Although Taiwan has good health care system, I don’t think it’s long term care for elderly is good enough. I don’t know how that works in UK, but you probably can have a better choice.
@@jungTsai-f3t The health care system is fine the problem is too many common folk are abusing it,even now there are people bitching it's too much of a burden to support of one percent of people with rare condition that can be dealt with just one surgery so the other assholes can keep abusing the health care system as it is
and i'am for sure to say there will be plenty left if taiwaness people can stop take the health care system we have as a privilege and look at it as a "health care" system,we can surely have enough resources to take care our elder folks
很高興你能喜歡台灣這塊美麗的國家，也很佩服你帶領孩子的方式，不管結果如何，台灣都是你的第二個國家，無論去了哪邊，台灣依然的在這塊土地上，祝福你的心願能達成，和心愛的家人能在同一個國家生活。 I am very glad that you like Taiwan, a beautiful country, and I admire the way you lead your children. No matter what the result is, Taiwan is your second country. No matter where you go, Taiwan is still on this land. May your wishes come true and you can live in the same country with your beloved family.
I have the same feeling as you.The older I get, the more I want to go home, to the familiar land. At least everyone knows the jokes. Happy birthday William 🎉🎂
You do make some of the best videos I've ever watched. This one even brought me to tears.😢In my mind, you totally deserve more recognitions than you do now.😟
Yes, Taiwanese government we should looking after you as you have contributed so much for Taiwan. Salute 👍 By the way, William is a nice boy lucky you….
Always feel heart warming to see father and son’s reunion! No matter what decision you will make, I do believe that is the best decision at that moment. Family is always on the first priority, cherish every moment with those whom you love and love you. Getting older I could feel that I might have to get used to loneliness, family and friends will be a big support when you are old. If you could not have a partner in Taiwan to get old with you, I will strongly recommend you to live near by your family and friends around 50~55 years old. Still young enough to restart your life in home town. Life is short but worth to spend every minute with your family. You will find a best way for you and family. Enjoy the days with the birthday boy! Happy birthday to William!
You are absolutely a responsible father. I believe you can return to the UK and bring your son with you, even though UK tuition fees are really expensive. I'm a student preparing for university entrance exams, and I must study for at least 7 hours every day. I'm not sure if I'll be able to attend a good school. I have a dream of becoming an exchange student in London! Keep your spirits up; no matter where you are, I will still watch your videos.
@@lifeintaiwanI In short, Budhism says life is eternity, not only this life, there is also future life. So everyong and every thing we meet at this life is destined so just value the moment we meet together. When the time of leaving is coming, one should put down the tangled between each other, then the one who is leaving will not tangle to the other, the one staying is not sunk too much for the separate (or death), Because the two one loved each other before will perhaps meet in future life again
Great to see you gather with William in SA! That's indeed a hard decision to consider so much (especially family) when you live overseas. My husband is American and lives in Taiwan with me and I used to live and work in the USA and (studied in the UK before). He misses America more when living here longer just like I missed Taiwan when I lived abroad for longer time. Well, once weighing the situation and making a decision accordingly, you would know that it's the best thing to stay or leave.
Stay with your family !!!!! love you and appreciate your passion and love for Taiwan!! please do not worry if you need to leave Taiwan in the future and bring all the great memories with you!! hey, maybe could make some section about Life in South Africa ~!
Thank you for making the wonderful video. Happy birthday to William. In my opinion,Living in Taiwan is safe and convenient. Healthcare is cheap and high quality.Taiwan is a great country to retire.
Great video! Taiwan is such a wonderful and magical place but there is no substitute for family ❤️ William will never forget being with you on his birthday. Peace out!!! ✌🏻😄
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You are so kind！感謝你這麽照顧艾倫🎉🎉🎉
Whhhaaaaaatttttt?!?! That’s….. William will be so happy thank you Alex ❤️
@@lifeintaiwan get your boy a huge ice cream from uncle Alex ❤️🍦
艾倫加油。
Wow!!! $100 USD!!!
