Sista, your platform is so important in these current "crazy" times. Unfortunately many of these sad lessons would not be learned and more deaths are upcoming 😢!
And then when you say they do it for men they be like "I did this because I wanted to get a BBL"and this is the stance that all women will publicly co-sign. And I get it, both things can be true depending on who the woman is, right? But more women need to acknowledge that yes, plenty of women do go above and beyond for beauty solely to appear more attractive to a certain caliber of man who they think will find body-done women attractive ie; men with money. And they also need to acknowledge that yes there are women who do this purely off of influence of other women It's been this way forever, particularly in European culture.
Exactly. I'm always confused when I see these videos and the woman or women are not even black but biracial or somehow identify withe black culture. There is a difference between black and biracial people.
She is on her dads side. If megan markle was black to so many black women after she married that whyt man. The woman who is being talked on this vid is blk too. Hell rosa parks wasn't "fully blk" but hey...
Plastic surgery wasn't even a thing for bw till after 2010 really .Till the late 90's , early 2000's bw weren't going under the knife like that .As a matter of fact , till the mid 90's you needed a microscope to spot a morbidly obese bw. All the negativity in bw's beauty you see today happened in an extremely short time .Don't even make me go to the 80's , 70's and 60's .The average sister back then was not only natural but top model looking. I know what happened in bw's collective mind but I'll stay respectful. This is sad .
@@blackexcellence4166 The issue as a black man, i have heard countless times in 40 years, the statement: " We not trying to look good for men." The weave, the eye lashes, the BBLs the lip fillers, the Breast implants... its not for us, brothers. they wear the straighten hair to either fit in with western non black society or to stunt on another black sista. They trying to impress other girls. Many of the clothes they wear are not for us. Its for them. To make her feel accomplished To make her feel good To stunt on other girls To get compliments from other women But they not dressing for us or adorning themselves for us. The issue there are three types of female archetypes men love. 1. The Breast man 2. The booty lover 3. The slim goodie man We as men usually fall into one of these categories. But we see women who will like in all three. But depending on the man, One woman will be for marriage and the other two is purely for sex. women know this. Women do everything that dont matter instead of what men want... When a woman says we getting BBLs because men perfer big butts, instead of going to gym an doing squats and core work outs because we like women with a slim waiste. i say to those women, men love submissive women are soft and sweet and feminine....i dont see women in droves working to be submissive girlfriends and lovers to men, because men like it?
You took the words right out of my mouth. How did BW buy into this, I no longer care what BM think of me mindset? Health is an illusion perspective, high blood pressure and diabetes is part of the Matrix, we are not fat, we are BBW's. Just having fun. lol😁
@@blackexcellence4166 Yep think about the real shape of women like Thelma from Good Times. She didn't have a big butt or breast but she had a slamming face and elegant slim figure. Pretty faces used to be in back in the day whether you were dark or light like Alliyah. Black women didn't want a big butt until after Nellys Tip Drill video came out.
I think you're talking about the "Law of equivelant exchange" In order to obatain or experience something, one must give up or be willing to sacrifice something of equal value. Money for time, beauty for pain, life for death... Pablo Picasso said “EVERY ACT OF CREATION BEGINS WITH AN ACT OF DESTRUCTION”.
She was a whole biracial woman. Stop giving your identity away simply because of a racist 1 drop rule. We all know she looked nothing like a black woman nor her black daddy. Delusion is a choice at this point.
There's a point where you just get old. There's nothing wrong with it. You're not going to look 18 forever. It's how you move going forward that will define you.
Being social creatures they tend to follow the river instead of traveling with it in the same direction until you find your exit. New, shiny, and flashy wins the majority of the time.
13:39 this part, this part right here, this is making me reflect on all the times my wife has asked me to wear things that I find either uncomfortable, or mildly, painful. We've come a long way when it comes to this stuff, but it I originally thought it was one of those things where the man's suffering/emotions are sub servant to her (the wife's) wants/needs. I never thought of how it's socialized for women to _suffer_ for their beauty, and how she's projecting that onto me🤔 Thank you my naija sistah.
9:58 When someone has been praised her/his entire life for fitting into the so called “standard of beauty”, it’s extremely hard to let it go. There are some privileges that come with above average beauty, and she probably felt the need to recover her pre pregnancy body. 10:44 Most men “prefer” that their wife’s fits the standard of beauty. However, that the standard depends on the man’s sociocultural background. That’s why physical beauty is so coveted.
🗣 We really need to normalize loving real women who are naturally built like real women. While I agree with 95.5% of the things that KS preached the 1 place that we differ is a woman's 👗 dress size / weight has never been a stumbling block in me finding her attractive.....Actually to be totally honest I love dark-skinned bbw's who are built like 🚘 a Cadillac equipped with headlights and a nice rear end 🤷🏾♂️
Agreed….plus he put that overweight thing on black women …I think there just as many if not more fat white women…it’s mainly a class thing …middle class women in both communities will tend to be more weight conscious …
As a 40-year-old black married man, I am curious about where this pressure for surgery is coming from. I definitely think that men in society want women to be fit, but I don't see an outcry of men who demand that women get surgery. Or they will not date them because they don't have a BBL. I'm sure that women with the surgeries probably get more attention but 6 ft 4 athletes also get more attention. Just because he's tall and strong and handsome doesn't mean a woman won't date me. I would think that if a woman has a ridiculous body yes men will ogle at her. But that does not mean they won't like you too.
