Putting on the New Personality - With Phylice - Totally Awake! Exjw
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- Опубликовано: 10 янв 2025
- Just June here...
Are you putting on the new personality? Join me and my friend Phylice, aka Totally Awake! Exjw, as we discuss this requirement of the org to fundamentally change your thinking, whether you need to or not, in order to fit in with what 8...I mean 10... men in New York demand.
Phylice's channel - / @totallyawakeexjw
The Bite Model - freedomofmind....
I hope you enjoy our breakdown and discussion of this topic. I'd love to hear what you think, either in comments or at my email justjune1973@gmail.com
As always, remember to be yourself, and be well.
This was awesome! I so enjoyed our chat and being apart of this video! Thank you again June for having me! 🥰❤️💕✨
@@JustDeannaJune You are amazing and you’re doing wonderful life saving work!!!
2 of my favorite RUclipsrs. What a treat! I never been to DC. Might be time to plan a trip conveniently in Oct.
I don't comment much until recently but I wanted to say Phylice, you were the first EXJW content creator I subscribed to. Thanks for the content you create in the natural way you do. It makes your content very relatable.
@@totallyawakeexjw great interview. Thanks for sharing your story with June!
I turned down a full 4-year scholarship to Howard University in 1997. I went to community college instead so I could still auxiliary pioneer, but was still regarded as 'bad association' for going. What my mother won't admit is that I worked 3 jobs to put myself through school (all on public transportation), made all my 'meetings' and field service, and paid half the rent on a four bedroom house all from the ages of 17-20. The guilt for just trying to do anything was immense. Great video ladies- thank you to you both 😁👍🏾
I commend you highly for your great efforts 👏 👍
A lot of “worldly” people had better personalities than I as a JW!! Many are taught to care more about other people instead of being told “they” were “special” because “they” had the “truth”!! That twists and messes with your personality more than ever!!
It happens very slowly, almost imperceptibly, but very effective to effectively discourage critical thinking from each member by requiring the cult to attract a new personality to the successful spiritual path. The given conditions then make everyone a sheep and at the same time an ant in the sense of this cult.
I love Phylice!!!! Great interview ladies!! Much love 💜🤘
The crossover we needed but didn't realized we deserved 🥲 love it and love you guys 💙.
I also thought the "New Personality" was bizarre too since I also thought of the "New Personality" as the only personality really. Just glad that you guys got your little girls through their medical worries without the Tower interfering. Hats off to you both!
Love you two!!! Watch both!! The Hypocrisy of this organization!!! Different standards for their rich and famous members!!
Excellent discussion ladies. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Putting on the new personality is the Watchtower’s version of being more “indoctrinated” by them and sacrificing your goals and dreams. 😢 It also subliminally shows all JWs how to judge anyone that does otherwise. 😩😩
I was in nursing school while I was studying with Jehovah's witnesses and the missionary couple I was studying with adviced me to stop the nursing degree I was reading in university and consider doing more in the ministry because the end will be coming soon. I'm glad I never listened to that bad advice and finished my nursing degree. It didn't make sense to me as a bible student. Their still walking around as a couple doing missionary work preaching false lies to people and even sacrificed not to have children 'cos the world's coming to an end. I just feel sorry for them.
I was never an addict, gambler, prostitute or a drunk but somehow a good pioneer friend at an assembly came back from talking with a bunch of brothers and she was laughing. One of the elders in my Congo was telling a brother who was interested in me that I was no good 😳 She knew I wasn't interested in the brother so she thought I wouldn't care. I did care however that than an elder (who was on his 3rd wife 20 yrs younger than him) was unjustly bad mouthing me. That was the start of me losing interest in this cult.
I had something similar happen to me. I was also attacked by a fellow sister who implied I would hurt a brother we were both interested in. She had no intentions in making a move, but I have always been a bold one when it comes to letting someone I like know, I like them. Alas, here I am, out and happy as can be free. Things work out for the best really.
Excellent video!!! Great conversation! I never felt like I COULD put on “the new personality” because I didn’t want to do almost any of the “good JW things” - field service, pioneering, hated all of it and I wanted to participate in every extra curricular activity. So as a preteen & teenager - I also thought something was wrong with me. Again, I so enjoyed this. Y’all are great!!!!
Thank you so MUCH for the time, effort and honesty you devote to this channel!
Thank you very much, June to add captions on your videos. I encourage some deaf jws to enjoy reading and learning what is the ugly truth behind WT. Sometimes I help to explain. Few quit and left. I am proud. I left 8 years ago and I enjoyed my freedom ever since. I was born and raised 3rd generation. After our parents died then 6 of us left and moved on their ways.
*informative interview! feels like we are witnessing a crime being committed each time tony morris and friends get up to speak*
Loved seeing and listening to this video ! You guys are so down to earth and Loving ❤️
Yes, I heard and was shown that scripture which they used to control you and make sure you put on their organization's personality and take away the true you that God had already given us, we don't need them for such. Life is an experience, we grow up and discover who we really are and to accept ourselves for who we are without judgment.
We're Good people and we know what is right and what is wrong, we're not babies anymore.
