Don’t Let The Fear Of Rejection Stop You
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- Опубликовано: 25 янв 2024
- Never let the fear of rejection stop you from doing something you want. You don’t want to miss out on the opportunities of life
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"I liked you, but you never showed it" Was a heavy impact
Bro’s got the wisdom of a greek scholar
Im 25. I wish Your channel came out when I was 10 years younger. Yall kids frfr... dont take any of these lessons for granted. I have alot of regrets
Your 25 mate.. your life is only beginning lol
You can turns thing around, man.
You aint on your prime yet
25 is just reaching the first quarter of ur life, you git this man youre strong
I wish I was 25 lol
@zestysoul u right
Well said. The pain of regret is so much worse than rejection.
I actually saw a video of an old guy telling his story of not shooting his shot with a girl that he liked and she liked him too. He’s in his 70s I believe, and the story took place in his teenage years. He still remembers those times, and regrets not shooting his shot to this day.
Saw that vid too, where they went to the cinema and the girl said "yknow guys are meant to make the first move"
@@user-sy6ew4he8s Yes! That exact one
i saw that too, went through his channel and stuff. I think taking advice from people is my biggest strength.
@@xottnkwhat's his channel please? I'd like to see the video
@@k1zusama the video is called "The one regret from high school that I still think about all these years later"
Im ngl when I first saw your videos in my recomonded I avoided them thinking "Another one of these corny dudes". I was so so wrong , eveyone of your videos lifts so much weight off my mind. Thank you
Much love fam ! Glad you gave me a chance
Nahhh the way he looked at me bro..
Got me blushing a little 😊
This is definitely a sign or something. Theres a girl at school who im intetested in and would love to get to know and Ive been thinking of how to approach her and what to say. All your videos honestly help mentally, I just need to actually apply all of what Ive learned from them. Thank you Shimon
Ask her what her interests are pls don't sit around I remember I had a crush on this girl for a couple of years and then I asked her out and she said no but I definitely felt more regret than rejection
Never wait. I had one girl I had a crush on for like a year, turned out that she liked me the whole time but had moved on by the time i found out. It sucks
@@Blakossthis same thing happened to me, haven’t talked to her or another woman in a long long time after I found out, messed me up mentally kind of. went a whole 4yrs thinking nobody liked me at all, I felt some happiness(someone liked me lol) but it was more regret and sadness
He really just rizzed me up. I FRICKING GIGGLED (Im a straight male)
been thinking bout talking to this girl at my school shes so pretty but ive been scared of being rejected fr. this gave me sum motivation.
I've been meaning to evangelise and preach the gospel and your videos have been really getting me out of my comfort zone. Thank you so much and God loves you and God bless In Jesus Name Amen!
I listened to what u said today bro I had English class this morning and I just said f it if I get rejected I’ll feel bad for maybe a couple hours, shawty messed wit me too. Bro speaking facts appreciate u for giving me confidence in just a few days!
UR THE BEST SHIMON. my life after these videos 📈📈📈
Ngl I needed dis, I was play vball at my school n seen this one girl who's attractive to me but i've always let the fear of rejection holding me back to go up and talk to her. I just need to realize that rejection stings in the moment but regret is a deep wound that you cant really get rid of.
did you go up to her?
@@dylandennis3142 I did not as I haven’t seen ha😭😭😭
Good Luck man
how did it go?
Bruh yall commented so quick ik damn well y’all ain’t watch the video that fast
Whaa Frr 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Righttt😭😭
Speedrunning Life be like
All jokes aside I think they're all just very grateful and appreciative for this.
@Shimon Davis My fear is not rejection, its fear of being seen as a stalker,creep and the consequences of that persona being shared.
Relate
It happened to me
Whenever I have/want to say something to my crush (whether it's a confession, an invitation for a date, a compliment, etc.), I always tell myself, "If not now, when?". Idk if it's gonna work for others, but it does for me. It gives me that little push I need to do or say something that takes a little bit of guts.
Much more respect knowing we listen to the same music when we're down
Omg the perspective of
"You have a number of tries till.." is so good. I needed this reassurance thank you.
What cosmic timing yet again after I had my first session of therapy
Yo I’m about to have my first session of therapy and I’m so afraid 😅
@@bananaspilt1988 Ggs man good luck.
