HOMELESS FOR A MONTH & MY FAMILY HAS NOT CHECKED ON US| DO THEY LOVE MY KIDS?|I AM ALLISON ALANNA
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- HOMELESS FOR A MONTH & MY FAMILY HAS NOT CHECKED ON US| DO THEY LOVE MY KIDS?|I AM ALLISON ALANNA
In this video, I address a few things that my viewers have asked me about as it relates to my relatives. I also share how I plan on dealing with my reality from this moment forward. I can’t change what things have been like for me but I can definitely change who I allow to come along on my journey. Im finally ready to accept the facts and get rid of all hope when it comes to having a supporting, loving, respectful family. Instead, I’ll build it on my own with my 4 kids because they matter to me and they are the only family I have. Cheers 🥂to new beginnings and choosing myself and my peace. I wish everyone the best.
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Girl get a job in the meantime… you can wait on that other forever! You can work on all that with a 9-5. At least to get them a home. Don’t worry about the future so much. Put the dads on child support!! Just trying to help!!
My mother let me stay with her for two weeks when I came back home with two babies. She found an apartment for me and told me to figure out how to pay the rent due. I did...went to Social Services🤷🏽♀️. It was temporary help, didn't diminish my pride or drive to do what was best for my kids. Please get help, it's temporary!
Please pray for my family my second cousin passed away two hours ago in a car crash. We really need prayers please. Ty in advance
Prayers going up 😢
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have a daughter who is a single mom also. She has struggled for several years. She lived with me for two years until she got back on her own. She worked part-time until she got a full-time job. She also receives child support from her baby’s father which is required to support his child. She has rent, utilities, food and other expenses for her household. She is also working on other projects for her future but while she is doing this she has to work a regular job to keep from being overwhelmed about her bills again. Family members are willing to help but they also expect their adult children to make decisions to take care of their own family if they have assisted them in the past. I pray for you and your children and hopefully you will go get some help especially for your children while you work your projects. May God keep you and your family safe and healthy.
Everyone has their own crying game going on, including family members. Have you called your family to say hi, not can you, will you? you are in your situation because of choices you made. Change your mind and your life will change. Change the way you operate and your life will change for the better. Wishing you the best.
Why not get a regular job when your kids in school. And do your job after there out this way you'll have more income, go apply for child support & welfare
It is not your families responsibility to do anything for you. We are responsible to one another not for one another.
As much as you may not want to be in a shelter I think it’s the best option now to save money
Have you ever lived in a shelter?
@@iamallisonalanna yes I lived in a domestic violence shelter cuz of abuse , they helped me a lot and also helped me get my current job , I’m not judging you tho Allison , I’ll pray for you
Ok so then I’m sure you’re aware that shelters can get full and have waiting list. Also you have to meet their criteria, contrary to what many believe some shelters do not take women and children. U don’t just go to the shelter and get a room, it’s a process and you have to qualify to be there. A shelter isn’t a savior it’s difficult to get help from programs which is why I usually leave that as a last resort. You cannot just walk in there and get something because you need help.
That is correct, you can not just walk into a shelter and they take u in, I was homeless in New York, and I told u on the community post the procedure I had to to go thru, it’s not easy. I went to my local department of social services and was placed in a motel until I was placed in a shelter. If u truly need the help you would go, at this point what do u have to lose. Once your in the shelter, they have social workers in there to help you with your housing, also have donations of food and clothing. Once you leave the shelter, they will also help you to furnish a home. The help is out there. You just have to go and get it it’s not gonna come to you.
No girl don't listen to her I stayed in a shelter and was blessed with a 3brm home 2 car garage but it was hell on earth there I wish I would of did the hotel thing like you!!! it was a spiritual battle, drug addicts, devil kids running cussing fighting, voodoo being done, witches casting spells. D got in 3 fights, alot of identify theft if you use shelter computers. You and your kids deserves better no matter what your living situation is right now and not forever
Where are the fathers? Not one father can step in
The shelter would really help you find a place for you and the kids.... please go ❤
Something has happened in the family dynamic, many families don't get along. When it comes to children, though, perhaps they think, they're showing tough love. I don't believe in tough love when the babies pay such a heavy price. I will pray that God mend the brokenness your family is experiencing. There is never one person to blame in these toxic family situations. Allison, forgive and make sure you don't hold grudges against your family, it will all work out eventually. God will take care of everyone, I think you need your family bc that is the way its meant to be. Stick to you boundaries, but allow your parents to see their grandchildren. I really do wish you and the children the best, it breaks my heart when children suffer.
