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  • Опубликовано: 10 янв 2025

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  • @RootsandRefugeFarm
    @RootsandRefugeFarm  3 года назад +12

    IN THIS VIDEO I STATED THAT THE DEADLINE FOR BONUSES WAS FRIDAY AND I WAS MISTAKEN. It is SUNDAY August 15 at 11:59 ET. So don’t wait! Sign up for bonuses!

    • @maryellenwilson9214
      @maryellenwilson9214 3 года назад

      Where is the link to subscribe?
      Please

    • @jenniferrashid7565
      @jenniferrashid7565 3 года назад

      🙂🙂You just had a massive move its ok for your week to fall apart...Moving in general is mind boggling, Im glad Im at the age Im not moving again🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @megancoplin6900
      @megancoplin6900 3 года назад +1

      I signed up foray abundance + when your episode premiered, how do I get the extras?

    • @lisacampbell5283
      @lisacampbell5283 3 года назад

      I guess Im a true blond I couldnt figure out witch one to pick definitely couldnt do the thousand $ one guess I will try agin but yes jess we need to see you every day wish I could show you what i have done this year thanks to you ❤

  • @shannongoble5305
    @shannongoble5305 3 года назад +437

    Your videos are the highlight of my day. I live alone and lost the love of my life in 2019. It got to the point that I didn't leave my house and layed in bed all day. You inspired me to get up and start a garden, you and sweet Miah brought joy back to my life through gardening. I only have a few plants and hope to find scraps to build some beds. I just wanted to sincerely say thank you for saving me. You have no idea the joy you inspire and bring to our lives.

    • @karinjudge7277
      @karinjudge7277 3 года назад +45

      I just read your comment. I'm sorry for your loss. I too live alone. Disabled and very sick. The struggle is real. There is this song I listen to when I need lifted up. Maybe you might like it too. ( 10,000 reasons by Matt Redman ). God Bless. :)

    • @shannongoble5305
      @shannongoble5305 3 года назад +17

      @@karinjudge7277 thank you Karin I will listen to it. I hope your struggles ease as well. Thank you for the comment.

    • @lakeshorevideos8352
      @lakeshorevideos8352 3 года назад +12

      Jess, it is with great joy that I get to "come along" on the journey that you and your family are on. I am also in the midst of a great change in my life. Thanks to you and "Sweet Miah" for sharing your lives. God bless!!!! ...
      P.S....I hope the woodchip guy is going to work out for you!!!!

    • @mountaincreekhomestead
      @mountaincreekhomestead 3 года назад +6

      Exactly same. Blessings 💕🙏

    • @debbee3319
      @debbee3319 3 года назад +7

      Go through Jess's devotionals. My favorite is I AM SO MAD || A Garden Devotional.

  • @ChristyStoerm
    @ChristyStoerm 3 года назад +1

    "It is uncomfortable.
    It is okay to say that it is uncomfortable.
    To say that is all it would steal the joy of this season.
    This is a dream come true.
    This is an amazing season.
    We are loved, and supported, and it has been such a display of community even though it is uncomfortable."
    Thank you for this reminder. As school starts again, this was a helpful encouragement!

  • @kathleenmcginley4827
    @kathleenmcginley4827 3 года назад +100

    My motto is "it will be there tomorrow". How long have you been pushing? The push to get ready to move, the actual move and now unboxing your life out of cardboard boxes. It really can be overwhelming, but it can be as simple as what can I do today (realistically). It is not a race. Savor the possibilities of your new blank canvas. Just dream girl!

    • @NozeieGirl
      @NozeieGirl 3 года назад +2

      I love this!!! I mean absolutely and positively love this❣️ I definitely have missed y’all but more than anything go with this! So excited to have the privilege to tag along.

    • @tamararoberts9307
      @tamararoberts9307 3 года назад +2

      What Kathleen said, one day at a time is my motto, but I can agree with Kathleen. So glad you are a young couple with all the busyness and all. I'm older now and wish I had did more when I was younger with more energy.

    • @kathleenmcginley4827
      @kathleenmcginley4827 3 года назад +5

      @@tamararoberts9307 I'm 68 and wish I could stop the aging process as well. But watching a healthy couple in their prime "dreaming and making it happen" gives me such pleasure to watch.

    • @Tupelo_Honey_77
      @Tupelo_Honey_77 3 года назад +4

      @@kathleenmcginley4827 ditto .69 here .pushed myself since age 9 .my earliest memories .so nothing more important than the journey .everything else can hold .now my home is empty. Just me and cats .

    • @margaretbedwell58
      @margaretbedwell58 3 года назад +1

      Well said Kathleen. The only urgency in a move is beds to sleep in and a kitchen with enough equipment to cook and eat. The rest, just savor the setting up decisions and taking time to relax a look around to see it in your min's eye. Thank you for taking time to share and have a Blessed day.

