Matthew McConaughey - This Is Why You're Not Happy | One Of The Most Eye Opening Speeches

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    "Always play like an underdog" - Matthew McConaughey
    This is an incredibly powerful speech from Matthew McConaughey giving life advice about being happy. If you feel lost in life this is a must watch.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @AbsoluteMotivation
    @AbsoluteMotivation  6 лет назад +2519

    Always play like an underdog.

    • @KennnnyT
      @KennnnyT 6 лет назад +60

      wellshafted how many people do you think gives a fuck about that?
      I'm gonna take the positive and ignore the negative.

    • @thefourthwatch6337
      @thefourthwatch6337 6 лет назад +6

      this adage really did stem from our observation of dogs, moreover; wolves. all worthy pups will quarrel, yet its the one whos on top that gets correction when a parent arrives on the scene. oops. maybe the underdog was playing the underdog { ; -- /}

    • @stevenadams11
      @stevenadams11 6 лет назад +21

      Actors don't qualify for Illuminati. They are panto performers. Amusement. Think Billionaires, oligarchs, the 1% who own your arse and you're probably in the ball park.

    • @jimstormcrow
      @jimstormcrow 6 лет назад +8

      Chill mate...it's okay. Take care.

    • @delorispierce2824
      @delorispierce2824 6 лет назад +15

      I LOVE MATTHEW THOUGHTS AND TEACHING👍🏻

  • @joshuaellis1058
    @joshuaellis1058 2 года назад +2085

    My girlfriend showed me this speech two years ago when I was going through adversity. She passed away last September.. I listen to this speech now as if it’s from her.

    • @Dormat25
      @Dormat25 2 года назад +77

      Sorry Josh. Hard to imagine. Thanks for sharing.

    • @bluntvillesyoddle4619
      @bluntvillesyoddle4619 2 года назад +39

      U can't stop the birds of sorrow from 🕊️ flying over head but u can stop them from nesting in ure hair..

    • @ramsesdelatorre996
      @ramsesdelatorre996 2 года назад +28

      I'm sorry 😞 my gf diesld of cancer last year in November...so I know how hard it is...I'm really sorry

    • @alexbez1958
      @alexbez1958 2 года назад +24

      I feel you Josh. My ex committed suicide this September. Stay strong king, and please make sure to love yourself. When it comes to grief, the only way the painful memories stop is when we learn from them.

    • @joshuaellis1058
      @joshuaellis1058 2 года назад +12

      @@alexbez1958 I appreciate that Alex. As long as were around, spreading love and trying to find a meaning for meeting them, their memory will be alive.

  • @joegolfer
    @joegolfer 4 года назад +1532

    “To the world you may be one person but to one person you may be the world.”
    ― Bill Wilson

  • @brett7071
    @brett7071 3 года назад +285

    This changed my outlook on myself and the world I wanted to quit my job and quit life but this has given me a sense of purpose I wrote down all his key points and I’m gonna keep it on my wall, I saw this yesterday went into work and killed it and had a smile the whole time. I’m so proud of myself.

    • @kyuubi7523
      @kyuubi7523 3 года назад +5

      Beautiful. . .never give up.

    • @willi7595
      @willi7595 2 года назад +5

      Proud.

    • @brett7071
      @brett7071 2 года назад +7

      @@willi7595 Thanks sir still going strong and getting better everyday 👍🏼

    • @setayeshmiresmaeili6126
      @setayeshmiresmaeili6126 2 года назад +1

      I wish I would be affected by such simple thing too

    • @maryjeanglenn2486
      @maryjeanglenn2486 Год назад

      I understand..

