i'm a hearing person but i've studied sign language for several years and a lot of people i've met assume it's only for communicating simple ideas and not abstract thought, i think because they associate it's use with people with mental disabilities who might have limited language skills but that's not cool. a lot of hearing people also assume that deaf people inherently have mental disabilities which is also not cool
17:34 speaking as an ace and non-binary person, I created lore for an established IP where genitals are not required. My self-insert for many things has no genitals
As a non-binary person, the whole genitals thing is kind of the reverse for me. I wish I had both. But not at the same time. Like on different days it would be different. And that it would be random, so I could have an element of suprise lol. Like "oh s*** today is a vajayjay day" lol. I think that would be fun and make me happy.
17:27 I am not asexual but I am non-binary. My experience is not that I wish to lack any parts like a Barbie doll. Personally, I kinda wish I had the ability to shape shift my body between a typical male form and a typical female form, sorta like Ranma 1 1/2. One piece of media that helped me “crack my egg” and realize who I am is season one of the show Genlock. There is a character named Val who uses sci-fi technology to regularly switch between male and female and identifies as neither. When I first watched that I thought, “ well if tech like that existed, wouldn’t everybody do that, switch between forms”. Obviously, in real life, it is not realy possible for me to like push a button and switch between forms but I do enjoy having a more fluid gender expression, sometimes masc, sometimes fem, sometimes androgynous. Just wanted to give my two scents on this topic.
I cried for weeks when my bff got a boyfriend, and now (just one year later) she's getting married and I know that I don't wanna kiss her or anything, but maaan do I wish she would marry me instead ugh :"D (aroace life is hard)
All the aro/ace tiktoks are sending me and making realize and accept things about myself so much. All the conditioning of a cishet society has made me forget these things ugghhh. Pls keep as many ace titkoks in as you can i love them 💚💜🖤🩶🤍
i dont really know what my sexuality is anymore because i think im pan but i look at all the aro/ace tiktoks and i think oh thats kinda a bit of me but then i look back at my past relationships and question everything
4:32 same. We have a porch with really low railings and I sit on it sometimes, but I always have that little voice going: What if I just leaned back/yeet myself off?
20:30 Not exactly a full proof way, unless you ignore that polyamorous people exist, and also people with different ways of feeling romantic, attraction and levels of emotion
I am good with eye contact as an autistic person becuse i found a cheat code. If you look at their forehead isntead of their eyes it looks like your making eye contact but your not. I AM GENIUS, GENIUS I TELL YA
There are people… that think sign language… isn’t real?
i'm a hearing person but i've studied sign language for several years and a lot of people i've met assume it's only for communicating simple ideas and not abstract thought, i think because they associate it's use with people with mental disabilities who might have limited language skills but that's not cool. a lot of hearing people also assume that deaf people inherently have mental disabilities which is also not cool
ikr? idk how people could actually think something so moronic
17:34 speaking as an ace and non-binary person, I created lore for an established IP where genitals are not required. My self-insert for many things has no genitals
As a non-binary person, the whole genitals thing is kind of the reverse for me. I wish I had both. But not at the same time. Like on different days it would be different. And that it would be random, so I could have an element of suprise lol. Like "oh s*** today is a vajayjay day" lol. I think that would be fun and make me happy.
"roll for genitals" (pls understand my nerd joke)
17:27 I am not asexual but I am non-binary. My experience is not that I wish to lack any parts like a Barbie doll. Personally, I kinda wish I had the ability to shape shift my body between a typical male form and a typical female form, sorta like Ranma 1 1/2. One piece of media that helped me “crack my egg” and realize who I am is season one of the show Genlock. There is a character named Val who uses sci-fi technology to regularly switch between male and female and identifies as neither. When I first watched that I thought, “ well if tech like that existed, wouldn’t everybody do that, switch between forms”.
Obviously, in real life, it is not realy possible for me to like push a button and switch between forms but I do enjoy having a more fluid gender expression, sometimes masc, sometimes fem, sometimes androgynous. Just wanted to give my two scents on this topic.
that makes sense! i am boyflux, and i would do that too!
being a shapeshifter would be epiccc
18:32 i'm actually gonna scream i've never heard someone else talk about being on methotrexate LKFDJFSJFJL
0:00 "goosebumping" this is going to be good.
I LOVE that you include usernames and pronouns in the description ❤
19:45 gurl i dont think you know how much i wanna marry my bestfriend as an aroace person
Same omg like.. I can't explain how I feel about them but ik I wanna marry my besties and am also aroace
@@Bunny-ft9dy i just describe us as soulmates like literally the whole red string of fate thing yeah its us 😻✌️
I cried for weeks when my bff got a boyfriend, and now (just one year later) she's getting married and I know that I don't wanna kiss her or anything, but maaan do I wish she would marry me instead ugh :"D (aroace life is hard)
All the aro/ace tiktoks are sending me and making realize and accept things about myself so much. All the conditioning of a cishet society has made me forget these things ugghhh. Pls keep as many ace titkoks in as you can i love them 💚💜🖤🩶🤍
i dont really know what my sexuality is anymore because i think im pan but i look at all the aro/ace tiktoks and i think oh thats kinda a bit of me but then i look back at my past relationships and question everything
i also cant tell if my feelings for people are platonic or romantic 😭😭
19:45 is the how to tell if you like someone bit
18:04 im ace and transmasc and fr- man i just wanna be barbie 😔✨
SO TRUUUUE 😩😩😩
4:00 is hit so hard tho 😅 hate relating to it
WAIT INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS OF JUMPING OFF LEDGES IS MAYBE OCD
17:48 as a transmasc ace, absolutely, I’ve always just wished I had nothing 😅
3:51 So relatable
4:32 same. We have a porch with really low railings and I sit on it sometimes, but I always have that little voice going: What if I just leaned back/yeet myself off?
20:30 Not exactly a full proof way, unless you ignore that polyamorous people exist, and also people with different ways of feeling romantic, attraction and levels of emotion
14:43 ok but why cant someone tell me a fun fact about turtles 😔
(or about literally anything i just want a fun fact thats all XD)
They slay
21:00 yeahhhhhhh that doesn’t work for me. I’m polyamorous 😂😂😂😂😂
I am good with eye contact as an autistic person becuse i found a cheat code. If you look at their forehead isntead of their eyes it looks like your making eye contact but your not. I AM GENIUS, GENIUS I TELL YA
GYATT!!!
I have ocd too...
I’m bi🐽
Neat! I’m ace and use they/it/neopronouns
@@elstarnor4628Neo pronouns are so cool 😮