Last woman I dated was all into me then started to get flakey around 2 months right around when she wanted to talk about being more. Then one weekend she flaked on me 3 days in a row with lame excuses.....I never reached out to her again. Value your time kings
bottom line, if your dream woman/celeb/model had a date set with you. you’d do whatever it takes to make that date. don’t ever tell yourself “maybe something came up”. if she wanted to be there she would. attraction cuts through everything. I once had a woman drive 40 mins to park at her grandmas then uber another 20 to meet me 5 mins away from my apartment. she had high interest & we had a wonderful effortless date
Hahah for real. There’s always a guy a girl will go see on 2 hours of sleep to fuck his brains out - there’s never a good enough excuse. She could have the flu and would still go 😂
Bottom line: The dude in the email should be dating other women. If she cancels, no big deal...he has other prospects. I was dating 4 girls when I met my girlfriend. She never once flaked on me. I would move other girls around to spend time with her since we had opposite work schedules because she was the one I wanted. Been in a relationship for almost 7 months now, and I couldn't be happier with her.
@Jaguaist More than likely. It's like Coach Corey says...we just hung out, had fun, and hooked up. Keep calm and pass their shit tests. That simple. It's about how you make women feel. Not necessarily looks, money, and status. Just don't be a bum...hahaha
Height doesn't matter. I'm 6'2 and struggled my whole dating life. I was getting out-gamed by dudes 6-8 inches shorter than me because I lacked confidence, was needy, etc, etc
Fellas the most important thing we have as men is our time. If a women flakes once and it’s a good reason then give her another chance. If it happens more than once for bullshit reasons we have to cut them off. Flaking is something that’s happened to all of us and it should help us weed out the women that are unworthy.
As a general rule for a while now, whenever a girl flakes and it's not too late during a weekday for example, I just go out and approach. This immediately puts you in an abundance mindset and it also helps shifting your focus and energy from the flake to the solution, as in, finding maybe a cuter girl.
If she’s canceling on you there’s a 99% chance because she’s seeing someone else. I give them once chance. One and done. You cancel the second time you’re done. I have a zero tolerance policy for their bs.
It might be unusual, but I have been using your techniques in sales and they work really really really well. I have applied the "take away home" strategy so many times. It's like my life depends on the "one single moment" of meeting where I can be what I want to be... To create most dramatic and awesome business moments, that's what I am going for every time and this pursuit of perfection along with your advice in the 3% man have worked really well for me in professional world. Thank you... Absolutely Thank you coach ⭐
Bottom line is she’s not canceling dates with the guy She really likes and doesn’t want to mess it up with. If she’s canceling dates and not offering a reschedul day, then cut your losses and find a girl who actually likes you and is deserving of your time and attention.
Honestly I’ve been through so many relationships and women aren’t even worth it anymore. Unless your super attractive or have a boat load of money, it’s a constant uphill battle. I’m happier with a dog lol
I love it when a girl is flakey or ghosts me because I can easily screen out the girls with low interest or poor communication skills and not waste my time or money on them
it is shocking how common flaking is in women today. I've heard so many excuses, that I've also heard the photoshoot excuse. Women have such a weird way of saying 'not interested'. They'll kiss on the first date (means nothing), text you afterwards, agree to a second date, then become sick the day of the date.
I have a chick who I think is doing this same game. Match on Hinge like 3 weeks ago. Slow messaging (days between responses), I've mirrored her flow taking a long time to respond when she does. Reaching the point where enough is enough, and I shot her my number, told her messaging over an app is not going to see if two people connect, let's do a phone call, go from there. Shoot me text. She agreed, but then says "I'm about to head out for a vacation next week, starting this weekend, but will message soon." This was Tuesday. We have three more days until the weekend. Yeah, not likely this is going anywhere.
Relatable….had a first date with a beautiful girl…..went well. Made a second date and she cancelled it that morning with what sounded like a good reason. So, I said get in touch when you know you’re free and we can go from there. I’d love to see her she in so we’ll see.
typical online date flake just endured 1 month of that behavior even during an emergency she flaked . cancel her move on. thank you for what you do Coach
It's not restricted to only dating! Women who work as assistant, who sets up dates,calenders and appointments can cancel the scheduled appointment to even most important prospect her superior told her about, and will go on reserving dates for familiar useless faces and audits which are pretty lame and usually labor work. They work as they feel and rationality is many times subjected to how they feel at the moment. Guys in sales might have known this. The answer to these problems is, if you do not know about her, intensify your intention to meet with superior and talk with them directly. Courage and Intensity pays off really well.
I had similar situation with one chick. We agreed to meet for second date but she canceled that day with really bs reason.(like she needs to help her grandparents with something whole day). Then I saw her insta story where she is out with someone else that evening. First how stupid she’s to post it, second how disrespectful the move. I felt ugly inside…next! Gents, women will make time to see when there’s interest.