I was not born in but studied with at the age of 15 and baptized by 16 but before that never really wanted to go door to door preaching. I was told by the elder who studied with me if I don't go preaching I might as well forget everything ! What kind of explanation is that? Where is the Love of God here? I was pushed into baptism before my time and faded out at 25, Thank goodness I did and these videos are blessings being sent out to show us how right is was to follow our instincts. When the 1975 end time fell through, I felt it was time to leave. The End was so near back then and they keep repeating the same year after year. So Happy I left, no regrets!
Thank-you June.😊🤗🙏
I’m not an ex JW but an ex member of the “Hebrew Roots” “movement”. There are so many similarities between what I have left, IBLP, JW, and Mormonism. It’s been a few years now, but I wish others could see the control they’ve submitted to. Once you’ve been shunned, your life is a whirlwind of emotions. Hindsight is what I wish everyone could see. Keep up the good work!
Hi June & Phylice! Glad to see the collaboration. Love both of your channels. Keep up the great work.
June, thank you so much for starting your channel to help others know that the jw organization is misleading so many.
My husband and I were certainly being misled for about 5 years. My husband left the organization first and I just left in the last week.
What a mess. I started a RUclips channel about my journey to find God and all I went through with the witnesses
I would love to get to know you and be on your channel sometime to tell my story. God bless you and your family
Great topic for discussion today ladies! 🥰 ♥️ 🥰
New Personality + Servants = it is after all the JW’s language!
Coincidence? I think not, we know not! 🤦🏼♀️
It amazes me the amount of people who are affected by the cult just because they have family members in the cult. They put fear in those outside of the cult. I can barely even have a productive conversation with my JW family they are just disgusting to me at this point. I don’t have any remorse for them.
@@JustDeannaJune it’s so hard and that is the part of the indoctrination that I still hold on too sadly. I am so quick to judge and I find myself being that inpatient Bible study that wanted them to just do it already lol 😂 I am working on that it’s a trait that I am not proud of.
@Jdub NoMo I believe in connection and spirituality and not being close to my mother or my dads side has me sooooo isolated and disconnected from my ancestors and my culture.
This comment may be a little long, I apologize for that. My wife lost her father at age 8, kicked out because she wanted to love Jehovah, being in a third world country where Jehovah's Witnesses were banned. She had her Bible Stories Book, and she remained faithful, even keeping herself clean from sex with men. I married her when she was 45 against the Elders demands. As a eye witness she was a Virgin, but the Elders spread rumors through out many Congregations that she birthed a child out of wedlock. So she was constantly under harrasment by the Elder's of Jehovah's Witnesses. When we told them we had married we were immediately disfellowshipped, as it was their excuse to remove her for what they wanted to believe about her, having a baby out of wedlock! The amazing thing is the main Elder, who disfellowshipped us, his Sister who is unmarried, got pregnant and delivered a son, and she was never punished! On zoom meetings they would be bouncing the Baby around as if it was a good thing, a bastard child without a father! No man around! And she lives in the same home as her Brother the main Elder! So in reality he is suppose to step down according to the Elders Manuel and the Organisation Book! Supposedly written by Jesus!
"bas·tard ˈba-stərd. plural bastards. usually offensive : a child born to parents who are not married to each other."
Mirriam Webster Dictionary! For those uneducated by modern day Universities because they were told higher education is evil and from Satan, so by going to University would displease Jehovah. Not meant to offend anyone. I went to University at age 50. Baptised early 70's. But my vow was not to the Organisation like many today.
Looking at the GB makeup, GOD is partial!!
YES!!.. WHERE are the Hispanics on the Governing Body?? Where are the Japanese on the Governing Body; ??? Where are the Africans ??? Where are the Philippines??? Where are the Indians?? 9 WHITE AMERICAN Men & 1 Black Token American Man 😃😃
Great collaboration!
It was a pleasure to meet you. Continue to grow in your truth.
Thanks Phylice and Just June. I'm subscribing to Phylice's channel.❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Is there graphics for this protest that we can post on social media
Me sitting here at dawn watching your videos.❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Thanks to you both for such an informative video.❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉this will help so, so many people. Yaaaaaaaaaaay!!!
Come on Just June. Small Babies dont have to put on a new personality but cultivate the right personality. There are many Bibel examples. And yes a lot of "wordly" children and adults have better personalities than JW personalities.
this was great, thank you both
Wonderful interview. I've watched all your videos. So glad I found your site. You have a beautiful family. Thank you all for sharing!
@@JustDeannaJune Happy Anniversary!!!💓✨
@@JustDeannaJune Oh that’s so cool. My husband’s and my anniversary is in March also.💗
Look at Prince! At the message his music portrays, his audience, but because he had money, the local Elders have nothing but good to say about him. And he died because of an overdose of prescription drugs, that others in the Congregation are disfellowshipped for if they become addicted to those drugs even if a doctor prescribes them. Funeral talk at the Kingdom Hall! So when you have something financially to offer the Organisation all serious sins are overlooked. Buy your way into the New Paradise! Same with a Scientology, and the very rich.
@@JustDeannaJune just happy I am not alone suffering from my life bring in, and sorry for the damage I caused my children.
