Qualities in my child: | Urdu | | Professor DR Javed Iqbal |

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    Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
    He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
    Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

Комментарии • 144

  • @zohraimam6597
    @zohraimam6597 2 года назад +65

    حضرت نوح علیہ السلام کی اپنے بیٹے کی تربیت میں کیا کمی تھی کہ وہ ایمان سے محروم رہ گیا ۔ میرے خیال میں اپنے بچوں کی ھدایت کے لئے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ سے دعا بھی مانگتے رہیں کبھی بھی اپنے بچوں کو بددعا نہ دیں ۔

    • @noshihash616
      @noshihash616 2 года назад

      Nice one

    • @zohraimam6597
      @zohraimam6597 2 года назад +2

      @@ansar512 But they are also human .

    • @levicodm1961
      @levicodm1961 2 года назад

      usk tarbiyat maa ny k ti maa he ghlt ti to aagy ap kia expect krengi bhen

    • @MuhammadZainAli-j9y
      @MuhammadZainAli-j9y 4 месяца назад +1

      Sir Hazrat Noah ahly Sallam khud sy satisfied thy k unho ny apni responsibility nibhai ,ab ya b aik Sach Hy k hidyat Allah pak k hath MN Hy ,or hidyat ka talbgar b hona pry ga , hm parents ki duty krn baqi bachon ki talb or Allah pak ki rehmt ki Dua

  • @theessenceofsunrukh5911
    @theessenceofsunrukh5911 2 года назад +11

    Zaberdast I am speechless jitni tareef ki jaiye km hei Sir ap ki....Thanks alot for helping meto finding the right path..I am having two kidds I used to watch these kind of videos and love them to implement

  • @iqrarafaqat4444
    @iqrarafaqat4444 2 года назад

    Sir ka andazy biya bht alaw h bht clear bt krty h Allah jaza dy ameen

  • @umarvlogs7803
    @umarvlogs7803 2 года назад

    Great effort Sir
    ALLAH pak aap ko jaza dy Ameen

  • @aymenmirza7441
    @aymenmirza7441 2 года назад

    Thank a lot Sir another great lecture.. Thank God mein already bachy ko batati rehti Hon agar kuch ghalat kerta hai tu ussay kehti Hon k aisay nai karo ye Allah ko accha nai lagta kahin ussay chot lag Jaye tu kehti Hon k Allah se dua karo theek ho jaye ga dard.

  • @rashdasana9008
    @rashdasana9008 2 года назад

    ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب

  • @MuhammadAli-ic2pc
    @MuhammadAli-ic2pc 2 года назад

    MA"SHA"ALLAH bht khob sir

  • @arsalanhasnoon3504
    @arsalanhasnoon3504 Год назад

    1.religious
    2.confidence
    3.creativity
    4.self reliant

  • @hilalurrahman6746
    @hilalurrahman6746 2 года назад

    love you from India Kerala sir💚💚💚🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @qissaghar9289
    @qissaghar9289 2 года назад +2

    Doctor Sahib nay shirk wali koi baat nhi ki.un k sunnay walon may doseray mazahib k log b ho sktay hain.minorites ko nahi bhulna chaheye baat krtay huwae.woh b pakistani hi hain

  • @muhdabdullah8720
    @muhdabdullah8720 2 года назад

    sir i agree with you bus agr bchy ko deen islam k rasty pr la kr chly gy to parents b skon ma rhy gy future hudi bn jaye ga deen sa jory bchon ko baki sb ho jaye ga

  • @aminabarkat7552
    @aminabarkat7552 2 года назад

    Verry verry nice lecture

  • @huzaifaaslam1273
    @huzaifaaslam1273 2 года назад

    Dr. Sb, Tremendous

  • @aminabarkat7552
    @aminabarkat7552 2 года назад

    Ager waodain mai ya qualities na hun tu pher kia bachy b nakaam he hun gy ya k khud k apni will power sa change b kr sakyn gy

  • @MuhammadAli-ob9ub
    @MuhammadAli-ob9ub 2 года назад

    aoa sir
    plz guide how to treat an ADHD child! it has 3 types. mine is moderate ADHD hyperactive kind. and she is very stubborn. plz guide how to treat this kind and others as well. jazakallah

  • @suhailmalik1710
    @suhailmalik1710 2 года назад

    Dr Sab full lacture upload

  • @eer123
    @eer123 2 года назад

    Bacho Jo karta phiry bs PTi ko support na karta ho to Acha bacha hai

  • @amjadhussain1268
    @amjadhussain1268 2 года назад

    What is the purpose of this bakwas speech

  • @ahmadhassan7370
    @ahmadhassan7370 2 года назад +5

    1-خالق حقیقی سے بنیادی تعلق
    2-حقیقی اعتماد
    3-تخلیقی سوچ
    4-خود کی ذمہ داری اٹھانے والا
    ●سانچہ

