i honestly cannot believe she called him selfish when her and her parents are trying to force him into marrying her which is selfish in itself. it’s not like the guy never wanted to get married to her he just wanted to wait and i don’t see why they couldn’t respect that. best that he deaded things as there must’ve been a alterer motive of sarah and her parents wanting to get married so fast
You totally would have married her without the huge pressure…. I understand a little pressure, dating with the intention of marriage. But that was a lot.
In East Asian and Middle Eastern cultures, it’s common to meet the girl and get married as soon as possible. Same with certain Christian cultures, but that name sounds American. She’s either American Canadian or British. That’s not common amongst Western cultures.
I would’ve just said I would not marry someone unless I lived with them in a household for at least one to two years, if everything’s going smooth, and we live together happily, then we can plan a wedding, but if you people want me to just marry someone I’ve only known for two weeks you’re absolutely bat shit crazy and I want nothing to do with you.
Not a similar situation to yours, but I did break off an engagement and relationship over family. We were together for 6 years, engaged for 2 and it wasn't until I think the beginning of me attending beauty school did I realize that love died between us, and living with his parents may have triggered that. I wished I'd handled it better than the way I did, and not to mention looking back now his Dad was financially abusive and physically abusive, needless to say I dodged a nuke by breaking things off. Given the way his dad treated him and his wife, and seeing how my ex treated and spoke to his mother the way he did, how was going to treat me if we'd gone through with the marriage? While yes I regret the way I handled it, I will never regret the reason.
I honestly feel bad for the girl. She’s in a shitty household, and the person she must’ve loved a lot and wanted to have a life with got ‘scared’ away because of her parents.
your forgetting that she also agreed with her parents in this story it's Siad multiple times that the girl said she agreed with her Parents so she also scared him away
If you're only quest in life is marriage, you won't get a partner that you truly love. They both loved each other as DATERS, and the parents didn't see that. To them love, is love. That reflects into their family, as the GF seems forced to agree.
I mean it's definitely wrong but nothing insane, there are people (especially in the past) that get married after a week of knowing eachother but of course they have to both agree
There was a morman family that tried to pull the same thing with me and their daughter. Difference was we both went up to her parents and straightened out the whole situation. I then broke up with her because that kinda scared me but she took it well we're still friends to date I think she understood why I broke it off because she was a little on edge after too.
Church is supposed to be a great place but there’s a lot of corrupt churches that ruin it for all the others. I’m part of an amazing church where everyone is really caring and actually follows the Bible. Let’s not assume all churches and people who go to them are bad and toxic
I will say that my parents got married after six months of dating and my dad was active duty military at the time, so already that seems like a recipe for a bad break up. However, there is a big difference between my parents and this story. For one, both my parents were adults, and both of them were working with their own paychecks. For two, My parents are the rare case of you finding your soulmate at the right place at the right time, and I say that because they have been married for almost 28 years now and that’s with my dad suffering from post military retirement PTSD. That girl’s parents Are clinically insane if they think setting up someone for marriage within two weeks of dating is anywhere near OK, not to mention using the argument of “if you are going to get married anyway, then The sooner the better“ is a really backwards way of doing shit. The fact that they even had the daughter in on it was completely insane as well. I know for a fact that if I was the guy in the scenario, I would’ve already been yelling at both the mom and the dad and my soon to be ex-girlfriend that if they seriously are expecting me to date their daughter for only a couple months and then get married Then they are smoking some thing and it’s not crack
Poor guy 😢 if it were not for her horrible parents ruining it they probably would have ended up together .. her parents put all that crap in her head too about “needing” to get married. This is why religion should not dictate love ❤
OP should have asked his parents to call his gf’s parents so to verify what OP told them, especially since it appears that OP was a minor at the time. They’ve already demonstrated they are serious about and see nothing wrong with what they are trying to do and likely assume OP’s parents will agree with them.
Oh yeah happen to one of my friend she was the type to wait for mariage to do the thing and he had choosen to maried she cheated on him before the mariage got pregnant he broke off the engagement I supported him most people from the church was against him breaking off the engagement even if she was the one in the wrong now he is better I think she gave birth to a baby boy
depending on what she looked like and how she acted i would honestly love to get married to a girl, but this is probably coming from me because this is how i was raised in my religion
Guys will do anything to impress a girl. The fact that this family doesn't know that and is assuming he would be like that forever with her, it's shocking
That would be great until they organize the wedding by themsleves and set him in a trap or they start insisting with threats, like "you marry her or we will never let you see eachothers again"
It doesn't matter what they want, it matter what he want, or the time he want it, it's like living in the past when everyone should marry in a young age just because their parents want it not carrying about what their son or daugther wanted.
