I love this video! Earlier this year I had surgery and was in the hospital. On the day I was going home, the nurse came in to do the release paperwork and commented on the fact that I had put on makeup and did my hair and dressed nicely to go home. She said no one does that. I told her that I have been married for 47 years and when my husband comes to get me, I still want to look the best that I can for myself and for him. I think of it in terms of respect. It doesn’t take a lot of time or effort but, for me, it makes a difference in how I feel. The respect we give ourselves and others is worth the effort. Hillary, you show respect for your family, your home and yourself through every video you post. It’s what makes your channel so lovely! Blessings!!
Amen! It shows respect for yourself and those around you, who doesn't love seeing a woman who feels great! Thank you so much for watching, blessings to you and yours!
Hillary your chat at the end filled my heart with happiness! It was like I was chatting right with you and agreeing by shaking my head and saying yes you are right! I love all the points that you mentioned about sharing with our children about the joy and beauty of making a home. That we need to dress in a way that is respectful to our family and respectful to the position we hold as mothers and keepers of the home. There is definitely a need in our society today to even recognize neatness in our appearance in public never mind in private in our home. Thanks for sharing! It was a pleasure “chatting” with you. Have a lovely day.
I love what you said at the end of this vlog. And thanks for the refreshing perspective and encouragement. You are no doubt a shining example of womanhood to all those around you. Blessings💛
I feel like I have watched you grow and mature and become a beautiful, capable, inspiring stay at home working mom. You have come full circle with your home, food choices and wardrobe. It's wonderful hearing you talk about it all. So happy I've been able to watch, enjoy and appreciate you move into your next season of life.
I live in Northeast Ohio and wear exclusively dresses/skirts 🙂 Wool tights and good boots help! Sometimes even wool socks over the wool tights. Hilary, I appreciate you are able to share your feelings on elegance and traditional values. 💙
Hillary, You look fabulous! The tabs on the side of your "air hostess" dress, can simply be tacked down with a couple stitches. That dress is so flattering to your figure. That Pendelton skirt and Ballet top look perfect on you. Thank you for inspiring this 64 year old !
11:15 This part! Thank you for expressing this openly. I am doing this to elevate the way I live. To be honest I played this part over and over as I declutter to help me be honest with myself. Thank you so kindly.
You are literally an inspiration. I have four kiddos, my youngest will be one in a few months and I literally do not know how you do what you do. Being a wife and mom and homemaker and professional and your weight loss efforts and not looking like a total slob mom like some of us. You live your life with such intention and I am just so inspired by you!! Thank you for sharing your world with us!! And you're so incredibly beautiful and just embody grace. I hope you know how much you kick butt at life!!!
Ah Stephanie that's too kind, but all mom's kick butt! We all have different priorities and schedules and accomplish so much in a day. Truly little changes add up, nothing is ever all at once overnight. Habits form over time and then they become second nature and you can add on another. We only get one life to live and these precious years with our kids as kids are so fleeting, I just want to make the most of them!
It is true that children learn so much by seeing who we are and how we care for ourselves and our home and family! I am inspired by you to do these things in my retirement as well. I do have to say that my girls used to love a snow day because we wore "glammy" pajamas and robes for the day. We gave each other manicures and tested new hairstyles! Of course there was time for fun in the snow as well!
Hilary you look absolutely lovely in those dresses, especially the J. Crew one. Stunning! Thank you for the tips on curating a wardrobe we love but most of all thank you for your message at the end about bringing our best to everything we do. Such valuable advice, especially for stay at home parents. This is one of life’s most important roles and it is absolutely worthy of our time and attention to present our best selves both for our own validation as well as the example we present to our children. Thank you for the encouragement. Have a lovey day 😊.
Your J Crew dress is wonderful! It's like a blank slate. With it you could wear a scarf or fun necklace or earrings, a cute sweater or jacket, or even a button-down shirt tied at the waist. It's a keeper for sure. The possibilities are endless! I love it! I think you'll find it's the smartest $4 purchase you ever made. I predict this will become a classic in your wardrobe and perhaps your daughter(s) will even want to wear it when they grow up. The skirt is a great length too, so you could wear your new sweater on top of it. To secure the side tabs, you could put in two tiny stitches connecting the end of the tabs to the waistband. That would take 5 minutes and wouldn't change the appearance or wear.
I am 74 and you still give me inspiration! I love your new pieces. My mom passed away with so many items in her closet she was saving for something special....so many she hardly wore.
Agree with the instant mood boosters. So important to show the example to our children. J Crew dress, the black ballerina top and the Old Navy bell sleeve dress all looked amazing on you and you could wear those anywhere.
I used to wear all dresses at one time and I find that a good pair of boots socks panty hose or thick winter tights keeps me so much more warm than jeans.
I totally agree with you and trying to look put together. I no longer work outside the home and have health issues, but everyday I shower, moisturize, and put on real clothes. It’s more for me than anyone else! Although, I’m sure my husband appreciates the effort. My goal with my fall wardrobe is to be as honest as I possibly can with myself and to let go of things I’ve been holding on to “just in case”. I am also trying really hard to get away from fast fashion and buy better quality clothing. You have really opened my eyes to paying attention to fabric material. Thank you
You look amazing and are a true role model for not just mommies with littles but also mommies everywhere! I’ve had body image issues my whole life and also work in a clothing store, so it’s imperative that I look my best for customers. Through your videos I’ve realized it’s utmost importance that my best customers are my family. Thank you ❤️
I just did a huge closet declutter after watching! Feels so good to have a refreshed closet and to remember the beautiful pieces I have. Thank you for sharing!