"The fears you don't face become your limits"
Bro’s got the wisdom of an ancient greek scholar
as someone who struggles with anxiety/depression, your videos have been a blessing
loved this one,
keep it up! ❤
Rejection is greatest setback
brother how relatable this fear is atm is impossible to say, that vid struck right inside of me and tysm for it
Im a lady, and when I watch these, it honestly makes me feel so relaxed and focused on the future. Ive been trying to practice a few you things you mentioned in the videos, I feel more confident, and not so anxious. Thank you, even if it doesn't apply to me (getting women lol) I'm always looking forward to your next uploads.
So glad I'm not the only girl that finds this channel fascinating.
« women are Rude as hell almost trying to humiliate you » 😂😂😂😅😅😅😩😩😩
Man thank you. so much. Im glad youtube recommended your channel. Ive been overthinking possibilities, so fearful of rejection. i believe its from trauma which makes me have so much anxiety to what others think or will do. I'll use your advice
There's one girl I'll never forgive myself for not asking out
I thought she was practically perfect. We spent time together every day and I always looked forward to seeing her. Then I found out she was religious and I was super atheist at the time and I made the decision for myself and backed away from her.
I havent heard from her since highschool. She doesn't have any social media or anything. I really let that one slip through my hands. That lesson stays with me every time I don't make a move with a girl.
Brother on the way to become one of the greatest CHAD
Thanks for doing my request and making this video. It helped me a lot. Your advices in your videos genuinely help in life
Your videos have helped me so much. Im going away from home this weekend which has always been really tough for me but I start watching some of your videos and it calms me down so much. You are so easy to connect with which really helps when im just not having a good day or struggling with something. Have a great day bro
Bro I love this guy. He motivated me to do better and start my own channel. Much love❤❤
Ive had a crush on someone for 6 months and im tired of not doing anything about it. Its the end of school and because of your words im going to do it! Im going to tell him ill update when i do!! Thank you for this!!!
This man is black Jesus
I've learned how to "move on" From all these other videos and I'm glad to know it's an actual amazing advice. Fear of rejection has always been part of life, but embracing that fear to move on to the next one and better yourself has always been an amazing aspect I've applied on myself. Love the vids ❤
This guy is saving my life ❤❤
This guy got wisdom your
this came at the perfect time bro i was thinking about getting the girl i like flowers for valentine’s day but i wasn’t sure if she’d like them or not. this def confirmation that i should go for it🤞🏽
I asked her for her number today, listened to this on repeat before asking her. she gave me it, your videos are helping me improve so much. Thank you 🙏🏽
spitting words of wisdom right here
Facts broda!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your videos they really helping me on my way of becoming a better person than I am. In my life I had similar things going on its really better when you understand that you are not alone and some people felt the same.
I really love this content, please do more this means a lot to me.
I didn’t wanna be that person who gets too emotional in the comments but there’s this guy that i’ve liked since last year but didn’t have enough courage to confess to him. I kept telling myself that I would shoot my shot this year and then I watched your video and got VERY motivated. As you know, yesterday was Valentine’s day and I missed it again. Now I get what you meant by ‘’Never let the fear of rejection be bigger than regret’’.
Damn i really needed to see this there is this girl in my school that I'm friends with shes touchy with me alot more than with my other friends she hugged me and grabs onto me alot and i have a crush on her and i dont know what to do but this advice is getting rid of my worries
Update: Today, February 1st, I confessed to her, and I'm happy I got it off my chest and I'm now waiting for her answer I told her to be brutally honest
Update: well I ain't gonna lie it seems like she just doesn't wanna answer she's acting like it never happened so I'm gonna move on and improve myself with God I ain't gonna sit around
Newer update: Today Feb 9th after some issue today I figured out that she liked me and now she likes my best friend because I cussed her out because of anger (my fault) but now I'm happy I got rejected because she showed me that she wasn't loyal she didn't show she liked me and if she could just hop to my best friend then she didn't like me back so now I'm gonna try and live my life to the fullest and try to be the best version of myself and you ALL can too try to be the best person you can be don't let one girl ruin your days instead focus on God or whatever makes you happy
Update brother ?!
@Th4nos01 Sorry brother, I haven't gotten an answer yet. I'm waiting for it. I know she'll probably tell me when we have our class together I said she can have as much time to think as she wants
stay strong brother
Thank you Brother
@@redhood3878 Ggs brother you're awesome. You're improving rapidly as well on yourself, you're already maturing and growing up.
