HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM A LIMBO RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
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HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM A LIMBO RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
RC emphasizes the importance of avoiding limbo relationships and provides five key points to consider. Firstly, women should not submit to unworthy men and should reserve submission for their husbands. Secondly, individuals should pay attention to the energy and intuition they feel from their partners, and not ignore red flags. Furthermore, the speaker also advises women to stop blaming themselves for men's failures to make them feel safe in relationships. Additionally, he stresses the value of time and encourages people not to waste it on relationships that are not working, and finally, he advises people to recognize when it's time to change course and move on from relationships that are not serving them.
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Beautiful well put message. Apply the wisdom, knowledge, understanding. You've become an intelligent, interesting and attractive queen indeed. Thank you Pastor RC Blake's Jr.
Limerance
Thank you for all your wisdom and knowledge! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Pastor Blakes, I finally forgave myself for my decision made 7 years ago.
It was hard at first to let go.
🙏🏾✝️Thank you Father...
Yeah
1. Never submit your life or yourself to an unworthy man.
2. Never ignore a person’s energy (or discount your discernment).
3. Never blame yourself for a man’s failure to make you feel safe in the relationship.
4. Put a greater premium on time ( your youth).
5. If it’s not working, it’s not working!
Thank you Pastor R C Blakes for this beautiful message! Yes it resonated deeply. God Bless you and your Beautiful Wife! You are certainly doing God's work.
No. 3 is 🔥
Holding on doesn't always make you strong. Sometimes the strength is in letting go!
Yes, so wisely put!.
Amen!!
DEEPPPP statement!
For real for real ❤
So true. Settling is not of a strong Queen but a weak one. I was that for over 10 years. Never again
Just had a breakup with a man that I dated for about 8 months I needed my peace🎉🎉🎉 When a Woman's Fed Up and I was Fed Up I might feel alone at times but I have my peace it's only been 4 days and I'm okay😊
Atta girl!!!😉👍💓🙌🌹
AMEN
Good job lady ❤
U got this babe sending u comfort and support👑💐
Stay in this season. Absorb it.
I just left a situationship with a man I was seeing for 3 months. He wanted me to perform wifely duties without making me his wife. All of the red flags were there, and God was telling me he was not my husband. I am so glad I listened to the voice of God and to you Pastor Blakes.
God is not in confusion. Speak! Amen!
I’m so happy I left a 6 year relationship 2 years ago. I have been on my own and doing very well. It was hard at first to leave but I depended on God to leave the situation. God was my strength! 🙏🏽🙌🏽💕
Good for you girly , glad you got out , never date for that long again. A man must propose if he sees a future because they will stay with you for years and as soon as he sees his wife he will get married within a year ❤
@@Didi-fr5icWe also have to be careful with who we choose to marry,Pastor Blake's covered that in this discussion.
@@jenniferhaynes8625yes , of course but it doesn't take 6 years
@@Didi-fr5ic Yes he did just that as well. He got married after we broke up. It is what it is. I moved on and I am more focused on myself and my happiness. No more stressing over things that will never change.
@@Christinamarieprodwish you all happiness..its a blessing you will find the man for you ❤
“Whew! Ain’t no masculine man sitting on no social media in no comments commenting about no women!” Preach Bishop!!!!
Masculine protect, period! They don't go tusllin back and forth with no females in the comments
EXACTLY!
Was in limbo, aka situationship as it’s been deemed, for 10 months, finally decided this was a waste of time. Almost 3 weeks since the breakup. I need to protect my peace and heart.
May God continue to heal you!
🙏🏽 good for you
Same time frame for me as well, I have my
expiration date for this limbo situationship starting tomorrow.
Some men aren't even looking for 50/50, some men are looking to see just how much they can get out of a woman. A place to stay, use your car, resources, etc. Gotta be careful out here.
