I spent a day with people w/ TERMINAL ILLNESSES

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 21 фев 2021
  • I spent a day with people who have terminal illnesses to learn the truth about navigating such a complicated and devastating diagnosis.
    ⚕️100% of profits from this video will be donated to American Cancer Society. Consider donating: donate3.cancer.org
    🔴SUBSCRIBE ▸ ruclips.net/user/subscription_cent...
    🎙NEW PODCAST
    Spotify ▸ open.spotify.com/show/5aOLuPe...
    Apple ▸ podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
    🧨HUGE thank you to:
    ▸ JEREMIE - / jeremiesaunders & / sickboypodcast
    ▸ KALIE - / @kaliechips
    ▸ RUTHIE - / princessbeautymua & / pink_princess69
    ❗️TERMINAL ILLNESS/HEALTH RESOURCES
    ▸ www.cancer.org - The American Cancer Society is a nationwide, community-based voluntary health organization dedicated to eliminating cancer as a major health problem.
    ▸ www.abta.org - Founded in 1973, the American Brain Tumor Association was the first national advocacy organization committed to funding brain tumor research and providing information and education to patients, caregivers, and their loved ones.
    ▸ www.cff.org - The mission of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation is to cure cystic fibrosis and to provide all people with CF the opportunity to lead long, fulfilling lives.
    🗯MORE I SPENT A DAY WITH…
    ▸ COMA SURVIVORS - • I spent a day with COM...
    ▸ DEATH ROW SURVIVORS - • I spent a day with DEA...
    ▸ COVID VACCINE RECIPIENTS - • I spent a day with COV...
    🎥Crew
    ▸ Creator, Director, Writer, etc. - Anthony Padilla
    ▸ Executive Producer - Alessandra Catanese
    ▸ Production Coordinator, Co-writer & Research - Elise Felber
    ▸ Director of Photography/Gaffer - Zach Zeidman
    ▸ Editor - Mike Criscimagna AKA Mork Crispy
    ▸ Assistant Editor - Patrick Horba
    ▸ Post PA / Assistant Editor - Ash Duckworth
    🎵Theme Music Composer - Matt Good AKA The King of Emo
    🖼Portrait painted by: Rhianna Robles - / zerogattsu
    📢BE ON THE SHOW
    ▸ If you are part of an underrepresented subculture or live a lifestyle you feel is not widely understood and would like to be interviewed by me, email inquiry[at]pressalike.com with your subculture in the title of the email.
    ❗️You dug this deep into the description. You owe it to yourself to subscribe ▶ ruclips.net/user/subscription_cent...
    💉Self plug
    ▸ / anthonypadilla
    ▸ / anthonypadilla
    ▸ / anthonypadilla

Комментарии • 4,3 тыс.

  • @AnthonyPadilla
    @AnthonyPadilla  3 года назад +2641

    come back this Friday for *I spent a day with people w/ ALBINISM*.
    🎙NEW PODCAST:
    Spotify ▸ open.spotify.com/show/5aOLuPenneHbhLh05fmkeu
    Apple ▸ podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-spent-a-day-with/id1550213250

    • @jaxmlarker
      @jaxmlarker 3 года назад +21

      Yo. Your podcast is gonna be great. I just know

    • @kiwiyt8556
      @kiwiyt8556 3 года назад +3

      Wassop

    • @awares
      @awares 3 года назад +6

      nice, ive been waiting for this.

    • @himikoyonaga3065
      @himikoyonaga3065 3 года назад +39

      Can you please do "I spent a day with Holocaust Survivers"

    • @danlobs2543
      @danlobs2543 3 года назад +1

      Barely 26 likes

  • @Nitemurr
    @Nitemurr 3 года назад +9068

    Mad respect to the people coming on here and talking about this.

    • @sarvajeeth.y6936
      @sarvajeeth.y6936 3 года назад +2

      890 like omfg

    • @malumute
      @malumute 3 года назад +3

      I know right!

    • @jaxmlarker
      @jaxmlarker 3 года назад +3

      Mhm

    • @megadoodoo6511
      @megadoodoo6511 3 года назад

      They are so brave

    • @jadebroadhurst4697
      @jadebroadhurst4697 3 года назад

      @@megadoodoo6511 you clearly didn’t even watch the video. They were literally talking about how it doesn’t make them special or inspirational

  • @rickyharris7390
    @rickyharris7390 3 года назад +2755

    Ruthie is my other half and I do not know a more courageous or a stronger person she refuses to let her illness define her instead she lives her life how she wants and she is not hung up on all of the bullshit she is not able to control and I could not ask for a better partner or mother for our kids thank you babe you are the best

    • @spacebandit2834
      @spacebandit2834 3 года назад +39

      Come on Internet this needs more likes and attention!

    • @TiaraHerr
      @TiaraHerr 3 года назад +37

      I can tell that Ruthie carries the weight of the world on her shoulders. She seems like such a loving, wonderful person who lives her life to the fullest while still acknowledging her physical and emotional pain. Her honesty resonated with me a lot and I hope she realizes that her vulnerability in this video has touched a lot of people. I wish I could give you a HUGE hug, Ruthie. Everyone always says, "you're so strong!" and it never feels like that descriptor actually ascribes to us; watching you in this video opened my eyes to what it means to be strong. Strong doesn't mean you push aside and refuse to let your pain/conditions hold you back. That is damaging because it makes us feel like we should never talk about our conditions or struggles. What strong means is acknowledging that life gave us the shit end of the stick and STILL, despite all of the hurdles, forging ahead, living life, and cherishing the world for the time we have left in it. Thank you for sharing your story, Ruthie!

    • @theaprilthing
      @theaprilthing 3 года назад +3

      💘💘💘💘💘

    • @mauricecooper8786
      @mauricecooper8786 3 года назад +3

      🥺

    • @emma.makvandi
      @emma.makvandi 3 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mistihansen8265
    @mistihansen8265 3 года назад +6293

    I teach homebound students. One of my kids with cancer was entering his senior year, but he knew he wouldn’t make it to graduation. I asked him if he wanted me to arrange for an early diploma. Before he could answer, his mom repeated the question, and he said, “Well, DUH, Mom. 🙄” I don’t know why that cracked me up. I guess I appreciated the fact that he was at the point of just speaking his mind...no filter. He was an awesome kid.

    • @evelarsen7236
      @evelarsen7236 3 года назад +433

      I am sorry for your loss, you were clearly such a great teacher and definitely made a difference in that kids life!

    • @mistihansen8265
      @mistihansen8265 3 года назад +244

      @@evelarsen7236 that is very kind of you to say. Thank you.

    • @evelarsen7236
      @evelarsen7236 3 года назад +74

      @@mistihansen8265 of course!

    • @battlecatsubernoob1924
      @battlecatsubernoob1924 2 года назад +118

      @@mistihansen8265 thank you for making his last moments nice and impactful for him and his family

    • @Dougiewoof
      @Dougiewoof 2 года назад +61

      I appreciate your work. I'm a cancer survivor and I had to do homebound for several months. Teachers don't get enough appreciation.

  • @vikandodat
    @vikandodat 2 года назад +2541

    I watched this the day it came out, at the time my dad had stage 4 cancer. This helped me not be so scared for him. He died 4 days later. Thank you for bringing us some peace.

    • @KM-ld9ln
      @KM-ld9ln 2 года назад +30

      ❤️❤️

    • @amyprada5567
      @amyprada5567 2 года назад +51

      Im so sorry, last april i lost my best pony friend, but loosing somebody you've bonded with and known all your life is terrible, I had known the pony for 2 years. Everyone told told me to think about happy times, what they cant tell is when you think about happy times, you end up in tears.

    • @TheLyricsAnalyst
      @TheLyricsAnalyst Год назад +14

      I’m so sorry to hear that, I know that God is looking after him up there :))

    • @katieweeman5007
      @katieweeman5007 Год назад +11

      I know this comment is a year old but sending you tons of love and support

    • @TheKhaleesii
      @TheKhaleesii Год назад +6

      Hope youre doing well!❤

  • @Princessbeautymua
    @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +6671

    Anthony thank you again for the opportunity to share my story. I’m sorry about the video quality I cleaned the camera beforehand but the computer I had to use is 10* yrs old so maybe it had to do with that. You are such an awesome amazing human being and I can’t even find the words to explain how uplifting, freeing, weight removing etc it was to be able to share my life and part of my story! Please keep this series going until the day you leave youtube( which I hope u never do)
    Sincerely grateful always,
    Ruthie aka Princessbeautymua

    • @AnthonyPadilla
      @AnthonyPadilla  3 года назад +1304

      thank you so much for being a part of this and sharing your story with us in such a vulnerable way. your story was immensely inspiring for me and i’m so happy to hear a weight was lifted off your shoulders as well! keep being amazing.

    • @-NRB-
      @-NRB- 3 года назад +73

      Oh wow it’s really you. Hey there Ruthie 👋

    • @amvlover3417
      @amvlover3417 3 года назад +41

      Would be great if we could ve hear more about u ❤️

    • @FasFas160
      @FasFas160 3 года назад +64

      Thank YOU Ruthie. We're all super thankful to you for being willing to share such a personal part of your life with Anthony and all of us viewers. You help make the world a better, more empathetic and understanding place. Wishing you and your family all the best.

    • @TiaraHerr
      @TiaraHerr 3 года назад +29

      I posted this on your other half's comment, but I saw your comment and wanted to make sure you saw it! Here is what I wrote:
      I can tell that Ruthie carries the weight of the world on her shoulders. She seems like such a loving, wonderful person who lives her life to the fullest while still acknowledging her physical and emotional pain. Her honesty resonated with me a lot and I hope she realizes that her vulnerability in this video has touched a lot of people. I wish I could give you a HUGE hug, Ruthie. Everyone always says, "you're so strong!" and it never feels like that descriptor actually ascribes to us; watching you in this video opened my eyes to what it means to be strong. Strong doesn't mean you push aside and refuse to let your pain/conditions hold you back. That is damaging because it makes us feel like we should never talk about our conditions or struggles. What strong means is acknowledging that life gave us the shit end of the stick and STILL, despite all of the hurdles, forging ahead, living life, and cherishing the world for the time we have left in it. Thank you for sharing your story, Ruthie!

