The difference I've noticed between me & my ESFJ friend is that she's more focused on helping people in an immediately impactful "wow you're so accommodating" kind of way whereas I am more focused on doing things that help others in a long term "wow you laid the foundation for this years ago & I never noticed" kind of way. This could also be due to differences in our enneagram being a 2w1 vs a 3w2.
My mom is an ESFJ-T and I am an ENFJ-A. We are both empathic, like organization and are people-oriented. The major difference that I notice is that my mom loves traditional patterns, clearly defined gender roles/hierarchy/status quo. I love to question the status quo, create a different approach that let’s go of any form of hierarchy and focuses on full equanimity, I also am very fluid in my thinking in regards to gender patterns. To say it blund: my mom is a beautiful cis gendered woman, married to a wonderful man in a very fashionable house and a very committed and devoted employee, mom and friend. I am a nomadic queer hippie striving for an utopian world vision. Poor mom. Haha. Often we do not understand each other’s world vision but we love each other a lot.
Excelente información, por lo general en LATAM no se usan estos términos tan eficientes. Me gusta la forma en que lo explicas, todo tiene mucho sentido gracias por compartir.
Since you said that ENFJ and ISTP are pretty compatible in a previous video, may you make a video on it? My husband is ENFJ, and I’m an ISTP. His love towards me is amazing, and I appreciate the balance in our personalities. I want to learn why we mesh so well, because we do. I just don’t know how to explain it. Thank you!
As an ENFJ I want to see this as well! I have never met an ISTP female before but I know I value my INTP mentor as a great ally but I sometimes wish she had the same observing functions as well.
Oh love it- spot on, thank you 🙏 It’s always amazed me that people don’t get it- that ex. As ENFJ I feel closer to INFJ than ESFJ, actually to be honest: except that Fe business- we are literally day and night, it’s unreal! And it’s always the same story: start all ok and than bang- wall! They totally don’t get my viewpoint 😔so much to tell there but.. I better not 😉🤫😬
Thanks for uploading this resource, it was very useful to understand the differences Another point to pinpoint is how the Auxiliary Function and Tertiary Function engages with the other personality type i.e.: ENFJ uses Ni as Auxiliary F. and sucks at Si so bad, which is ESFJ Auxiliary Function The same happens with ESFJ with Ni, the Auxiliary Function of ENFJ, they are usually struggles with it
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ESFJ lives to help everyone they know
ENFJ lives to help everyone in need
The difference I've noticed between me & my ESFJ friend is that she's more focused on helping people in an immediately impactful "wow you're so accommodating" kind of way whereas I am more focused on doing things that help others in a long term "wow you laid the foundation for this years ago & I never noticed" kind of way. This could also be due to differences in our enneagram being a 2w1 vs a 3w2.
My mom is an ESFJ-T and I am an ENFJ-A. We are both empathic, like organization and are people-oriented. The major difference that I notice is that my mom loves traditional patterns, clearly defined gender roles/hierarchy/status quo. I love to question the status quo, create a different approach that let’s go of any form of hierarchy and focuses on full equanimity, I also am very fluid in my thinking in regards to gender patterns. To say it blund: my mom is a beautiful cis gendered woman, married to a wonderful man in a very fashionable house and a very committed and devoted employee, mom and friend. I am a nomadic queer hippie striving for an utopian world vision. Poor mom. Haha. Often we do not understand each other’s world vision but we love each other a lot.
Excelente información, por lo general en LATAM no se usan estos términos tan eficientes. Me gusta la forma en que lo explicas, todo tiene mucho sentido gracias por compartir.
Since you said that ENFJ and ISTP are pretty compatible in a previous video, may you make a video on it? My husband is ENFJ, and I’m an ISTP. His love towards me is amazing, and I appreciate the balance in our personalities. I want to learn why we mesh so well, because we do. I just don’t know how to explain it. Thank you!
As an ENFJ I want to see this as well! I have never met an ISTP female before but I know I value my INTP mentor as a great ally but I sometimes wish she had the same observing functions as well.
Who fixes stuff around the house?
@@nateo200 most likely an ISFJ mistyped...
One of you is mistyped
Oh love it- spot on, thank you 🙏 It’s always amazed me that people don’t get it- that ex. As ENFJ I feel closer to INFJ than ESFJ, actually to be honest: except that Fe business- we are literally day and night, it’s unreal! And it’s always the same story: start all ok and than bang- wall! They totally don’t get my viewpoint 😔so much to tell there but.. I better not 😉🤫😬
And you always use exclamation points way more! 😛 (ENTP)
Thanks for uploading this resource, it was very useful to understand the differences
Another point to pinpoint is how the Auxiliary Function and Tertiary Function engages with the other personality type
i.e.: ENFJ uses Ni as Auxiliary F. and sucks at Si so bad, which is ESFJ Auxiliary Function
The same happens with ESFJ with Ni, the Auxiliary Function of ENFJ, they are usually struggles with it
ISTP vs ISTJ?
Average loner vs average nerd
neat
Which is Taylor Swift?
She is isfj
There's no way she is introverted lol @@Infjwizard