  • @zakiahmad7596
    @zakiahmad7596 2 года назад +7

    ماشاءاللہ ہماری زندگی میں آپ کی باتوں سے بہت بڑی تبدیلی آئی ہے

  • @MegaShai
    @MegaShai 2 года назад +14

    Doctor Sab. please share more lectures on understanding teenage minds..
    how to deal with them..
    how to develop a real- genuine bonding with a teenager
    bcoz my experience is my teenagers show love only when they need something from us, like permission or money.... its fake love....they show... it hurts me more😢

    • @sumairavirk1466
      @sumairavirk1466 2 года назад

      U should keep them away from screen...mobile is dangerous soooo dangerous u can't imagine kese ye bachon k mind unki feeling ko khtm kr rha...unk Dil aur mind ma real feeling ATI e nhi

  • @funandinformation3602
    @funandinformation3602 2 года назад +19

    السلام علیکم بہت ہی عمدہ اور پیارے ہوتے ہیں وہ لوگ جو بغیر کسی مقصد کے لوگوں کی مدد کرتے ہیں اللہ ایسے لوگوں کی نیک و صالح اولاد دے ان کے والدین کو سلامت رکھے اور حج بیت اللہ کا طواف نصیب فرمائے n

  • @engrazharali2048
    @engrazharali2048 2 года назад +7

    دین اسلام سے بچے کا مضبوط تعلق ہی اس کی دنیا و آخرت اچھی بنا سکتا ہے۔

  • @hassnainabid3193
    @hassnainabid3193 2 года назад +3

    Dr sb,
    Earlier i was educating my child who is 7 year old now alhamdulilah, now he asking me if our Creator is ALLAH, who created ALLAH? if he exists i want to see and meet him.
    Please educate parents about how to tackle this situation.

  • @shaharena2278
    @shaharena2278 2 года назад +3

    Good
    i would like to sum up one
    point a child must be able to face failures.
    A brilliant boy was stying in one of the polytechnic. he committed suicide because he failed in one paper, Physics, one of his favourite subject. After his death his parents got he backlog paper rechecked... he came up as topper of his batch.... had he have ability to face failure he could have survived

  • @saqibhasan8479
    @saqibhasan8479 2 года назад +4

    100% agree with you sir . ALLAH pak apko jaza e khair dey . Pakistan k bachon k sath sath maa , baap khasoosan maaon ki tarbiat ki zaroorat hai, jaisa k app kr rehey hain . Iss zamaney ki achi saholiat sey faida utha te huwe humey chahiye k app ki ye lecture her school k parents day per walidain ko suwana chahiye. Thanks alot sir. ALLAH pak app sath sath hum sab ko tandrust o khush rakhein ameen

  • @sudaiskhan5337
    @sudaiskhan5337 2 года назад +4

    Mdcat registeration start from 25th May guys

  • @hummingmaths2763
    @hummingmaths2763 2 года назад +1

    Afssos
    I can give u only one like

  • @zainabsiamwala9976
    @zainabsiamwala9976 2 года назад +1

    As Salam walekum... I am pregnant and what I can see is all this 4 qualities are missing in me, so how can we develop those qualities in us???

  • @rakeshpathak1219
    @rakeshpathak1219 2 года назад +14

    Great knowledge of human and child psychology at the practical level. Lecture, a must for every patent.
    Society is moving in an undesired direction, at large and there is hardly anyone to propel the same in the direction required.
    Many thanks for sharing such a great n valuable information.

  • @qissaghar9289
    @qissaghar9289 2 года назад +5

    Please keep uploading such content

  • @kazifatima9536
    @kazifatima9536 2 года назад

    r sir hum ny abny bachy ko mobile cartoons tv se door rakha hua h hum jtna kr sakty hn kiya hua h r hmara bacha jo sunta h wo foran repeat krta h qk abhi usny bolna shuru kiya h

  • @sadiasultan5123
    @sadiasultan5123 2 года назад +3

    4 qualities to be seen in our children
    1. Firm belief and strong relationship with creater
    2. Confidence
    3, self reliance according to age.
    4. Ceartivity

  • @fatimazehra2664
    @fatimazehra2664 2 года назад +1

    السلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ سر جی
    پلیز پلیز تفصیل سے بتائیں کہ کانفیڈنٹ ،بولڈ، اور بدتمیز بدزبان ان سب میں کیا فرق ہے
    میرے خیال میں آج کے والدین ،اساتذہ اور بچے سب کنفیوز ہیں

