ??? I didnt wabt anything to DO with him but ifc he foubd EVERY excuse in the book... by then i was sik of.BEING.quiet.i exploded.on him completely about EVERYTHING !!! I was sooo tired of him then he starts accusing ME n his vrother correspinding i didnt EVEN soeak tk the brother tbe NEXT day tbe brother calks me its been a shit show wuth this MF since n this was Valenday i swear i could write a daytime emny script the BS thats happened im TIRED n all I WANT is MY sp idc about HIM even if he Proprsed to Me Rn id never marry him hes CRAZY PHYCO idont Need yo manifest trainwrecks in MY life hes NUTS !!! Htf i met HIM idont Even KNOW i just wanna manifezt NEVER meeting HIM !!! I HaTE his GUTS !!!!!
Thank you! And I am sure that universe put this video on top of my timeline on YT for a reason 😇😇.
Enjoy your evening Corri!
Wow, This is so helpful!!!!! Thank you so much!😊
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Really thank you again. Self trust is the stage where I’m in to now. 🥰
I really needed this! Thank you!
This is so lovely ❤
Amazing video 🥺🥺🥺... self-concept is most important ❤️❤️❤️
This is EXACTLY what happened to me, I had to say this, but have been regretting it because our contact stopped after I said it - I’m feeling a lot more hopeful now
Enlightening ❤
I had contact last night, and I replied this morning with my boundaries (in-line with his email) - as you mentioned it is because I can get on with life whether he is here or not. I care for him. Let’s see.
What happened?
I am at that point where I am OK no matter what is happening... It took me 5 month's to get here but the feeling is amazing. When you know how beautiful you are this fear of omg what is going to happen goes away. It is liberating state of mind. ❤️
Exactlyyyy 💖
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Thank you for this. I put up boundaries everytime he came back, Idk how many times he has come back but I could not deal with how he showed up so I feel like putting up with that is not honouring myself, that why would I put up with it if it's hurting me? Ignoring 3D feels like not honouring myself. I still have not given up on him and us, working on myself more.
I’m back to this video and today I am resonating with it. I saw this video about 3 weeks ago and I was sad afterwards, I was holding so tight to the fact that even though I was receiving crumbs, I was going to be that girl that ignored the 3d and made it. Well 2 days ago I saw something in 3D without looking and it broke my heart and I was like hell no. I chose ME. So I did exactly this told him that I wished him happiness and that I would always loved him but I am done with 3P situation. It was the hardest thing to do and is not the 1st time I’ve done it. But this time was different I didn’t fight it I was just like I know I’ve been working on myself the last 6 months. And I know he is going to be my husband. But till then I am enjoying my life and will definitely not accept his crumbs. I just wrote 3P a goodbye letter. And I actually have this feeling of I finally did it, I truly let go. What a relief 🥰😍I feel amazing 🤩 thank you for the video that made me cried last time, but today was yeap you are correct.😊
SO proud of you! Thank you for this inspiring comment! You had the opportunity to choose yourself and you did it!! That feeling of choosing you can never leave you now. Now let the magic of your life unfold 💕
Thank's Corri! Could you maybe do another clip about No Contact situations? I am working now since almost a year with this topic, no idea if I should eventually give up my manifestation or not. I had times were I accepted and felt very trustful, positive - it's not that I am exaggerated emotional - also I've softening a huge part of my limiting believes - but nothing is happen in my reality
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Love this.🌸 ❤🌸
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Ugh, this lights me up .
Maybe I feel sad because a part of me knows that I'm not 'meant to be with' her? - you know, the 'divine selection' thingy.
Keeping going is so damn painful. I don't think I can anymore, because it's bringing up everything at once about what I see as wrong with me and my life. 😔
Thank you so much dear corri mam for this wonderful video🙏❤️🦋. I really needed to hear this. I am so grateful that i found you and your helpful videos😘. Love you so much dear mam❤️🤗🧿. God bless you mam❤️🌈🌹. Love and light to you from India 🇮🇳🙏❤️🌞🌈🦋🤗🧿🌹
Love the video!!! Hmm, 2 months into no contact he did asked to meet up and he said he wanted to be friends. I thought he's being selfish as he wants me as an option plus I just felt unprepared emotionally. But he did left some chocolates at my front door and a piece of tissue paper sying "sorry, can we be friends". Tbh i felt kinda disrespected with the tissue paper. Im torn between honouring myself and wanting him back. We were in a loving relationship for 6 years. I realised i put myself pretty high so im easily triggered when things go south. Is that counts as fear or limiting beliefs?
I think the tissue paper thing may just be a reflection of your old self concept and the 3D hadn’t caught up yet. It feels triggering because it’s like “huh? don’t you realise who i am now!?” Lol.. stay focussed on how you feel about yourself, you obviously don’t need the tissues. 👑💕
Worthy statements +
Why do I feel unsure again and kind of confused now that we are in contact again and I know it didn’t work out with the other woman? I am kind of falling back to my old pattern and I was doing sooo great 😅what is that and how to fix it? I don’t want to chase again or be afraid to loose the contact again ❤thank you!
