the transmasc signing in response to being told that T destroys our singing voice made me so euphoric (like second hand euphoria, which I love getting from other trans people) and it made me want to sing so much. My voice has gotten deeper, and honestly, my higher range my be gone, but I am such a stronger singer now. I do need practice, but only cause this range is new to me. I can still sing, and I sing much stronger than I did, and the thought of sounding like the person in the video instead of even my lowest contralto self two years ago nearly brought me to tears I was so happy. Trans guys get told that T is going to have so many bad side effects from cis people, and even other trans people (sasha, you are such a cool person. I don't think there are any really ugly things from testosterone besides maybe some rare health complications, which can happen from any medical or hormonal treatment. Your ugly is someone else's joy, so it can't be bad at all. I've only ever been happy from T, never angry or ugly or smelly) So just seeing people living in joy with T is one of the most beautiful things in the world, I think
As a Transmasc I never knew this and I love to sing I’ve always hade a deeper voice and I am sooooo grateful that I have people to give me tips as I am closeted
And even when comes with some negative effects (such as being a bit stinky) it’s pretty much always worth it. Less than 1% of people regret medical transition. That a freaking MIRACLE when it comes to medical stuff. Most procedures and stuff have higher rates of regret. I’m stinkier now, and sometimes I’m a bit more cranky, but I’m also happier now. I like my body more.
The anger that Sasha mentioned hasn't happened to me. I'm transmasc non-binary, and have been on T for six months as of today. I've just been ridiculously happy for the past half year. My voice changing has been one of the things I've enjoyed the most, because when I sing, I can hit much lower registers now. My maternal grandfather was a bass in a local choir; given all signs present, it looks like I'm leaning into his genetics-- wide, strong, solid, with a voice like the Mariana Trench. I can do an excellent cover of "The Rains of Castamere" and "The Chemical Worker's Song" that I could never have managed so well before T. Feeling my voice vibrate in my chest brings me joy. (But oh god, so, SO greasy. And also hungry.)
I just bursted into tears rn, this is the first time someone showed me that the singing voice is kept during and after transitioning and I- I feel hope? hope for a better me
awww rosemaryyyyy! someone get her somewhere that will cover herrrr! ffs, hormones, electrolysis, all cover by state healthcare where i'm from. i'm so sad hearing how stressed she is. get her saaafe plzzzz
@effienominal Where I am from most of that is covered too but it’s a long process you need a dysphoria diagnosis and stuff and still have to pay a part of it. Would be closer to 2,000 tho than 25,000
Now that I'm on the right dose [AFTER A YEAR 😭], I'm taking advantage of the muscle I'm gaining & so excited to get closer to this goal! Hahahah. But I'm fully content w/ the slightly less jacked "off season wrestler" vibe, just to be realistic about my athletic capacity as a disabled bitch. 😂🤣
Short guys are so hot imo! I'm 1,96 (don't know feet, no kink shaming though;o) ) lanky streak of p, so opposites hopefully do attract;o) Also likely hung due to proportions^^ And hilarious when confident yet self depricating, Drew Lynch? Happy Pride
29:10 I think that’s also why there is such a strong link between being autistic and genderqueer. As autistic people we have to copy other people’s behaviour to fit in especially as children we are pressured to do so. Then when we get older and realise we copied other people’s actions and characters all along, we start questioning everything. Who we are in terms of sexuality, character, interests and gender. That’s at least my experience and I feel like that’s the most logical way to think of it
Tbh I think we just understand gender very differently to neurotypical people. Sometimes that's being more willing to admit it when we're binary trans, but it can also be just not having a binary or static gender. For me, I am both and also neither and my preferred presentation is always changing, but I also have this cool trick I sucked at as a stereotypical tomboyish teenager but got better at the more I saw trans girls absolutely reveling in being girls, where in a situation I consider to be abnormal or a performance setting, I can just... choose to perform as a girl. It's not really performative femininity in the usual closeted transmasc or dealing with conservative misogynists sense, because when I turn it on it's like playing a character in a stage show and actually brings euphoria regardless of my actual identity and preferred presentation at the time - essentially, for me the best spinny skirt is the spinny skirt you wear as a piece of your costume on stage. It costs spoons if it's not correct to my preferences at the time, and I only notice that after I'm done or when I burn out in the middle of an event, but otherwise... I don't think it's a result of transphobia even if it's a handy way to dodge some of it, just a neat trick I can do with my gender *because* it is fluid and possibly more oobleck than water or true slime.
Yes, i think people should be named by their parents as the babies they are, then choose adult names when they’re older to reflect who they are (this is coming from someone who has kept and still loves their birth name)
I think that’d be really cool. I’ve often pushed the idea that at the very least people escaping abusive family situations should consider if they want to change their name. I definitely would like to. The ONLY reason I’d take my partners name is for that tbh 😂😂😂
@@jewelcurrie345true that! also same, i thought about changing my name to something that sounds cooler and more like me before, but now i'm in peace with the name i was given bc in my language it can turn into fem or masc name depending on the extraction of the last letter and i think it's cool
That's a great idea. You should get one free change when you become an adult and I also think the process should be easier in general. I understand why there is red tape but I do believe there's way too much of it.
People who don't want to medically transition are so impressive to me because it means that they have the confidence in themselves and their body that I could never imagine having.
so... they're not even trans. if ur confident in ur own body how tf are u trans hello?? gender dysphoria is a requirement to be trans, and this shouldn't be news to u
@@陈kopo Honey, there are no “requirements” to be trans. Yes, most trans people experience gender dysphoria in some form, however that is not necessary. You do not have to hate something about yourself to be trans. Not to mention, gender euphoria would be a better indicator of being trans than gender dysphoria. Knowing you’re happy as what you are seems a lot more conclusive than knowing that you aren’t happy as what you aren’t, wouldn’t you say? I have to deal with severe gender dysphoria, and I would never wish it upon my worst enemy, but that doesn’t make me somehow “more trans” than someone who doesn’t. Stop gatekeeping transness, and do better
8:54 i think the worst part about this is that after spending all that money people still wont get off your back everyone who says "i guess i'd respect them if they passed" are the same people who go into the comments of trans women's videos and reply "*he" to any comment saying she, Regardless of what the creator looks like. You cant hold yourself to their standards because they're just gonna keep raising the standards so they can keep hating you, they dont want to respect you they want to hate you and they'll jump through hoops and crawl through hell to do it
I’m always so glad when I find people that agree that transitioning doesn’t make you trans. Cause like… I’m a full trans dude. And that sounds like a lot of work? And like… sure sometimes I’ll bind, but like… no thanks… I’m okay, actually… and it does really feel like “oh you’re faking it” sometimes, but it’s genuinely that I feel mostly social dysphoria, and I’m finding the people that won’t activate that on purpose. So I’m good, actually.
