90 Day Fiancé: Bilal and Shaeeda on His Controversial 'Prank'

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • ET’s Melicia Johnson speaks with ‘90 Day Fiancé’s Bilal and Shaeeda who reveal the backstory to the 'prank' Bilal pulled when he took Shaeeda to his childhood home in Missouri instead of his actual home as a 'test' in their relationship. The couple addresses their personal regrets from that episode and fan misconceptions. After meeting online, Bilal, 42, proposed to Shaeeda, 37, after spending just one week together in Trinidad and Tobago when he traveled to meet her.

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  • @IntellectuallyKurious
    @IntellectuallyKurious 2 года назад +74

    Reminds me of my ex. Very awesome at "managing" his personality and what ppl perceive him to be outside the home.
    Inside the home he's a nightmare to live with, fussy, always complaining just a tough tough person to get along with on a relational level.

  • @itsjustbrandy4290
    @itsjustbrandy4290 2 года назад +268

    I'm so glad that this interview happened. So many people were quick to judge both of them w/o even knowing whether the producers and editors made the scenes look a certain way. Context is everything!
    Edit: 1 month later and I take everything I said back. He's an a$$hole to the highest degree. RUN GIRL RUN!!!

    • @RondellKB
      @RondellKB 2 года назад +11

      I actually was scrolling reading comments for 5 minutes and i didn't see s single comment disparaging her, they were all on her side.

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 2 года назад +3

      Lol do you still think this given his behaviour all season?

    • @itsjustbrandy4290
      @itsjustbrandy4290 2 года назад +2

      @@munab3666 no, not at all. In fact, I'm gonna edit right now.

    • @TemiLagos
      @TemiLagos 2 года назад

      I saw that he was an a$$ hole from day one.

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 2 года назад +1

      @@itsjustbrandy4290 he's been the doing the most right?? I cannot stand him

  • @theyonibox6013
    @theyonibox6013 2 года назад +129

    Bilal thinks he’s God’s gift to woman and so does his family. The way they treated her at dinner was absolutely disgusting. He completely threw her under the bus and made their meeting awkward. She tried her best to maintain her composure, but you could see the upset all over her face. That sister is vile too… she intentionally attacked and asked pointed questions to ruffle her. You present yourself as a “high value man” where you lead with your success and assets so what did he expect her reaction to be? This is just to save face… so much is off about him. He’s not genuine and she’s just along for the ride… I think she has an end goal in mind so she’s putting up with it for now.

    • @jasmic38134
      @jasmic38134 2 года назад +5

      And He is! He's a good man. A damn Gift!

    • @icahnbayleh8458
      @icahnbayleh8458 2 года назад +4

      What are you talking??? Did you not watch the interview, they clearly are good people and the whole thing was edited for entertainment.

    • @novae7898
      @novae7898 2 года назад +2

      She started the prank and put him in a dangerous situation for it. She aint mad, why are you?

    • @theyonibox6013
      @theyonibox6013 2 года назад

      @@novae7898 Ummm why would I be mad? It’s her funeral not mine 🥱💁🏽‍♀️

    • @theyonibox6013
      @theyonibox6013 2 года назад

      @@jasmic38134 😂😂

  • @notesgo1556
    @notesgo1556 2 года назад +25

    There's a difference from "You from the hood so here's an ABB in the hood ." and " I've been withholding information from u for the entire time you've known me with the intention of eventually putting u to the "ride or die test". Not the same. Also it sounds made up and she just sweet enough to go along with it.🚩

  • @MEGIDIOT
    @MEGIDIOT 2 года назад +61

    Will his money be his only personality trait the whole season?

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +15

      This! He's literally made his money his personality.

    • @MelLele
      @MelLele 2 года назад +3

      bruh you just hating let him flex😂 anyone who works hard for their money will flex and anyone who’s fit and takes good care of their physical health will flex as well and etc..

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +1

      @@MelLele real wealth isn't flash, when have you seen Bill Gates "flex" new money, shouts and shows it

    • @CiaobellaAmour
      @CiaobellaAmour 2 года назад +14

      He has 0 personality so🤷🏽‍♀🥴

    • @cygnevara8400
      @cygnevara8400 2 года назад +6

      in one word: yes

  • @toocutepuppies6535
    @toocutepuppies6535 2 года назад +55

    How much would it have hurt TLC to give us a little of this back story? And, if his family home has so much sentimental value why doesn't he fix it up before it falls apart???

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +17

      Judging by the ceiling this isn't a 3 months issue it's been falling apart for a while. He was back tracking hardnin this interview. He knew came across badly hence the story.

    • @spice4life67
      @spice4life67 2 года назад +4

      He said his dad recently died and no one was allowed to touch his house.

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +9

      @@spice4life67 that makes no sense. So the house is gonna be dilapidated in his father's honour. I smell bs.

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +4

      @@sbello361 total b.s.!

  • @charismao5515
    @charismao5515 2 года назад +28

    Obviously this was a way to clean up his image and story. What he said and did on the show was explicit and ridiculously reiterated emphatically. This is PR at work. And people are so gullible that they’ll believe anything if sold correctly. He’s a joke and dusty as heck!

    • @TooCruel4School
      @TooCruel4School 2 года назад +7

      My jaw is on the ground at all these bamboozled commenters. 😂 That Airbnb story doesn't even make any sense, smh. I like her, but I'm annoyed at her letting him throw her under the bus yet again.

    • @intelligencehaswon5714
      @intelligencehaswon5714 2 года назад

      How do you know if it's a pr stunt?