  • @danimalloy9569
    @danimalloy9569 3 года назад +3765

    As a person with a terminal illness/life-limiting illness, I can confidently say that everyone’s experiences with terminal illnesses are different and people’s feelings and choices should be respected. An off day for one person with a TI may be completely different from another’s so be patient and be kind because EVERYONE deserves a happy life and shouldn’t feel guilty or like a burden for something they have no control over. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @vaudevilleandvariety
      @vaudevilleandvariety 3 года назад +123

      Yes! The one thing my dad hated was the "you can fight this" "you're so strong" stuff that people thing is really helpful. He would get annoyed, because with some diagnoses it doesn't matter how hard you fight or how strong you are. It made him feel like he was not trying hard enough and made him feel guilty when he got sicker, even though there was literally nothing he could have done. People just don't think before they say things sometimes.

    • @mallorysierra_
      @mallorysierra_ 3 года назад +14

      your last name kind of looks like my first name

    • @danimalloy9569
      @danimalloy9569 3 года назад +24

      @@vaudevilleandvariety Yeah and that really sucks because people will say stuff like that out of kindness but it always hurts the most. 💔

    • @Enraged.
      @Enraged. 3 года назад +3

      I’m sorry to hear about that but if you don’t mind me asking, what terminal illness do you have..?

    • @Vapor_ze_floof_
      @Vapor_ze_floof_ 3 года назад +4

      This makes me appreciate life so much

  • @Zombbitch
    @Zombbitch Год назад +1486

    My mom has CF. She was told she would die at 18. She's 40 now. I love her so much.

    • @guardianofpeace6393
      @guardianofpeace6393 Год назад +67

      Wow, your mom’s strong! Glad she’s holding on🎉

    • @beppa
      @beppa Год назад +1

      dwafaw102.

    • @Verhoeven1980
      @Verhoeven1980 Год назад +10

      If she expected to die at 18... why are you alife?! Why did she chose a kid, despite death around the corner?

    • @Zombbitch
      @Zombbitch Год назад +53

      @@Verhoeven1980 she had me at 26.

    • @AdrianTheG
      @AdrianTheG Год назад

      @@Verhoeven1980 you are not smart are you

  • @yerbhaw9122
    @yerbhaw9122 3 года назад +3395

    when jeremie did the part about setting a timer for your death, I immediately started crying. because instead of being afraid or panicking and saying goodbye, what immediately came to mind was putting on clothes I don't have the confidence to wear, dancing outside, bonding with trees, braiding my partner's hair. i think from now on I'm going to try to stop being scared and just love and live openly, because those really were tears of joy in being able to do what I'm always so afraid of

    • @Sweaterlatethannever
      @Sweaterlatethannever 2 года назад +97

      That exercise and your comment really got me thinking: today i was talking to my therapist about how I was scared I was going to be judged for my tattoos and also my own daily thoughts of looking “good enough” or “fitting in”. If I only had hours left to live, I would spend the day with my best friends and not be afraid of what others think. We will hopscotch and play in rivers and dance/sing in public and laugh unapologetically and I will let them know with my time and actions how much I love them and the world.

    • @Beetless
      @Beetless 2 года назад +6

      cool

    • @sincerely_bridget
      @sincerely_bridget Год назад +23

      you, random stranger, i like you.
      p.s.: hope you decided to live in the moment and let yourself love

    • @flynncrean8107
      @flynncrean8107 Год назад +4

      I had a similar experience, it made what he was saying very real for me

    • @MarieM-ui4bu
      @MarieM-ui4bu Год назад +3

      I felt this too, I have so much desires that I really afraid to accomplish, like having kids, starting a family with my partner, and the thing is that I may not have enough time for making these dreams come true,just because I wasted so much lifetime with fear.

  • @yuli1_266
    @yuli1_266 3 года назад +3293

    Okok but Jeremie is that one guy that's just immediately likeable. His perspective on things are just so *brain explodes*

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +52

      I very much enjoyed watching his interview

    • @KellyLoom1s
      @KellyLoom1s 3 года назад +10

      @@Princessbeautymua thanks for sharing your story 💜

    • @miloshae7919
      @miloshae7919 3 года назад +5

      I love Jeremie Saunders and his podcast with his friends called sick boy :)

    • @msig206
      @msig206 3 года назад +1

      Mind blowing? 🙂 i agree!

    • @spiritualsnail1584
      @spiritualsnail1584 3 года назад +4

      If he wrote a book about anything, I'd RUN lol.

  • @felipem7626
    @felipem7626 3 года назад +4488

    Anthony here giving a voice to people who usually dont get one.
    Respect man

    • @bonbin6053
      @bonbin6053 3 года назад +11

      I agree FN2187

    • @MSorge13
      @MSorge13 3 года назад +5

      Agreed! And I’m honoured to be your comment’s 1,000th like. 🙂

    • @felipem7626
      @felipem7626 3 года назад +4

      @@MSorge13 holy shit. Went to sleep and then bam. Thanks man

    • @las5510
      @las5510 3 года назад +5

      I absolutely love his videos because he touches on topics that tend to be Taboo in our society or misunderstood. Like this video resonated with me so deeply because I'm terminally ill and it drives me nuts how I have to tiptoe around the topic of death and dying because other people get so uncomfortable with it. It actually prevents me from being able to go through my experience and process it in the way that I need to that's best for myself because I'm so busy consoling others about it. He hits on all the topics that we all should be comfortable with talking about and not shying away from.

    • @MSorge13
      @MSorge13 3 года назад

      @@las5510 Thank you so much for your comment, and I wish you all my best for the rest of your life. ❤️

  • @ebear6425
    @ebear6425 3 года назад +2632

    As soon as I saw Jeremie I was like, “ yep, he definitely has either a RUclips channel or a podcast cause look at that miccccc”

    • @rebeccawilliams2410
      @rebeccawilliams2410 2 года назад +13

      Yess hahaha

    • @icebergsumgin_6364
      @icebergsumgin_6364 2 года назад +229

      what gave it away for me was his efficiency in speaking and how clear and solid his voice sounded. I was like" this man must do something with his voice and ability to make effective speech tectincs or it all is going to waste" and boom! he does PODCASTS!XD

    • @WhoamI-su7pg
      @WhoamI-su7pg 2 года назад +7

      What is the podcast called?

    • @GeorgiaMarie98x
      @GeorgiaMarie98x 2 года назад +16

      @@WhoamI-su7pg SickBoyPodcast!

    • @cradleoffemmes6450
      @cradleoffemmes6450 2 года назад

      It's a Shure SM7B

  • @dave6800
    @dave6800 Год назад +300

    Some good news for yall. In just the past decade the average life expectancy of CF people has jumped from 38 to 53. It's insane that their life expectancy is increasing faster than time is.

    • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
      @The_Jazziest_Coffee Год назад +24

      that's really good
      you know it's kinda crazy how far medical innovation has gone, literally back in 2018 apparently from what i heard from my optometrist the best solution for correcting shortsightnedness would've been only the lasik eye surgery or contacts, but hey now i'm wearing correctional glasses that literally are stopping further development
      ofc i absolutely do not have it as bad as ppl with terminal illnesses, or mental disorders and whatnot, but i'm just entirely grateful for the innovations that keep occuring to improve our lives and everyone elses

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Год назад

      ​@@The_Jazziest_Coffee pretty sure glasses came before contacts

    • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
      @The_Jazziest_Coffee Год назад +3

      @@ComedyGlor lol i meant like actually curing it
      i should've worded that better, glasses are like a very very old innovation in comparison to lasik and whatnot, but it never really cures eye disorders as opposed to lasik or contacts and all

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Год назад

      @@The_Jazziest_Coffee ? Contacts don’t cure eye disorders either. They have the same function as glasses

    • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
      @The_Jazziest_Coffee Год назад +2

      @@ComedyGlor yeah, i mean they are almost stabilise it but yeah i'm kinda wrong on that too

  • @itsmellslikeupdoginhere5756
    @itsmellslikeupdoginhere5756 3 года назад +17368

    These people are going to be immortalized here forever. That's kinda cool.

    • @gordonfreeman4341
      @gordonfreeman4341 3 года назад +273

      Ironic, isn't it😔?
      They have our respect in perpetuity.

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 3 года назад +214

      So will we due to our comments here.

    • @itsmellslikeupdoginhere5756
      @itsmellslikeupdoginhere5756 3 года назад +67

      @@melaninandaura9713 that's also true!

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +234

      I liked that aspect of sharing knowing that my story could continuously help people really made me feel better about life

    • @marvelchild7
      @marvelchild7 3 года назад +66

      @@Princessbeautymua rock on Ruthie 🤘🏽 thankyou for sharing your story 🙏🏽❤

  • @jeremiesaunders7013
    @jeremiesaunders7013 3 года назад +16037

    Wow. Going through these comments has me tearing up over here. In a good way!! Thanks for all the love and support folks. It really means the world to me that you tuned in and found at least some of what was said here to be useful. Big ups to Anthony and the whole team for pulling this together and continually producing such important and insightful content. xoxo

    • @AnthonyPadilla
      @AnthonyPadilla  3 года назад +2704

      thank you jeremie! your insight is absolutely incredible and it was an honor to sit down with you. found myself feeling deeply inspired by your perspective of life. you helped bring me out of a deep stress/anxiety loop i’d been in for quite a while. thanks again for being so vulnerable on my show and sharing your wisdom 🖤

    • @sunflowerly9300
      @sunflowerly9300 3 года назад +183

      You are such an amazing human. God bless you 💓

    • @auroradazed
      @auroradazed 3 года назад +104

      thank you so much for sharing your perspective and your story.

    • @stardoll1995
      @stardoll1995 3 года назад +64

      thank you so much for sharing! I've been the type of person that whenever I want to do something I can't make myself wait to do it and people have always told me I'm wrong and that I shouldn't always be in a rush but as you said our time here is very limited and I just really wanna do whatever I wanna do and when I wanna do it so that when my time comes at least I can say I did as much as I was capable of.

    • @PMacMoraes
      @PMacMoraes 3 года назад +30

      You are an inspirational and overall amazing human. Please know that having watched this made all the difference for me (and I'm sure, many others). Thank you!

  • @whatsupfuckers4078
    @whatsupfuckers4078 Год назад +869

    My girlfriend has a terminal illness since birth. Im planning to make her limited time the best it can be. She has time until 35 at most. We’re both 17 now.