Not to mention the people who can’t transition. I can’t bind most of the time due to asthma and problems with my ribs. Whether you want to med transition or not, you’re chill as fvck and you’re cool as fvck.
15:08 my favorite story from a trans man is when he was hanging out with a group of cis guys who were talking about how they “can always tell” and none of them had any idea he was trans while he was WEARING A SHIRT WITH THE TRANS FLAG ON IT 😂😂😂😂😂 It doesn’t get too much more clear than that. Like yes allys can wear that too but it’s much more likely a trans person
this is freaking great 😸 my manager who I've worked for for 5 years and isn't all that much older than me I thought she already knew I was trans because I don't really try to pass anymore and so I made an offhand comment about being a girl-child and her head visibly exploded into 100 pieces [hyperbole but still] guess I'm not as obvious as I think! haha
the transmasc guy singing made me feel so relieved because ive been scared to go on T because i want to do musical theatre as a career and i was scared T would mess that up but hearing that gave me some hope that i could have the voice and body i want as well as being a singer
The last one explains it so well. If I were to try and be cis it would take all of my energy I spend on generally functioning. Being myself and wearing what I want comes naturally to me and so it just works and I don't have to take the little energy I have left for the day and put it towards acting as a gender
the part where Rosemary was talking about medical transition and cost and how it seems so out of reach.... i can't explain how heavy that is for me. i tried to off myself because i never thought id be able to afford top surgery when i was 22. I'm 28 and have been wearing a binder for 12+ hours a day for 13 years now and i have chronic pain and misformed ribs because i still haven't managed it. I'm glad i didn't succeed in ending things but i really hope there is an eminent future where I'm not in constant physical pain
YO thank u so much specifically for including thegravelbro bc im mid transition in a fairly blue collar area, i had no idea there was a specific niche for this. and just in time for my one year anniversary of starting T.
30:00 i've been trying to find a way to describe what it feels like to be trans to my cis mother, and this tiktok just verbalized it perfectly. femininity and womanhood was a persona that i had to actively perform, but masculinity and manhood comes easily because its who i am, its not a learned behavior like femininity was to me.
20:50 my mother actually told me when they picked out my name she envisioned all the options as being on the name tag of a CEO. Would they sound silly? They ended up deciding on a name that made me feel left out for years as I've never in my life met or even just heard of somebody else being called it. Add to that dysphoria. Now I've come to love it, also due to the changes in the context I'm being called it, and now I'm reapproaching feminity through the lense of being genderless. It's awesome. That name is me. Also to change it to the male version I just gotta leave out one letter so that's useful lol
17:59 Sasha you legend! I feel so called out lol! I'm a 15 year old trans guy and I have DDs who's currently wearing two binders (I pass really well because of it) and they are the bane of my entire existence. I can't wait for the day when I have top surgery, thanks Sasha for making me feel seen.
10:50 so yes and no. The effects can be different for a lot of people. I had a little bit of anger pop up but it was manageable and honestly feminizing puberty hit me way harder with anger issues than t has. And a small tip for helping with smell: use shampoo anywhere you have a lot of hair. I use body wash on my body as then I go over my pits and bits with some shampoo as well and I’ve found that’s really helped cut down on the smell. I’ve also noticed I don’t necessarily smell more I just kind of smell different. It’s a sharper smell that I’m kind of readjusting too.
I wanted to reply to this because as much as I like Sasha’s content, tying extreme anger to testosterone is kind of inherently dangerous for trans people. That rhetoric is constantly used to degrade us (both trans fem and masc) and to drag us down and to make us seem like we’re less than or other. So I don’t like that. If you’re noticing that t is making any existing issues worse, please speak with a therapist. Whether that’s anger issues, depression, or something else entirely. Hormone changes can affect a lot as I’m sure everyone’s aware and it’s good to have a solid care team ready to help you manage that. Don’t be afraid to get on medication to help you stabilize.
yeah I wasn't a fan of him painting these as absolutes- the biggest thing to remember for anyone starting T is that everything is a possibility but it's different for each of us what/how we experience it. For me, my fuse feels longer because I no longer am carrying so much pain or living a double life. I don't feel angry or even short tempered most of the time. And as for the smell- I actually feel like I smell better than I used to (and it's a specific to me situation, based on the health issues that estrogen was causing me). In fact a lot of the stuff he mentions made me assume that his experience was going on T as a younger guy/possibly in his teens or early twenties. I didn't start transition until I was 32, so a lot of the puberty type stuff was manageable to me because it was already way better than my first rodeo. It's not bad info when framed as his experience, it's just not great to say "this WILL happen to you" and kind of sews fear with some of these things (like the anger) in a way that doesn't feel helpful.
Agreed. I had a really short fuse before T, and while I probably still do as a personality thing I definitely feel like when I am angry it's because something has made me angry rather than just being angry? Which is a lot more reasonable. Definitely the smell thing though, and I find I'm way sweatier... Def gonna try the shampoo thing out though. Maybe that's part of why men have that stupid 5-in-1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner, engine oil and furniture polish type stuff (exaggeration but you know what I mean haha washing your face and hair does require different stuff). I wish men's deodorant actually did what it said though... because they "promise" 8 hour protection but I think I sweat through it in like an hour so...
It’s really comforting to watch these fun and warm videos since I often resent my own transness. It’s not that I hate being a guy, I am one and I know I can’t change that even if others see the opposite, however it’s just sticking a giant wedge between me and my moms [yes they’re gay and transphobic, RIP]. I’m so scared of losing them [and my dog] in order to feel free and happy going about and being myself. But I know what I have to do, or else I won’t live life anywhere but lost in my own fantasies about what it would be like to be free.