  • @jewelgaither1504
    @jewelgaither1504 3 года назад +41

    You have a true treasure in your "Sweet Miah". He seems so patient with the whole process. May God richly bless you both and your sweet family.

  • @bryannaodessaharder
    @bryannaodessaharder 3 года назад +34

    No better 4pm activity than a Roots and Refuge video right after getting a toddler to sleep. ❤️

  • @autumnsmith7170
    @autumnsmith7170 3 года назад +30

    "Anddddd...they're better than me. Alpacas are totally the Hipsters of the barnyard." That made me laugh out loud.

    • @lanak.fromnewmexico1143
      @lanak.fromnewmexico1143 3 года назад +2

      I loved that one too!! Cracked me up!! 🤭😂😂😅😅

    • @alphagalgardengirl
      @alphagalgardengirl 3 года назад +1

      Sounds like a sticker idea 💡 or that saying on a shirt with a pic of Jess and the 🦙 in the background 😅😆

  • @lindag4484
    @lindag4484 3 года назад +52

    I'm a 70-year-old lady in NH just so excited to watch your progress in this endeavor, be it giant leaps or baby steps. Such fun for me! You have re-ignited my passion for my own garden and have expanded it this year. Cheers to you all!

    • @dianehall5345
      @dianehall5345 3 года назад +2

      Linda G- I am a 71 year old farm wife in New Hampshire. Over all , we "New Hampshirites" are in a good place this summer. Vermont is 85% vaccinated and we are right behind them!
      Our working farm continues to shelter in place and sadly, we are shut down to the public at this time. Only selling hay to our customers. But you can get gardening! 🌱
      Like Jess and her famrily, the world is at you feet, if you choose to pick up what interests you. I bought art supplies and we bought a sweet tear drop camper to get out in the fresh air.
      I hope Jess inspires you to live a life that follows your passions. We are hard working farmers and ALL of us are over 70! Jess's journey is a tribute to the younger generation and what can be accomplished. ~ Diane

    • @lanak.fromnewmexico1143
      @lanak.fromnewmexico1143 3 года назад

      Same to you Linda G. I'm 64 and she got me too! Isn't it wonderful!? Love and hugs to you!! And many happy plants!! 🙏🙏🤗🤗💜💜🦋🦋

    • @lanak.fromnewmexico1143
      @lanak.fromnewmexico1143 3 года назад

      @@dianehall5345 Wonderful Diane Hall!! I'm sorry about your business, but so happy for your heart and soul!!

    • @dianehall5345
      @dianehall5345 3 года назад +1

      Lana K- Thanks so much!- We continue to work, but I miss showing folks baby calves. The boy are out haying today and its hot! Hoping for things to improve this Autumn.
      I visited Las Cruces, NM many years ago and it was beautiful! Stayed at a B&B called Maison de Mesa

    • @lanak.fromnewmexico1143
      @lanak.fromnewmexico1143 3 года назад

      @@dianehall5345 I live near Albuquerque . So a ways away from Las Cruces. I've never been. Unfortunately a lot of crime and stuff down there now. It's sad. So you're a true homesteader? That's awesome! I just live vicariously through you all. Hehe. I have a raised garden that my husband built up for me in our backyard. Along with a memory garden that he built for me when my father passed away. Plus I'm growing in a few huge pots and grow bags. It's really hard to grow anything here because the soil is mostly sand and bark-like pieces. I've purchased big bags of garden and potting soil to mix in with my soil. It gets so hot here too of course. We are in the desert after all. I'm growing tomatoes, potatoes, cucumbers, peppers (a couple different kinds), carrots, zucchini, a lot of herbs and flowers. Take care and stay young at heart right? Hugs!! 🤗🤗🙏🙏💜💜🦋🦋.

  • @sheliasunday7744
    @sheliasunday7744 3 года назад +31

    Who’s living life through this family besides me? I’m 64 thinking how wonderful it’s going to be watching what’s in store! Love and blessings always 🙏🏽❤️

    • @OurOkieHomestead
      @OurOkieHomestead 3 года назад +4

      I am! 56 and disabled but she Inspired me to try. Last year containers now this year raised beds and success. Next year even more!

    • @jacquieanderson6251
      @jacquieanderson6251 3 года назад +6

      I’m 67 and have a garden. I’m in zone 3 so I’m slowly harvesting veggies and canning/ freezing what I can. I have a few Cornish cross meat birds along with two turkeys to harvest. First year with turkeys.

