Thank god for Maurice standing up for his mother. So many men now a days would throw their mother under the bus for the sake of upraising an absent father
*Pay attention to **7:21**. Those brothers are SO CLOSE that they actually moved the same way. I hope & pray they can get the healing they need 🙏🏽Thank GOD for their grandmother*
Medley Sr. is an enigma. He showed no emotion towards the two boys whom he found out were his sons; he continued to blame their mom instead of apologizing for not showing up in their lives when they needed him most. Yet, he cried profusely when he learned that the "daughter" wasn't his child. Those contrasting reactions just reinforce how disposable & neglected a lot of young Black men are.
@@sc6the yeah, I agree. Black women and children are often made to feel disposable as well. Parents need to do better in teaching children how to value themselves. It’s hard when you only have one of the two parents doing that though.
@@sc6the Because THESE are Black men like I am. I prioritize Black men's issues, and I don't apologize for centering Black men in a world that often doesn't. Problem? If you want to center someone else, feel free to do so on your own post.
He wasn't happy or apologetic to the boys for being their father and denying hem, but he's sad that a daughter he never knew he had isn't really his. HUH??!!! 🤔 WTAF??!!! 😳
when they were all hugging like they were a big family almost brought me to tears then Lauren Lake starts crying that got me just proves that she cares about people who come on her show and it's heartbreaking for her seeing all these families break down and she has to deal with that never thought of that until I seen that tear role down her face such a great women
These 2 really needed their father's hug, their mother did a great job of raising them. I believe very many people did felling love like me with these young people. I wish them all that all the best things that life can offer.
Sad part with the first one he claimed her & not his own biological son’s. She wasn’t even his but he had so much love for her. His priorities are backwards
Mr. Medley Sr. is so rude. I don't understand how can be so cold toward kids that he now knows ARE his kids. He shouldn't have said anything negative about their mom. He should have done the right thing years ago to get a blood/DNA test.
The lady at 15:14 made the same face I made 😂 I’m guessing Pops was in love with the woman’s Mother and wasn’t really into the guys’ mother, just married her because Pastor encouraged him to. Tambout “I’ll be your Dad if you want me to, it’s your choice, no pressure” Meanwhile he didn’t hug his flesh and blood until prompted. Weird 🤔
To be honest this 1st case really got to me. If we would just live the way we are suppose to none of this type of stuff would exist. Women only sleep with your husbands and men only sleep with your wives.
What are u even talking about, the sons said their father is lying and their mother didn't sleep around and she had kids with him because she loved him.
This man knew it was his child and for his other children mother to stand beside him and say that child is not his really hurt girl be careful it could around to you
Those two young men in the first case really moved me. I could feel their pain but I also loved how they stuck together. They even stood up to support the young lady even though the result was negative. Upstanding gentlemen those two! I hope they’re well!
Ms. Jarquin needs to take some accountability in this. Why is she having kids out of wedlock. She already has three kids from a previous relationship. If she already knew it was hard to be single mom, why did she decide to MAKE MORE CHILDREN??!!??
Medley was a band player sleeping with groupies. Then he cuts up the mother who took 4 weeks to even approach him. He obviously noticed during those 4 weeks she wasn't with a man.
These cases are the hardest. It makes you tear up to hear these adults talking about the pain they went through. I knew this man didn’t say if your mother weren’t so promiscuous. He seems like the promiscuous one!
Even if that was his daughter.... IT'S NOT HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX HEY VAN. Where is the baby father? Why isn't she getting help from the state. Why do adult children.... Expect their parents to take care of THEIR children???
I can understand a man not respecting a woman , he slept with the first day, I get it. But unprotected? Bro, if a woman has access to your seed , you may not be as special as you think 🤫 , that's your lineage. I hope the brother talks to the sister also because if you can't afford a baby, aleast, save for contraceptive , no way your brother should be making such big sacrifices for his sister who is old enough to know better.
This man speaks bad about his wife, the mother of his sons YET he himself is so confident that HE slept and impregnanted another woman who is not his wife?!?! He shows no emotion or claims his children from his wife but a woman comes out of nowhere that he never knew of but directly claims her??? What is going on?? This is so outraging, may god heal these brothers hearts and guide them towards peace and healing.
I don't understand how he denied his 2 sons from his marriage but accepted the daughter with no question initially from a woman he didn't even have a relationship with or any idea existed
He thought she was his daughter and showed emotion yet he denied those two men? Also he's calling the one mom Promiscuous yet he's the one who got two different women pregnant.
