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  • @Euodias
    @Euodias  4 года назад +713

    Hope you guys enjoyed the story time! Ps, don't try to figure out who he is. You'll never guess it. Anyways, if you want to get your own snack box, quote "EUODIAS10'' for 10% off~
    Link: bit.ly/2Av6SkK
    Also, there are some things I want to clarify.
    1) "Why film them if u know they're bad ppl?"
    - Mind you, I didn't know. Every one of them started off as good people who turned bad after getting a little taste of "fame". These "changes" were not sudden and you only start seeing them after a couple of months or years. And before all the changes, I would've already filmed a handful of videos. When I see red flags, I cut them off immediately.
    2) I will continue to make such videos because these videos are a huge part of my channel and I'm not going to let a couple of "bad experiences" stop me from doing the thing I've always been doing. Also, some people in my videos are amazing people as well.
    3) "Why are u teaching girls to be careful and not guys to change?"
    - Since when has it become my responsibility to teach a man how to be a man? I am not anyone's mother. It's good enough that I manage to teach this one. I am obligated to spread a good message for my female followers. I cannot change the way some guys are but I can ask you guys to be more careful.
    4) "You asked for it anyways cause you're always touching them in videos"
    - You completely missed the point of the video. The point is not the touching. I'm a naturally touchy person and I'm fine with touches. The point is, I DID NOT give consent. And when I do these things, I'm conscious and I do it with consent. That's the difference. I could be bare naked and it'd still be wrong for anyone to touch me without consent.
    5) Unless stated otherwise on my IG, videos or I've just straight up said I love them as a human being, most of the people in my videos do not pass the vibe check.
    (╯✿◕益◕)╯
    *Note, in any future videos, I will only be linking the socials of people that I genuinely vibe with. Anyone else, they're just there for your eyes x

    • @jas5392
      @jas5392 4 года назад +4

      💚💚💚💚💚

    • @lianajay04
      @lianajay04 4 года назад +14

      thanks for always sharing the truth yodi 🥰

    • @reireio-o
      @reireio-o 4 года назад +5

      💚💚💚💚

    • @leavegetout5170
      @leavegetout5170 4 года назад

      💚💚💚💚💚💚

    • @bungatajnasywa1216
      @bungatajnasywa1216 4 года назад

      💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @floatingruru
    @floatingruru 4 года назад +4341

    I SCREAMED WHEN SHE SAID “if you have a problem with me, you’re probably the problem”

  • @malakghalb8280
    @malakghalb8280 4 года назад +1320

    the fact that she made him apologize over and over again makes me adore her more

  • @midnightstarbit
    @midnightstarbit 4 года назад +3566

    Cute boys who? I'm only here for cute Yodi. ❤💚

  • @umi9064
    @umi9064 4 года назад +2067

    I understand that filming "cute boys" might be entertaining and it's something many of your viewers might be interested in seeing, but I don't think it's good for you to give them a platform anymore, if you know that they are bad people. Not even because of the risk of them hurting someone - but just because people like them don't really deserve the "fame" that comes from being in your vids. I think it's something to consider next time you want to make a video like this.

    • @Euodias
      @Euodias  4 года назад +444

      I understand that but the videos will continue. These videos are a good 40%-50% of my branding as a vlog channel and I won't stop just cause a few of these boys are crap. Some people in these videos are good. The fame started because I made the decision in the past to link their socials because we were friends. That was my fault. Right now, I have implemented a standard scanning procedure (briefly mentioned at the end of the video). I will also no longer provide links or promote any of their social handles out of goodwill.

    • @umi9064
      @umi9064 4 года назад +28

      Okay, thank you for that ☺️

    • @fey__3919
      @fey__3919 4 года назад +17

      Honestly I think this girl could bring in people on her own... boys are gross haha

  • @Elif-ti9wf
    @Elif-ti9wf 4 года назад +3044

    I actually adore this girl's honesty and her being straightforward. She just does not give the "fake sincerety" impression like the other youtubers do out there. This is why I keep watching her wheres I unfollow lots of people in social media after realizing how fake they are. Also she really gives me inspiration how to be more confident and gives me ideas about how to take action, I learn a lot from her. Godspeed Euodias, I hope you always stay the beautiful, strong woman as I can see now in the future.

    • @iluvZ3NDAYA
      @iluvZ3NDAYA 4 года назад +9

      Same, Euodias really motivates and inspires me so much!

    • @ashleyalaia8781
      @ashleyalaia8781 4 года назад +6

      exactly why i subscribed to her,

  • @NameePark
    @NameePark 4 года назад +892

    A green emoji for our Yodi warrior 😞💚🌱🥒🥦🧃

    • @Euodias
      @Euodias  4 года назад +57

      i love u nami~

  • @elsaritchie7949
    @elsaritchie7949 4 года назад +2201

    Growing up in japan, I know exactly what you’re talking about. It outrages me and frustrates me so much to constantly witness the patriarchy and male chauvinism in everyday society. I understand that this is a universally global issue but it’s just so blatantly explicit in Japan. It’s sickening. Also the way that Japanese woman are viewed as exotic and otherworldly by some foreigners and believe that they would fawn over them as they are interested in any ‘foreigner’ is disgusting. This still happens today.

    • @viktoreigim3213
      @viktoreigim3213 4 года назад +9

      What is wrong with foreigners finding Asian girls attractive? they look and act different to our own culture hence why we are attracted. Not all foreigners who are attracted to Asians believe they will "fawn" over us, please don't generalise.

