Jamie you can continue to do RUclips. Be yourself and do you and post what you’re doing. Post motivational talks, talk about overcoming depression, talk about what it’s like being single again, talk about what it’s like to be a single dad.
It’s mean 4 years Jamie it’s time to start dating..I love Nikki but you have to be happy and have a life ! So does nikki .Everything will be alright and you keep putting out that content I will watch and many others will watch as well . Content something like Jamie Perkins finding love again ..Jamie Perkins dating life get back out there and the rest will fall into place ❤❤❤❤❤👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Jamie you are an amazing father! I hope you the best. You most definitely can still do YOU TUBE! Dig deeper with the kids. Talk about healing your family and your relationship with Nikki. God will bring you the creativity.
Listen! If this was a woman, people will be encouraging her to speak up. I am glad you are speaking up to show the kind of person she really is. Crazy!!!
He is playing victim. I'm sure he did things to provoke the frustration and then sit back and act innocent. I've dated someone like that before and stay way from people who are that
Màybe you need to just stay off youtube. Many people have gone through this. Get counseling and be a father to the best of you ability. You will get through
Well done Jamie for speaking your truth. No one should shut you up. Everyone has a right to speak their truth. You allowed internet to run with negative narration about you and you kept quite......Talk brother. This is the beginning of your healing space.
@@summerbreeze7832shame on you if this had been Niki you all would have jumped to her side all because she is black and a woman. Shame on you! Let him speak his truth freely. Abuse is hard and takes so much of your power away.
Jamie the best advice I have for you is, when you speak to her, be emotionless, do not discuss anything outside the kids, don’t be nice, don’t be mean, don’t show ANY emotion! People like this feed off your emotions and use this as a way of controlling you. Please do this. It’s called stonewalling and it works! You are a kind person and deserve way better than this but don’t give her anything she doesn’t deserve. She don’t deserve ANYTHING from you.
You have so much strength. Everyone always believes when women say they’re being abused but when men try to stand up for themselves they’re shut down. Thank you for speaking up and I hope you heal and hope this shows other men they can stand up for themselves.
There are so many women out there who wish their children’s father was half as excited to be involved in the kids lives as you are. Your girls will appreciate you for this in the future ❤
There are so many women out there who manipulate & do everything in their power to push him away as well. Both things can be true but yet we are only allowed to discuss 1 & empathize with 1 while bashing the other. Things that make you say mmmm 🤔🧐
I'm sick to my stomach. What I just saw is beyond shocking. If Jamie hadn't recorded any footage, I never would have believed it. This video was heart wrenching. I pray for healing for both parties.
Point of correction Your career isn’t dead It is just beginning. She might take your car and your business and your joy not allowing you earn a livelihood how you are used to…but she can never take your spirit Your spirit will rise like it has always done, you’ll stand and you’ll be happy once again You’ll do well Give it a year… the algorithm will start pushing your videos to the right audience. You’ll be back better than before You’ll prosper and You’ll be fine We love you ❤
A whole mouth full because I would’ve never thought Nikki was giving it up like this. And as a single mother with a wack ass kids father. I am disgusted by Nikki behavior.
It broke my heart to see Grandma Perkins crying. Nikki should be ashamed to use the girls against you and your parents. Jamie, I will keep you and the girls in my prayers.
Absolutely disgraceful behaviour, especially when we've seen how kindly they treated her for years! I'm not a fan of my in-laws, but I can't even fathom acting that way and well as weaponising the kids to say they'll never see them again.
I agree I had the same thing done to me and grandma Perkins is an amazing woman kids do not need to hear their parents fighting this is narcissistic abuse
What saddens me is it seems no one in Nikki’s life or family, not even her sister, told her she was heading in the wrong direction? A heart to heart to just tell her the truth would’ve gone a long way.
Damn, I can feel his pain. As someone who went thru trauma in a marriage, I totally get why you choose to be transparent now. The transparency IS a huge part of the healing process. I hope Jamie and Nikki get the happiness they deserve and eventually build a healthy relationship for the kids.
When grandma started crying that did something to me. I’m proud of you for coming out and speaking up for yourself. I stand with you and whatever content you make moving forward.
I cried this whole video because there a men out there who would choose their passion instead of their kids. And he is still speaking highly of Nikki. May God make a way for you both.
Jamie, good for you for speaking your truth. If tables were turned everyone would stand with Nikki and tell her good job for Speaking the truth. Well I’m here to stand with you and tell you great job for Speaking your truth!!
Society needs to start listening to Men , watching this made me realize that men go through a lot of trauma due to lack of attention. I hope you heal through this painful experience Jamie 🙏🏽
It's sad that it took this video and this man to show you that men have a traumatic experience and can be abused. This isn't a jab at you at all. Its sad.
It broke me to see your Mom upset. She helped with Ava since the day she was born. Your Dad is such a hard worker and a sweet soul. You, Jamie are just like them. You have a big heart! Hang in there Jamie! Do not let her ruin you! Look at some of the suggestions here for re-brand your RUclips channel. We ❤ you Jamie!!
His dad is still working at 75!!! And comes home to his wife on the weekend. He is strong. This is hard. I cannot believe what this woman had done to this family
I felt so sad when he started talking about his parents. Imagine being 75, still working full-time so hard and away from your 80 year old spouse. Nikki is absolutely vile to have moved the kids so far away from what was their constant support system. His parents did so much for them!
It takes real man to speak up about physical and verbal abuse. Knowing that the abuse was so bad that it literally made you sick, upsets me so much. Seeing your mother cry pisses me off even more. Her attacking you while she was holding the baby, mocking the depression, this is some sick ish. Jamie, we all have your back and love you. You could start up a go fund me to help with the legal fees, etc. We will support you with whatever you need and decide to do💕🙏
You took the words right outta my mouth about the go fund me. He should really start one and I would gladly send my love gift to help him gain an attorney or to help out with his expenses
@@kalimistakidou9103Nikki messed up she broke her home and got pregnant I was on her side until I saw that 🤦🏽♀️I was disappointed. Cause I remember when she wanted to be pregnant with Jamie so bad.
As a woman, I walked away from an abusive relationship. I paid child support, I help to pay the mortgage on a house I was not living in... I did this because of my sons who were still in the house. It hurt for years emotionally being away from my sons. Thankfully, my younger son now lives with me. I had to fight in the courts away and pay out a lot of money. Well, God restores. I am remarried, happily and God is blessing me in many ways. I lost it all, but God Restores. After 14 years of divorce, God has restored and given me back the years that were stolen.
J espere aussi car 14 ans séparé et seul av les enfants. Que deception. Que Dieu me fasse pareil et que je trouve 1 personne bien qui me fera oublier ces années de larmes et tristesse, au nom de jesus. Amen
This is about the man being abused. But sorry for your experience. Ladies always get a chance to tell their story. This comment section should be saved for the abused men living in darkness 😢😞😔
I feel sorry for ever having judged you in my own way ..in as much as I never said or wrote anything on here ,thank you for speaking out ..hearing your side of the story was an eye opener..hope men learn to talk about these hard moments and find help and guidance in whatever hard times they experience..sending hugs and hope you heal and continue being a great dad.
Jamie I will truly say wholeheartedly, I apologized, I too ran with a narrative not knowing what was going on because I thought men rarely leave or rarely got abused. I just saw Nikki as “soft spoken angel” and “she would never” type. I know everyone’s not perfect but that was my foolish perception. I wish you nothing but peace, prosperity and health for you and your beautiful girls. I’m sooooo sorry you had to deal with the trials and tribulations of difficult co parenting just to be a great providing father. God bless you my dear. 💚
I truly am sorry for what you went through but what the devil mean for harm God turns around for your good and listening to you I can tell you're being honest I red the title on some of those videos but never allowed myself to look at them also you can find so many reasons to be grateful despite all that was happening so my dear continue to be blessed
I absolutely loved your family. I just loved how beautiful your lives seemed. It is so true that no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. You are in my prayers. I am so sorry for all you're going through. I cried when your mom said she was not alright. I am a grandma also, I felt her pain as well as yours
Unfortunately, Men are abused just as much as Women! They're just taught from the time they could talk not to speak on it or ask for help because society says that A Man asking for help or being a bit venerable is a weak Man. Half a Man even. This must change!!
We will watch whatever you post Jamie. Find your niche. Don’t sell yourself short. You have a lot to offer all on your own. You are more than just a father. It will take time but you will heal and you will reach financial stability.
If Nikki posted a video like this, would you guys comment and say she shouldn't have said anything? Leave this man alone let him tell his truth. The End.
@summerbreeze7832 you're very naive. Those children will know the truth one day. Doesn't matter how secret you keep it, the truth will always come to light. Children are alot stronger than you know. And since they've already seen Nikki be violent towards him.....Those kids know. I promise you, Those kids know and will remember those times.
@@summerbreeze7832 babes I'm a pediatric psych nurse. I've seen more of this than you. It always comes out. And the entire time, the children know. I know this not only my career but also from personal experience growing up with my parents. This video isn't for his kids, it's for him. It's not wrong for anyone (man or woman) to tell their truth. He is a person outside of fatherhood. Leave that man alone. If you don't like, simply unfollow and go to Nikki. I'm not even surprised by some of the stuff he says because I definitely picked up on some of them in her behavior
@@summerbreeze7832 I absolutely disagree!! Why can’t Jamie speak about what he’s been through, because it shows Nikki in a bad light? The truth is always freedom! Why should he have to hide how he feels about his life with his family, and she gets to go on like nothing happened. I think you need to check yourself because there’s definitely a double standard here. As an abused person I totally understand how Jamie was trying to protect the kids. Nikki needs to own up to her actions and get help, for herself and the girls. If it’s never happened to you how can you speak louder than the one that’s been through it.