  • @heartsfiregarden6352
    @heartsfiregarden6352 3 года назад

    Those are the happiest animals I’ve ever seen! The piggies running with their ears flopping is SO precious!! 💜
    My mama heart goes out to you with all the kids in school. My daughter starts kindergarten in just another week, and I’m trying to prepare for it. 😭
    I’m with you…sometimes doing nothing is the best thing you can do! Enjoy that. You definitely deserve some time to just soak it all in and enjoy. 💜

  • @karennissen2934
    @karennissen2934 3 года назад +12

    I know something you don’t know !😁🎼💕 You had asked us if we wanted to come along to see the little details of what’s going on with you guys, even though it wasn’t your usual content of being in the gardens yet, and you were surprised at all the “yes please!!” answers. What you don’t realize is that when we all subscribed to your channel, it is because we all fell in love with you, Miah and the kids….not just the content . And because we love you, we’re interested in your life of details. You are one of a kind Jess, and even though you don’t know us…we love you. 💜

  • @TexasHomesteaders
    @TexasHomesteaders 3 года назад

    I've always told my kids who are now adults that it doesn't matter if you're a turtle or a rabbit, progress is progress. Taking time to rest is important and you should never feel you have to apologize for it.

  • @KM-pj3cn
    @KM-pj3cn 3 года назад +1

    Jess, get an invisible fence for the dogs. I think that's the name of it, what it is you bury a same cable in the ground where you want your dogs to only go and they wear something on their collar that gives them a little shock to tell them that they can only stay within the area you want them in. A lot cheaper and quicker then putting up a fence right now.

  • @artbylisaharrington
    @artbylisaharrington 3 года назад +34

    I homeschooled my children for 10 years and they both went to school starting in 7th and 10th. I was productive for a month and then I got really, really sad when the routine set in. It was a strange and unexpected time of emotion for me.

  • @stephaniewilson3955
    @stephaniewilson3955 3 года назад

    What a great idea to send your children to the local school. It is the best way for them to meet the local children under controlled circumstances. And you will get to meet the other parents. What a smart way of settling into the local community.

  • @loriy7532
    @loriy7532 3 года назад

    You have put down Roots and you have your Refuge...Can't get any better start than that.Great that the kids are in school. Every day while they are away , there will always be surprises to come home to. You will get lots of starter work accomplished with not so many little loves running around right now. Good days to you all.Amen...

  • @lyra2112
    @lyra2112 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience of a week of trying to be busy with things not working being a sign to get quiet and prayerful and reconnect with God. A wonderful reminder for us all! Many blessings for your family through this transition!
    ✨🙏✨

  • @annesels2028
    @annesels2028 3 года назад +58

    For the dogs you might consider training them to recall with a whistle, they are both so clever and will pick it up especially if given a special tasty reward. The whistle I recommend is the acme 211.5 dog whistle (get a lanyard to keep it on when hiking with them or to hang near the door)…teach them to recall with two quick toots followed up by tasty reward. The whistle is high pitched and carries quite a distance, even though the dog can hear your voice and calls well from a distance the unique sound of a whistle associated with treats is more likely to bring to him home quicker.

    • @RootsandRefugeFarm
      @RootsandRefugeFarm  3 года назад +5

      Do you use a dog whistle or a regular one

    • @shannonbritton5313
      @shannonbritton5313 3 года назад +2

      @@RootsandRefugeFarm we use a regular one 💙💚💜✌

    • @wanda9740
      @wanda9740 3 года назад +2

      The one she recommended is a dog whistle, acme 211.5 is what she says. I believe I'm going to look into this for our 4 mo old Raegan, a Rottweiler/ Lab mix and 2 yr old Golden Retriever. We live in the city but I'm always afraid they'll get loose and not return right away. I'm happy for all of you! It's so nice to see you so happy, settling in!

    • @amandar7719
      @amandar7719 3 года назад +2

      @@RootsandRefugeFarm I was going to suggest same.... I would concentrate at least 10 minutes (time is valuable) with the dogs when there are no children around and use a dog whistle that you can temper the sound by screwing the top.
      Decide what the commands should be. I used one short blow as sit and be still and look at me (for hand signals/voice, like come here, lie down/stay), whatever you choose but don’t make it confusing. One long whistle , and I mean long, would mean I can’t find you but I’m coming, please stay where you are but please bark.
      Dunno, Jess. You’ve moved into a much larger property where your dogs and children are about to experience a more free environment.
      I taught my dog near and long distant hand and whistle commands because I needed to when riding on horseback. TBH, most well loved and trained dogs want to rely on new secure commands when they find themselves in a new, open environment that requires them to fulfill their natural protective role.
      When I took my dog (Welsh collie) to london to visit friends, I exercised him in the central london parks. Every dog owner wanted to know where I got the whistle. If it was now, I think the nutters would ask where I got the app from!!!😂😂😃

    • @amandar7719
      @amandar7719 3 года назад +3

      PS. Don’t ever tell the children what your whistle commands are. Bear is a family dog. Con is too, but not as clever as Bear. I taught my dog to learn commands from those that think they knew better - who, att, I was surrounded by.
      He obliged to keep them amused as and when he felt like it.
      The whistle and near/long hand/voice signals that allowed him hours of long distant fun, were mine and his. Oh.... and the horses I rode. They knew the dog came first. It was quite an amazing time, actually. The dog went forward and made safe “horse monsters”, flushed out deer (or lions if horses could cry wolf 😄) and men in white sport shoes... 😳,
      I’ve always believed dogs are happier “working” when they know they can rely on specific “safety” commands/signals from those they feel they ultimately protect.
      It’s reciprocally innate, IMHO

  • @drewblack749
    @drewblack749 3 года назад

    I am in a state of overwhelm just watching you. When you get things growing, homeostasis will kick in. Our love for the land is real and tangible. You need to mourn and move on. Mourn and move on. I have had to do this many times over the years. Cry and pick up. Days and months grow into seasons. The land will start to sing under your loving care, Jess and Miah. Hug each other. ❤️The best is yet to come!!