    • @violetl.4615
      @violetl.4615 2 года назад +1

      So you believe what the producers sold on the show more? 🤔

  • @karenakarenau499
    @karenakarenau499 2 года назад +41

    This is why Shaeeda’s mom laughed so hard. She knew the inside of the story. Plus we know TLC adds and remove what they want.

    • @Akilahfoye
      @Akilahfoye 2 года назад +7

      exactly. Her mom didn't let it bother her. I am always suspicious of the editing of these reality shows.

  • @kelliewonch6055
    @kelliewonch6055 2 года назад +126

    There's nothing wrong with someone having standards. She left her home, family, and country.

    • @rosegold4452
      @rosegold4452 2 года назад +20

      Nobody told her to do that . She saw SOCIAL MEDIA and assumed . He was testing her and she failed . That’s all it is at the end of the day :

    • @kelliewonch6055
      @kelliewonch6055 2 года назад +17

      @@rosegold4452 I'm pretty sure he told her to come lol. We can agree to disagree.

    • @rosegold4452
      @rosegold4452 2 года назад +14

      @@kelliewonch6055 nope , she wanted to come to America just like she stated she wanted to be on the show and all of this was her idea which she stated multiple times ... none of this was bilals idea dear she stated herself that SHE gave up her life and business back home . Obviously he probably wanted her to come there but that’s not the basis of what I’m trying to say, no one begged nor forced her .

    • @kelliewonch6055
      @kelliewonch6055 2 года назад +9

      @@rosegold4452 okay lmao whatever you say!! 🤣

    • @HoangNguyen-jd2mr
      @HoangNguyen-jd2mr 2 года назад

      There are some good and bad standard tho

  • @emberjootar6338
    @emberjootar6338 2 года назад +80

    She's such a good person,and I love that he says we,it shows that they are willing to work towards a strong relationship

  • @handan7073
    @handan7073 2 года назад +113

    I think the problem with this 'test' is how poorly it was designed. Acting humble from the beginning could be a smart move to avoid potential gold-diggers but Bilal did show off both on social media and during his visit. Standing before a wall while FaceTiming makes you look weird not poor.
    Shaeeda on the other hand, definitely values material and I think she has every right to do so. Men are supposed to be the providers of a traditional Muslim family. Women can marry for money, looks, intelligence, power and all sorts of reasons that are likely to bring security and happiness. Someone tell this guy what he has is part of who he is 🤦

    • @rosegold4452
      @rosegold4452 2 года назад +2

      She says in her Instagram he was not flexing for the gram sooo....

    • @rosegold4452
      @rosegold4452 2 года назад +10

      She’s a gold digger ... she’s looking for clout

    • @Tortuga2323
      @Tortuga2323 2 года назад

      Ridiculous

    • @mellajoe
      @mellajoe 2 года назад +3

      How dare you say Muslim women has a right to choose a good wealth man for themselves you have to stick to the media narrative

    • @rosegold4452
      @rosegold4452 2 года назад +4

      You’ve got it all wrong , their values are not about money .

  • @TheStewieGriffinShow
    @TheStewieGriffinShow 2 года назад +17

    I can't believe she pranked him with an Airbnb in a dangerous part of town. What was she thinking? He could have been killed or easily robbed. Why would she do that? I don't think that was very funny.

    • @HoangNguyen-jd2mr
      @HoangNguyen-jd2mr 2 года назад

      Believe women ! 😂😂

    • @kk-po6tp
      @kk-po6tp 2 года назад

      That area not so bad all over trinidad you can get kill and rob

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад

      @@HoangNguyen-jd2mr as in?

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +1

      Yeah that was pretty stupid honestly

    • @Betty_Edw
      @Betty_Edw 2 года назад +5

      I can't either especially since im from Trinidad.... there are terrible places in Trinidad but that story seem exaggerated.

  • @leesaleesa8819
    @leesaleesa8819 2 года назад +19

    The sad part is he might of lost her if he really lived in that house & I think he knew it and hurried to the new one. Her mother told her she always have a choice to come home.

    • @missiemessoud4165
      @missiemessoud4165 2 года назад

      So true. I don't know why people are getting fooled by their B.S. She is clearly only into money.

    • @musingwanderer2765
      @musingwanderer2765 2 года назад

      He definitely will, she was quite snarky abt it

    • @lateshiabrooks2180
      @lateshiabrooks2180 2 года назад

      Lol

    • @mochamekia
      @mochamekia 2 года назад

      I had a friend I decided to room with. Our agreement was that absolutely NO MEN could move in. We talked about how we could walk around in a t-shirt and undies and be comfy.... A month later, she got back with her son's dad and moved him in. I was pissed. She felt like well it's my family. I felt duped. This is not what I signed up for. Can't fault her for being upset about being put into a position she didn't sign up for. It's not fair.

  • @gebegreater9495
    @gebegreater9495 2 года назад +5

    The guy is well civilised and I like his brief description.

  • @inquiz-ahteev
    @inquiz-ahteev 2 года назад +15

    I am not sure if I am buying this elaborate "story" 🙄

  • @02loud
    @02loud 2 года назад +120

    I actually like these two. Seems like an attractive and very articulate couple. They suit each other. Just drop the pranks lol.

    • @mljcool1916
      @mljcool1916 2 года назад +2

      @John Smith Really, his grammar. You got to be kidding. This is not an English language show.

    • @lonnieanderson8918
      @lonnieanderson8918 2 года назад +1

      What are your thoughts now?

    • @ddd1dorin396
      @ddd1dorin396 2 года назад

      @John Smith, this show is broadcasted in many countries. Im from România, for instance, and i make comments on YT in English. The way i know this language; i may make mistakes, of course. You have to admit that US is not the whole world.