    • @michellelam5268
      @michellelam5268 Год назад +57

      much love to u both!!! im 20 turning 21 and seeing the younger wave of my generation be so optimistic in a world that is tough is rly inspiring🤍i hope she lives as long as possible and is happy :)

    • @whatsupfuckers4078
      @whatsupfuckers4078 Год назад +53

      @@michellelam5268 ty a lot :) im planning to propose soon so we can begin our life together as soon as possible

    • @michellelam5268
      @michellelam5268 Год назад +29

      @@whatsupfuckers4078 that’s amazing. i hope to return to this forum in the next 5 years and hear that y’all are married!!🥰

    • @whatsupfuckers4078
      @whatsupfuckers4078 Год назад +19

      @@michellelam5268 ofc! I promise I’ll remember to do so

    • @tysonwastaken
      @tysonwastaken Год назад +15

      and maybe just maybe theyll find a cure in those 18 years

  • @allisonclark301
    @allisonclark301 Год назад +440

    Anthonys face at 6:38 is heartbreaking. that's why I watch these. seeing Anthonys face lets me know he is actually listening and actually care.

  • @staarshiny270
    @staarshiny270 3 года назад +3318

    All of these wonderful people are so powerful.
    Jeremie's school letter made me cry, so glad he felt comfortable sharing with the world

    • @nameiszombie7854
      @nameiszombie7854 3 года назад +15

      This was honestly touching.. but I'm so sorry for getting the to 666 likes

    • @emmanuelsandoval1870
      @emmanuelsandoval1870 3 года назад +2

      Lol this is so irrelevant but his letter had so many mistakes and grammatical errors 😭

    • @Abby-je6nj
      @Abby-je6nj 2 года назад +2

      @@emmanuelsandoval1870 he was 16

  • @melliemraw
    @melliemraw 3 года назад +1901

    This video just hits the feels. I lost a friend in highschool to cystic fibrosis. I never really understood his life as being cut short because he was always so full of life, creative, and one of the best people I ever met. Always challenged me to be a better person. Then, I got that call from his step-brother saying he had 2 days left to live. We all rushed to the hospital and spent what time we could with him, but also giving his family that moment to embrace. He lived for a full week longer than expected. I'll never forget the calmness he had in his final moments, and I carry the memory of our time together forever.

    • @septemily
      @septemily 3 года назад +63

      Man this comment made me cry when even the video didn’t. I can’t imagine losing someone so early in your life and still seeing it as you do. I can only hope to think this way if I lose a loved on.

    • @sunnym2458
      @sunnym2458 3 года назад +9

      This is so sad . Did he seem scared during those last days ?

    • @kwiggy5091
      @kwiggy5091 3 года назад +12

      I have a friend with cystic fibrosis, it's horrid to suddenly remember sometimes that he won't live that long.

    • @JamieODonnellVFX
      @JamieODonnellVFX 3 года назад +20

      As someone who has cystic fibrosis this hits home, the weird thing is I’ve never been afraid of dying as soon as I had a concept of death I was told that my life will end shorter than most so I’ve always been aware of it. I feel like a lot of CF patients also are aware so that’s likely why he was so calm, that and having you and his family around him. People like you are the ones that make the most impact on our lives. Friends like you make the bad days worth it. I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @ThePlagueDoctor_or_SCP049
      @ThePlagueDoctor_or_SCP049 3 года назад +1

      *virtual hug*

  • @katelyn_7509
    @katelyn_7509 Год назад +768

    if anyone came in search of an update on these lovely people: all three are currently alive and doing good from what i can tell!
    -
    jeremie is currently on a medication for cf that has the potential to lengthen his lifespan significantly!!

  • @cassidy2453
    @cassidy2453 3 года назад +1008

    I have Cystic Fibrosis and it means so much to see someone on here who has experienced the same things i have. :’)

    • @RealTalkWithSSG
      @RealTalkWithSSG 3 года назад +33

      I hope you're doing well, you're awesome.❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @holzman00
      @holzman00 2 года назад +21

      All the best to you 💕💕💕

    • @anniek3866
      @anniek3866 2 года назад +7

      Hope you are well ❤
      I've had a friend with cf and it was in my family before as well
      You're absolutely not alone 😊

    • @jaxi177
      @jaxi177 2 года назад +2

      💜

    • @matthewlambert1466
      @matthewlambert1466 2 года назад +7

      My wife is thriving since taking trikafta

  • @genderenigma8276
    @genderenigma8276 3 года назад +1314

    imagine being his teacher, looking at one of your students, expecting to see something about college goals...
    and then seeing one of your students talking about his disease and wondering how he's going to die.

    • @ankitachandravansi5958
      @ankitachandravansi5958 3 года назад +80

      I know right..!! I'm a teacher and there was a student in grade 2 who wasn't very attentive in studies.We knew later he had brain tumors.. only child of his parents..We only knew after he was absent for a month..I enquired,called his mom.. Within a week whole school,teachers,staff members and parents of other students donated for his operation..But I don't know what happened. I don't have any contacts to ask about him.. I still think about it..

    • @ami9486
      @ami9486 3 года назад +18

      @@ankitachandravansi5958 I hope your student is doing well....

    • @ankitachandravansi5958
      @ankitachandravansi5958 3 года назад +9

      @@ami9486 I wish I get to see him someday..doing fine..!!

    • @gabrielagarland3372
      @gabrielagarland3372 3 года назад

      I would honestly cry

    • @lisalovespie5626
      @lisalovespie5626 3 года назад +5

      lmao you guys wouldn't like me then, that's how i was during school/college, the whole time not caring about learning because i know i'm going to die young so there's no point, when i got asked about my future i always just laughed 'what future?' but hey, i'm 25 and still alive somehow lol

  • @kadenpich6973
    @kadenpich6973 3 года назад +2344

    Jeremie’s view on death is really fascinating to hear. I’ve never thought about it that way.

    • @britnysnyder4991
      @britnysnyder4991 3 года назад +12

      Yes its very eye opening

    • @Asbestoslover666
      @Asbestoslover666 3 года назад +47

      check out death-positivity and also caitlyn daughty's channel (ask a mortician) on youtube! its super cool and gives a really good view of death

    • @haleylikescheese
      @haleylikescheese 3 года назад +8

      @@Asbestoslover666 I was about to comment that! She has changed my view on life and death

    • @gaeb-hd4lf
      @gaeb-hd4lf 3 года назад +5

      If you enjoyed this i highly suggest reading the last chapter of the book 50th law by robert greene and 50 cent

    • @Asbestoslover666
      @Asbestoslover666 3 года назад +22

      ​@@haleylikescheese she's great eh! honestly death is so.. full of life in a way? like its the summation of life, the series finale, with strong emotion and the potential to reflect, be at peace, and close the chapter. and the same for your family and friends who are still living and have to process the loss. And the likelyhood of that 'good-death' is higher is you arent so terrified of it and embrace it as one of life's big milestones. and i feel like people assume 'death positivity' means wanting to die, but if anything its made me less suic*dal, because taking my own life wouldn't be a 'good death'. And i'm not happy when loved one's die, but there is beauty in honouring their life and memory, and it makes you think about life as a bigger picture. Sorry, i rambled. but like Jeremie, i love to geek out about death lol

  • @IAmSuzieMka
    @IAmSuzieMka 2 года назад +303

    I love how excited Jeremie was when he said “death is my favorite thing to talk about!” It made my heart warm. How he is embracing the ultimate end vs avoiding and denying it, as most of us do on a daily basis.

  • @froggy4351
    @froggy4351 Год назад +455

    So my name is Scythe and i have had heart transplant.
    My condition meant that I only had 5 years left to live. I found this out at 12, I’m 15 now. I know now I’m going to be okay but It felt so surreal and I had to find this out on my own which sucked. I think people with these conditions, where you don’t have long to live, need to be talked about and parents of children like me need to have this talk. X

    • @__yklim
      @__yklim Год назад +12

      Pre rip

    • @saanvikk
      @saanvikk Год назад +26

      I know this is random, and I guess you've heard this a lot and it sounds like quite a cliche thing. But I want you to know that you are a beautiful person. I hope you know that. You deserve all that you can get it this world, I hope you make the most of this life. Any of us could die, any day all of us whether we know it or not should live life to the fullest. I hope and wish that you have a lovely life, and that you just be you. For that is all anyone in this world could ask for. 💜 xx

    • @tysonwastaken
      @tysonwastaken Год назад +2

      did any of these people read that they got a new heart

    • @saanvikk
      @saanvikk Год назад +20

      @@tysonwastakenheart transplants can still unfortunately shorten your life though

    • @yoshibleu14
      @yoshibleu14 Год назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @iamkonner4813
    @iamkonner4813 3 года назад +2988

    Jeremy is such a good fucking storyteller. man, if my life somehow gets a movie or show, I want Jeremy to tell it if he's alive or if we have reincarnation technology.

    • @sparky082
      @sparky082 3 года назад +131

      And he is so death postive. I'm sure Caitlin doutghty would love this man's message with every fiber of her being. I hope to be that at peace some day

    • @iamkonner4813
      @iamkonner4813 3 года назад +8

      @@sparky082 Agree.

    • @janecooze1767
      @janecooze1767 3 года назад +31

      You all NEED to start listening to Sick Boy Podcast!!! It’s INCREDIBLE, I can listen to Jeremie Brian and Taylor all day

    • @nicolestark373
      @nicolestark373 3 года назад +8

      @@janecooze1767 I was LITERALLY gonna comment “he should have a podcast”

    • @D3c3pTion
      @D3c3pTion 3 года назад +2

      I Stan with Jeremy, real talk.

  • @libertylibertylibertyliber1520
    @libertylibertylibertyliber1520 3 года назад +8008

    Can you do “I spent a day with suicide survivors”? I want to hear their perception on the world. I also want to know what they were thinking because my brother committed suicide 6 months ago and it really sucks.
    Edit: I would like to say that it's been almost two years since he died and I really am ok now. I'm sorry if this question made you feel like and outsider and something to be fixed. At the time I was just sad and wanted to understand my brothers actions. I don't need people to reply anymore with how it feels but do it if you want to and I will try to reply. Feel free to reply with your experience and reach out for help. I will talk to you and give you my snap chat if you ask. Oh and I was super depressed and passively suicidal so that's why I know how it feels lol. Also the replies helped so thank you.

    • @sophieekhegfejwgk
      @sophieekhegfejwgk 3 года назад +503

      The Australian Broadcasting Company hosts a series called 'You can't ask that' that features an episode interviewing suicide survivours in case that would be helpful to you. Wishing you the best with healing.