  • @8abid
    @8abid 2 года назад +3

    MA! Zaberdast school of thought , Sir please give a tharrogh talk about how to manage pier pressure, familial pressure, socital pressure when one wants to follow what you just said. In other words how to combat the Rat Race which has become so normal in society that it is depleting everyone's resources to become human. Jazakallha

  • @jasminepandhare8866
    @jasminepandhare8866 2 года назад

    Assalamualaikum wrwb sir m new subscriber...from India Mumbai...aap se 1 baar baat zroor krni hai Sir ..aap ki ijazat se zroor krungi baat

  • @caawiye98
    @caawiye98 2 года назад +2

    Its nice topic but its urdu translation.
    Its better to get like this top as English translation.
    Thanks doctor iqbal for your quality content uploading.

  • @akramizna3464
    @akramizna3464 Год назад

    Asslam o alaikum sir v nice lecture... Mri beti 10 years ki h us m ye 2 qualities Nhi hn realigned and creative nh usko ksy change krun plzzzz guide kryn gy ap

  • @irfanhussain4248
    @irfanhussain4248 2 года назад +2

    Exactly 💯 sir .allah apko apni hefzo amaan me rakhay .. Ameeen

  • @rashidsubhani9908
    @rashidsubhani9908 2 года назад +2

    Great speech and valuable information for parents. May Allah Pak bless you more Dr sb

  • @SabaKhan-sy8zf
    @SabaKhan-sy8zf 5 месяцев назад

    100/ percent drust fermaya Dr.Saheb

  • @fouziaamir9790
    @fouziaamir9790 2 года назад +3

    Great and impressive. you made me learn a lot about parenting. Thanks very much for highlighting good aspects of behaviour we need to appreciate instead of marks.

  • @monamaryam7332
    @monamaryam7332 2 года назад

    CONNECTION
    CONFIDENT
    With right reasons
    FAILURE
    PROBLEM SOLVED
    SELF ALIGNED
    Bas kero

  • @nayyaranoor7180
    @nayyaranoor7180 2 года назад

    Kon sy parents aisa krty hain ,intelligent ho bucha or batameez bhi to us k muqably me average study krny wala ho or obedient , to obedient he a cha lg ta ha ,

  • @SabaKhan-sy8zf
    @SabaKhan-sy8zf 5 месяцев назад

    Noah A . S ki tarbiat ma Kami nahi thi Allah tala ka fermaan ha keh waladain apni zimadari pori Karain aik age tak hum unki tarbiat ker sakta hain but Ager hamari Aulad ma sa koi bhatak jae to hum mukkallif nahi haan hum unka lia doa ker sakta aisi Aazmaish hamarey prophets per a chuki hain isi lia Aulad aur maal ko Aazmaish kaha gea ha

  • @yaseenimradkhan7663
    @yaseenimradkhan7663 2 года назад

    Sir ap ki sab baty teek. Likn lecture mujy incomplete lag Raha hai. Ab ye sab jis bachy ko nae mily wo bacha ab kia kry

  • @sameenathaseen3023
    @sameenathaseen3023 2 года назад +1

    Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatahu sir please teanag bachon k mind ko kaise samjhe

  • @sohailarain6002
    @sohailarain6002 6 месяцев назад

    Religion ka bara ma ap ka ya kahna ka jis ka jo bhi kudah ha woh usah jantah ho yaha ap na bohot bari galti ki ap ko ya kahna chahiya tha Allah sa ristha joroh ham muslim ha or hamrah farz ha ka Allah ka wahid hona ki gawahi dana

  • @humeraazam6297
    @humeraazam6297 2 года назад +2

    Assalamo alaikum sir great speech always, I need some practical experiences how to improve emotional intelligence among student s,please if can you can guide.thank you

  • @______-rd6ot
    @______-rd6ot 2 года назад

    اسلامی اُصولوں پر تربیت ضروری ہے ، صلاحيت ہوگی تو بچہ دُنیاوی معاملات میں خود راستے تلاش کرلے گا٠٠ ان شاء اللہ

  • @anikarafiq4704
    @anikarafiq4704 2 года назад +1

    Qualities of a child
    1. Bazurg e khuda berter
    2. Confident
    3. Self reliant
    4. Creative

  • @khalidzaman5331
    @khalidzaman5331 2 года назад

    میں اپنے بچوں کو کہتا ہوں جنتی آدمی کا پروگرام دیکھا آپ ہر پروگرام میں الله تعالٰی سے قریب ہونے کادرس دیتے ہیں اللہ تعالٰی آپ کو عجر دے