  • @missy8175
    @missy8175 2 года назад +30

    They are so refreshing in this interview. But they also make good tv I was so mad for Shayda last week 😂

  • @marybethjordan8520
    @marybethjordan8520 2 года назад +8

    This dude is setting himself up for trouble by acting out his insecurities

  • @kaybrown2201
    @kaybrown2201 2 года назад +25

    I am neat freak too Bilal. It make me so tired at times. My husband and kids are so damn tired of me. I felt so bad when I walked through the door oneday and heard my husband and kids shouting in the backyard "mom is here, health inspector is here, clean up quickly." Omg.

    • @AA-mg3xr
      @AA-mg3xr 2 года назад +4

      😂

    • @LaMinko2020
      @LaMinko2020 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ralucanelson5686
      @ralucanelson5686 2 года назад +4

      Kay brown that was funny! 😂😂There is nothing wrong being neat! I rather see a clean house than a dirty one! 😉

    • @ameenagill
      @ameenagill 2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @nordonna417
      @nordonna417 2 года назад +1

      @ Kay brown nothing is wrong with been neat and tidy l agree with Bilal when preparing food in the kitchen you clean up as you go along not having things in place meaning your surroundings will always be messy

  • @vraven80
    @vraven80 2 года назад +18

    I am so glad they did this interview! I kept wondering why Bilal kept calling it a "prank" instead of a "test." It makes more sense now that I know the backstory! I'm so glad they shared. I like them together.

  • @queeniebee3618
    @queeniebee3618 2 года назад +7

    14:32 Bilal needs therapy to get over his previous 2 divorces. Now after testing her, they need therapy to get over his manipulative ways and be done with it.

  • @rosegold4452
    @rosegold4452 2 года назад +23

    She was rude , her attitude was trash & the way she reacted was horrible . Test or no test, especially in her religion she should not behave the way she did. She’s clearly in this for what she can earn . It was her idea to be on the show. It was her idea to come to America, it was her idea to do everything. So why are we blaming him?!

    • @bestdays2776
      @bestdays2776 2 года назад +5

      People lack discernment, I thought most of us are emotionally intelligent boy was I wrong. Of course people put up a front in front of the camera. Of course they are well prepared for this interview and the audience can be so shallow themselves. Most people think just because you are attractive and can articulate yourself well they'll buy it.

  • @miriamives7916
    @miriamives7916 2 года назад +68

    I love their dynamic in this interview; they seem like such a healthy couple. I also like the way he apologized and adjusted away from using the term OCD because he has since learned that it is a psychiatric condition- not simply a preoccupation with cleanliness. That shows growth and humility.

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 2 года назад +2

      she looks crazy

    • @fatimasyeda9601
      @fatimasyeda9601 2 года назад +8

      @@xoxohayaati nope she looks beautiful!

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 2 года назад +1

      @@fatimasyeda9601 she is and those are usually the crazy ones

    • @mljcool1916
      @mljcool1916 2 года назад +4

      @@xoxohayaati You cant recognize crazy if it hit you in the face. She is beautiful.

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 2 года назад +1

      @@mljcool1916 the pretty ones are crazy

  • @catie1305
    @catie1305 2 года назад +22

    His house is modest.. nothing extravagant. He's just full of himself

    • @rondelmoore7130
      @rondelmoore7130 2 года назад +5

      Exactly💀 It’s not some luxurious mansion

    • @TheStewieGriffinShow
      @TheStewieGriffinShow 2 года назад +7

      Actually, it depends on what city that home is in. If that home was anywhere in my city, it would be well over a million dollars.

  • @acts2.387
    @acts2.387 2 года назад +9

    She said it was a scooby doo van,🤣

  • @touristk1009
    @touristk1009 2 года назад +5

    Now I understand the "prank" and see how things started their story is interesting to watch.

  • @rae-jp6440
    @rae-jp6440 2 года назад +74

    She know he's good well lying but you can tell she's just sweet and going along with his story to save face. Carenage is not that bad and their are some very boogie areas in that neighborhood. Nevertheless they are a really nice couple and I can see them lasting.

    • @rondelmoore7130
      @rondelmoore7130 2 года назад +5

      Right?? I was like a lot posh Villas and Townhouses are located in Carenage.

    • @princesss411
      @princesss411 2 года назад

      hahaha i agree with you!

    • @kurlenejohn5463
      @kurlenejohn5463 2 года назад +7

      @Rae - JP, Carenage is also near the Army base up Tetron side ... there is a fishing area there , as you said... it is REALLY not that bad of an area and there are upper class , middle class , as well as poor people living there ....
      And we all know that Trinidadians do not attack tourists & when also when locals who live in Trinidad🇹🇹🌺🌴🌴🌴🏞 go to that beach area in Carenage, nobody is attacked or harassed, you can walk freely !
      - Proof : Bilal walked the streets of Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🌊🌊🌴🌴🌴🌊🌊🌊🌺🍹🍹🍹 and was never robbed!
      I enjoyed this interview and I wish this couple well ! 🌺🌺💕💕💕
      ● DO NOT SELL HIS PARENTS HOUSE ! ● it is a great story and a great legacy ..
      I see NOW Bilal is talking about future children ❤❤💯💯🍼🍼🍼🐣🐣🐣🐣🐣 ....the sex must be great !! She is also a beautiful and intelligent woman !