In my experience, all Black men require absolute perfection from Darker Skinned Black women(I'm a darker skinned Black woman, so...) Noone wants to be a consolation prize...settled "for" I'm not sure why she put the white woman in the thumbnail...
@@dnycebushton5008 I don't know if it is perfection but I agree with you that darker skinned black women are held to a ridiculous standards. If she is white, Asian, or Latina just being average is considered "hot". Case in point a dark skinned black woman with Taylor Swift's body would not be attractive to black men. All that being said, I still don't think men in general are pushing for BBLs. And men of means who aren't athletes, rappers, or scammers don't really prefer the huge butt look.
@@dnycebushton5008You can't say in your experience what ALL men require. I've never dated you. I'm a man so you can't speak forball men. I have a weakness for dark skinned women and I've never required them to be perfect.
It's not attractive to me. I can't understand who would fond it attractive or who would see someone get it and say they want to get it too. Jada Pinkett, Vivica Foxx and a bunch of others look like muppets to me. I think it's a status symbol though. I remember my first job. I worked for an older white lady and she went on vacation and came back with the muppet face. She looked weird. No matter what you do, you can't turn back the hands of time.
The only thing is, how did the women of the 70’s do it? Moreover, are we saying black women should just not be beautiful and fit, and black man should just be ok with these new black women? I will agree, most woman have a short span of beauty, but please start going to the gym, eat more salad and green veg. It’s the lifestyle!
I totally agree with you. There was a time when surgery was not even an option for most Black women and yet, they were still able to achieve “the look”.
I think alot of them are trying to catch up with the Kim Kardashians. I remember back in the 80's and 90's it was enough to have a cute face even though you were slim like Aaliyah, now you have to have the big butt to go with it. It's just lust and greed.
The moment my bf said if I wore flats we could walk faster-off with the heels😂😂😂. He said he loved my natural hair-no more braids-then he said I was naturally beautiful-only lip gloss😊. Now if we part ways I’m staying this way. I love it. I needed someone to love me as I was to let the extras go. Maybe you don’t need that but just reassurance that you’re enough. I’m telling YOU-“You’re enough!” Sending you love❤❤❤!
All women are beautiful, but the stride for perfection is a killer, and flaws on a person are ideal it separates a person from one another. Sad to hear of her death.
This is so sad, I feel bad for her children, bw need to love & accept their bodies, there's no such thing as a perfect body. We all have something about ourselves that we don't like or can be changed or tone!!
Black women are not the largest participants of plastic surgery in comparison to other races of women. Women are not undergoing these surges without the heavy influence of men. Men are encouraging,promoting, and selecting women that have undergone surgery. Men by their own admission are overly visual; men will compare a surgically enhanced body against a natural body and uplift the enhanced body! Women have to regain their power and stop making every decision based off what you think will get the most male attention!
This is the part that I struggle to understand. A woman spends thousands of dollars--in addition to facing all kinds of surgery complications--to have a surgical procedure that involves placing in her body something that was never there--something that is fake. We're not talking about a NECESSARY cosmetic surgery after, for example, an accident or some type of birth defect. No, we're talking about [altering] the body out of vanity. It does reflect the woman's state of mind. The irony is that everybody knows that it is fake including herself. There are people who, out of necessity, wear false teeth, but they don't receive complement about their teeth because everybody know the teeth are fake. Fake looks just what it is...fake! And that goes with any other part of the body that is not natural. So how much self-delusion goes into telling yourself that your fake breasts, for example, are real and not fake? That becomes, it seems to me, an unresolved dichotomy within your own head. One side of your brain is conscious that those things are fake, but the other side is telling you to accept it as if was real. If you children look like you, they look like the real you and not the fake you. This is the effect of mind conditioning by a society that set up a bias and arbitrary beauty standard. Have many women dissatisfied because they don't fit the artificially and arbitrary created standard. And, of course, out of this dissatisfaction, a billion of dollars industry is born, in which a huge flock of butchers are making themselves super rich.
I honestly do not feel bad... Elective plastic surgeries are not necessary... When you go under anesthesia you may not come back... And I'm sure you sign an agreement and understand the associated complications that may result in acute/chronic complications and death.
Been married 30 years and to answer your question, yes REAL MEN (HUSBANDS) do have standards for their wives. Even after 30 years of marriage and having children. Of course they do have to look like supermodels, but i think that most married men would agree that we want our wives to remain as fit as possible. I also feel that there is nothing wrong with that because wives have expectations of their husbands. We are not aloud to just quit earning money to provide for our families, nor should we take that approach. It comes down to honoring and respecting each other wishes/desires.