4:50 bro's like "I never told you that". Thank you for your videos, they're very helpful for those who want to improve themselves and become better people. Your videos help me build courage to live a life I want, I really appreciate it
I relate to a lot of things in this one, great video last 4 minutes was fun, have a good night man
I’m a girl so not exactly the target audience, but I’m gonna take the advice and let them know I’m interested! Rejection >>> regret. thank you for your wisdom 🙏
I'm a girl and these vids have changed my life, they're universal🙌
i can feel the vibe of Dry Creek Wrangler School here. it's very good to watch
Thanks Shimon
Your very insightful
Bro actually got me anticipating his new vids🎉
Yo shimon yo ur advice helped me a lot when talking to the girls I like. Thanks bro and keep up the good work. I got out and pulled a girl because of u bro. Thanks
You are speaking facts brother. However, as someone who has been rejected more than several times, rejection still hurts a bunch.
Love ya vids bro ❤ don’t make me feel alone 🤞🏼
He don't miss.
3:33 chamber of reflection - Mac DeMarco
Amazing content man
He gave us all motion
The chamber of reflection reference was great haha
Bro… I legit was gonna ask her out today but I didn’t… and then you make this video, this must be a sign from God or somethin😢
Do it bro, do it
Shii hope all goes well.
have you done it yet man?
We in Together!
Dang man your right🙂
how is your voice so calming. I want my voice to sound calm when I’m talking to people
try to relax, block everything out, and focus on who your talking to.
@@zoanfr thank u bro
your videos are always great
Hey, can you make a video on how you make videos? I'm about to start RUclips and I realized I'm not that comfortable on camera. I have been taking steps to get more comfortable but I'd like to get to the point where I can talk on RUclips naturally. Fear of rejection goes into starting a lot of different things and as I know I may or may not be going through that it'd be good to help people thinking about becoming an upcoming RUclipsr. You are always on time with the things we need to hear blessings, my brother.
Bro was rizzing me up 😭😮💨
me watching this as a girl and trying to build up courage to talk to this guy in my lecture class xd
I love your videos bro ❤
11:06 You just rizzed up your whole audience ❤❤❤
This also applies to friendships and being afriad that someone might not like you.
dude you kinda look like micheal jackson fr 🙃🙃
You struck a nerve with sitting around and waiting man
😂😂 this video was literally made for me I'm planning to tell the girl I like that I'm interested in her when I get back to school
Talk about self conscious
I like how you just randomly started singing chamber of reflection lol
Unrelated to the video, but are you ever gonna take out that Fender Strat and plus us something? That'd be really cool to see.
I love you bro ❤
Gentleman’s masterclass
damn, I'm a girl, sitting here taking notes to approach my new crush, this vid is like a sign fr ahaha thanks bro
Love this❤❤👏😂
3:06 cant even front that hit home 🤕
Hey shimon your videos inspire me a lot , actually am still at my parents house am staying with my father he is very toxic and am tired to the point I can’t take it anymore I planned to leave home I don’t have a plan bt the toxicity is way more too much , I remember one day you said people walk from Louisiana to Canada n that gave me strength to leave plz answer me
I moved out and started renting a room in a townhouse and cut contact with my parents about a year ago. Was 100% what needed to happen. That being said im fortunate enough to have my grandma’s support financially with rent and school. If i didnt then i wouldnt be able to afford school. If you can manage without them and its truly whats best for you then do it man
@@drewkulenguski3148the problem with me I don’t have anyone to support me financially but am at the point that I can’t take it , I can’t stay here they drain me , I just want to leave.n life will figure itself am depressed n sad and suicidal always coz of them
@@drewkulenguski3148thank u man
@@drewkulenguski3148the problem with me I don’t have anyone to support me financially but am tired yo, to the point I don’t care life will figure itself am depressed miserable n feeling like dying in here
If you haven’t already bro please start a podcast
I feel like I can walk up to a girl but in some case I get rejected it’ll just be awkward seeing them again
that is also one of my biggest fears, to lie on my death bed and regretting my life pffff
3:32 i feel that
I hate the stereotype of emo. Not that some teenagers don’t fit it, but it can also be one of those things where people are scared to open up about their sadness related to a girl. That shit can be heavy. And if you lose her in the way of not asking, it’s your fault. That’s heavy. That messes with your entire mind a little yk. I wish people were more open about their feelings in romance instead of being scared to be called “emo” for having valid feelings. It’s stupid. Don’t worry about what people say because if they’re gonna make fun of you for having valid feelings then why are you even spilling out to them abt that. They aren’t your friends.
