How To Choose Your Ideal Spouse and Partner - Alpha Man Smart Woman

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

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  • @DanLok
    @DanLok  6 лет назад +54

    Enjoyed the video? Subscribe, Give it a Thumbs Up and Comment Below.
    (Dan actually reads EVERY single legit comment from his loyal fans)
    Don't like the video? If you would be so kind as to
    FUCK OFF, it would be very much appreciated.
    You don't have to watch any of Dan's videos.

    • @nubesanimationobjectchanne7006
      @nubesanimationobjectchanne7006 6 лет назад

      Dan Lok ,,,,thank u for the info,,,I was actually looking for help on defense,,,My ex,,I do fear him at times! He is locked up but I am tired of getting abused,,I am a single mother of 3, independent woman, always have been , but he put me down so bad, to the point I lost myself, I had to fight for my life several times!, I have scars inside n out!! My info is not on this account I am using a friend's alias! I will like to learn to defend myself from a man 2x my size! At the time I did practice karate and I worked out on a regular, but my soul hasn't found peace and I'm tired of having to feel like I have to defend myself when Ive been lost for sumtime! Relationships are no joke, I believe in forgiveness but I can't forget the trauma he put me thru, I'll keep in touch thank you, and I love to be a fighter than a week lost victim! I wanna know what love is but my guard is up and I have trust issues! I have to love me but who am I now that I'm lost in my past! I'm tough but in my own way, and I'd like to find my strength again! Also sorry to throw this in but your friend in the video has this look that I seen his eyes caught my eye, he reminds me of love I can't say as in a brother way or as a friend I just seen his inner peace and I recognize it right away, even without knowing him! Um well thank you again!

    • @nubesanimationobjectchanne7006
      @nubesanimationobjectchanne7006 6 лет назад

      Dan Lok , My info is on FB or messanger under Monica Perez, N.M. I will watch the rest of your success and advice on my account! Thank u again!

    • @frankayer6463
      @frankayer6463 6 лет назад

      Dan I feel you brother. I am a business guy and My is a gamer and comic designer. To different people. But we make it work. Lol

    • @tasnadireka
      @tasnadireka 6 лет назад +1

      Dan Lok Very good point with the list, me and my husband got to know each other while both of us were looking for someone to get married. we are not allowed to have a relationship before marriage due to religious reasons so it was very important to ask questions to see if we can work together as a couple, if we share the same principles and values. I believe this is very important to have a strong relationship so you can achieve more with a supportive partner who understand your needs on both sides.

    • @primabintang5524
      @primabintang5524 6 лет назад

      thank you so much for all of your videos Dan Lok

  • @AmanVarmaa
    @AmanVarmaa 6 лет назад +116

    The way she is looking at him. I can see true admiration, respect & love for him. Can anyone sense it?

  • @miuyiyuyo
    @miuyiyuyo 5 лет назад +11

    Dan: masculine energy porpuse mission and drive
    Jennie lok: feminine energy giving careing loving and bonding
    Beutifull....

  • @frankbarton-oduro2610
    @frankbarton-oduro2610 4 года назад +4

    Communication is the key. Wasting time is like wasting your assert. Knowning what u want, is key to know how to get it. Thank you Don & Jennie.

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 6 лет назад +36

    If HE OR SHE LAUGHS AT YOUR VISION... DITCH THEM WITH NO MERCY... your feelings are not more important then your Destiny.
    This is generational thinking all the greats did it.

  • @kathleensarkeesian8506
    @kathleensarkeesian8506 6 лет назад +35

    He/she must be even more attractive when speaking than when silent.

  • @melangreathouse2209
    @melangreathouse2209 6 лет назад +16

    LOVED seeing Dan and Jenny together, AND talking about how to pick the perfect spouse. Also LOVED the LIST of MUST HAVES, and DO NOT WANTS. Excellent!!! More Please!