OML... I feel for everyone involved. This is sad. I hope you're able to find yourself and peace again, sir. Very seldom do we get to witness what the man goes through, but this was an eye opener. Blessings and Love to you and your family, sir. Keep the strength and endurance to push forward.
It’s shocking that he was suffering the whole time and he hid it, continued to be strong for your kids , Jamie life changes all the time so wishing you healing, and fast happiness.
It’s so crazy. I unsubscribed to her channel a few years ago because something about her just felt inauthentic. I’m so happy you’re out of that situation. Stay strong & don’t lose hope! Everything happens for a reason 🤍
OMG!!! I haven't even watched half of the video, and I'm speechless already... I literally have no words. Truly, we can't ever know anyone, especially through the lens of a camera. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are you with Jamie... This too shall pass ❤❤
I’ve always thought Nikki’s silence about the reason for the split was suspicious. As much as I loved them as a couple, Nikki is the type that wanted to be treated like a princess 24/7. That perfect life she always portrayed was questionable. I’m so disappointed & hurt for you Jamie. You’re strong, you’re a real man. I truly pray that Jesus heals your heart. I also pray that Nikki heals for the sake of true peace between both of you. This is really sad. Y’all had so much potential. This is heartbreaking as you can never avoid each other because of the kids. It sounds like Nikki wanted to be a wife that is 100% financed which is fine. But that wasn’t for Jamie & it sounds like Nikki was determined to emasculate him till he gave in. Although she came from humble beginnings, she somehow had it in her mind that Jamie was obliged to give her fairytale lifestyle according to her terms & only her terms. Very shocked at how vile she is. Social media is the fakest thing ever!
I'm a woman and I've been where you've been. I had to pay alimony and child support and had my child 50% of the time. You're still young enough Jamie so once the girls get older you'll be able to seek out your dreams. They are still young now. You'll see.
Jamie’s not that young lol he’s mostly in his early 40’s but I’m here for him and him starting his life over! I was excited when I saw him getting his life back together and said maybe now he’ll go back to posting videos of him and celebrity musicians
If you don’t mind me asking, why did you have to pay? I am currently going through a child custody battle with my ex, and I know it’s different jurisdictions, but what made the judge decide that?
I think he came out to expose this years later because it is taking a psychological toll on him. When you’re dealing with a public humiliation and choose to never address it, it will eat you alive until you publicly deal with it. There is a reason why the saying goes, “The truth will set you free.”
No i think its because there is some truth to what Nikki is saying too....people are tooo quick to pick sides...as far as i see they both are hurting each other n the kids will ultimately get the worse of it
No it's because he's broke and looking to make a fast buck. Plus he's missing the attention. He's suffers from ADD and right now his victim mentality act is the only route he can take to make a fast buck now that nikki has stopped the kids from RUclips
Jamie told all of us that he can't pay his rent. That's what this video is all about, views and a paycheck. I am not defending Nikki as I think they both did wrong
uber content...getting ready as an uber driver, the interactions, how you start your day, the people you meet, the neighbourhoods. You get the gist...it's your lifestyle, be creative with it and we pray for views and collabs and brands. The future is bright Jamie...keep going x
Maybe even to Collab with car brands and do like a ‘come with me to be an Uber driver in a lambo’ and get people’s reactions as their Uber driver turns up in an amazing car Could even get to the point where it’s done intentionally and you find car lovers and make their dreams come true with it or something! HERE FOR THIS CONTENT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Nikki was a toxic parent and that phone call he recorded was her alienating him from his kids bc of her insecurities and abandonment issues. Thats the true reason why he got 50/50 custody. Judges don't play those games anymore and he documentated everything. The drama she caused the kids, i can only imagine. I'm no longer a fan of Nikki. I hope time heals all and parents these days need to realize it took two people to get the kids here and it will take two parents to raise them. Thank you for telling us your story. It was right on time. More men should come forward with their stories.
I'm glad you're finally speaking out, Jamie! I hated that all of the negative assumptions were about you as people speculated what happened to your marriage all these years. I always suspected it wasn't you. You deserve to say your peace! As a woman, I fully support fairness and you've shouldered being the victim, the secret keeper and the public relations representative for both of you. You've protected her and it's cost you your peace. Being silent and diplomatic has left you heartbroken and broken in so many other ways, evidently. No more. Your children are beautiful and I want them to grow up loving both their parents dearly, but fair is fair. Speak your peace! I know you love her so I won't say what she sounds like on those phone calls. Whatever Nikki is going through, I pray God change her heart and have mercy on her because she's wrong wrong wrong.
I completely agree with your statement here. I stated something similar years back when they announced they were separating. Something didn’t sit right with me and I just couldn’t side with Nikki. I felt like something was just off. I’m happy Jamie has spoken up.
At first I too thought he was a jerk, she started to seem like she was pushy, bossy and rude at times especially after the second baby but I ignored it. Not saying he’s innocent because she has her side of this drama too and we’re ALL on the outside looking in.
This is one of the most honest videos I’ve seen on here. I hope you stay strong and I hope that things work out towards where things get better. Stay strong and keep going. I know you will for your girls because you seem like a good dad.
I literally never write comments on videos but I feel so compelled to let you know we believe you. 100%. I always knew in my heart of hearts that there was a side of her we never saw. Your silence spoke volumes and I’m glad you finally came forward to speak your truth. Sending you positive vibes and pray you get through this.
Papa Perkins is paying the most for this divorce. Too much. Two mortgages at 75, no longer living with his wife at this stage in life, driving so much every week and probably being so tired all the time. I think he’s doing all that for his wife who wants to be close to his children and grandchildren. And without complaining? What a man, man.
I felt like crying for both of his parents! Imagine being 80 and also going through this because you want to be there to help your son and see your grandkids. Nikki was so vile to move them that far away from their support system.
Again, why should a man get married, regardless of if your right or wrong your kids get torn from you. 9/10 you cough up the financial losses. Women can leave for something as little as “we grew apart” or “boredom”. They find a more ways to make this contract sound so foolish.
This broke my heart to pieces. The hurt in your eyes is so evident. I'm so sorry you're going through this Jamie. Know that it's a phase and shall surely pass. Stay strong. Take it a day at a time. I don't wanna take sides but I must say that I'm highly disappointed in Nikki on how petty she's being. Didn't expect this from her at all. I honestly thought that she's the one who walked away. I'm glad you voiced your side of the story (without going in too much details) I admire you sooo much for how HARD you're fighting to be in your girls life.
Let me tell you something when a person intended to record you, there's no way he will go violent when he just want to collect evidence against you he knew Nikki would definitely loose it when triggered so he had to play a victim so take it slow Such types are so manipulative wait untill Nikki comes up with hers I'm not siding with anyone and not being carried away by this voice record They are now divorced please 🙏 let each person coparent in peace
@alenarobinah4215 I wonder if you'd be of the same opinion if the tables were turned and Nikki came up with these receipts. If after all this, you still can't read in between the lines then girl bye ✌️
Thank you so much for sharing this. Transparency is a huge part of healing. I pray that you will find love again and total healing in this situation. ❤
Hearing nicki telling you that you don’t have family nor friends and that you’re depressed is just cruel and rubbing it in your face, kids should never be used as pawns
This whole thing was so SAD. As a fan of your family blogs since back in 2015, it just goes to show that you never really know what’s happening in other people’s lives. I’m glad that you are at least at a place where you can speak your truth and gain your power back. No one deserves to be prevented from seeing their children, especially in the way that you’ve detailed here. And no one deserves to be abused. I hope that you can continue to have the resolve that you displayed over the years in order to be in your babies’ lives. They WILL know what you’ve done. They WILL understand the love you have for them and they WILL love you back. CONTINUE TO BE VULNERABLE, especially if it is helping to heal you. At any rate, this content is SO necessary for others to see so that at least they know they aren’t alone.
I can relate to SO much that you talked about in this video. I truly commend you for the father that you want to be and strive to be for your girls. Honestly we need more men like that! It absolutely broke my heart the last piece with your mother 💔 when she said she was not okay. Your parents have always been a great support system for you and your family, even now. I pray Nikki changes. And I pray for peace for you and your family as well 🙏🏿. Thank you for sharing ❤.
Jamie you are half of these kids half of you made them. Anyone that attacks you and keeps you from progressing and being apart of your kids life don’t love those kids. Love is not selfish, love is not angry, love is not revenge, love is not jealousy. Jamie there’s nothing wrong with receiving help from your subscribers. Let us help you. 😢❤
That’s what I’m saying, why would you want to stop your baby daddy’s bag?? That’s taking food out of your kids mouth, it’ll hurt them surrounded by a bunch of adults that are now just only scraping by.
My mum kept telling me,the most important decision you'll ever make is in the choice of partner you have kids with! I Pray you meet someone who can love you and your kids the right way!
Jamie I promise you you will look back at this video one day And you’ll be in such a better place! I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this that you’re going through this
I beleive him..100% he is such a gentle man. She seem so cold.. everything makes sense now..yes speak out for your own peace of mind..I really feel for you . Your parents are incredible too..Be strong ..truthfullness helps with the healing..God bless you and your girls❤❤❤❤
It's so odd how some people can be so bitter that they make their kids suffer because they want to get back at a man so bad not realising that if one parent is suffering then the kids will too. The Disney thing shocked me...
Literallyyy like WTF 🤮 my parents our divorced and even though my mother struggled in that relationship she never wants us to think badly about our father, encouraging us to have the best relationship possible. I guess I never thought about how that is such a blessing. Most people are bitter and don’t want the other to succeed !!
What was the outcome for Disney? They did end up going with her.... I was so shocked at how bitter she was. She made it about her when she should have been thinking about the kids.