You look so lovely in your new dresses. Love the black to with your plaid skirt. Your philosophy about dressing when you are home is very helpful and inspirational. Thank you dear Hillary.
Hilliary what a beautiful video. You touched on things in life that are so important for ourselves and our children that often get overlooked or just not thought about. You are a beautiful mom.
Your new wardrobe additions are lovely! I like how you’ve basically stuck with certain colours which will make it easier for you to swap out tops and sweaters. Your idea of wearing sweaters over dresses sometimes is great- they’ll look more like skirts. I like your “different” (for you) navy dress. I’d call its style “tailored”. Would clear snaps work to keep those faux belt flaps in place? The beauty of wearing a dress is that it’s an outfit in itself which makes getting dressed so much easier than wearing separates. Maybe you could do a video on how you wear your dresses as the weather cools down. I wear skirts and dresses all the time and love new ideas.
At the end of each season, I review what pieces I wore the most [or didn't wear at all], and donate them. That frees me up for picking up a few new pieces next season! I would say my wardrobe has a partially revolving door; the way clothes come and go! I love the ballerina top you picked up for your plaid skirt...absolute perfection...and the crop top sweater is so darling!
I just had my 4th baby a few weeks ago. I relate to you so much! I also keep a small wardrobe. After my 3rd baby was born I started exclusively wearing dresses and skirts- it’s so much easier for changing body sizes that come with pregnancy, postpartum etc. I am much warmer in the winter now! I have a few pairs of cozy leggings and tights I wear under my skirts and dresses. I will put cropped sweaters on top, and I have thrifted some long sleeve dresses. If it’s really cold I also add wool socks and warm boots.
Thank you for this video. You have given me the friendly nudge I needed to declutter and refine my wardrobe. Your chat at the end was absolutely inspiring. You have verbalized what I have seen in your actions. You have always demonstrated your respect for yourself. Your family and your home. Your channel is so important to all of us who might be weary of this troubled world. Your channel reminds us of the good that still exists.
LOVE IT!!! I just released some items in my closet as well. I haven't let go of my corduroy pants yet, however I did order a corduroy skirt. My plan is to layer under skirts as well. Being keeper of the home is a beautiful thing and highest honor. KEEP ON MOTIVATING!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽😊
Hillary, you are wise beyond your years. A true old soul ❤️. I love your thoughtfulness about things, your heart, and your introspective approach to life. We could be friends :). Always looks so forward to your videos! I have a short work day today and decided to pencil in a trip to the two local thrift shops. You inspire me!
GREAT video....and that chat at the end.....It truly resonated with me. I am a little further along in my journey in motherhood and I sadly stayed in that space a little longer than I would have liked to. However, I feel so much better as well when I put effort into MYSELF. Your videos always bring me joy. I look forward to them and also thank you for sharing. Enjoy the new clothing you look lovely in them.
I loved your explanation at the end of the video. I never thought of house work in that way, to give it proper respect and be your best for it like any other job. Or to make sure that your kids see a mom who is put together a learn their habits from that as well. I am someone who LOVES to be in my PJ's all day and it's the best day for me whenever I can do it. But you made me reconsider that now. So, I am getting ready to rearrange my closet for fall and winter, another thing I learned from you 😁, and I will definitely make sure to keep only the things I love and feel good in after decluttering. Thank you! 😊 Oh, and the dresses are beautiful! 😍 I absolutely love them, and you really look amazing!
Inspired by Nikki did that about 2 years ago but she lives in Vegas it’s too cold here for dresses all winter. I have good dresses for winter in warmer fabrics. Your lovely never disheveled Hilary 🙋🏻♀️🥰🥰
Could you use some fabric glue to attach a small square of Velcro behind the flaps on the navy blue dress? Then you could probably loosen or tighten by one hole and use the same square without having to add stitch holes. Loved that dress and the black top with the plaid skirt. Both are very flattering on you!
Just wanting to give you some encouragement to wear dresses in the winter. I no longer wear pants at all and just wear leggings under long skirts and dresses. On very cold days I double up on leggings.
I also recommend Sheertex for their tights. They will not rip. They are perfect for moms with kids and for anybody, really. The one I bought last year has held up and I will wear it this year.
That J.Crew dress looks elegant on you. It shows off your figure in a modest way and it is very classy, very Ralph Lauren. It's an all season dress too! I think a more structured dress like that works for you as opposed to more flowy ones since it tends to drown you in so much fabric. You do look great, Hillary! I'm trying out no sugar and IF. Hopefully I can sustain it the way you do.
Hillary, the JCrew dress/mom uniform reminds me of June Cleaver who was the definition of class! You can just add pearls! 😉Also, I think I had a Pendleton plaid skirt in the 80s!!! You have beautiful taste!
Love the new clothes! Absolutely agree on the importance of dressing in a way that pleases ourselves and makes us feel confident. It is a game changer!💕
I am going to try and wear more dresses after watching this! This has motivated me so much that I am going to sort out my clothes tomorrow. When I do wear a dress, it’s for a special occasion, but what you have said is so true.