  • @RebuildReality
    @RebuildReality 2 года назад +135

    I always think of happiness as a choice you make, because it's an emotional response. And of course, only we can choose our emotional responses. I had been in a terrible situation, where my life had turned into a nightmare of homelessness and drugs. I was finally able to move into the wilderness, in an attempt to get away from it all. However, the crushing memories moved with me and everyday they came to wash over me like never ending waves. One day I realized that I literally wasn't going to survive if I kept allowing my thoughts to annihilate me, so I stood up to them. Every time those memories came up, which was a dozen times a day, I said nope, not today. I told myself, "I'm going to be happy now, I've suffered enough" and I refused to indulge in the sadness of those thoughts. I said NO MORE and I meant it. I absolutely refused them. I was determined to just BE happy. It took me about 2 weeks of slamming the door on those thoughts every time they came up before, suddenly, everything changed. Like a light switch being turned off, over night they stopped appearing. Because I wouldn't take no for an answer, my subconscious mind finally stopped playing that terrible program. And when it did... my entire life changed. Because I chose happiness, it chose me. Then, like a knock on effect, life changed it's response to me. That's when I realized that all of life had simply been copying what I had been putting out. It was incredible. All of the sudden, everyone wanted to be around me. Everyone wanted to be my friend. People started giving me things. I was given 2 cars in 2 months. Money started pouring in... I'd never seen anything like it. That's when I finally understood that happiness is always within our grasp. Happiness is always a choice that we have the power to choose anytime we decide to. It's only when we change, that life and everyone in it, can change it's response to us. It's a powerful thing to realize.

  • @kathyphillips6691
    @kathyphillips6691 4 года назад +1526

    I consider myself successful because I had 3 daughters, who gave me 6 grand children, and 7 great grandchildren...to carry on my values. I do not have much money but I have lots of love.

    • @AbsoluteMotivation
      @AbsoluteMotivation  4 года назад +92

      Amazing. We also love you for that fantastic comment.
      - Am team

    • @maniravandi5983
      @maniravandi5983 4 года назад +6

    • @pman3293
      @pman3293 4 года назад +15

      Your already rich... 😁 my kids are the most perfect thing in my life.

    • @divagirl10
      @divagirl10 4 года назад +31

      We are STILL successful even if we don't have children. Not everyone is lucky

    • @rocoss1
      @rocoss1 4 года назад +5

      That s all you need in life, i m happy you have that

  • @Michael-rg8rh
    @Michael-rg8rh 4 года назад +4367

    I showed this speech to my cat, now he’s a lion

    • @reneehoward8579
      @reneehoward8579 4 года назад +67

      One of my favorite RUclips comments!

    • @poseidonnn.n
      @poseidonnn.n 4 года назад +9

      👎👎👎👎

    • @enertiastudios1074
      @enertiastudios1074 4 года назад +23

      That is an awesome reply to the truth. THANK YOU. I smiled.

    • @justincase9657
      @justincase9657 4 года назад +25

      Best reply on a comment on RUclips smiling from ear to ear made my night 🐱🐱🐱🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁

    • @zeem.8656
      @zeem.8656 4 года назад +4

      Funniest shyte ever!!

  • @stephencarlson1242
    @stephencarlson1242 3 года назад +83

    "An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind". well said Matthew.

    • @whatisahandle221
      @whatisahandle221 6 месяцев назад

      👍

    • @C5B-jc1yj
      @C5B-jc1yj 5 месяцев назад

      My last breath in this life will be my soft pillow.@@whatisahandle221

    • @disking10ZA
      @disking10ZA 4 месяца назад

      My favourite line

  • @user-yr3ip3pn7t
    @user-yr3ip3pn7t 9 месяцев назад +5

    My brother sent me this, two weeks before he died from COVID. I didn't listen to it then. I've had trouble going back through our conversations. I'm thankful I found it tonight, I needed this. He passed away after being on a ventilator for seven days, a 39 year old father of three children. He has no grave, we couldn't afford that...he was cremated. I have no burial grave to go visit him and I wish I did even with the small amount of ashes I have. He deserves a tombstone. He literally lives in my heart now.

    • @AbsoluteMotivation
      @AbsoluteMotivation  9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your brother's family get through this difficult time.

    • @mahalalettvin7675
      @mahalalettvin7675 3 месяца назад +3

      plenty have tombstones and are never remembered. I'd choose to be remembered in the hearts of my loved ones. you haven't forsaken him, I promise

  • @haemusic1
    @haemusic1 4 года назад +1162

    "Don't spend time with anything that jeopardizes your soul!"