Literally happened to me last week at work. Took too long making a move and once i decided to make that move she had got with someone one already . we still friends but crazy part was she had told me that i was her type and i looked good to her but i made that move too late.
4:45 Can confirm. My longest relationship began with me backing off when she said she wasn’t interested, then she saw me talking to another girl and realized her mistake.
asked my crush out and got rejected, but a weights off my shoulder. if the worst case scenario is that they are now a good friend and i can focus on my own happiness till the next crush, and not waste more time thinking "what if" or "imagine if" in bed thinking about our fake future together, i'd say this is actually the best scenario besides actually dating her
Another one yippee
that dunk on 10:45 was crazzzyyyy
ngl i wish ive seen your videos couple years back my brother and parents went to eat out last night and there was a waitress i would say he wasn’t interested in but just wanted to give her a compliment on her name because he liked it he asked can he see “it” which was a bold statement she hesitated and said she had a boyfriend but with all that being said he showed me rejection isnt that bad by the time that happen we all just laughed it off and went about our day truth of the matter is do what you feel is in your heart because who ever is around you feel might judge you will forget that you even asked for that girl’s number or that u even got rejected and if ur at school and u get rejected 9x outta 10 u will see that girl all u gotta do is ignore her and build yourself up looks style smell good get more haircuts and trust me she will see why she shouldnt reject u but its okay because after the rejection trust me you will actually feel like a man for cold approaching or even jus asking for directions or a pencil whatever situation you in take your time but dont take to long cuz she will move on and i can say i also regret many pretty females i couldve dated cuz i was to scared to talk to them and just be myself i was depressed for over a year and what help me was really asking my self what pain and trauma is holding me back what happen to make me become like this and slowly but surely i found my answer and thats cuz i was addicted to pmo literally it ruined my life i relapse still from time to time but i can say my mental health and social skills are actually climbing and im learning how to just be me and also ive learned if you jus say whatever u want and act however you want that person u like just might like you because they see your authentic they see you not trying to be someone your not and it took me a while to understand that the things your not afraid to say around that girl whos a 5,4 and 6 is the same way you should act around the school baddie or your work baddie or project school partner
Brother this is really what i need to hear i have a girl that i love so much i changed stuff for her but i cant seem to talk to her at all no matter what
Just do it, and i know it’s easy just to say, but it’s a lot worse to regret years later.
@@Jm_Edits_100 i legit cant start a conversation with her thats the problem
@@TripleAgatha I believe Shimon has another video where he has some conversation starters. The hardest part is actually keeping the conversation going, but you should get to the point fast to avoid any awkwardness.
@@Jm_Edits_100 i will try my man
Same ive gotten super close to this one girl but I don’t wanna push our friendship further because we work at the same place so if I get rejected I’ll still see her every other day 😂
It’s the last week of school and I’ve have a crush on this girl all year, I’m getting ready to ask for her number this week.
Me too! Except I’m a girl asking a guy. 😅
And don’t let that rejection define you, know you are worth it. When you sit alone, you sit with the friend inside yourself ❤
The exact moment I verbalized out loud to myself why ppl fear rejection the most, was the exact same time he stated “women be rude as hell”😂😂😂 A no is so simple but some really want to spell it out for you🥴
Lol you listen to the same song I do when Im down. Chamber of Reflection is my song.
There’s this girl in my class. She was looking at me quite a bit and we also made eye contact. I feel like she’s been doing this for a week or so now and now that I have a mid winter break coming up for a week I feel like she might move on. Is that a long time to not approach sumbody or do I still have time to go up and talk to her? I have a feeling she likes me but also at the same time I just feel like I am being delusional because LATELY she hasn’t looked at me much. For me the hardest part just feels like starting a conversation rather then continuing the conversation.
3:33 The Simone musical
Shimone* autocorrect
Omd Shimon damn
im not scared of rejection, im scared of losing my friendship with her