I think it’s awesome that you take your job as mom and wife so seriously! You look awesome in all those clothes! It’s obvious that you have lost weight and gotten back into shape! I also want to wear more dresses but I’m a plus size and sometimes I feel frumpy in dresses!
You look incredible in everything, but especially the J-crew dress (which I think would look great with a plaid jacket) and the Christmas skirt and black top (which might be too low-cut if you wear it backwards). You are always awesome!
I find I do like sleeveless tops and dresses in colder weather because 1. I run hot and some places are super warm and 2. sleeveless looks so much better with the blazer or sweater over top...not so bulky in the arms.
I have some cute dresses and am definitely going to try wearing them more. They are so easy to throw on. I do love my leggings and jeans though so those aren't going anywhere! Old Navy's regular prices have gone up alot! Goodwill is not cheap either. I find that I can get better deals on clearance than thrift stores!
I love how you closed this video Hillary, it makes my heart happy. I wish all stay at home moms could have your way of thinking, I believe all stay at home moms would be happier.. I see so much of my younger self in you, I am married 51 years this month, and still incorporate what you spoke about, it’s so important to do this, dress, shower, fuss a little with your hair maybe a little make up, it’s setting a fine example for ones children, and to be honest it does keep the spark in a marriage 😀😉 I live in a 55 over community, and I can’t believe how many woman and men don’t put the effort in to look well kept… I am not judging, but it just makes such a big difference to how you feel through the day
Amen! God bless you Christine 💞 I wholeheartedly admire the ladies in my life that are farther along in their motherhood journeys and share their wisdom
Hilary, your dresses are so pretty! You look just stunning in the blue one & the black top & plaid skirt! Oh my goodness you’re ready for Christmas! I agree wholeheartedly with you, I love to wear dresses & enjoy getting ready & putting my best me out the door. You always inspire me, you’re a wise lady 💝
Dresses in snowy winter is completely feasible, Hilary. I’ve really come to love the “fur” lined tights in the winter. The ones that look like stockings but warmly lined on the inside. I ordered mine from Amazon and they have worked out so nicely for the past couple of years now. I also wear black or navy blue or dark maroon leggings that are of nicer quality under dresses sometimes as well. I’ve also gotten a full snowsuit instead of a 2-pc set because I’ve found that the full suit makes wearing dresses underneath easier when zipping up. I understand that NJ doesn’t get as cold as we do up in Canada, but if you ever need to suit up in the winter, I highly recommend the full suit. I have also gone thrifting to find snow boots that have some heels so I don’t look mismatched from the top to bottom. This year I will try to find winter hats that aren’t toques to match my dresses. Hope I can figure out something that can be both practically warm and elegantly looking 😊 our winter months are far too long. If we don’t dress presentably or nicely, I feel like I will wind up being swallowed by the winter blues and who would want that, right? 😊
Lovely video! I appreciate your desire to be pulled together for your day. I’m very much of that mindset. I always dressed for the day when my children were growing up. It seemed like I accomplished more, and felt better about myself if I had to pop out for a quick errand knowing I was presentable for whom ever I might run into. I had been wanting to see how you styled the Pendleton skirt, and you nailed it!!
Great video! I agree that it is important to know your personal style and avoid impulse buying just because an item is trendy. ThredUp is a great site that I also use. Your comments about homemaking are spot on! It is a very important job and as the mom you do set the tone for your whole family. My own children are grown and gone, but I treasure the years I was a stay at home mom. And I still like to feel put together and create a beautiful home for just my husband and me. :)
If you'd like to go back in my "archives" of videos I've continued to share my life throughout the addition of three of our kids and I've shared different tips along the way. New moms should absolutely continue to care for themselves, not overly so, but enough to feel pulled together and ready for whatever life may bring. Also eating well, staying hydrated, continuing to make time to do things you love with kids and without, all good advice I'd give a new mom.
Love this! All you advice is great. For the JCrew dress, I would investigates. I had a dress a long time and found later that the pockets were sewn shut for shipping and being sold at the store. That dress may have pockets and just need the stitches removed.
Thank you so much for sharing, I’ve been looking forward to your fall capsule wardrobe! My second born is just turning one, and I’m headed back to work for the first time in a year. I’ve always been more of a dress person as well, would love to see how you try to carry them through the winter. Love from NH!
Happy Birthday to your babe, God bless this new season of heading back to work! I will have to update as the seasons progress on how the dress-wearing goes in the cold weather
Your new to you clothes are very pretty and look fab on you. You always give the best helpful tips and pep talks. Enjoy your Labor day weekend. Thank you.
Sometimes when there are “faux” pockets, all you need to do is rip the seam. Higher quality clothing tend to sew the pockets closed to keep the pocket area from wrinkling. Just take a peek inside.
You do look striking in darker colors and straight simple silhouettes. Your colors are definitely bold dark colors: black, navy, red, burgundy, emerald, very dark brown 😉. I see you having fun in the future playing with classic jewelry, just because it’s changing outfit so much. Like single pendant or wrist watch 😘
Ah thank you, I have found I struggle with finding “my colors” because I like so many different tones, so I appreciate that! And yes, I’d love to add in more accessories, it’s just hard when I have a baby who likes to pull them 😅
Thank you for this wise advice. I have been trying to be more reasonable about the clothes that I am "storing" in my closet. Like you, I want to keep clothes that are comfortable and beautiful and donate clothes that are really nice but that I am not wearing for some reason. Whether I am at work or at home, I want to wear great clothes. There is little need to keep old clothes (save maybe one outfit for really dirty work) or clothes that are not appreciated regularly through wear. Thanks again for another great video!!