心中有台灣就好了 不論你身在何處永遠是台灣的家人
🥰
@@lifeintaiwan 有機會回台灣 推薦您可以接觸佛教 雖然不知道您的信仰 我也46歲 沒有結婚 也不想結婚 學佛很快樂自在…… 南無阿彌陀佛
我覺得心裡是否有台灣都不重要，只要不害他人、手法、適當的防人心，不過分的生活然後開心的生活就好
濫情
@@user-armytsinghwa 世界大同
家人永遠是最重要的!! 看到你的小孩如此成熟懂事 你的決定是對的 在台灣他只會變成一個不快樂的讀書機器而已 最後台灣永遠與你同在
True!!
Although Taiwan has good health care system, I don’t think it’s long term care for elderly is good enough. I don’t know how that works in UK, but you probably can have a better choice.
@@jungTsai-f3t The health care system is fine the problem is too many common folk are abusing it,even now there are people bitching it's too much of a burden to support of one percent of people with rare condition that can be dealt with just one surgery so the other assholes can keep abusing the health care system as it is
and i'am for sure to say there will be plenty left if taiwaness people can stop take the health care system we have as a privilege and look at it as a "health care" system,we can surely have enough resources to take care our elder folks
第四點真的頗令人感傷，當年紀愈來愈大，身旁的朋友一個個離開、本地朋友各自組建屬於自己的家庭時，我能理解與想像那偶爾會突如其來湧上的落寞與恐慌。
我的體會也是年紀到了 親友一位位離開 要不是海外打拼 權貴移民置產美國 要不就是真的離開往生了！
Yes... its part of expat life
@@lifeintaiwan I'm always so happy when I see your videos
最近也有深刻的感傷，一位認識相當相當久並且相當要好的馬來西亞決定移居新加坡，一方面很真心的替她開心，但另一方面在與他去旅行的路上也不小心一直落淚，他離開的生活變得很安靜...
太有良心了 , 對你姊姊 , 很少看到兄弟姊妹對其他兄弟姊妹有這種良心及反省的情況 ,
在八至九分鐘之後這段關於老年生活的問題 , 我個人建議 , 提高自己的生理健康比起找配偶更加來的實際且不浪費時間及損傷人性道德這類的部分 .
找配偶找伴永遠不會比自己的健康來的更加牢靠且信任 .
Very good point ... health before wife! hahaha
你說的非常有道理
@@lifeintaiwan這是真的 像ku那樣把身體鍛鍊好真的是一個很重要的事情
很高興你能喜歡台灣這塊美麗的國家，也很佩服你帶領孩子的方式，不管結果如何，台灣都是你的第二個國家，無論去了哪邊，台灣依然的在這塊土地上，祝福你的心願能達成，和心愛的家人能在同一個國家生活。
I am very glad that you like Taiwan, a beautiful country, and I admire the way you lead your children. No matter what the result is, Taiwan is your second country. No matter where you go, Taiwan is still on this land. May your wishes come true and you can live in the same country with your beloved family.
祝福您到南非和孩子自己家人團聚愉快
好好享受天倫之樂
期待您再次回到台灣
祝福有個美好的旅途❤
每次看到你去看威廉～都能感受到你多愛你的兒子❤
每個人都有自己的教育理念與觀點～
所以你的孩子你自己會關心！
希望你的旅途愉快❤也希望你們平安快樂～
我超級愛他！
心裡總是為兒子著想就是好爸爸，我也不明白別人到底批評什麼？每個人都有跟自己家人相處的模式，彼此有愛就是最好的相處模式❤
回到親愛的的家人身邊是最好的選擇！台灣就當是第二個家鄉，隨時歡迎回來看看。
Totally agree!
Always touched every time when Allan and William hug at the station. Thank you for making such a wonderful video.
Oh my goodnessssss thank you so much!!!
祝威廉11歲生日快樂🎂健康快樂長大唷！恭喜艾倫破30萬訂閱🎉
Thank you!