    • @kiarastewart3732
      @kiarastewart3732 4 года назад +130

      @@viktoreigim3213 which is why they said some. Some means not all 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @dominiquehudson8077
      @dominiquehudson8077 4 года назад +36

      ^prime example 😭😭😭

    • @dankmemesbrokendreams9313
      @dankmemesbrokendreams9313 4 года назад +76

      Viktor Eigim she’s obviously talking about those who fetishize Japanese woman

    • @whyhihigh
      @whyhihigh 4 года назад +97

      Viktor Eigim why you getting mad tho- honestly, when reading a comment like that, if you get offended- you’re probably a part of the problem. if you aren’t doing shit like mentioned in the original comment, you’d think “okay, she isn’t talking about me. disgusting dudes lmao”

  • @catwithagun902
    @catwithagun902 4 года назад +777

    When you don't even watch for the cute boys but for cute euodias.

    • @mewtwaila
      @mewtwaila 4 года назад +20

      Same I watched her for exchange videos and i’ve just watched ever since 🤷🏻‍♀️
      I’m here for whose channel it is lol 😆

  • @kawaiiology
    @kawaiiology 4 года назад +636

    This really hit hard for me.
    I had a Japanese exchange student in 2013 and he raped me while I was sleeping. Almost identical to your story.
    Nobody at my school (in Canada) believed me. They even DEFENDED him by saying “things are different over there”. Even some of the people who I thought were my friend defended him and continued to be friends with him.
    I still love Japan, I have been studying Japanese for half of my life and I’ve been to Japan many times (both on an exchange and on vacation.) But the men need to be held accountable for their shit. I’ve had men trying to take pictures up my skirt, try to follow me home, trying to chat me up on the train when I was just trying to go home and getting closer and closer even though the train was EMPTY, and so much more.
    And for anyone who is going to say something about “not all Japanese boys --“ save it. I know. I probably know better than any of you trying to say this. I have a lot of amazing male Japanese friends. But shit isn’t all anime and j-pop and kawaii like some of you think.

    • @hotjanuary
      @hotjanuary 4 года назад +34

      I’m Canadian. We do have plenty of misogyny left to fight. Don’t think just because we have laws against it that it isn’t ingrained into our society. It goes all the way right up there with our Prime Minister who pretends to be a feminist.

    • @atsuukorin8036
      @atsuukorin8036 4 года назад +48

      WTH?!?!?!? That boy is soooooo damnnn disgusting!!!!!!! And none of ur friends believe it?!?! That's just 2 much!!! (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ I can't imagine how u felt back then but I really hope ur doing fine & live ur life 2 the fullest rn coz U DESERVE IT!!!😭💖
      Did tht boi ever apologized 2 u after all tht? If not he's a realllll scumbag & doesn't even deserve 2 live in this planet ever again!!!(눈‸눈) We don't need useless ppl like tht in our planet😤🔥

    • @kawaiiology
      @kawaiiology 4 года назад +25

      Pi for breakfast Oh trust me I know. I’m tired of Canada being made out to be some fantastic place. I live in Ontario too which is supposed to be the “progressive” province yet I’ve personally experienced and seen others experience so many injustices. My ex broke my finger and he got off scott free because his dad was a cop.
      Edit: my ex-stepfather / the man who raised me for 13 years was someone with a high rank for toronto police. He is close with Doug Ford and Stephen Harper. They’re all horrible wretched humans beings.

    • @kawaiiology
      @kawaiiology 4 года назад +48

      Atsuuko Rin He never apologized. I felt like it was my fault for a while. People said “you should’ve locked your door” but I didn’t have one on my door. They said I shouldn’t have been wearing what I was wearing to sleep... In my own room. (Shorts and a t shirt because it was summer)
      He never faced anything other than being kicked out of my house, he was immediately taken in by one of my “friends”. It was disgusting, and I watched girls who were my friend try to get with him after that.
      I’m doing a lot better now though! This happened when I was about 15 and I’m 22 trying to work through everything I’ve gone through, but definitely a lot better off than I was back then ♡
      Edit: also, before he actually “moved out” I found recording devices in my room, planned by another one of my “friends” and him to see what I was doing and who I was talking to. It was seriously so fucked up.

    • @Catherine-nx5rv
      @Catherine-nx5rv 4 года назад +23

      Manda Holy shit that’s disgusting. He deserves to rot in hell

  • @VnYtKcMHer
    @VnYtKcMHer 4 года назад +335

    Thank you for talking about this. So many girls are obsessed with the Korean or Japanese men in dramas that they forget most Asian cultures are patriarchal just like Western culture (maybe even more, to be honest). Not saying all men are toxic and condescending towards women, but yes, just because he is 'good looking', doesnt mean he will treat you right.

    • @laoyue5924
      @laoyue5924 3 года назад +7

      AMEN. AS AN ASIAN I AGREE W THIS SOO HARD. It’s fair to say that some asian guys just “wanna try out” non-asian girls as if it’s a something for them to boast about like “dude I went out w this chick blahblah” Living in asia, I can’t tell you the number of guys who have this mentality. NOT ALL, but they sooo exist. It’s not at all like the dramas 😣

  • @muhammadarslan6022
    @muhammadarslan6022 4 года назад +1040

    i am a boy and i support you euodias, iam strictly against these kind of boys or men who treat women like objects jumping from one to another and feeling proud about it, i have a belief that if you do even a cheap act like touching a women without her consent time/karma will bring it upon your mother wife or daughter, this world wasn't made for playing with people

    • @andyho6504
      @andyho6504 4 года назад +37

      same. it’s disgusting that anyone on this earth even once thought it was ok to touch someone without consent. it doesn’t make sense 🧐. what makes them think it’s ok 🤔🤔🤔

    • @chicken2846
      @chicken2846 4 года назад +5

      right

    • @aliceliddell8413
      @aliceliddell8413 4 года назад +29

      Just because the dude did something wrong doesn't mean any woman associated with him deserves that. If anything, he deserves the crap. Not someone else. The third party should not be hurt

    • @twixter0
      @twixter0 4 года назад +16

      Karma will hit HIM. Not his female relatives/friends???