I think you made some great clothing choices! Love, love, love the J. Crew dress! Purely my opinion, although pockets in dresses are of course convenient they do add an amount of bulk to anyone's waistline/hip area which you have put a lot of work into slimming down. You look beautiful in this dress because it tastefully shows off your waistline, don't add pockets to it! Aside from fitted sweaters on top of dresses in the cooler months I reach for cardigans, fitted jackets or a chambray shirt or button down shirt rolled at the sleeves and knotted in front to define the waist, all are good choices! 👍💗
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Your style reminds me so much of Jennifer L Scott of "A Daily Connoisseur", have you read any of her books? I say get those pockets, you will enjoy the dress more. Great video - I'm headed to my closet with inspiration!
Love the J Crew dress, check again as I have some pants that I thought just looked like they had pockets but when I unpicked the stitch line there were actually pockets there…. Can’t believe how long it took me to realise. I have always found JCrew to be very well made.
These are my favorite kind of videos!! I love your clothing videos! Please share your fall mom outfits with dresses. It’s so hard to find videos of outfits in the fall with dresses. Thank you so much!!! I am a homeschool mom of 4 and I completely agree about being put together. It really makes your day very different. 🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂
You're looking very slim Hillary!! Great job on your intermittent fasting. I used to do keto and intermittent fasting simultaneously. Now I just eat low carb (most of the time) and IF at 12:8. Loving the new wardrobe!! Losing weight does give you more of a reason to shop new outfits!
I'll never understand when people insist that you must always look "put together". My kids will remember me getting dirty with them and playing together long before they remember what I wore. It's one thing to get ready for work or church or whatever but who cares what I'm wearing when I'm home scrubbing toilets and playing with my kids. 🤷 Whatever floats your boat I guess.
@@TurtleMyrtle12 maybe for you.... I know a lot of people struggle with insecurity. It's a shame you have to get done up every day to feel good about yourself.
I also love what you said at the end of the video. I’m a grandma now and I work from home but I still like to look nice and feel good in what I’m wearing for the day.
I have been going thur my closet and removing several items . I need to go thur my shoes and Boots. And I had several extra pillow cases, I had different size pillows , don’t have them any more. Easier to have only one size pillow. Now I am doing like you If I bring in two blouse’s I have to donate Two items. I really like it.
I love this video! Earlier this year I had surgery and was in the hospital. On the day I was going home, the nurse came in to do the release paperwork and commented on the fact that I had put on makeup and did my hair and dressed nicely to go home. She said no one does that. I told her that I have been married for 47 years and when my husband comes to get me, I still want to look the best that I can for myself and for him. I think of it in terms of respect. It doesn’t take a lot of time or effort but, for me, it makes a difference in how I feel. The respect we give ourselves and others is worth the effort. Hillary, you show respect for your family, your home and yourself through every video you post. It’s what makes your channel so lovely!
Blessings!!
Amen! It shows respect for yourself and those around you, who doesn't love seeing a woman who feels great! Thank you so much for watching, blessings to you and yours!
Hillary your chat at the end filled my heart with happiness! It was like I was chatting right with you and agreeing by shaking my head and saying yes you are right! I love all the points that you mentioned about sharing with our children about the joy and beauty of making a home. That we need to dress in a way that is respectful to our family and respectful to the position we hold as mothers and keepers of the home.
There is definitely a need in our society today to even recognize neatness in our appearance in public never mind in private in our home. Thanks for sharing! It was a pleasure “chatting” with you. Have a lovely day.
I love what you said at the end of this vlog. And thanks for the refreshing perspective and encouragement. You are no doubt a shining example of womanhood to all those around you. Blessings💛
Blessings to you! Thank you for being here
I feel like I have watched you grow and mature and become a beautiful, capable, inspiring stay at home working mom. You have come full circle with your home, food choices and wardrobe. It's wonderful hearing you talk about it all. So happy I've been able to watch, enjoy and appreciate you move into your next season of life.
Ah thank you Geri, it has been a journey indeed
I live in Northeast Ohio and wear exclusively dresses/skirts 🙂 Wool tights and good boots help! Sometimes even wool socks over the wool tights. Hilary, I appreciate you are able to share your feelings on elegance and traditional values. 💙
Hillary, You look fabulous! The tabs on the side of your "air hostess" dress, can simply be tacked down with a couple stitches. That dress is so flattering to your figure. That Pendelton skirt and Ballet top look perfect on you. Thank you for inspiring this 64 year old !
11:15 This part! Thank you for expressing this openly. I am doing this to elevate the way I live. To be honest I played this part over and over as I declutter to help me be honest with myself. Thank you so kindly.
You are an inspiration. So lovely, encouraging, practical and down to earth. I was a stay at home mother and it's just the best job!
The black sleeveless dress with silver buckles on the sides look FABULOUS on you! Not like a flight attendant!
That kilt is lovely. I spent over 100$ on mine 40 years ago when I traveled to Scotland. I’ve kept mine regardless of space, moves, or remodels.