Still amused by the idea that I haven't told my parents I've been medically transitioning (with the caveat that I actually did intend to go no-contact). The last time I saw them was the Christmas before the pandemic started, when at the time I was 5-7 months on T. My voice was beginning to deepen and my previously barely-visible mustache was starting to get darker, so I wore a scarf over the lower half of my face, which I will assume wasn't weird. I also "couldn't stay very long" (which wasn't entirely incorrect since I had holiday plans with other people) and was just there long enough to drop off gifts, so there wasn't much opportunity for them to ask if they did end up suspecting anything. Now, I'm going to be 5 years on T in 3 months, and 4 years post top surgery in 4 months. It's possible that they might know already since they do know my chosen name despite me not telling them (my siblings still talk to them), but honestly, whatever reaction they have is not my problem anymore, especially now that they live in another state. Sure, they've known I'm non-binary and I use they/them pronouns, but going no-contact was already a long time coming that wasn't related to being trans. It'll be pretty funny to see how long I can go before they ever know or if they do see me again, if they'll even recognize me.
1:10 I so needed this I'm literally 17 going on 18 and am barely 4'11 I really hope I grow some but my mom's 5'1 and my dad's 5'5 so it's unlikely, honestly my whole plan was to get buff 18:00 lol also needed any one else have like huge arse b**bs and hate binding like I literally wear a 28F so even with a really tight binder I still quite obviously have b**bs they just look more like a B or C cup and honestly I almost feel bad for binding cause my parents had to scour the internet to find me bras that actually fit but here I am in my room secretly binding cause I can't com out, luckily they don't ever seem to notice but I still feel bad 😭
If you ever feel bad when binding just look at buff male celebrities. Chris Evans as Captain America has a massive chest and he's looked at as peak masc.
omfg i'm crying this is so fucking good i'm getting all gassed up why'm i not on tiktok am i supposed to be on tiktok? is it better over there? tysm for compiling these.
I actually cried from some of these, especially 17:56. Being a fat trans man with a mom who just doesn't understand is hard. Being someone with a very low self esteem is hard. Life is hard, but I'm still here. I just hope one day I'll become the man I want to be. :']
With the singing dude, I was like "aw, he probably went on puberty blockers or hormones really early" because my brain refused to let me be hopeful I could sound like that, lol. But then he threw out the "I've been on testosterone for years" WHAT?! That gives me hope that I'll sound natural, even though I'll be 24 when I get off this stupid waiting list.
1:49 That sounds like me because before I was trans I liked girls a lot but now I really just want a boyfriend. And I wasn't bi because my boy crushes were just emotions that the next day I didn't have but then now I think women aren't that hot anymore, and overall it sounds like me.
okay I relate to the one being misgendered by her coworker, I had a weird moment like that recently. I was hanging out with my gf and her adult son + his wife (he is a trans man, I am trans masc NB). The wife and son hadn't seen me in probably a solid year and I'm a little over 2 years on T at this point- there's been a significant change and I am sporting a maintained beard and chest hair lol. At one point she asks me "so what pronouns do you prefer again?" and I said They/Them and she was like "Oooo okay! I was wondering, you're giving very he/him these days" and like.... While I understood that she was trying to say that "I see a lot of changes and I'm still impressed by it" sort of thing, that's just..... such a weird thing to say? You know? It was just a weird "that part didn't need said, keep it to yourself" kind of thing. Like just say okay and now you know what to use. No input required.
Ok, the one about trans people who don’t want to medically transition are still valid kinda hit home because I know I will likely never get top surgery because I simply can not be bothered to spend the time, energy, money to get it done, explain to people why I did it, or endure the pain of it. To be fair I don’t really consider myself trans, I feel non-binary suits better but perhaps I should, I think that non-binary is under the trans umbrella anyway
Dude, 5:30 went from a gorgeous female-presenting person to a total alpha Chad. Some people get all ⃰ the right genes. XD * - _Aside from the one that gave him the wrong body, natch._
I'm looking forward to top surgery so much!! I have talked with my surgeon and I just need to raise the money!!!! I really think in 6 months I can get the rest of the money. I don't have any to really tell but it means a lot to me. My family cut of ties with me after I came out but im living as me!!
20:40 I’m trans (demifluid transmasc) and I really like to tell people how I can about my name. (I technically respond to several, and some nicknames, but this is the one that almost all of my friends and immediate family call me) My name is Sky, as in the sky, not like “oh, I like the name sky, so let me name myself that”. According to my parents I look starry eyed and super happy when I look out car windows, or when I’m on my swing outside watching clouds. I love to watch clouds and lighting, I love to watch all the different colors that come with twilight hours, and I love watching snow and rain. I love to watch the trees and leaves, especially in fall and spring when some trees are flowering, and sometimes they fall loose and it looks like it’s raining petals, or in fall when it’s golden hour, and the leaves look like stained glass. I love all the different ways snow and rain can make the world look. I love watching the sky, and things related to it, especially water and stars. The sky is my favorite, so that’s what I named myself. I had also called myself Sky in my head all the time for this exact same reason. When I asked my dad why he picked to call me Sky of all the things I went by, he said something along the lines of “Well, Sky just kind of resonates with me, because of your infatuation with the sky” Sorry it’s so long, I ramble, and I’ve been told I’m very theatrical.
Not on the same level as when someone transitions, but often when I get my hair done, I’ll wake up the next morning and be momentarily caught off guard lol
i have almost j cups, wearing a bra feels like how ive heard people describe wearing binders- i cant breathe, my ribs and back hurt, i have a bad back injury, i cant exercise in or out of it really, i cant wear it for more than a few hours- i get bruises- yes, i know that means its probably too small, they're all too small. ive shopped everywhere. and bra shopping gives me mountains and mountains of dysphoria and it makes me depressed and exhausted for weeks- I've never tried binding because i dont think i ever could- and im currently in the process of either a massive reduction, or top surgury (im trying to leave gender out of it completely due to the whole... fuckton of therapy and all the laws and the possibility of getting turned down-)
such a beautiful collection, very nice. If you like it, put it on!!! Damn it really is that simple. Oops I commented on the wrong video but ok I'll watch this one too!!