😂😂😂 that’s something I’ve been praying about since I was a kid. It’s never gonna change because they don’t want it to change. It’s a very disgusting situation with a ton of abuse, secrets, lies and cover ups. Things that should get handled get swept under the rug and I’m just ready to step away from the cycle. It’s time for me to free myself and make a path of my own.
I respect and understand, in some ways I can even relate. God is able though, at the same time nothing is too hard for him. Making your own way and setting standards for yourself and your children is also a good thing. I recognize pain when I hear it and for that I will pray for healing and we never have to discuss again. Sorry this has happened to you and the kids, Allison, no matter what I've ever said to you that has nothing to do with your beautiful children, children are always innocent.
@debj5114 I don't speak on the fathers of these children bc Idk them. There are many comments left on here about the fathers. She just said they don't have a father. Which leads me to think the fathers are not active in the children's life and I refuse to press her about that. What would you specifically have me to say about the fathers?
Homeless??? I saw one of your video as talking about your home and the washing machine man. So which is it? Are you homeless or not?
She is lying! Tax records proved she owned the property and lied about being evicted!
@gianna7286 I love who I am becoming. I really am a loaded vault because the lies and the wickedness that tries to come up against me have been at an all time high. I intimidate some people by being myself and others are attracted to that same thing. I literally get on here and just talk and it disturbs the bad energy so much that they have to spread lies to try to tarnish my character. I’m beautiful & powerful and I really am that girl 🥰
I had noticed that comment as well.
This is why I go out my way to be kind to folks. Never judgmental b/c you never know what someone is going through 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am sorry that you are going through such a tough time. I pray that you and your family , your children Are well and you are able to get baclk on your feet and sending love and prayers for you all ❤
You have an adult daughter it took you this long to figure this out. Don’t no one has to take care of your mess up
You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!
Amen.
They have fathers.....just not in their lives.
They (children) deserve to make the decision on the relationship with their fathers...YOU deserve to have the help (whether forced or not) of the fathers.
DEMAND THE SUPPORT.
You blasting your family and now they really not gonna help you
So what dhe has the right to speak her truth and they not actin like family
Pray allison seek God for everything things will work out for you
So everyone else is to blame cause you can't get your act together...after 4 kids?
She’s never the problem. Always someone or something else.
You’re clearly slow so ima let this comment slide.
I’m a long way from being slow. I took care of My kids and also had the help from their Father. Three Sons one Baby Daddy. You seem like you are the one slow. Put your grown woman draws on and be one.
So now both of y’all are slow cause I wasn’t talking to you. Share your story on your channel not mine
She’s the typical bum bish
Blessings to you 🙏🏾
Good morning how are you doing you have to understand that family can only do so much because everyone has to take care of their household I know that in most states you can get government assistance I know that you have your pride and with you being a grown woman and you have your own family maybe they think you should handle your business I'm not trying to make you feel bad but the word says faith without works are dead and with you having a public platform you are allowing people to get in your personal business I am hoping that you can get everything together so you don't have to ask people for money take care
Allison just a suggestion could the children go live with relatives or their Father so you can get proper Housing or maybe you could seek Emergency Shelter for Battered Women with Children just following your videos Door Dash is not enough, do you not qualify for Day Care Assistance so you can work a Full Time Job I hope things get Better for you and your Children or can your Older child help you this is so Heartbreaking
She's not comfortable with other people watching her kids, so sending them to absent relatives and fathers will Im pretty sure be a NO.
So Heartbreaking
Is she a battered woman? I didn't see her state that.
@@Czipporah no she never said she was Battered but I know here in Oklahoma they have Emergency Shelters for women with Children
@@nosiphoradebe6297you sound slow
Allison Thank- you for sharing your story. You are going to have this to look back on when God places you where you were meant to be. Your story is not uncommon with dysfunctional families. I have had to remove and set boundaries myself. Also if they are not good to you then they won’t be good to your children. Take gently care and God continue to strengthen you ❤❤❤❤❤
The son will not bear the punishment for the sin of the father, nor will the father bear the punishment for the sin of the son; the righteousness of the righteous shall be on himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be on himself. Ezekiel 18:19-23
No curses ,just our personal sins causes bondage.
I don't know whether or not you're homeless or not ???? But there's a lot of assistance to get housing.HUD has programs as well as Habitat for humanity. They build homes for families in need.There should be one near you.