I blame Reality TV and Social Media for the standards on what they BASE BEAUTIFUL.. If you don't have a big breast.. Big behind..Long hair down your back.. Long eyelashes. If you ain't slim you are not DESIRABLE OR BEAUTIFUL AND MEN AREN'T GOING TO WANT YOU. The SAD part about it is that these be NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL FEMALES without all that that fall for that BS.. Ladies LEARN TO LOVE THE SKIN YOU ARE IN..THEN OTHERS WILL TOO❤
Beauty of Our Israelite Women Proverbs 3:[31] Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways. COMMENT: Israelite sisters! It is high time that you awake out of sleep. The sleep that God is speaking about is sin. So, being awake is to be in righteousness, which is God’s laws(Deut. 6:25). 1Corinthians 15: [34] Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame. Romans 13:[11] And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed. [12] The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light. [13] Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ COMMENT: Everything that is honorable in the other races of women, they got it from Israel. Our women have forgotten our laws and have not understood the beauty that comes from a black God. 1 Corinthians 7:[31] And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away. COMMENT: The European women's standard of beauty is fading away, especially when Christ Jesus(The black Messiah) returns showing his pure wooly hair, just like his father. John 14: [9] Jesus saith unto him, Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me, Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest thou then, Show us the Father? (Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 2) Daniel 7: [9] I beheld till the thrones were cast down, and the Ancient of days did sit, whose garment was white as snow, and the hair of his head like the pure wool: his throne was like the fiery flame, and his wheels as burning fire. Ezekiel 16:[14] And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Wisdom of Solomon 13:[3] With whose beauty if they being delighted took them to be gods; let them know how much better the Lord of them is: for the first author of beauty hath created them. [4] But if they were astonished at their power and virtue, let them understand by them, how much mightier he is that made them. [5] For by the greatness and beauty of the creatures proportionably the maker of them is seen. COMMENT: The heathen saw the Israelite men to be gods. Having seen the Israelite men, the heathen could only imagine the power and beauty of the Israelite God. Now, the Israelite men are in the image of their God. The Israelite women are in the image of their men, from which they have their beauty. This is proven in the next verse. 1 Corinthians 11: [7] For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ COMMENT: I will further show you some examples of the beauty of our black sisters. Judith 10:[7] And when they saw her, that her countenance was altered, and her apparel was changed, they wondered at her beauty very greatly, and said unto her. (Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 3) Judith 10:[14] Now when the men heard her words, and beheld her countenance, they wondered greatly at her beauty, and said unto her, Judith 10:[19] And they wondered at her beauty, and admired the children of Israel because of her, and every one said to his neighbour, Who would despise this people, that have among them such women? surely it is not good that one man of them be left who being let go might deceive the whole earth. COMMENT: Our women were so beautiful, at one time, that the heathen considered killing the Israelite men in order to have our women to themselves. They thought to this degree of evil because our women could “deceive the whole earth”. Also, here is another example of our beautiful sister Susanna. Susanna 1: [31] Now Susanna was a very delicate woman, and beauteous to behold. [32] And these wicked men commanded to uncover her face, (for she was covered) that they might be filled with her beauty. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ COMMENT: Our women were decked with the most costly array of clothing because the men were dressed in royal apparel. The next scripture speaks of God dressing the men. When the Israelite men were ruling the earth, our women lived lavishly. Ezekiel 16: [10] I clothed thee also with broidered work, and shod thee with badgers' skin, and I girded thee about with fine linen, and I covered thee with silk. [11] I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck. [12] And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head. [13] Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom. (Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 4) COMMENT: We treated our women very delicately. This is seen from a curse spoken in Deuteronomy. Deuteronomy 28: [56] The tender and delicate woman among you, which would not adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground for delicateness and tenderness, her eye shall be evil toward the husband of her bosom, and toward her son, and toward her daughter, COMMENT: We had our women carried by heathen slaves. Yet now, because of sin, our women shall hate their husbands and children, as thus saith the Lord. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Jeremiah 8:[21] For the hurt of the daughter of my people am I hurt; I am black; astonishment hath taken hold on me. [22] Is there no balm in Gilead; is there no physician there? why then is not the health of the daughter of my people recovered? COMMENT: Jeremiah was seeing, in the Spirit of the Last Days, the condition of his Israelite(black, hispanic, native amer.) sisters. Therefore, he is weeping at the destruction of their minds caused by Feminism/White Supremacy.
While I appreciate the conversation, I cannot vibe with the idea that mixed women are being held as examples of black women, by actual black women. Doja Cat, Jackie O, Cardi B, Tia & Tamera - all beautiful mixed women. I don't know why any of them do what they do. In this case, however, it may be safe to speculate that Jackie felt pressure from other women in the industry or perhaps in her relationship 🤷🏾♀️ If we're going with the narrative that she was the wife of DC and famous mother of his children and we all agree that she already looked good then I'm lost on a valud reason. All those things considered she won, right? She was a wife, a mother, and a ten ✨️I will say this as well, if she's a black woman then how do the Suki's, Sexy Reds, Glorillas, Remy Mas, Jessica Hilarious' of the world stack up? Can they compete with her light skin and good hair? Some of them already have the body. I'm just asking that we not be disingenuous in how we look at this.
So called black women, Afro American women, daughters of Zion are the Most beautiful woman in the world. They were created to be the model of beauty until the fall of the Israelites both men and women. Due to disobedience the Most High God took their beauty away from them. Isaiah 3:16-24 [16]Moreover the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and making a tinkling with their feet: [17]Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will discover their secret parts. [18]In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their tinkling ornaments about their feet, and their cauls, and their round tires like the moon, [19]The chains, and the bracelets, and the mufflers, [20]The bonnets, and the ornaments of the legs, and the headbands, and the tablets, and the earrings, [21]The rings, and nose jewels, [22]The changeable suits of apparel, and the mantles, and the wimples, and the crisping pins, [23]The glasses, and the fine linen, and the hoods, and the vails. [24]And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty. In their redemption as the 4th beast kingdom from the bottomless pit (US/European nations) fall by Christ, Israel will be redeemed back to perfection in the heavenly kingdom. Then all Israel will be beautiful once again as prophecized -- Ezekiel 16:11-14 [11]I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck. [12]And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head. [13]Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom. [14]And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD. Redemption is neigh as the last carnal rulership of man is destroyed by Christ and then the true Israelites will rise to rule once again. Micah 4:8 [8]And thou, O tower of the flock, the strong hold of the daughter of Zion, unto thee shall it come, even the first dominion; the kingdom shall come to the daughter of Jerusalem.