    • @muhammadarslan6022
      @muhammadarslan6022 4 года назад +5

      @@aliceliddell8413 if you hurt/harass someone's loved ones, another person like you is going to hurt/harass your loved ones

  • @Paulina_101
    @Paulina_101 4 года назад +716

    Whoever this dude is, he committed sexual harassment. The harassers are usually people you know and when you get harassed by that person, you go through a shock. Your mind just paralyzes. It is not your fault. Your trust from that person just shattered and it is normal to go through that shock and feeling anxious. The way you described this guy, he seems narcissistic. He has no remorse for his actions and doesn’t care how others are feeling around him, as long as he is doing fine. Girl, I’m glad you stood up for yourself and put that guy in his place. At the end of the day, you need to know your value and know you deserve respect as a woman. No gender is greater than one another. We should be respecting one another and stand up for another when others can’t defend for themselves. If we are disrespected, we should not be afraid to stand up for ourself. It’s 21st century. we need to let our actions of respect be louder. Props to you girl ✊🏼

  • @tgemaki8270
    @tgemaki8270 4 года назад +972

    it's ridiculous how people romanticise/thirst over asian boys. love these videos so much ❤

    • @annieadelina3766
      @annieadelina3766 4 года назад +45

      Asian fetishes woop

    • @mzkii1002
      @mzkii1002 4 года назад +18

      I... Dont really get why white people have to fantasise about some asian guys and fall in love directly because their cute and oohhh their so innocent?? I dont see the point as an asian myself.

    • @elana4006
      @elana4006 4 года назад +39

      @@mzkii1002 Same reason why you think white people are the only ones who do that. Stereotypes exist. People see one thing often portrayed and assume that's how all or most are. But it's just the surface.

    • @Yussirah_
      @Yussirah_ 4 года назад +5

      To be honest, its not wrong or ridiculous. But at the same time, of the behaviour turns to an obsession and in a harmful way, it can be. Because everyone has their personal preference and no one can judge that. I just hope those people like what she mentioned in this video get a grip of themselves

    • @Josh-qo7pn
      @Josh-qo7pn 3 года назад +6

      @@mzkii1002 i get people having types where they prefer Asians but i dont understand making them seem way bigger than they are without ever meeting them

  • @randomrandom3128
    @randomrandom3128 4 года назад +735

    This is why I have a hard time trusting boys and dating. You never know their past and their mindset~
    My blood is BOILING after watching this video.

    • @yoi9297
      @yoi9297 4 года назад +4

      Well, we feel the same way... or at least I do

    • @rainieowo
      @rainieowo 4 года назад +12

      Same here. This made me think that guys are all the same, only in different bodies. For now, I'm just fine with my fictional guys. 😹😹

    • @TomaTo-dm9sm
      @TomaTo-dm9sm 3 года назад +3

      Me too👌🏻

    • @niyatitekchandani8615
      @niyatitekchandani8615 3 года назад +6

      Me too, i haven't dated before but after hearing about experiences like this it makes me wary of trusting boys :(

  • @wolfietaurus
    @wolfietaurus 4 года назад +909

    I really hope y'all dont start harassing any of her the guys in her videos to find out who this guy is! just let it be!

    • @lillytopaz2899
      @lillytopaz2899 4 года назад +140

      I get you but ugh I wish he can be put on blast. It makes me so angry that girls are probably still throwing themselves at him and inflating that huge ego of his. I just want anyone who's into him to be safe. I don't think he was truly sorry.

    • @luc-eh3ox
      @luc-eh3ox 4 года назад +78

      nah, expose him

    • @pelin0611
      @pelin0611 4 года назад +66

      kinda disagree, i wish we knew who he was

    • @biatch6992
      @biatch6992 4 года назад +40

      He could do this to another girl

    • @karcavida3250
      @karcavida3250 4 года назад +46

      Yes, he should be exposed, he sexually assaulted her, he probably already did it to someone else too, but in a much worse way because they couldn't stand up for themselves like Euodias did. :(
      C'mon, this is serious, this is not a petty story about someone's ex, this a story about a sexual predator.

  • @pl4netjade
    @pl4netjade 4 года назад +369

    euodias saying if you have a problem with me, you're probably the problem is my new ringtone

  • @thisismystory1540
    @thisismystory1540 4 года назад +378

    I have experienced a similar thing.
    He was a friend who I trusted and I stayed over at his place because it was too late to take the train home. We both had something to drink, but I was really tipsy, he just had one drink and still he acted like he was drunk, drinking water all the time "so he wouldn't get a hangover". I thought it was weird, but didn't think much about it. Anyways, we had a talk about how I wouldn't want to get intimate with someone unless I really had feelings for him. He was very understanding and I felt safe. While going to bed he thought it was okay to touch me. I had to say "no" at least 3 times before he stopped. Next morning I fled the scene.
    When I confronted him about it the next day, he said he thought I was playing hard to get and that he was drunk, which explains why he was being pretentious with the water bottle the night before. He already knew he was gonna use it as an excuse. When I told him I felt assaulted, he said I was exaggerating. I KEPT MY GROUND NONETHELESS. Eventually he said he was sorry and that he didn't mean it that way. Later I found out that he had done this to other girls too, but got away with it. I've never looked at him the same again.
    Girls, please stand up for yourself, you're not only helping yourself, but also others.

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion 4 года назад +15

      This is something that should be said to the police by all of you ladies. If not he will keep going to his next victims...

  • @pat0102
    @pat0102 4 года назад +364

    "They do not need your protection. In fact, you need to protect yourself from these people."
    Yodi reality check slapping all her subs.