I was lying in bed at 3am listening to some good old worship music and I heard in my spirit RC Blake’s. And welll here I am 🙂
WOW! 🙏🏽😊
Same thing happened to me getting ready for bed. And I know the Lord is speaking to me - some messages are painful but for my good!
@@beccaw.775 yup most definitely 🫶🏾🥳
It took me a long time to accept this message, because I thought God said he could be my husband, and I liked so much of the qualities, but today now that the emotions have subsided. I am no longer holding on and I am finally letting go. Please pray for me, for obedience.
🙏🏾
It's going to take a burning bush for me to trust any sign or circumstance. That's how unreliable the heart is.
Thank you dad!
Great message!
My dad always said it is what a man does and not what he says!
No Time To Waste. Bishop Your Are a Godsend. God Taught me a lot of what you are saying in my 29 years as a widow.I refused to be in a relationship that was not God Honoring and I am so Blessed. GOD gave me this thought one day as I took myself out to dinner " I may be by myself But I am Not Alone". Halleujah!
Thank you for message! I left my 9 months of this ungodly soul tie. It was demonically enforced because the situation was a waste of my time. I had no peace. He only deals with me on his terms. He was secretive and not consistent at all. Thank you Bishop for this timely word!💪🏽🙏🏾🙌🏽❤️🩹. I’m healing day by day with God’s help.
Sounds like someone that I was seeing some years back. Being secretive is a sign for hiding something,or that person is still looking for someone else.Either way that person has no respect and value for the woman or man.
Sounds exactly like some fools I wasted time and day dreaming....behold the Holy Ghost came alive with this message from RC Blakes Jr.
It makes you put your big girl panties on.
Good for you sis! There's nothing like being 'Free Indeed.' 💞👍😉
Sounds like what I went through 😮. He was the same way.i blocked him out my life, changed my # bc blocking didn’t work. Forgot he had my work#, he reached out, just wanted to check on me 😭 I told him not to reach out bc he maybe blocking my blessings and also told him he’s not the man for me, and I’m not the woman for him. I hope he never reaches out again.And if he does, I will not be picking up his calls ever again. Men know exactly what they do if we allow it.
I was in a limbo situationship with a guy on + off since 2022. I kept walking away then he’d say sorry and coming back..
I walked away for good in nov 23 for 10 weeks.. then he got back in touch and said sorry; he claimed he’d started therapy and wanted to address his behaviour.
We met up at a neutral place and his words of love were so convincing. Only a kiss happened between us that day but I felt hopeful again… Then breadcrumbing, and now no contact again for over a week. Confusion is an understatement.
Yet I trust in God. I am not engaging and am taking one step at a time as I recover from the mistreatment and the soul tie❤
❤❤❤ sending you love
My gosh,that can be so hurtful.May our hearts be healed.Praying for you.
Avoid limbo relationships , if it’s not working, it’s not working, Per Bishop RC!
This is some good eating. I’m 61 and Bishop Blakes your teaching makes me stand stronger on my values everytime I listen to you. I wasted so many years on unworthy men. I value my life, heart, and peace over everything now. Thank you for wisdom and nursing some of us back to life. Peace and love❤️
Waisted my 50's on a Clown with a Crown. For the younger ladies please don't make this mistake! 😢
This is so healing & therapeutic, not because I’m there now, but my heart aches for women who are.
Exactly
I'm a 23 year old virgin and I don't care if I'm a 30 or 40 year old virgin I see the light and I'm focused so I can bring a beautiful woman in my life one day
Beautiful
Good for you
Congratulations!! I didn't think men like you existed!! Thats awesome!! To God be the Glory!!
“You 20 today and 30 by this evening…” 💀🤣😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Men will play all kinds of games with you if allowed.
A man, well of age, was pursuing me. When I asked him very directly, "What do you consider us?"
This joker responded, "You are asking the wrong question. You should be asking if I'm committed to you."
After I untangled my eyebrows, I was clear about what needed to be done.
I picked up my my purse, looked him up and down, walked away, and never looked back.