Corrie I really love this video and your honesty but I do have a question. What if there is some regret for not setting boundaries in the past with your SP and now your in silence. This made me think back and I would of set boundaries and not felt like I let him walk all over me cause deep inside I was scared to lose him at the time. I guess I wish I could of done things differently…
You only ever know what you know. You only ever do what you think is best at the time. You can forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know ❤️
It had been two months since we had talked. I wonder how is it going to unfold
How do you separate yourself when you in the same company? I really like your idea of setting boundaries, just not sure how to and how did you word it to him that you don't want to see him anymore? Also thanks Corri love your videos! 😊
I basically said something like “I can see and feel that you’re not in a place right now to really be with me the way I would want. Because I love you so much, it is really hard for me to be half in and half out. I have to be honest with myself and tell you that this situation isn’t right for me and it is making me sad. I need to set you free for now and maybe at some point we will be able to be in the right time and place. This isn’t your fault, it is just how I feel right now”. It was not blamey or making him responsible, it was just me being honest with myself with total love and respect to both of us ❤️
@@createwithcorri perfect thanks Corri 😊
Corrie, I wouldn't mind your opinion on this if you see it. My person finally reached out to me Christmas night, and it took another long and anxious month until we finally met up. He has a really avoidant personality, think ostrich with his head in the sand, and stubborn about it. We caught up twice more in February, I sent a message last Friday and he hasn't replied. Which confuses me as he messaged that he cares about me and he does things like drags the chair around the table to sit next to me rather than across from me, talks about we should do this we should get matching T-shirts, etc. It feels like the end of the road, but is this the conforming part of the process? I forget that things need to harden into fact and keep looking at success stories where the person just comes through full force, although I know others experience it where their person comes in slowly in drips and drabs. I don't know what to think.
Stop saying/thinking he has an avoidant personality first off :) …he doesn’t. It’s what you are projecting on to him. Start projecting he is loving caring and loves coming towards you. Then stop saying he is stubborn. Again, he isn’t. You are projecting that to him by saying/thinking it. Say/think/assume the opposite.
@@char6457 yes I'm working on seeing him differently. I'm revising incidences now. I guess I'm thrown because you see success stories where they come in full force, show up on your doorstep completely different whereas mine came back in as an agonising trickle and appears to have changed only in the very slightest. Wouldn't have minded a little more encouragement reflected back 😑
@@Bunyip3124 Gotta always focus on the positive and be satisfied with where its at. Trust its all working out....a trickle is better then a drought.
@@Bunyip3124 it is definitely not always like that. That’s why I did this video! ❤️ go back to self concept and feeling worthy and deserving of everything. In time all those things you want will come xx
@@createwithcorri okay thanks. It feels like it's sputtered out but it is good to see sometimes the process is a bit back and forth for some people
I was having so much urge to text him now after 18days no contact....bt hearing u i guess universe is saying me to persist..
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You can do this love!!
@@livbug5632 i feel the same ❤️ that's why i met Kim n you all😇
didi how much time it took to menifest sp?
GOd This SOUNDS like ME my phone ALWAYS sendsrhing idot want THEN im lime seriouslyyy?? THIS is embrresing mortifing etc ive had this with SOO many ppl ... THIS is what happen with ME n Sp Corri literally this PAST week i reached out to HIM about a work reccomendation .... I called HM n Then hes talking talkng tels ME hes NOT with the wife i actually didnt hear him so i had to say what He tells ME again ..... THEN he suddenly says IF u wanna b in concact b upfront etc tell ME st8t out i wassoooo SHOCKD corri i didt KNOWW what to say soo i brushed him off he suddenly got all cold corri i HEARD it in HIS voice but i couldnt bring MYSELF to tell him Yess I was sooo Scared We Have a CRAZY ass story ...but the WHOLE night i didnt Know WHAT to Do tel him not ..i kept visialuzing affirming but NOTHIG next day i called him bak about the job (excuse ) AGAIN we talked 40 min n THEN he offers ME.a job i was sooo phyced corri! THEN i by accident cdialed him i meant MY dad 🤦♀️ but i didnt realize soo the whole night i wS affirming meditating etc HE cals first THJNG in the am i was sooo happy but i was exausted n didnt answer i called him bak 2 hrs later ge didnt answer ... he calls bak BUT he blew up on ME started accusing ME imma harrwsz him AGAIN ..xalk him 50 × Times i got sooo agitated i told him NO idk wtf i didng xall u well turns out i DID ... i hung up with him told him my dads calling ill talk to u subday bam i was sooi Dissapoibted Thats what happebed i wabtwd HIM TO invite ME over etc nothing n We r neighbors Now literally from thailand bak i was married im Divorced now n Now We r neighbors his wife LEFT ... I Just WANT to see him !! BUUT no matrwr How many affs how much SC how much fantasizing living the END nothinggggg PUSHES out !!! N i swear corri i DONTVwant anyone ELSE!! IVE veen proprsed to non stop i dont WANT anyone but HIM we r not xses but since i MET him ive not gotten him outta my MIND this NEVER happened with ME with anyone !! I want Him !! But my damn sub con doesnt DO anything.to push out what i WANT !!! But he says he has nothing ronantic for ME im like fine i respect that idobt care to b intimate i just want us to b friends again tho i wont say no IF he wants to b intimate ... i Miss him soo much 5 yrs since we sopped being friends..n istill miss him 😢