  • @kikilove1029
    @kikilove1029 3 года назад

    I remember sending my kiddo off to brick and mortar school after homeschooling. It was a wonderful choice and they are thriving, but it was such a bittersweet feeling in very intense ways. There's a sadness and grief inside that joy. Just wait until the next quarantine when they are home again, then you'll be like "there it is" lol. Much easier to send them back the second time around :) .

  • @KeeKeeSoto
    @KeeKeeSoto 3 года назад +4

    Good Afternoon Gardeners 🌿☺️

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 года назад +1

      Jess your home is beautiful!

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 года назад +1

      You & Jeremiah are such an inspiration to my husband (Jeremy lol) and I. We are buying our land in the next couple of years & all I talk about is how I can't wait to get our fruit trees in the ground (currently in containers) and our perennials as well. Everything is in pots except for our asparagus which I am now regretting cause I will definitely be digging those crowns up to take with us lol. Thanx for sharing your journey ☺️🌿

    • @AnneDaleHomestead
      @AnneDaleHomestead 3 года назад

      Hey KeeKee :)

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 года назад +1

      @@AnneDaleHomestead hey Anne 💚

  • @amandaforgie8047
    @amandaforgie8047 3 года назад +54

    Jess, I sowed a seed in my neighborhood about how having a community garden would be beneficial to the youth that live here and to the adults who dream of a place to grow something. Now trying to find support from the community here to sow this seed. Hopefully this plan is viable. But I at least deared to dream out loud.

    • @emalinel
      @emalinel 3 года назад +1

      Oh, Amanda, that's great! I dream to do that as well :) I want to find ways to get older and younger people out there gardening in common green spaces; not sure how to do that yet but hoping to get there soon!

    • @mamamode1312
      @mamamode1312 3 года назад +1

      Amanda, about the community food garden Seattle Washington has already in function, so looking up their web page contact their folks could save you reinventing the wheel. Build on what works what didn't etc. They have gardens and food forests. Best blessings on this desire of your heart.

    • @amandaforgie8047
      @amandaforgie8047 3 года назад +1

      @@emalinel what inspired me to speak up about implementing change with the community. Instead of always complaints about what's wrong with. I really want our youth to get compliments about doing something good in the community. Some of these youths really could use a garden, Not judgement.

    • @emalinel
      @emalinel 3 года назад +1

      @@amandaforgie8047 I completely agree :) And there's something comforting about having someone older than you acknowledge your abilities when you're young. Really gives you the confidence to have that learning mindset whenever you hit a wall. I hope to build a sort of mentor ship program, where both young and old can learn together. There's not a lot of spaces where both young and old can talk + socialize freely in my community, but I think gardening is definitely one of them.

  • @leighdegenhardt485
    @leighdegenhardt485 3 года назад

    God has a knack for sitting us down on our buns when we really need to get still and regroup. Sometimes when busy work keeps us busy He needs us to be still to really get thru to us and keep us focused whe

  • @angelamartin2811
    @angelamartin2811 3 года назад +1

    I think it was two summers ago that I got on RUclips to learn how to grow tomatoes. And I came across you and you and your family has touched my heart I lost the love of my life 8 months ago and it’s been so hard. You are such a blessing to me 🙏 I’ve laughed and cried with you but I feel like in all the chaos of my life I come to your channel and you lift me up. Your a beautiful person and I been praying for your dad. I’m so excited to be able to watch your journey of your beautiful family and farm. I don’t say much but I just wanted to let you know how much you’ve been a blessing in my life. God bless

  • @divinelotus19
    @divinelotus19 3 года назад

    " aaaaaaand their better than me. They are the Hippsters of the farm." 😄😆😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Its the stare man. That stare!!
    LOVE ALL THE ANIMALS!

  • @tracyzabelle
    @tracyzabelle 3 года назад

    Life can be funny and stressful.. when you feel you need to stop and reset do it. We will always be here

  • @cjpatterson4711
    @cjpatterson4711 3 года назад

    Lots of space there to just hang out and breathe. Watching slow progress in building a new homestead is Priceless. I am interested in all of it. The good, the bad and the ugly. Its real life. Take us along with the planting, the painting and the planning.

  • @Meghannblair
    @Meghannblair 3 года назад

    I love the realness. Thanks for turning the camera on when things aren't always perfect or exciting.