    • @lupindraws
      @lupindraws 3 года назад +244

      I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I would also really be interested to watch an episode on this. A close friend of mine took his life a couple of years ago and I still get little bursts of denial/anger here and there. I just wish he had held on a little longer. It is getting a little easier with time and speaking to our mutual friends and his family and keeping in touch has really helped. I also spoke to a friend that is a suicide survivor and that really helped as she told me how peaceful she felt before the attempt. I hope he also felt that peace. Wishing you all my love and healing. X

    • @MorellaReborned
      @MorellaReborned 3 года назад +190

      As a suicide survivor myself, that would be an amazing topic to cover

    • @KP_Gem
      @KP_Gem 3 года назад +98

      I think this is a really good idea, however I doubt it will happen because RUclips is very strict when it comes to speaking about suicide unfortunately. They're constantly demonetizing videos, or making people bleep the word out. I think it's ridiculous because it's just encouraging people not to talk about it.. when it should be the opposite. There should be an open dialogue when it comes to suicide to make the topic less taboo.

    • @Monnctizen
      @Monnctizen 3 года назад +64

      I am so sorry for your lost. I used to debate suicide 24/7 and it can really change how you interact with others and your view on life. I have never had a "life plan" because I didn't think I would live past high school, but here I am almost 7 years out of high school. I still feel like I don't have a plan but don't want to die now.

  • @ashtonkerr6276
    @ashtonkerr6276 2 года назад +426

    Thank you for this video. I too have a terminal illness known as Huntington's Disease. It's a hereditary genetic disorder that causes neurodegeneration, the death of neurons and their pathways, and it also messes with the basal ganglia pathway (what controls motor functions). My father passed away when I was only 12 from Huntington's, and I got genetic testing to test if I also have Huntington's, and I do. Definitely up there in the top ten worst birthday presents from my dad. There is no cure, but there are medicines that can help you manage.
    I don't really talk about it, unless people ask me directly about why I have jerky movements (the Medical term is chorea). I've only ever told my best friend about it unprovoked. I don't want people to treat me differently because it, so I don't really talk about it. But listening to these interviews has pushed me to consider letting more people around me know about what I'm going through. So, again, thank you Anthony.

    • @mossbaby6292
      @mossbaby6292 2 года назад +31

      That thing about “worst birthday present from dad” was hilarious. Hope you’re doing well, you sound rad.

    • @SadCat69
      @SadCat69 Год назад +8

      Hope you're doing well ! ❤

    • @Hello-hello-hello456
      @Hello-hello-hello456 Год назад +12

      I’ve studied about Huntington’s chorea in med school. Hope you’re doing well, I’m sure that the field of medicine will find a solution some day!

    • @lindseyohara3706
      @lindseyohara3706 Год назад +12

      only in the top 10 worst birthday presents? not #1? 😭😭 so funny. anyways, i wish the very very best for you, beautiful human.

    • @ashlxxa2_
      @ashlxxa2_ Год назад +10

      the “top 10 worst birthday presents from my dad” made me laugh, i hope you’re doing good with the time you have left on this earth, you sound like a rad person

  • @MeghanChamblin
    @MeghanChamblin Год назад +186

    I’m terrified of showing signs of dementia when I’m older. My great grandmother past away last year in May from the disease. I saw how hard it was on her and the rest of my family. It’s terrifying to know that I might, one day, slowly forget everything I’ve built around me, my family, friends, and eventually my basic motor skills. This video was reassuring in the sense, if I do end up like my great grandmother, that death is not something to be so afraid of. Thank you.

    • @Pain.-
      @Pain.- Год назад +5

      I'm terrified of dementia too, because it seems like youre losing control of your mind, wich I'm absolutely not in for, so I refuse to live past the age of 50. Lol

    • @janellafernandez2623
      @janellafernandez2623 Год назад +1

      Rest In Peace.

    • @VantaDraws
      @VantaDraws 9 месяцев назад

      If it helps, euthanasia for terminally ill people has been legalised in a few countries already like Belgium

    • @introusas
      @introusas 3 месяца назад

      Before my grandpa died of dementia, he lost his vision, but said that he could see so many new swirling colors that he’d never seen before.

  • @Tofiam
    @Tofiam 3 года назад +3033

    As someone living with panic and anxiety attacks triggered mostly by inevitability of death I must admit Jeremie's way of look was really refreshing.

    • @queenselene1834
      @queenselene1834 3 года назад +24

      You might like listening to Ram Dass :)

    • @pumpkinprincess3786
      @pumpkinprincess3786 3 года назад +33

      Death plan! Also if u can, u might wanna have a look at Ask the mortician... it’s an amazing channel run by a lady who works with the dead and is trying to spread more death positivity...

    • @Tofiam
      @Tofiam 3 года назад +6

      @@queenselene1834 Thanks for suggestion, I will look it up.

    • @Tofiam
      @Tofiam 3 года назад +15

      @@pumpkinprincess3786 I know her! Well, her channel. My friend recommended her to me while ago and I've already seen a few vids. I will continue watching her, but it's still a little bit of a challenge for me so I'm taking them slowly.

    • @amiralimo1192
      @amiralimo1192 3 года назад +7

      Hello, hope you having a great time buddy I highly recommend stoicism after practicing it and studying it I really don't give a shit about death and I truly embrace it If you have any social media I can send you my sources and the way I examined them.
      ps English is my third language If i had any mistakes or typos I apologize in regards.

  • @ashtonferguson1855
    @ashtonferguson1855 3 года назад +1478

    I have Cystic Fibrosis and I was stunned when I heard Jeremie say he had 50% the lung capacity of an average human being. I am a very healthy CF patient. For reference, while Jeremie is always living with half of his lung capacity, my mom put me in the ICU for having 90% of my lung capacity. Even though I’m a healthy CF patient, I still live a life that’s far from normal. I spend at least 2 hours a day undergoing treatments to keep myself healthy and I’ve had nearly 30 surgeries in my lifetime. Knowing that Jeremie’s condition is far worse than mine fuels my admiration for him. Think of all of the stuff I said I went through, and amplify that by a ton. That’s what I assume Jeremie has been through. It humbles me seeing him express such a positive outlook on life and it hammers the lesson in my head where, like Jeremie, CF gave me the ability face the worst moments in life and see the bright side no matter what. I’m grateful to have seen another of my kind on the show. Thanks a ton, Anthony.

    • @staticdoggoe34rd
      @staticdoggoe34rd 3 года назад +23

      I hope your okay , stay safe and I’m sending prayers ❤️

    • @kylascustoms4001
      @kylascustoms4001 3 года назад +13

      Fellow Cfer here, stay strong we’re in this together! 🤝

    • @Julian-bp6vd
      @Julian-bp6vd 3 года назад +3

      Stay strong

    • @yungjay937
      @yungjay937 3 года назад +18

      same here i have cystic fibrosis and im very healthy i recently blew a 95 which means i have 95% of my lung funtion but i still undergo an hour a day doing 2 treatments and i also take a variety of medications in the morning and the night. I probably been hospitalized abt 6 or 7 times for a two week period getting what is known as a "tune up." I've had it pretty easy and im very thankful for that. I hope you stay healthy and live a long healthy life.

    • @chrismas7590
      @chrismas7590 3 года назад +1

      Yeah it varies quite a bit from person to person. My brother is doing very well with a new medication

  • @midnightgore9500
    @midnightgore9500 11 месяцев назад +18

    My grandpa has cystic fibrosis and they thought he would die in his 30’s and he’s in his 70’s now. It’s a miracle he’s alive and hes one of the oldest people in Canada with CF. He just recently got experimental medication that brought his lungs from functioning at 50% to 60%. He got married, adopted two kids, he now has 3 grandkids and 1 great grandkid, he’s travelled outside of Canada multiple times, he became the director of education at two school districts in his life. The life expectancy for someone with cystic fibrosis has changed to 50 in Canada and I hope that this man is able to live a full happy life like my grandpa was able to ❤

  • @staciemae
    @staciemae 2 года назад +110

    When Jeremie said he has cystic fibrosis I started bawling my eyes out. My sister passed at 19 from cystic fibrosis so this hits really close to home.

  • @brranday
    @brranday 3 года назад +3969

    My aunt recently lost her battle to cancer. This is going to be a difficult episode to watch.

    • @D45KWinged
      @D45KWinged 3 года назад +23

      Goddamn your yt og your chanel is 11 years old

    • @ankur2766
      @ankur2766 3 года назад +3

      Lol

    • @_.auberginedreams
      @_.auberginedreams 3 года назад +20

      Condolences.

    • @brranday
      @brranday 3 года назад +37

      @@ankur2766 I’m not understanding what there is to laugh about here...

    • @bonbin6053
      @bonbin6053 3 года назад +28

      @@ankur2766 you’re sick

  • @user-qh1mx
    @user-qh1mx 3 года назад +1560

    I am 14. My dad died almost a 2 years ago (as of feb 2022), he had cancer. We learned it was terminal on my 12th birthday. This video will help so many people

    • @littlesimsfreak2931
      @littlesimsfreak2931 3 года назад +50

      I’m so sorry this happened. I hope you the best with your life

    • @krisj5561
      @krisj5561 3 года назад +20

      Sending thoughts that you heal. Take your time. It isn't a race. Be safe. Try to be happy.

    • @avjerryrice80
      @avjerryrice80 3 года назад +16

      I’m sorry for your loss

    • @polaris2108
      @polaris2108 3 года назад +17

      You are so strong, I'm sure he is proud of you 🤍

    • @SilverstreamPJ28
      @SilverstreamPJ28 3 года назад +8

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending good vibes your way, you're a tough kid ❤️

  • @K_i_tofficial
    @K_i_tofficial Год назад +366

    As somebody with cancer I find this video hella comforting. Thank you Anthony. 💖🥰

    • @babyblue8492
      @babyblue8492 Год назад +16

      I hope you know how to find peace in your life 💖

    • @readygo7652
      @readygo7652 Год назад +16

      please do get well soon

    • @AntonioCojocariu-wy5hq
      @AntonioCojocariu-wy5hq Год назад

      Rife Technology, go search it. They have been shattering cancer since 1926

    • @sonomikael
      @sonomikael Год назад +12

      It's beautiful to hear. I wish you all the absolute best.