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +5

      We will make some more videos soon

  • @elenethmaque5384
    @elenethmaque5384 6 лет назад +8

    "While Im driving shes on passengers seat and giving direction using GPS" very well said Dan relationship management in a hi tech time 😊😊😊

  • @CoachIzy
    @CoachIzy 6 лет назад +8

    Some people think marriage is a joke! And business is business! Hell no! Marriage is business too in an emotional way. Becos it's paramount to your success. So u better state clearly what u want and don't want. Just like any business. Then love , passion and intimacy will flow without hitches where even your flaws becomes your game show of fun!

  • @blackchickadee1
    @blackchickadee1 6 лет назад +15

    Intentional dating is key, no time wasted👌

  • @oparebeaotu2482
    @oparebeaotu2482 6 лет назад +6

    Ever since i started watching your videos they have inspired me a lot. I am doing great business now. Your ideas are wonderful.
    However, when it comes to relationships i find it difficult to get a supportive partner. They only enjoy my money and that is all. So i will think of these ideas you have given to help get a partner who can support my carreer and my business.
    Jennie is a very lovely woman. God bless her for supporting you in this field. Greetings to you and your wonderful team...Oparebea from Ghana

  • @cynthiabuenavente720
    @cynthiabuenavente720 3 года назад +1

    I really admire Dan Lok. I want my partner exactly like him. ♥️

  • @GingaAndGrowStrong
    @GingaAndGrowStrong 6 лет назад +50

    Thanks Dan! Recently divorced. The ex was holding me back from focusing on the business. My fault for not having clarity beforehand. Onwards and upwards

    • @jurb9797
      @jurb9797 6 лет назад +2

      Same. Got out of a 4,5 year relationship while i'm 18 now. Focussing on my Instagram-growth business while she was more short-term focussed.

    • @brawlbro15
      @brawlbro15 6 лет назад +2

      Did you lose a lot of money? Because of it?

  • @senseijin2088
    @senseijin2088 6 лет назад +2

    Behind a Successful King there's a Smart Queen

  • @VictorPidkowich
    @VictorPidkowich 6 лет назад +17

    Does everything awesome come out of Vancouver... I met my wonderful partner on POF which is located in Van city like you two and your wonderful chemistry.
    This was a great reminder of how grateful I am everyday for my partner. She is literally and metaphorically the one in the co-pilot seat giving directions.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +4

      You might be right.

  • @lilyylilsanj690
    @lilyylilsanj690 6 лет назад +4

    Lol I thought dan was kind a scary and tough guy but this video he seems so sweet and very genuinely talking about relationship. Thank you :)

  • @shaleiigavesti4510
    @shaleiigavesti4510 5 лет назад +1

    Totally AGREE with this advice; have used it for myself in previous relationships. It really helps when you have the confidence to stand your ground and not give in just because you're getting attention.

  • @hankezhou2032
    @hankezhou2032 6 лет назад +25

    Great advice for long term relationships. Also a great example of how CLARITY and ENVIRONMENT are applied to improve other aspects of life than business. This will save you a broken heart or two and a few years of wasted time.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Exactly.

  • @VictoriaStrong
    @VictoriaStrong 6 лет назад +11

    Dan and Jennie, this is very helpful to me. Thank you so much! Really shows the importance of clear communication and setting up the clear goals upfront in the relationship.

  • @marinadacosta3766
    @marinadacosta3766 6 лет назад +2

    This video is great, really good tips about must haves and the HELL NOs I am looking for in a partner. The chemistry between Dan and Jenni is amazing. As always a pleasure to watch

  • @yangmotivation1651
    @yangmotivation1651 6 лет назад +6

    what i like in your speech : EXAMPLES .

  • @kidilantraveler
    @kidilantraveler 5 лет назад

    This is the most valuable advise from you to whom they aren't married yet. All the ambition and visions of a man / women would killed by a marriage process if it doesn't have the key of prior understanding!
    This will help our younger brothers and sisters or someone who is looking for a second marriage after a divorce disaster!!!
    Your advice is so valuable since it is tells by YOU!! The Successful Man !!!

  • @azarel7
    @azarel7 6 лет назад +2

    This video ties into your video on self awareness as well because you have to really know who you are and what you’re about before hitching up with someone else.