    • @aprilskillman6927
      @aprilskillman6927 4 года назад +12

      that spoke to me too

    • @RyanSmith-wo2pi
      @RyanSmith-wo2pi 4 года назад +2

      Thank you

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      Love this! I like this also its so deep and meaningful! Stay encouraged CT #RootingForUsAll2Win

    • @ericcrosson3844
      @ericcrosson3844 4 года назад +3

      That sentiment/sentence is what it's all about.

    • @imdannymartins
      @imdannymartins 4 года назад +7

      my wife was cheating on me for months with a cokehead/pothead who treated like shit while I was home with our daughter. The lies I'm going out with my sister... I'm going out with my coworkers...I'm going to spend the night at moms...

  • @lejonbrames8820
    @lejonbrames8820 4 года назад +2958

    Matthew McConaughey: Have you done anything to make your life better?
    Me: No.
    Matthew McConaughey: Be a whole lot cooler if you did.

    • @ayyubabdullah9289
      @ayyubabdullah9289 4 года назад +76

      Clearly Jerry doesn't get the reference...

    • @1990nrsge
      @1990nrsge 4 года назад +11

      Brilliant lmao

    • @1990nrsge
      @1990nrsge 4 года назад +2

      Ayyub Abdullah clearly!!! Lol

    • @ayyubabdullah9289
      @ayyubabdullah9289 4 года назад +27

      Some people go through life Dazed and Confused 😐

    • @masetrucking6048
      @masetrucking6048 4 года назад +6

      Marion Cobretti brilliant!! Why didn’t I think of that? 🤔

  • @thamad311
    @thamad311 Год назад +615

    Life breaks you down so you could rebuild better. Most times it amaze me greatly the way I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $63k per month, utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities are bound in the financial markets, The only thing is to know where to focus.

    • @ericchk102
      @ericchk102 Год назад

      @Dulce de Leche I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks.

    • @izagdlife
      @izagdlife Год назад

      I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

    • @thamad311
      @thamad311 Год назад

      @@izagdlife That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like Mr Tony Alin berker my coach, you may have come across him on interviews relating to bitcoin. He trades, manage trading account and offer mentorship program for clients who wish to become professional investors.

    • @izagdlife
      @izagdlife Год назад

      @@thamad311 You allow people to trade for you ? that's interesting, I would love to learn, how safe is it ?

    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie Год назад

      Wow I can't believe you guys are discussing about Mr Tony Alin berker, I once met him at a conference in California 2019, just before the pandemic. I can testify that is very good in trading..Highly recommended.

  • @hinesann8058
    @hinesann8058 9 месяцев назад +65

    Psychedelics saved me from years of uncontrollable depression, anxiety, and illicit pills addiction. Imagine carving heavy chains for over a decade and then all of a sudden that burden is gone. Believe it or not, in a couple of years they'll be all over for treatment of mental health related issues.

    • @TatianitaVillavicencio
      @TatianitaVillavicencio 9 месяцев назад

      The trips I've been having have really helped me a lot, I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @KlausRoth-jk1ny
      @KlausRoth-jk1ny 9 месяцев назад +1

      @AvaWalker-vn3roSporeville is pretty commendable and a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly

    • @KlausRoth-jk1ny
      @KlausRoth-jk1ny 9 месяцев назад

      @KatherineKassandraSporeville

    • @KlausRoth-jk1ny
      @KlausRoth-jk1ny 9 месяцев назад

      @instagram

    • @weberkarl6428
      @weberkarl6428 9 месяцев назад

      Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist who will teach you the right things you need to know

  • @Greenlights111
    @Greenlights111 5 лет назад +265

    “An honest man’s pillow is his peace of mind, and when you lay down on that pillow at night, no matter who’s in your bed, we all sleep alone.”
    Wow I felt that.

    • @learnistic-1017
      @learnistic-1017 4 года назад +2

      Can somebody explain this line?

