Our Lowest Points as New Moms | Self Loathing, Mom Guilt, Body Shame -
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- Опубликовано: 24 май 2022
- Today on the podcast we are continuing last week's topic with a second episode about Christina, Katherine, and Lisa's postpartum journeys. Amy and Lauren are back in the hosting seats and will continue to lead their three older sisters through this discussion. We hope you enjoy this episode and learn as much as you did last week.
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“Separate my body from worth” this is such a good point Kath. When I personally gain weight I feel like I’m worth less and have got to lose it to be as valuable as I was before. But now I’m beginning to be like, “is this true? Did my worth actually ever change?” Thank you ladies for this vulnerable and thought provoking episode.
So true, not sure your stance on faith but I believe god made everyone in his perfect image, meaning nothing you do or what you look like has any value over anyones worth
@@hudlepie953 yes! Agreed. Everyone is born valuable and you can’t change that.
This podcast is so underrated. You need to take the best clips from this episode and post it on the main channel
Katherine says so many wise things, as usual, in this episode! ❤️
This podcast is so underrated and deserves so much more recognition that it has (not to trigger you Amy lol)
Amy’s point about the people who set the “beauty standard” is such a good point!
I’ve had 2 kids, I didn’t expect to “bounce back” but I did expect to eventually get back. And it’s not just the pant size, it’s peeing when I sneeze, having trouble doing core workouts, or etc… I don’t know if those things will ever go away. My body CHANGED and it probably won’t change back.
We stan Amy being a Lauren's music fan 😂
That "pressure" reference
To what Kat was saying about flat stomachs showing availability during the primal era, it's so interesting. There was an episode in The Office when Pam was pregnant with her second kid and she asked Dwight, "do you find me attractive?" And Dwight said, "why would I or anyone else find your attractive, I can't impregnate you and that's the primal force that drives men and woman together." Not word by word, but that was the jist of it. Very thought provoking. Love you girls!
Amy calling Lisa "Lisey" and telling her she thinks she's a great mom to lily I'm weak😭🥺
this is my favorite podcast in the world. You guys make it feel like we're all friends 🥺
Such an interesting video! Can I add LOVE THE PODCAST! I am a regular watcher. I don’t have a lot of friends and so when I watch this I feel like I’m just hanging out with you guys. Like you are my sisters and friends! Would love to meet you all one day! Also love how you incorporate your faith! Also the way kath always says good for you or proud of you. It shows the kind nature of hers. You are all so supportive of one another and so heartwarming to see! Carry on doing what you guys love and May God guide you in everything! Proverbs 3:5,6
omg yes... the c section shelf is so real. it blows my mind it won't go away.
Yeah Cimorelli Sisters! Your opinions on Sleeping, social activities, doing, planning, and accomplishing the tasks, refreshing the mind with music, and to enjoy the life as high as possible are really true to the worth. Also, one should implement this in life to manage all things :)
Amy wheezing after quoting "pressure" is literally me
Lmao yes
I like how ya'lls podcast's relate to me even tho i'm not a mom. Nice job girls!
Same!
I'm 2 months postpartum and REALLY relate to what all of you said. I just wish i knew about the recovery process before it happened 😔 Which is something i think Christina said too. I love hearing these stories, thank you for always sharing! 💚
You 3 are all gorgeous women, i admire your journies!
Truth Katherine! Truth y'all ok I'll stop. Even if it goes on for 3 hours I would totally listen. Love the banter etc.
Wow, It's so interesting how you point out those subconscious expectations and rules that we have. I've never had any body image issues aside from small insecurities here and there, but I didn't realize that even though I really want to be pregnant one day, I was actually scared of all the changes. And seeing a video of you guys a few years ago versus now, the difference. Only being 19 almost 20 I'm seeing how those are "Hollywood," literal terrible men's, ideas for us. And the roots of wanting people to be attracted to you for underlying reasons of just wanting to be loved even though you may have never necessarily felt unloved... wow. It's like these things I subconsciously believed, but consciously knew were wrong are all being brought to my attention.
Talk about growth. It's okay to not feel okay, each season has a reason. 😉
Reminds me of that We Are Messengers song (Maybe It's Okay).
The chiropractor really helped me with my aches and pains in pregnancy and especially with the SI joint pain!! Also I was sitting with my legs crossed a lot while working and noticed when I stopped the pain also stopped 🙂 hope that helps!! The pain is excruciating it’s the worst!!!
These podcasts make my day! You girls are like the big sisters I wish I had, and I am so, so thankful for you 💜💜💜
The podcast helping me get through being unwell since the weekend 💗
Feel better soon 💖
@@all_is_well_Mara Thank You 💗
Love this so much, I’m a mum of two (3 years old and 10 months old) and I’ll never forget my first outing with my second about 4 weeks post birth.. i had a c section so I couldn’t drive my car and I got on a bus to go see my friend for lunch, on the way home this man asked me if I was pregnant and I was so sad as id made an effort with this lovely dress but my tummy which of course was still swollen post op and baby and full after lunch was popping out a bit. And even though I know that man was rude and shouldn’t have said anything i still feel conscious about it now!
And this is among the many reasons why you don’t comment on other peoples bodies-
I love your podcasts ❤️
kat is glowing today.
She glows every day 🤗
you should add time stamps for certain topics
Ladies, as always, you have made my week. Thank you so much for sharing your stories.
Christina mentioned that different women have different post-partum experiences. Having had 4 babies in 5 years, I would add that the same person can have varied experiences from baby to baby. I am now 8 months PP from my fourth and still really struggling with a lot of the things you're discussing. These podcast videos, as well as some of Katherine's recent videos on her channel, have been really helpful in granting myself some grace while also focusing on small changes that can help me get back on track to keep up with my kiddos.
Katherine should make a conference 🧐 so deep and structured opinions
I have always been stick skinny and been made fun of my whole life. My family used to tell me dont worry about it, you will gain weight after you have kids. So I really looked forward to that day. Welll... I had 2 kids back to back and still have no weight put on me ):
Truth Amy!
What is your favorite personality characteristic in a co-worker/friend/partner?
What is your favorite time of day (if you have one) and why?
We haven't seen nick in a looong time! Miss the guy
kinda want to hear you covering rock songs, i realized that after hearing Lauren screaming 😩 when she told about her low moment of the week.
I can't do that sound lol
There’s an emo medley, you might enjoy that. Idk if she screams tho..
hi 👋🏻
I have an auto immune disease affecting my SI joints. It’s the joints connecting your pelvic bone to your hip bone it’s all around that area that’s why when you have a side pain it can affect your entire leg. It’s crazy but mines chronic and the joints are being attacked by my own immune system so I have to give myself injections weekly to reduce the damage by weakening my immune system
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Amy is so funny 32:40 🤣😩😩😩
You are the beauty standard.
Who's the sister that cusses out the other sister boyfriend for treating her really bad