Granger Smith’s advice on dealing with miscarriage & loosing faith in God

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @beckiepatrick6900
    @beckiepatrick6900 Год назад +14

    Wow Granger. Another great podcast. You have definitely found your purpose. Sharing God’s word and helping others find their way to the Lord. Beautiful to listen to. Thank you for all that you do. 🙏

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  • @mariaesparza7733
    @mariaesparza7733 Год назад +7

    Granger Smith, I absolutely love your Passion for Jesus, and God's Word! I look forward to your podcast every single Monday! I pray you continue sharing His Truth! We all need this, I know I do! Thank you, and may God continue to bless you and your family! 🙏🕊💜

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    • @Kittisak280
      @Kittisak280 Год назад

      Thank you for your underlying love and dedicated support, your nice words and comments are treasures to me. Text me right now 📲

  • @tombehrens8441
    @tombehrens8441 Год назад +3

    We saw granger last night. He was awesome as usual. He brought our son up on the stage dressed as earl

  • @CCRider5312
    @CCRider5312 Год назад +1

    Granger This one hit home for me, I lost my son and his fiancé in a single car crash where he hydroplaned in the rain & his car left the road in 2016. Then I lost my Dad 5 months later the same year. So I got a double whammy to bear just like you had to deal with. So I’ve been on the same roller coaster ride of Emotions as you have with River and your Dad. No one ever expects to lose their child or bury their child he was supposed to bury me I screamed for several years! No one ever expects or wants to get that phone call from the Highway Patrol telling you that kinda news. But I know my son was saved by the grace of God & so was my dad! Because my dad was a Baptist minister for 50+ years so I know where they’re both at together now. But my son was 31 had never been married and my other son his brother had already gotten married and had 2 wonderful kids my grandchildren. My son so wanted to be married and have kids of his own like his brother. So I questioned God Myself why he didn’t let him live and have what he desired most, a family. I struggled With that the longest time, several years! I cried I had nightmares I went through depression and emotions just as you and Amber! But I’m a man of faith myself so I had to come to terms with HE’S HOME !!!! Just like you told the man who didn’t get to marry the girl he talked to on the phone.... So after a couple of years of struggling and crying and a roller coaster of emotions it hit me 🤯 like a ton of Bricks when God revealed it to me!!!!!!! He opened my hearts eye, because my son did marry her and him and her had the most marvelous marriage anyone could ever have or could’ve dreamed of !!!!!!! They had a Romeo and Juliet wedding kinda in a way, let me explain. Here’s what answered my question to God: God Why didn’t you let Dustin get married and have the marriage and family he yearned for ? God revealed it to me it was in plain sight! Plain sight from the phone call from the highway patrolman. 😮 My Sons car left the road 3 miles from my house where he had Rented a place & he was 400 yards from Home when the car left the highway. Which made me always think in the beginning Until God revealed To me, Dang it he was almost home!!!! So lord why didn’t you let him get home and why didn’t you let him get married and have his happy marriage and family? ......But what God said was the phone call they Came into Heaven as husband and wife and gained an enormous family. I said The phone call ?????? Then I replayed The Same phone call from the patrolman that I had replayed 1 Million times in my mind! The phone call that was the most shocking but yet the most revealing phone call I’ve ever gotten in my life to date!
    The patrolman said Mr ****** I’m sorry but if it makes it any easier I think your son died instantly. That was the phone call lord but that tells me nothing! Then i begin to think Well I was so shook up & broken I had to ask the patrolman could I call him another time? He said sure. So a few days after I went to the morgue and identified the body and lost part of my soul it felt like in that cold room! Then later when I’m numb as a zombie, I called him back. A second phone call. The patrolman said his sports car left the road and jumped off an embankment and cut the top outta 2 trees and was lodged stuck in the top of the 3rd tree 30 feet off the ground. He said I borrowed a 40 foot extension ladder from the nearby farmer. He said I could not get to the driver side because of the tree but I put the ladder up on the car on the passenger side. He said I looked in the window your son’s fiancé was in her seat on the passenger side buckled in and your son was in the passenger seat with her. He said your son and her had their arms wrapped around each other and they was both deceased fully embraced. They had to get a crane to have the car taken out of the tree. So from the patrolman’s recollections of being the only patrolman on the scene and it was his investigation because it was the first one showed up. But from his words to me God revealed to me that they died in 3 trees Jesus also died at 3 trees & was sold out for 30 pieces of silver 😮! Also when my son and his girlfriend died he took them together, in this 3rd Tree and Jesus saved the man beside him on the 3rd cross, So Jesus gave them a heavenly wedding walking them into heaven together to a heavenly banquet ! I fell apart to shambles again brother but it quickly turned into tears of joy, hallelujah 🙏🏻! The patrolman didn’t call me until the scene was clear and because my phone info was in my son’s wallet. Thank God I didn’t go to the scene because the morgue was bad enough after they had cleaned him up a lot. He didn’t get cut up a lot but had internal injuries and skull fractures is what he died from but. What the patrolman told me initially on the first call wasn’t true he only told me that to comfort me. He didn’t die instantly he lived long enough to take his seat belt off crawl over a straight gear shifter and and console to get in the seat with her and hold her as she was dying too and they went together!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just Like Romeo and Juliet in that story. So they died together and walked into Heaven together and I believe in my heart the Lord met them and escorted them in!
    So like you said there’s a testament and a purpose God has for everything!
    God Bless you Granger and Amber and I pray that the lord keeps comforting your heart more! But most of all we need to use our son’s Deaths to glorify the lord who has purpose in all he does and allows to take place! Pray for me and I’ll continue to pray for you! CC Rider