    • @learnistic-1017
      @learnistic-1017 4 года назад +1

      @Mafia's Finest TV sure

    • @learnistic-1017
      @learnistic-1017 4 года назад

      @Mafia's Finest TV yup,it makes sense

    • @jasius83
      @jasius83 3 года назад +6

      @learnistic -101 What he’s saying is, although it’s highly romanticized that you should be one with your lover who you might be married too or just dating forever, ultimately you need to not lose yourself in them, know who YOU ARE, don’t lose it, deep level enmeshment isn’t healthy, you need to maintain your identity. Believe it or not, this will actually strengthen your relationship with your other person, as you’ll add even more to the relationship.
      Love someone fully, but know YOU. Ultimately it’s you who is driving even in a long standing union. Being YOU in a long term relationship will help you get through hard times and think about them more clearly, rely on the loved one for support, but have yourself to help resolve the issue.
      This isn’t just about relationships also about being a team member. Know yourself well enough that you’re not disruptive but a good contributor.

    • @Greenlights111
      @Greenlights111 3 года назад +1

      @Mafia's Finest TV my take on it is that we all fight our own mental battles, and no matter who may walk through life by your side, we are all lone wolves in a way. And the “honest man” is someone who is true to themself and others, so that when you go to bed at night and your mind starts wandering, rather than lying awake with your mind racing, you feel a sense of peace.
      Many interpretations I’m sure, that’s just mine!

  • @TsunamiWaveSpirit
    @TsunamiWaveSpirit 5 лет назад +374

    Always loved Matthew McConaughey as an actor. I love him even more as a human being. Refreshing

    • @ritialydia
      @ritialydia 4 года назад

      He is more fake than margarine. Erm...that is his JOB.

    • @ritialydia
      @ritialydia 4 года назад

      BTW His craft is to be realistically fake. Do you not think this ability works on other platforms.... podcasts...motivational videos.... catfood commercials? He is paid stupid money to act my friend.

    • @FINEST-uz9ek
      @FINEST-uz9ek 4 года назад +6

      Dorinda Williams perhaps but it doesn’t take away from his message he is conveying.

    • @mikerulon
      @mikerulon 4 года назад +3

      None of the four of you KNOW for sure... why not give the benefit of doubt and take the high road like Tsunami and Ray... I bet the two of them smile a lot....

    • @sm87112
      @sm87112 4 года назад

      @@ritialydia I don't think you know enough to say any of what you did.

  • @naj9658
    @naj9658 3 года назад +77

    I watched so many videos, it’s not easy to get out of a depression circle, but this video is special, it really gave me a little hope, I see a little light within me, things can change, and I can’t believe I’m saying that.
    Thank you for this video, It will always be a special one. ♥️

    • @monsterhuntingunslingers33
      @monsterhuntingunslingers33 3 года назад

      I understand how you feel, I really do. How are you doing today?

    • @naj9658
      @naj9658 3 года назад

      @@monsterhuntingunslingers33 it’s sweet of you to ask 🥺 I’m doing better everyday and I Thank God for it :))

    • @monsterhuntingunslingers33
      @monsterhuntingunslingers33 3 года назад

      @@naj9658 I'm glad! I know I'm just some random person on the internet, but keep trying! Im doing the same and im starting to see some good progress, happy thoughts!

    • @naj9658
      @naj9658 3 года назад

      @@monsterhuntingunslingers33 🥺🥺 thank you! I wish you all the best and happiness, I hope you find your way out to the light too 💕

    • @MarlonValcq
      @MarlonValcq Год назад +2

      Same.
      Life is hard.

  • @jbela
    @jbela 4 года назад +87

    "Eliminate who you are not first and you're going to find yourself where you need to be" I'm already a better person , great quote

  • @SPRobinson21
    @SPRobinson21 5 лет назад +803

    stopped smoking pot a week ago after 12 years of daily use. just saw this speech today at a time when i'm more emotionally available than i've been in years. feels like a blessing

    • @NathanielVandenbrink
      @NathanielVandenbrink 5 лет назад +31

      Same here 8 years of use on my 10th day off. Good stuff man

    • @SSSSoulSkater
      @SSSSoulSkater 5 лет назад +26

      Samuel Robinson - I used to swear by it Samuel. Now I realize It just wants me down and dumb so I wont make a difference.