As I am writing this I can barely see cause I am crying. I’ve been dealing with a lot recently and for the longest time in my life I’ve been trying to figure out my gender identity… I’m born a female but I want to be a male but any time in my life it was brought up it turned into a fight… near the end of 2022 my mom passed away from cancer that we didn’t even know she had. We being me and my two older sisters who were adopted by her, even though I could tell she never really agreed she tried her best to be supportive, of course with its ups and downs but now I’ve just opted out for being nonbinary cause the last thing I want is another fight. But I know in my heart and soul I’m a guy.. and watching these amazing people with so much confidence makes me so happy yet so jealous at the same time… cause I know I don’t have that confidence. And probably never will, but at the same time I want to be unapologetically myself. But I’m so scared to. And I hate myself for it… I feel trapped and overwhelmed and I don’t know what to do. I’m only 21 and I’ve been dealing with this since I was like 9 and I just don’t know any more. And I get these waves of feeling okay as a woman sometimes… and then dysphoria hits me like a brick, and I fall back into depression and unhealthy habits. It’s like a vicious cycle I’ve been dealing with my whole life. And on top of that I’m polyamorous but again opt for saying I’m just bisexual… cause the last thing I want is another hour long conversation about all of it. Sorry for rambling on but it’s been something on my chest for so many years and it’s breaking me down so much. I don’t know what to do anymore.
situations like these are always incredibly hard, but at some point you have to choose your own happiness and maybe distance yourself from your family (if that's possible) and start living as your true self we (probably) only have this one life and I learned that if I try to always make other people happy and ignore my own feelings, I will just be miserable :/ you're an adult, you should be able to choose your own life, without having to ask for permission from other people!! (but as a people pleaser I also never wanna cause any conflict) you deserve to live your life fully, even if your family doesn't like it (and sometimes people who are transphobic at first come around later) and most people in these videos probably had to go through something similar...it takes a lot of bravery to be yourself and it's terrifying, but i believe in you and wish you the best!! (also you are just 21, if it's to scary now you can still transition at 30, 40, 50 etc. it's your life and it's never too late to start living it!!)
I just… I’m crying. I’m a transfem and I often worry that people actually see me for who I am and I’m maybe depressed but idk and sometimes I just want to take away the pain everyone might feel from me simply asking them to call me Charlotte and I want to text my friends but it’s late and they’re asleep and I feel so alone
Ok but that last lady is so based I agree even as a agender fella Like i dress and act masc but dont really feel eitherway much But being girly is so unatural to me Also woo short kings solidarity
If it makes any trans women feel better, I was born female and still have a facial hair shadow😂I’m fine with it cuz I’m pretty masc but don’t let society tell you that’s completely unacceptable or outside the norm for women, it’s not, it just be like that for some of us.
1:18 guys in a trans man and I’m short(compared to the male peers in my group of like age, race, weight, other things that affect hight) but I was told I would be at least 6’0 cus I hit 5’5 by the time I was ten but didn’t hit puberty till 14, so my growth plates shouldn’t solidify until late and I’d always been tall. And I have the limbs of a tall person.(my arm span is 5’10 while I’m standing at 5’5.5 and my legs are 36 inches long) but because of long limbs I’m short but can’t get jacked cus I’m just as lengthy as a tall person
At 23:55 is so true cause like I used to hate my chest and everything and be like as soon as I grow up I’m gonna immediately get it and I’m gonna go on t and everything I’ll become my dream guy and now I’m like don’t really care about my chest of it looks flat underneath clothes and I get called a boy yea amazing if I get called a girl yea cool I honestly don’t care but online I only like people calling me a boy which confuses me now cause like I’m fine with people I know irl and I’ve known for long to call me whatever they want but when it comes to online people I’m like call me a boy only a boy
12;59 I want to be like him, like as a trans man I want to do broadway/west end productions (my dream is to be the Phantom from Phantom of the opera and that requires like a tenor to high baritone) and hearing him sings gives me hope I can achieve that when i start testosterone :)
I almost started to cry when my man said "happiness is your birthright" because he is goddamn right. That is bacically it isnt it
the transmasc signing in response to being told that T destroys our singing voice made me so euphoric (like second hand euphoria, which I love getting from other trans people) and it made me want to sing so much. My voice has gotten deeper, and honestly, my higher range my be gone, but I am such a stronger singer now. I do need practice, but only cause this range is new to me. I can still sing, and I sing much stronger than I did, and the thought of sounding like the person in the video instead of even my lowest contralto self two years ago nearly brought me to tears I was so happy.
Trans guys get told that T is going to have so many bad side effects from cis people, and even other trans people (sasha, you are such a cool person. I don't think there are any really ugly things from testosterone besides maybe some rare health complications, which can happen from any medical or hormonal treatment. Your ugly is someone else's joy, so it can't be bad at all. I've only ever been happy from T, never angry or ugly or smelly) So just seeing people living in joy with T is one of the most beautiful things in the world, I think
As a Transmasc I never knew this and I love to sing I’ve always hade a deeper voice and I am sooooo grateful that I have people to give me tips as I am closeted
And even when comes with some negative effects (such as being a bit stinky) it’s pretty much always worth it. Less than 1% of people regret medical transition. That a freaking MIRACLE when it comes to medical stuff. Most procedures and stuff have higher rates of regret. I’m stinkier now, and sometimes I’m a bit more cranky, but I’m also happier now. I like my body more.
The anger that Sasha mentioned hasn't happened to me. I'm transmasc non-binary, and have been on T for six months as of today. I've just been ridiculously happy for the past half year. My voice changing has been one of the things I've enjoyed the most, because when I sing, I can hit much lower registers now.
My maternal grandfather was a bass in a local choir; given all signs present, it looks like I'm leaning into his genetics-- wide, strong, solid, with a voice like the Mariana Trench. I can do an excellent cover of "The Rains of Castamere" and "The Chemical Worker's Song" that I could never have managed so well before T. Feeling my voice vibrate in my chest brings me joy.
(But oh god, so, SO greasy. And also hungry.)
I just bursted into tears rn, this is the first time someone showed me that the singing voice is kept during and after transitioning and I-
I feel hope? hope for a better me
fr idk what the hell she was on I sing all the fucking time it just takes practice, like literally anything💀
no ALL ROSEMARY WE LOVE ROSEMARY (tiktoks not in my country i love seeing rose mary here cos its the only place i can shes the BEST)
AGREED i cannot find tiktok comps of just her anywhere, and i wish i could, i also don’t have tiktok, Rosemary’s great
awww rosemaryyyyy! someone get her somewhere that will cover herrrr! ffs, hormones, electrolysis, all cover by state healthcare where i'm from. i'm so sad hearing how stressed she is. get her saaafe plzzzz
@effienominal Where I am from most of that is covered too but it’s a long process you need a dysphoria diagnosis and stuff and still have to pay a part of it. Would be closer to 2,000 tho than 25,000
Only clicked for her, she's so charismatic and beautiful
Rosemary only compilation please!!!
short jacked dude is so true! omfg that doesn't just apply to trans dudes toooo! all short dudes take this guy's advice!