把握陪伴在孩子身邊與陪著孩子成長，就是最佳的選擇，家人永遠是最重要的。你的選擇大家都會100%支持。
沒有一個父母不是把孩子的需求放在最前面的，所以不論是否待在孩子身邊，請不用自責自己的選擇。我們都是最愛自己孩子的父母！祝福您與家人們。
對小孩有責任感的父親，就是好男人！👍！
你是超棒的爸爸
很多在身邊的爸爸
也不見得有你這樣用心
你說的好真實！
我也支持先讓小孩在西方的教育下成長，以後再考慮要不要回台灣
It’s what we think is best
艾倫真的是好爸爸，每年威廉的生日都不缺席。
相信自己的選擇，你是很棒的爸爸
關於小孩教育問題，個人單純覺得可以讓小孩自己一起充分參與討論，讓他自行選擇與衡量及分析關於想要的學習，也去尊重他個人的想法和選擇，從中也學習到要為自己的選擇負責並付出承擔！
Yes I agree
在家可以這樣操作
但台灣的學校 不會這樣教育你的小孩 只會要求聽話、順從、合群
不會引導小孩探索自己
永遠就是考試 考試 讀死書 唯有讀書高的想法根深蒂固
不重視未來的職涯發展跟個人特質展現
台灣的教育真的改進空間很大
如果老師是那種權威式的 小孩很容易變得不願意表自己
我甚至遇過補習班打來招生 我聽完跟他說要詢問小孩看小孩意願如何再決定
他竟然回我 難道你都不重視你小孩的未來????
真的讓人無言
威廉真的很可愛！父子重逢的那一刻，感動許多人！親情無可取代！
對我來說，你多數的影片都帶著闡述的意義，我喜歡。
而這一集是感動的一集。不單是見到你和在南非的兒子前妻聚會，
這一集你提到的都讓我感動。
一如既往地，這個主題裡你的真誠本質、
不避諱的談你的感受。
的確啊，是這樣的阿。
每個人都有千絲萬縷的感受與狀態在自己的生活裡，
要調整要面對。所以你所提到的可能離開生活多年地方的因素；
對與威廉分隔兩地決定因素，我都能懂（可能因為我的年齡55歲，與我的經歷）。
不懂的人就讓他不懂吧！因為人生本來就不是＂公式套用＂。
家人對每個人都有其重要性。
不婚到年紀大時，朋友群就很重要。（我也未婚）
教育體制影響小孩很大，人格養成階段非常重要，你的安排我認同。
至於＂開玩笑＂。台灣人也很喜歡開玩笑的，
只是外國人接觸的＂梗＂跟我們接觸的會不太一樣（我們接觸的社群也不同），
所以是你的玩笑一時台灣人聽不懂，所以卡住啦！
（如果是我可能會愣更久，因為我反應慢～）
祝福你 祝福每個人
都能依隨自己心 平安開心
（啊我現在待業中，要不然我想給你贊助呢！你讓我很感動）
推播出來第一個跳出你的影片
我很認真看完了
無論你在哪裡
心中有台灣就好了
以後要快快樂樂度過每一天才是最重要的!!!
選擇適合自己的地方，快樂生活，祝你一切順利
Good advice
每個人都會有情非得已的狀況，有家人的支持，是幸運的！😊
Agree!
你真的不用為自己的決定而無奈，威廉是你的寶貝，他未來的人生規劃相信你們一定更期望。住在臺灣久了後，相信你也已經知道無法離開如此方便，又永保健康的國度。祝你一路順風平安歸！
恭喜英國叔叔和兒子相聚在一起過生日🎉透過你在影片裡不斷地倒數和William 的距離，你真的是非常想念他、（好感人）。我覺得台灣目前的教育也許不是適合他，或許將來你會為了家人離開台灣，但這完全沒問題，隨時歡迎再來玩，或是做幾支告訴在台灣的朋友或粉絲（包括我）你很好。
台灣也很多人把小孩送去國外讀書 ，我覺得你的決定一定是為孩子好 ，就別在乎他人怎麼說了 ，更何況現在視訊很方便 ，天天陪伴也不是問題 ，看到威廉開心的說他喜歡不穿鞋 ，我覺得你真的教育出很棒的孩子
我住在台灣有時候想回自己的國家因為想家人。
但是回韓國就想台灣😭🇹🇼❤
我只覺得你做了很棒的選擇哈哈哈，不用覺得愧疚或負擔，人生本來就是不斷在變化❤
不結婚沒問題，老年時有健康的身體，有錢，有相同愛好的朋友，老年生活一樣很精彩，當然還有跟其他家人保持聯繫節日聚會更好。
看到威廉的時候我能感受到你的開心…小孩不在身邊的孤寂感只有自己知道…能抱到能摸到的時候真的很珍惜相處的每分每秒❤
該好好放個假、跟家人朋友好好聚聚、假期愉快
家人最重要，能陪伴小孩成長是正確的
Agree!