Wow they really know What they want.they wand their daughter to marry a guy who they don't know anything about him or about his family I think that is a good idea for you to make your daughter marry a guy who she knew for 2 weeks if this is a good idea for you give me your daughter number (if she is +18) and I will marry her
@@schmetlecame5718 no, but to be fully honest, he planned to marry her, he also knew that she and her family wanted marriage. The first time it was reasonable to decline, but the second, after months of dating it just seems less reasonable to me, it wasn't too early anymore, I'm sure he knew her well enough if they spent as much time together as he claimed they did. He also seemed to view her as a lifelong partner... So why not? Was he too scared of commitment or something? Especially since they weren't pressuring anymore, they simply asked if he was going to propose anytime soon. That's just... Weird to me in a way
@x_Solaris_x so for you two kids/young adults ( depending of you poit of view ) marrying after just month together is normal ? You're crazy too. By your logic I would have been married 3 times 😆
If you are not ready to marry, you are not ready to date. If you are not ready to marry and want to date a girl then your goal is clear. And it is not Companionship. It is her body and social status that you have a GF.
Normally id argue about what you said, but it is extremely clear you're as dense-headed as this "Sarah" and her family is. Most words, including these, will just go through one ear and slip through the other.
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Her parents are the kind who would sell their daughter to a millionaire in marriage if it were legal
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The family is crazy, but OP kept dragging this situation giving this poor crazy girl some hope each time they met, instead of breaking up immediately.
Exactly, like… wtf dude? Just get over with 😂
Lmao love makes you stupid
i honestly cannot believe she called him selfish when her and her parents are trying to force him into marrying her which is selfish in itself. it’s not like the guy never wanted to get married to her he just wanted to wait and i don’t see why they couldn’t respect that. best that he deaded things as there must’ve been a alterer motive of sarah and her parents wanting to get married so fast
Married is not something people just get into. If these people really wanted them to marry that bad... I fear the worst for our OP.
You totally would have married her without the huge pressure…. I understand a little pressure, dating with the intention of marriage. But that was a lot.
Crazy that he still dated her the second time after all that
That’s what I said
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“He asked which one it was”
UM WDYM
They'd been dating a couple weeks.. theres multiple girls at churches, believe it or not🤯
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In East Asian and Middle Eastern cultures, it’s common to meet the girl and get married as soon as possible. Same with certain Christian cultures, but that name sounds American. She’s either American Canadian or British. That’s not common amongst Western cultures.
i think sarah is also a middle eastern name, but she probably isn't middle eastern
I would’ve just said I would not marry someone unless I lived with them in a household for at least one to two years, if everything’s going smooth, and we live together happily, then we can plan a wedding, but if you people want me to just marry someone I’ve only known for two weeks you’re absolutely bat shit crazy and I want nothing to do with you.
Not a similar situation to yours, but I did break off an engagement and relationship over family. We were together for 6 years, engaged for 2 and it wasn't until I think the beginning of me attending beauty school did I realize that love died between us, and living with his parents may have triggered that. I wished I'd handled it better than the way I did, and not to mention looking back now his Dad was financially abusive and physically abusive, needless to say I dodged a nuke by breaking things off. Given the way his dad treated him and his wife, and seeing how my ex treated and spoke to his mother the way he did, how was going to treat me if we'd gone through with the marriage? While yes I regret the way I handled it, I will never regret the reason.
Wow, that sounds hard. I’m sorry that happened.
Sarah's a weirdo
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bless you.
How could I not - wtf?! 😂
Good man
noo the cookies D: (jk, thats tough tho)
"Belong to him" Absolutely not. Marriage is a partnership and equal in responsibilities and love. You two are way to young to get married.
I honestly feel bad for the girl.
She’s in a shitty household, and the person she must’ve loved a lot and wanted to have a life with got ‘scared’ away because of her parents.
your forgetting that she also agreed with her parents in this story it's Siad multiple times that the girl said she agreed with her Parents so she also scared him away
@@legends3673 Yeah. The thing is, she was probably manipulated by her parents, or gaslighted.
If you're only quest in life is marriage, you won't get a partner that you truly love. They both loved each other as DATERS, and the parents didn't see that. To them love, is love. That reflects into their family, as the GF seems forced to agree.
I mean it's definitely wrong but nothing insane, there are people (especially in the past) that get married after a week of knowing eachother but of course they have to both agree
Its marriage, not buying a cake. The whole deal comes with "dont dare to divorce, have the number of kids we want to".
So just because this happen in the past it means its ok now days? 🧐🧐
@@leohcarrillo2981 it's still happens nowadays btw
There was a morman family that tried to pull the same thing with me and their daughter. Difference was we both went up to her parents and straightened out the whole situation. I then broke up with her because that kinda scared me but she took it well we're still friends to date I think she understood why I broke it off because she was a little on edge after too.
"met in Church" there's your first problem
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Depends on the church
Ir a la iglesia es una red flag
Church is supposed to be a great place but there’s a lot of corrupt churches that ruin it for all the others. I’m part of an amazing church where everyone is really caring and actually follows the Bible. Let’s not assume all churches and people who go to them are bad and toxic
@@KatieKatDuzArt yeah 1 rotten Apple spoils the barrel
Her parents are literally the only reason they didn't get married! Op was down to marry her, just not so soon
2 weeks is wild damn at least give it a few months
I will say that my parents got married after six months of dating and my dad was active duty military at the time, so already that seems like a recipe for a bad break up. However, there is a big difference between my parents and this story.