  • @maryellenchristina6321
    @maryellenchristina6321 3 года назад

    My daughter was homeschooled, we took a job at Six Paca Farm 13 years ago, to run a large alpaca farm… she really loved the idea of living on a farm… it meant that she would have to go to school, my husband would be working days now and I too worked days at a resort as a massage therapist… We decided take the job, we moved to the farm and signed her up for school.
    I had such mixed emotions… she was excited so I too wanted to be excited however after dropping her off and walking away I sobbed, I wasn’t expecting that reaction.
    Now she’s 23 and we look back at those days as some of the best times!

  • @brandialford6079
    @brandialford6079 3 года назад +3

    Omg! It's so weird to see you in a new kitchen backdrop! 🥰🤗

  • @cynthiahiebert5023
    @cynthiahiebert5023 3 года назад

    I am glad that you and Maya went to breakfast and had time to chill! Rest is important also!! It is like after a wedding the bride usually poops out and gets sick or very tired! So much planning and pulling together a big event! Then it is all done! You get through the event and then a stasis period to acclimate is necessary!

  • @martharice4916
    @martharice4916 3 года назад

    You are so wise to not drive yourself so hard that you can't find those moments of joy and pleasure in your life. Good luck to the boys in their school journey. It sounds like it's a small-ish school/district, which should make the transition easier. They can establish new friendships and establishing relationships is easier in a smaller setting. Blessings to you all.

  • @famleelife7533
    @famleelife7533 3 года назад +1

    🍀🍀🍀🍀 welcome to your new home, happy you are finally able to begin settling in. I so feel you when life gets so busy and crazy - I go to a place of required stillness. It eases the crazies and allows me to regain focus.

  • @nancygreen7783
    @nancygreen7783 3 года назад +1

    Looks like Miah found the black wired gate he wanted😊👍🐖🐖Saw it when the pigs were running after him lol
    So happy for y’all and excited about seeing the start of this new chapter in your life. Love watching your videos!!!

  • @happyheartgardening
    @happyheartgardening 3 года назад

    I had to chuckle about Bear... Not that he ran with Khan..but that he came back wet from the pond. I am sure he is having HIS best life right now, too! I bet it's going to be a little strange for awhile not having the little ones around all day. Especially Ben..cuz he was your shadow in the garden:)

  • @mattpeacock5208
    @mattpeacock5208 3 года назад

    You have so much time to do all these things, don't forget that!
    It's the journey, not the destination!!!!!

  • @dougjensen8838
    @dougjensen8838 3 года назад

    Thank you for being authentic. It is an encouragement. Never feel guilty about doing nothing! It is absolutely necessary on a REGULAR basis. Even God rested! You are amazing! Kathy Jensen

  • @Barbwheel
    @Barbwheel 3 года назад

    Blows my mind that kids have to start school before labour day.
    Love your new house!
    If the universe/God tells you to take it easy it’s time to take it easy. It’s a good thing.

  • @susanprice3454
    @susanprice3454 3 года назад

    Miss seeing your kiddos running around making forts and bridges and doing kid stuff. But I am so happy to hear that they are enjoying going to school. The property is coming along very well. And the animals are looking good and you are right they all look so happy.

  • @dianegentry3255
    @dianegentry3255 3 года назад

    Family first! Doing the little things add up. Go easy on yourself sweet Jess. You two have been going full throttle for a long time! Yes more quiet time with your sweet Lord always gets you centered on what’s really important! Sending love and prayers!

  • @Sarahbee-o8t
    @Sarahbee-o8t 3 года назад +6

    Jess read psalms 91 . It always soothes my soul

  • @patjones5723
    @patjones5723 3 года назад

    IMHO....You two will ALWAYS be successful because of your commitment to each other and the Lord. God bless you and enjoy your new journey 🙏 🥰

  • @elizabethlink3993
    @elizabethlink3993 3 года назад

    Oh, Yay, got to see the pigs and male goats today, thank you. Glad to hear all your kids are going to the nearby small, local school. What a big change. Thanks for catching us up, I so look forward to each and every post you make.

  • @paperchaser9565
    @paperchaser9565 3 года назад +1

    You guys have to catch up on rest and getting a schedule. Remember, you just made a major move! Please rest, relax, take in some air!

  • @melinda3196
    @melinda3196 3 года назад

    Amazing how you moved your entire farm! All things are possible with FAITH (friends n hard work)

  • @leewillis2908
    @leewillis2908 3 года назад +22

    I’m glad you’ve taken a bit of downtime. Moving is so stressful, and your move has been an act of heroism for both of you! So glad to hear you’re plugged in with a local church. Sending your kids off to school after homeschooling for so long is stressful, too. Even in the best of situations. So, cut yourself some slack, girl.
    Looking forward to seeing you out your mark on your new digs. Bless you, until next time.

  • @kathybastin9613
    @kathybastin9613 3 года назад +2

    Jessica, I’d enjoy watching you sweep the floor!! You’re so gifted. So happy for you and your sweet man. Y’all are the best. You reflect Christ in such a beautiful way. Thank you. Keep up your vlogs !