    • @kurlenejohn5463
      @kurlenejohn5463 2 года назад +4

      @@rondelmoore7130 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹💯You talking facts . I have stayed in Carenage in beach houses in the area... further down in the island has some fun food places by the beach to hang out and hold a vibes 🎵🎵🎶🕌🎛🎛 the area is not as bad as he says...
      All said and done.... I hope it works our for them... they are really attracted to each other .
      They are also both good looking and Shaeeda is a Trinidad woman... 🇹🇹🇹🇹💯🌺🌺👊🏾so you know* she will be strong minded and balance off well.
      I wish them a happy life. I predict she will be pregnant by 2023 !

    • @Tonnnnia
      @Tonnnnia 2 года назад +3

      Yeah she definitely didn’t fully agree with his explanation of the series of events.

  • @jaxong.2701
    @jaxong.2701 2 года назад +5

    Bilal is being way watered down here... I still don't get good vibes about him.. I see right through him.
    He barely looks at Shaeeda while sharing a story about them, he doesn't even say Shaeeda's name unless he's repeating a sentence where someone else said it. Idk.. She's looking at him the entire time lol. (Unless he's feeling insulted, then he gives that look)..
    You can tell if he was addressed about it, his reply would be something like "Well you give the person you're speaking to the attention" or something lame to excuse his lack of engagement while telling intimate stories.
    idk where her self esteem is or what the real deal is lol.

  • @psychedforlife7176
    @psychedforlife7176 2 года назад +7

    This was a really good interview. I appreciate the questions that were asked and answered.

  • @abdirahman292
    @abdirahman292 2 года назад +3

    Who are these people who have time to send hate emails and calls?

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 2 года назад +14

    I love this couple they are so down to earth ,and real it so refreshing to see on reality TV they are so cute together 😊❤.

  • @BSmith-yl3je
    @BSmith-yl3je 2 года назад +13

    Aw Bilal I can see you really miss your dad and from the time I’ve experienced you he did a great job with you and your siblings 🥲

  • @abbywinters80
    @abbywinters80 2 года назад +43

    Ok this was refreshing. I’m glad to see this has context and he isn’t as awful as I thought he was.

    • @kurlenejohn5463
      @kurlenejohn5463 2 года назад +1

      @April H💕💕💕 I feel really badly that I was so upset with him... you can tell that he is hurt still💔... he wears his pain in his eyes and facial expression. You can tell he is insecure ...
      I am GLAD he found Shaeeda, she will balance him off well.
      He is s great man and trying ...
      I already knew he was a great father though, by the way he treated his children .
      He takes his children on trips, fishing, basketball and spend time together. He also brought them shares for money investors!
      He already bought his children rental properties for them to flip and they are LESS than twelve years old !

    • @Nursegirlalexandra
      @Nursegirlalexandra 2 года назад +1

      I believe now he’s trying to play it off like it was playful because of the backlash he received.

    • @abbywinters80
      @abbywinters80 2 года назад

      @@Nursegirlalexandra SAME. He returned to being awful so fast I regret I gave him this pass!!

  • @wizzysloungetitaure
    @wizzysloungetitaure 2 года назад +11

    Thank goodness for TLC this season putting normal people other than the crazy bunch last season.

  • @haniamashriq5666
    @haniamashriq5666 2 года назад +7

    Hopefully this true and he’s not just this to save face because the backlash was HEAVY

  • @TravelBug189
    @TravelBug189 2 года назад +4

    He reminds me of an ex - the good parts at least. We used to prank each other and make little jokes. But he would continue to test me as time went on. It was no longer funny, it became hurtful. He made me feel like I was inferior because I didn’t have a big house or a fancy car. Years later he admitted to feeling insecure and that he was still continually dating other women while seeing me. I was very sad because I really loved this guy. I cared so much about him, I was there when he was sick. Oh well. That’s life…

  • @barbiepriestley9898
    @barbiepriestley9898 2 года назад +3

    It’s been lovely to hear your side of things too and you two are my favourite couple on the show too

  • @seygra20
    @seygra20 2 года назад +6

    She picked a partner who has the qualities she wants. I am not mad at her for that. But as long as his money doesn't run out she will be his rock because the vibe they are giving off is 'friends' or two people who are in a relationship for other reasons besides love. ....they do not give off 'couple in love vibes'.....they talk a lot of material stuff and surface stuff. I'm sure behind the scenes she rolls her eyes a lot with him.

  • @musicms7723
    @musicms7723 2 года назад +11

    So why in none of his confessionals did he mention without Sheeda their that it was a joke. This was a poor last minute cover up that many have brought, still wish them luck

    • @rando42069
      @rando42069 2 года назад

      Because TLC hides these things. That's why the couple is explaining what happened on ET. TLC deliberately edits 90 Day Fiance to curate a mirage that doesn't equal reality. TLC is lying through omission.

    • @benayisolele6760
      @benayisolele6760 2 года назад

      Maybe they did but it was edited out.

  • @sierra6147
    @sierra6147 2 года назад +5

    How did she not know where he lived....we r in 2022!!! She never googled him? All bs!

  • @terynb4407
    @terynb4407 2 года назад +7

    I wonder if he mentioned this and editing played a role in how it was precieved later on. But this interview I feel like they have mutal respect for one another.

  • @crystalramdial9078
    @crystalramdial9078 2 года назад +8

    Hey Shaeeda, I'm rooting for you girl. 🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 2 года назад +10

    Melecia did a great job as interviewer she such a good interviewer love that she always ask the question we as 90 days fan love to ask🥰❤.