  • @herlinadihardjo6145
    @herlinadihardjo6145 3 года назад

    Amazing Dan Lok
    Truly blessed. You look so different with Jennie by your side. Amazing.

  • @joannawardell152
    @joannawardell152 5 лет назад

    The list keeps you anchored when things get emotional and one is wondering if they are doing the right thing. Worked for me. Has worked for my kids. It's fun seeing you two because I see my husband and I's relationship in some ways. We weren't quite so consciously intentional--I was a teenager when we first started seeing each other. But we could talk and talk, and seemed to be able to read each other's minds. We are both entrepreneurial--even though that really wasn't on either of our 'must have' lists. There was no way of having the full scope of what we were committing to but we have the right personality for each other. The Lord knew what He was doing!

  • @leslievillamar3354
    @leslievillamar3354 5 лет назад +2

    Awww...😍Lovely Couple! 💕Jenny seems so sweet🙏😊

  • @BlkDiesel
    @BlkDiesel 6 лет назад +2

    Great video by you and your wife Dan. Very powerful points regarding having a clear lists of non-negotiables, standards and criteria you desire in a partner. Communications upfront and ongoing is a very key element. Also, the commonality and environment is a very important factor as well. Thanks for sharing.

  • @caammyp
    @caammyp 6 лет назад +3

    Both my husband and I have been together since we were 14, now 27, we have a successful business and successful marriage and are growing on expanding our business. I feel relationships are the same way, in order to be successful you have to grow, we grew up together and along the way, we faced many challenges, an unexpected pregnancy and trying to finish university while being young parents. It was a difficult journey, but nevertheless we both had goals that aligned, and we overcame pretty much any obstacle that came our way. We purchased real estate, and use it as an income property, we have investments, we have a business that generates money. All these wouldn't have been possible, if our goals did not align and if we didn't make the conscious effort to work on our marriage.

    • @lextor4712
      @lextor4712 6 лет назад

      love your comment - this is so true.

  • @rayliu3926
    @rayliu3926 6 лет назад +2

    Love it Dan and Jennie!!! Thank you for the video

  • @reina8311
    @reina8311 6 лет назад +2

    The environment where u meet is important ! noted & so true !! Thank you for this shifu n Jennie :)

  • @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams
    @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams 5 лет назад +1

    wife is the backbone of her husband, and the husband has the same valued as here's and their family values equally crucial in the same page respect each other

  • @killercopywriter
    @killercopywriter 6 месяцев назад

    Huge thank you for sharing, teaching!)
    It is helpful to have you as an example.

  • @ExtraordinaryLiving
    @ExtraordinaryLiving 6 лет назад +4

    Ref 1:31 - the "deal-breaker" list ... I would have many more than 3 items, LOL!
    And the "must-have" list ... it would be quite long too.
    Hmmmm, may be this is why I am single!
    Actually, I quite like my own company ... and I would rather have no one than have the wrong one. :)

  • @phuonglememo
    @phuonglememo 21 день назад

    Thank you sifu and Mrs Jenie. I really love Jenie's charming smile 💜

  • @jomontanee
    @jomontanee 5 лет назад

    1. Write down 3 deal breakers (Me : if your spouse does these 3 it's done!)
    2. Write down 3-5 Yes (that you want from your spouse)
    3. Sit down and talk clearly before you commit
    4. Where you meet matter A LOT. (Like your goal is self-development you can't find a good partner in a bar. Self-development seminar will be better.)
    5. CLARITY is the key

  • @timothyotieno3968
    @timothyotieno3968 5 лет назад +1

    Came to me at the right moment.Thank you

  • @SogehtKommunikation
    @SogehtKommunikation 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your very personal journey with us Dan! You made me realize how important expressing gratitude is to become successful in business and life. It already helped me to improve my personal relationship. Thank you for that!

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад

      Appreciate that.

  • @emmanuelohale7770
    @emmanuelohale7770 6 лет назад +1

    Good advice Jennie and Dan, thanks to you two- the best couple advice ever!

  • @suzywilson
    @suzywilson 5 лет назад

    Oh man I love the two of you! Power couple indeed!