The nerve.
I’m so proud of you sis
@@CL-do5eq 😁 Thank you
"Untangled my eyebrows" 😂😂 Good for you Queen! 👑
Got you! Avoid limbo relationships!
If it is not working! It is not working!
Gotta accept it is not working!
I have had limbo relationships all my life. I knew something wasn’t right and I deserved better and I left every time. Now I do know what a real relationship and man looks like. Thank God for content like this ❤😊
this is for the “lets see where it goes” relationships, the exact kind i just let go of.
Bishop, I'm 3 minutes into this video, and already I have the message. I'll continue watching it now, and walk away from this situationship I'm in. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Praise the Lord!
@@KraftyScorpio
...from Whom ALL blessings flow.
Awesome! God has better for you Queen!
@@kendrawilliams5703
Oddly, I believed he was the one sent by God, like Bishop mentioned. I just wasn't specific enough in my prayers.
Amen Sis
I’ve been watching you for years!! You are the real deal and I love that you keep things black
Or white!! Queen’s appreciate YOU!
"If your love walk is in order, your wife muscle will not respond to an unworthy man". 💯I love these talks! Thank you for your Godly advice and your fatherly love.😇🙏
I removed self from a 3-1/2 yr relationship 😢! After leaving God showed me the Reframing of this relationship that I believed. After yrs of praying my mind accepted an illusion of wants in a man. Now that my peace has arrived, clarity 😮😊! At this Moment 54yrs! Reality of Healing will be my Journey
I was in limbo about the relationship I’m in and after certain conversations, I felt unease in my spirit and wanted to reach out to one of my mentors, to gain more clarity because I was stuck in a messy middle, but look at God. Your message was so timely!!!!!! I now have clarity, thank you sir! May God continue to expand this great movement ♥️
“You thought that you could love him into being a husband…” oh man. Real talk.
Walked away in dec 23. Left a limbo situationship because it wasnt a real relationship. My spirit told me before we started. And uncertainty was always there. His words were hollow temper tantrums. He tried brainwashing. Didnt work. 😮 🏃 thank god for revealing the truth. 8 months learned lesson.
We have to learn to listen to our internal GPS- God protection Services! I’m finally listening to mine🙏🙏
Ladies, Bishop is not being emotional. He's Serious about this subject, especially! He's slapping me, and I'm a man! 👏🏾👏🏾
This message hit home for me in so many ways. I know it was a divine intervention that I ran across this video because I just had to break off a soul tie of 28 years (off and on) to someone I thought I was in love with. It was so painful for me but truth be told, I told that person EXACTLY what you've been talking about in this video. I needed growth, stability, protection; that person never offered me any of that. I wasted so much of my youth idealizing something that would never be. Thank you so much for giving me the confirmation that I made the right choice.
R.C. what you said earlier is a whole word. God is not the author of confusion. If you're in limbo in any relationship..going back and forth, it's not of God. He is not your Boaz. 🙏
Bishop came with all the Smoke🙌🏾💯🎯
We think holding on makes us strong but the strength is in letting go❤
Careful cause some will say I want you
But have to know the difference between want you and want your body
so I say define it what you’re talking about
Just walked away a few days ago after almost 3 years ago. I let go many times and came back because I knew he had potential, but he didn't want to admit his lack of concern for me. Everytime I bring it up he got very angry and nothing was resolved. We have to know when it is time and all you have to do is leave it, just leave, you can leave you just don't want to. I am sick and I don't have the time and energy for his disregard of me. I"m not even looking for a husband, I know my worth and I'm out. I rather be miserable by myself and keep my peace and dignity. I"m good now. I have created a bucket list and I'm moving on .,,,,, it's a new day now and everyone wants to follow the crowd but as for me,,, it's so dead!!!!!!!!!!
Bishop, your explanation of age progression is spot on. Seems like I was 20 years-old last week now I'm mid 40's! 🤦🏾♀️ 😂😂😂 I really enjoyed this lesson. "Time is a precious commodity." Indeed!!