  • @ilzitek2419
    @ilzitek2419 3 года назад

    That's totally right. Enjoying the moment is the best policy.

  • @southerngardengigi
    @southerngardengigi 3 года назад

    I had to put a Fi Smart collar on my olde English bulldogge. All of a sudden Gunny likes to wander. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I set a boundary and it lets me know if he goes out of that range. It will also show me his exact path outside. I’m so glad I got it because it has helped us located him twice already.

  • @therusticranchgarden
    @therusticranchgarden 3 года назад

    Jess and Sweet Miah, take care of yourselves first. It’s ok to rest The property is just so beautiful. I love to see all the animals grazing all through the grass. It’s just a beautiful sight. Thanks for inspiring me with each video you upload. Prayers for you and your family. Take it easy. God bless you Bertha in TEXAS.

  • @ashliporter7105
    @ashliporter7105 3 года назад

    Bear only tagged along to provide Khan the supervision he requires 😂

  • @genevievegreene1595
    @genevievegreene1595 3 года назад

    I have a do-nothing day every now and then. I have days I wake up with the hope of doing at least one particular thing, and then life changes things and it doesn't even get looked at. Be kind to yourself and let things settle a bit. Some nights at bedtime I realise I haven't done much yet I'm still so tired. But nobody died today, and I can try again tomorrow. Hugs, Jess.

  • @joandanza
    @joandanza 3 года назад

    I think it's the first time I'm commenting on your page. Take it as you are a day at a time! You're doing great. I really missed the boat on this type of lifestyle. My body is too broken to start at 61 so I'm "Living vicariously through you and your family" it's great. Keep the Vlogs coming. God bless you all and your new home.

  • @colinchick2692
    @colinchick2692 3 года назад +1

    Moving is very stressful. Dont be surprised how you are feeling this is normal. Your last place took years to establish - take your time so that you dont burn out and you will achieve more in time, Wishing you peace and tranquility in this tumulus time.

  • @fridomsnowbird5398
    @fridomsnowbird5398 3 года назад

    Holsteins Bloodred, German wine and KangaRhu are 3 varieties of Rhubarb that will do well in zone 8. I grow the Holsteins Bloodred here in zone 9-10 and it does fine. I used to like Rhubarb stalks raw when I was a kid, but now I like them in either jam or a pie. It is great that all of your kids will be going to school but it also means that your little garden buddy won't be in all of your garden videos. Life goes on.

  • @michellewallace3152
    @michellewallace3152 3 года назад

    I wish Bear dog would have had a go pro camera on him when he wandered off i bet he was having such a blast being a little rebel child swimming in the pond 💖

  • @dlsdyer9071
    @dlsdyer9071 3 года назад

    In your new house, yippee!!! We homeschooled our kids and then they were gone. We never knew silence could be so loud! On the other hand, having uninterrupted quiet time has been a blessing. Praying that this school year will be spiritually profitable for you and your family.
    My rhubarb is in a partially shaded area in a self watering pot. I am hoping to get it in the ground. The earwigs seem to like eating the leaves even though people cannot.

  • @TheBourneHomestead
    @TheBourneHomestead 3 года назад

    Taking a step back and stopping... is the best thing we can do for ourselves for sure. Love watching you plan this new space, and planning where perennials are going... it's SO EXCITING!!!! 🥳 The animals look great, and super content with alllllll that lovely grass. Such a beautiful property. ❤️

  • @flowerpixel
    @flowerpixel 3 года назад +15

    Your hair looks so cool. You should make an entire vlog about your hair

  • @jannafolsom1069
    @jannafolsom1069 3 года назад

    I needed to hear this message. (So much so, I've watched it twice). ... hitting walls...finding peace... I have been so overwhelmed with all the life things lately. We've been skipping church to work on our house. I really NEED Sunday morning service. It keeps me grounded, helps my focus, helps my ability to handle life with grace rather than bullheadedly banging through. It helps me to keep my strength through my faith. Some can do it without regular attendance to church or prayer meetings. I cannot. And I get so hyper-focused on getting things done that I forget to give it to Him. I forget to take time to let Him walk with me.. I always have this picture in my headed of me Running across a sandy beach. Running as fast and as hard as I can, getting nowhere. With the Big Guy standing in my peripheral vision, lovingly chuckling and shaking His head. Never speaking but I know he's thinking 'Really Janna? This again? ...Well... alright have it your way.. you know where to find me...'

  • @beeyouthful1963
    @beeyouthful1963 3 года назад

    Always remember to just take time for yourself. We love you guys, That's why we are here.

  • @jaditelady173mary4
    @jaditelady173mary4 3 года назад +3

    You deserve some down time. Take a break and breathe it all in and appreciate all that you have accomplished. So happy for you all!