  • @summernights5741
    @summernights5741 5 лет назад

    My husband and I have totally different thinking styles. He is a master networking sales person. People love to connect and him. He's popular without trying. I'm the opposite. I always go against the grain. Barnes and Nobles has been my business partner. But no one gets me. They see the results and they think It's all him. I always have to pioneer my ideas without support.i knew the housing market was going to crash when all our friends were upgrading. But its lonely never having support or a cheerleader. My husband is super generous so he's the good cop and I'm pitted as the bad cop.

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 6 лет назад +1

    Advice: DO NOT GET INTO MARRIAGE WITH WHO YOU LIKE OR ARE PHISICALLY ATTRACTED TO..... IS A TRAP.
    BE FOCUS. LOOK AT THE CHARACTER AND THE SUPPORT THE WILLIGNESS TO ADAPT TO THE VISIONAIRE JOURNEY...
    THIS IS KEY🔥🔥🔥

  • @victorheart4345
    @victorheart4345 6 лет назад

    I totally agree with the part on environment
    Where u meet u partner matters big time

  • @jmannz1
    @jmannz1 6 лет назад +1

    Hey Danny just discovered your channel and I have to say your work and content is pure gold! Mad props to you bro. I must get your FU ! $ book.

  • @Dreem_xo
    @Dreem_xo 6 лет назад +1

    I love your videos with jennie ! Me and my boyfriend are in your htc coarse and im so thankful me and him are on the same page with our future goals , but this an awesome video awesome advice as well ! Can't wait for your next video to how to communicate and handle your relationship as entrepreneurs 👌🏾

  • @mystichope2431
    @mystichope2431 5 лет назад

    Wow Dan. You can she and almost feel the love she has for you. When she looks at you it's beautiful. Special.

  • @aldrinpadua28
    @aldrinpadua28 5 лет назад

    All the best couple that I ever seen. Blessing!

  • @olgaortiz746
    @olgaortiz746 6 лет назад +2

    True environment does matter.....

  • @barbcallister3443
    @barbcallister3443 5 лет назад

    Great segment! I appreciate the introduction of your Alpha Male, Smart Woman videos. Relationships and the issues around them hold a very significant impact on ones path in life. You two are a beautiful couple and I admire the dynamics of the relationship you've built together. On the ones I've seen of both of you so far, I'm compelled to ask Jenny, how does Dan show you he cares? What are your expectations in the relationship? I ask as my spouse and I have similar personality dynamics to both of you. Hubby is ruby/emerald, I'm sapphire/pearl. We've been married 28yrs and I know he loves me, but I always feel taken for granted. He is not very attentive, thoughtfull, or considerate of me directly most of the time and I feel very unfulfilled. Sifu, what do you do to show Jenny she matters and she is important to you?

  • @keithlewis5799
    @keithlewis5799 6 лет назад

    U guys never disappoint! Thanks Dan, thanks Jennie

  • @jajasmile5321
    @jajasmile5321 6 лет назад

    Communication is #1. No assuming , I was supposed to notice . Having her family in our relationship issues , meaning , independent from . Fairness .

  • @yulandatross3110
    @yulandatross3110 6 лет назад

    Wow i needed to hear that. I am at a crossroads with my boyfriend of 5 years.

  • @sheirahmae
    @sheirahmae 4 года назад

    LOVe this

  • @doncorleone3901
    @doncorleone3901 6 лет назад

    Prob is initially both are saying yes to everything. Trouble starts when their true self comes out later. Another imp criteria to add is temperament. Atleast one must have more patience and take it easy - otherwise the smallest of disagreements snowball into showdowns

  • @humdaddy99
    @humdaddy99 6 лет назад +11

    This is great advice for people looking for a partner!

  • @unicornblast2545
    @unicornblast2545 6 лет назад +6

    👍👍👍worth sharing

  • @vincentmichael499
    @vincentmichael499 6 лет назад +2

    Amazing !! Thank You!