    • @phrenic1
      @phrenic1 Год назад +1

      You’ve got this ❤️all support from us. Get well soon!

  • @AaronArtss
    @AaronArtss 2 года назад +228

    Jeremie completely calmed me down about the thought of death. I’ve been struggling with just imagining it lately but this video completely reversed that. Thank you. These people are all so individually amazing and hold so much wisdom.

    • @user-mr4pm7jv5e
      @user-mr4pm7jv5e Год назад +6

      I’ve flatlined at 23 6 months ago and had the most beautiful after life experience 😄 I used to be afraid of death also, not anymore

  • @allyb5289
    @allyb5289 3 года назад +487

    Jeremie reading his school letter where he talked about there be no point in having a wife broke my heart, and then later in the video when he mentioned he had a wife I felt so damn happy I'm so glad he was able to fight against that sadness he was feeling when he wrote the letter. I appreciated all 3 of these perspectives so much

  • @heathengremlin992
    @heathengremlin992 3 года назад +1501

    As soon as Jeremie said he was a “person who didn’t have to worry about a retirement fund”, I knew he was a fellow CFer. I have never met anyone with another terminal illness who has our sense of humor lmaooo

    • @JamieODonnellVFX
      @JamieODonnellVFX 3 года назад +58

      Legit, I feel like that kind of humour is some how written into our genes XD

    • @thatgirlwhousedtohavereall5549
      @thatgirlwhousedtohavereall5549 3 года назад +13

      I watch Stephi Lee (yt channel) & she’s taking a new medication for cf. Have you checked it out yet?

    • @JamieODonnellVFX
      @JamieODonnellVFX 3 года назад +10

      @@thatgirlwhousedtohavereall5549 Trikafta ? I started taking that like a month ago.

    • @pvic6959
      @pvic6959 3 года назад +37

      CF more like Crazy Funny. Wishing you all the best!

    • @KennedyDee
      @KennedyDee 3 года назад +3

      So funny ! I could literally tell my his personality. I was like one of us. One of us !

  • @WalkingOnRainbows12
    @WalkingOnRainbows12 Год назад +49

    As someone who is living with a terminal illness myself, I’ve passed my life expectancy and I am living life each day as much as I can. I may have tubes and wires and a shit tone of medication to keep me alive, but I’m alive and I’m going to keep raising awareness on my platforms to remind people that you get this life ONCE, live it!!!

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Год назад +3

      Hey how are you doing now, hope you're doing ok

    • @WalkingOnRainbows12
      @WalkingOnRainbows12 Год назад +9

      @@John-ls4xh thank you for asking. I'm doing ok. Things are still hard but I'm pushing through and I'm loving life!

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Год назад +3

      @@WalkingOnRainbows12 I'm glad you're doing well, thank you for sharing your story and keep pushing forward. God bless

    • @martameporfavor6685
      @martameporfavor6685 Год назад +2

      Hey, how are you?

    • @WalkingOnRainbows12
      @WalkingOnRainbows12 Год назад +2

      @@John-ls4xh thank you for taking the time to read my comment and for asking 💛

  • @lu-gc7gm
    @lu-gc7gm 3 года назад +192

    Jeremie’s project at the age of 16 is absolutely crushing, it made me burst out in tears

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go 3 года назад +5943

    Great job with this video on telling their story and give a voice that their deserve to tell the story to the world. Such an amazing video! Thanks for sharing!

    • @SirenPandaSabo
      @SirenPandaSabo 3 года назад +133

      I'm glad to see you guys here too ^^

    • @TG-yt1cv
      @TG-yt1cv 3 года назад +50

      Hi psych2go nice to see you here I am a big fan :)

    • @SabrinaXe
      @SabrinaXe 3 года назад +9

      I lubbbb ur videosss

    • @BriannaBobadilla
      @BriannaBobadilla 3 года назад +10

      I love you guys. Your videos are so informative

    • @wzlbn9487
      @wzlbn9487 3 года назад +4

      i love you guys ❤️

  • @agkdjsdjkd
    @agkdjsdjkd 3 года назад +1925

    "i spent a day with people with depersonalization/derealization disorder"
    this march will be my 2 years of living with this since getting it from weed, i feel like not a lot of ppl know abt it

    • @AnthonyPadilla
      @AnthonyPadilla  3 года назад +1216

      i actually experienced this feeling for about two years at the height of my panic attacks. could definitely be interesting to explore.

    • @elizabethhar3769
      @elizabethhar3769 3 года назад +75

      I recently discovered I've lived most of my life with DP/DR and actually really don't know what to do with this information (and I'm a psychologst) 😂 (I'm so thankful I have a great therapist, but I'm still trying to figure out what the fuck?) it would be really interesting as it's not a so spoken topic

    • @peewee3774
      @peewee3774 3 года назад +19

      @AnthonyPadilla I live with dpdr and I've experienced so many weird and terrifying feelings and hallucinations that are so hard to recognise from an outsider's perspective. I think it's very important to raise awareness of this illness, especially since it's so common yet so unnoticed.

    • @ss-hc7tb
      @ss-hc7tb 3 года назад +27

      i have really bad dissociation and it’s so hard to get over. people keep romanticising it and it makes me so pissed off, living with severe anxiety and depersonalisation literally affects every second of your life. when you can’t fathom interactions and the real world around you it’s so hard to learn and grow , and when you feel serparated from your body you just can’t connect with yourself

    • @ARTandMUSIClover7
      @ARTandMUSIClover7 3 года назад +16

      I have this as well severely where I am in a constant state of disassociation. I would love to see an episode on this to see other people that perceive the world the way that I do

  • @nirzara7176
    @nirzara7176 3 года назад +168

    Bro jeremie changed my entire perspective on life. He doesn’t realize what he’s doing. He’s actually saving lives goddd

    • @user-mr4pm7jv5e
      @user-mr4pm7jv5e Год назад +1

      There is now a cure for cystic fibrosis :) my friend has it and I’m SO thankful as she’s 26 so time was running out 🥺

    • @gbe3hunnaa
      @gbe3hunnaa Год назад +8

      @@user-mr4pm7jv5e There isn't...

    • @stasialii
      @stasialii Год назад +2

      @@user-mr4pm7jv5e There isn't a cure for that illness

  • @bf7391
    @bf7391 2 года назад +90

    This was very therapeutic for me to listen to. I frequently overthink at night about the death of my loved ones and myself, to the point of panic. Last night I was balling while clutching my dog because I don’t want to say goodbye to her. So hearing people talking about death, especially what Jeremy was saying, just made me feel a bit of calm and acceptance.

    • @anniea.5471
      @anniea.5471 Год назад +3

      Don't knoe why, but I also hadi this type of thoughts

  • @iiivesa99
    @iiivesa99 3 года назад +2250

    holy fuck, where does anthony find all these interesting people? like everyone he's interviewed has so much wisdom to say

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +211

      He posts on the community tab of his yt account and asks for people that have or are affected by whatever the upcoming topic is. U send an email with a short video clip of you answering his questions to his team and then they go thru all the submissions and select the ones they interview. I turned in my submission knowing it was a for sure long shot so I was totally surprised and of course over the moon with excitement and gratitude.

    • @soundu96
      @soundu96 3 года назад +3

      Wow how did you find the word intreasting.... I would have accidentally said ill.

    • @anak6748
      @anak6748 3 года назад +28

      @@soundu96 is this supposed to be a joke? Anyways.. the commenter is probably talking about the people Anthony has had on this series in general.

    • @sarag1308
      @sarag1308 3 года назад +16

      Interesting people are all around us... we just dont talk to each other in this way to find these things out :)

    • @jaymeslang7981
      @jaymeslang7981 2 года назад +12

      @@soundu96 you’re seriously not funny at all. you’re a disappointment.

  • @roxannablack666
    @roxannablack666 3 года назад +2304

    Idea: “I Spent A Day With People with/HIV”.
    We need to be reminded that this is still a reality, and it’s not a joke. Also, there are parallels between the HIV/AIDS crisis of the 80s and 90s and the pandemic today.

    • @fiaflora9585
      @fiaflora9585 3 года назад +21

      This is a good idea

    • @slylover123
      @slylover123 3 года назад +33

      This is so important, especially with the advancements have been made with treatments. They are making strides, but not fast enough.

    • @jenniferneustedt5093
      @jenniferneustedt5093 3 года назад +20

      Yes. I have personally lost ppl I loved to HIV in the 90s. And one of my dearest friends has lived with HIV since the 90s he is not undetectable due to amazing medicine

    • @stratosphere94
      @stratosphere94 3 года назад +4

      That would be an amazing video.

    • @baozi9983
      @baozi9983 3 года назад +5

      so true!!!!!! i hope anthony sees this!

  • @Nezumi99
    @Nezumi99 3 года назад +41

    I started to cry when Jeremie started to talk about the beauty of death. He has so much wisdom in him and even tho I don't know him, knowing he won't be able to tell this wisdom and knowledge to his grandkids breaks my heart. I know he does not fear death, but sometimes there are people like him who you listen to talk for 5 minutes and feels like they taught you everything about life. I wish for him to visit a beautiful place when he's dead.

  • @lovendor
    @lovendor 3 года назад +78

    My father was diagnosed with cancer a couple days ago, seeing this in my recommended made me flinch a little but its refreshing seeing other people like my dad thrive

    • @rhydianruns
      @rhydianruns Год назад +5

      Aw man I’m so sorry for you and your family ❤️

    • @lovendor
      @lovendor Год назад +5

      @@rhydianruns thanks man :) hes doing better now

    • @rhydianruns
      @rhydianruns Год назад +2

      @@lovendor I’m so glad to hear that 😁

  • @professionalplumber
    @professionalplumber 3 года назад +8478

    Let's just appreciate that he never clickbaits

    • @BaronVonBielski
      @BaronVonBielski 3 года назад +277

      That would sorta defeat the purpose of the series if he claimed he was talking to someone with a terminal illness and then didn’t. That wouldn’t make sense . You don’t need to clickbait this content, it would literally defeat the purpose of it. Not really that cool.

    • @penpen4508
      @penpen4508 3 года назад +13

      Don’t give em ideas >~

    • @tttiffa
      @tttiffa 3 года назад +49

      He doesn't need to

    • @jaya2525
      @jaya2525 3 года назад +28

      @@BaronVonBielski think he means ab the 24 hours to live part

    • @nyuwishtick
      @nyuwishtick 3 года назад +50

      He sometimes makes clickbait-y thumbnails though...