  • @kurlenejohn5463
    @kurlenejohn5463 2 года назад +4

    Bilal is actually glowing 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯He looks completely relaxed and happy now... you can see that Shaeeda gave him some respectable and holy loving ....
    He has won himself a beautiful gift from Allah ! I hope these two last forever . They are almost two opposites in personality... so it would go well...
    Shaeeda also knows when to humble , even though she is strong minded and Independent.
    She follows the laws of Islam, so she understands the assignment of humility when needed .
    Plus she has a very very strong woman of a mother who advises her well !
    They are also of mature age ...
    So it should work out well !💕

    • @no-wahala2784
      @no-wahala2784 2 года назад

      The laws of Islam doesn't permit her to be soo rude and prude the minute she saw and entered the car. The laws of Islam also doesn't permit the bowling and worship of material things as shaadea portrayed. Please keep Islam out of it because she was not a good representation of Islam.

  • @dbroadna
    @dbroadna 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I personally Love my Brother and Sister setting a great example for our people. As Salaam WaLayKum…

  • @applegallemokoena5837
    @applegallemokoena5837 2 года назад +10

    I actually like her very much 🥰 from South Africa

  • @dianalogan6185
    @dianalogan6185 2 года назад +9

    U slide in is dm because u see what him have ‼️🙄

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +4

      What's the difference with a guy doing the same for looks? So it's OK for a guy to be shallow but not OK for a woman to be materialistic?

    • @ya-m3921
      @ya-m3921 2 года назад

      ​@@sbello361 Men and women can both be attracted to each other, attraction is not the point of discussion here

  • @krenakrneki7636
    @krenakrneki7636 2 года назад +29

    So Bilal, is it a prank, a test, a sentimental thing or....you are just full of it, trying to fix the mess you made?

  • @carolmartha8449
    @carolmartha8449 2 года назад +20

    I love this couple, beautiful and balanced.

  • @MelLele
    @MelLele 2 года назад +19

    i was team Bilal at first but after watching this interview, she seems so funny and down to earth. she also did admit that she was rude and mean to him. b grateful y’all !

  • @ServingVibes
    @ServingVibes 2 года назад +1

    When you’re out of high school stop putting your partner through tests!!! I didn’t leave high school for anymore tests. How immature.

  • @AA-mg3xr
    @AA-mg3xr 2 года назад +9

    That was an amazing interview, love these two sooo much!

  • @victoriawalker6846
    @victoriawalker6846 2 года назад +44

    I love this couple. They’re really sweet 🥰

    • @TryingisBrilliant
      @TryingisBrilliant 2 года назад +4

      They are so down-to-earth, how refreshing for reality tv. I’m rooting for this beautiful couple!!

    • @cbgbstew4072
      @cbgbstew4072 2 года назад +2

      @@TryingisBrilliant Calling these two materialistic people down to earth is a bit of a stretch. They do seem like a sweet, compatible couple, though,

    • @ibromussolini9255
      @ibromussolini9255 2 года назад

      @@cbgbstew4072 And that Air bnb was not a prank. No way in hell you put somebody in the middle of the ghetto with Louis Vuitton luggage in a foreign country as a prank.

  • @WintersArcher
    @WintersArcher 2 года назад +11

    She failed the test horribly. A home is wherever her man is. Not based on how nice the house is. He should have dated her longer, that would have been the test. They are still arguing about him testing her and her insulting him. They should end it now.

    • @michynature
      @michynature 2 года назад +7

      No she didn’t because in that episode she said she would stay with him anyway in that house and they would fix it together , something like that

    • @WintersArcher
      @WintersArcher 2 года назад +2

      @@michynature I'm just going by this clip of the show. I don't watch this stuff. Lol But don't forget they still argue about what he did and her behavior towards him. They can't undo that. Unless they find a way to live with what they did to each other, it won't work out.

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 2 года назад

      @@michynature she didn't say that to her mom

    • @michynature
      @michynature 2 года назад

      @@Jsarmy87124 I don’t recall saying she said that to her mom specifically but I did watch her say it

    • @Turquoise4eva
      @Turquoise4eva 2 года назад +3

      No he failed. U dont ask someone to leave their home. Flex on social media yet do not invest in your home by fixing it. Makes it look like his priorities are himself. She had every reason to be mad.

  • @Toematetoe95
    @Toematetoe95 2 года назад +5

    7:42 the way she pronounced Louboutins…

  • @brittanymorris9736
    @brittanymorris9736 2 года назад +34

    Anyone else notice how he found a way to make it her fault when he got a negative reaction to his “prank?”

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +13

      The "B Greatful" shirt irritated me

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +4

      @@sbello361 Yeah that dusty ass shirt was irritating to me as well

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +1

      Yep, I noticed

  • @karenmason6465
    @karenmason6465 2 года назад +5

    He's still lieing it wasn't a prank!! He's a lier!! In many ways!!

  • @marvinabigby6376
    @marvinabigby6376 2 года назад +4

    Bilal please put some love in your childhood home.It holds all your childhood memories.I dont live too far from you.If people were lucky enough to own thier childhood home they gather there for holidays.God bless.Ps that ceilig texture is peeling not falling in lol

    • @kreole0834
      @kreole0834 2 года назад

      No one lives there! Faniky wasnt ready to work on the house after Father passed. Let the family grieve and work on it when they are ready. Before then, Father didn't want anyone to touch his house.
      I'm sure , the house will be newly painted, updated appliances and rent it out

  • @jeannabhalerao6895
    @jeannabhalerao6895 2 года назад +25

    Amazes me as a person born in the UK, that his childhood home is viewed as 'humble'. Our living standards must be very low compared to America because that house is detached, spacious and needs a few repair jobs. It's dismaying that people see it as poverty. Try living in any of the damp and cramped bedsits in mouldy UK, neglected by dodgy landlords and then you'd have something to moan about. This pair are both conceited snobs.