Men like ALLL kinds of shapes and sizes ,we see this in real time everyday life ,beauty is in the eye of the beholder,hence the movie shallow Hal? so these dangerous surgery's that women risk they life having is a choice they make for themselves and other women for status, because men hate cosmetic surgery's on women, weave, lashes 6inch nails etc , we love all natural everything but women havnt been listening hey I love your music choice at the end of your videos makes me wanna sing to it 😂
I believe she means the ‘fantasy’ of a stripper. They are of course real women but they often provide something you don’t see everyday. At least prior to stripper culture becoming so mainstream.
Most women and black of course or beautiful naturally the way that God Made You. Remember you were a masterpiece in his eyes. Then the devil came along with Jezebel and her spirit to promote and do evil. So if you do the natural look you might get more attention because that's what most men want. And a true man of God will appreciate your true beauty with minimal to no makeup but that also includes a good soul and actions. Thoughts and prayers God bless! PS if you haven't found Jesus go find it quickly
Yeah but even with that song coming out in the 90's blk women still weren't concerned about their backside until Nelly came out with Tip Drill. Everyone wanted a azz like those strippers in that video. However those strippers azz were nice and shapely. These butts today are super huge and alot of times out of shape.
is it me, But i dont hear of other races of women dying like sistas are. i hear of these complications and problems from sistas only. All these surgeries sistas get, other races get these. But they still live through it? is it difference? or am i wrong and other races of women are dying in record numbers too.
Good observation. An argument could be made that BW are dying more from plastic surgery for the same reasons that they are dying more from child birth.
@@genovasquez8361 Christina Ashten Gourkani just died recently from plastic surgery amongst other women that are non black. Just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. I think people put way too much negativity on BW. All races of women do these things, but BW always get vilified for it. Like weave for example and then the goal post is moved when BW show proof.
@@genovasquez8361 Your right! I think because they go to these cheap doctors in the Dominican Republic that are nothing more than butcher shops. Tons of Mexicans and Latinas get this surgery but they know who to go to in their hometown and they will hip there people on where to go in Tijuana, Mexico. I'm in Texas and we have tons of Mexicans at my gym that had bbls because they absolutely hate their square flat shapes and they come out looking good. Black women need to to be asking them where they go to. This hardly happens to white women because they will spend $20,000 if they have to make sure they get top notch doctors. I believe this happened to Jacky O, because some of these doctors will do your surgery for little to nothing if you have a social media platform to adverise and bring in customers for the Dr. But unfortunately that cheap service cost her life. Women need to be checking the reviews of these doctors. There's enough reviews of women saying they got butchered.
It is crazy how nonsensical ppl can be…we’ve all seen a pandemic happen proving that humans/doctors in particular don’t have a good handle on how to cure a person, ppl dying of cancer, childbirth, and other ailments everyday; yet ppl think that doctors have a good handle on any sort of surgery! BBL is bad but the guy getting ahis bones broken to gain a foot may be the craziest in my eyes. A new study also found that implants end up being cancerous after a while 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
A gym membership is cheaper.
Hell...they don't even need a gym membership. Two 15 lb dumbbells, pushups, pullups, situps, and squats are all the need.
Sista, your platform is so important in these current "crazy" times. Unfortunately many of these sad lessons would not be learned and more deaths are upcoming 😢!
A sad truth.
She said it herself! Women pressure/influence other women to do these fake bodies. Yet they still try to blame it on men
And then when you say they do it for men they be like "I did this because I wanted to get a BBL"and this is the stance that all women will publicly co-sign.
And I get it, both things can be true depending on who the woman is, right? But more women need to acknowledge that yes, plenty of women do go above and beyond for beauty solely to appear more attractive to a certain caliber of man who they think will find body-done women attractive ie; men with money.
And they also need to acknowledge that yes there are women who do this purely off of influence of other women It's been this way forever, particularly in European culture.
Women have been successfully brainwashed to think there never wrong.
Black Women are Naturally Beautiful. No enhancements needed.
The enhancements like weave and make up and eye lashes be a turn off sometimes.
@@genovasquez8361Yeah, makes them look like drag queens
@@genovasquez8361all the time*
Black mother, Black father = BLACK
That lady is not even black
Exactly. I'm always confused when I see these videos and the woman or women are not even black but biracial or somehow identify withe black culture. There is a difference between black and biracial people.
I was thinking the same thing! Why do we continue to participate in the privilege in any and all races of women to call themselves black?
She is on her dads side. If megan markle was black to so many black women after she married that whyt man. The woman who is being talked on this vid is blk too. Hell rosa parks wasn't "fully blk" but hey...
Her father is black!!
This reminds me of the five people from SC who was killed in Mexico a few months ago when the lady wanted plastics surgery
That was 😢😢, leaving their families behind for beauty, so sad
Plastic surgery wasn't even a thing for bw till after 2010 really .Till the late 90's , early 2000's bw weren't going under the knife like that .As a matter of fact , till the mid 90's you needed a microscope to spot a morbidly obese bw. All the negativity in bw's beauty you see today happened in an extremely short time .Don't even make me go to the 80's , 70's and 60's .The average sister back then was not only natural but top model looking. I know what happened in bw's collective mind but I'll stay respectful. This is sad .
Very great points about the history of this for BW.