My father abused my mother growing up and to this day she still encourages me having a relationship with him which I absolutely refuse because he is still 100% narcissistic
I 100% believe him! If y’all are old supporters and paid very close attention to each video this all makes complete sense 😮. I would like to here Nikki’s side now
I remember in one of the videos when they bought that new house jamie wanted to put a bird house outside and she said "You're not getting a damn bird house."
And yet he stayed so tell him what people tell women when they are in the situation. You chose to stay, do better next time but it’s your fault that this happened…
I went through the same experience as you, but it was my husband who abused me, prevented me from going out, and deprived me of money and sometimes food. I encourage you to tell the truth, take care of yourself and be close to God.
"you've never been shit since day 1" Hearing those words being said to Jamie really cut me into pieces. You are amazing Jamie! So so amazing! Personally I've followed you even after the separation because you are incredible as a person!!!!
That I couldn't belive how vile she was being. My sis went through a divorce and while she was hurt I always admired how she never let her feelings prevent the dad from being involved. Personally I stopped following her and kept following Jamie, there was always an underlying tone jn how she treated Jamie, ppl.need to go back and watch
You're right!! My mother did this to me when I was a teen. Now I'm 30 years old and we're not in contact anymore. I'm so sad about the fact that I was just a 'thing' for her.
Your present position is not your final destination. Trust that God will work it out easy to say I know but cast your cares upon him for he cares for you. God bless you.
I’m really surprise she hasn’t tried to do that already but I think the girls are old enough and he’s been in their lives long enough for them to know and feel how much he really does Love them. I hope and pray she doesn’t attack him after seeing this videos or send her fans to harass him again. He spoke his truth
I believe everything Jamie said. He could have put this out when it first happened but he didn’t. Nikki is sick and need help. I stand with Jamie and the girls
I’m so sorry you’ve been suffering this trauma in silence. Ava & Zoe will respect you one day when they’re older & understand. Reach out to professionals & surroundings yourself with your support team. Take good care of yourself ♥️
When grandma Perkins cried, my heart broke into pieces. Grandpa and grandma Perkins should be very proud of the man they raised Jamie, you are strong, level headed man, who genuinely love his children. Prayers for you Jamie and Nikki find piece, so that those two most beautiful girls, get the best from their parents.
Jamie I am so sorry for what you and your parents are going through. It breaks my heart to know that the children are in the center of the chaotic situation between you and Nikki. I remember when you proposed to Nikki and you guys Wedding was amazing. This really hurts 😢. I can only hope that for the sake of the girls that you and Nikki find common grounds for co-parenting and totally peace to move on in life in a positive way. I am praying for both of you guys and your loving parents. They have always been there for you, Jamie, Nikki and the girls. I am praying all of you guys in Jesus mighty name 🙏. Much love ❤
Agree. I've watched them a long time and it was always difficult to believe he was the issue based on the narratives being pushed out online. You always saw the differences in attitudes.
I really can't believe you're as innocent as you portray. You putting all your business out there to draw sympathy for yourself. So what you are saying is that Nikki did everything and you did nothing, I will never believe that at all and I feel you are less of a man putting your business out like that, your children will hear this and you will hate you for putting their mother on blast like that. Mark my word!!!
Stay strong, Jamie. I'm sorry you felt you were backed into a corner and had no choice but to speak. At the same time, keeping all that in must have been so toxic for you. I'm glad the truth is out. Nikki, if you're reading this, I know your first reaction is going to be feelings of betrayal, anger and embarrassment. I know there are 3 sides to every story and that I also can't tell others what to do. However, I strongly suggest you not try to get even, and get help. Put your children first always - believe me, they want to see mum and dad love (even if platonically) and respect each other. Always remember that.
Jamie… thanks for sharing this. My heart goes out to you 🥺 I don’t see complaining, I see a man that’s had enough and truly cares about his family. God’s hands are open so wide to recieve you and He is near to those who are broken hearted and are crushed in their spirit (Psalm 34:18). I pray you turn to Him and that you and your family get healed beyond your wildest imagination
I want to admit everything u we’re saying Jamie I believed. My kids are adults now but when me & their father broke up I tried to make his life miserable bc I was angry he broke up with me. I took him for child support, wrote post, tried to turn everyone against him bc my ego was broken. It took my mom may her soul rest to tell me that if I’m doing things out of spite nothing good will come out…there is a thing called karma. My kids were the ones hurting, I changed this man life. my kids father was basically homeless & couldn’t renew his driving license & jailed bc he was behind child support! I dropped the child support & we worked something out on paper. I pray things will change for u. 😮
So good of you to admit this. I have seen this over and over with women. Glad that your mom showed you that the kids were being hurt. It's good that you stepped aside for the benefit of your children. ❤
I went through something similar I dropped $35000 in child support so that he can get his life in order and he did. He has his own construction business and he’s doing good. Had I not given him that chance who knows where he would be. God bless you 🙏🏼😍
I cant believe she brought his parents into this. His parents especially his dad. He was such a sweetheart toward her(Nikki). I hope that things works out for you Jaime. And things gets better between you both for the girl's sake.
I hope your kids know how wonderful of a father you are and the efforts you made to be in their lives because the average man would have said it’s too much and left
I lost it when grandma started crying. Everyone is in incredible pain. I hope time will heal things. Take it one day at a time and I pray for you all. ❤
To the people saying take the video down or he shouldn’t post stfu. Y’all should have chosen not to watch. It’s his life, his truth, he deserves to tell it. Jamie, you have my support. Push on. You can do RUclips classes or courses for smaller content creators. A lot of people don’t like editing you’re amazing at it charge for editing. Get your hustle on and continue to be amazing.
I'm really not surprised Nikki always had meanness and dislike towards you on camera, sorry you and your family went through this - everyone knows you love your kids and you will persevere, wishing the best for you!
I've been following your journey for years, from the beautiful moments you shared with Nikki and your lovely daughters to the heart-wrenching struggles you've faced during this messy divorce process. It's truly disheartening to see a relationship that was once admired by so many end in such turmoil. I want you to know that I respect your decision to finally speak out and share your side of the story. It's evident that there are truths and perspectives on both sides, and as someone who believes in fairness and empathy, I won't be taking sides or assigning blame. Relationships are complex, and sometimes two people simply aren't compatible, no matter how much love there once was. It's a painful reality, but it's also a necessary one if both parties are to find peace and happiness in the long run. I want to commend you for your bravery in finally speaking out and sharing your truth. It takes immense courage to open up about the painful truths and the emotional toll this has taken on you. It's clear that you've been through a lot, both financially and emotionally, and my heart goes out to you. It's unfortunate that divorce can often bring out the worst in people, leading to hurtful accusations and using children as pawns. It's a situation no one should have to endure, especially when children are involved. I want to encourage you to stay strong and focus on moving forward, even though I know it's easier said than done. Healing from such a traumatic experience will take time, but it's important to remember that you are not alone. There are people who care about you and are here to support you every step of the way. I admire your courage in being open and honest about your experiences, and I hope that by doing so, you can find some closure and begin the healing process. It's not easy to move on from such a significant chapter of your life, but I believe that with time and self-reflection, you'll emerge stronger and wiser. It's important to remember that your daughters are watching and absorbing everything that happens, both online and offline. As they grow older, they may struggle to reconcile the public narratives with their own memories and experiences. That's why it's crucial for both you and Nikki to be mindful of the content you put out and the impact it may have on your daughters' well-being. I urge you both to prioritize open communication and cooperation when it comes to co-parenting. Your daughters deserve to have a healthy relationship with both of their parents, free from resentment and animosity. Please know that as a subscriber to your channel, I am here to offer my support and encouragement, no matter what decisions you make. You deserve happiness and peace, and I believe that with time and healing, you will find it again. Keep your heart open to love and know that brighter days are ahead. Take care of yourself, Jamie, and know that you have a community of people rooting for you.
I am almost 30 years old, been married for around 9 years and have 3 sons. Everything that I am, everything that I strive to do in my marriage, motherhood and in my life personally, is largely from the impact my dad had on my life. I watched my dad go through hell and struggle in so many ways. He never said anything verbally to me because he never wanted o burden me with adult problems (or give me a negative view point about my parent) but even as a child, you can tell/observe those things. Looking back now as a adult, i have so much gratitude to what he endured. Just know that the mental, emotional hardships that you are feeling are never in vain. The love you pour into your daughters will echo for generations. A fathers love is a seed that is so potent in a young girls life. Certainly not something to be underestimated. Thank you for putting daughters first, and keeping your heart strong.
Separation with a family involved is hard. I'm very sorry it had to come to this. The family was a very interesting one with lots to see and learn from. It broke our hearts when it came to an end. Mental health is real and the children can feel when things are not going right. Your parents was an integral part of the family and show the family as a whole. The is now broken and it's harder to put it back together as they get older. They missed what they had with the whole family but they will understand that the love they have from both of parents are still good i pray that you will feel better soon.
Wow the last voice clip of her is pure evil! She sounds happy knowing the state you’re in mentally and isolated! And your poor mum that broke my heart! I’m glad you had a few friends and your parents to support you!!Keep your head up Jaime, you always hit bottom before you see the light again and I’m sure you’ll do great! You’re a GREAT dad and at the end your kids will know that!❤
I have been a victim of domestic violence-- it's hard to seeing you suffer and hearing your poor mom's brokenheart, I just pray for God's Strength and Grace over you, your parents and your babies. Love you Jamie!!
Jamie, it is so amazing you coming out of your isolation and talking about what you have been going through. That takes a lot of courage! I hope you will find resilience on your way towards healing. It will take time, but you can be a model for men in a similar situation who don't find the courage to out themselves because they think it is not "a man's thing' to do. You stood up for yourself, unmasking lies. Kudos to you! You are a warrior dad, fighting the just fight! And God will be with you every step of the way! 🙏🙏🙏 You are not alone in this.