  • @didembilgic2298
    @didembilgic2298 4 года назад +911

    She is so real with us and that's why I stan her so hard. But my noisy ass is hella curious which one of the boys are trash on her channel.
    Edit: Nami replied so I am confident to say that Soony is still 🌈🧚 perfect 🌈🧚🏿‍♀️

    • @NameePark
      @NameePark 4 года назад +287

      Unless she outwardly says she really loves them, most of them are unfortunately 😞🤙🤙

    • @didembilgic2298
      @didembilgic2298 4 года назад +80

      @@NameePark I will pay attention now and play fbi agent a little. (Love you btw lmao)

    • @runawaybrocoli9070
      @runawaybrocoli9070 4 года назад +18

      Didem Bilgic i think its 100% k****** . Sorry if im wrong but he perfectly match the descriptions

    • @whyhihigh
      @whyhihigh 4 года назад +4

      runaway brocoli wait who’s that-

    • @didembilgic2298
      @didembilgic2298 4 года назад +1

      @@hilmaedith7088 YES

  • @alicestevens1331
    @alicestevens1331 4 года назад +367

    It's so weird because I understand where she's coming from. I have a friend who I took care of, he was like a little brother to me, he used to be very quiet. After a while, I don't know happened but he ended up becoming an fboy, he would say disgusting things like sexual things about girls. He's now famous on social media and probably has a lot of fangirls but as a friend, I feel conflicted to be real with him and to tell him that it's not okay for him to act that way. T-T

    • @amakaaja1783
      @amakaaja1783 4 года назад +74

      Hey babe, I really think you should be honest with him about how you feel. Especially if you are that close. Hearing the truth from you might help him hold himself accountable for his actions. Be real with him about how you disagree with his actions and the way he treats women. Give him examples of where he’s gone wrong, explain why it’s wrong, and what he can do to change. If he is willing to change he’ll listen. Other than that there’s nothing you can do and it may be better for you to hold him at arms length. It may be hard to cut him off completely and it’s not always practical or realistic so I won’t advise you to do that, but letting him know where you stand in all this and keeping him at a distance may help. Hope this helped girl, and I really hope he changes. If you believe in God I would also recommend praying that God changes his heart and opens him up to advice ♥️🥰🥰

    • @longlivesparkles13
      @longlivesparkles13 4 года назад +25

      I agree with Amaka Aja, his actions might one day lead to a situation similar to what Euodias should NOT have had to experience. if you're scared to confront him alone, maybe do it with friend or write it all out on text. But I honestly think it's important that he knows that his actions are toxic and dangerous. If you're worried he won't listen to you send him articles, or stories from girls who have felt the direct impact of this kind of behaviour that can hopefully help him emphasise more. If you don't want to take a direct approach you could post things related to misogynistic behaviour where you know he'll see. But i do think that if you have the opportunity / find a time where you feel more comfortable to speak up directly - then take it because it's so important.

    • @alicestevens1331
      @alicestevens1331 4 года назад +28

      @@amakaaja1783 Awww thankss, the main reason why I felt conflicted was that I wasn't sure if I wanted to cut him off or not. Like not only me but other people have confronted him for his actions, he does apologies but just like how Euodi mentioned about when the guy gave her a half-ass apology, my friend did the same thing and never really learned from his actions. I can't keep giving the excuse of "oh he's still pretty young" or "he's a really nice person to me" because yeah in front of me he is a mature and genuinely nice person but based one what I see in his social media, with his big ego, he seems like a toxic person. Which I am pretty disappointed about. I'll probably confront him again and just be that person who will still be there to be like "I told you so" or something I don't know.
      But thank you guys for being supportive and giving advice

    • @meg7797
      @meg7797 4 года назад +6

      Better not be lilhuddy 😳👁👄👁

  • @samethingeveryday8363
    @samethingeveryday8363 4 года назад +100

    That’s exactly why I’m always cautious around cute guys. Most of the time they already know that they’re good looking and way too often they take advantage of that.

  • @marwaqaniaashila3163
    @marwaqaniaashila3163 4 года назад +101

    i just love that she has lots of friends that are guys but being careful when dating a guy

  • @user-sw5po4fh5b
    @user-sw5po4fh5b 4 года назад +68

    I love this so much “I made him apologize for 4 hours” what a queen. I love how you did that. People need to get it stuck in their brain that what they did is wrong, if your mother isn’t saying I will.

  • @rupsachakraborty5881
    @rupsachakraborty5881 4 года назад +518

    Cute isn't everything

    • @shreksmain
      @shreksmain 4 года назад +12

      Sometimes it overshadows the bad side

    • @meg7797
      @meg7797 4 года назад +2

      Useless Tea exactly

  • @leticiamarytakara1398
    @leticiamarytakara1398 4 года назад +127

    GIRLS ALWAYS STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES

  • @lead2181
    @lead2181 4 года назад +262

    This was a sexual assault. Period. Being an adult doesn’t make u a good person. Also SLEEP DOES NOT EQUAL CONSENT. IF SHE DOESNT SAY YES THEN IT’S NOT CONSENT. And I lived for a while in Japan, but Japanese people are so much like that. They just get away with everything and don’t want to confront problems. Also making followers thanks to a RUclipsr doesn’t make u a celebrity.

  • @princesspea5795
    @princesspea5795 4 года назад +190

    im only a few seconds in and you're so right. looks and only get you so far if you aren't a good person

  • @whalienpippa
    @whalienpippa 4 года назад +98

    This video really made me appreciate myself and realise how infantalizing pretty boys on the internet just because they carry a concept is kinda dumb

  • @cookiesarelikecream
    @cookiesarelikecream 4 года назад +76

    This made me so angry. I’m glad you’re speaking up. Women should not idolize or let men treat them with disrespect or violate us just because they are attractive.

    • @ceph538
      @ceph538 4 года назад +1

      Cheers!