@@nnekaonyilofor thanks
@@blackexcellence4166 The issue as a black man, i have heard countless times in 40 years, the statement:
" We not trying to look good for men."
The weave, the eye lashes, the BBLs the lip fillers, the Breast implants...
its not for us, brothers.
they wear the straighten hair to either fit in with western non black society or to stunt on another black sista.
They trying to impress other girls. Many of the clothes they wear are not for us. Its for them.
To make her feel accomplished
To make her feel good
To stunt on other girls
To get compliments from other women
But they not dressing for us or adorning themselves for us.
The issue there are three types of female archetypes men love.
1. The Breast man
2. The booty lover
3. The slim goodie man
We as men usually fall into one of these categories. But we see women who will like in all three.
But depending on the man, One woman will be for marriage and the other two is purely for sex.
women know this.
Women do everything that dont matter instead of what men want...
When a woman says we getting BBLs because men perfer big butts, instead of going to gym an doing squats and core work outs because we like women with a slim waiste.
i say to those women, men love submissive women are soft and sweet and feminine....i dont see women in droves working to be submissive girlfriends and lovers to men, because men like it?
You took the words right out of my mouth. How did BW buy into this, I no longer care what BM think of me mindset?
Health is an illusion perspective, high blood pressure and diabetes is part of the Matrix, we are not fat, we are BBW's. Just having fun. lol😁
@@blackexcellence4166 Yep think about the real shape of women like Thelma from Good Times. She didn't have a big butt or breast but she had a slamming face and elegant slim figure. Pretty faces used to be in back in the day whether you were dark or light like Alliyah. Black women didn't want a big butt until after Nellys Tip Drill video came out.
I was thinking of a tummy tuck but after her death I said nah. Nope
Yes! I think a lot of women changed their mind after this news.
I did too
they weren't married. just played house
Black women need to look up the definition of beauty. Surgeries are in the opposite direction. Bamboozled comes to mind.
In a lot of cases, yes.
@@nnekaonyilofor and in the other cases?
I think you're talking about the "Law of equivelant exchange" In order to obatain or experience something, one must give up or be willing to sacrifice something of equal value. Money for time, beauty for pain, life for death... Pablo Picasso said “EVERY ACT OF CREATION BEGINS WITH AN ACT OF DESTRUCTION”.
You explained this so well. 💯
Full metal alchemist.. a man of culture.. sophistication...I see you
@@Chile_N 🪄🧪🦾📿🙏🏾 😎
She was a whole biracial woman. Stop giving your identity away simply because of a racist 1 drop rule. We all know she looked nothing like a black woman nor her black daddy. Delusion is a choice at this point.
Trust me , it's not your looks that needs improvement, it's your attitude.
There's a point where you just get old. There's nothing wrong with it. You're not going to look 18 forever. It's how you move going forward that will define you.
In my country we say it’s painful to be beautiful,
Being social creatures they tend to follow the river instead of traveling with it in the same direction until you find your exit. New, shiny, and flashy wins the majority of the time.
Facts ❤🫶🏾
Hi Doll, she was not married to DC young fly. She was raised by her black side of the family. Her mother was not in her life. RIP Beauty 🌹💙
Oh yes. Thank you for this correction. They were partners, not married.
At the end of the day it's all about Genetics!
You mean the pain of VANITY…
I like this. Vanity also captures it quite well.
Jacky is not black.....I'm confused. She don't even look black but I guess that's neither here nor there.
Black women let everybody in. Black mother, black father = BLACK
She isn’t black. She’s biracial
I would say addiction of the beauty like every Women wear weave wig eyelashes and makup. Don't blame men for that.
This woman is so right the consequences in these surgeries goe far into the future and stop calling these people doctors
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Yeah? Take a ticket.
Black Men Are Dying To Be Rich. ( Bando, Drugs, Business, working too hard. )
13:39 this part, this part right here, this is making me reflect on all the times my wife has asked me to wear things that I find either uncomfortable, or mildly, painful. We've come a long way when it comes to this stuff, but it I originally thought it was one of those things where the man's suffering/emotions are sub servant to her (the wife's) wants/needs.
I never thought of how it's socialized for women to _suffer_ for their beauty, and how she's projecting that onto me🤔 Thank you my naija sistah.
Thank you for sharing this!
9:58 When someone has been praised her/his entire life for fitting into the so called “standard of beauty”, it’s extremely hard to let it go. There are some privileges that come with above average beauty, and she probably felt the need to recover her pre pregnancy body.
10:44 Most men “prefer” that their wife’s fits the standard of beauty. However, that the standard depends on the man’s sociocultural background.
That’s why physical beauty is so coveted.
🗣 We really need to normalize loving real women who are naturally built like real women. While I agree with 95.5% of the things that KS preached the 1 place that we differ is a woman's 👗 dress size / weight has never been a stumbling block in me finding her attractive.....Actually to be totally honest I love dark-skinned bbw's who are built like 🚘 a Cadillac equipped with headlights and a nice rear end 🤷🏾♂️
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You are an exception, not the rule. 😑 Fat is fat, and majority do not find it appealing. Globally.
Agreed….plus he put that overweight thing on black women …I think there just as many if not more fat white women…it’s mainly a class thing …middle class women in both communities will tend to be more weight conscious …
As a 40-year-old black married man, I am curious about where this pressure for surgery is coming from. I definitely think that men in society want women to be fit, but I don't see an outcry of men who demand that women get surgery. Or they will not date them because they don't have a BBL.