THAT LAST CLIP! Tells you everything. The fact that 1, her voice sounds COMPLETELY different than what we normally hear, that soft spoken, airy voice, gone. And 2, the fact that her sister just stood there while Jaime recorded and mentioned her cheating and abuse and said NOTHING. I don’t have sisters but I know if a man was lying about me on camera, they would’ve interjected. She, said, nothing. Because she knew it was true. That’s all I needed to see.
Let’s keep Jamie in prayer. She has no respect for herself and his Mother crying. Really? She’s nasty. Stop all you people who say that Africans respect their elders. Just stop. She has no self control.
Jamie you are not alone in this type of bull shit, my brother just walked out one day and stayed out he just recently told us the truth about what he was going through. Stay strong and do you. God is your strength.
I am so so sorry for the amount of pain and hardship this has all caused you and your parents. It definitely sounds like you have been involved with narcissistic abuse which is tremendously hard to overcome. I wish you all the best and may you one day find real love and happiness.
Bout to RUN UP these views! Jamie I absolutely commend you on speaking your truth. This man has been through it y'all. For so many years to remain silent, whilst your character was almost annihilated...and to come with receipts. He never claimed to be perfect but now we know the truth. Keep being an amazing dad to your girls, the universe will now take care of the rest.
we support you Jamie, in every aspect of the word. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this behind closed doors but it is so evident how dearly you love your girls. stay strong 🤍
You don’t have to explain Jamie, it’s always good to take some time off, relax and refresh. Divorce is one of the hardest things to go through and you’ve got this. No matter what your babies Will always love you.
Honestly, if you read the content of the message between Jamie and Nikki whilst he begs her to work, it just seems like two different people with different views on what makes life great. I can totally see why she didn't want to work. The rent was fully paid. She was in school to secure their future and already working doing RUclips as a part-time job. It doesn't appear that Jamie really needed to work 14 hour days. Perhaps he needed a regular 8 hour job instead. At the end of the day, she was not wrong to feel he was money hungry and over doing it with work. And he was not wrong for wanting more money to build a future for them. Everyone who wants to marry should realize something important: No matter your attraction for each other, at the end of the day you must have the same values and goals--or else it won't work! I refuse to think of her as a bad person. As a married woman, I can easily identify with her struggle and perspective. This is why it's also important for married couples to hang out with other married couples...you. begin to notice patterns and realize, "hey, my husband does this too, my wife does this too"--just like yours....and it creates more patience within us towards our spouse....
As a child of divorce, the worst thing a parent can do is put their problems above their kids, and take away their kids opportunity from having a full relationships with both parents. You had your parents and childhood, don't ruin the child's just because you guys don't get along. Wishing you all the best Jaimie. Praying for you and your family. Going to church and being a part of a church community with people to pray and support you, will definitly help
Jaimie, this is actually your best content in years since the break up. Because it's honest, it's genuine and truthful. You've made enough family videos that'll help any single dad out there struggling with the same issues. So you've made your contributions in that area, and that was great, but now you're done. It's now time to change directions and move to new heights. Honesty and transparency will bring the healing, freedom and breakthrough that you need to take you to the next level. So I definitely encourage you to continue making this type of videos because this is how you"ll be able to regain your lost identity and be your old wonderful self again. With regards to your ex, don't be bitter, be wise and cautious around her, while we join our prayers to yours: that God will help, heal and restore her, and give her direction! Oh, by the way, I also had a lot of social anxiety due to isolation, but driving Uber this summer for a few months, helped me heal and be my old self again. I met the most wonderful people and discovered that I had nothing to be afraid of! Life is a journey, your story is still being written, so keep going! God bless! 🙏
I LOVE YOU JAMIE. WE LOVE YOU!!!!!! THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH AND THIS IS MY LITTLE WAY TO CHEER YOU ON AND LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE TO BE HEARD! I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT ABSOLUTE JOY,LONG LIFE,PEACE AND GOOD HEALTH GOING FORWARD. CLEAN HEARTS ALWAYS WIN. KEEP GOING! YOU ROCK! 🎉 🇳🇬🇨🇦
standing with you Jamie.. sending positive vibes and light....we your supporters had nooo idea you were suffering in silence...stand strong and your girls adore you...
I thought about you the other day to see what you've been up to, and I'm so sorry that you're going through this pain. My mother was one of those people who would do everything in her power to destroy the lives (financially, socially, legally, reputationally, professionally) of my father and my other siblings' father. I can tell you that it was one of the most painful experiences growing up, and the saddest part was that both of the fathers of me and my siblings eventually gave up in trying to be there for their kids. So Jamie, thank you for continuing to be in your children's lives. I am grateful that a father like you exists for your children, and I am so grateful you are a man fighting for what's right.
Jamie you can continue to do RUclips. Be yourself and do you and post what you’re doing. Post motivational talks, talk about overcoming depression, talk about what it’s like being single again, talk about what it’s like to be a single dad.
❤ I agree.. you can do youtube.. you have a creative mind.
It’s mean 4 years Jamie it’s time to start dating..I love Nikki but you have to be happy and have a life ! So does nikki .Everything will be alright and you keep putting out that content I will watch and many others will watch as well . Content something like Jamie Perkins finding love again ..Jamie Perkins dating life get back out there and the rest will fall into place ❤❤❤❤❤👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
thank you Vanessa for encouraging Jamie with proactive ideas. God's continued best to Jamie and his treasured daughters always !
Yesss , Jamie can also do Twitch and play video games !!! Im rooting for you Jamie !
Jamie you are an amazing father! I hope you the best. You most definitely can still do YOU TUBE! Dig deeper with the kids. Talk about healing your family and your relationship with Nikki. God will bring you the creativity.
Listen! If this was a woman, people will be encouraging her to speak up. I am glad you are speaking up to show the kind of person she really is. Crazy!!!
They did & sided with her.
He is playing victim. I'm sure he did things to provoke the frustration and then sit back and act innocent. I've dated someone like that before and stay way from people who are that
@@miss_92_lissa16 STFU and get off Jamie’s channel. We don’t need your negative energy.
Màybe you need to just stay off youtube. Many people have gone through this. Get counseling and be a father to the best of you ability. You will get through
@@miss_92_lissa16 ok miss Lisa 🙄
Well done Jamie for speaking your truth. No one should shut you up. Everyone has a right to speak their truth. You allowed internet to run with negative narration about you and you kept quite......Talk brother. This is the beginning of your healing space.
2 SIDES TO EVERY STORY...NOW LET'S HEAR NIKKI'S SIDE...REALLY!
Yeh I know I watch this but I hate drama being posted online……
Indeed..he was in an ABUSIVE MARRIAGE..and she won’t get good for that..I hope she gets help….😢
2 sides to the story always get thrown when a man is the victim but if it is a woman making such claims....there wont be sides being talked about.
@@summerbreeze7832shame on you if this had been Niki you all would have jumped to her side all because she is black and a woman. Shame on you! Let him speak his truth freely. Abuse is hard and takes so much of your power away.
My heart goes out to you, the girls, and those closest to you. I truly hope you can move passed this 💛
And become extremely successful in his passion. He has an audience already and a lot of potential.
Jamie the best advice I have for you is, when you speak to her, be emotionless, do not discuss anything outside the kids, don’t be nice, don’t be mean, don’t show ANY emotion!
People like this feed off your emotions and use this as a way of controlling you. Please do this. It’s called stonewalling and it works! You are a kind person and deserve way better than this but don’t give her anything she doesn’t deserve. She don’t deserve ANYTHING from you.
This needs to be pinned up🙌 spot on!
FACTSSSS!!! GREAT ADVICE!!
This is the best advice yet.
It’s actually called gray rock and is a very successful against narcissists.
I called it gray Rocking 🪨 . Just act like a Rock when dealing with her
You have so much strength. Everyone always believes when women say they’re being abused but when men try to stand up for themselves they’re shut down. Thank you for speaking up and I hope you heal and hope this shows other men they can stand up for themselves.
THIS!!!❤
So true
I admire you even now i can hear and see your emotions right now 🙏🏿🙌🏾👏🏾🤗❤️💕😘👍💐😍🇺🇸
AMENNN !
Not true at, let’s not spewed lies, many people don’t believe women who are being abused, that’s why many women don’t come forward like that
There are so many women out there who wish their children’s father was half as excited to be involved in the kids lives as you are. Your girls will appreciate you for this in the future ❤
There are so many women out there who manipulate & do everything in their power to push him away as well. Both things can be true but yet we are only allowed to discuss 1 & empathize with 1 while bashing the other. Things that make you say mmmm 🤔🧐
There are women who are still married to their husbands who do not get a half of what Jamie gives in terms of parenting 😢
@@yv6958 fact is fact
I sûre do😢
I'm sick to my stomach. What I just saw is beyond shocking. If Jamie hadn't recorded any footage, I never would have believed it. This video was heart wrenching. I pray for healing for both parties.
Point of correction
Your career isn’t dead
It is just beginning.
She might take your car and your business and your joy not allowing you earn a livelihood how you are used to…but she can never take your spirit
Your spirit will rise like it has always done, you’ll stand and you’ll be happy once again
You’ll do well
Give it a year… the algorithm will start pushing your videos to the right audience.
You’ll be back better than before
You’ll prosper and
You’ll be fine
We love you ❤
Amen. Amen. Amen.
Give it to God Jamie he will take care of you this is sad to watch I hope you are still in therapy 🙏 ❤
This is the comment. Amen.
Yesss, amen
Amen!
Damn, never envy people guys. You never know what’s happening behind closed doors.
Isn't that the truth 👏🏾
Literally 😢
Touché 👏🏾👏🏾
A whole mouth full because I would’ve never thought Nikki was giving it up like this. And as a single mother with a wack ass kids father. I am disgusted by Nikki behavior.