  • @joya4373
    @joya4373 4 года назад +89

    I'm just really impressed that Yodi still does these kind of videos for us with "cute boys" even though she has to expose herself to such bad people because of it🥺
    It really shows her love for her subscribers 😭😭😭💖💖💖

  • @bunnyx726
    @bunnyx726 4 года назад +116

    Lol so accurate. A lot of Japanese men are like this. This sounds EXACTLY like my ex-boyfriend. Pathetic.

  • @quinceuwu5627
    @quinceuwu5627 4 года назад +125

    Girl I really love your attitude , Tbh When you told what the "Cockroach" did to you I wasn't really surprised cause I've witnessed a similar situation like this myself , One day my bestie​ and I were returning home from school and there was this one guy who was like kinda a friend of my bestie , He was really popular and was really good in sports and whatever you call the example of a perfect guy(Or so you thought)My bestie and him often used to hang out and together I thought things were going well between them and soon they will start dating , I was really happy for her as she was a really shy girl and couldn't really start up a conversation with many boys , So I was happy for her , My bestie invited me to her house and He just tagged along which I really didn't mind though , We were supposed to study in her house , We all were studying quite peacefully and then I needed to go to the washroom so I went out of Thier scene and that's when the trash showed his true colours , I came back from the washroom after 5 mins , I was about to enter the when I heard My bestie scream a little shout , I peeped through the corners of the door just to see that trash of a boy was groping her boobs and was trying to do many lewds things with her , I just went literally blank at that moment thinking what I should do , just then the threw the slippers I was wearing at that trash and hit him hard with my heavy school bag , I grabbed my bestie and went outside to find help luckily there was an uncle who was really good , I hurriedly told him the gist of everything that happend and then He took care of everything , I was so terrified thinking that what would've happend if the uncle wasn't a good guy , What wouldn've happend to my bestie if I hadn't been in her house that day with her , (still to this day I think of this and it horrifies me) Now my bestie has a actually good boyfriend , He may not be as handsome as that trash but he is actually a good guy and knows how to respect women.g

  • @angellangomez3543
    @angellangomez3543 4 года назад +82

    i could imagine how annoying it would be when you talk to someone whose already an adult but act like a 12 yrs old

    • @kutsara_tiyan
      @kutsara_tiyan 4 года назад +4

      Even a 12 year old is more matured though so that says a lot 😞

  • @sparklyjessie
    @sparklyjessie 4 года назад +71

    Team Haruru, Nami, and Soony! ♥

    • @inngrande221
      @inngrande221 3 года назад

      Ohhhw,this comment make me feel like that (cockroach) is....
      Because eoudias ❤️ this comment without (-his-cockroach) real name

  • @katie-nq3dg
    @katie-nq3dg 4 года назад +208

    Girl, good job on humiliating him and teaching him what he did wrong.
    I think a video on how toxic japan is in general would be a good idea too, since there so many people who dreammm to live in japan, when in reality the society there is so toxic. Not even just the boys, but girls in Japan can also be super toxic (perhaps you have any experience with that).
    I think people need to stop fantasising about living there and need to know the truth bc everything you see in anime and manga is just a fantasy and ain’t true.
    Great video as always 💚💚💚

    • @qairii
      @qairii 4 года назад +1

      kei ケイ what about the toxic girl culture in japan? Are they like mean girls 😲

  • @kyod7594
    @kyod7594 4 года назад +72

    I cry because I'm mad af rn. How can people take advantage on people when they are sleeping. Still remember that 💚💚💚💚 Btw yochan call them trash make me low-key jealous of them.

  • @emilydoan2577
    @emilydoan2577 4 года назад +17

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE WHO OBSESS OVER BOYS WHILE FORGETTING THE DANGERS!! Thank you! My friend obsesses over boys and completely got herself in a lot of trouble. Til this day, she doesn’t trust herself with men after that. You’re doing good by putting this message out there.

  • @thebirthofjackie8491
    @thebirthofjackie8491 4 года назад +39

    i’m always scared that one of my fave male idols is like this behind the scenes

  • @inesmosbah1313
    @inesmosbah1313 4 года назад +24

    I find it amazing how you found in you the courage to confront him and make him realize what he did. Like, telling him your thoughts and being angry at him face to face without breaking down is already amazing, but actually taking the time to talk it out, educate him and all even though you just went through a traumatic experience... People with such strength are so rare, thank you for sharing this with us.

  • @alliguidoo4251
    @alliguidoo4251 4 года назад +31

    I swear... More people need to talk and de-romanticize Japan 'cause I swear to Baby Jesus, some people really think that Japan and japanese people are their real life anime fantasy, and it's not.
    As a person who is acquainted with a lot of Japanese people, especially Japanese boys and I had had various encounters with them irl, and some of those encounters were like really creepy and disgusting. With most of them, they found me "childish" because I'm constantly standing up for myself and for my friends. A lot of them used to think that I couldn't handle things and they overreacted all the time.
    A lot of them have a very old mindset. My aunt had to argue with my uncle so much before they got married because she didn't want to stop working, and she wanted to distribute the chores equally.

  • @bigtimerusher5446
    @bigtimerusher5446 4 года назад +18

    The first story angered me so badly. I can’t believe he did that to you. He’s fucking sad dude. It wasn’t okay. You’re so strong euodias ❤️

  • @y.v9026
    @y.v9026 4 года назад +29

    I love how you handled that situation, it’s really empowering how you stood up for yourself

  • @AbbyTaz
    @AbbyTaz 4 года назад +59

    I’m so sorry about what happened to you... (I don’t have instagram so this is the first time I’m hearing about it) 🥺 I’m so thankful that you are so honest about these thing bc I’m sure that this will help other ppl raise their voices about their own experiences 👍🏼 praying for your healing, sending you love and good vibes 💖

  • @chioami3744
    @chioami3744 4 года назад +39

    Yodi is really kind hearted for not exposing and humiliating him damnn.
    edit: I think I found him

  • @pandazii9488
    @pandazii9488 4 года назад +197

    When you don’t even like cute boys in the first place.