Great video ❤️
Now that I’m PIMO I see how culty it sounds when they always use that phrase “ Put on the new Personality “ and so does “guard against independent thinking” and “Listen Obey And Be Blessed “.
Opps sorry, loving your show
Another great video June! I don’t want to upset any of you but I find Serena Williams being baptized is a red flag. Her friendship with Beyoncé is very scary. Researching Beyoncé very disturbing things come up. Not someone that would be a friend of a Jehovah’s Witness. Does WT’s love money so much that they except people with money. Also we put on the new personality but over and over again others in the organization don’t follow the same path. Sending Love♥️🌸🌹
Cheers for this video I’m not a Jehovah Witness but I enjoy watching videos of Ex JWs experiences, it’s very eye opening and interesting. Are JWs desperate for new recruits, I had some JWs ring my doorbell yesterday and a few days ago got a letter from a JW in the mail with a pamphlet- I ripped up the letter and pamphlet and tossed them in the recycling bin and didn’t answer the door.
I've just had an epiphany, AT THE PROTEST 30/10/2023 AT THE WHITEHOUSE WASINGTON DC UNITED STATES of AMERICA, one of the signs should have Stephen Lett's picture of his nephew that committed suicide because of being homosexual and what Lett said at the next convention!!!!!!!
Sadly, I think that Serena being a mum now, retired from tennis, has returned to Watchtower, and is going to raise her child as one!?
My first thought about the pioneer hours is that 90% of all JW's will be pioneers.
Love you Phylice and June.
@@JustDeannaJune
You may have responded to your daughter as a jw at first but at the same time you didn't. And I'm sure now you've made good. Love to you and thanks for replying, I'd love to speak with you instead of via comments?
Putting on new personality means your not you. Your a pretend you.
Could only wish/hope to go to the protest/rally in Washington. Only thought with costumes is to leave face unmask. Mostly due to the insurrection and potential violence. could allow for facial recognition in case of the need.
@Sheryl St. Germain Am NOT saying people should wear a mask an s cloak. Somehow, we are not on the same page. Not sure about what you are talking about. Not that is okay. Thanks for post.
@Sheryl St. Germain I do. I have never meant my simple posts to become misunderstood. Perhaps I am just tired.
Maybe something with pyramids instead of Halloween? 😉
Gr. from the Netherlands
Uh so new personality=brainwashing my sis said some of this dumb ish the other day it suxs I can't even voice my opinion with her W/O her risking not talking to me again for a few yrs! and phylice is my hg she be let em have it str8 up good job ladies
Why are the building and building when the end is so near..
Please explain to me why do people give them a disassociation letter why you just don't walk away and never come back
That's an individual decision. Everyone has to figure out what works for them. Different ppl have different circumstances to take into account. Sometimes a person might be a parent with children and their mate is planning on staying in the organization and wants to stay married. So they may want it to be clear to the congregation that they will never be coming back to Jehovah's witnesses but they are very much part of their family's life. That's a situation where a lot has to be taken into account. That's just one example, but each person has to weigh the pros and cons for themselves and make a decision that works for them and hopefully we don't judge them for it. Judging others is what JWs do. Hope that helps. ☺️
Just a side note, the JW organization emphasizes getting a trade, in place of going to college, so that you can use it in the "new system." What they fail to mention is, where will ALL of the plumbers/electricians/carpenters, etc. get the needed materials for their trade in the "new system" since everything in this system will be destroyed? Where will drywall/ductwork/generators/nails/screws/hammers/voltmeters/saws/glass/raw materials to make tools, etc., come from? What are the survivors going to do with all of the billions of cars/trucks/ships/trains/unexploded military ordnance/skyscrapers/the international space station/jumbo jets, etc, etc, etc? The survivors will have to deal with all of these issues + teach the billions that will be resurrected!
Is the protest in front of the White House or Capital?
It’s in front of the White House
And Serena is still in the lime lights wearing her tight outfits
Yes, I should’ve noticed that God didn’t like the animals personality too. He saying I made All creation GOOD, but decided to separate sheep and goats. So sorry for the goats, somehow someday those creatures personality was labeled bad😅What a joke it actually is.
By-the-way June my wife still a Jehovah's witness. It works pretty well we don't have any issues whatsoever. Nobody's interfering with our marriage. I think because I'm Italian and I'm from Jersey and they're afraid 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Like every other scripture they twist. SMH … glad to see so many escape
Because Serena probably donated a lot of money and she's rich that's why 👍😂❤️
Was that a recent Lett talk. Like, how can a baby be an enemy of God? Any God who views a baby as an enemy is the enemy.
Thank you for your videos. (I sent an email to your gmail.)
The meaning of putting on the new personality as defined by them means= give us your minds, let us totally brainwash you. Very simple. 🤨
Do we have any idea of how many of your subscribers are ex jw,
JWs love those fringe JDUB Celebrities because of those big bank accounts…
You both should pursue your career instead of gossiping n look negative chatters
And Serena is still in the lime lights wearing her tight outfits
I think She gonna get a wake up call about this religion sooner or later .