Social Services provided paid Motel stay and gives emergency food stamps.
Walmart hires overnight and there's lots of businesses hiring at the moment.Most businesses are suffering from shortages of workers.
I don't know you' re family.Just there's two sides to every story.
My opinion is your first step should be securing a safe secure stable home for your family should be at the top of your list of priorities. As well as a legitimate employment while growing your channel and then when it grows to a certain plateau then use it as a viable employment that's how others do it. You' re putting the cart before the horse it seems.
Those white man fairy tales help no one in real life
God has removed everyone out of your life, including family for you to know that he's the only one that you needs, He sees you. He's just waiting on you to give him all of your undivided time. He wants you to focus on him and him only and I know it is hard for you to see it now, but that's exactly what he's waiting on. He's waiting on you for you to know that he can give you all the desires to your heart. Like I said before, just open up that Bible and constantly read on his guide to life which is the Bible. Allison, trust God he's the only one that can pull you through what you are going through. God bless you and your children. May God continue giving you the strength that you need to survive in this world.
Maybe it was the other way around
It’s risky getting on here declaring homelessness….your children are in school and someone could call CPS. Praying for your situation 😢
Allison, I don’t know what to say, I am sorry you are in this position 😢
Allison you are going to be just fine I can see it and hear it in your determination I will keep watching your videos and shorts I believe in you Sis stay hugged up with them beautiful babies you guys are so blessed already what your going through is in the bible try to get involved with a ministry they should be able to help you love you too c u later gater 🌻
You mean everyone in your family won't help? How can people be so heartless. It's going to be winter soon and those children need a safe shelter. It's just hard to believe that NO one can help, but I don't know you or your family so I can't judge. There is no need to drag those poor children around all night in your vehicle, I pray you get it together soon. I'm supporting you by watching your channel and am a subscriber. From that point that's all I can do.
Y’all blaming everyone but this bum bish
I can relate "Allison " as soon as you don't entertain you become the outcast of the family. I encourage you to continue with Jesus ❤❤ "HE won't fail you. HE'S kept me from youth upto and will continue. May The Lord bless you and your family 😊I been solo since my grandma's passing, im ok. Making better for my children and grandchildren. 😊
Take your kids fathers to court and get child support, they should be helping you take care of them.
It’s not their job to keep a roof over her head. She’s obviously an unfit mother and the father’s need to get custody
@@WeOttaBabyItsABoyfacts
I’m the father of the kids I have been trying to reach out to her but she refuses to except my help I love my kids but she doesn’t want me to be in their lives
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All sorts of shit changed w/ u/ background/ lighting/ scenery/recording/ door mysteriously looks like it's open/ closing etc, by itself, to avoid being seen but phone died? just from phone dying?
I am hurt for you and especially your children. I don't know what I can do to substantially assist you.😢
Maybe tell her to get government assistance. It’s available and she chooses not to do anything but what she chooses. If it’s not being given money then she doesn’t want to do it. Nothing that requires actual work.
I'm in a similar situation. My ex left the country and expects me to raise our 5 kids alone. He knows I don't have family here. His mom lives about 10 miles from me. She don't check on her grandbabies. She rarely sees them. I often wonder, do they(as in his family) care? I don't get along with them but still, what about the kids? Why not try to be there since her son ain't around? When people cut your kids off because they're feeling some type of way, is just plain foul. They're petty and honestly my kids are better off without them. It hurts me to know my children are being treated this way by their own blood. They have nothing to do with whatever feud happened.
It's not that they dont want to be around your kids, they just dont want to be around YOU thats all. Maybe arrange a visit WITHOUT you involved. Let the kids call or text their grandparents for a ride to their house so they can visit for a few hours, problem solved.
It’s your decision to have kids. Your body your choice. Not you family’s responsibility
You'll make it keep the faith
I would be more then happy to send you some diapers. Ill need a address to send them too. I dont have cashapp or any of the other things you have.
I offer to send you some diapers and you totally ignore my comment. I'll move on
Your nails look nice❤
They’re dirty
Pray over lavender and rub it on you head are any body part.
All sorts of shit changed w/ u/ background/ lighting/ scenery/recording/ door mysteriously looks like it's open/ closing etc, by itself, to avoid being seen but phone died? just from phone dying?
You want it to be more than what it is so bad that you have begun to hallucinate. 😂😂😂 chill babes, it’s way more important stuff to be worried about than the lighting and If someone opened my door. I’m in my 30s I don’t have to hide anything from anyone