For one, both my parents were adults, and both of them were working with their own paychecks.
For two, My parents are the rare case of you finding your soulmate at the right place at the right time, and I say that because they have been married for almost 28 years now and that’s with my dad suffering from post military retirement PTSD.
That girl’s parents Are clinically insane if they think setting up someone for marriage within two weeks of dating is anywhere near OK, not to mention using the argument of “if you are going to get married anyway, then The sooner the better“ is a really backwards way of doing shit. The fact that they even had the daughter in on it was completely insane as well.
I know for a fact that if I was the guy in the scenario, I would’ve already been yelling at both the mom and the dad and my soon to be ex-girlfriend that if they seriously are expecting me to date their daughter for only a couple months and then get married Then they are smoking some thing and it’s not crack
Poor guy 😢 if it were not for her horrible parents ruining it they probably would have ended up together .. her parents put all that crap in her head too about “needing” to get married. This is why religion should not dictate love ❤
“my blood was boiling and I started seeing red”🤓
Hehehe
i could hear the nerd thing while he said that 😭
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OP should have asked his parents to call his gf’s parents so to verify what OP told them, especially since it appears that OP was a minor at the time. They’ve already demonstrated they are serious about and see nothing wrong with what they are trying to do and likely assume OP’s parents will agree with them.
Bro why did you date her a second time? Still didn't read signs? But thank goodness you didn't give in the end.
Oh yeah happen to one of my friend she was the type to wait for mariage to do the thing and he had choosen to maried she cheated on him before the mariage got pregnant he broke off the engagement I supported him most people from the church was against him breaking off the engagement even if she was the one in the wrong now he is better I think she gave birth to a baby boy
depending on what she looked like and how she acted i would honestly love to get married to a girl, but this is probably coming from me because this is how i was raised in my religion
Guys will do anything to impress a girl. The fact that this family doesn't know that and is assuming he would be like that forever with her, it's shocking
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Idk but marrying someone for 2 weeks wedding is not good because they need to date and stuff then wedding
I like jumanji though..
If I were you I would just ignore them until I'm ready
That would be great until they organize the wedding by themsleves and set him in a trap or they start insisting with threats, like "you marry her or we will never let you see eachothers again"
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It seems like they only wanted the ops family money (if they had alot of money)
yay happy ending
Don’t watch this story it’s a bout a wussy
The girl was in on it too
Ha lol 😜 CURSE YOU BAYLE
If 2 prople didn't even live together for few months at least they shouldn't get married
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Kinda can’t blame the family for wanting a good husband for their daughter. They really pushed it way to fast but I can’t blame them.
It doesn't matter what they want, it matter what he want, or the time he want it, it's like living in the past when everyone should marry in a young age just because their parents want it not carrying about what their son or daugther wanted.
What? Sure they can want that but you don’t force a boy who has been dating your daughter for 2 weeks to marry her. You and her parents are PSYCHO.
you can 100% blame them. They're absolutely crazy.
What her parents did is not bad but is wrong time and both of you are too young.
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Nope ur 5th😃
Good for her and her family for knowing what they want! Nothing wrong with that👑
You're fucking crazy 😂
Wow they really know What they want.they wand their daughter to marry a guy who they don't know anything about him or about his family I think that is a good idea for you to make your daughter marry a guy who she knew for 2 weeks if this is a good idea for you give me your daughter number (if she is +18) and I will marry her
@@schmetlecame5718 no, but to be fully honest, he planned to marry her, he also knew that she and her family wanted marriage. The first time it was reasonable to decline, but the second, after months of dating it just seems less reasonable to me, it wasn't too early anymore, I'm sure he knew her well enough if they spent as much time together as he claimed they did. He also seemed to view her as a lifelong partner... So why not? Was he too scared of commitment or something? Especially since they weren't pressuring anymore, they simply asked if he was going to propose anytime soon. That's just... Weird to me in a way
@x_Solaris_x so for you two kids/young adults ( depending of you poit of view ) marrying after just month together is normal ? You're crazy too.
By your logic I would have been married 3 times 😆
@x_Solaris_x so for you young adult marrying after just few month is normal? You're crazy too.
By your logics i would have been married 3 timed 😆
If you are not ready to marry, you are not ready to date.
If you are not ready to marry and want to date a girl then your goal is clear. And it is not Companionship. It is her body and social status that you have a GF.
Normally id argue about what you said, but it is extremely clear you're as dense-headed as this "Sarah" and her family is. Most words, including these, will just go through one ear and slip through the other.
Nah you can be ready to date but not ready to marry if you want to get married just for status just say that
That's how most males think. They just want sex
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@Sweet_Ak_Gamer I kinda got a ban from typing because I was "cyber bullying" and youtube also think am a terrorist