  • @lifewithmirha3836
    @lifewithmirha3836 2 года назад

    Well-done sir ap se bat kesay ho Sakti ha

  • @madihajaved3291
    @madihajaved3291 2 года назад

    Aslam o alaikum!
    Sir AGR bcho k parents ma ya sari qualities na hon...... To WO apny bchy ma kis trha ya sb qualities develop kren. Mary puchny ka mtlb ya hy k hmary parents ny hamari tarbiat krty huy in sb chezo ka khayal nai rakha. WO simple thy uneducated thy. But agy hm an apny bcho ma tarbiat k lihaz sy ya kami nai chorna chahty to is k liy hm kya kren???
    Plz guide kren

  • @everydaywitharjumand
    @everydaywitharjumand 2 года назад

    No,I would always prefer k beshak parhai ma top na kry ...but ikhlaqiat mai top zroor kren mery bachy

  • @mubaraklawn
    @mubaraklawn 2 года назад +1

    MashaALLAH very nice topic

  • @syedaBatool5
    @syedaBatool5 2 года назад +2

    Excellent sir.
    Great job 💐

  • @elearning2432
    @elearning2432 2 года назад

    اسلام و علیکم
    سر میں اپنا چیک اپ کروانا چاہتا ہوں۔۔۔آپ کس جگہ معائنہ کرتے ہیں؟

  • @shabinaamin7993
    @shabinaamin7993 2 года назад +2

    Masha Allah

  • @Junaidbsc
    @Junaidbsc 2 года назад +3

    At 6th min you said "Aap ka Talluq Ek Khaliq se ho", then your are promoting shirk by telling Jesus and Budhu is also God.
    We have One Creator - Allah.
    All human beings is belongs to Allah.
    Allah is the Rub (provider, sustainer, cherisher) of all of us. We human being is single family. We don't have multiple God. Let us be clear in that while explaining.
    Jesus is a messenger.
    You please apologize and avoid in future.

    • @annamahmed7334
      @annamahmed7334 2 года назад +1

      You are absolutely right Sir
      But he must have multi audiance and he is addressing same way

  • @celltronix
    @celltronix 2 года назад

    that kid finally get gold medal in the end but dint end yet when is came in professional life he cant even talk with the boss with confidence and more shame he dint even know the work which i given to him coz all he read is just theory no pratical in practical life on other side of Muslim Jewish train different methode due to that just few thousand control whole world which we understand Iqbal more clearly then any footballer

  • @samiraally6041
    @samiraally6041 2 года назад

    Sir even I feel lost n confused at time

  • @ahslodhran
    @ahslodhran 2 года назад +1

    Excellent message
    Allah bless you dear sir

  • @yasmeenshahzad8748
    @yasmeenshahzad8748 2 года назад

    MashAllah
    ALLAH BLESS YOU AND ME DUNIA AKHERAT KEE IZAT ATTA FERMAEN AMEEN

  • @umulbashar5066
    @umulbashar5066 2 года назад

    بچوں کو کم بولنے کے بجاےکم سننا سکھایں کم سنے گا تو کم نالج کی وجہ سے کم بولے گا
    شکریہ

  • @wajidali4430
    @wajidali4430 2 года назад +1

    masha ALLAH SIR
    masha ALLAH...

  • @diaryurdu4022
    @diaryurdu4022 2 года назад +3

    بلکل ٹھیک فرمایا ہے آپ نے جزاک اللّہ 👍🇩🇪🙏🇵🇰

  • @spookyraja9495
    @spookyraja9495 2 года назад

    Dr Sahab,Ap phly kidar day.kaash Aj say 18teen years phly ap ki videos hoty..

  • @salahudincheema4036
    @salahudincheema4036 2 года назад

    God bless you Dr, Sahab, almost 95'/' logon ko in baton ka ilm he nhe hota Jo ap hmse shere krty hen thanks allot keep it up .

  • @anilanaeem9298
    @anilanaeem9298 2 года назад

    ye sb qualities ham kasy pada kren buchy main jo apny bola k hmne buchy ko self confident banana chyea

  • @tryyourbestwithfaiza5993
    @tryyourbestwithfaiza5993 2 года назад

    MashaAllaha

  • @Fatima-rp2ew
    @Fatima-rp2ew 2 года назад

    ain apnay baitay ko studies or confideence kasa develope karoon

  • @neelam8075
    @neelam8075 2 года назад +3

    God bless you for your kind good deeds 🙏🙏

  • @mehndidesignbyredrose914
    @mehndidesignbyredrose914 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @roharoha9074
    @roharoha9074 2 года назад

    Ab bhot bhot pyari bty karty hn ma ap ki har video dakhti hn ap bhot pyary hn allah ap ko salamt rakhy

  • @daniadania5895
    @daniadania5895 2 года назад

    Sir apka online parenting course kab start ho rha h???