I know, right?
It broke my heart to see Grandma Perkins crying. Nikki should be ashamed to use the girls against you and your parents. Jamie, I will keep you and the girls in my prayers.
Get a lawyer save the video and get all things in the court system because that woman is going to control you with your children
Absolutely disgraceful behaviour, especially when we've seen how kindly they treated her for years! I'm not a fan of my in-laws, but I can't even fathom acting that way and well as weaponising the kids to say they'll never see them again.
I agree I had the same thing done to me and grandma Perkins is an amazing woman kids do not need to hear their parents fighting this is narcissistic abuse
Pray for Nikki too! God loves her as much as He loves Jamie and each and every one of us!
What saddens me is it seems no one in Nikki’s life or family, not even her sister, told her she was heading in the wrong direction? A heart to heart to just tell her the truth would’ve gone a long way.
Damn, I can feel his pain. As someone who went thru trauma in a marriage, I totally get why you choose to be transparent now. The transparency IS a huge part of the healing process. I hope Jamie and Nikki get the happiness they deserve and eventually build a healthy relationship for the kids.
When grandma started crying that did something to me. I’m proud of you for coming out and speaking up for yourself. I stand with you and whatever content you make moving forward.
I cried this whole video because there a men out there who would choose their passion instead of their kids. And he is still speaking highly of Nikki. May God make a way for you both.
You would believe the pink man, our Oppressor
@@moremore1865she married him , that’s the man the chose
Exactly, I stand with Jamie ! Let’s support this man !!
@@Sandrinarhonda NOPE, white tears
Yes we will still support the 'pink man'
Jamie, good for you for speaking your truth. If tables were turned everyone would stand with Nikki and tell her good job for
Speaking the truth. Well I’m here to stand with you and tell you great job for
Speaking your truth!!
They did. I was on her site afterwards but stopped. It didn't seem real & everyone blasted him, including race & age.
Society needs to start listening to Men , watching this made me realize that men go through a lot of trauma due to lack of attention. I hope you heal through this painful experience Jamie 🙏🏽
Very true!!!
Jamie is a manipulator
Why do people say this as if society listens to women? 💀 we’re literally the laughingstock of the world and nobody cates , ever 💀😐
It's sad that it took this video and this man to show you that men have a traumatic experience and can be abused. This isn't a jab at you at all. Its sad.
He can confide in a close friend or a therapist. Does he know that?
It broke me to see your Mom upset. She helped with Ava since the day she was born. Your Dad is such a hard worker and a sweet soul. You, Jamie are just like them. You have a big heart! Hang in there Jamie! Do not let her ruin you! Look at some of the suggestions here for re-brand your RUclips channel. We ❤ you Jamie!!
His dad is still working at 75!!! And comes home to his wife on the weekend. He is strong. This is hard. I cannot believe what this woman had done to this family
I felt so sad when he started talking about his parents. Imagine being 75, still working full-time so hard and away from your 80 year old spouse. Nikki is absolutely vile to have moved the kids so far away from what was their constant support system. His parents did so much for them!
Yup I almost lost it when mama Perkins was crying 😢
It takes real man to speak up about physical and verbal abuse. Knowing that the abuse was so bad that it literally made you sick, upsets me so much. Seeing your mother cry pisses me off even more. Her attacking you while she was holding the baby, mocking the depression, this is some sick ish. Jamie, we all have your back and love you. You could start up a go fund me to help with the legal fees, etc. We will support you with whatever you need and decide to do💕🙏
You took the words right outta my mouth about the go fund me. He should really start one and I would gladly send my love gift to help him gain an attorney or to help out with his expenses
Will you be sending money to Nikki too if she had a gofundme?
@@kalimistakidou9103no. Why would we?
@@kalimistakidou9103Nikki messed up she broke her home and got pregnant I was on her side until I saw that 🤦🏽♀️I was disappointed. Cause I remember when she wanted to be pregnant with Jamie so bad.
As a woman, I walked away from an abusive relationship. I paid child support, I help to pay the mortgage on a house I was not living in... I did this because of my sons who were still in the house. It hurt for years emotionally being away from my sons. Thankfully, my younger son now lives with me. I had to fight in the courts away and pay out a lot of money. Well, God restores. I am remarried, happily and God is blessing me in many ways. I lost it all, but God Restores. After 14 years of divorce, God has restored and given me back the years that were stolen.
Amennnnnnn. Merci Seigneur Jesus🙏🏾
J espere aussi car 14 ans séparé et seul av les enfants. Que deception. Que Dieu me fasse pareil et que je trouve 1 personne bien qui me fera oublier ces années de larmes et tristesse, au nom de jesus. Amen
Amennnnnn Jesus Crist is Lord🙏🙏🙏
This is about the man being abused. But sorry for your experience. Ladies always get a chance to tell their story. This comment section should be saved for the abused men living in darkness 😢😞😔
Amen 🙏
I feel sorry for ever having judged you in my own way ..in as much as I never said or wrote anything on here ,thank you for speaking out ..hearing your side of the story was an eye opener..hope men learn to talk about these hard moments and find help and guidance in whatever hard times they experience..sending hugs and hope you heal and continue being a great dad.
Jamie I will truly say wholeheartedly, I apologized, I too ran with a narrative not knowing what was going on because I thought men rarely leave or rarely got abused. I just saw Nikki as “soft spoken angel” and “she would never” type. I know everyone’s not perfect but that was my foolish perception. I wish you nothing but peace, prosperity and health for you and your beautiful girls. I’m sooooo sorry you had to deal with the trials and tribulations of difficult co parenting just to be a great providing father. God bless you my dear. 💚
I truly am sorry for what you went through but what the devil mean for harm God turns around for your good and listening to you I can tell you're being honest I red the title on some of those videos but never allowed myself to look at them also you can find so many reasons to be grateful despite all that was happening so my dear continue to be blessed
Thank you Jamie for being vulnerable and telling your story. May God gives you the strength to move on and take care of your kids
I absolutely loved your family. I just loved how beautiful your lives seemed. It is so true that no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. You are in my prayers. I am so sorry for all you're going through. I cried when your mom said she was not alright. I am a grandma also, I felt her pain as well as yours
Men get abused ALL the time. They just never talk about it. I too I’m glad he made a video.
Unfortunately, Men are abused just as much as Women! They're just taught from the time they could talk not to speak on it or ask for help because society says that A Man asking for help or being a bit venerable is a weak Man. Half a Man even. This must change!!
We will watch whatever you post Jamie. Find your niche. Don’t sell yourself short. You have a lot to offer all on your own. You are more than just a father. It will take time but you will heal and you will reach financial stability.
If Nikki posted a video like this, would you guys comment and say she shouldn't have said anything? Leave this man alone let him tell his truth. The End.
Exactly! the double standards would be crazy af
@summerbreeze7832 you're very naive. Those children will know the truth one day. Doesn't matter how secret you keep it, the truth will always come to light. Children are alot stronger than you know. And since they've already seen Nikki be violent towards him.....Those kids know. I promise you, Those kids know and will remember those times.
@@summerbreeze7832 babes I'm a pediatric psych nurse. I've seen more of this than you. It always comes out. And the entire time, the children know. I know this not only my career but also from personal experience growing up with my parents. This video isn't for his kids, it's for him. It's not wrong for anyone (man or woman) to tell their truth. He is a person outside of fatherhood. Leave that man alone. If you don't like, simply unfollow and go to Nikki. I'm not even surprised by some of the stuff he says because I definitely picked up on some of them in her behavior
@@summerbreeze7832 A teacher of what? Certainly not English.
@@summerbreeze7832 I absolutely disagree!! Why can’t Jamie speak about what he’s been through, because it shows Nikki in a bad light? The truth is always freedom! Why should he have to hide how he feels about his life with his family, and she gets to go on like nothing happened. I think you need to check yourself because there’s definitely a double standard here. As an abused person I totally understand how Jamie was trying to protect the kids. Nikki needs to own up to her actions and get help, for herself and the girls. If it’s never happened to you how can you speak louder than the one that’s been through it.
OML... I feel for everyone involved. This is sad. I hope you're able to find yourself and peace again, sir. Very seldom do we get to witness what the man goes through, but this was an eye opener. Blessings and Love to you and your family, sir. Keep the strength and endurance to push forward.
Allow this man to speak his truth , cause if it was the other way around people would be saying she’s telling the truth
It’s shocking that he was suffering the whole time and he hid it, continued to be strong for your kids , Jamie life changes all the time so wishing you healing, and fast happiness.
She the devil 😈😈😈
It’s never too late to start that production company Jamie! Even if it’s little by little . You have the gift of starting over.
It’s so crazy. I unsubscribed to her channel a few years ago because something about her just felt inauthentic. I’m so happy you’re out of that situation. Stay strong & don’t lose hope! Everything happens for a reason 🤍
OMG!!! I haven't even watched half of the video, and I'm speechless already... I literally have no words. Truly, we can't ever know anyone, especially through the lens of a camera. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are you with Jamie... This too shall pass ❤❤
Agreed
I’ve always thought Nikki’s silence about the reason for the split was suspicious. As much as I loved them as a couple, Nikki is the type that wanted to be treated like a princess 24/7. That perfect life she always portrayed was questionable. I’m so disappointed & hurt for you Jamie. You’re strong, you’re a real man. I truly pray that Jesus heals your heart.
I also pray that Nikki heals for the sake of true peace between both of you.
This is really sad. Y’all had so much potential. This is heartbreaking as you can never avoid each other because of the kids. It sounds like Nikki wanted to be a wife that is 100% financed which is fine. But that wasn’t for Jamie & it sounds like Nikki was determined to emasculate him till he gave in. Although she came from humble beginnings, she somehow had it in her mind that Jamie was obliged to give her fairytale lifestyle according to her terms & only her terms.