I'm sure that women with the surgeries probably get more attention but 6 ft 4 athletes also get more attention. Just because he's tall and strong and handsome doesn't mean a woman won't date me. I would think that if a woman has a ridiculous body yes men will ogle at her. But that does not mean they won't like you too.
Very good points made.
In my experience, all Black men require absolute perfection from Darker Skinned Black women(I'm a darker skinned Black woman, so...)
Noone wants to be a consolation prize...settled "for"
I'm not sure why she put the white woman in the thumbnail...
@@dnycebushton5008 I don't know if it is perfection but I agree with you that darker skinned black women are held to a ridiculous standards. If she is white, Asian, or Latina just being average is considered "hot". Case in point a dark skinned black woman with Taylor Swift's body would not be attractive to black men.
All that being said, I still don't think men in general are pushing for BBLs. And men of means who aren't athletes, rappers, or scammers don't really prefer the huge butt look.
@@dnycebushton5008You can't say in your experience what ALL men require. I've never dated you. I'm a man so you can't speak forball men. I have a weakness for dark skinned women and I've never required them to be perfect.
It's not attractive to me. I can't understand who would fond it attractive or who would see someone get it and say they want to get it too. Jada Pinkett, Vivica Foxx and a bunch of others look like muppets to me. I think it's a status symbol though. I remember my first job. I worked for an older white lady and she went on vacation and came back with the muppet face. She looked weird. No matter what you do, you can't turn back the hands of time.
The only thing is, how did the women of the 70’s do it?
Moreover, are we saying black women should just not be beautiful and fit, and black man should just be ok with these new black women?
I will agree, most woman have a short span of beauty, but please start going to the gym, eat more salad and green veg. It’s the lifestyle!
I totally agree with you. There was a time when surgery was not even an option for most Black women and yet, they were still able to achieve “the look”.
I think alot of them are trying to catch up with the Kim Kardashians. I remember back in the 80's and 90's it was enough to have a cute face even though you were slim like Aaliyah, now you have to have the big butt to go with it. It's just lust and greed.
@@erikawright8134 A sad truth.
The moment my bf said if I wore flats we could walk faster-off with the heels😂😂😂. He said he loved my natural hair-no more braids-then he said I was naturally beautiful-only lip gloss😊. Now if we part ways I’m staying this way. I love it. I needed someone to love me as I was to let the extras go. Maybe you don’t need that but just reassurance that you’re enough. I’m telling YOU-“You’re enough!” Sending you love❤❤❤!
Thank you for sharing this with us. 🤗
All women are beautiful, but the stride for perfection is a killer, and flaws on a person are ideal it separates a person from one another. Sad to hear of her death.
All? 🤔
Yes! I love what you said about perceived flaws making us unique.
This is so sad, I feel bad for her children, bw need to love & accept their bodies, there's no such thing as a perfect body. We all have something about ourselves that we don't like or can be changed or tone!!
This is so true. ❤️
#beautiful Msg..!🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Black women are not the largest participants of plastic surgery in comparison to other races of women. Women are not undergoing these surges without the heavy influence of men. Men are encouraging,promoting, and selecting women that have undergone surgery. Men by their own admission are overly visual; men will compare a surgically enhanced body against a natural body and uplift the enhanced body! Women have to regain their power and stop making every decision based off what you think will get the most male attention!
This is the part that I struggle to understand. A woman spends thousands of dollars--in addition to facing all kinds of surgery complications--to have a surgical procedure that involves placing in her body something that was never there--something that is fake. We're not talking about a NECESSARY cosmetic surgery after, for example, an accident or some type of birth defect. No, we're talking about [altering] the body out of vanity. It does reflect the woman's state of mind. The irony is that everybody knows that it is fake including herself. There are people who, out of necessity, wear false teeth, but they don't receive complement about their teeth because everybody know the teeth are fake. Fake looks just what it is...fake! And that goes with any other part of the body that is not natural.
So how much self-delusion goes into telling yourself that your fake breasts, for example, are real and not fake? That becomes, it seems to me, an unresolved dichotomy within your own head. One side of your brain is conscious that those things are fake, but the other side is telling you to accept it as if was real. If you children look like you, they look like the real you and not the fake you.
This is the effect of mind conditioning by a society that set up a bias and arbitrary beauty standard. Have many women dissatisfied because they don't fit the artificially and arbitrary created standard. And, of course, out of this dissatisfaction, a billion of dollars industry is born, in which a huge flock of butchers are making themselves super rich.
I honestly do not feel bad... Elective plastic surgeries are not necessary... When you go under anesthesia you may not come back... And I'm sure you sign an agreement and understand the associated complications that may result in acute/chronic complications and death.
Hi.
This Jackie person is/was not Black.
Thought this was about Black women/people...
"Black women are never lonely because..."
Powerful info. Instagram link is broken
equivalent exchange _Full Metal Alchemist.
Been married 30 years and to answer your question, yes REAL MEN (HUSBANDS) do have standards for their wives. Even after 30 years of marriage and having children. Of course they do have to look like supermodels, but i think that most married men would agree that we want our wives to remain as fit as possible. I also feel that there is nothing wrong with that because wives have expectations of their husbands. We are not aloud to just quit earning money to provide for our families, nor should we take that approach. It comes down to honoring and respecting each other wishes/desires.
Marry by 26 ladies if you want to have a family.