  • @cadenkorzan
    @cadenkorzan Год назад +3

    I don't remember where I saw this quote from someone, but being that time was mentioned a little in this podcast, thought it would be something interesting to share and it went something like this, "Time doesn't solve your problems, it teaches you how to deal with them".

  • @meganleman7726
    @meganleman7726 Год назад +1

    I lost my mom 15 years ago. I totally understand the loss.

  • @janconnolly6987
    @janconnolly6987 Год назад +6

    Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us. Wishing you a blessed week.♥

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  • @cindydowning5600
    @cindydowning5600 Год назад +5

    Good episode and I’m praying for all of you that are hurting. I’ve gone through something similar that I thought would kill me. God has always been so good to me and my family. Keep seeking Him

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  • @mariebarry6012
    @mariebarry6012 Год назад +7

    Its never easy dealing with a loss of family member, fur baby family member, let alone a child. Faith is the strongest peace of mind, its not easy to keep st times we all have been there, but the more you keep the faith you will feel the warmth of your Faith return. ❤❤

    • @Kittisak280
      @Kittisak280 Год назад

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  • @lindabrown6001
    @lindabrown6001 Год назад +3

    Wow that last paragraph was spellbinding! thank you so much !

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  • @lajanicesanderson58
    @lajanicesanderson58 Год назад +5

    Absolutely loved the podcast as it hit on every subject that I have had some questions about in months past and currently. The only thing I've never had to face is losing a child in any way. That I think would be a test I'd fail. But, then again like you said nothing is ever an accident. Thanks Granger for the insight God gives you in answering the questions that you are sent. May God Bless you and your beautiful family on these upcoming Holidays. Thanks again Granger for the guidance that you share through God using you as an ambassador for his word! I have know him as my personal savior since I was a very young child. Haven't always made the best choices in life but have never turned my back on God. He is my forever "I Am" God Bless 🙏✝️ I'm never alone because he is with me always 💖✝️

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  • @wendyraymond1751
    @wendyraymond1751 Год назад +1

    Always love being here thanku so much Granger much love an God bless always x

  • @thomascaldwell463
    @thomascaldwell463 Год назад +2

    Faith without works is dead. Another great episode! Yee Yee

  • @vinnypinatelli221
    @vinnypinatelli221 Год назад +1

    Perfect! December 15th is my birthday!! Can't wait for the movie!

  • @kellystaiger6238
    @kellystaiger6238 Год назад +1

    Wow perfect timing. You explaining grief on the last question. Month 6 with losing my dada. Thank you for always sharing because it does make you not feel alone. Great episode ~ Kelly

  • @lulahawkins6271
    @lulahawkins6271 Год назад +2

    Thank you and God Bless

  • @debragilmore1314
    @debragilmore1314 Год назад

    Psalms 39:4-5 tells us that God knows the number of our days on this earth, so this young lady accomplished her purpose here, God wasn't surprised. My son died unexpectedly at 38, leaving a 2 year old little girl. I trust and I know God is sovereign we grieve but if we are believers we have the hope of seeing them again.

  • @karrieburnside4294
    @karrieburnside4294 Год назад +2

    Love listening to these on iHeart Radio ❤

    • @Kittisak280
      @Kittisak280 Год назад

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  • @mrbakerskatz
    @mrbakerskatz Год назад +2

    Love you too Granger !

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  • @JennDios
    @JennDios Год назад +3

    Great podcast, love you so much G. ❤️

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  • @fjb4863
    @fjb4863 Год назад +2

    Sorry to hear that hope everything's get better but we both know it won't you just have to work through it and support each other through the pain. Yeah one of my girls had a miscarriage but she purposely did it it was not a miscarriage she was punching her self in the stomach. After watching that movie Elvis every time I hear something like this I always think the next child they have the heart of two children and the spirit of two.