更好的狀態就是，大家一起努力，讓台灣變成雙語國家，一個更國際化，更先進，更多元團結，更適合各種族群與文化共生共融的地方。
我懂Alan的難處
感情好的家人在英國
最愛的兒子住在南非
需要在台灣工作賺錢
好友們目前都在台灣
年紀越來越大又單身
相信你會作出最好的選擇，加油
艾倫想去南非看望自己的兒子👍,希望有一天艾倫跟兒子,能常住在一起不在分開🥳☺️,還有什麼樣的生活教育對自己兒子好家人認可好,觀眾不給意見😅 祝福艾倫和兒子威廉心想事成、身體健康😆
Thank you!
I came back from Taiwan since last week I love it people ,friendly the food was great,the place are very beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
世界各地 每個人的生活方式 ，都是不一樣的、自己可以決定 要怎麼生活😊！
網路視訊很方便。疫情過後，交通也恢復方便！不像疫情擴散時 那裡都不方便！祝生活順❤
I will only say that you are always welcome in Taiwan. I'm glad you attach so much importance to Taiwan. Good Luck
Yes, thank you
跟孩子相處的部分真的很有愛❤️🥹
是個好爸爸👍👍
威廉生日快樂! 看到你們相聚真好~ 不管你做什麼決定都是最好的，祝你順利!
Thank you!
Allan的真誠讓我感動，有一說一，不做作！祝福你幸福長相隨，不論在何地！
William is so cute doing the ending part of this video, love to see you guys back together 🎉❤
He’s the best
祝福艾倫 威廉父子關係更親蜜連結，也祝福威廉生日快樂🎉❤
He had a great birthday thank you!
不管怎樣，台灣都是你和你家人的另一個家。平安
🇬🇧🇿🇦❤️🇹🇼
It’s so cute William is willingly not wearing shoes 😂 happy 11th birthday 🥳 You two are so happy together ❤bless you and your family!
Thank you so much 🤗
預祝你跟威廉有美好的親子時光！
Wowwwww thank you!!!!
謝謝你～很喜歡這類議題的分享👍
有些部份台灣人也會有一樣的共鳴，像是故鄉年邁父母的照顧問題、對於照顧者的愧疚感，又或是因為經濟因素而將小孩送回故鄉請祖父母照顧的週末父母……
這些都很現實但又需要平衡😣
最後，祝威廉生日快樂～～🎉
I have the same feeling as you.The older I get, the more I want to go home, to the familiar land. At least everyone knows the jokes.
Happy birthday William 🎉🎂
OMG thanks so much!!! I’ll share the super chat money with William! That’s so kind!
Rebecca can you message me on Instagram, I want to send you a gift from me and William for this generosity!
看到你和孩子擁抱的那刻實在太感動了❤
我就是不穿鞋，我願意這樣做。
這句話完全凸顯了教育的特色，真的好棒👍👍👍
Free to choose
愛家的男子漢！👍有緣再相會🙏。
歡迎帶家人來台灣玩！
我們永遠歡迎你！🫂daer my friend😘！
So nice thank you!
He's so big now! Happy birthday to William! Enjoy your trip!
He’ll be bigger than me soon!
祝福你不管在哪裡都感到幸福，按著心走
Agree!
人生本來就是來來去去的，很少會有永遠常駐的，祝你這趟旅途愉快
不管身在何處
家人永遠都是最棒的牽絆❤
Agree!