  • @ornellanaco4311
    @ornellanaco4311 3 года назад +3282

    I was watching this video 5 minutes before my aunt died unexpectedly for suspected colon cancer, their perspective helped me cope with her death differently. I’m so grateful you talk about topics people are afraid of.

    • @amariliscatclaw142
      @amariliscatclaw142 3 года назад +104

      My condolences

    • @cyber_inu
      @cyber_inu 3 года назад +80

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @yoshuaisnotok8794
      @yoshuaisnotok8794 3 года назад +32

      I'm so sorry for you loss.

    • @reesedoesthings7844
      @reesedoesthings7844 3 года назад +24

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +38

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Don’t let anyone tell you how to grieve or how long it should last take it day by day and do what you need to do to process

  • @julysky6151
    @julysky6151 2 года назад +62

    I heard cystic fibrosis, and my heart sank. I lost my mom who had it, she got her double lung transplant, but after those 10 years the after affects that come with cf got to her. He’s so strong.

    • @maryrorick6129
      @maryrorick6129 7 месяцев назад +3

      15 years and 2 lung transplants later I now have kidney failure and am on dialysis from all those years of the immunosuppressant meds. I'm in rejection with my 2nd pair of lungs, so this is it for me. It's just a matter of time now before I'm gone and I'm only 33. God bless your mom who was brave enough to have you. I was never healthy enough to have kids.

  • @richardpatterson432
    @richardpatterson432 Год назад +86

    I don't mean to be immature or morbid but when Jeremie said, "Tibetan sky burial," I imagined my lifeless body being loaded into a cannon and being launched into the clear blue sky lol

    • @phrenic1
      @phrenic1 Год назад +5

      So much more badass 😭

    • @wetsockfullofhotmeat
      @wetsockfullofhotmeat Год назад

      You can actually have your ashes placed in a firework and launched. That would be awesome lmao

  • @Andi-ox5nz
    @Andi-ox5nz 3 года назад +3295

    "I spent a day with suicide survivors"
    I think it would be a good topic to lay on because hearing what people's mental health has done to them could help motivate people to seek help. Your interviews bring light and recognition to hard topics and I would love it if you would do one about this.

    • @amiralimo1192
      @amiralimo1192 3 года назад +4

      ++++++++++++++++++ this

    • @cyber_inu
      @cyber_inu 3 года назад +7

      Definitely agree on that!!! 🙌🙌

    • @BlinkinFirefly
      @BlinkinFirefly 2 года назад +39

      I totally agree. This stuff should never be taboo. It's about life and death. There is nothing more simple and profound and natural and human. If we can all just talk about it, maybe we can be less afraid to talk about all the other nuances involved with it.

    • @sassylittleprophet
      @sassylittleprophet 2 года назад +37

      I've survived a suicide attempt, I'd be willing to talk about it.

    • @Mari-hb5do
      @Mari-hb5do 2 года назад +5

      And it can happen to anyone and due to any circumstance because it's about how differently an issue affects a person, depending on what it is. What may not seem like a big deal to you may be to someone else.

  • @northynorth
    @northynorth 3 года назад +523

    I've watched this two hours ago. I have contacted relatives that I haven't talked to due to "I'll text later", talked to my mother, boyfriend. And I've done the scariest thing of all. Talk to my step-father. I feel tired, wounded and vulnerable, but complete. Like I did what had to be done.
    So, thank you. I thank all of the interviewees. I thank the camera crew and the backstage staff. And I thank Anthony. For starting the conversation. And providing me with the closure I needed.
    Thank you

    • @AnthonyPadilla
      @AnthonyPadilla  3 года назад +139

      that’s incredible! i’m so happy this video and the guests had a positive impact on you 🖤

    • @northynorth
      @northynorth 3 года назад +21

      @@AnthonyPadilla Thank you so much for the work you do. Your channel is a gift

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +14

      I’m so proud of you for taking care of unfinished business sometimes that’s the hardest thing to do

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +10

      @@northynorth I’m so happy for you and proud of you. Sometimes unfinished business is the hardest

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 3 года назад +2

      I'm so happy you did this. We love you!

  • @rhydianruns
    @rhydianruns Год назад +29

    Jeremie literally just helped me accept that a loved one of mine passed away from a stage 4 brain tumour, I was struggling to accept that they had gone, then Jeremie spoke about death, and how it’s natural and happens to everyone and now I feel a lot better about it.
    Thanks Jeremie, I owe you one ❤️

  • @mimmiihanamaki749
    @mimmiihanamaki749 3 года назад +43

    i had a stroke in march and i've never been this scared of death. i've just felt so vulnerable and unsure of everything in my life. thank you for always making such amazing videos. these help so many people and this definitely helped me cope with some things.

    • @moonbook12
      @moonbook12 3 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing

  • @maxvandyne3984
    @maxvandyne3984 3 года назад +515

    This may not be worth commenting, but thank you for donating to Cancer Research. I lost my mother in March of 2020 to Lung Cancer, and the hospital caught it five days before she passed, so I guess it means a lot to me that you're donating to this fund.
    Thank you again.

    • @reverse-roblox9066
      @reverse-roblox9066 3 года назад +3

      Rip dude :(

    • @olliehull6798
      @olliehull6798 3 года назад +4

      i also lost my dad to lung cancer in 2008 so it also means so much to me too, much love ❤️

    • @schemesgoboom994
      @schemesgoboom994 3 года назад +2

      @@olliehull6798 Sorry about that, he is in a better place now.

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +1

      @@schemesgoboom994 Max lost his mom not his dad and please be careful how you give condolences I know from experience hearing they’re in a better place or they’re not in pain anymore is not helpful it doesn’t make it better or ease the pain and in some cases even feels condescending

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +1

      I’m sorry max

  • @nightlyzz
    @nightlyzz 3 года назад +858

    I don’t watch Anthony too much, but I always have notifications on because he goes really deep with people and understands them. When I saw this title I just thought like, wow, okay sure. I noticed this is a longer than most of the videos I’ve watched. I don’t want to make a whole essay about this but I personally have had a few life threatening illnesses that have happened to me I personally don’t want to say because it makes me get real, I’ve also had many family members have these. I just love how he’s still making jokes with them, but still get so deep and real with them. I really respect him here for that. This really just made me take a long deep breath and be thankful, I think that some people don’t understand how lucky they are, I’m noticing how long this is and how I said I didn’t want to make a essay, but this is really a sensitive topic, and I really just wanna thank Anthony for taking these so deep and real, making them feel good about it, and not feel depressed, and just make them smile and laugh.

    • @SouthernSera
      @SouthernSera 3 года назад +3

      If it makes you feel any better, my comment is way longer than yours. Lol!

    • @nightlyzz
      @nightlyzz 3 года назад +1

      @@SouthernSera haha, ok. Sometimes I get criticized for making long comments so I try to die down on the length of it.

    • @SouthernSera
      @SouthernSera 3 года назад +1

      Lol! I do the same thing and mine still end up being a book. Lol! Keep writing long comments. They're interesting to read. I hope you're doing well with your illnesses!

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +1

      He was definitely an amazing interviewer

    • @nicolestark373
      @nicolestark373 3 года назад +1

      @@nightlyzz don’t listen to the criticizers they’re just lazy, I love listening to the way other people think :)

  • @ryandyc
    @ryandyc 10 месяцев назад +6

    I went to my 30-year-old coworker's/friend's funeral when I was 21 back in 2019. It turns out, he had a massive heart attack and he died in his sleep. The funeral was surreal. The open casket felt like he was just sleeping, and I felt like he would wake up at any moment when I approached him.

  • @olivia_q
    @olivia_q 3 года назад +55

    I kust wanted to say thank you Anthony. My mother was diagnosed with endometriosis went the was about 24 and despite the odds she had my other sister and I. Along with endometriosis, she had Fibromyalgia and arthritis. She is still alive and in her 50s. Thabkbyou for bringing me a new view on illnesses.

  • @crabidraws
    @crabidraws 3 года назад +325

    This video made me think a little. Living a dull life that you constantly want to end is so redundant. Death really isn’t scary, it’s not death that is scary at least. I want to paint or take photos and have friends and family in this life before it’s over. I wanna listen to classical music, I wanna do so many things that I haven’t even thought of because of sadness brought on by other people. I think I’m gonna do what I want from now on.

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +13

      Please live life to the fullest do what makes your heart full. Start thinking if I didn’t wake up tomorrow would i be satisfied with my life?

    • @helianthe3457
      @helianthe3457 3 года назад +8

      Same here. I'm wearing pink hair. I'm gonna get a gecko. I'm learning new skills because my old life didn't make me happy. Cheers to doing what makes us happy. Small things or big ones alike.

  • @trabajador_
    @trabajador_ 3 года назад +632

    Stuff like this always makes me feel guilty for being suicidal. Which, of course, is an issue on its own, but I wish I could give my life to one of these wonderful people so they are able to live without pain.

    • @emmaskye4681
      @emmaskye4681 3 года назад +65

      My mother commit suicide, sometimes I feel ashamed to tell people because one of their parents suffered a terminal illness, or they don't get to see one of their parents, and it makes me feel bad that my mum ended her life when other peoples parents are fighting everyday to stay alive with their children.

    • @ammaranwar5343
      @ammaranwar5343 3 года назад +80

      You can give ur life to others. If u don't feel like you have anything to live for, you can use your time and resources to contribute to the well-being of others. Also, I hope you see that your life has as much value as those you feel inspired by.

    • @jennifersouthee5947
      @jennifersouthee5947 3 года назад +135

      @@emmaskye4681 mental illness is an illness too. It doesn't mean she didn't struggle to stay alive herself. An illness of the mind or an illness of the body can have the same outlook. You don't need to feel ashamed that your mother passed away from a different kind of illness.

    • @jacksonbrickmedia939
      @jacksonbrickmedia939 3 года назад +7

      If you feel guilty, then maybe helping others with these kinds of things is a reason to keep going.

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +26

      I’m sorry for everything you’re going thru. Don’t feel guilty for struggling with mental health. I hope one day your truly happy. It’s nice that you wish that but as one of the people in the interview rather than have your life I would happier if you found peace and happiness with your life. I’m going to pray for you

  • @Liv-xq2lk
    @Liv-xq2lk 3 года назад +42

    The 9 hour timer thing blew my mind! I am surprised by how I felt when the time was ticking down though. I always thought it would create stress knowing exactly how much time I have left and seeing it decrease like that but it actually brought comfort to me. It also made the world look a lot more beautiful. The sky looks bluer, the birds sound prettier, ect... It makes me just want to go outside. It's so strange. But there is something about it I just can't pinpoint.