You are literally an inspiration. I have four kiddos, my youngest will be one in a few months and I literally do not know how you do what you do. Being a wife and mom and homemaker and professional and your weight loss efforts and not looking like a total slob mom like some of us. You live your life with such intention and I am just so inspired by you!! Thank you for sharing your world with us!! And you're so incredibly beautiful and just embody grace. I hope you know how much you kick butt at life!!!
I couldn't agree more! So totally amazing!
Ah Stephanie that's too kind, but all mom's kick butt! We all have different priorities and schedules and accomplish so much in a day. Truly little changes add up, nothing is ever all at once overnight. Habits form over time and then they become second nature and you can add on another. We only get one life to live and these precious years with our kids as kids are so fleeting, I just want to make the most of them!
The ballet top is perfect with the Pendleton skirt.
Thank you! I agree, the extra "breathing room" on the neckline helps balance out the warm skirt
It is true that children learn so much by seeing who we are and how we care for ourselves and our home and family! I am inspired by you to do these things in my retirement as well. I do have to say that my girls used to love a snow day because we wore "glammy" pajamas and robes for the day. We gave each other manicures and tested new hairstyles! Of course there was time for fun in the snow as well!
Oh I love that SO much!
Hilary you look absolutely lovely in those dresses, especially the J. Crew one. Stunning! Thank you for the tips on curating a wardrobe we love but most of all thank you for your message at the end about bringing our best to everything we do. Such valuable advice, especially for stay at home parents. This is one of life’s most important roles and it is absolutely worthy of our time and attention to present our best selves both for our own validation as well as the example we present to our children. Thank you for the encouragement. Have a lovey day 😊.
Thank you so much, yes it is a high calling and worthy of our best!
Your J Crew dress is wonderful! It's like a blank slate. With it you could wear a scarf or fun necklace or earrings, a cute sweater or jacket, or even a button-down shirt tied at the waist. It's a keeper for sure. The possibilities are endless! I love it! I think you'll find it's the smartest $4 purchase you ever made. I predict this will become a classic in your wardrobe and perhaps your daughter(s) will even want to wear it when they grow up. The skirt is a great length too, so you could wear your new sweater on top of it. To secure the side tabs, you could put in two tiny stitches connecting the end of the tabs to the waistband. That would take 5 minutes and wouldn't change the appearance or wear.
Love your choices Hilary. Everything looks very pretty on you. You are such a good mom, wife and homemaker 😊.
I am 74 and you still give me inspiration! I love your new pieces. My mom passed away with so many items in her closet she was saving for something special....so many she hardly wore.
Agree with the instant mood boosters. So important to show the example to our children.
J Crew dress, the black ballerina top and the Old Navy bell sleeve dress all looked amazing on you and you could wear those anywhere.
I used to wear all dresses at one time and I find that a good pair of boots socks panty hose or thick winter tights keeps me so much more warm than jeans.
As a current sahm, I really connected with this video and its principles. Thank you for sharing. ❤
I totally agree with you and trying to look put together. I no longer work outside the home and have health issues, but everyday I shower, moisturize, and put on real clothes. It’s more for me than anyone else! Although, I’m sure my husband appreciates the effort. My goal with my fall wardrobe is to be as honest as I possibly can with myself and to let go of things I’ve been holding on to “just in case”. I am also trying really hard to get away from fast fashion and buy better quality clothing. You have really opened my eyes to paying attention to fabric material. Thank you
That is so wonderful to hear Amy, it's amazing how our clothing truly affects how we feel when we start our day and throughout!
You look amazing and are a true role model for not just mommies with littles but also mommies everywhere! I’ve had body image issues my whole life and also work in a clothing store, so it’s imperative that I look my best for customers. Through your videos I’ve realized it’s utmost importance that my best customers are my family. Thank you ❤️
Amen!
I just did a huge closet declutter after watching! Feels so good to have a refreshed closet and to remember the beautiful pieces I have. Thank you for sharing!
I love that feeling as well! Thank you for watching
You are a joy my Mother always wore dresses and aprons. Such sweet memories.
You look so lovely in your new dresses. Love the black to with your plaid skirt. Your philosophy about dressing when you are home is very helpful and inspirational. Thank you dear Hillary.
Hilliary what a beautiful video. You touched on things in life that are so important for ourselves and our children that often get overlooked or just not thought about. You are a beautiful mom.
Ah thank you Gail, moms are amazing aren't they
Your new wardrobe additions are lovely! I like how you’ve basically stuck with certain colours which will make it easier for you to swap out tops and sweaters. Your idea of wearing sweaters over dresses sometimes is great- they’ll look more like skirts. I like your “different” (for you) navy dress. I’d call its style “tailored”. Would clear snaps work to keep those faux belt flaps in place? The beauty of wearing a dress is that it’s an outfit in itself which makes getting dressed so much easier than wearing separates. Maybe you could do a video on how you wear your dresses as the weather cools down. I wear skirts and dresses all the time and love new ideas.
Yes I will definitely have to update as the seasons progress!
J. Crew... kinda like the little black dress. Timeless.
I’m a bit older than you, but you doing house work in a pretty dress brought June Cleaver to mind. Love it!
At the end of each season, I review what pieces I wore the most [or didn't wear at all], and donate them. That frees me up for picking up a few new pieces next season! I would say my wardrobe has a partially revolving door; the way clothes come and go! I love the ballerina top you picked up for your plaid skirt...absolute perfection...and the crop top sweater is so darling!