親人的聚會永遠讓人感動 無論在哪裡都支持你！
Thank you so much!
其實要不要繼續待在台灣是自己的選擇，若你覺得離開會更好，台灣人也會祝福你!!!對於大部分的台灣人而言會覺得賺錢去國外，退休回台灣，台灣的健保制度NO.1~~~非常贊同你說的家人永遠是最重要的，所以若是要退休了，我也支持你回家!!!!
感謝你，祝你身體健康
祝福你..不管在身在哪..都有台灣這個好朋友支持著你..愛著你..隨時歡迎你回來..
你做任何決定 只要你開心 我們永遠支持你 加油❤😊
哇！ William長大好多，跟Allen很像。相信能陪伴在孩子旁邊是家長的最大心願，選擇最適合孩子的環境也是個大難題，加油，Everything will get better！
You do make some of the best videos I've ever watched. This one even brought me to tears.😢In my mind, you totally deserve more recognitions than you do now.😟
Awww that’s so nice to hear thank you
Keep up the good work. 加油💪
能跟家人小孩住在一起是最幸福的事了
Yes absolutely
陪伴家人都是最第一優先的選項，也隨時歡迎你回來台灣
It doesn't matter where you are.
Choose what you love, and love what you chose.
Good luck and wish you are always full of love. ❤
威廉生日快樂🎂🎉
Yes, Taiwanese government we should looking after you as you have contributed so much for Taiwan.
Salute 👍
By the way, William is a nice boy lucky you….
Thanks! 😃
It really touched me to see you and your family reunited Wish you have a plesant holiday🥰
威廉生日快樂🎂
祝你旅途愉快🎉
Thank you!!
Have a safe and fun trip!!!!!
Thanks Nexus!
其實無論有沒有住台灣...與家人生活在一起才是最重要的...這點台灣朋友都能理解
畢竟單身年老若有個伴無論在哪裡生活是幸福的...未來如何選擇...對自已及家人都好是優先考量
當英國叔叔終於在機場見到兒子的那一刻....可惡!我竟然不自覺地掉下眼淚,
感覺到這就是漂泊在外,回家時第一眼看見最親愛的人的感覺嗎...
妳看到被美國英國入侵的國家會不會也流淚?
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@@wuwoo8586 沒禮貌的人,你會不會呢?
Always feel heart warming to see father and son’s reunion! No matter what decision you will make, I do believe that is the best decision at that moment. Family is always on the first priority, cherish every moment with those whom you love and love you.
Getting older I could feel that I might have to get used to loneliness, family and friends will be a big support when you are old. If you could not have a partner in Taiwan to get old with you, I will strongly recommend you to live near by your family and friends around 50~55 years old. Still young enough to restart your life in home town.
Life is short but worth to spend every minute with your family.
You will find a best way for you and family.
Enjoy the days with the birthday boy!
Happy birthday to William!
好期待威廉來台灣念書喔!!! 到時候你的訂閱量可能會衝到一百萬!!!
I hope so!
William happy birthday 🎉
祝福威廉11歲生日快樂🥳
Wow!!! Thank you Neel!
隨遇而安！心之所向！到哪裡都一樣！讓自己舒適開心就好。
親情 友情 愛情 哪一段會相伴的比較長 其實也沒有一定的答案
小孩也是會長大 展翅高飛離家而去
而朋友再多 也是各有所志 聚散難定
愛情 自是令人嚮往 但也可能剪不斷理還亂…
你的處境雖是艱辛無奈 但你擁有了可貴的家人
You are absolutely a responsible father. I believe you can return to the UK and bring your son with you, even though UK tuition fees are really expensive. I'm a student preparing for university entrance exams, and I must study for at least 7 hours every day. I'm not sure if I'll be able to attend a good school. I have a dream of becoming an exchange student in London! Keep your spirits up; no matter where you are, I will still watch your videos.
Wow thank you!
沒人希望和自己家人分開，但若這是最好的選擇，也未嘗不可！
個人覺得Allen太情緒化了, 台灣人說天下無不散的筵席, 我們都只是人生的過客, 腳下的土地只是借我們住一下而已, 人生結束後, 就把土地還給造物主了!