    • @inngrande221
      @inngrande221 3 года назад +1

      How to be you po???😭😭😭😭

    • @rybkasimka
      @rybkasimka 3 года назад

      Same

    • @cowpapi
      @cowpapi 3 года назад

      we like men, not boys ❤️

  • @OhEm-ily
    @OhEm-ily 4 года назад +23

    Oh my gosh... I remember that insta live and it absolutely broke my heart :( I couldn't figure out who it was at the time but now that you mentioned something about watching this person grow up and protecting a subscriber from this person who was also around at the same time, I'm convinced I know who it is and I'll never look at him as some innocent person again..... Thank you for sharing this with us subscribers and I'm so so sorry that this happened to you! I love you ♡

  • @asula2111
    @asula2111 4 года назад +5

    Your so strong! I always have such anxiety of getting harassed and I think it's great that you can talk openly about it 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @jankesialoyola299
    @jankesialoyola299 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for posting this video. I'm from the Philippines. It's very inspiring and empowering to see how honest you are. I've always been told to "shut up", "be quiet", "speaking up doesn't suit you"... but thank you for being such a lovely stranger. I finally subscribed to your channel.

  • @patricialaycardoso1619
    @patricialaycardoso1619 4 года назад +9

    yesssss. finally someone is speaking on the entitlement that some good looking people have! (of course not all. just the people with it) people always talk about how people who are rich, famous or wealthy are like this but its also the people who just happen to be "universally attractive" the ego and entitlement that people can get from it!

  • @meganhuang9062
    @meganhuang9062 4 года назад

    I love that you stood up for yourself, some people just won’t get what they did to you or how they hurt you if you don’t outright tell them! There are many reasons why I love you but the fact that you’re never afraid of being yourself and who you are and that you always speak your mind is something that I love a lot! I feel terrible knowing what he did to you! Thank you for sharing this story with us, even if it was hard to do so! 💕

  • @_4ishah_844
    @_4ishah_844 4 года назад +22

    You know when you said "I'm a scary person when I'm angry" to "I can't never be a mother" girlll I can relate so much to that. When i got mad with my classmates there will be atleast 4sec of silence that no one dares to talk😂

    • @missvin2883
      @missvin2883 4 года назад +3

      me too hahaha,im the type of person tht always laugh n smile even if im upset.but one day,i cant control anymore my anger n when i got mad..my classmates n even my bestfriend scared to talk to me or making noise near me,they even told me tht they dont want me to be mad anymore because im too scary when im mad hahahahahha

  • @antiacc5715
    @antiacc5715 4 года назад +50

    THANK YOU. I am actually a couple years older than you, but had kind of a messed up relationship with my father in a way that I got used to forgive everything and it completely conditioned my relationship with people in general, and boys in concret(not because of me falling for cuteness but for genuinely believing people have no bad intentions, whatever their aspect is)
    Many people would never guess because I am quite strong minded and speak out loud when I feel injustice is arround me, but that concret part of my life and building respect and understanding I am also someone who can be treated unjustly took time and mistakes to learn alone.
    I've met many girls who also have this problem, and for this I genuinely whish more girls speak out their minds like this and help each other break that sense of worthlesness that allows coacroaches spoil the good things.
    You helped me to feel more sure of myself today Euodias. I send you genuine hugs.

  • @zeynabh
    @zeynabh 4 года назад +15

    I WAS WAITING FOR THIS VIDEOOO!!!!!

  • @LullabyKitty
    @LullabyKitty 4 года назад

    This is one of the realist videos/talks I have heard in eons! Thank you for keeping us all grounded, and opening our eyes or better yet reminding us that not all that glitters is gold!

  • @siiaaasi6989
    @siiaaasi6989 4 года назад +2

    You’re so strong for standing up for yourself. I’m envious, we actually have the same personality like being bold and straightforward but whenever I experience that kinds of things. well, since I do have a big boobs I would be always insecure, like the feeling that I have to hide it because if I don’t other boys will always look at it and talk about it like it’s okay. I always have the feeling that I have to stand up for myself but I’m scared to do so.

  • @Michelle-oo9gp
    @Michelle-oo9gp 4 года назад +5

    You're so strong. My one was less successful. When I finally confronted the dude and he had the audacity to blame me for his actions and I was so shocked I was speechless. What the hell are up with some of these people. Their moms don't bring them up right or what?

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao 4 года назад +25

    I am so so sorry that you had such an experience! I can’t even fathom what you went through *believing* he was a friend and knowing him grow up. However, he is a borderline rapist. If things had kept going, the situation would have become worse. Also, I do understand that you’ll still continue to film “cute boys” in your videos, but I would honestly just enjoy just seeing your regular friends as well. Continue to film only cute boys that you’ve met a couple of times will continue to feed their ego if they are already misogynistic. Really glad you stood up for yourself, stay strong.💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @whattheflute9720
    @whattheflute9720 4 года назад +9

    i'm so sorry that happened to you but you handled it so well i'm so proud!!! i feel so satisfied hearing that you scolded him and made him apologize for hours straight, they shouldnt be allowed to get away with it so easily. respect girl! (also i didn't know these cute boys get that much hype, i find them cute but that's only as eye candy lmao it's problematic when ppl start to assume and trust ppl just based on their appearances. girls, please be careful! )

  • @asialanzi5471
    @asialanzi5471 4 года назад +4

    ughhh you’re honestly such a huge inspiration for my channel girl

  • @eli_anne
    @eli_anne 4 года назад +8

    Yessss girl! I was anticipating this vid so much!!