Now that I'm on the right dose [AFTER A YEAR 😭], I'm taking advantage of the muscle I'm gaining & so excited to get closer to this goal! Hahahah. But I'm fully content w/ the slightly less jacked "off season wrestler" vibe, just to be realistic about my athletic capacity as a disabled bitch. 😂🤣
as a short trans masc that made me super happy fr
Short guys are so hot imo! I'm 1,96 (don't know feet, no kink shaming though;o) ) lanky streak of p, so opposites hopefully do attract;o) Also likely hung due to proportions^^ And hilarious when confident yet self depricating, Drew Lynch? Happy Pride
My principal at school is a short jacked dude... And lemme tell u..
Smash😭😭😭
29:10 I think that’s also why there is such a strong link between being autistic and genderqueer. As autistic people we have to copy other people’s behaviour to fit in especially as children we are pressured to do so. Then when we get older and realise we copied other people’s actions and characters all along, we start questioning everything. Who we are in terms of sexuality, character, interests and gender. That’s at least my experience and I feel like that’s the most logical way to think of it
This comments reminded me that Vulcans are autistic coded lol /lh
Tbh I think we just understand gender very differently to neurotypical people. Sometimes that's being more willing to admit it when we're binary trans, but it can also be just not having a binary or static gender. For me, I am both and also neither and my preferred presentation is always changing, but I also have this cool trick I sucked at as a stereotypical tomboyish teenager but got better at the more I saw trans girls absolutely reveling in being girls, where in a situation I consider to be abnormal or a performance setting, I can just... choose to perform as a girl. It's not really performative femininity in the usual closeted transmasc or dealing with conservative misogynists sense, because when I turn it on it's like playing a character in a stage show and actually brings euphoria regardless of my actual identity and preferred presentation at the time - essentially, for me the best spinny skirt is the spinny skirt you wear as a piece of your costume on stage. It costs spoons if it's not correct to my preferences at the time, and I only notice that after I'm done or when I burn out in the middle of an event, but otherwise... I don't think it's a result of transphobia even if it's a handy way to dodge some of it, just a neat trick I can do with my gender *because* it is fluid and possibly more oobleck than water or true slime.
18:59 we should just normalise changing one's name as a coming-of-age thing
Yes, i think people should be named by their parents as the babies they are, then choose adult names when they’re older to reflect who they are (this is coming from someone who has kept and still loves their birth name)
I think that’d be really cool. I’ve often pushed the idea that at the very least people escaping abusive family situations should consider if they want to change their name. I definitely would like to. The ONLY reason I’d take my partners name is for that tbh 😂😂😂
@@jewelcurrie345true that! also same, i thought about changing my name to something that sounds cooler and more like me before, but now i'm in peace with the name i was given bc in my language it can turn into fem or masc name depending on the extraction of the last letter and i think it's cool
That's a great idea. You should get one free change when you become an adult and I also think the process should be easier in general. I understand why there is red tape but I do believe there's way too much of it.
i dont!! you know how many trans people would name themselves after the teenage mutant ninja turtles?? there's only so many mutants i can take /lh
People who don't want to medically transition are so impressive to me because it means that they have the confidence in themselves and their body that I could never imagine having.
so... they're not even trans. if ur confident in ur own body how tf are u trans hello?? gender dysphoria is a requirement to be trans, and this shouldn't be news to u
@@陈kopo Honey, there are no “requirements” to be trans. Yes, most trans people experience gender dysphoria in some form, however that is not necessary. You do not have to hate something about yourself to be trans. Not to mention, gender euphoria would be a better indicator of being trans than gender dysphoria. Knowing you’re happy as what you are seems a lot more conclusive than knowing that you aren’t happy as what you aren’t, wouldn’t you say? I have to deal with severe gender dysphoria, and I would never wish it upon my worst enemy, but that doesn’t make me somehow “more trans” than someone who doesn’t. Stop gatekeeping transness, and do better
@@Dr_Mortis_SCPgender euphoria as an indicator of being trans > gender dysphoria. damn, this wording is brilliant
@@MaliUrum I’m quite proud of it
@@MaliUrum yesssss!!!
8:15 “shining example of monumental recreation” that line goes hard as hell
BRO AT 13:01 SLAYED. FUCKING KILLED IT. I need to hear more of his singing
8:54 i think the worst part about this is that after spending all that money people still wont get off your back everyone who says "i guess i'd respect them if they passed" are the same people who go into the comments of trans women's videos and reply "*he" to any comment saying she, Regardless of what the creator looks like. You cant hold yourself to their standards because they're just gonna keep raising the standards so they can keep hating you, they dont want to respect you they want to hate you and they'll jump through hoops and crawl through hell to do it
13:01 HE ATE THE SHIT UP🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
*that lol
AGREEEEEED.
FRRRRRR
I’m always so glad when I find people that agree that transitioning doesn’t make you trans. Cause like… I’m a full trans dude. And that sounds like a lot of work? And like… sure sometimes I’ll bind, but like… no thanks… I’m okay, actually… and it does really feel like “oh you’re faking it” sometimes, but it’s genuinely that I feel mostly social dysphoria, and I’m finding the people that won’t activate that on purpose. So I’m good, actually.
Not to mention the people who can’t transition. I can’t bind most of the time due to asthma and problems with my ribs. Whether you want to med transition or not, you’re chill as fvck and you’re cool as fvck.
15:08 my favorite story from a trans man is when he was hanging out with a group of cis guys who were talking about how they “can always tell” and none of them had any idea he was trans while he was WEARING A SHIRT WITH THE TRANS FLAG ON IT 😂😂😂😂😂 It doesn’t get too much more clear than that. Like yes allys can wear that too but it’s much more likely a trans person
this is freaking great 😸
my manager who I've worked for for 5 years and isn't all that much older than me I thought she already knew I was trans because I don't really try to pass anymore and so I made an offhand comment about being a girl-child and her head visibly exploded into 100 pieces [hyperbole but still]
guess I'm not as obvious as I think! haha
2:30 she’s so prettyyy
the transmasc guy singing made me feel so relieved because ive been scared to go on T because i want to do musical theatre as a career and i was scared T would mess that up but hearing that gave me some hope that i could have the voice and body i want as well as being a singer
22:39 was not expecting the two trucks jumpscare, but i am certainly not complaining.