    • @noliberalzone1533
      @noliberalzone1533 2 года назад +3

      Right!!! Honey America isn't all that neither! I live in a little 2 bedroom apartment I've lived here 10 years and love it cause it's mine! But.... I would love to have his childhood home and be able to own one of my own!!

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +6

      I live in the UK too and this would constitute as damaged and in need of care. Call your local citizens advice bureau or housing office in the council. Ask for a at home visit and asked to placed on a waiting list to move. If its a private let contact the landlord association and get them struck off. I hope your situation improves.

    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 2 года назад +2

      UK is paradise cus in Ethiopia everyone lives a mudhouse that's falling apart , very tiny space and close to eachother ,

    • @girisha_laxmi11
      @girisha_laxmi11 2 года назад +3

      I WAS BORN IN UK AS WELL AND LOVED THE HOUSE BUT NEED SOME REPARATIONS AND PAINTING. I DON´T FEEL IT IS POOR AT ALL I FELT WAS LIKE A VILLAGE HOUSE. SEEMS AMERICANS WANT AREAS LIKE L.A. NEW YORK OR SAN FRANCISCO, ANY MODEST AREA IS CONSIDERED AS RAMSHACKLE FOR LOW CLASS PEOPLE.

    • @saiglas21
      @saiglas21 2 года назад +1

      Agreed

  • @cawoludfa8962
    @cawoludfa8962 2 года назад +9

    Asalama Alaykum both we are so proud of you 👍

  • @nstrong3313
    @nstrong3313 2 года назад +6

    this interview was suppose to happen. they both wonderful people

  • @monicalungu3342
    @monicalungu3342 2 года назад +4

    The testing is just disrespectful,!!!

  • @melissa.zertuche6084
    @melissa.zertuche6084 2 года назад +26

    I actually like his childhood home.It looks better than mine right now.
    The prank was not bad to me.Especially that she started it.They seem to get along great.But I still can't get past how rude she was with him as soon as she saw something she didnt like.He kept his cool and self together throughout it all.

    • @leesaleesa8819
      @leesaleesa8819 2 года назад +3

      Exactly and her mother told her she always has a choice and can leave

    • @rondelmoore7130
      @rondelmoore7130 2 года назад +1

      What the hell do you live in?

  • @Commonsenseiscommonsense
    @Commonsenseiscommonsense 2 года назад +56

    I think it is pretty tacky to "test" Shaeeda after she has traveled so far and left her family behind to be with him. If he wanted to make sure he wasn't getting a "gold digger", then why did he flaunt his "wealth" when he met Shaeeda. A lot of people would have a problem with being picked up in a DIRTY van only to arrive at a DIRTY RAGGEDY RUN DOWN DUMP of a house. He did not even have any food prepared for Shaeeda. Then he complains the whole time about Shaeeda not liking the dump he put in. Being grateful does not mean you have to accept living in a run down dirty dump. There are other ways to "test" for true love.
    Maya Angelou said when someone shows you who they are, believe them. Shaeeda, he is showing you that he is a narcissists.

    • @cbgbstew4072
      @cbgbstew4072 2 года назад +3

      Did you watch the interview?

    • @zan_zani
      @zan_zani 2 года назад

      @@cbgbstew4072 lol my thoughts exactly!

    • @mellajoe
      @mellajoe 2 года назад +3

      Why marry her if that was a concern

    • @AfterTheGame
      @AfterTheGame 2 года назад +1

      It was a continuation of a prank that Shaeeda started when Bilal came to see her in Trinidad. She put him in an Airb&B in the middle of the hood surrounded with barbed wire in Trinidad because he mentioned to her that he was hood boshie.

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +9

      @@AfterTheGame do you really believe that? This was back tracking in it's finest.

  • @verasworld3028
    @verasworld3028 2 года назад +3

    Lovely Couple, hope to see the both getting married soon. They really suit each other. I would love to see more about them in the future.

  • @brianhunte269
    @brianhunte269 2 года назад +1

    Belal you almost "freach toast" this woman. She came all the way from Trinidad for you to "play" a prank. Life ain't a game bro.

  • @melissaibrahim7925
    @melissaibrahim7925 2 года назад +5

    She's cashing in

  • @chrishenrygeorgealter52
    @chrishenrygeorgealter52 2 года назад +2

    Truthfully....with all honesty...we all do want both love n money...this is reality....but all is not possible...n everything is not perfect...to search for perfection means to meet with ruin....we had to accept some flaws...work n live with it.

  • @Elsoultanatigre
    @Elsoultanatigre 2 года назад

    she is a well articulated and entertaining interviewer

  • @nagone11
    @nagone11 2 года назад +3

    She did show her true colors...it was what it was..

  • @mljcool1916
    @mljcool1916 2 года назад +1

    These are my favorite couples by far. They both are very smart and very classy

  • @CiaobellaAmour
    @CiaobellaAmour 2 года назад +4

    They're both lying their a$$ off to save face but ok.....🙄😑💀

  • @canabcabdulle6500
    @canabcabdulle6500 2 года назад +3

    THIS COUPLE SUITS EACH OTHER🤩🥳😉MAANSHAA ALLAAH BILAL & SHAHEEDA GUYS YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL TOGETHER. MAY ALLAAH SWT GIVE YOU WELL BEHAVED AND BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AS WELL AS A REAL STRONG PILLARS INTO YOUR MARRIAGE AAMIIN IA🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🥳🥳🥳🤩🤩😍😍😍😍👌🏾

  • @kjjackson548
    @kjjackson548 2 года назад +2

    He avoided the question about her being wifey material. He said that she is good material for someone else basically. I don’t think there relationship is in a good place.