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I just had my 4th baby a few weeks ago. I relate to you so much! I also keep a small wardrobe. After my 3rd baby was born I started exclusively wearing dresses and skirts- it’s so much easier for changing body sizes that come with pregnancy, postpartum etc. I am much warmer in the winter now! I have a few pairs of cozy leggings and tights I wear under my skirts and dresses. I will put cropped sweaters on top, and I have thrifted some long sleeve dresses. If it’s really cold I also add wool socks and warm boots.
Thank you for this video. You have given me the friendly nudge I needed to declutter and refine my wardrobe. Your chat at the end was absolutely inspiring. You have verbalized what I have seen in your actions. You have always demonstrated your respect for yourself. Your family and your home. Your channel is so important to all of us who might be weary of this troubled world. Your channel reminds us of the good that still exists.
Thank you Joanne, yes there is absolutely so much good in this world, God is good all the time!
Fleece lined tights are also awesome!
you look great with the black top and Pendleton skirt.. great selection! thanks for sharing Hilary
Thank you!
The Pendleton skirt black top combo would be a great xmas outfit as well!
LOVE IT!!! I just released some items in my closet as well. I haven't let go of my corduroy pants yet, however I did order a corduroy skirt. My plan is to layer under skirts as well. Being keeper of the home is a beautiful thing and highest honor. KEEP ON MOTIVATING!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽😊
Amen! God bless you
Hillary, you are wise beyond your years. A true old soul ❤️. I love your thoughtfulness about things, your heart, and your introspective approach to life. We could be friends :). Always looks so forward to your videos! I have a short work day today and decided to pencil in a trip to the two local thrift shops. You inspire me!
Hope your trip was a success Mandy!
You are always so gracious!!
Not always... only by God's grace!
@@OldWorldHome 👍😊
GREAT video....and that chat at the end.....It truly resonated with me. I am a little further along in my journey in motherhood and I sadly stayed in that space a little longer than I would have liked to. However, I feel so much better as well when I put effort into MYSELF. Your videos always bring me joy. I look forward to them and also thank you for sharing. Enjoy the new clothing you look lovely in them.
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I loved your explanation at the end of the video. I never thought of house work in that way, to give it proper respect and be your best for it like any other job. Or to make sure that your kids see a mom who is put together a learn their habits from that as well. I am someone who LOVES to be in my PJ's all day and it's the best day for me whenever I can do it. But you made me reconsider that now. So, I am getting ready to rearrange my closet for fall and winter, another thing I learned from you 😁, and I will definitely make sure to keep only the things I love and feel good in after decluttering. Thank you! 😊 Oh, and the dresses are beautiful! 😍 I absolutely love them, and you really look amazing!
Inspired by Nikki did that about 2 years ago but she lives in Vegas it’s too cold here for dresses all winter. I have good dresses for winter in warmer fabrics. Your lovely never disheveled Hilary 🙋🏻♀️🥰🥰
I love the dresses!!!
You look great the JCrew dress it's beautiful and it looks awesome on you!!!💕
The plaid skirt and black blouse are look very sophisticated on you.
Thank you!
Love the dresses you thrifted!
Could you use some fabric glue to attach a small square of Velcro behind the flaps on the navy blue dress? Then you could probably loosen or tighten by one hole and use the same square without having to add stitch holes.
Loved that dress and the black top with the plaid skirt. Both are very flattering on you!
Just wanting to give you some encouragement to wear dresses in the winter. I no longer wear pants at all and just wear leggings under long skirts and dresses. On very cold days I double up on leggings.
Great choices all, Hillary! You can try tucking the tabs under the buckles if you don't want to stitch them down.
I also recommend Sheertex for their tights. They will not rip. They are perfect for moms with kids and for anybody, really. The one I bought last year has held up and I will wear it this year.
That J.Crew dress looks elegant on you. It shows off your figure in a modest way and it is very classy, very Ralph Lauren. It's an all season dress too! I think a more structured dress like that works for you as opposed to more flowy ones since it tends to drown you in so much fabric. You do look great, Hillary! I'm trying out no sugar and IF. Hopefully I can sustain it the way you do.
Thank you for this, Hillary 💛
Thank you for watching!
Another lovely video. All the new clothing looked amazing on you. Your healthier eating is definitely showing.
Hillary, the JCrew dress/mom uniform reminds me of June Cleaver who was the definition of class! You can just add pearls! 😉Also, I think I had a Pendleton plaid skirt in the 80s!!! You have beautiful taste!
Love the new clothes! Absolutely agree on the importance of dressing in a way that pleases ourselves and makes us feel confident. It is a game changer!💕
I am going to try and wear more dresses after watching this! This has motivated me so much that I am going to sort out my clothes tomorrow. When I do wear a dress, it’s for a special occasion, but what you have said is so true.
That's wonderful, yes enjoy your beautiful things!
I think it’s awesome that you take your job as mom and wife so seriously! You look awesome in all those clothes! It’s obvious that you have lost weight and gotten back into shape! I also want to wear more dresses but I’m a plus size and sometimes I feel frumpy in dresses!
Thank you! There is just such an array of options, something for everyone.
Love the new desses. I've been going through my closet and picking out the outfits I truly want to wear.