  • @kl4314
    @kl4314 Год назад +15

    I have recently been diagnosed with cancer(leukaemia) and am figuring out my perspective on life because of all the plans I had
    I'm hoping I can still do my dreams in the some day

    • @mandy4768
      @mandy4768 Год назад +4

      Sending you my prayers and love ❤️❤️❤️you’ll surely win

  • @boxofbugs2292
    @boxofbugs2292 3 года назад +286

    It's very humanizing, the way he speaks to everyone he interviews. It never sounds like he is babying them or trying to keep the tone 100% depressing and negative. The interviews are always handled so well, tysm for covering these topics!!

  • @littlesimsfreak2931
    @littlesimsfreak2931 3 года назад +4614

    Please do I spent a day with holocaust survivors. It’s super important.

    • @palomathereptilian
      @palomathereptilian 3 года назад +711

      Yes, please... And we don't have much time left, most survivors still alive are getting too old

    • @randomhuman1198
      @randomhuman1198 3 года назад +66

      @@palomathereptilian Exactly

    • @reeganpotz7334
      @reeganpotz7334 3 года назад +418

      @@palomathereptilian that's the thing though, most of the survivors don't have living family, an understanding of technology or the want to talk about it anymore

    • @willowrose1965
      @willowrose1965 3 года назад +29

      Yes yes yes yesss plz let The l I Anthony Padilla in his team read ur comment!

    • @allgy07
      @allgy07 3 года назад +14

      Yess this is so important.!!!

  • @wildcosmiacollective
    @wildcosmiacollective 3 года назад +97

    This month I had to have a large tumor removed from my stomach. Thankfully my tumor came back as an extremely rare, yet benign tumor. But the whole experience definitely put life into perspective. It was a few weeks of the unknown. The possibility of having the same cancer that took my Grandmother who raised me... that was hard. I wasn't scared to die but I was scared of everything I might miss out on, especially being a mom of 3 young children... The youngest being just 1 year. The idea she would never know who I was... I really appreciate this episode and everyone involved. Live each day with a grateful heart. Don't waste time living for others and really embrace yourself, your place in this strange yet beautiful world.

    • @sambones1092
      @sambones1092 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, god bless you 🙏

    • @wildcosmiacollective
      @wildcosmiacollective 2 года назад

      @@sambones1092 Thank you Sam. Just had a clear repeat scan 💪 Appreciating every day.

    • @sakurakogacha407
      @sakurakogacha407 2 года назад +1

      My grandma had a extremely rare kind of cancer Called a Rambosarcoma most common in children she was 38 and she is still alive but to this day she still can’t walk properly

    • @wildcosmiacollective
      @wildcosmiacollective 2 года назад

      @@sakurakogacha407 I'm glad to hear she was able to recover 💕

    • @sakurakogacha407
      @sakurakogacha407 2 года назад

      @@wildcosmiacollective thanks!

  • @addisonwang8711
    @addisonwang8711 2 года назад +57

    I love how every time Anthony interviews a group of people or a person, he truly deeply understands what they are experiencing in their lives. On top of all of that, he makes donations to charities or organizations that are contributing to the greater good. Thank you so much for doing all of this! :)

  • @Nikiix95
    @Nikiix95 3 года назад +442

    I lost my mom last January to cancer. She never told anyone about it. As angry as I am with her for it, I have to remind myself that that's how she wanted it to be, and she lived the rest of her life her way.

    • @paisleesheppard5629
      @paisleesheppard5629 2 года назад +12

      I think I'd make the same decision. The way the people in my life would suddenly want to be extremely close and bonded with me, and do (from my perspective) the most exaggerated things to show they care about me would be
      Well. Extremely weird and maybe even a little cringe because there's always people who will invite themselves over for a week while you're like "but I want to take a dump in peace without you wanting to reminisce from the other side of the door?"

    • @davidking6982
      @davidking6982 2 года назад +8

      Niki, my mother was the same. I still don't get it 8 years later and still have angry dreams about her not caring. I'll try to tell myself what you wrote.

    • @sambones1092
      @sambones1092 2 года назад

      Thanks for sharing, may your mom rest in peace, may you have a wondeful life 🙏

    • @hel_gaming6047
      @hel_gaming6047 2 года назад +3

      She wanted you to remember her not what happened to her. My mom is the same way.

  • @kristopherpink6119
    @kristopherpink6119 3 года назад +130

    I think it's really interesting how immediately, the first thing we all think of when we're asked what we'd want to do if we have a day left to live is always about other people. It really goes to show that life really is nothing without other people there to share it with you, you know?

  • @HannahMBooher
    @HannahMBooher 2 года назад +20

    My best friend passed away at 17 from cf and listening to Jeremie made me miss her so much. Holy hell. I hope they’re all doing well.

  • @silverforgold
    @silverforgold 3 года назад +26

    I just instantly liked Jeremie. He seems like a great, caring person to be around. Also, he reminds me so much of Jake Johnson from his voice to his hair.

    • @SarahNicaise
      @SarahNicaise Год назад +1

      Oh my god I'm so glad I found your comment, I thought that was a familiar looking guy, thanks for the correlation lol!

  • @shannonfilialunae1359
    @shannonfilialunae1359 3 года назад +328

    Automatically thought of Claire Wineland 🥺💔 RIP - if anyone is interested in this topic I highly recommend looking up her videos she openly spoke about this all the time on her youtube channel

    • @dirt1946
      @dirt1946 3 года назад +20

      I thought of her as well when I watched this, it's good to see she made an impact on people.

    • @jadenluce3682
      @jadenluce3682 3 года назад +12

      I miss her :(

    • @oisharzakhairul8003
      @oisharzakhairul8003 3 года назад +6

      Same. 😭

    • @ElisabethReese
      @ElisabethReese 3 года назад +24

      Thank you for mentioning her. Her death was and still is so heavy. I spent a summer reading one of her books and watching all of her videos/speeches and I don’t regret a second dedicated to it. I learned so much about life through her. What an incredible and inspiring human being she was.

    • @orasolomons
      @orasolomons 3 года назад +19

      Yes exactly, I really wish Claire was still around to take part in this. She was such an incredible person.

  • @Lk__
    @Lk__ 3 года назад +1830

    Please do I spent a day with holocaust survivors. It’s super important.
    -original comment by Little sims freak
    (im trying to spread this around)

    • @zaeemgajani2557
      @zaeemgajani2557 3 года назад +10

      I am here first in this chain

    • @littlesimsfreak2931
      @littlesimsfreak2931 3 года назад +81

      Thanks for spreading this. It’s very important. I saw the idea on another one of his videos, so not the original

    • @Lk__
      @Lk__ 3 года назад +26

      @@littlesimsfreak2931 No problem! I saw your comment first and thought I wanted to try help spread it, and if I ever see the original i'll credit them as well. Although still thanks so much for helping me be able to spread it, I hope you have an amazing day ^^

    • @littlesimsfreak2931
      @littlesimsfreak2931 3 года назад +11

      @@Lk__ I hope you have an amazing day too :D

    • @rsabinioan
      @rsabinioan 3 года назад +59

      It’s really hard to find them tbh, I can think of only a handful who are still alive and open to talk about it. It is a very sensitive subject and I would love him to cover it because we’re the last generation to have direct contact with those people but it’s highly unlikely he will manage to do it :( fingers crossed though

  • @MichaelFoster-gh3xd
    @MichaelFoster-gh3xd 8 месяцев назад +3

    I don't subscribe to channels too often, (even when they spam that in the videos) and I didn't immediately subscribe to you, but after seeing multiple videos from you, I have to say... I'm genuinely very impressed with not just the cinematography, or the script, but because you seem to have your heart in a good place, giving voices to those that we all want to hear, but don't usually get a platform.

  • @cyber_inu
    @cyber_inu 3 года назад +24

    I have a very deep fear of death and everything that has to do something with it (I was and still am very very scared to travel by plane for example eventough I know that it's one of the safest ways to travel). The video got recommended to me weeks ago but I had the feeling that it wasn't the right time yet to watch it. I just had a mental break down in the shower because the fear overcame me again. I felt so hopeless and lost. And then I remembered the video. This comment probably gets drowned but I just wanted to say how much it helped me to calm down and find inner peace again. Thank you for discussing topics like that!

  • @ZYaruru
    @ZYaruru 3 года назад +156

    As someone struggling with suicidal thoughts these people are just... Incredibly, amazingly beautiful. When Jeremy asked Anthony what he would do with these 9h30 left I simply burst into tears. Oh man I wish I could enjoy things I know I love deeply.
    I think of my best friend who passed away in 2012, 5 years after being diagnosed with epilepsy. He struggled so much and one day he told me he had six months left ; two weeks later he was gone. :(

    • @1985bjaycat
      @1985bjaycat 3 года назад +9

      I hope that you will find help and reach out as you are able. I'm a sufferer of depression myself but with help I'm better than I was. Hang in there. It can get better.

    • @elenagonzalez8463
      @elenagonzalez8463 3 года назад +4

      You can. We all can. I know It seems impossible but trust me you can 💜 im saying this from experience

    • @ZYaruru
      @ZYaruru 3 года назад +2

      @@1985bjaycat Thanks. After 18 years of known depression yet not medical follow up I finally took a step forward. I have my first appointment with a psychiatrist tomorrow as I need a proper and full diagnosis. I trust you will keep on getting better!

    • @ZYaruru
      @ZYaruru 3 года назад +3

      @@elenagonzalez8463 Thanks. I am not giving up yet. I still care enough to stay here among the livings. I want to keep a positive mind as much as I can, and stop denying the darkness hanging at my foot.

    • @Heoz
      @Heoz 3 года назад +2

      I wish I can enjoy life like Jeremy. I feel like I'm living in auto pilot everyday. Depression is a bitch.

  • @gpeddino
    @gpeddino 3 года назад +204

    This reminded me of David Bowie, who was aware that his liver cancer was terminal yet managed to write and record an album ABOUT his death.

    • @AVspectre
      @AVspectre 3 года назад +7

      I believe Leonard Cohen’s last album is related to coming to the end of his life (So You Want It Dark or something like that).