I’m sorry but In the 1st case, he don’t have to give no 30 year old money or buy her a van like huhh??? Girl you wanted to cut off your dad cause of him not sending you money????
The second case- shout out to her brother, but at what point is he gone sit and have an adult conversation with his sister. Clearly she out here doing whatever and whoever. How they keep speaking like she didn't have 3 children before the 4th, like she wasn't struggling before the 4th baby. The struggle with the 3 should of mad her sit down and cross her legs, or use protection.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
If your married you can still love kids even if their step kids. These men know they're the father and are making excuses to leave the marriage and family and responsibilities to have fun selfishly.
This young lady acting like Mr Medley owes her something. That man really loves her and turns out she ain’t even his kid. I don’t think he’s a bad guy I think he really didn’t know
Basing parentage on looks is ridiculous. If there is any doubt, get a DNA test and don’t wait. The child deserves two parents from the beginning not after months or years of fighting.
1st case: Daughter even said she's only 5 months older than her brother along with her mother forbidding her to call him after telling her he's her father was because she knew she was lying to her face. All of that speaks to the Mom being a promiscuous liar that caused the father's legit reason to doubt they were his. LOOKS AND FEATURES regardless how much you think you look so much alike, PROVES NOTHING.
5:10 - I remember I was about one and I remember being at the hospital and I remember somebody picking me up... Woman in the audience: 👀 LOL at this guy thinking he can remember events in his life when he was just a one-year-old baby.
After all this time Medley cannot take responsibility for his disgusting actions... Still blaming it on the mom. This person has nothing to add to these men's lives. He is not a Dad or a father
That medely senior he been knew thoseboys were his but that’s how those men are run away from their responsibilities, that’s why a lot a times these men when they are old homeless and alone I don’t want to give them anything. Sometimes they have to face their destiny they end up alone.
I find it so baffling when he says I counted back 12 weeks and we had only known each other 10 weeks. Idk if its different in the US but here in the UK you're always about 2 weeks pregnant before you're even pregnant due to they way they're dated
What a messed up irony! He claimed the girl who turned out not to be his and disowned the guys who turned out to be his. Now he’s hurt! I’m curious as to the “really bad something” that happened between him and the young lady’s mom though. Lord have mercy!
Maybe the results of the daughter hurt him because he was actually in love with her mom and the first wife was more of an obligation or expectation from the church
I really hate to say it, but I am afraid that this man will disappoint these boys again. I sense something dangerous about this man. I hope I am wrong.
I had a father who was physically present but never did anything for me, i had biological brothers and sisters,i have plenty step sisters and plenty step sisters, my father didn't deny me, infact of all his children i stand out for having his striking resemblance even outsiders say so. I loved him till death, he doed 22yrs ago, if I die I will ask him why he treated me so poorly
Thank god for Maurice standing up for his mother. So many men now a days would throw their mother under the bus for the sake of upraising an absent father
*Pay attention to **7:21**. Those brothers are SO CLOSE that they actually moved the same way. I hope & pray they can get the healing they need 🙏🏽Thank GOD for their grandmother*
Wow I didn't even notice that. I had to go back and watch it.❤️
Wow
I peeped that TOO! I got the same Timestamp on my comment. Great minds…we both saw that energy. Wow 🤩
Yeees ! I also noticed that in the beginning they even spoke in the same time 0:21 and 0:28 . 🤷🏾♀️
I saw that and was like wow 😳❤️
7:21 😮Look how they both moved and shifted their weight in unison when the judge asked if he had anything to say to them. Genetics are something else.
Genetics 🧬 wow 😯
Came to say the same thing
Medley Sr. is an enigma. He showed no emotion towards the two boys whom he found out were his sons; he continued to blame their mom instead of apologizing for not showing up in their lives when they needed him most. Yet, he cried profusely when he learned that the "daughter" wasn't his child. Those contrasting reactions just reinforce how disposable & neglected a lot of young Black men are.
why only black men?
@@sc6the yeah, I agree. Black women and children are often made to feel disposable as well. Parents need to do better in teaching children how to value themselves. It’s hard when you only have one of the two parents doing that though.
@@sc6the Because THESE are Black men like I am. I prioritize Black men's issues, and I don't apologize for centering Black men in a world that often doesn't. Problem? If you want to center someone else, feel free to do so on your own post.
@@giascott-heron Sleeping around with multiple men is just not good for the relationship. No real man will stay around combative promiscuous women.
Not sure what's confusing, it's clear he was shocked in both cases. He really believed the sonsweren't his, and really believed the daughter was his.