I love what you picked! They look so nice on you!
You look incredible in everything, but especially the J-crew dress (which I think would look great with a plaid jacket) and the Christmas skirt and black top (which might be too low-cut if you wear it backwards). You are always awesome!
Also, the j crew structured dress would also look really cute with a long sleeve underneath if you wanted to do something different than a cardigan!
I love that idea! even a turtleneck...
I always look forward to your videos! When I see a new one I watch it first 🙂
You look stunning and have such a lovely approach to life 💕
I find I do like sleeveless tops and dresses in colder weather because 1. I run hot and some places are super warm and 2. sleeveless looks so much better with the blazer or sweater over top...not so bulky in the arms.
Yes so true! I often wear sleeveless to Holiday events because warm kitchens with ovens running and kids running makes for a hot house 😅
I have some cute dresses and am definitely going to try wearing them more. They are so easy to throw on. I do love my leggings and jeans though so those aren't going anywhere! Old Navy's regular prices have gone up alot! Goodwill is not cheap either. I find that I can get better deals on clearance than thrift stores!
I love how you closed this video Hillary, it makes my heart happy. I wish all stay at home moms could have your way of thinking, I believe all stay at home moms would be happier..
I see so much of my younger self in you, I am married 51 years this month, and still incorporate what you spoke about, it’s so important to do this, dress, shower, fuss a little with your hair maybe a little make up, it’s setting a fine example for ones children, and to be honest it does keep the spark in a marriage 😀😉
I live in a 55 over community, and I can’t believe how many woman and men don’t put the effort in to look well kept… I am not judging, but it just makes such a big difference to how you feel through the day
Amen! God bless you Christine 💞 I wholeheartedly admire the ladies in my life that are farther along in their motherhood journeys and share their wisdom
Great scores Hillary they look terrific on you!
Thank you!
Hilary, your dresses are so pretty! You look just stunning in the blue one & the black top & plaid skirt! Oh my goodness you’re ready for Christmas! I agree wholeheartedly with you, I love to wear dresses & enjoy getting ready & putting my best me out the door. You always inspire me, you’re a wise lady 💝
What a beautiful and inspiring message at the end of the video! In times as theses.. this message means the world ❤️ thank you
That J Crew dress and the scoped back tee shirt are just gorgeous on you!
Ah thank you
Dresses in snowy winter is completely feasible, Hilary. I’ve really come to love the “fur” lined tights in the winter. The ones that look like stockings but warmly lined on the inside. I ordered mine from Amazon and they have worked out so nicely for the past couple of years now. I also wear black or navy blue or dark maroon leggings that are of nicer quality under dresses sometimes as well. I’ve also gotten a full snowsuit instead of a 2-pc set because I’ve found that the full suit makes wearing dresses underneath easier when zipping up. I understand that NJ doesn’t get as cold as we do up in Canada, but if you ever need to suit up in the winter, I highly recommend the full suit. I have also gone thrifting to find snow boots that have some heels so I don’t look mismatched from the top to bottom. This year I will try to find winter hats that aren’t toques to match my dresses. Hope I can figure out something that can be both practically warm and elegantly looking 😊 our winter months are far too long. If we don’t dress presentably or nicely, I feel like I will wind up being swallowed by the winter blues and who would want that, right? 😊
You are so wise beyond your years. You are a wonderful example to your children ... God bless you and your family. 🙂
Thank you Carol, God bless you as well!
Lovely video! I appreciate your desire to be pulled together for your day. I’m very much of that mindset. I always dressed for the day when my children were growing up. It seemed like I accomplished more, and felt better about myself if I had to pop out for a quick errand knowing I was presentable for whom ever I might run into. I had been wanting to see how you styled the Pendleton skirt, and you nailed it!!
Great video! I agree that it is important to know your personal style and avoid impulse buying just because an item is trendy. ThredUp is a great site that I also use. Your comments about homemaking are spot on! It is a very important job and as the mom you do set the tone for your whole family. My own children are grown and gone, but I treasure the years I was a stay at home mom. And I still like to feel put together and create a beautiful home for just my husband and me. :)
Amen. I am acutely aware of how very precious these years are!
I would love to hear more tips for new moms, that was so nice to hear about how you value your appearance even as a sahm. 💛
If you'd like to go back in my "archives" of videos I've continued to share my life throughout the addition of three of our kids and I've shared different tips along the way. New moms should absolutely continue to care for themselves, not overly so, but enough to feel pulled together and ready for whatever life may bring. Also eating well, staying hydrated, continuing to make time to do things you love with kids and without, all good advice I'd give a new mom.
Love this! All you advice is great. For the JCrew dress, I would investigates. I had a dress a long time and found later that the pockets were sewn shut for shipping and being sold at the store. That dress may have pockets and just need the stitches removed.
Yes I'll have to investigate, thank you!
I so agree with you. You should look put together, for you and your family. Plus, you deserve to look your best daily. Ty for this and God bless
Amen, God bless you!
Thank you so much for sharing, I’ve been looking forward to your fall capsule wardrobe! My second born is just turning one, and I’m headed back to work for the first time in a year. I’ve always been more of a dress person as well, would love to see how you try to carry them through the winter. Love from NH!