  • @anjavujovic8739
    @anjavujovic8739 4 года назад

    You must make more videos related to life not bussiness ,please👍🏼This is grate

  • @merlincovlin4377
    @merlincovlin4377 5 лет назад

    If your goal is the same... Say your faith. Lke a love triangle, the closer you get to master the closer you get in your mariage!

  • @karthikeyanmanirajan6492
    @karthikeyanmanirajan6492 6 лет назад

    Thanks dan n jenny ✌🏻😉behind every successful man is a smarter women

  • @generallifehacks4317
    @generallifehacks4317 2 года назад

    WHAT A PERFECT LIFE 🥰🌱

  • @vincentslusser9205
    @vincentslusser9205 6 лет назад

    Congratulations on your successful marriage and partnership Dan. I'm looking forward to your future input on looking for and gaving successful romantic relationships.

  • @brianduncan9872
    @brianduncan9872 6 лет назад

    Dan you are truly refreshing.I will be subscribing till I reach that level in my life. Thank You my bro.

  • @DanielGabriel
    @DanielGabriel 6 лет назад

    jennie is the Real BOSS lol great chemistry and passion.

  • @yusragull7512
    @yusragull7512 6 лет назад

    Thanks Dan and Jenny for this perfect advise. :-) Stay blessed

  • @lmcbijose1788
    @lmcbijose1788 6 лет назад

    Thats awesome mentor, always follow your foot steps,insightful.

  • @sofiaondemand
    @sofiaondemand 6 лет назад

    This video is helpful..... will definitely use it to get my next pattner

  • @ibe7976
    @ibe7976 6 лет назад

    That was great tips. thanks man!

  • @shanti.6954
    @shanti.6954 5 лет назад

    I like this video so much.
    👍

  • @shrikantkore1020
    @shrikantkore1020 6 лет назад

    dan you are a magnet

  • @dinovukusic4921
    @dinovukusic4921 6 лет назад

    great video, love your videos. You guys told lot of things but never said where did you two met, if its not a secret?

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 6 лет назад +1

    thx, u guys I'm 30 struggle find some1 support me and we have great life

  • @utkarshashinde9167
    @utkarshashinde9167 Год назад

    How incredible Jenny is ❤️😇😇😇😇

  • @harleyss475
    @harleyss475 6 лет назад

    ... i will give it a go... much appreciated video...

  • @Jamesfckoffscammers
    @Jamesfckoffscammers 6 лет назад

    I agree 100% Dan. 👍👍😀

  • @Bhiladpy-up9uy
    @Bhiladpy-up9uy 6 лет назад +12

    Being alpha will make you a successful entrepreneur, and if you know how to turn on a lady, you will be able to seal the deal. For example, Dan Lok is an alpha male. Cmon guys! You got this!

  • @SAIFULLAHJAMIL
    @SAIFULLAHJAMIL 6 лет назад

    This is soo amazing!!

  • @dreamerrays
    @dreamerrays 6 лет назад +1

    What if I have just married with one kid for 1 month and realised my partner may not be the best one I am looking for in my mind? Should I move on and fire a divorce right now before it is too late? I wish you have made the video earlier! Loving your content. Hope to speak with you someday when the business I am building grows.

  • @fuxuan4955
    @fuxuan4955 6 лет назад

    I love this video thank you >

  • @muhammadameen8637
    @muhammadameen8637 5 лет назад

    Amazing! ❤️

  • @DJcyberslash
    @DJcyberslash 6 лет назад

    Great video! Did you ever date before Jenny? Any tips about that for people who are not ready for long term relationship yet? I just turned 20 last year and am still working on building my business.

  • @Lena-pj6sw
    @Lena-pj6sw 6 лет назад

    Good points!

  • @angqingxiong
    @angqingxiong 5 лет назад +1

    Hi Dan. I have been watching your videos for a month plus now. Really benefited.
    I married my wife because i made her pregnant, engaging in constant premarital sex as I rented a room together with her. We only knew each other for a month. 5 years plus have passed. It feels like she is loading mountains on my back, making my life super hard.
    My main mistake in this relationship is no self awareness and clarity. Allowing her to make some dumb decisions that I commit to financially. I finally wake up from the zombie survival mode last year.
    We can't communicate. I cheat on her by going for massage and brothels once every few weeks. I have been telling her that I want a divorce but has no courage to act on it. It would means more problems in terms of care taking duties of my son/ more financial commitment.
    Right now, I am waiting for the right time. To become successful enough so that I can hire a professional to take care of my son, and also have some time for him.