  • @salehanaeem1039
    @salehanaeem1039 2 года назад

    Assalam.o.alikum app ne is topic me parents ko kha hai agar parents no ho to phir un ke liye kia hal hai plz mujh batein

  • @MinaMirza836
    @MinaMirza836 2 года назад

    Dr sab mera bacha h 11 sal ka buht larrta h or ab tu jhoot b buht bolny lga h plz
    Advice me l m so worry 😢

  • @farzananajam2700
    @farzananajam2700 2 года назад

    It takes very long to understand better parenting and to develop a good human being. We just look at the visible achievements and success of this world. It is very sad to say that Parents like me and you will be proud if our son becomes a doctor :/

  • @greenvalley36
    @greenvalley36 2 года назад

    Luv from Kashmir

  • @samishkeel1268
    @samishkeel1268 2 года назад

    Sir you are a great man .but ab mera beta 8 years ka ho gya hy ap ab koi or 8 saal sy bary bachon k bhtri k lye progrm krn .Allah aap k zindgi mn brkt dy .

  • @neelam8075
    @neelam8075 2 года назад

    App paisa bnane ki teqnic nhi batate per app ek acche insaan kaise bne yeh sub se bari baatein hai 🙏🙏🙏

  • @abdulmanan-gf4rp
    @abdulmanan-gf4rp 2 года назад

    Very nice sir

  • @fakhraameen3239
    @fakhraameen3239 2 года назад

    Sir you have Great Personality
    Buhtt zbrdast knowledge.

  • @bachelorcooking2014
    @bachelorcooking2014 2 года назад

    Great 👍 Sir, kindly make a vedio that how should parents look like????

  • @daniadania5895
    @daniadania5895 2 года назад

    Bachy ka Khuda k 7 rabta mazboot kesy kraya jay?????

  • @ummabualimirza6618
    @ummabualimirza6618 2 года назад

    Assalamualaikum
    It’s incomplete video sir

  • @maimunanaz3596
    @maimunanaz3596 2 года назад

    Very informative video JazakAllah sir

  • @kazifatima9536
    @kazifatima9536 2 года назад

    assalm o alaikum sir apki jitni tareef ki jaye kam h sir plz mera jawab zarur dijiye ga
    wo perints kia kren jo joint family me rehty hn khud humara do sal ka bacha h jise hum buht akhlaq se bat krty hn lekin hmare ghr k baki bachon ki istarah koi tarbiyat nh hui buht bad akhlaq hn hum kitna b apny bachy ko uns door rakhen nh rakh sakty hum alag ghr b aford nh kr sakty ase me hum kia kren plz plz plz humari rahnumai kren hr wakt bachon ki pitai hoti rehti h wo buht galiyan nkalty hn hmara sirf ek he bacha h 21 sep ko do sal ka hoga

    • @bekind913
      @bekind913 2 года назад

      Ap apni koshish jari rakhen. Ap doosrey bacho ke samne apne bachey ko achi baat batatey rahen. Dunya me hur tarha ke log hotey hain. Ap apna acha ikhlaq na choren. In sha Allah ap ka bacha achi baten seekh jae ga

  • @kitchentaste7118
    @kitchentaste7118 2 года назад

    Assalamo alaikum janab bahut khoob

  • @shasa8131
    @shasa8131 2 года назад

    Perfect Mold is important in patenting.

  • @neelmashariq1293
    @neelmashariq1293 2 года назад

    Kindly download complte this vedio

  • @hilalurrahman6746
    @hilalurrahman6746 2 года назад

    please send me full lecture link...🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Agrim84
    @Agrim84 2 года назад +1

    Well said👍

  • @mrismail4756
    @mrismail4756 2 года назад

    Sir bucho ko depression se kese nikale

  • @sabinh628
    @sabinh628 2 года назад

    Ma'sha Allah.. bahat khoob

  • @Saadia1117
    @Saadia1117 2 года назад

    Barrie bat ha bilkul 💯 yahi ho Raha hai

  • @ume-ajwa8
    @ume-ajwa8 2 года назад

    ya cmplete video kaha sa milagi

  • @mrszakiurrehman9037
    @mrszakiurrehman9037 2 года назад

    May Allah forgive us and guide us

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 2 года назад

    Thank you so much .you are genius. Allah bless you .