"BETRAYAL SYNDROME" | Why Deception Hurts | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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- Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
- Betrayal syndrome is a term coined Jennifer Freyd who discussed a trauma in which an individual is betrayed by someone the individual trusts and relies on.
It is not a diagnosis, clinical term, or medical term but rather describes a series of behaviors that may occur after an individual has been betrayed or experienced deception -- and may have been betrayed multiple times and for extended periods of time.
Humans tend to struggle with the concept of deception because it isn't something easy to spot -- especially when that deceptive person is a family member.
In this video, I introduce the concept of betrayal syndrome and discuss the identification of deception in your life.
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#trauma #POSTBETRAYALSYNDROME
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:26 "betrayal blindness"
2:29 forms of deception you need to know
3:45 post betrayal syndrome (PBS) signs
4:15 common forms of abuse
5:24 examples of PBS
6:21 "symptoms" of PBS
7:00 mistrust of society and big corporations (could lead to feelings of being gangstalked)
8:19 what really happens to you
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Post betrayal trauma can be complicated. It can lead to PTSD and even CPTSD. Check the description box for more information. And you may find my previous video helpful on a similar topic: ruclips.net/user/livej5ZNveots24
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Complicated grief disorder can also be a result.
The best explanation for betrayal blindness ive read is when a child experiences this from a parent, they subconsciously deny it because of the cognitive dissonance. The need for survival and attachment is threatened by the parent- who their survival depends on. Therefore, resulting in being blind to it in the future.
The studies of the woman who discovered begrayal trauma state that the severeity of distress is comparable to rape.
So sorry I missed this. I didn't get the notification until 2 hours late.
Betrayal is the worst thing you can experience because it damages trust. But Betrayal can also come from the realization that someone in your life, in my case a parent, was actually narcissist and that I was just supply. That's a soul deep Betrayal too.
That is a "soul deep betrayal." Good way to put that.
I admire your efforts to educate humanity into higher consciousness.
Thank you Tamara for educating me. These topics are extremely interesting to me.
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You are so welcome! ❤ And those words are beautify said. Thank you.
You explained my issues so well.
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Hello everyone! So glad to catch this live! Tamara, your videos are so helpful to me. I discovered this channel a few days ago and am excited to join this community!
You are so welcome! And welcome to the channel. I will hopefully see you live on Friday after 6pm. I'm happy to talk about this more.
thank you for this, I have also not heard this before. I have myself called my experience of this "gaslight trauma" or like a distortion of my reality : The person i loved and trusted was not the person I thought they were. And this person told me I was the one with the personality disorder - and I BOUGHT IT. This lead me to see that I was wrong, my perception was wrong - so after some time I could not even trust myself to know "what is up and what is down ? "
My mind was racing constantly and switching from distrust and over to denial - because I really loved this person and did not want this to be true. Denial of reality. Defense mechanisms. Protecting myself from the pain of accepting that the person that I loved was a con artist ( and also not knowing how much this person was delusional, and what was deliberate ). I believe i was on my way into psychosis. This awful awful experience lasted for about 6 weeks, but keeping track of time in this period was almost impossible. At the same time, my nervous system in my entire body ( and it felt llike this inside my head also ) was trembling. I developed neuropathy under my feet that lasted for about 1month. My hands are still shaking, but it is settling down. A huge nuke of PTSD into my already cPTSD after years of toxic abuse
This was after breakup after 10 years with my ex. Narcissist gf.
some kind of folie a deux.
horrible experience. But wow - I learned so much.
Listening now! This is so important. 💜
WOW! U are hitting me hard. U are hitting many ppl I know. I'm ex-military & many ex-military are this way. This is a beautiful video. Today is 911 & it's horrific for many Americans. Thank u so much for this video. GOD 🙏 Bless u!!!
Great topic and discussion!
This was much needed, Thank You! I've been watching your videos for a while now and you've given more solutions to my problems than my actual therapists here. All they want to do is spoon feed me medications and listen to me carry on for 30 minutes.
You are so welcome!🤗 Thank you. I'm glad this was helpful to you!
Hello Tamara
You define this to a tee I've had betrayl and all my adult relationships withnmen have been trauma bonded Im exhausted because Im a soft hearted petson only looking for a good partner never never works out
Thank you for the video
It can be self-fulfilling, when treating others suspiciously provokes let-down or mistrust
“Mother is a psychopath and father is a narcissist” how did you know? Is this combo common?
You can explain anything. Sorry I missed your live video. I've been very busy
😊 thank you! Always glad to see you here.
This is just what I needed. I listen to you and Jerry Wise for information about childhood trauma. I don't have a therapist, so God brought me to your community 🙏 The knowledge that you share is priceless
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I got used I feel betrayed
I'm sorry.😔
Never easy to deal with but you can learn to cope. I do believe we all feel some sort of betrayal at some point in our lives.
Why are parents always being blamed?
Not always. It may seem that way. There are plenty of adult children who are problematic as well. But that's not the focus of my channel so you won't see much of that here unless I'm talking about parents.
Happy suicide prevention month everyone.
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Grooming 🤢
Yes. It's horrible.