Very shocked at how vile she is. Social media is the fakest thing ever!
I'm a woman and I've been where you've been. I had to pay alimony and child support and had my child 50% of the time. You're still young enough Jamie so once the girls get older you'll be able to seek out your dreams. They are still young now. You'll see.
Jamie’s not that young lol he’s mostly in his early 40’s but I’m here for him and him starting his life over! I was excited when I saw him getting his life back together and said maybe now he’ll go back to posting videos of him and celebrity musicians
Why you calling us old though. LOL! That's not nice. Jamie got it. @@miguel_Fam
Jamie well done for speaking for your mental health case and much more. Keep speaking your truth and keep seeking help🙏🏾 peace and light ☀️
If you don’t mind me asking, why did you have to pay? I am currently going through a child custody battle with my ex, and I know it’s different jurisdictions, but what made the judge decide that?
The lesson is to never accept selfish/poor behavior-you are LOVED Jaime❤️
Period..❤
I think he came out to expose this years later because it is taking a psychological toll on him. When you’re dealing with a public humiliation and choose to never address it, it will eat you alive until you publicly deal with it. There is a reason why the saying goes, “The truth will set you free.”
No i think its because there is some truth to what Nikki is saying too....people are tooo quick to pick sides...as far as i see they both are hurting each other n the kids will ultimately get the worse of it
If he thinks it took a physical toll on him then, good luck to him now… bringing this to social media will never make him sleep again 👍
No it's because he's broke and looking to make a fast buck. Plus he's missing the attention. He's suffers from ADD and right now his victim mentality act is the only route he can take to make a fast buck now that nikki has stopped the kids from RUclips
@@leahmay1506absolutely spot on this one's going to cost him. This ploy for attention is the lowest he has sunk he needs help.
Jamie told all of us that he can't pay his rent. That's what this video is all about, views and a paycheck. I am not defending Nikki as I think they both did wrong
uber content...getting ready as an uber driver, the interactions, how you start your day, the people you meet, the neighbourhoods. You get the gist...it's your lifestyle, be creative with it and we pray for views and collabs and brands. The future is bright Jamie...keep going x
That's a good idea.
Such a good idea!!! Praying for you Jamie!
Kind of humans of new york style but it's people in an uber.
SO here for this omg! It’ll be like carpool karaoke but like a cool, trendy version!!
Maybe even to Collab with car brands and do like a ‘come with me to be an Uber driver in a lambo’ and get people’s reactions as their Uber driver turns up in an amazing car
Could even get to the point where it’s done intentionally and you find car lovers and make their dreams come true with it or something!
HERE FOR THIS CONTENT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Speak your truth Jamie….. let it out Jamie. It’s freedom
Nikki was a toxic parent and that phone call he recorded was her alienating him from his kids bc of her insecurities and abandonment issues. Thats the true reason why he got 50/50 custody. Judges don't play those games anymore and he documentated everything. The drama she caused the kids, i can only imagine. I'm no longer a fan of Nikki. I hope time heals all and parents these days need to realize it took two people to get the kids here and it will take two parents to raise them. Thank you for telling us your story. It was right on time. More men should come forward with their stories.
There’s no believing him or not - he has a protective order ! She even apologized for hitting him! He is a victim
And so is she bc you’re not exactly a spider on the wall throughout their marriage
Lol...he is in Australia...he will get a restraining order of course...he is white and the will favor him any day...we know how these thifs work..
@@kalimistakidou9103Nothing anyone do can make that type of poison come out of a person. That is who she is.
I'm glad you're finally speaking out, Jamie! I hated that all of the negative assumptions were about you as people speculated what happened to your marriage all these years. I always suspected it wasn't you. You deserve to say your peace! As a woman, I fully support fairness and you've shouldered being the victim, the secret keeper and the public relations representative for both of you. You've protected her and it's cost you your peace. Being silent and diplomatic has left you heartbroken and broken in so many other ways, evidently. No more. Your children are beautiful and I want them to grow up loving both their parents dearly, but fair is fair. Speak your peace! I know you love her so I won't say what she sounds like on those phone calls. Whatever Nikki is going through, I pray God change her heart and have mercy on her because she's wrong wrong wrong.
I completely agree with your statement here. I stated something similar years back when they announced they were separating. Something didn’t sit right with me and I just couldn’t side with Nikki. I felt like something was just off. I’m happy Jamie has spoken up.
Suck up.
At first I too thought he was a jerk, she started to seem like she was pushy, bossy and rude at times especially after the second baby but I ignored it. Not saying he’s innocent because she has her side of this drama too and we’re ALL on the outside looking in.
I always respected how you’ve never spoke on her but i am soo happy you’re finally speaking your truth Jamie. Please keep fighting for your daughters
Right because a person can only take so much
If he did the sisterhood would have hung him.
This is one of the most honest videos I’ve seen on here. I hope you stay strong and I hope that things work out towards where things get better. Stay strong and keep going. I know you will for your girls because you seem like a good dad.
I literally never write comments on videos but I feel so compelled to let you know we believe you. 100%. I always knew in my heart of hearts that there was a side of her we never saw. Your silence spoke volumes and I’m glad you finally came forward to speak your truth. Sending you positive vibes and pray you get through this.
Papa Perkins is paying the most for this divorce. Too much.
Two mortgages at 75, no longer living with his wife at this stage in life, driving so much every week and probably being so tired all the time.
I think he’s doing all that for his wife who wants to be close to his children and grandchildren. And without complaining? What a man, man.
So true! It's truly heartbreaking
Papa Perkins a real one.
I felt like crying for both of his parents! Imagine being 80 and also going through this because you want to be there to help your son and see your grandkids. Nikki was so vile to move them that far away from their support system.
It seems really stressful for all involved. Family mediation would really help them, if only all parties were willing.
Again, why should a man get married, regardless of if your right or wrong your kids get torn from you. 9/10 you cough up the financial losses. Women can leave for something as little as “we grew apart” or “boredom”. They find a more ways to make this contract sound so foolish.
This broke my heart to pieces. The hurt in your eyes is so evident. I'm so sorry you're going through this Jamie. Know that it's a phase and shall surely pass. Stay strong. Take it a day at a time. I don't wanna take sides but I must say that I'm highly disappointed in Nikki on how petty she's being. Didn't expect this from her at all. I honestly thought that she's the one who walked away. I'm glad you voiced your side of the story (without going in too much details) I admire you sooo much for how HARD you're fighting to be in your girls life.
Let me tell you something when a person intended to record you, there's no way he will go violent when he just want to collect evidence against you he knew Nikki would definitely loose it when triggered so he had to play a victim so take it slow
Such types are so manipulative wait untill Nikki comes up with hers I'm not siding with anyone and not being carried away by this voice record
They are now divorced please 🙏 let each person coparent in peace
@alenarobinah4215 I wonder if you'd be of the same opinion if the tables were turned and Nikki came up with these receipts. If after all this, you still can't read in between the lines then girl bye ✌️
Thank you so much for sharing this. Transparency is a huge part of healing. I pray that you will find love again and total healing in this situation. ❤
Hearing nicki telling you that you don’t have family nor friends and that you’re depressed is just cruel and rubbing it in your face, kids should never be used as pawns
She even said he has no kids. Wow!!!
She’s evil wow
Or even when she told him and his mum they'd never see the kids again! Absolutely despicable behaviour. Not entirely surprised though.
I got goosebumps seeing Nikki’s behaviour…she’s super evil! And she hides herself so well!
I enjoyed your video with your kids. You are an awesome dad! I pray your audience grow so that you can support your family. Thanks for sharing!
This whole thing was so SAD. As a fan of your family blogs since back in 2015, it just goes to show that you never really know what’s happening in other people’s lives.
I’m glad that you are at least at a place where you can speak your truth and gain your power back. No one deserves to be prevented from seeing their children, especially in the way that you’ve detailed here. And no one deserves to be abused.
I hope that you can continue to have the resolve that you displayed over the years in order to be in your babies’ lives. They WILL know what you’ve done. They WILL understand the love you have for them and they WILL love you back.
CONTINUE TO BE VULNERABLE, especially if it is helping to heal you. At any rate, this content is SO necessary for others to see so that at least they know they aren’t alone.
Men suffer is silence,well done Jamie for speaking your truth.I have a brother and would never want him to go through this.
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I can relate to SO much that you talked about in this video. I truly commend you for the father that you want to be and strive to be for your girls. Honestly we need more men like that! It absolutely broke my heart the last piece with your mother 💔 when she said she was not okay. Your parents have always been a great support system for you and your family, even now. I pray Nikki changes. And I pray for peace for you and your family as well 🙏🏿. Thank you for sharing ❤.
Jamie you are half of these kids half of you made them. Anyone that attacks you and keeps you from progressing and being apart of your kids life don’t love those kids.
Love is not selfish, love is not angry, love is not revenge, love is not jealousy. Jamie there’s nothing wrong with receiving help from your subscribers. Let us help you. 😢❤
Amen
Yes please. Jamie let us help you please 🙏 it doesn't make you any less of a father or man.
@vanessasvanlifejourney Hey Vanessa Girl! Nutty Buddy Nation 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
That’s what I’m saying, why would you want to stop your baby daddy’s bag?? That’s taking food out of your kids mouth, it’ll hurt them surrounded by a bunch of adults that are now just only scraping by.
Yesss exactly!!
My mum kept telling me,the most important decision you'll ever make is in the choice of partner you have kids with! I Pray you meet someone who can love you and your kids the right way!
if you aren't equally yoked under God before marriage, run from that burning house!
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AMEN!!
Hes an abusive liar. He doesn't deserve anyone. Glad Nikki is out and safe.
Jamie I promise you
you will look back at this video one day
And you’ll be in such a better place!