Isn't that the truth. I looked in the mirror at 47, and there is an older worman staring back at me. I'm a 18-year cancer survivor so I don't quite know how to feel - grateful to have lived this long but at the same time grieved that I'm getting older not having my life together. Time is a bittersweet thing.
@@Pacifica74 Dear Sister, I can understand where you are coming from. First, I praise God with you for surviving what so many did not! You are a living testimony!! We are all a work in progress. Let's go on ahead and live our best lives!
God does not take our will away THAT'S BARS‼‼‼‼‼‼❣❣❣❣❣❣
If I don’t have peace in my spirit then I move on
Why can't I be like you? Lord I have to find a way.
Met someone about 4 months ago and my refusal to let go because of potential or fabricated bias that you mentioned (although things didn’t quite feel right) literally almost cost me my life. Thanks for helping us save ourselves not just from others but from ourselves, 😂you are really changing lives. Thing is I’ve been listening to you so I did better. It only took 4 months for me to lose everything. I kept asking God for a sign but wasn’t that the sign. My own intuition. Can’t thank you and God enough RC Blakes you really mean a lot to me 🙏🏾
Omg i use to be there but god help me get out thanks you Jesus
I like that Bishop! Put a premium on yourself!
2024 is my year to meet my husband.
Self-love on yourself!
Don’t waste your time convincing someone to be with you!
Bishop, you are helping us get ready for a blessing from God. We must believe even though it may be a little while before it comes to us. This is hope for tomorrow and future generations!❤
Thank you ❤yes walked away after a year and now he keeps sending me messages. His words to me when we broke up were disgusting and he tried to defame my character 😢My God would never allow that 🙏
Vengeance is the Lord's!
It’s a trap do not ever EVER respond to any of those messages. He’s trying to love bomb you into coming back into your life. It’s not out of love or that he miss you it’s to come back to bring even more drama ….into your life more gaslighting into your life more lies into your life….
Same circumstance for me too!!
He that hath EARS TO EAR LET THEM HEAR, Bishop Keep Teaching ❤❤❤❤
Back and forth, back and forth. I am so tired I feel like I have literally been running back and forth. D.o.n.e!
I definitely know the feeling and it's not dealing with being in a relationship, it's just life in a nutshell.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
His biblical wisdom teachings is so powerful, and wisdom never fails..👏🔥🏆pastor RCBLAKES ❤🙏🏾
😢please pray for me I’m in a soul tie 7 years and I’m praying 🙏 to be free I’m so broken inside pastor if I never had come across your videos I would of been clueless thank you 🙏
I’m sending you Prayers & Strength.🙏🏽❤
Sending strength your way, you got this 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Prayer and strength .. did yall have a child ?
7 years of sin n time wasting Repent, seek a bible believing church, get baptized in the name of Jesus sin no more…That man has lead u to sin nothing else.
I Pray for your deliverance.
We think our strength is found in holding on but sometimes the real strength is in letting go. I love that.
Many relationships are based on personal weakness.
Thank you for saying no masculine man sitting on social media bashing womwn...love that
PASTOR SAID, " STOP PLAYING CPRAH, ON A CORPSE". I AM ROLLINGGGGGGGGGGGG
Left a guy recently I felt he was not treating me the way I should be treated. I’m not going train or beg a guy to treat me good.
First time I’ve ever caught you live. Been listening for about 2 years and have definitely learned many useful life skills. God and you keep me poised and grounded to always seek my purpose, operate in Queen consciousness and be in the present. Thank you for what you do and thank God for allowing me to be in a place where I know I need to heal and recognize the restorative process to be whole.