  • @VJASK93
    @VJASK93 2 года назад +7

    There’s something off about her and I ain’t feeling it

    • @foelife2488
      @foelife2488 2 года назад

      She’s gold digger and he narcissist

  • @femalehobbitwithhairyfeet
    @femalehobbitwithhairyfeet 2 года назад +84

    I like that the only defence he could come up with was to say she started this prank. He said multiple times that he was testing her to test her loyalty and if she just wanted him for money. Lets not backtrack now. Yep, prank gone wrong so "let's not accept responsibility as a man and let's blame the female"... Nice move bro. Just say that your test wasn't well received and move on. "Coming to America?" Please... 🙄🙄😂😂

    • @monicadavis9475
      @monicadavis9475 2 года назад +6

      Exactly

    • @eliellz1235
      @eliellz1235 2 года назад +14

      Righttttt! We are not fooled by the back tracking. We saw what we saw

    • @Munooy
      @Munooy 2 года назад +4

      the media COULDVE cut that bit out honestly who knows? But yh defo a lil sus

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +7

      Right, totally blaming it on her because his"prank" wasn't well received. True narcissist move

    • @Commonsenseiscommonsense
      @Commonsenseiscommonsense 2 года назад +7

      I totally agree with you. I don't buy his story at all.
      I think he knows how stupid he looked on the episode, so he is backpedaling now.
      Also, it is a shame that women are still to blame?

  • @ashleywilliams9738
    @ashleywilliams9738 2 года назад +2

    It’s baby time now biael clock is ticking and u can’t run no longer eat each other up and enjoy the moment be gentle to her bcus she is to u and u both deserve it

  • @barbiepriestley9898
    @barbiepriestley9898 2 года назад +2

    And it’s lovely to hear that it’s a real relationship as some of them are fake and I wish you guys all the luck and happiness in the world

  • @blessedisshegroup
    @blessedisshegroup 2 года назад +12

    Oh so he’s STILL holding it over her head? Why am I not surprised.

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +4

      Red flags! He's really narcissistic

    • @dfwherbie8814
      @dfwherbie8814 2 года назад

      @@denine5232 you people always attack black men in these comments. Guess what? He’s a great dad. Friends with his ex-wife. He also said that it was a “continuation of a prank that she started.” And he’s rich. They are together. While you’re here, broke, and/or single, getting mad at people you don’t know in RUclips comment sections.

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +1

      @@dfwherbie8814 Where have you seen a comment where I attack black men??! And exactly who are you to talk about my personal status when you don't know me?? Completely inaccurate. don't comment back to me if you don't have anything truthful to say

    • @dfwherbie8814
      @dfwherbie8814 2 года назад

      @@denine5232
      You’re a single Betty. It is what it is. And I’m referring to what 90day fans do over and over again: they always go extra in villainizing black men. I’m sick and tired of it

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад

      @@dfwherbie8814 Lmfao you are commenting to the wrong person my name isn't Betty. Don't project your issues on me you sound dysfunctional stop commenting to me because I'm done byeeee!!

  • @adlog1432
    @adlog1432 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful couple and they balance each other in a positive light!

  • @LadyPLM
    @LadyPLM 2 года назад +5

    I have a good feeling about these 2….

  • @rayjergess40
    @rayjergess40 2 года назад +4

    I have been reading many comments from viewers and I am surprised to see the comments/perspectives of the majority. First of all, I don't blame Bilal for being careful about his future wife's motives and testing her from the beginning - although I hear what he is saying now that it was a prank, not a test. He is being accommodating to her feelings now and I don't blame him. a Happy wife is key to the success of the marriage.
    I know that Shaeeda had her living standards because of the life that she had back in her country, but she accepted Bilal for "What he is" based on her assumptions/pictures she had seen on his social media. When I saw her reaction to her first night, and then kneeling down and the next night praying when she saw the materialistic things that Belal really has, it made me question her loyalty to the good person that Bilal is. I find Bilal to be a good humble man who has achieved success in his life (God bless him for that). I hope that when the real first life test they encounter will not bring back memories of the test that Bilal put Shaeeda to.

    • @royaltii_
      @royaltii_ 2 года назад +1

      Then why lead w his money when he visited her and on social media to switch it up to "test" her in person. Of course it would confuse her and it only led her to say she knows she can't trust what he says. That's a horrible way to start life together.

    • @kreole0834
      @kreole0834 2 года назад

      You're right on point!

  • @rosesmall1245
    @rosesmall1245 2 года назад +4

    These two belong together and I see a a lot of lot of love and respect between the two of them …they will go a long way in their journey. All the best to them.

  • @qaaliahmed4984
    @qaaliahmed4984 2 года назад +4

    Maashaa Allaah Brother and sister my allah give you happiness , and long live 🥰

  • @anarchist_parable
    @anarchist_parable 2 года назад +18

    Eh eh, there's narcissism here. It's not about the money. A) After this woman leaves her family and culture to be with him he decides to "test" her. He's concerned that he's being lied to and so his response is to lie with the expectation that she should continue to trust him after. B) He presented himself one way and then showed her something else so he looks again like a liar which would be legitimately concerning. C)Any grown man that would live in a dripping house isn't respectable. He made himself look like the type of person who wasn't concerned with his surroundings. Even if you live in a shack it can be clean. F all dat

  • @kreole0834
    @kreole0834 2 года назад +1

    Infidelity is a pretty BIG DEAL!!! I don't blame him for being cautious, upcoming clips of him wanting a pre-nup, etc.
    He didn't cheat, Ex wife did. Y'all keep trying to make him out to be controlling. Only thing he is controlling is his tongue, not telling all his buisness!!