I blame Reality TV and Social Media for the standards on what they BASE BEAUTIFUL.. If you don't have a big breast.. Big behind..Long hair down your back.. Long eyelashes. If you ain't slim you are not DESIRABLE OR BEAUTIFUL AND MEN AREN'T GOING TO WANT YOU. The SAD part about it is that these be NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL FEMALES without all that that fall for that BS.. Ladies LEARN TO LOVE THE SKIN YOU ARE IN..THEN OTHERS WILL TOO❤
Black women are beautiful without all that extra shit, they just around the wrong people. Natural women always catch my eye first.
Beauty of Our Israelite Women
Proverbs 3:[31] Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways.
COMMENT: Israelite sisters! It is high time that you awake out of sleep. The sleep that God is speaking about is sin. So, being awake is to be in righteousness, which is God’s laws(Deut. 6:25).
1Corinthians 15: [34] Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
Romans 13:[11] And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed. [12] The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light. [13] Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.
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COMMENT: Everything that is honorable in the other races of women, they got it from Israel. Our women have forgotten our laws and have not understood the beauty that comes from a black God.
1 Corinthians 7:[31] And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.
COMMENT: The European women's standard of beauty is fading away, especially when Christ Jesus(The black Messiah) returns showing his pure wooly hair, just like his father.
John 14: [9] Jesus saith unto him, Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me, Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest thou then, Show us the Father?
(Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 2)
Daniel 7: [9] I beheld till the thrones were cast down, and the Ancient of days did sit, whose garment was white as snow, and the hair of his head like the pure wool: his throne was like the fiery flame, and his wheels as burning fire.
Ezekiel 16:[14] And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD.
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Wisdom of Solomon 13:[3] With whose beauty if they being delighted took them to be gods; let them know how much better the Lord of them is: for the first author of beauty hath created them. [4] But if they were astonished at their power and virtue, let them understand by them, how much mightier he is that made them. [5] For by the greatness and beauty of the creatures proportionably the maker of them is seen.
COMMENT: The heathen saw the Israelite men to be gods. Having seen the Israelite men, the heathen could only imagine the power and beauty of the Israelite God. Now, the Israelite men are in the image of their God. The Israelite women are in the image of their men, from which they have their beauty. This is proven in the next verse.
1 Corinthians 11: [7] For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.
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COMMENT: I will further show you some examples of the beauty of our black sisters.
Judith 10:[7] And when they saw her, that her countenance was altered, and her apparel was changed, they wondered at her beauty very greatly, and said unto her.
(Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 3)
Judith 10:[14] Now when the men heard her words, and beheld her countenance, they wondered greatly at her beauty, and said unto her,
Judith 10:[19] And they wondered at her beauty, and admired the children of Israel because of her, and every one said to his neighbour, Who would despise this people, that have among them such women? surely it is not good that one man of them be left who being let go might deceive the whole earth.
COMMENT: Our women were so beautiful, at one time, that the heathen considered killing the Israelite men in order to have our women to themselves. They thought to this degree of evil because our women could “deceive the whole earth”. Also, here is another example of our beautiful sister Susanna.
Susanna 1: [31] Now Susanna was a very delicate woman, and beauteous to behold. [32] And these wicked men commanded to uncover her face, (for she was covered) that they might be filled with her beauty.
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COMMENT: Our women were decked with the most costly array of clothing because the men were dressed in royal apparel. The next scripture speaks of God dressing the men. When the Israelite men were ruling the earth, our women lived lavishly.
Ezekiel 16: [10] I clothed thee also with broidered work, and shod thee with badgers' skin, and I girded thee about with fine linen, and I covered thee with silk. [11] I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck. [12] And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head. [13] Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom.
(Beauty of Our Israelite Women, Page 4)
COMMENT: We treated our women very delicately. This is seen from a curse spoken in Deuteronomy.
Deuteronomy 28: [56] The tender and delicate woman among you, which would not adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground for delicateness and tenderness, her eye shall be evil toward the husband of her bosom, and toward her son, and toward her daughter,
COMMENT: We had our women carried by heathen slaves. Yet now, because of sin, our women shall hate their husbands and children, as thus saith the Lord.
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Jeremiah 8:[21] For the hurt of the daughter of my people am I hurt; I am black; astonishment hath taken hold on me. [22] Is there no balm in Gilead; is there no physician there? why then is not the health of the daughter of my people recovered?
COMMENT: Jeremiah was seeing, in the Spirit of the Last Days, the condition of his Israelite(black, hispanic, native amer.) sisters. Therefore, he is weeping at the destruction of their minds caused by Feminism/White Supremacy.
While I appreciate the conversation, I cannot vibe with the idea that mixed women are being held as examples of black women, by actual black women. Doja Cat, Jackie O, Cardi B, Tia & Tamera - all beautiful mixed women. I don't know why any of them do what they do. In this case, however, it may be safe to speculate that Jackie felt pressure from other women in the industry or perhaps in her relationship 🤷🏾♀️ If we're going with the narrative that she was the wife of DC and famous mother of his children and we all agree that she already looked good then I'm lost on a valud reason. All those things considered she won, right? She was a wife, a mother, and a ten ✨️I will say this as well, if she's a black woman then how do the Suki's, Sexy Reds, Glorillas, Remy Mas, Jessica Hilarious' of the world stack up? Can they compete with her light skin and good hair? Some of them already have the body. I'm just asking that we not be disingenuous in how we look at this.
So called black women, Afro American women, daughters of Zion are the Most beautiful woman in the world.
They were created to be the model of beauty until the fall of the Israelites both men and women. Due to disobedience the Most High God took their beauty away from them.