He denied the boys who are his and agreed to the girl who is not his. What a world.
how you like that his intuition was off
He wasn't happy or apologetic to the boys for being their father and denying hem, but he's sad that a daughter he never knew he had isn't really his. HUH??!!! 🤔 WTAF??!!! 😳
He probably did something real bad to her mama
I'm so sorry for the boys.
Happy
That's what I said girl omg
when they were all hugging like they were a big family almost brought me to tears then Lauren Lake starts crying that got me just proves that she cares about people who come on her show and it's heartbreaking for her seeing all these families break down and she has to deal with that never thought of that until I seen that tear role down her face such a great women
That's why I like watching her show, she has compassion for people.
These 2 really needed their father's hug, their mother did a great job of raising them. I believe very many people did felling love like me with these young people. I wish them all that all the best things that life can offer.
blaming everyone but himself 💀
Struggling to get by yet keeps having babies...makes sense.
That's what they do
I will never understand ….
He throwing that sausage around....😂😂
Exactly then cry about.
Mr.Diaz is one wonderful man for helping his sister.
She needs to help herself.
@@kingdjack6 very true!
Her brother has nothing to say about his sister having a fourth child with no way to support herself??
It’s amazing how God sent the grandmother to show those kids some love when they weren’t getting it.
I feel for these young men I could tell they've been through so much
They need to jump his lame self 😂
Sad part with the first one he claimed her & not his own biological son’s. She wasn’t even his but he had so much love for her. His priorities are backwards
Male self hatred and why so many black boys are full of anger.
Aaaaaaaaaamen @@ingramjustin7298.....it is so sad 😢
Mr. Medley Sr. is so rude. I don't understand how can be so cold toward kids that he now knows ARE his kids. He shouldn't have said anything negative about their mom. He should have done the right thing years ago to get a blood/DNA test.
Easy to say this after the results. It was evidently more complex than we probably understand
Exactly.
Anything negative? He was obviously right about the mom sleeping around. He also clearly stated the grandma wouldn't let him get a DNA.
A deadbeat is a deadbeat is always a deadbeat. Always have an excuse to believe it's someone else's fault.
Exactly. He was in the household and married to their mother when they were born but yet it's like he hated them
Last case, mum has no money, already has three kids, BUT has no problem getting a 4th child with somebody else outside wedlock
The lady at 15:14 made the same face I made 😂
I’m guessing Pops was in love with the woman’s Mother and wasn’t really into the guys’ mother, just married her because Pastor encouraged him to.
Tambout “I’ll be your Dad if you want me to, it’s your choice, no pressure” Meanwhile he didn’t hug his flesh and blood until prompted.
Weird 🤔
I agree ☝🏾. He loved her mom . She was the one that got away
He’s rolling his eyes as he hugged them
I didn’t see that. I think he’s just too proud. His pride won’t let him bring his walls down. 🤷🏻♀️
Love the way he defending his mom God bless him ❤
To be honest this 1st case really got to me. If we would just live the way we are suppose to none of this type of stuff would exist. Women only sleep with your husbands and men only sleep with your wives.
Amen to that
What are u even talking about, the sons said their father is lying and their mother didn't sleep around and she had kids with him because she loved him.
You are so right 🙏🏿
Very true!
Facts
You know when a man cry, he really hurting inside 😔
💯
Broke my Heart !
This man knew it was his child and for his other children mother to stand beside him and say that child is not his really hurt girl be careful it could around to you
Not all tears are real! Some men can cry to fool those watching!
I love when the children say "that's a lie" about their parents deeds before they were born...like how do u know???
Those two young men in the first case really moved me. I could feel their pain but I also loved how they stuck together. They even stood up to support the young lady even though the result was negative. Upstanding gentlemen those two! I hope they’re well!
Ms. Jarquin needs to take some accountability in this. Why is she having kids out of wedlock. She already has three kids from a previous relationship. If she already knew it was hard to be single mom, why did she decide to MAKE MORE CHILDREN??!!??
The judge isn't gonna let her do that. She was already sleeping around before she met him anyway and to tell you the truth I bet she still is
Because marriage stops cheating? Because marriage keeps people faithful? lol
@@genericpersonality People like you are lowering the standards in our great country with your lack of morals and standards. 🗑️
These are grown men with this pain. I'll never put my kids through this like me and my brother had to go through and are still going through.
When Lauren “goes” I ain’t holding back either.
Medley was a band player sleeping with groupies. Then he cuts up the mother who took 4 weeks to even approach him. He obviously noticed during those 4 weeks she wasn't with a man.