That "first time snowboarding as a girl" one was SO SWEET I could have wept like omg I'm so happy for her 😭
Sometimes, you've been feeling so down with dysphoria that you geniuely forget the progress that you've made
14:08 IVE NEVER SEE MANY TRANSMASCS USE HE/IT PRONOUNS LIKE ME IM SO HAPPY AJDKAGDKS
Same!! It’s really neat to see similarities with other people.
@@PinoccThePiccolo frr
The last one explains it so well. If I were to try and be cis it would take all of my energy I spend on generally functioning. Being myself and wearing what I want comes naturally to me and so it just works and I don't have to take the little energy I have left for the day and put it towards acting as a gender
I love these videos, they are making me more confident in myself.
the part where Rosemary was talking about medical transition and cost and how it seems so out of reach.... i can't explain how heavy that is for me. i tried to off myself because i never thought id be able to afford top surgery when i was 22. I'm 28 and have been wearing a binder for 12+ hours a day for 13 years now and i have chronic pain and misformed ribs because i still haven't managed it. I'm glad i didn't succeed in ending things but i really hope there is an eminent future where I'm not in constant physical pain
I hope your life goes beautifully,I will hope for you for as long as I can!❤
As a trans male singer who has never been able to sing my way. Im sold on going on T lmfao 13:01
Same lmao
I absolutely love Rosemary,she's amazing
YO thank u so much specifically for including thegravelbro bc im mid transition in a fairly blue collar area, i had no idea there was a specific niche for this. and just in time for my one year anniversary of starting T.
20:50 NO IS THERE NO MORE I WAS READY TO LISTEN TO THIS FOR AN HOUR
30:00 i've been trying to find a way to describe what it feels like to be trans to my cis mother, and this tiktok just verbalized it perfectly. femininity and womanhood was a persona that i had to actively perform, but masculinity and manhood comes easily because its who i am, its not a learned behavior like femininity was to me.
20:50 my mother actually told me when they picked out my name she envisioned all the options as being on the name tag of a CEO. Would they sound silly?
They ended up deciding on a name that made me feel left out for years as I've never in my life met or even just heard of somebody else being called it. Add to that dysphoria.
Now I've come to love it, also due to the changes in the context I'm being called it, and now I'm reapproaching feminity through the lense of being genderless. It's awesome. That name is me. Also to change it to the male version I just gotta leave out one letter so that's useful lol
2:30 Bro her hair is MAJESTIC🙏🙏🙏
17:59 Sasha you legend! I feel so called out lol! I'm a 15 year old trans guy and I have DDs who's currently wearing two binders (I pass really well because of it) and they are the bane of my entire existence. I can't wait for the day when I have top surgery, thanks Sasha for making me feel seen.
the one at 12:55 made me feel so much better because singing is a major part of my life
13:01 IT ATE OH MY LORDD
4:46 - 4:51 love this dude! The energy is everything!
this channel convinced me to get tiktok and support all these wonderful creators
10:50 so yes and no. The effects can be different for a lot of people. I had a little bit of anger pop up but it was manageable and honestly feminizing puberty hit me way harder with anger issues than t has.
And a small tip for helping with smell: use shampoo anywhere you have a lot of hair. I use body wash on my body as then I go over my pits and bits with some shampoo as well and I’ve found that’s really helped cut down on the smell. I’ve also noticed I don’t necessarily smell more I just kind of smell different. It’s a sharper smell that I’m kind of readjusting too.
I wanted to reply to this because as much as I like Sasha’s content, tying extreme anger to testosterone is kind of inherently dangerous for trans people. That rhetoric is constantly used to degrade us (both trans fem and masc) and to drag us down and to make us seem like we’re less than or other. So I don’t like that. If you’re noticing that t is making any existing issues worse, please speak with a therapist. Whether that’s anger issues, depression, or something else entirely. Hormone changes can affect a lot as I’m sure everyone’s aware and it’s good to have a solid care team ready to help you manage that. Don’t be afraid to get on medication to help you stabilize.
yeah I wasn't a fan of him painting these as absolutes- the biggest thing to remember for anyone starting T is that everything is a possibility but it's different for each of us what/how we experience it. For me, my fuse feels longer because I no longer am carrying so much pain or living a double life. I don't feel angry or even short tempered most of the time. And as for the smell- I actually feel like I smell better than I used to (and it's a specific to me situation, based on the health issues that estrogen was causing me). In fact a lot of the stuff he mentions made me assume that his experience was going on T as a younger guy/possibly in his teens or early twenties. I didn't start transition until I was 32, so a lot of the puberty type stuff was manageable to me because it was already way better than my first rodeo. It's not bad info when framed as his experience, it's just not great to say "this WILL happen to you" and kind of sews fear with some of these things (like the anger) in a way that doesn't feel helpful.
Agreed. I had a really short fuse before T, and while I probably still do as a personality thing I definitely feel like when I am angry it's because something has made me angry rather than just being angry? Which is a lot more reasonable.
Definitely the smell thing though, and I find I'm way sweatier... Def gonna try the shampoo thing out though. Maybe that's part of why men have that stupid 5-in-1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner, engine oil and furniture polish type stuff (exaggeration but you know what I mean haha washing your face and hair does require different stuff). I wish men's deodorant actually did what it said though... because they "promise" 8 hour protection but I think I sweat through it in like an hour so...
It’s really comforting to watch these fun and warm videos since I often resent my own transness. It’s not that I hate being a guy, I am one and I know I can’t change that even if others see the opposite, however it’s just sticking a giant wedge between me and my moms [yes they’re gay and transphobic, RIP]. I’m so scared of losing them [and my dog] in order to feel free and happy going about and being myself. But I know what I have to do, or else I won’t live life anywhere but lost in my own fantasies about what it would be like to be free.
Still amused by the idea that I haven't told my parents I've been medically transitioning (with the caveat that I actually did intend to go no-contact). The last time I saw them was the Christmas before the pandemic started, when at the time I was 5-7 months on T. My voice was beginning to deepen and my previously barely-visible mustache was starting to get darker, so I wore a scarf over the lower half of my face, which I will assume wasn't weird. I also "couldn't stay very long" (which wasn't entirely incorrect since I had holiday plans with other people) and was just there long enough to drop off gifts, so there wasn't much opportunity for them to ask if they did end up suspecting anything. Now, I'm going to be 5 years on T in 3 months, and 4 years post top surgery in 4 months.