Happy Birthday to your babe, God bless this new season of heading back to work! I will have to update as the seasons progress on how the dress-wearing goes in the cold weather
Your new to you clothes are very pretty and look fab on you. You always give the best helpful tips and pep talks. Enjoy your Labor day weekend. Thank you.
Thank you so much for being here, have a wonderful weekend yourself!
Sometimes when there are “faux” pockets, all you need to do is rip the seam. Higher quality clothing tend to sew the pockets closed to keep the pocket area from wrinkling. Just take a peek inside.
You do look striking in darker colors and straight simple silhouettes. Your colors are definitely bold dark colors: black, navy, red, burgundy, emerald, very dark brown 😉. I see you having fun in the future playing with classic jewelry, just because it’s changing outfit so much. Like single pendant or wrist watch 😘
Ah thank you, I have found I struggle with finding “my colors” because I like so many different tones, so I appreciate that! And yes, I’d love to add in more accessories, it’s just hard when I have a baby who likes to pull them 😅
Love your new dresses! Navy is especially pretty on you. 🥰
Thank you Laura!
Thank you for this wise advice. I have been trying to be more reasonable about the clothes that I am "storing" in my closet. Like you, I want to keep clothes that are comfortable and beautiful and donate clothes that are really nice but that I am not wearing for some reason. Whether I am at work or at home, I want to wear great clothes. There is little need to keep old clothes (save maybe one outfit for really dirty work) or clothes that are not appreciated regularly through wear. Thanks again for another great video!!
I think you made some great clothing choices! Love, love, love the J. Crew dress! Purely my opinion, although pockets in dresses are of course convenient they do add an amount of bulk to anyone's waistline/hip area which you have put a lot of work into slimming down. You look beautiful in this dress because it tastefully shows off your waistline, don't add pockets to it! Aside from fitted sweaters on top of dresses in the cooler months I reach for cardigans, fitted jackets or a chambray shirt or button down shirt rolled at the sleeves and knotted in front to define the waist, all are good choices! 👍💗
Oh! Thank you! It would be lovely to receive a prize from you! I didn't know you were doing a drawing, I simply commented because I appreciate you and your channel and can relate to you on several areas. ❤️ P.S. at your suggestion I'm reading David Goggins' book Can't Hurt Me. I'm not sure how you wanted me to contact you to claim the prize? Direct message you where...? I'm not overly tech savvy, I try to keep it pretty simple. If it's too much of an issue don't worry about it, I appreciate you and your channel anyway! Have a great weekend and keep up the good work! 👍
Megan, so sorry about the spam comment regarding the "prize", please disregard that, it was not me. So glad to hear you're enjoying David's book, he's an incredible man for sure!
Hilary, thanks for the reply. SPAM is sneaky! Yikes! Enjoy your channel! Have a great holiday weekend with your family!
Great video.
Your style reminds me so much of Jennifer L Scott of "A Daily Connoisseur", have you read any of her books? I say get those pockets, you will enjoy the dress more. Great video - I'm headed to my closet with inspiration!
Thank you, I love Jennifer and have been watching her channel almost as long as I've been on RUclips myself!
Love the J Crew dress, check again as I have some pants that I thought just looked like they had pockets but when I unpicked the stitch line there were actually pockets there…. Can’t believe how long it took me to realise. I have always found JCrew to be very well made.
Hillary, did you have a drawing ? It said telegram you? Thank you.
These are my favorite kind of videos!! I love your clothing videos! Please share your fall mom outfits with dresses. It’s so hard to find videos of outfits in the fall with dresses. Thank you so much!!! I am a homeschool mom of 4 and I completely agree about being put together. It really makes your day very different. 🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂🍁🍂
Thank you so much Monica, I'll have to keep you all updated as the cold weather comes
Love your style in living Home ,Cleaning, child raising, and decor. Your are great.
Thank you for the kind words Peggy and all the support through the years
That J Crew dress is beautiful on you!
You're looking very slim Hillary!! Great job on your intermittent fasting. I used to do keto and intermittent fasting simultaneously. Now I just eat low carb (most of the time) and IF at 12:8. Loving the new wardrobe!! Losing weight does give you more of a reason to shop new outfits!
I'll never understand when people insist that you must always look "put together". My kids will remember me getting dirty with them and playing together long before they remember what I wore. It's one thing to get ready for work or church or whatever but who cares what I'm wearing when I'm home scrubbing toilets and playing with my kids. 🤷 Whatever floats your boat I guess.
Appearance affects our confidence. Shlumping around in sweats and a messy bun affects how we feel about ourselves consciously or not.
@@TurtleMyrtle12 maybe for you.... I know a lot of people struggle with insecurity. It's a shame you have to get done up every day to feel good about yourself.
Lovely dresses 🥰
I also love what you said at the end of the video. I’m a grandma now and I work from home but I still like to look nice and feel good in what I’m wearing for the day.
Love your videos ❤️❤️
Sweet message!
I have been going thur my closet and removing several items . I need to go thur my shoes and Boots. And I had several extra pillow cases, I had different size pillows , don’t have them any more. Easier to have only one size pillow. Now I am doing like you If I bring in two blouse’s I have to donate Two items. I really like it.
@Telegram me👉@Old _World _Home👈 Thank you , I love to be one of the Winners. Never done this before.
Yes, one in one out is so helpful!
You always motivate me so much! I adore your videos❤️
I just noticed we have a similar chest of drawers like yours behind you!
Lovely!