  • @watchlovestanexo
    @watchlovestanexo 4 года назад +5

    I love how mature and strong you are!
    I really can’t believe what he did he is so disgusting that’s really made me maddddddd MAD

  • @ditan07
    @ditan07 4 года назад

    i love how you handled the situation and i hope i grow up as confident as you to actually confront someone. you’re my role model🥰

  • @123Shirlyn
    @123Shirlyn 4 года назад +1

    thank you for having the courage to share what you’ve experienced! love you 🥺❤️

  • @fantasyuwu8076
    @fantasyuwu8076 4 года назад +15

    You know what, I'm just going to stick with loving my anime boys, and forgetting about real 'japanese' boys. Than you for the precautions because I actually did think Japan was an innocent and kawaii country. We will always support you and I wish you the best career. Don't let child-like dunces like that stop you from pursuing things. I really love you and your content and will always look up to you! Thank you for being such a role model

  • @mehmetgun4983
    @mehmetgun4983 4 года назад +3

    Omggg yesss another video of euo I’m so exciteddddddd also the start of the video of euo face is big mood 😂🤣🤣🤣 LOVEE you sooo muchhh ❤️💜🖤💙💚🤍🧡

  • @mztn1111
    @mztn1111 4 года назад +1

    I'm really glad to see you speak up. I remember watching that very instagram live you had at midnight (and we kept sending green hearts because nami said vegetables and greens make you happy lol). It must have took you so much courage to finally speak about this and I'm proud of you for doing so.
    Love you always!
    💚💚💚

  • @mizukii2819
    @mizukii2819 4 года назад

    I'm so glad you filmed this yodi💖💖you're so brave and strong, truly an inspiration

  • @raissaqila
    @raissaqila 4 года назад +12

    I liked her from the start of her early vids back in 2016 but now watching this has made me love her even more, I'll just say that she's amazing and I have alot of things I want to learn from her if I want to survive this world what lolol

  • @sakilly1669
    @sakilly1669 4 года назад +26

    I'm so glad you spoke out about this. I'll always support you. I can't believe that some men can be so disgusting! 😠

  • @cupovme
    @cupovme 3 года назад +2

    That mug is everything super cute

  • @cho9221
    @cho9221 4 года назад +2

    This video is so eye opening and I love every point that you brought up! I've met so many guys in college that are just like that: hits up a hot girl, sex, then ghost and they are able to get away with it because they are sOoOoOo good looking. My fellow ladies, pls stay protected

  • @stellarw89
    @stellarw89 4 года назад +6

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS!!! ONLY STAN TSOONY 😭💖 YOU ARE SO STRONG LOVE U EUO 💚💚💚💚

    • @NameePark
      @NameePark 4 года назад +4

      😞✊✊💚💚

  • @peanutbuttersquid6124
    @peanutbuttersquid6124 4 года назад +75

    So this is my experience: once I went to Japan with my dad he went for job I went for tourism but have to go to the university a whole week with him everyday. I met a very cool Japanese volunteer girl at the university and became friends (we talk to this day) but she presented to me all of her other volunteer friends. Since day one I noticed that one of them was more attentive with me I would say. Since I know Japanese I could talk with them and they always were with me on the U. Day 3 he became very friendly with me (in a good way) and I kinda liked him too tbh. But he was VERY passive aggressive like he would sit next to me all times, invite me to eat with him, giving me gifts and food and my native language is Spanish so he sometimes would say to me out of nowhere "eres linda" "te amo" "no puedo vivir sin ti" ("you are beautiful" "I love you" "I can't live without you") with help of Google traductor. I loved it it was so different from the shy Japanese boy stereotype. His boy friends also teased him with me and it was chill, with then but then the girls always were punching him and saying "stop it" and "you are so rude" but I didn't care. I was 17 and he was 22 and the last day I was at the university he invited me to his house to stay the night ok HE KNEW I WAS 17 and still, I didn't say yes obviously. That was outputting tbh. The week came to an end and we exchange line to chat because I will not return in a long time. Every student kept chatting with me except him and that was sad because I thought he cared about me but no, now I realized he acted like that because he wanted either sex, a foreign girlfriend (sometimes Japanese think foreign girls especially latinas are easy) or something like it. Also I know now that he didn't know I was going to leave Japan until the last day so yes he thought I was going to stay.
    So yeah just to point out boys can be cute and friendly but they can also see you as an entertainment sometimes

    • @ashcooper2881
      @ashcooper2881 4 года назад +4

      i’ve had a similar experience as an exchange student in japan as well :( i understand you completely. thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @jaminhoney9379
    @jaminhoney9379 4 года назад +1

    I’m 4 days late but I just wanna say that you are a queen 😤🥺 I’m glad there are people like you to tell girls that not every pretty boy is boyfriend/husband material and I’m glad that your a real one and you didn’t let that boy get near your fan even though he was your “friend”. Girls know your worth, don’t go around giving guys like him your information.

  • @hopekirks6851
    @hopekirks6851 4 года назад +4

    Thank you for speaking out about this because so many people try to say that sexism is in the past and does not occur any more but that could not be further from the truth. I myself have experienced these misogynistic pieces of trash and it makes me so frustrated, I cannot stand for it, they need to be put in their place 👏🏻💕

  • @lilayyy2329
    @lilayyy2329 4 года назад +83

    BRUH WHY AM I SO CURIOUS WHO'S THE "COCKROACH" IS ?

    • @viviantran7063
      @viviantran7063 4 года назад +7

      TARYN TOLENTINO a lot of people think it’s K******

    • @stuti8847
      @stuti8847 4 года назад

      @@viviantran7063 who??

    • @brook117
      @brook117 3 года назад

      Keika??