I would have messaged her a time or two in between the date. In my experience you can't just set the date and then ignore her. It always leads to the girl cancelling on you because they feel you don't care.
@@0ccam5Raz0r I get that and used to think that way, however, it's best to just stop playing games and holding back. Make the effort and see what happens. Be the first to make a move and take initiative.
I went on two dates with a girl and things seemed ok. She set up the 3rd date, flaked, set up the 4th and flaked again due to health issues ( No clue how true that is) I'm leaving it up to her to reach out and set up another date.
There's no photo shoot!! That's word for word from that stupid book! A woman tried that on me, and I've been ignoring her ever since 😂😂 Even if she brings it up, DON'T MAKE THE DATE! She will set it up, then flake again. That's also from the book. Ghost her
Is she a photographer? Or a model? I can see if photography was her profession and she got a last minute client, because that line of work is hit and miss.
Last woman I dated was all into me then started to get flakey around 2 months right around when she wanted to talk about being more. Then one weekend she flaked on me 3 days in a row with lame excuses.....I never reached out to her again. Value your time kings
just happened with me too. so mad.
Amen brother ✝️🤜🏻👊🏿
Can be frustrating but, yeh you gotta be willing to never talk to her again.
low self esteem women self-sabotage all the time. In many cases, they do like you, sometimes too much, and it scares them.
bottom line, if your dream woman/celeb/model had a date set with you. you’d do whatever it takes to make that date. don’t ever tell yourself “maybe something came up”. if she wanted to be there she would. attraction cuts through everything. I once had a woman drive 40 mins to park at her grandmas then uber another 20 to meet me 5 mins away from my apartment. she had high interest & we had a wonderful effortless date
Hahah for real. There’s always a guy a girl will go see on 2 hours of sleep to fuck his brains out - there’s never a good enough excuse. She could have the flu and would still go 😂
And where is she now
@@bigslime2235In my bed! J/k
@@bigslime2235the streets
Bottom line: The dude in the email should be dating other women. If she cancels, no big deal...he has other prospects. I was dating 4 girls when I met my girlfriend. She never once flaked on me. I would move other girls around to spend time with her since we had opposite work schedules because she was the one I wanted. Been in a relationship for almost 7 months now, and I couldn't be happier with her.
how tall are you
@seancruz7710 why's that matter? But to answer your question, I'm 5'10.
@Jaguaist More than likely. It's like Coach Corey says...we just hung out, had fun, and hooked up. Keep calm and pass their shit tests. That simple. It's about how you make women feel. Not necessarily looks, money, and status. Just don't be a bum...hahaha
Height doesn't matter. I'm 6'2 and struggled my whole dating life. I was getting out-gamed by dudes 6-8 inches shorter than me because I lacked confidence, was needy, etc, etc
Yep, that and focusing on your purpose first is key. Good stuff man
Fellas the most important thing we have as men is our time. If a women flakes once and it’s a good reason then give her another chance. If it happens more than once for bullshit reasons we have to cut them off. Flaking is something that’s happened to all of us and it should help us weed out the women that are unworthy.
As a general rule for a while now, whenever a girl flakes and it's not too late during a weekday for example, I just go out and approach. This immediately puts you in an abundance mindset and it also helps shifting your focus and energy from the flake to the solution, as in, finding maybe a cuter girl.
If she’s canceling on you there’s a 99% chance because she’s seeing someone else. I give them once chance. One and done. You cancel the second time you’re done. I have a zero tolerance policy for their bs.
Ghost. Unless she says, "I'll come over and you can have your way with me". Too many girls to be dealing with time wasters.
It might be unusual, but I have been using your techniques in sales and they work really really really well. I have applied the "take away home" strategy so many times. It's like my life depends on the "one single moment" of meeting where I can be what I want to be... To create most dramatic and awesome business moments, that's what I am going for every time and this pursuit of perfection along with your advice in the 3% man have worked really well for me in professional world. Thank you... Absolutely Thank you coach ⭐
Bottom line is she’s not canceling dates with the guy She really likes and doesn’t want to mess it up with. If she’s canceling dates and not offering a reschedul day, then cut your losses and find a girl who actually likes you and is deserving of your time and attention.
Yep, she's not blowing off Chad Thundercock
Honestly I’ve been through so many relationships and women aren’t even worth it anymore. Unless your super attractive or have a boat load of money, it’s a constant uphill battle. I’m happier with a dog lol
Thanks for posting. I was in a bad place. This message is gold. 🏆
So you gave up? So many relationships ? That’s a red flag that means your the problem
CW - “come on man”
If I've learned one thing from all your videos it's that people don't read the book enough!
If he'd read the book 10-15 times, he'd know her attraction level was a 5 at best
For me all problems start with projecting our fantasies on them lol. All text book stuff. So fucking hard to hold back on women we like
I love it when a girl is flakey or ghosts me because I can easily screen out the girls with low interest or poor communication skills and not waste my time or money on them
Ask yourself this….would she cancel on Brad Pitt? Unless the girl has a legit reason AND suggests another specific date she’s not interested
@@blair5475 you are missing the point. Why continue to pursue a girl that has low interest?