  • @cocoapuff134
    @cocoapuff134 2 года назад

    Looking like Ike and Tina during an interview...(Bilal side eyeing Shaeeda saying to himself: Just wait 'til we get home Anna Mae!)

  • @EbonyHaven
    @EbonyHaven 2 года назад +1

    I think they are perfect for one another. Good match. He will take good care of her heart. No more test Bilal, she's your woman!

  • @greendayrancid1751
    @greendayrancid1751 2 года назад +8

    the old house and truck are from his parents, red flags for this girl, her face is a $ sign

    • @angelina9233
      @angelina9233 2 года назад +5

      shes trinidadian what u expect

    • @slimmmmz9086
      @slimmmmz9086 2 года назад +1

      @@angelina9233 excuse you

    • @clevermoon9476
      @clevermoon9476 2 года назад

      ​@@angelina9233 do u want to try again

  • @Empresstracy1
    @Empresstracy1 2 года назад +1

    I love them ♥️ …. Nothing Beats a Trini Woman… We just Cannot be fake…. It’s a part of our culture that most outsiders are not accustom to…. Glad he took the time to understand her… changed my perspective of him.

  • @savannaf4728
    @savannaf4728 2 года назад +8

    I call complete bullshit

    • @sbello361
      @sbello361 2 года назад +2

      Yeah he's back tracking. He knows he looked foolish

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspa 2 года назад +4

    Was that a prank!
    It was childish, but no prank.
    He is a joke. It's not ok to do this.
    Do your due Diligence ,not pranks.
    Shows internal instability low esteem

  • @kurlenejohn5463
    @kurlenejohn5463 2 года назад +15

    I change my mind... I think Bilal is a great great man and I forgive his prank. You can see he has a soft heart. I have always loved the type of man he was as a father to his children and best friends with his ex - wife
    - I do NOT want the public sending this man hate messages !
    ● WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE ? THEY ARE SO UNKIND ! ●

    • @denine5232
      @denine5232 2 года назад +3

      Actually he's a narcissist who can't communicate correctly so he plays stupid games instead of being upfront. Who tf would want to be in a relationship with someone like that. You could see he was really enjoying his "prank" if you are that unsure and distrustful of someone why get engaged so fast? 7 days! The mature thing to do is to take your time and get to know someone.

    • @Nursegirlalexandra
      @Nursegirlalexandra 2 года назад

      No you are being manipulated by a narcissist. I think that he’s playing it off like it was a joke because of the backlash he received

  • @stellanagita5644
    @stellanagita5644 2 года назад +21

    It's so sad that someone can't love u for you. She was attracted to him because of the image he put out. Its so fake. Imagine if he looses all the wealth. She will leave

    • @royalty7390
      @royalty7390 2 года назад +2

      I was scrolling for this comment coz everyone's on this guys back and not hearing what this girls saying

    • @missiemessoud4165
      @missiemessoud4165 2 года назад +1

      100% she just wanted a Greencard

    • @jaybossupsettinz1615
      @jaybossupsettinz1615 2 года назад

      Bro that's Caribbean women for you they only care about image n wealth

  • @allisonaguillera5510
    @allisonaguillera5510 2 года назад +1

    Shaeeda definitely ain't shy , she got a quick insultive tongue😒 Bilal is clearly not being totally honest about why he pranked her 🙄 I truly believe is Bilal Who suggested they go on 90 day fiance. Every time Shaeeda speaks all i hear is gold digger she is so... Materialistic. I can see this ain't going to last ,both will be annoyed by each other in a few years.

    • @williewill3314
      @williewill3314 2 года назад

      Ppl and they mindset where you there when he told her to go on. Get a life ppl alway judging what they have no idea of

  • @abiolahector7737
    @abiolahector7737 2 года назад

    Well am glad that clear that up, glad they did this interview. Yes they are a real couple and real couple do have issues 💯👍

  • @ladyofthecentury
    @ladyofthecentury 2 года назад +1

    This sound like complete BS. She isn't even laughing or really smiling through the bull crap story that he is trying to pass off as a prank. Bilal scares me. I'd be out of there. Anyway there was no faucet in the kitchen sink so where the hell did the water come from?

  • @prettymamita
    @prettymamita 2 года назад +38

    They had to think hard about how to cover up his sickening “test” which he created tension & serious arguments out of, while lying to her all night. Lol booking an air bnb is NOT the same as what he did to her 😭😭😭 that justified nada. Man’s a narcissist and she’s an azz kisser. Cool “prank” bro 👍🏼😂

    • @elainefranco1971
      @elainefranco1971 2 года назад

      haaha. i agree. he never stopped talking and trying to cover up him just being a DICK

    • @royalty7390
      @royalty7390 2 года назад +2

      Bloody hell he never put his hands on her...sickening? what he did to her? she seems to be doing just fine 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @RondellKB
      @RondellKB 2 года назад +1

      She booked the AirBnb in the hood, would you have still said they don't compare if he was robbed or shot?

    • @foelife2488
      @foelife2488 2 года назад

      She’s a gold digger and he narcissist
      They lying on Allah

  • @rando42069
    @rando42069 2 года назад +1

    One thing to keep in mind through 90 Day Fiancé: TLC is producing a reality TV show for entertainment purposes. How much of 90 Day is reality and how much of it is TV show is unknown to us.
    TLC spins their stories any way they want to by editing. They can come very close to making black seem white and up seem down.

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme 2 года назад +2

    I really like them both. I understand them.