Great point. If took her 4weeks to approach him that means she was reserved / serious.
Ms. Jarquin has a awesome brother!
In the first case, Bitterness and pain reloaded here ,but finally , I like how judge you said the power of love and forgiveness
These cases are the hardest. It makes you tear up to hear these adults talking about the pain they went through. I knew this man didn’t say if your mother weren’t so promiscuous. He seems like the promiscuous one!
I'm writing a book on how I was denied my father. Everything done in the dark will come to the light.
Good on you 🎉🎉🎉
Thumbs up to her brother in the second segment
When the judge said Mr Burns, you are the father…. he actually puts his tongue out !!!
Even if that was his daughter.... IT'S NOT HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX HEY VAN. Where is the baby father? Why isn't she getting help from the state. Why do adult children.... Expect their parents to take care of THEIR children???
Looks like Mr. Medley wants to be her father but not his boys. Oh that pain on their faces made me cry. The same thing happened to my kids
A guy in my family wanted boys so he ignored the girls he had. He catered to the boys. People are strange.
I have absolutely no sympathy for women who are struggling raising children on their own and keep on having more children.. make it make sense.
Mr Diaz your amazing, God bless you and your family.
I can understand a man not respecting a woman , he slept with the first day, I get it. But unprotected? Bro, if a woman has access to your seed , you may not be as special as you think 🤫 , that's your lineage. I hope the brother talks to the sister also because if you can't afford a baby, aleast, save for contraceptive , no way your brother should be making such big sacrifices for his sister who is old enough to know better.
I can tell u her brother was tired of her actions as well but he took his anger out on the defendant.
@Urkel Salone (Urkel Beatz) shameful .
A man should respect a woman at all times. Otherwise he's not a man. Period.
@@SimonaShine woman can't even respect themselves
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 maybe those you met had very low standards so that they could be with you
I kinda have no sympathy for ppl struggling but continue to have babies. 4 kids??? And the other woman 3 kids by 21. WOW
This country needs mandatory sterilization.
Zero sympathy.
You make a video about things being tough yet you're having a 4th child?!!
People who are well to do have 2 or 3 max!
The brother in the second case is the real MVP. Also, dude knew he was that baby’s father. He needs to grow up!
Mr. Diaz is a good brother and he FINE too 😍
Mr.Diaz sooo handsome and his character 😍😍 makes him even more fine.
This man speaks bad about his wife, the mother of his sons YET he himself is so confident that HE slept and impregnanted another woman who is not his wife?!?! He shows no emotion or claims his children from his wife but a woman comes out of nowhere that he never knew of but directly claims her??? What is going on?? This is so outraging, may god heal these brothers hearts and guide them towards peace and healing.
I don't understand how he denied his 2 sons from his marriage but accepted the daughter with no question initially from a woman he didn't even have a relationship with or any idea existed
He thought she was his daughter and showed emotion yet he denied those two men? Also he's calling the one mom Promiscuous yet he's the one who got two different women pregnant.
Always baffles me how strangers can rawdog in their first encounter
I’m sorry but In the 1st case, he don’t have to give no 30 year old money or buy her a van like huhh??? Girl you wanted to cut off your dad cause of him not sending you money????
Ask her "Where is your husband?" 😂
The second case- shout out to her brother, but at what point is he gone sit and have an adult conversation with his sister. Clearly she out here doing whatever and whoever. How they keep speaking like she didn't have 3 children before the 4th, like she wasn't struggling before the 4th baby. The struggle with the 3 should of mad her sit down and cross her legs, or use protection.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
And she was grinning when we saw how it couldnt be his...She knew what she was doing
If your married you can still love kids even if their step kids. These men know they're the father and are making excuses to leave the marriage and family and responsibilities to have fun selfishly.
This young lady acting like Mr Medley owes her something. That man really loves her and turns out she ain’t even his kid. I don’t think he’s a bad guy I think he really didn’t know
Awesome guy in Mr. Diaz. Selfless! 🙌
It’s the young man that’s talking about morals and values for me ❤
This mane said he remember when he was 1
Ironically the 3 claimants have the same eye shape as the dependant.
I understand that was supposed to be your dad but where the baby dad?
This first man is inhuman he doesn't know how to love he doesn't deserve a hug from his son's.
The "drummer dad" is a deadbeat.
😂😂😂😂a baby done want watch a movie yes judge😂😂😂😂😂😂
I've been binging all these episodes for weeks. Everytime a girl gets so worked up and starts clicking her acrylic nails on the podium kills me.