Bishop, I thank you for providing a safe space to learn and grow into my femininity and Queen domain. My father was absent his entire life. He ran from his responsibilities, which resulted in me being a broken woman for a long time. I found your videos a week ago, and I can not stop listening to your message. I've binge watched your videos and started the necessary healing to receive my crown.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Always keeping it 1000!!! Thank you, pastor! Sharing with a friend that has been busted up over a walking gargoyle. Happy she left, but it needs to stay that way. Stay encouraged, ladies!
gargoyle took me outtttt🤣🤣🤣💀🤣🤣🎯pray for me too!!!
@@numberone6266😂😂😂 girlllll me too
😂Gargoyle!!!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂❤wow
I read busted up walking gargoyle 😂😂😂❤
This definitely resignated with me. I have to end a marriage with a man who I have allowed to mishandle me for way too long.
Doing the hard thing is sometimes necessary.
Prayers and blessings 🙏🏼
Same... Prayers & blessing to you. 🙏🏽
🙏🏾 🙏🏾
I walked away from a situationship of 5 years that God Beas trying to block from the beginning. Since then , my mind, body and soul has became so much better.
Amen!💯🙏 That's why I walked away 1 year ago! It hurt me but it was not working for me anymore ! After being disrespected for the last time, I had to walk away for good! I am at peace now! Thank You Mr. RC Blakes !💯💯🙏🙏🙏
I got a whole rc.blakes play list on here with nothing but your videos❤❤❤
In the words of the Gap Band,”You can’t keep running in and out of my life. Keep running” ~
Yearning For Your Love 🎵
Father Blakes telling the truth aint no masculine man screaming no 50/50 and he aint in no comments talking about what a woman should do. Arguing back and forth. A man that has fully come into his identity in christ and into his identity in manhood thinks like Father Blakes. This is not only a real man but a real man of God that has come fully into his identity and his manhood. His teachings are so life changing and therapeutic in their-self.
Raising Royal consciousness one conversation at a time m❣️
My father was never in my life, and my mother did push him away, but it was still his responsibility to be around, and to make the effort which he did not do. I can blame him up to a point for not being there, not teaching me and not taking any responsibility for having me, but I have learned to take responsibility as well for myself, and realize that, as a grown-up, I have to protect my peace, myself, and stay close to God, who is my true father, and who loves me more than any earthly father ever could. I thank you, Pastor Blakes, for your knowledge and wisdom, and for your time, and your love for everyone who is struggling in this area of their life. God bless you and Lady Lisa always.
Did we just get hypnotized😂 that music had me zoned out lol
Bishop we really have been so programmed to be human and give people a break and those of us that are ahead of the game get ridiculed as too perfect and not understanding that others dont experience everything the same way...
And now learning its nothing but -L.E.T.! But once we AWAKE, God is miracle worker!
My husband said he loves the messages he wants more messages for the men
Cant wait for this one
So good .. so good!!!!❤
Amen ❤ God bless all of the hurting, yet beautiful women listening to this. You are all amazing
Thank you! ❤
So inspirational and true
Excellent video thank you!☮️
I’m patiently waiting ❤
Really looking forward to this.
So timely 🙏🏽🔥
❤ Enjoyed this video right on time. Thanks ❤
Yes, looking forward to catching this. 🌹
So true Bishop. Energy does not lie
This is such a great video. Thank you! 😊
Thank you, Bishop, for bringing us truth
Great wisdom Bishop!
Well, it is my year!!
This good teaching ❤
You are Precious Bishop
I wish I knew when I started dating back in 2017. 7 years later, I finally think I have all the wisedom and strength to let go. My 20s are gone but my 30s will be even better . Thank god for his revelation and strength. ❤
Same… Be strong sister everything gonna be alright
Thank you so much for the powerful truth. 🙏🔥
What a mission statement 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Amen ❤
Glad to be catching this premiere ❤
Thankyou you were right on time God Bless you and Lisa
Thank you for the word, keeping it 100
Good word!
Oooooweeee you spoke to me ! Thank you
I'm here.....ready and waiting 😊
GOOD STUFF🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Oh boy. Did I need this divine reminder today.