  • @mamamode1312
    @mamamode1312 3 года назад

    Yup, just finished lunch and enjoying J&J time.
    Rhubarb leaves are poisonous, work well as mulch. The stems make a great syrup for icecream, french toast etc.
    Gabrielle is loving the space for sure the herder in him is just pleased.

  • @conniegibson9740
    @conniegibson9740 3 года назад

    Tell Miah thank-you for being patient with this video. He’s tired. But it was good to see you both.

  • @katherineb6102
    @katherineb6102 3 года назад

    Take a few days to breathe. You are probably physically and emotionally exhausted and joyous at the same time. It's a lot and it will get done. Enjoy the process.

  • @cheriwhitley8385
    @cheriwhitley8385 3 года назад

    Well..it’s official..u r home.and settled..your pottery coffee cups are out and being used!!❤️..your homestead is already soo beautiful..that view❤️..u should slow down for awhile and breathe..take it all end and relax.give yourself time to adjust..other than having to take care of animals..give yourself a break..trust me,it’ll all b there when u get ready to do it lol..I’m still unpacking and organizing from Jan..I’m sure ALLthe animals feel like they have woke up from a beautiful dream and landed in heaven!!..I wanna come back as a animals and live at ROOTS AND REFUGE…many blessings

  • @charliehoos9773
    @charliehoos9773 3 года назад +4

    I’m excited for the boys making friends in school while you’re able to ‘work’ during the school day.

  • @craigchrisdecato4864
    @craigchrisdecato4864 3 года назад

    There is a collar called Fi that you can set up parameters and if the dogs go outside of that you get an alarm, as well as GPS to track them. I love this collar!

  • @blissful1689
    @blissful1689 3 года назад +23

    You may already be a subscriber, but the Garden Answer channel with Laura and Aaron is an inspirational and informative resource for landscaping and floral gardening especially, some veg production as well but on a small scale. 👌🏼
    Have fun! 🌱 Blessings from:
    the other Carolina 😄
    “The LORD bless you and keep you; The LORD make His face shine on you and be gracious to you; The LORD lift up His face on you and give you peace.”
    ( Numbers 6:24-26)

    • @gardenswithgrace
      @gardenswithgrace 3 года назад +1

      Great minds think alike.
      :) I was going to suggest The Garden Answer too. Especially Laura's most recent videos planting out on their new property. Love both channels and draw so much inspiration from them!!

  • @MsKaty0311
    @MsKaty0311 3 года назад

    God is good…all the time!!!! Bless you all 🥰

  • @gracefarm394
    @gracefarm394 3 года назад

    It is wonderful to hear the update. Journeys of change are always full of ebbs and flows. May God continue to bless every accomplishment, from the little things to the big things.

  • @jenedge5579
    @jenedge5579 3 года назад

    Hey gurl, such a cute top. I know, not very homesteady, but you’re glowing with this land and your happy animals. Nice to see you happy and a bit off balance with the newness of it all. You got this.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @kristinal5221
    @kristinal5221 3 года назад

    My kids started out in public then homeschool. My oldest daughter did public school until first grade. Home school for 2nd. Then we moved and she went back to public school until 6th grade. Now she homeschools with the rest. Do what's right for you and your family.

  • @flyingpigpreserve8562
    @flyingpigpreserve8562 3 года назад

    Everything will take time to get adjusted. That includes you. You had a routine at other house and here you haven't been able to establish that yet. Don't sweat the small stuff. Your doing good. So glad the Younger Boys wanted to go to school. A small School is great for them and you all. Take time for yourself and you'll be fine. God Bless and Peace from WV

  • @opperman818
    @opperman818 3 года назад

    That's great that the kids are in school. I'm sure they will enjoy making new friends! Maybe someday their class can visit the farm to learn where their food comes from 👍

  • @canyoudigit9369
    @canyoudigit9369 3 года назад

    School is big for the children, give them time to love you more and make there story's to share at night time. 👍

  • @growjoyfullyhomestead
    @growjoyfullyhomestead 3 года назад

    Here is a ladder of love to help you scale all those walls! Keep going! God is with you and so are we all! Sending love, prayers, strength, and hugs! ❤🌟🙏

  • @catracampolieto8989
    @catracampolieto8989 3 года назад

    Take your time. Don't stress. Everything will be ok. I would love to see your pantry when your done with it. I used to have a nice size walk-in pantry. I loved how organized it was. Now...I don't have a pantry. I really miss it.

  • @pauladominique7885
    @pauladominique7885 3 года назад

    My great grandmother's asparagus was still going back in the 90's when I lived on her place. Get the right spot so you'll never want to move it.