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this that you’re going through this
Jamie I know God will bring you through. Just trust and believe. Jamie I know you are a great father. I'm praying for you and your family.
I beleive him..100% he is such a gentle man. She seem so cold.. everything makes sense now..yes speak out for your own peace of mind..I really feel for you . Your parents are incredible too..Be strong ..truthfullness helps with the healing..God bless you and your girls❤❤❤❤
It's so odd how some people can be so bitter that they make their kids suffer because they want to get back at a man so bad not realising that if one parent is suffering then the kids will too. The Disney thing shocked me...
Literallyyy like WTF 🤮 my parents our divorced and even though my mother struggled in that relationship she never wants us to think badly about our father, encouraging us to have the best relationship possible. I guess I never thought about how that is such a blessing. Most people are bitter and don’t want the other to succeed !!
What was the outcome for Disney? They did end up going with her.... I was so shocked at how bitter she was. She made it about her when she should have been thinking about the kids.
It’s not odd that’s ppl behavior -
My father abused my mother growing up and to this day she still encourages me having a relationship with him which I absolutely refuse because he is still 100% narcissistic
Sometimes, they get so blinded by hate that they don't realise they are hurting others around them.
I hope everything works out for you Jamie.
I 100% believe him! If y’all are old supporters and paid very close attention to each video this all makes complete sense 😮. I would like to here Nikki’s side now
I definitely believe him too.
I remember thinking he didn't have a say in anything in that house
@jajatime9724 thissssss it always bugged me that he never had an input, it was always what she wanted.
I remember in one of the videos when they bought that new house jamie wanted to put a bird house outside and she said "You're not getting a damn bird house."
And yet he stayed so tell him what people tell women when they are in the situation. You chose to stay, do better next time but it’s your fault that this happened…
I went through the same experience as you, but it was my husband who abused me, prevented me from going out, and deprived me of money and sometimes food. I encourage you to tell the truth, take care of yourself and be close to God.
"you've never been shit since day 1"
Hearing those words being said to Jamie really cut me into pieces. You are amazing Jamie! So so amazing! Personally I've followed you even after the separation because you are incredible as a person!!!!
That I couldn't belive how vile she was being. My sis went through a divorce and while she was hurt I always admired how she never let her feelings prevent the dad from being involved. Personally I stopped following her and kept following Jamie, there was always an underlying tone jn how she treated Jamie, ppl.need to go back and watch
YUPPP , she’s trash for that
You're genuinely a good guy Jamie. We are behind you 100% and praying for you earnestly!
She never loved Jamie because love isn’t this at all it’s let’s go and wishes them well although it hurts
If he was never shit, why did she marry him in the first place hypocrite.
Nikki DO NOT poison your children against their Father. It’s evil and they will HATE you for it. It will ruin them.
You're right!! My mother did this to me when I was a teen. Now I'm 30 years old and we're not in contact anymore. I'm so sad about the fact that I was just a 'thing' for her.
Exactly, my mother did this. And she lost custody of my sister and I! Nikki, will lose at the end😮
Your present position is not your final destination. Trust that God will work it out easy to say I know but cast your cares upon him for he cares for you. God bless you.
I’m really surprise she hasn’t tried to do that already but I think the girls are old enough and he’s been in their lives long enough for them to know and feel how much he really does Love them.
I hope and pray she doesn’t attack him after seeing this videos or send her fans to harass him again. He spoke his truth
So true. My mother did this. It sucked.
I believe everything Jamie said. He could have put this out when it first happened but he didn’t. Nikki is sick and need help. I stand with Jamie and the girls
Absolutely Nikki needs help and prayers
Absolutely. 👌
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I’m so sorry you’ve been suffering this trauma in silence. Ava & Zoe will respect you one day when they’re older & understand. Reach out to professionals & surroundings yourself with your support team.
Take good care of yourself ♥️
When grandma Perkins cried, my heart broke into pieces.
Grandpa and grandma Perkins should be very proud of the man they raised Jamie, you are strong, level headed man, who genuinely love his children.
Prayers for you Jamie and Nikki find piece, so that those two most beautiful girls, get the best from their parents.
Me too it's like this woman came to break and to destroy
Jamie I am so sorry for what you and your parents are going through. It breaks my heart to know that the children are in the center of the chaotic situation between you and Nikki. I remember when you proposed to Nikki and you guys Wedding was amazing. This really hurts 😢. I can only hope that for the sake of the girls that you and Nikki find common grounds for co-parenting and totally peace to move on in life in a positive way. I am praying for both of you guys and your loving parents. They have always been there for you, Jamie, Nikki and the girls. I am praying all of you guys in Jesus mighty name 🙏. Much love ❤
I stood & still stand with Jamie. I knew the narrative being put out wasn't true.
I completely agree with you. That was my feeling too.
Agree. I've watched them a long time and it was always difficult to believe he was the issue based on the narratives being pushed out online. You always saw the differences in attitudes.
FACTS !
I really can't believe you're as innocent as you portray. You putting all your business out there to draw sympathy for yourself. So what you are saying is that Nikki did everything and you did nothing, I will never believe that at all and I feel you are less of a man putting your business out like that, your children will hear this and you will hate you for putting their mother on blast like that. Mark my word!!!
@@magnoliab.madison6617girl shut up and leave. If this was Nikki you'd completely believe it but because it's a man, you wanna turn a blind eye.
Stay strong, Jamie. I'm sorry you felt you were backed into a corner and had no choice but to speak. At the same time, keeping all that in must have been so toxic for you. I'm glad the truth is out. Nikki, if you're reading this, I know your first reaction is going to be feelings of betrayal, anger and embarrassment. I know there are 3 sides to every story and that I also can't tell others what to do. However, I strongly suggest you not try to get even, and get help. Put your children first always - believe me, they want to see mum and dad love (even if platonically) and respect each other. Always remember that.
I truly appreciate your comment.
Jamie… thanks for sharing this. My heart goes out to you 🥺 I don’t see complaining, I see a man that’s had enough and truly cares about his family. God’s hands are open so wide to recieve you and He is near to those who are broken hearted and are crushed in their spirit (Psalm 34:18). I pray you turn to Him and that you and your family get healed beyond your wildest imagination
I want to admit everything u we’re saying Jamie I believed. My kids are adults now but when me & their father broke up I tried to make his life miserable bc I was angry he broke up with me. I took him for child support, wrote post, tried to turn everyone against him bc my ego was broken. It took my mom may her soul rest to tell me that if I’m doing things out of spite nothing good will come out…there is a thing called karma. My kids were the ones hurting, I changed this man life. my kids father was basically homeless & couldn’t renew his driving license & jailed bc he was behind child support! I dropped the child support & we worked something out on paper. I pray things will change for u. 😮
That's crazy!
So good of you to admit this. I have seen this over and over with women. Glad that your mom showed you that the kids were being hurt. It's good that you stepped aside for the benefit of your children. ❤
She’s not you though Madam🤔
I commend you for wanting to steer others away from a self destructive path by admitting this and the harm it does.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I went through something similar I dropped $35000 in child support so that he can get his life in order and he did. He has his own construction business and he’s doing good. Had I not given him that chance who knows where he would be. God bless you 🙏🏼😍
Keep being a GREAT father! Praying for you, your parents, and the girls 💔
God bless you
I cant believe she brought his parents into this. His parents especially his dad. He was such a sweetheart toward her(Nikki). I hope that things works out for you Jaime. And things gets better between you both for the girl's sake.
I hope things get better for nikki...
I hope your kids know how wonderful of a father you are and the efforts you made to be in their lives because the average man would have said it’s too much and left
I lost it when grandma started crying. Everyone is in incredible pain. I hope time will heal things. Take it one day at a time and I pray for you all. ❤
To the people saying take the video down or he shouldn’t post stfu. Y’all should have chosen not to watch. It’s his life, his truth, he deserves to tell it.
Jamie, you have my support. Push on. You can do RUclips classes or courses for smaller content creators. A lot of people don’t like editing you’re amazing at it charge for editing. Get your hustle on and continue to be amazing.
Good idea! He actually has the knowledge a lot of people are dying for.
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Everyone saying this rn would be silent if the the roles were reversed!!
@@swankilicious1darkiethis is critical thinking. 👏👏👏👏
Yes! I think this is a great idea
I'm really not surprised Nikki always had meanness and dislike towards you on camera, sorry you and your family went through this - everyone knows you love your kids and you will persevere, wishing the best for you!
I've been following your journey for years, from the beautiful moments you shared with Nikki and your lovely daughters to the heart-wrenching struggles you've faced during this messy divorce process. It's truly disheartening to see a relationship that was once admired by so many end in such turmoil.
I want you to know that I respect your decision to finally speak out and share your side of the story. It's evident that there are truths and perspectives on both sides, and as someone who believes in fairness and empathy, I won't be taking sides or assigning blame.
Relationships are complex, and sometimes two people simply aren't compatible, no matter how much love there once was. It's a painful reality, but it's also a necessary one if both parties are to find peace and happiness in the long run.
I want to commend you for your bravery in finally speaking out and sharing your truth. It takes immense courage to open up about the painful truths and the emotional toll this has taken on you. It's clear that you've been through a lot, both financially and emotionally, and my heart goes out to you.
It's unfortunate that divorce can often bring out the worst in people, leading to hurtful accusations and using children as pawns. It's a situation no one should have to endure, especially when children are involved.
I want to encourage you to stay strong and focus on moving forward, even though I know it's easier said than done. Healing from such a traumatic experience will take time, but it's important to remember that you are not alone. There are people who care about you and are here to support you every step of the way.
I admire your courage in being open and honest about your experiences, and I hope that by doing so, you can find some closure and begin the healing process. It's not easy to move on from such a significant chapter of your life, but I believe that with time and self-reflection, you'll emerge stronger and wiser.