If she's not excited or enthusiastic to spend time with you, find someone who is.
it is shocking how common flaking is in women today. I've heard so many excuses, that I've also heard the photoshoot excuse. Women have such a weird way of saying 'not interested'. They'll kiss on the first date (means nothing), text you afterwards, agree to a second date, then become sick the day of the date.
Thank you for all your service coach, former beta now a Alpha 🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾
I have a chick who I think is doing this same game. Match on Hinge like 3 weeks ago. Slow messaging (days between responses), I've mirrored her flow taking a long time to respond when she does. Reaching the point where enough is enough, and I shot her my number, told her messaging over an app is not going to see if two people connect, let's do a phone call, go from there. Shoot me text. She agreed, but then says "I'm about to head out for a vacation next week, starting this weekend, but will message soon." This was Tuesday. We have three more days until the weekend. Yeah, not likely this is going anywhere.
Plant seeds and see which one grows first.
And when the seed grows into a plant you fuck the plant 😂
Relatable….had a first date with a beautiful girl…..went well. Made a second date and she cancelled it that morning with what sounded like a good reason. So, I said get in touch when you know you’re free and we can go from there. I’d love to see her she in so we’ll see.
@@blair5475 well it’s her loss. I’m not waiting around but if she does, great. Sometimes, a little patience goes a long way. Either way, I’m good.
Good. Ball is in her court, meanwhile, entertain other prospects
Stellar content like always coach, God bless you!
typical online date flake just endured 1 month of that behavior even during an emergency she flaked . cancel her move on. thank you for what you do Coach
At least he got word from her. I had 2 seperate scheduled dates recently just ghost me. I know dont be perturbed, they vetted themselves!
It's not restricted to only dating! Women who work as assistant, who sets up dates,calenders and appointments can cancel the scheduled appointment to even most important prospect her superior told her about, and will go on reserving dates for familiar useless faces and audits which are pretty lame and usually labor work. They work as they feel and rationality is many times subjected to how they feel at the moment. Guys in sales might have known this. The answer to these problems is, if you do not know about her, intensify your intention to meet with superior and talk with them directly. Courage and Intensity pays off really well.
Compared to Justin Bieber, it is way too far from reality though. But I get your point-it's all about hypergamy and the perceived value of a man.
Key word - perceived..
Perception is not reality
On to the next stop for the fun bus!
Coach you are awesome, and yes the girl voice is hilarious!
I had similar situation with one chick. We agreed to meet for second date but she canceled that day with really bs reason.(like she needs to help her grandparents with something whole day). Then I saw her insta story where she is out with someone else that evening.
First how stupid she’s to post it, second how disrespectful the move. I felt ugly inside…next!
Gents, women will make time to see when there’s interest.
That’s honestly brutal - but- if someone does that - I want nothing to do with them. some people are just cold garbage
Love the female voice correction at 12:36 LOL
Girl from the "drama class" gave our 3% man "drama".... NO DRAMA ALLOWED fella.
My patience for this crap has really thinned out. At least my time and money are less likely to be wasted.
Of course break the date for a photo shoot. Better pictures for advertising herself.
I would have messaged her a time or two in between the date. In my experience you can't just set the date and then ignore her. It always leads to the girl cancelling on you because they feel you don't care.
@@0ccam5Raz0r I get that and used to think that way, however, it's best to just stop playing games and holding back. Make the effort and see what happens. Be the first to make a move and take initiative.
Wrong.
@@svtben Do you have a girlfriend?
I went on two dates with a girl and things seemed ok. She set up the 3rd date, flaked, set up the 4th and flaked again due to health issues ( No clue how true that is) I'm leaving it up to her to reach out and set up another date.
There's no photo shoot!! That's word for word from that stupid book! A woman tried that on me, and I've been ignoring her ever since 😂😂 Even if she brings it up, DON'T MAKE THE DATE! She will set it up, then flake again. That's also from the book. Ghost her
If she wants to spend time with you, she will...
I told the flake who was the one who made the datr to come to my place. That "flakes are a serious turnoff" and that was it
even when she brings up the date first I still got flaked on
Is she a photographer? Or a model? I can see if photography was her profession and she got a last minute client, because that line of work is hit and miss.
if she's really interested she will reach back out and bring up seeing him again.
When in doubt just think what would Corey Wayne do
She just ain't that into you, bro
Find someone else, simple as that.
It sounds to me like this girl had other guys she was talking to, or maybe an ex came back into the picture
lol They have a stomach bug or their kids are sick! 😂🎉 NEXT!!!!
Question What does it mean when your girlfriend calls you cute? Is that bad? Or...
Means you’re cute. Probably in a good way
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Maybe she really did have a gig making money doing a photo shoot?
If she calls and asks you out give her a chance