所以, 當你認為此刻對你而言, 去南非和兒子共度人生最重要, 你就去;
回英國陪伴父母最重要你就回;
需要在有人照顧你的地方養老, 你就到那個地方, 根本不必顧慮台灣如何,
台灣人會送你一句話: "但願人長久, 千里共蟬娟"! (祈願彼此都生活如意而且友誼長久, 大家各在千里之外也是同看一個月亮, 意謂同住一個世界, 天涯若比鄰, 大家並不感到孤單或疏遠!)
Wow so deep comment but I appreciate a lot.... and yes I am too emotional sometimes!
也不能說太情緒化 應該是比較感性 台灣人因為有信仰佛教 比較能了解 "天下無不散筵席" 人與人或物 終究會分離 佛陀說: 明天跟無常 不知誰先到
緣起緣滅，緣聚緣散， 一切有為法，皆是因緣合和，緣起時起，緣盡還無，不外如是
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In short, Budhism says life is eternity, not only this life, there is also future life.
So everyong and every thing we meet at this life is destined
so just value the moment we meet together. When the time of leaving is coming, one should put down the tangled between each other, then the one who is leaving will not tangle to the other, the one staying is not sunk too much for the separate (or death), Because the two one loved each other before will perhaps meet in future life again
You remind me an episode in Bluey call "Curry quest", you're definitely a true hero🥰
It hits me hard when you met William😭
休假愉快😀❤注意安全，一路平安👋👋Bon Voyage！😊
Great to see you gather with William in SA! That's indeed a hard decision to consider so much (especially family) when you live overseas. My husband is American and lives in Taiwan with me and I used to live and work in the USA and (studied in the UK before). He misses America more when living here longer just like I missed Taiwan when I lived abroad for longer time. Well, once weighing the situation and making a decision accordingly, you would know that it's the best thing to stay or leave.
Absolutely!!
Happy family time Allan & Happy birthday William!!
He had a beautiful birthday! Thank you!
Stay with your family !!!!!
love you and appreciate your passion and love for Taiwan!!
please do not worry if you need to leave Taiwan in the future and bring all the great memories with you!!
hey, maybe could make some section about Life in South Africa ~!
台灣隨時歡迎你們一家人回來～～
❤️
Happy birthday!!! Handsome William!
Thanks so much Kasing!!
Thank you for making the wonderful video.
Happy birthday to William.
In my opinion,Living in Taiwan is safe and convenient. Healthcare is cheap and high quality.Taiwan is a great country to retire.
家人永遠最重要 祝一切順心平安
Family first always
Hope all your families all safe and happy
沒有人會預測到未來會如何，也許有一天你會因為任何可能發生的事情離開也可以出現什麼事讓你選擇永遠留下來，這都是有可能發生的沒有人預料得到，祝福你們一家人
愛家人和朋友是人的本性，不論你到那裡，那裡就是你的家。
Great video! Taiwan is such a wonderful and magical place but there is no substitute for family ❤️ William will never forget being with you on his birthday. Peace out!!! ✌🏻😄
感謝艾倫～無論你在哪裡，做了哪些決定，你肯定並順心就好～不必理會其他的批評與否定。
人生是自己的，每個人都有適合自己的生活方式。
你的離開台灣，我感到很不捨，會難過，但，祝福！！
注意身體健康，平安。❤
令人感動的一段旅程 好好享受假期吧❤❤❤
Thank you very much!
我也曾經為了多鑽點錢出國工作五年,離開懷孕的太太跟沒法陪伴太太整個孕程甚至提早二天生產我都還回不來 ! 等經濟狀況更好一點後才回台 幾年過後我依然覺得當初的決定是對的 ,幾年的短暫分開 更讓現在的家裡有更好地環境跟經濟狀況
好好享受與家人相聚的時光。
你提出的這幾點見解，不論身在何處都需要人好好去思考，雖然一開始有些許感到標題太慫動了，但是很感謝自己有點進來，挺發人深省