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv445 6 лет назад

    You guys look great

  • @InetaGphotography
    @InetaGphotography 5 лет назад +6

    Ah the problem is i have tooo big list of not wanted things so am 7 years single

    • @InetaGphotography
      @InetaGphotography 5 лет назад +1

      I really don't have time for dating. More is like more time waisting than having something good out of it.

    • @abdaljaleel5683
      @abdaljaleel5683 4 года назад

      @@InetaGphotography
      Are you still single till now ? 😂
      If no , tell us about your 100- criterion- list which makes you single ..😂

  • @pratikkantawala3959
    @pratikkantawala3959 4 года назад

    Dan is really smart

  • @sunitadmello6227
    @sunitadmello6227 6 лет назад

    Nailed it. No doubt ur so fucking good at what u do. 👍👍👍

  • @sydk3442
    @sydk3442 6 лет назад +6

    Great video. Can you do a video on handing and communicating with the in-law's, especially if they're traditional Chinese/Taiwanese? (It's personal)

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Maybe in a future video.

  • @biggim3265
    @biggim3265 5 лет назад +1

    of course she can live with that ....she got an interesting, smart successful husband and millions, she supporting herself by supporting you .....lol

  • @nganlam0707
    @nganlam0707 5 лет назад

    Why can’t you meet someone nice at a bar? It depends on the characters... doesn’t matter how you meet... if you get on well, then why waste your chance? Just like all dates... RIGHT TIME, RIGHT PLACE, RIGHT PERSON!

  • @sarielreigns777
    @sarielreigns777 5 лет назад

    I'm 19 years old and I'm watching this 😅

  • @zovi123
    @zovi123 6 лет назад

    Great advice! Clarity always defines the desired results. Do u have any kids Dan?;)

  • @hahahofhahaland3687
    @hahahofhahaland3687 6 лет назад

    I'd be interested in what items were in your list for a relationship.

  • @lcc523
    @lcc523 6 лет назад

    Inspirational

  • @yaroslavmuradian5959
    @yaroslavmuradian5959 6 лет назад

    Thank you.

  • @ucbre
    @ucbre 6 лет назад

    Can you guys make a video on handling the spouses parents? Do you two even have any issues with your in laws?

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 6 лет назад

    Awesone.... advice ... This is it ...
    Clear vision is sooo important... a bad marriage will literally drag you to Hell " ... how much more when you have a great bussisness or political vision....

  • @bamboescheut7756
    @bamboescheut7756 6 лет назад +4

    I am full agree with you both, hi I am Danny from The Netherlands and I am also looking for a soulmate/ big true love and a partner for life. And specially the Deep connection that go deep in each others sool a very important for me like a soolmates and that go deeper than only love and I have felt that before . Thats go deeper in too your both sools and that feels like you both are one person , one heart and one sool and further i dont can describe in words further . But i know how it feels like and i want that again but not everybody are open for this kind of things and not everybody understand what this is what i have felt befor with that person so it is Very hard to find the right person again. Not everybody are thinks thesame way . And not everybody are open minded. So i try to find the right person that are also are open for this kind of things . And not everybody understand it so it is than Double so hard to find the right person for me. Greetings Danny damveld From the netherlands . I wish can find some help to find my soolmate /true love /partner for life.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Keep it up.

  • @Thespiritofaloha
    @Thespiritofaloha 5 лет назад

    Dan $ Jenny; I want to SEE more RUclips ‘s of you 2. :)

  • @olgaortiz746
    @olgaortiz746 6 лет назад +1

    Lol GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.....

  • @LUCAS-go7jl
    @LUCAS-go7jl 6 лет назад

    Dan, you're the next Patti Stanger! lol