It's important to remember that your daughters are watching and absorbing everything that happens, both online and offline. As they grow older, they may struggle to reconcile the public narratives with their own memories and experiences. That's why it's crucial for both you and Nikki to be mindful of the content you put out and the impact it may have on your daughters' well-being.
I urge you both to prioritize open communication and cooperation when it comes to co-parenting. Your daughters deserve to have a healthy relationship with both of their parents, free from resentment and animosity.
Please know that as a subscriber to your channel, I am here to offer my support and encouragement, no matter what decisions you make. You deserve happiness and peace, and I believe that with time and healing, you will find it again. Keep your heart open to love and know that brighter days are ahead.
Take care of yourself, Jamie, and know that you have a community of people rooting for you.
God bless you fot your encouragement. May God help them restore the lost glory,Amen.
You can tell this man LOVES his kids.
Facts. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ father.
His Instagram is all about his kids, he loves being a father 😢
He should have gotten full custody
He really does 💯
We KNOW he loves his kids
I am almost 30 years old, been married for around 9 years and have 3 sons. Everything that I am, everything that I strive to do in my marriage, motherhood and in my life personally, is largely from the impact my dad had on my life. I watched my dad go through hell and struggle in so many ways. He never said anything verbally to me because he never wanted o burden me with adult problems (or give me a negative view point about my parent) but even as a child, you can tell/observe those things. Looking back now as a adult, i have so much gratitude to what he endured. Just know that the mental, emotional hardships that you are feeling are never in vain. The love you pour into your daughters will echo for generations. A fathers love is a seed that is so potent in a young girls life. Certainly not something to be underestimated. Thank you for putting daughters first, and keeping your heart strong.
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💔💔💔💔💔 my father's exact experience and now he is gone because the pain and the secrets killed him 🥺🥺🥺🥺
I stand with Jamie... Kudos for speaking your heart out and sharing your pain. Lots of prayers and love
Me too. I knew from the beginning Jamie was telling the truth. Sadly it seems Nikki’s ego got the best of her 😔
I stand with Jamie also,this is awful she ought to be shame of herself, but karma will come around
Separation with a family involved is hard. I'm very sorry it had to come to this. The family was a very interesting one with lots to see and learn from. It broke our hearts when it came to an end. Mental health is real and the children can feel when things are not going right. Your parents was an integral part of the family and show the family as a whole. The is now broken and it's harder to put it back together as they get older. They missed what they had with the whole family but they will understand that the love they have from both of parents are still good i pray that you will feel better soon.
You gotta pray man Jesus Christ is the only way to help you with everything
Amen.
AMEN
Start your next chapter and WE WILL SUPPORT YOU! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
Wow the last voice clip of her is pure evil! She sounds happy knowing the state you’re in mentally and isolated! And your poor mum that broke my heart! I’m glad you had a few friends and your parents to support you!!Keep your head up Jaime, you always hit bottom before you see the light again and I’m sure you’ll do great! You’re a GREAT dad and at the end your kids will know that!❤
I have been a victim of domestic violence-- it's hard to seeing you suffer and hearing your poor mom's brokenheart, I just pray for God's Strength and Grace over you, your parents and your babies. Love you Jamie!!
When you said "I don't have any friends" that made my heart sink 😔 I am so sorry you went through this.
It’s evident how our partners can change our lives. We literally have to choose carefully. This is so sad!
The dentist appointment is insane 😮. Thank you for telling your side of the story Jamie. We’re here for you
Thanks SO much for your transparency! I THOROUGHLY commend you!!!
Jamie,
it is so amazing you coming out of your isolation and talking about what you have been going through. That takes a lot of courage! I hope you will find resilience on your way towards healing. It will take time, but you can be a model for men in a similar situation who don't find the courage to out themselves because they think it is not "a man's thing' to do. You stood up for yourself, unmasking lies. Kudos to you!
You are a warrior dad, fighting the just fight! And God will be with you every step of the way! 🙏🙏🙏
You are not alone in this.
THAT LAST CLIP! Tells you everything. The fact that 1, her voice sounds COMPLETELY different than what we normally hear, that soft spoken, airy voice, gone. And 2, the fact that her sister just stood there while Jaime recorded and mentioned her cheating and abuse and said NOTHING. I don’t have sisters but I know if a man was lying about me on camera, they would’ve interjected. She, said, nothing. Because she knew it was true. That’s all I needed to see.
Heartbreaking
You are right on Target @RainIn M3. I realized the same thing. That is the part that made me look miter along with those petty Tex.
Let’s keep Jamie in prayer. She has no respect for herself and his
Mother crying. Really? She’s nasty. Stop all you people who say that Africans respect their elders. Just stop. She has no self control.
@rosiesakyi2877 I am Africans and we do respect our elder , but she wasn't born in Africa or live there. Her parents were.
@@blessed1940was born in Africa went to Australia at the age of 5. She should know better
Jamie you are not alone in this type of bull shit, my brother just walked out one day and stayed out
he just recently told us the truth about what he was going through.
Stay strong and do you. God is your strength.
Must have taken a lot to do this video...Thank you for sharing. Take heart and continue staying strong for the girls.
I am so so sorry for the amount of pain and hardship this has all caused you and your parents. It definitely sounds like you have been involved with narcissistic abuse which is tremendously hard to overcome. I wish you all the best and may you one day find real love and happiness.
Bout to RUN UP these views! Jamie I absolutely commend you on speaking your truth. This man has been through it y'all. For so many years to remain silent, whilst your character was almost annihilated...and to come with receipts. He never claimed to be perfect but now we know the truth. Keep being an amazing dad to your girls, the universe will now take care of the rest.
we support you Jamie, in every aspect of the word. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this behind closed doors but it is so evident how dearly you love your girls. stay strong 🤍
You don’t have to explain Jamie, it’s always good to take some time off, relax and refresh. Divorce is one of the hardest things to go through and you’ve got this. No matter what your babies Will always love you.
Honestly, if you read the content of the message between Jamie and Nikki whilst he begs her to work, it just seems like two different people with different views on what makes life great. I can totally see why she didn't want to work. The rent was fully paid. She was in school to secure their future and already working doing RUclips as a part-time job. It doesn't appear that Jamie really needed to work 14 hour days. Perhaps he needed a regular 8 hour job instead. At the end of the day, she was not wrong to feel he was money hungry and over doing it with work. And he was not wrong for wanting more money to build a future for them. Everyone who wants to marry should realize something important: No matter your attraction for each other, at the end of the day you must have the same values and goals--or else it won't work! I refuse to think of her as a bad person. As a married woman, I can easily identify with her struggle and perspective. This is why it's also important for married couples to hang out with other married couples...you. begin to notice patterns and realize, "hey, my husband does this too, my wife does this too"--just like yours....and it creates more patience within us towards our spouse....
By far the best comment on under this video.
This is sooo true
Whew Jamie’s mom is the sweetest woman ever. Hearing her cry broke my heart 😢
That did it for me! I was already hurt hearing Jamie's story but once I saw that, I broke down.
Nikki swore at that poor woman. Who raised her?
@@kkaaccyy SAME
Well done for speaking up Jamie, a lot of men keep these things bottled up and then go through a mental breakdown. Continue being you
As a child of divorce, the worst thing a parent can do is put their problems above their kids, and take away their kids opportunity from having a full relationships with both parents. You had your parents and childhood, don't ruin the child's just because you guys don't get along. Wishing you all the best Jaimie. Praying for you and your family. Going to church and being a part of a church community with people to pray and support you, will definitly help
1:22:50 She takes everything away from him, then says she doesn't trust him because he has nothing to lose. Thats brutal 😢
Jaimie, this is actually your best content in years since the break up. Because it's honest, it's genuine and truthful. You've made enough family videos that'll help any single dad out there struggling with the same issues. So you've made your contributions in that area, and that was great, but now you're done. It's now time to change directions and move to new heights. Honesty and transparency will bring the healing, freedom and breakthrough that you need to take you to the next level. So I definitely encourage you to continue making this type of videos because this is how you"ll be able to regain your lost identity and be your old wonderful self again. With regards to your ex, don't be bitter, be wise and cautious around her, while we join our prayers to yours: that God will help, heal and restore her, and give her direction! Oh, by the way, I also had a lot of social anxiety due to isolation, but driving Uber this summer for a few months, helped me heal and be my old self again. I met the most wonderful people and discovered that I had nothing to be afraid of! Life is a journey, your story is still being written, so keep going! God bless! 🙏
I LOVE YOU JAMIE. WE LOVE YOU!!!!!! THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH AND THIS IS MY LITTLE WAY TO CHEER YOU ON AND LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE TO BE HEARD! I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT ABSOLUTE JOY,LONG LIFE,PEACE AND GOOD HEALTH GOING FORWARD.
CLEAN HEARTS ALWAYS WIN. KEEP GOING! YOU ROCK! 🎉 🇳🇬🇨🇦
Not the 5$ girl you can give 100
@@cicicici9932u lame
@@cicicici9932you know, she gave, and that’s all that matter 💕
@@cicicici9932 darling help me fill in the $95 difference. I’d be grateful hun
standing with you Jamie.. sending positive vibes and light....we your supporters had nooo idea you were suffering in silence...stand strong and your girls adore you...
I thought about you the other day to see what you've been up to, and I'm so sorry that you're going through this pain. My mother was one of those people who would do everything in her power to destroy the lives (financially, socially, legally, reputationally, professionally) of my father and my other siblings' father. I can tell you that it was one of the most painful experiences growing up, and the saddest part was that both of the fathers of me and my siblings eventually gave up in trying to be there for their kids. So Jamie, thank you for continuing to be in your children's lives. I am grateful that a father like you exists for your children, and I am so grateful you are a man fighting for what's right.