  • @carlszydlowski9828
    @carlszydlowski9828 Год назад +3

    God grew my faith back in December 2009-2010. My late wife who was a juvenile onset diabetic was on life support. He gave me a dream (2x that night) where Linda told me she needed my permission to go with Jesus. I had a dream in parable form and other dreams. I give credit to God in my faith growth

    • @carlszydlowski9828
      @carlszydlowski9828 Год назад

      Ps. In the CCC unit she came down with 100% staff pneumonia. Last 4.5 weeks she was on a respirator, stomach tube & coma. I’m glad where she is but miss her company. We was married 28 years, 2 months & approximately 3 weeks.

    • @beckiepatrick6900
      @beckiepatrick6900 Год назад +1

      Wow 28 years, 2 months and 3 weeks is something to be proud of. What a wonderful love affair 💕

    • @carlszydlowski9828
      @carlszydlowski9828 Год назад

      Plus Becky I get to be with her again someday too

  • @sherrylee1072
    @sherrylee1072 Год назад +2

    He’s a on time God oh yes He is!!

  • @charliec9209
    @charliec9209 Год назад +1

    Would be wonderful if you can get this on Sirus radio and start answering callers! Just a thought 😁

  • @MLopez836
    @MLopez836 Год назад +1

    I feel that god does not cause the horrible ways people go home to him but he allows it and works the pain out for his glory

  • @bowed305
    @bowed305 Год назад +1

    For the email from Chad, I agree with everything Granger said except for one point. Granger said this woman wasn’t the love of Chad’s life and that God is using this loss to help prepare Chad for the actual love of his life. She may have been the love of Chad’s life, and it’s possible that Chad will never love someone that way again and will remain single for the rest of his life, and if so, that is 100% okay. We can be happy and fulfilled in this life in God’s service and be single. Being single isn’t a curse or punishment. The apostle Paul was single, and look at all of the great things he did for God in his life. I do hope that Chad can love again, but if that doesn’t happen, I hope he will use all that he’ll learn from this tragedy to be a better servant for God, whether he does that as a single man or with a future wife.

  • @domination1985
    @domination1985 Год назад +2

    Also we have a friend who is due in January. They are both torn up because the docs found out the baby is missing most of his heart and will be severely deformed and also has heart disease and a brain disorder so they gave him 3 days to live after he's born if that they don't even think he will really make it through birth. So they are both handling it differently the dad just can't believe nothing is wrong with him. But that is hurting her because he isn't there for her then.

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  • @domination1985
    @domination1985 Год назад +2

    My ex and I had 5 miscarriages and a stillborn they all hurt. But she was at 8 months along doing great. Till we noticed she hadn't moved in a day. So we went to the er where they told us she was gone and we would have to deliver her in Joplin. Worst 24 hours of my life I blamed God for taking my baby. The Chaplin told us it was because God needed a new angel and only babies can be made into them because they have done no wrong.

    • @armymikeymike
      @armymikeymike Год назад

      Man I am so sorry to hear that. So sorry.

  • @shayperry1631
    @shayperry1631 Год назад +2

    No parent should ever have to bury their child, so sad.

  • @bowed305
    @bowed305 Год назад +2

    Something that jumped out at me from the first email. She ended it by apologizing to Granger for bothering him. I think Granger hit the nail on the head on this one when he said this sounds like someone who has gotten stuck in self-pity mode. I hope she takes his advice. I think it’s her only hope.

    • @beckiepatrick6900
      @beckiepatrick6900 Год назад +1

      I noticed that too. How awful though, to feel like a bother to people. I hope she takes his advice too.

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 Год назад

      @@beckiepatrick6900 Yes, doesn't make sense to go out of your way to write an email to someone asking for advice and then end it by apologizing for being a bother. This sounds like someone with low self-esteem and/or in a state of depression. Multiple health issues can do that. Maybe today is the day that things start to get better. If only she'll take the steps to allow God to do that for her.

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 Год назад

      @@Kittisak280 Not a real Granger fan, or you wouldn’t be doing what you’re doing. Please stop using his image, and please stop bothering his real fans.

  • @mybabbyboy
    @mybabbyboy Год назад +1

    Cool bro it's ok ,man I love it,

  • @schnable3461
    @schnable3461 Год назад +1

    Listen anonymous 14, it might hurt but she might not be interested. Hold strong there I someone out there for you trust God and wait for the right one bud. Hang in there.