It's possible that they might know already since they do know my chosen name despite me not telling them (my siblings still talk to them), but honestly, whatever reaction they have is not my problem anymore, especially now that they live in another state. Sure, they've known I'm non-binary and I use they/them pronouns, but going no-contact was already a long time coming that wasn't related to being trans.
It'll be pretty funny to see how long I can go before they ever know or if they do see me again, if they'll even recognize me.
22:37 HELP THIS REMINDS ME OF A STORY OF A PERSON REQUESTING LEMON DEMON WHILE HAVING SURGERY AND THE FIRST SONG WAS 2 TRUCKS 💀💀💀
1:50 SO ACCURATE HELP😭😭😭
14:16
AAA HOW DO I-
he looks like aaron tevyeit and that just makes me so happy in a wayi cannot explain
I think watching videos like this make me feel better about being trans myself...that makes me feel so mutch better.
12:54 WOAHHHH THAT'S ACTUALLY AWESOME
4:32 Im inlove w this human
13:16 he’s been waiting since birth to sing like that. Bro got a beautiful singing voice though
1:10 I so needed this I'm literally 17 going on 18 and am barely 4'11 I really hope I grow some but my mom's 5'1 and my dad's 5'5 so it's unlikely, honestly my whole plan was to get buff
18:00 lol also needed any one else have like huge arse b**bs and hate binding like I literally wear a 28F so even with a really tight binder I still quite obviously have b**bs they just look more like a B or C cup and honestly I almost feel bad for binding cause my parents had to scour the internet to find me bras that actually fit but here I am in my room secretly binding cause I can't com out, luckily they don't ever seem to notice but I still feel bad 😭
If you ever feel bad when binding just look at buff male celebrities. Chris Evans as Captain America has a massive chest and he's looked at as peak masc.
omfg i'm crying this is so fucking good i'm getting all gassed up why'm i not on tiktok am i supposed to be on tiktok? is it better over there? tysm for compiling these.
I love tiktok but it's also really addictive :'D
It’s really addictive and not necessarily better. I think watching channels like this one is enough
I actually cried from some of these, especially 17:56. Being a fat trans man with a mom who just doesn't understand is hard. Being someone with a very low self esteem is hard. Life is hard, but I'm still here. I just hope one day I'll become the man I want to be. :']
With the singing dude, I was like "aw, he probably went on puberty blockers or hormones really early" because my brain refused to let me be hopeful I could sound like that, lol. But then he threw out the "I've been on testosterone for years" WHAT?! That gives me hope that I'll sound natural, even though I'll be 24 when I get off this stupid waiting list.
*for two years
This was a great compilation. And the description is very nice too.
5:20 ish great person 👍 Also gravelbro is always good to see, he's so nice and thoughtful.
5:53 that explains a lot... I had horrible separations anxiety until I was eight
aaa the last girl is so cute (everyone in this video is cute but her especially)
Goodboygutz looks like one of those orange fuzzy cows!! I love it :3
i love this community so much i love you all
Rosemary : Don't worry about facial feminization surgery, you don't need it. You are beautiful as you are.
1:49
That sounds like me because before I was trans I liked girls a lot but now I really just want a boyfriend. And I wasn't bi because my boy crushes were just emotions that the next day I didn't have but then now I think women aren't that hot anymore, and overall it sounds like me.
okay I relate to the one being misgendered by her coworker, I had a weird moment like that recently. I was hanging out with my gf and her adult son + his wife (he is a trans man, I am trans masc NB). The wife and son hadn't seen me in probably a solid year and I'm a little over 2 years on T at this point- there's been a significant change and I am sporting a maintained beard and chest hair lol. At one point she asks me "so what pronouns do you prefer again?" and I said They/Them and she was like "Oooo okay! I was wondering, you're giving very he/him these days" and like.... While I understood that she was trying to say that "I see a lot of changes and I'm still impressed by it" sort of thing, that's just..... such a weird thing to say? You know? It was just a weird "that part didn't need said, keep it to yourself" kind of thing. Like just say okay and now you know what to use. No input required.
2:42
What is that in the background!?
Wow he sure does have a lot of toys.
Is that a hammer?!!
11:09 Damn i was not ready for the sudden country there
Brother slapped with singing "I did it my way"👏🏾
Dang dude my voice envy is sooo high right now amazing singing voice😔😌👌
18:28 Ikr i have scoliosis😭✋️
1:45 i never related to a tiktok so much in my whole life
2:26 she’s so pretty that hair!
The guy singing kicked ass. I love when people prove the grifting detransitioners wrong so much
Ok, the one about trans people who don’t want to medically transition are still valid kinda hit home because I know I will likely never get top surgery because I simply can not be bothered to spend the time, energy, money to get it done, explain to people why I did it, or endure the pain of it. To be fair I don’t really consider myself trans, I feel non-binary suits better but perhaps I should, I think that non-binary is under the trans umbrella anyway
Shoutout to all my guys who don't bind cuz they couldn't be bothered lol
1:01 this video killed me
I watched that so many times haha
Dude, 5:30 went from a gorgeous female-presenting person to a total alpha Chad. Some people get all ⃰ the right genes. XD
* - _Aside from the one that gave him the wrong body, natch._
I named myself Hayden because if I were born a boy, that'd have been my name
I'm looking forward to top surgery so much!! I have talked with my surgeon and I just need to raise the money!!!! I really think in 6 months I can get the rest of the money. I don't have any to really tell but it means a lot to me. My family cut of ties with me after I came out but im living as me!!
5:41 he looks like the wojak guy
As a trans male I have a huge insecurity about my voice and someone complimented my voice today and boasted my compliment by like 10000%
20:40 I’m trans (demifluid transmasc) and I really like to tell people how I can about my name. (I technically respond to several, and some nicknames, but this is the one that almost all of my friends and immediate family call me) My name is Sky, as in the sky, not like “oh, I like the name sky, so let me name myself that”. According to my parents I look starry eyed and super happy when I look out car windows, or when I’m on my swing outside watching clouds. I love to watch clouds and lighting, I love to watch all the different colors that come with twilight hours, and I love watching snow and rain. I love to watch the trees and leaves, especially in fall and spring when some trees are flowering, and sometimes they fall loose and it looks like it’s raining petals, or in fall when it’s golden hour, and the leaves look like stained glass. I love all the different ways snow and rain can make the world look. I love watching the sky, and things related to it, especially water and stars. The sky is my favorite, so that’s what I named myself. I had also called myself Sky in my head all the time for this exact same reason.