  • @anitamurphy2454
    @anitamurphy2454 3 года назад

    And all the chickens said 🎶nothin could be finer than to be in Carolina in the mornin🎶

  • @mistyfinley5615
    @mistyfinley5615 3 года назад

    Dont rush , take a week and get rest!! Focus on small projects this is such an emotional time for your entire family. So take some time and focus on rest and taking quality time with each other

  • @normacoplin4102
    @normacoplin4102 3 года назад

    Two things....my husband always says...'If we do it all today Ma...what will we do tomorrow?' And... sometimes life feels like the rug has been pulled out from under us and everything is up in the air. We get anxious and frustrated just waiting for all the pieces to land so we can put it all back together again. But they ALL WILL LAND...some before others...some much later than expected....but they all will land. They always do. ❤️😊

  • @tdewtx
    @tdewtx 3 года назад

    Jess, I am 58 next month, In my late 20;s I stopped getting frustrated, or mad, and unreasonable and decided no matter how small or simple for some reason I have to take 15 extra steps than other people. I just take the steps and my life got simpler and less stressful. My husband didn't believe me when we first got together that I have this little problem.... Now he believes it and watches me take the extra steps lol.

  • @theallenshire268
    @theallenshire268 3 года назад

    Mom always put the rhubarb up against the back of the house, (shade loving maybe??) and she had a broken pickle crock that she always put over the plant so it would stretch for the sun and grow long thin stalks. You could probably simulate that with a 5 gallon bucket or a chunk of really large pipe. Rhubarb makes the best pie and jam! I really love it!

  • @julie-annepineau4022
    @julie-annepineau4022 3 года назад

    When I have those days that seem to go sideways no matter what I do, I know I am not present in the moment. I stop and ground myself in the moment and in my body. Sounds like you are doing that in your way. Pretty normal to have that happen after the major push. Things may be in chaos now but they will get there in time. Take the time to settle and give yourself grace in the in between. Looks like the animals and the house is coming together really well.

  • @melissamusick5864
    @melissamusick5864 3 года назад

    sometimes you have to stop and just BE. quiet reflection and appreciation is key.

  • @KrisFasseBooksandButterflies
    @KrisFasseBooksandButterflies 3 года назад

    You know what... this is great...and if you feel it doesn't work you can change ..and that is your choice.

  • @rhondamccall6964
    @rhondamccall6964 3 года назад

    BL has great teachers so dont worry. My brother is football and weight training coach in high school and my sister in law is first grade. Enjoy the time you have with Miah and putting down roots in our fair state! I had to train my dogs to come back with a whistle. Now if they take off I just whistle and out of the woods they come but mine were raised from puppies here.

  • @conniea9201
    @conniea9201 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your day 😊
    JESS stop!!! You don't need to explain anything you and Sweet Maya do for your family ❤, you have the right to do what you want with your session, it's yours sweetie 😘, I enjoy your videos with your family and all of the animals, but I have to say I especially love Gabriel ❤, a angel of God, enjoy your time with your family, and stop apologizing and just breathe in God's blessings to you and your family 😊

  • @lindasuerussell4398
    @lindasuerussell4398 3 года назад

    Love, love, love the Carolina Revival video from Aug 7th and 14th. I cried as if he was talking directly to me. Can't wait till next week.

  • @battlearmanda
    @battlearmanda 3 года назад +1

    I'm loving the updates. I can't believe how much you share when there is just so much going on!!

  • @virginiak.452
    @virginiak.452 3 года назад

    Daniel Arms put in permanent fencing. He rented a Kabota machine that pushes posts into the ground. He could put up fencing very fast.

  • @pennycricket2294
    @pennycricket2294 3 года назад

    Sometimes we hit walls. Sometimes we hit gold. All just part of the journey,

  • @ahavarichardson5426
    @ahavarichardson5426 3 года назад

    A getaway dream!
    I live in a rural area!
    Having problems like everyone else is trying to find a Homestead! Good luck to everyone! I know the STRUGGLE! it's real

  • @ringoyr
    @ringoyr 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for always sharing your heart and experiences. Surely I'm not the only one that finds it very helpful in life.

  • @christajennings3828
    @christajennings3828 3 года назад +1

    I grow rhubarb in zone 9, though that # is based on winter lows, not summer highs. I grow Victoria and Glaskins Perpetual.

  • @Zenza10
    @Zenza10 3 года назад

    First i must say that i love your videos! Doesnt realy matter what they are about, i just love to watch you and your family, and feel your energy and passion :) You make me both cry and laugh with you at times. have been watching you from the very beginning and please dont ever stop

  • @kphmullins
    @kphmullins 3 года назад

    Church of the Highlands (AL, GA) is in middle of their Aug 21 days of prayer...u can download their Pray First app & join in if you want! Tmr is Day 10; we r joining in from NC:) & since we're in EST, start time is 7am for us:)) (10am Saturday) So uplifting & encouraging!! I Thess. 5:16-18 -paula

  • @theelpydimension
    @theelpydimension 3 года назад

    Good point, when stuff's not working get quiet. I have someone I need to share that with. Cheers to your families new found happiness.

  • @tinataylor2698
    @tinataylor2698 3 года назад +11

    Jess and Miah you look so happy it’s written all over both of you such a wonderful life!🌻💜🌻