  • @susantaylor2533
    @susantaylor2533 Год назад +3

    Great podcast but you spelled "Losing" wrong

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 Год назад +2

      Good catch. While we certainly never want to lose our faith, we don’t really want to loosen it either. I’m guessing most of us need to tighten up our faith.

  • @ThePeninsulaRailfan
    @ThePeninsulaRailfan Год назад

    Imagine posting the GMC

  • @theresa8956
    @theresa8956 Год назад

    I’ve been in Texas for 2 years and no friends…..

  • @brannonbryant1307
    @brannonbryant1307 Год назад

    What is the status on the truck

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    it was wrong na far and now sleepy ok see you tomorrow morning ok ok thank you so much yeeyee ok

  • @dragonsofthesky7459
    @dragonsofthesky7459 Год назад +1

    Not saying you don't, but... if you [any man] don't take a miscarriage bad as well, that's kinda messed up. That's your child. That child is no longer alive and has no chance at life. As a man, it absolutely destroyed me, still does to this day. So, not sure why you described it that way. Not sure why it wouldn't get you down to that level, but I wouldn't speak for all men, especially on a sensitive subject like that.
    I love you G, but I'm just giving you tough love as well. I have been trying for many years to have kids, I finally was going to and that child was taken to Heaven. The worst thing that has happened to me in my life hands down and I've had a pretty rough life, to put it lightly, so yeah trust me bro, I think it's very normal to have a man take that very badly as well.

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    What's good is speaking in Indonesian and translating Indonesian so that I can connect, it's personal and I'm also being helped with the translation so I don't think for a long time and it's better if I speak English, answer okay, thank you

  • @jennifergraham5349
    @jennifergraham5349 Год назад +1

    ❤🙏🏻

  • @theresa8956
    @theresa8956 Год назад

    I’m all for test driving the engine before You buy it. 😉

  • @rachellegordon2048
    @rachellegordon2048 Год назад

    Have ever got trainer for two types of company for what it is i want email back for thid next birthday gift so watch tv and wrote u but i sorry saturn rounder so choice of changes

  • @theresa8956
    @theresa8956 Год назад +1

    So you are telling me, that my late
    Fiancé wasn’t the love of my life????😮😮😮😮

  • @kennethsmith9465
    @kennethsmith9465 Год назад

    Grainger, have you ever or do you ever text folks who comment on your platforms? I received a text that was allegedly from you but I am having doubts it was really you. Can you verify this for me?

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 Год назад

      Here’s a question that might help with that. Have you ever given Granger your number so he can text you? If not, then it’s most probably from one of these scam Granger accounts that we see on here.

    • @kennethsmith9465
      @kennethsmith9465 Год назад

      @@bowed305 well I made a comment on one of his RUclips sermon videos and there was a reply that said "Let's chat" with a phone number. So I texted the number and was receiving replies to the text. After giving it some thought I began to doubt it was actually Grainger replying.

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 Год назад +1

      @@kennethsmith9465 Ah, okay, now I understand. Unfortunately, those responses to comments on here that look like they’re from Granger asking people to text or contact him through WhatsApp are scammers. They’re not really from Granger. I’d block them and make sure you don’t share any personal info with them, especially anything financial.

    • @kennethsmith9465
      @kennethsmith9465 Год назад

      @@bowed305 I figured. Thanks sir.

  • @rachellegordon2048
    @rachellegordon2048 Год назад

    It navy seal marines i thought of rights so i thought on the letter ypu sent to me on white blue form after i email back so clean clother and blankets is bad kaylee and aaron i want say sorry on government where u stay out but the 1876 is great but it driver back forward plan on when it craftimg item so i think u need call estrella and jose after all but u dont know how much cleaner we can take so glade is awesome after all

  • @slotvideos1037
    @slotvideos1037 Год назад

    *losing

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    I'm sleepy, yeah, honey, thank you so much, see you tomorrow morning, yeah, honey, thank you so much

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    There in the morning here at night I'm sleepy yeah honey thank you so much I went to bed now I'm sleepy I'll see you tomorrow morning yeah honey thank you so much okay

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    YEAH already Poko I'm going to pick up I don't want Poko yeeyee I'll pick it up seriously first I made an appointment to pick up now it's ready why don't you want to pick up yeah It's okay I'll explain 😂❤

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    Yee Yee I'm an Indonesian, actually I don't understand just a little bit what I talked to yeeyee just a little bit ok I want to marry yay

  • @nenengmaryati9641
    @nenengmaryati9641 Год назад

    Yee Yee, I'm far away, the address is also afraid to get lost, I'm a woman, I'm just alone, it's very, very imposible, yeah, honey, thank you so much, okay, honey, I want to pick you up first.❤😂