When I asked my dad why he picked to call me Sky of all the things I went by, he said something along the lines of “Well, Sky just kind of resonates with me, because of your infatuation with the sky”
Sorry it’s so long, I ramble, and I’ve been told I’m very theatrical.
@rebeccalegg7649 thank you
Not on the same level as when someone transitions, but often when I get my hair done, I’ll wake up the next morning and be momentarily caught off guard lol
1:15 but i wanna be tall and lanky and look like a twig 😭
same! 😭
10:18 for me later to save to my phone
i have almost j cups, wearing a bra feels like how ive heard people describe wearing binders- i cant breathe, my ribs and back hurt, i have a bad back injury, i cant exercise in or out of it really, i cant wear it for more than a few hours- i get bruises-
yes, i know that means its probably too small, they're all too small. ive shopped everywhere. and bra shopping gives me mountains and mountains of dysphoria and it makes me depressed and exhausted for weeks- I've never tried binding because i dont think i ever could- and im currently in the process of either a massive reduction, or top surgury (im trying to leave gender out of it completely due to the whole... fuckton of therapy and all the laws and the possibility of getting turned down-)
such a beautiful collection, very nice. If you like it, put it on!!! Damn it really is that simple.
Oops I commented on the wrong video but ok I'll watch this one too!!
29:36 same for me but flipped (I’m a transman)
2:24 no cus i did exactly this but opposite i walked in the bathroom and forgot i wasnt cis and gasped 😭
As I am writing this I can barely see cause I am crying. I’ve been dealing with a lot recently and for the longest time in my life I’ve been trying to figure out my gender identity… I’m born a female but I want to be a male but any time in my life it was brought up it turned into a fight… near the end of 2022 my mom passed away from cancer that we didn’t even know she had. We being me and my two older sisters who were adopted by her, even though I could tell she never really agreed she tried her best to be supportive, of course with its ups and downs but now I’ve just opted out for being nonbinary cause the last thing I want is another fight. But I know in my heart and soul I’m a guy.. and watching these amazing people with so much confidence makes me so happy yet so jealous at the same time… cause I know I don’t have that confidence. And probably never will, but at the same time I want to be unapologetically myself. But I’m so scared to. And I hate myself for it… I feel trapped and overwhelmed and I don’t know what to do. I’m only 21 and I’ve been dealing with this since I was like 9 and I just don’t know any more. And I get these waves of feeling okay as a woman sometimes… and then dysphoria hits me like a brick, and I fall back into depression and unhealthy habits. It’s like a vicious cycle I’ve been dealing with my whole life. And on top of that I’m polyamorous but again opt for saying I’m just bisexual… cause the last thing I want is another hour long conversation about all of it. Sorry for rambling on but it’s been something on my chest for so many years and it’s breaking me down so much. I don’t know what to do anymore.
situations like these are always incredibly hard, but at some point you have to choose your own happiness and maybe distance yourself from your family (if that's possible) and start living as your true self
we (probably) only have this one life and I learned that if I try to always make other people happy and ignore my own feelings, I will just be miserable :/ you're an adult, you should be able to choose your own life, without having to ask for permission from other people!! (but as a people pleaser I also never wanna cause any conflict)
you deserve to live your life fully, even if your family doesn't like it (and sometimes people who are transphobic at first come around later)
and most people in these videos probably had to go through something similar...it takes a lot of bravery to be yourself and it's terrifying, but i believe in you and wish you the best!!
(also you are just 21, if it's to scary now you can still transition at 30, 40, 50 etc. it's your life and it's never too late to start living it!!)
I just… I’m crying. I’m a transfem and I often worry that people actually see me for who I am and I’m maybe depressed but idk and sometimes I just want to take away the pain everyone might feel from me simply asking them to call me Charlotte and I want to text my friends but it’s late and they’re asleep and I feel so alone
Ok but that last lady is so based
I agree even as a agender fella
Like i dress and act masc but dont really feel eitherway much
But being girly is so unatural to me
Also woo short kings solidarity
If it makes any trans women feel better, I was born female and still have a facial hair shadow😂I’m fine with it cuz I’m pretty masc but don’t let society tell you that’s completely unacceptable or outside the norm for women, it’s not, it just be like that for some of us.
1:18 guys in a trans man and I’m short(compared to the male peers in my group of like age, race, weight, other things that affect hight) but I was told I would be at least 6’0 cus I hit 5’5 by the time I was ten but didn’t hit puberty till 14, so my growth plates shouldn’t solidify until late and I’d always been tall. And I have the limbs of a tall person.(my arm span is 5’10 while I’m standing at 5’5.5 and my legs are 36 inches long) but because of long limbs I’m short but can’t get jacked cus I’m just as lengthy as a tall person
2:30 i fucking love her hair!!!!
Forgetting completely is TOTALLY a thing lol, coming from a trans guy I jumpscare myself wayyy too much
11:11
He ate that up
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At 23:55 is so true cause like I used to hate my chest and everything and be like as soon as I grow up I’m gonna immediately get it and I’m gonna go on t and everything I’ll become my dream guy and now I’m like don’t really care about my chest of it looks flat underneath clothes and I get called a boy yea amazing if I get called a girl yea cool I honestly don’t care but online I only like people calling me a boy which confuses me now cause like I’m fine with people I know irl and I’ve known for long to call me whatever they want but when it comes to online people I’m like call me a boy only a boy
Short trans men, Vegeta is 5’5” and people think of him as a badass.
18:00 wearing a binder rn... it hurts. pretty sure I gave myself a flared ribcage. and have breathing problems even without a binder. help.
1:07 “ MHOW”
You'll never knw whether you're being taken seriously.
2:40 LITERALLY😅
12;59 I want to be like him, like as a trans man I want to do broadway/west end productions (my dream is to be the Phantom from Phantom of the opera and that requires like a tenor to high baritone) and hearing him sings gives me hope I can achieve that when i start testosterone :)
well shit fuck damn 17:18 got me cryin
To the transmascs who hate being short, remember, the shorter you are, the easier it is to put people on the ground
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17:10 what’s this persons acc? They are so pretty and I’ve seen their vids in other comps