Isaiah 3:16-24
[16]Moreover the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and making a tinkling with their feet:
[17]Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will discover their secret parts.
[18]In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their tinkling ornaments about their feet, and their cauls, and their round tires like the moon,
[19]The chains, and the bracelets, and the mufflers,
[20]The bonnets, and the ornaments of the legs, and the headbands, and the tablets, and the earrings,
[21]The rings, and nose jewels,
[22]The changeable suits of apparel, and the mantles, and the wimples, and the crisping pins,
[23]The glasses, and the fine linen, and the hoods, and the vails.
[24]And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.
In their redemption as the 4th beast kingdom from the bottomless pit (US/European nations) fall by Christ, Israel will be redeemed back to perfection in the heavenly kingdom.
Then all Israel will be beautiful once again as prophecized --
Ezekiel 16:11-14
[11]I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck.
[12]And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head.
[13]Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom.
[14]And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD.
Redemption is neigh as the last carnal rulership of man is destroyed by Christ and then the true Israelites will rise to rule once again.
Micah 4:8
[8]And thou, O tower of the flock, the strong hold of the daughter of Zion, unto thee shall it come, even the first dominion; the kingdom shall come to the daughter of Jerusalem.
Wow I’m surprised you used pink book lessons on this
Why are you surprised?
You are very beautiful
Men like ALLL kinds of shapes and sizes ,we see this in real time everyday life ,beauty is in the eye of the beholder,hence the movie shallow Hal? so these dangerous surgery's that women risk they life having is a choice they make for themselves and other women for status, because men hate cosmetic surgery's on women, weave, lashes 6inch nails etc , we love all natural everything but women havnt been listening hey I love your music choice at the end of your videos makes me wanna sing to it 😂
IF BLACK WOMEN TURN TOO-OOO GOD AND BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST SPIRITUALLY : IN SPIRIT AND TRUTH ALL THAT WORLDLY VANITY WON'T TAKE OVER THEIR MIND
Sooo...strippers aren't real women, now?
I believe she means the ‘fantasy’ of a stripper. They are of course real women but they often provide something you don’t see everyday. At least prior to stripper culture becoming so mainstream.
Thank you for explaining what I meant.
This woman was not black. I think you're confused.
Most women and black of course or beautiful naturally the way that God Made You. Remember you were a masterpiece in his eyes. Then the devil came along with Jezebel and her spirit to promote and do evil. So if you do the natural look you might get more attention because that's what most men want. And a true man of God will appreciate your true beauty with minimal to no makeup but that also includes a good soul and actions. Thoughts and prayers God bless! PS if you haven't found Jesus go find it quickly
All great points made!
i can see the uncomfortibility in ur body language discussing this topic...!!!
You Ladies way over think things! Natural is basic simple and affordable...And less painful!
and white women like Miss Jacky Oh are also dying to be beautiful
They are following white women with this look plus I remember in the 80’s the song baby’s go back by sir mix a lot . It’s sad it’s just Vanity.
Yes, so sad 😞.
Yeah but even with that song coming out in the 90's blk women still weren't concerned about their backside until Nelly came out with Tip Drill. Everyone wanted a azz like those strippers in that video. However those strippers azz were nice and shapely. These butts today are super huge and alot of times out of shape.
is it me,
But i dont hear of other races of women dying like sistas are.
i hear of these complications and problems from sistas only.
All these surgeries sistas get, other races get these.
But they still live through it?
is it difference?
or am i wrong and other races of women are dying in record numbers too.
Good observation. An argument could be made that BW are dying more from plastic surgery for the same reasons that they are dying more from child birth.
@@nnekaonyilofor I mean i see women of all races dying from childbirth....
I never heard of any of race dying from these surgeries am I wrong
I’ve seen women of other races die from cosmetic surgeries like this. I think we just pay more attention because we’re black.
@@genovasquez8361 Christina Ashten Gourkani just died recently from plastic surgery amongst other women that are non black. Just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. I think people put way too much negativity on BW. All races of women do these things, but BW always get vilified for it. Like weave for example and then the goal post is moved when BW show proof.
@@genovasquez8361 Your right! I think because they go to these cheap doctors in the Dominican Republic that are nothing more than butcher shops. Tons of Mexicans and Latinas get this surgery but they know who to go to in their hometown and they will hip there people on where to go in Tijuana, Mexico. I'm in Texas and we have tons of Mexicans at my gym that had bbls because they absolutely hate their square flat shapes and they come out looking good. Black women need to to be asking them where they go to. This hardly happens to white women because they will spend $20,000 if they have to make sure they get top notch doctors. I believe this happened to Jacky O, because some of these doctors will do your surgery for little to nothing if you have a social media platform to adverise and bring in customers for the Dr. But unfortunately that cheap service cost her life. Women need to be checking the reviews of these doctors. There's enough reviews of women saying they got butchered.
It is crazy how nonsensical ppl can be…we’ve all seen a pandemic happen proving that humans/doctors in particular don’t have a good handle on how to cure a person, ppl dying of cancer, childbirth, and other ailments everyday; yet ppl think that doctors have a good handle on any sort of surgery! BBL is bad but the guy getting ahis bones broken to gain a foot may be the craziest in my eyes. A new study also found that implants end up being cancerous after a while 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I'm sorry, but she was not a Black woman..although her death was a tragedy, the title is really misleading..ijs
Firstable it s I think because black women are not the first preference of many men and black men included😢😢