    • @ughmeha-4710
      @ughmeha-4710 3 года назад +3

      @@stuti8847 keinshin

    • @kimhz6203
      @kimhz6203 3 года назад

      @sukuna's hand wait rlly? How do you know? Won’t she take down the video of him , maybe it’s not him idk 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @NoMusicNoLife10x
    @NoMusicNoLife10x 4 года назад +4

    Ready for the tea 😝❤

  • @eringarcia2550
    @eringarcia2550 4 года назад +2

    Period. - trust -Chem -honesty thanks for sharing and bringing awareness ✌️I want those snacks

  • @aeridere
    @aeridere 4 года назад +1

    this video was recommended to me by the algorithm and is my first ever Yodi video...
    2 hours and many a videos later, i think it is safe to say i'm obsessed with your channel ✨

  • @Candyboost22
    @Candyboost22 4 года назад +4

    My blood pressure when up after watching this video. I must protec all my girls and my self from that kind of men. Thank you yodi for shearing this 💚💚💚💚💚

  • @farawaymountains1196
    @farawaymountains1196 4 года назад +26

    Why are your hands so PERFECT

    • @bbqsoda
      @bbqsoda 4 года назад +1

      wait haha I noticed that as well, her hands are so prettyy, she would look amazing with a few dainty rings. I always notice people’s pretty features and I don’t want to say anything because it 100% sounds super creepy.

  • @jujuapples7283
    @jujuapples7283 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for this! I don't think it must have been easy to talk about what happened. I'm so proud of you and glad that you got him to apologize till he did it right. I think I learned a lot about how to stand up for myself in situations like these because even though I DO confront people who harass me and so far it has been in my favour, I have always had this anxiety of me breaking down in the middle of a confrontation and not being able to stand up for myself. I think hearing this gave me more confidence. And everything you said, was so accurate and much needed. The world ain't always sunshine and rainbows. Thank you for this!

  • @evamartaasl
    @evamartaasl 4 года назад

    Woah what a ride of emotions watching this video. First of all, even tho that kind of videos are fun to watch and you put a wall between them and you, please film with people you are really comfortable with and there’s no danger to you or your friends. Second, I’m really amused by your mental strength to confront these people to that length, it makes me proud to follow you and admire you more for that. Thankful that it didn’t scale to another level. Thanks for sharing your experiences and valuable lessons.💜💚

  • @jasminakhavan7437
    @jasminakhavan7437 4 года назад +265

    its pretty obvious its k****** right ? i always kinda got a weird feel from him especially in one video where he literally touched you but i remember all the comments always loved him so much and talked abt how cute he was or shipped him w you yikes

    • @riri1366
      @riri1366 4 года назад +56

      I don't want to believe it but my guts says so tooo! I'm soooo angry

    • @taappee
      @taappee 4 года назад +27

      I didn’t want to believe this but I can see it now 😔

    • @notsokaren
      @notsokaren 4 года назад +78

      And then he’s always being told how popular he is too. So he thinks he’s the shit. It’s crazy that people can feed off of their 5 minutes of fame, take advantage of the people that gave them that fame in the first place.

    • @thea3229
      @thea3229 4 года назад +105

      She's not following K on insta anymore so im pretty sure its him. Got weird vibes from him from the start, never really liked him tbh

    • @kaiw.m.1472
      @kaiw.m.1472 4 года назад +14

      omg that's what I was thinking the entire time

  • @Rebekahshush
    @Rebekahshush 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for letting these people know the truth. Whenever i watch your videos i read the comments and all I see is people noticing how cute the boys are and their cute personality. People can just act. These people are real, their not some dream boy fiction. Thanks for letting us all know. I thank you very much for this. Luv u and ur vids xx

  • @luciao.o2944
    @luciao.o2944 4 года назад

    I love this types of videos, Eudias being real. Love u

  • @charlottediaz2036
    @charlottediaz2036 4 года назад +1

    Could you please make more videos like these? It’s fun too watch and people really need to hear this cuz you spitted out all the facts

  • @breadforthoughts9760
    @breadforthoughts9760 4 года назад +22

    gurlll slap him in his sleep and when he asks why did you do that just say "YoU DidN't SaY NoOooOo" 🙄

  • @alexiacamille2801
    @alexiacamille2801 4 года назад +16

    “His hand on my butt”
    what ?
    “His tongue down my throat.”
    WHAT ?!!

  • @ashm470
    @ashm470 4 года назад

    Good on you for standing your ground and speaking up!! Love you and hope you’re doing well Euo🧡🧡

  • @ccdrawsboop9331
    @ccdrawsboop9331 4 года назад

    PREACH GURL!!! gave me a whole new perspective/view on these kinds of situations thank youuu

  • @Mingimochi
    @Mingimochi 4 года назад +5

    When you're drinking tea whlie spilling the tea
    I love her aesthetic 😍😘

  • @LittleDreamforPanda
    @LittleDreamforPanda 4 года назад +32

    “you didn't say no” really ? You were sleeping so if you can't say "no" then you can't say "yes" either 🤦🏾‍♀️ These type of boys/men are so disgusting. Anyway sending you LOVE 💗😘

  • @jenniferge5196
    @jenniferge5196 4 года назад

    Oh wow I definitely need more of this kind of relationship advice. Thanks for making this video❤️❤️❤️

  • @bouvardia9166
    @bouvardia9166 4 года назад

    Yodi is simply the biggest inspiration to me regarding self-confidence. You always remind me to stand up for myself and keep my chin high. Thank you for this video

  • @SScxrse
    @SScxrse 4 года назад +55

    I'm actually triggered so hard right now. Ugh. Girls, just stop dming her cute boy friends.

  • @bigtimerusher5446
    @bigtimerusher5446 4 года назад +13

    I came quick asf as soon as i got the notification

  • @carolinej.3523
    @carolinej.3523 4 года назад

    You're so strong!! You give us the strength to stand up for ourselves!

  • @aaiks6978
    @aaiks6978 4 года назад

    the realest youtuber out here,, y’all love to see it 😌🧚🏼💕💖💝✨💫