Basing parentage on looks is ridiculous. If there is any doubt, get a DNA test and don’t wait. The child deserves two parents from the beginning not after months or years of fighting.
15:26 the kids he rejected turns out to to his and the one he acknowledged isn’t his. 😂 what a leap of karma
1st case: Daughter even said she's only 5 months older than her brother along with her mother forbidding her to call him after telling her he's her father was because she knew she was lying to her face. All of that speaks to the Mom being a promiscuous liar that caused the father's legit reason to doubt they were his. LOOKS AND FEATURES regardless how much you think you look so much alike, PROVES NOTHING.
He was talking about his wife the mother of the children that were his. But the one that wasn't he wants to be so much and told her he still is
The weeks of pregnancy are counted from the first day of your last period so that would account for the extra two weeks
Sue medley for years of back support. Blaming mom when it was him not her. He never apologized. Those kids shouldn't forgive. They don't need him
The first episode...Woman shouting the old man w/out respect..and the result?You are not his daughter..deep pain🤧😢
5:10 - I remember I was about one and I remember being at the hospital and I remember somebody picking me up...
Woman in the audience: 👀
LOL at this guy thinking he can remember events in his life when he was just a one-year-old baby.
Mr. Diaz is truly handsome🫡😇
My goodness, this one made me cry.
What school is teaching children to say “ax” vs. “ask”
thank you! it annoys me so much when people say ax instead of ask.
Thank you thank you!!! It drives me crazy!!! Why?? Is it that hard to say ask?
He had the nerve to talk about the boy's mother being promiscuous. However, he's here for 3 kids with 2 different women.
His wrongs don't erase hers
@Jay Lue never said it did. However, he was the promiscuous one while he's pointing fingers.
He was taking the pichers to figer it out when he is by him self😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your daddy ain't responsible for your kids transportation though ma'am. Where is their father?
I didn't want to say it but you're correct 😂
After all this time Medley cannot take responsibility for his disgusting actions... Still blaming it on the mom. This person has nothing to add to these men's lives. He is not a Dad or a father
Why she have a baby if she couldn't afford it doesn't matke sense
You could ask the same to the father. Thats why you need a parental figure so they can make sure you don't make the same mistakes as they did.
This give me chills 💔
That medely senior he been knew thoseboys were his but that’s how those men are run away from their responsibilities, that’s why a lot a times these men when they are old homeless and alone I don’t want to give them anything. Sometimes they have to face their destiny they end up alone.
This woman is a bit entitled
This just goes to show that even if you know who the father is, sleeping around with multiple men will always have consequences
But we don't know that that's the case here at least with the boys
🤨
Ya'll saw that lady @5:18 when the man said when he was 1. I'm crying lol. The lies.
I find it so baffling when he says I counted back 12 weeks and we had only known each other 10 weeks. Idk if its different in the US but here in the UK you're always about 2 weeks pregnant before you're even pregnant due to they way they're dated
3 children you should know better to use protection
yes, he's an idiot.
Typical for him to blame the mother and not take responsibility for his role, or lack thereof, with his sons.
She has a awesome brother
He was with his sister 24/7 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yet left her this guy care? 🤣🤣🤣
What a messed up irony! He claimed the girl who turned out not to be his and disowned the guys who turned out to be his. Now he’s hurt! I’m curious as to the “really bad something” that happened between him and the young lady’s mom though. Lord have mercy!
Maybe the results of the daughter hurt him because he was actually in love with her mom and the first wife was more of an obligation or expectation from the church
Exactly
It seems that way
Imagine,that she is asking her father for help,where is the child's father.
Both boys have his eyes
I'm shocked she isn't because she looks just like him & his sons. But I believe he did tell her about the check & she got mad
I really hate to say it, but I am afraid that this man will disappoint these boys again. I sense something dangerous about this man. I hope I am wrong.
They really need to jump him 😂
Morris said he remembers something that happened when hewas 1😮... I can barely remember what happened when I was 7
I had a father who was physically present but never did anything for me, i had biological brothers and sisters,i have plenty step sisters and plenty step sisters, my father didn't deny me, infact of all his children i stand out for having his striking resemblance even outsiders say so.
I loved him till death, he doed 22yrs ago, if I die I will ask him why he treated me so poorly
“You showed who ?”🤣🤣
There mom raised great men glad they know there father's
She has a great brother.
Where are these women’s self respect? Standing by a man that has clearly cheated and is showing no remorse for it.
She doesn't look 21
Edwin your such a Manny man!!❤️❤️❤️
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