Is Caspering The New Ghosting? (This Year’s Spookiest Dating Terms) || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 497

It's Halloween, so Jordana came ready to get messy while Jared showed up buzzed-but not in the way you’d think! First, J&J kick off with a pop quiz on spooky season dating terms. Then, a listener asks how he can get his long-distance girlfriend to communicate more. J&J discuss what this could mean for his relationship. The Awkward Encounter involves coworkers too close for comfort and reminds Jared of an awkward encounter of his own. Next, a newly single listener wonders how and when she should address her baggage. Her last relationship ended with infidelity and a divorce, but does every date need to know? The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about food gifts, calling someone “hot,” and using group pics on the apps.
00:00 Intro
32:24 First Email
39:27 Awkward Sexual Encounters
50:30 Second Email
58:55 Red Flag or Deal Breaker?
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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram.
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[@sarahletsch1642]

I don’t normally consume podcasts on RUclips, but the costumes had me intrigued… the bee costume did not disappoint. 😂

[@emilyclay311]

SAME…. first time coming here for this

[@katieparry516]

The costume puns at the beginning were top notch 😂

[@alexismassey5787]

the camera angle where we see the back of the bee head is sending me

[@ragdolldoom]

Idk why I'm so attracted to Jordana as a painter 😍😂

[@dericflairmultiverse4952]

It's an artful take on it 😂😂😂

[@Pete471]

Jordana with a mustache looks like that comedian Andrew Schulz

[@isawhimfirstpodcast]

I think you two should dress up EVERY EPISODE 😍
Like to vote! 🥳

[@annemariewerthwein4876]

I listened to the audio and came here for the visuals , the costumes really exceeded all expectations 😂🙌🏼👏🏼

[@MyfanwyCollins]

This is my favorite episode ever! The costumes. The content. As the bee costume deflates. Chef's kiss.

[@eschneider317]

Used to seeing Jared w/ a hat. Those are the cutest curls! Let them out! Cute episode

[@daniellehenecia_dprdreamers06]

Jared your Bee costume is Unbeeelivable!!!🤌🤌🐝🐝🐝🐝
Papa J does it again,honey!🍯🍯 Jordana your painter costume was a pie'ce de re'sistance!
👩‍🎨🇫🇷 🤌🤌
You've coloured our world with the UUP podcast Jordana.🌈🌈🌈🖌️
Jordana getting angry with the spooky dating terms was haliarious.😁😂😂🤣🤣🤣
We need more of that!🙌🙌👏👏
I haven't laughed so much.
I agree,with you Jordana yours and Jared's dating terms.
You both gave us a masterclass!
Thanks Candace.❤🙏🙏
This episode has made my whole year! 🙌🙌❤❤❤❤
It was so fun to watch.
Happy Halloween to you Jared~Papa J🪶🪶🪶🐝🍯
Jordana👩‍🎨 and Betches!!!
👻🎃👻🎃🍬🍫🍭🍬🍫🍭🍬🍫🍭🍬🍫

[@brunaisensee1355]

Your response is so joyful it made me laugh. More of these nice comments on RUclips please 🙏🏻

[@annadancen127]

anyone else noticed Jared's costume deflate at min 8 :D

[@SY-ut5dz]

I saw the thumbnail and busted out laughing that bee costume is omg

[@otherryan]

Jared with the socks 🤌🤌🤌

[@Alpenglow29]

The laughter was so infectious this episode! Loved it. Thanks for the fun time.

[@laurel1018]

I was DYING LAUGHING watching this lmao 🤣

[@brennaingram8620]

Jared being this giant bumble bee im dying

[@ChelseaBrooke]

JARED I AM DYING

[@kellyowens1828]

Dying to see a photo of Jordana and Mike’s Barbie/ken costume!

[@annadancen127]

Drinking game proposal: drink a sip each time Jordana has to reattach the mustache haha just like last year 😅

[@uuppodcast]

Add a sip each time Jared deflates or re-inflates his bee body 😂

[@andreanavea8873]

Hands down best episode yet !!!

[@daniellewatson7498]

First time catching the show on RUclips. UnBEElievable

[@verakeys8912]

Ironically Jordana in this costume looks like my ex who ghosted me haha😂

[@sarahbellum6571]

Was just going to comment the same thing.. 😂

[@adrienneleonard9828]

The fact that Jared didn’t come dressed as Jordana’s stripped off wallpaper from her house or like the Lumière version of her horrible candle lights is a huge disappointment.

[@karagillis5739]

These are amazing, thank you for this.

[@dericflairmultiverse4952]

If a painting is worth a thousand words? This thumbnail bee worth a million views 🎉🎉🎉

[@Xatriaful]

I love this!

[@kitty1960]

I feel like everyone did shots before recording this 😂😂😂

[@allychebuhar1766]

Love yall!!

[@bratmobile66]

OMG I LOVE IT

[@babycakes130]

guys posting with friends on hinge is also a thing... and I always end up wanting the friend 😅

[@charmsz566]

JARED, are those FINGERWAVES in your hair!??! i'm stunned by those luscious waves, you look like a 1920s flapper queen of all bee's, it's gorgeous!!

[@grapeypear4558]

Lmao love the costumes

[@sarahvee22]

I can't love this more

[@garybeee824]

That bee costume 😂😂

[@flowingwithjenna]

The inflatable noises and the way the costume barely fits under the microphone 💀

[@dericflairmultiverse4952]

King Bee! 🫅🏻🫅🏻🫅🏻🐝🐝🐝

[@ashleyss300]

Lmaoooooooooo Jared

[@mfancyketchup6701]

Jared 😂😂😂

[@sailorvvvxo]

What does feather feather mean? And why does everyone say it in the start of their emails? Been wondering😅

[@damarisperez700]

Buzz buzz!

[@djestouff]

Jared Bee-d

[@adriisamused]

She's (the bee) so 👁👄👁

[@davidstumpf9298]

I know Jared wanted to say something when she said their going has ken and Barbie

[@davidstumpf9298]

Come on it isn’t creepy to decorate your house for Halloween when you don’t have kids

[@esikazemese]

Sorry but "damaged goods' pretty much comes from men.