    • @sinis5731
      @sinis5731 3 года назад +8

      the show must go on by queens came to mind too

    • @reyn248
      @reyn248 3 года назад +1

      @@sinis5731 yes! and even though it was technically written for a movie, who wants to live forever reminds me of that a lot too

    • @sinis5731
      @sinis5731 3 года назад +1

      @@reyn248 yess! i almost got them mixed up when writing the comment haha

  • @carolinapaul4194
    @carolinapaul4194 3 года назад +229

    Waiting for a video tituled "I spent a day with morticians" and of course Caitlin Doughty MUST be in it

    • @stratosphere94
      @stratosphere94 3 года назад +3

      Would be amazing!! But they're all super busy right now (understandably)
      I'm willing to wait however long tho coz that episode would be amazing

    • @carlaromero9664
      @carlaromero9664 3 года назад +2

      PLEASEEEE

    • @rachaeldbmiller
      @rachaeldbmiller 2 года назад +1

      I love it! Great idea

    • @evelynn3941
      @evelynn3941 2 года назад +6

      WAIT WAIT AND THE WIRED MORTICIAN TOO.

    • @paperfoxka
      @paperfoxka 2 года назад +5

      @@evelynn3941 yes, Victor M. Sweeney is the best (I'm pretty sure that's his name lol, its very much a mortician name)

  • @kirbythecat4471
    @kirbythecat4471 Год назад +14

    I could feel him when he said that there was no point and he was useless that one hit my right in the ❤

  • @bobabubbletea7141
    @bobabubbletea7141 3 года назад +331

    My dad's uncle had cystic fibrosis and he passed away at exactly 30. He was a very creative and amazingly talented person. He was an amazing photographer. He took photos because you have the ability to capture fragments of life and make them last forever. I really wish I could have met him.

  • @Euahb
    @Euahb 3 года назад +582

    I’m extremely anxious person and I didn’t want to watch this because I thought it will be terrible for my anxiety, but si did it because I also gave a chance to trust in Anthony, and like always he addressed the topic so naturally that even tho I know what I was watching I didn’t panic, actually I felt blessed to learn from these wonderful people. Thank you for sharing

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +41

      Thank you for overcoming your anxiety to listen to our stories that means a lot

    • @martinabubymonti
      @martinabubymonti 2 года назад +8

      I feel the same as you and it was really relieving. I thought it would have triggered my anxiety but it didn’t. Such beautiful people

  • @shiraya318
    @shiraya318 11 месяцев назад +6

    I recently read "They both die at the end", it's abook in which a company called "Death Cast" somehow knows when you're going to die and they call the affected people at around midnight to tell them they'll die sometime within the next 24 hours. When I read this, I always thought about how this could relate to terminal illnesses, and when Jeremy said the thing with the timer, it reminded me of that book too. Can highly recommend, it might be written more like a teen novel but it definitely made me re-think things quite a bit

  • @pandachee697
    @pandachee697 Год назад +4

    My mother was diagnosed with stage 4 thyroid cancer around a year ago, and she thankfully survived it along with the treatment with just some hearing issues. I was with her in all her appointments and it really opened my eyes to the possibility and reality of death. At that time, I made sure that she enjoyed what ever she wanted, she smiled through the treatment even when it got hard saying “im gonna spend the rest of my time with a smile, I’ll enjoy my family and my friends with whatever i have left” and that is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever heard from someone so close to me.

  • @natemedeiros6733
    @natemedeiros6733 3 года назад +235

    Jeremie seems like the coolest dude ever. So nice and sincere.

    • @kerifulton7374
      @kerifulton7374 3 года назад +6

      His podcast is really cool too! Check out Sickboy Podcast

  • @blossomalchemy
    @blossomalchemy 3 года назад +72

    One of my friends lost her battle to CF at 22 years of age. She got a lung transplant but a year later the lungs rejected on her. Her last post on Instagram was “make the pain go away.” This one is deep.

    • @moreexpressolessdepresso4108
      @moreexpressolessdepresso4108 3 года назад +8

      I'm so sorry for your loss💔
      I hope she rests easily, and go back to the place she loves the most🕊

  • @katilyn3
    @katilyn3 3 года назад +62

    I'm a CF carrier and I told my husband that he needed to be tested before we had kids, I just don't think I could knowingly bring a child into the world but had CF especially after seeing this.

  • @acheronalexander
    @acheronalexander Год назад +3

    This is why I want a natural burial. Basically you are in a big basket wrapped in lenin and they bury you. You can have all of the ceremonies cause they are mainly to bring comfort to the living. Everything is biodegradable and will rot. On the lid of the basket there is a sappling. The tree uses thr nutrition you provide to grow. It's a tombstone in the form of a tree. Somewhere where loved ones can go and be with you. I want to be able to provide a lil shade to my loved ones if they need some comfort to mourn or to just reminisce and visit. A final way I can bring them a little peace.

  • @olgamadz
    @olgamadz 3 года назад +174

    Ok the guy with cystic fibrosis gave me all the feels. Holy cow dude.

    • @Boochumz
      @Boochumz 3 года назад +1

      i know right

  • @melsie6718
    @melsie6718 3 года назад +582

    Jeremie is such an amazing speaker. I need to listen to every one of his podcast episodes now.

  • @savannahcurtis6891
    @savannahcurtis6891 3 года назад +39

    I’m not scared about me dying one day, I’m scared about my loved ones. My mom passed away 2 years back and it still hurts not having her in my life. Knowing I have to go through that pain multiple times through my life scares me and makes me feel scared of the future in a way. What if someone I love deeply dies tomorrow? No one knows and that is what makes me sad

    • @meddy0811
      @meddy0811 Год назад

      I’m the same way. If I die it is what it is but I’m scared about those near me dying

  • @robertantonvlogs
    @robertantonvlogs 3 года назад +50

    Anthony was about to abandon the whole interview because he only has 9 hours. I ain't mad. Live your Life, people.

  • @MATOME625
    @MATOME625 3 года назад +294

    I have a terminal illness and this video really helped me come to terms with it. I know my life is going to be cut short but I can’t change the inevitable, so I’ve realized the only way is to just keep moving forward and enjoy life while I can. Y’all, never take your life for granted and cherish every moment with your loved ones because you never know when that day will come where you never see them again.

    • @Eden-cf6dw
      @Eden-cf6dw 3 года назад +10

      God bless, man!

    • @Princessbeautymua
      @Princessbeautymua 3 года назад +37

      I’m glad our video helped and I’m going to pray for u don’t give up at diagnosis in 2011 they said 2 years is what I had left it’s 10 years later and I’m still here!

    • @Estellics
      @Estellics 2 года назад +9

      @@Princessbeautymua I'm so glad you're still with us

    • @-esmee-2697
      @-esmee-2697 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story, you’re totally right

    • @sae_decay
      @sae_decay 2 года назад +1

      I’m only 15 but I already believe this, it’s hard to make myself come to terms with it but it’s something I gotta do to move on. Death isn’t bad! Thank you for sharing your words ^^ I wish you all the best

  • @genderenigma8276
    @genderenigma8276 3 года назад +85

    So...Death is like procrastinating over deadlines for homework. the more you push it away, the harder it hits. Accept the deadline, live your life/do your homework to the fullest extent and the deadline...or death, won't feel as scary...i suppose.

    • @PriscilaQuin
      @PriscilaQuin 3 года назад +6

      I like that way of thinking... Thank you

  • @lisarodriguez6966
    @lisarodriguez6966 3 года назад +28

    That man's teacher was/is a hero for reaching out to his parents.
    I would also like to say that Anthony is a remarkable person and it shows with the interactions between him and each guest. The insight and self reflection I get from videos like these would be impossible to describe with mere words.

  • @purupumpkin
    @purupumpkin Год назад +14

    The attitudes and perspective these people have to life are so inspiring to me. Recently my agoraphobia has been getting the better of me and I’ve been in a very negative place so hearing how these people have taken very negative circumstances and still made the most of their lives every day makes me want to continue trying to find the positives in my own situation too.

  • @joshuaamberson5266
    @joshuaamberson5266 3 года назад +353

    I like Jeremie, he's embracing the present moment fully. I'd love to have a deep conversation with him on Zen Buddhism.

    • @Confused_Reda
      @Confused_Reda 3 года назад +3

      We need to make it happen

    • @aleuxa
      @aleuxa 3 года назад +3

      Yesss i agree!!

    • @gabrielagarland3372
      @gabrielagarland3372 3 года назад +2

      Ikr? It made me really want to talk to him about existential therapy. I learned about it in one of my master's classes, but I feel like it didn't get talked about much after that class.

    • @las5510
      @las5510 3 года назад +4

      I totally geeked out about when he was discussing the sky death. I'm terminally ill and I wanted to donate my body to science especially for the diseases I have, but I found out you cannot choose where your body would go if you become a cadaver. It's just a random distribution. So when I heard him talking about the sky death I thought it was the most beautiful wonderful thing. Iit's a way to come full circle and give back to the Earth. I don't judge others if they prefer the traditional burial methods just for me I don't like the idea of my remains going to waste. I want to be able to contribute and give back in some way after I'm gone.

    • @lisahausotter7523
      @lisahausotter7523 3 года назад +1

      Also, please consider looking at Theravada Buddhism...it goes much more deeper..

  • @infitine_intelligence999
    @infitine_intelligence999 3 года назад +160

    Jeremy seems like such a humbled guy. His take on giving back to nature is really beautiful. I wish nothing but the best for him.

    • @pvic6959
      @pvic6959 3 года назад +3

      He took my thoughts to an extreme. The sky burial is bad ass. Ever since I found out that you can be cremated and then made into a tree, thats what Ive wanted. I can "live on" as a tree, giving back to the earth, producing air for my fellow life forms, etc. Also trees are majestic. Tall, strong, live 100s of years. Trees have always had a calming presence to me. I went to university which had redwood trees EVERYWHERE. I would never get bored looking up at them and wondering what they have seen. i too want to give back to the earth, but i think being the nutrition for a tree is what i want the most

  • @corinnebowers4293
    @corinnebowers4293 10 месяцев назад +2

    When Jeremie said CF I immediately remembered Claire Wineland. They both have a contagious zest for both life and death. Claire passed in 2018 after a life of encouragement and death positive activism. Jeremie has that same spark. I feel joy knowing that the same attitude is living on in him