    • @matthewforrest2208
      @matthewforrest2208 5 лет назад +6

      Keep it up

    • @michaelmuzzy8401
      @michaelmuzzy8401 5 лет назад +6

      good for guys .life is short.

    • @tonemc6047
      @tonemc6047 5 лет назад +4

      Good man .You don’t need it all you need is you

  • @PissySkyKat
    @PissySkyKat 3 года назад +7

    McConaughey is LEGENDARY. He walks the walk AND talks the talk.

  • @RemasterYourLife
    @RemasterYourLife 2 года назад +65

    Happiness isn't complicated. It's actually fairly simple. The problem is that people chase happiness as outcomes. When we don't get what we want, we feel unhappy. But you can be happy without those kind of conditions.There's the happiness that comes from getting what you want, but there's also the happiness in being content with who you are and what you have. Meaning is what we gain by the way we choose to engage with the world (goals, projects, relationships), and happiness comes from the contentment we feel for who we are and what we have have in the moment.

  • @macizzle1956
    @macizzle1956 4 года назад +394

    Had a very rough 24 hours. My daughter sat on my couch with me and we watched and listened to this together. She initiated it. She lent me her heart, she shared her compassion, she reminded me of her unconditional love today when I needed it most. Im a very lucky Dad to two amazing girls who remind me everyday why life is worth living. Im blessed to have an ex who still cares about me. The universe brought some loving people into my life in the past 24 hours. I have an obligation to give back now - and I will. I try everyday to be my best version. “Joy is the feeling we have from doing what we are fashioned to do. No matter the outcome.” Embrace the journey. ❤️

    • @beautifulsoul7394
      @beautifulsoul7394 4 года назад +6

      Mike McHenry
      You don’t now me mike but::: I BELIEVE IN YOU❤️. NOW GO LIVE YOUR BEST LIVE !!🥰

    • @IndigeniousTaino
      @IndigeniousTaino 4 года назад +4

      Mike McHenry blessings to you and yours sir

    • @illfather7066
      @illfather7066 4 года назад +3

      thanx for sharing

    • @midotiger8838
      @midotiger8838 4 года назад +2

      Go Live the message. As in all things, pass it on to others who need it. I Wish you the BEST!

    • @MrGmilla
      @MrGmilla 4 года назад +2

      We hear you! Thanks for putting your heart out there.

  • @annnunley9777
    @annnunley9777 5 лет назад +451

    Abraham Lincoln said, most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. At some point in life you have to be content with what you have in life. The road to happiness is always under construction. The heart is happiest when it beats for others. Happiness is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it. A small house will hold as much happiness as a big one and the happy person is the one who can enjoy the scenery even when you have to take a detour. It isn't our position but our disposition that makes us happy.

    • @sjulian6110
      @sjulian6110 5 лет назад +5

      Very well said!

    • @ZiplineShazam
      @ZiplineShazam 4 года назад +5

      I'd be a hell of a lot happier if I looked like Matthew McConaughey.

    • @wendysmith9229
      @wendysmith9229 4 года назад +2

      I would like to share this ?

    • @annnunley9777
      @annnunley9777 4 года назад +1

      You can share !!!!

    • @kaminarte
      @kaminarte 4 года назад +1

      Love it

  • @joshambush8574
    @joshambush8574 3 года назад +190

    When you’re having an inspirational moment and that 16 second ad pops up 😂

    • @Everetts113
      @Everetts113 3 года назад +2

      people still get ads on youtube? just get the damn chrome extension already.....

    • @444fawn
      @444fawn 3 года назад +6

      @@Everetts113 some of us aren’t using laptops or computers

    • @bigman-em7cc
      @bigman-em7cc 3 года назад

      @@Everetts113 Do you like having your privacy jeopardized?

    • @sare88
      @sare88 3 года назад +1

      😂 right ! i’m over here crying and that popped up and made me forgot what i was crying about lol

    • @ImMikeGenesis
      @ImMikeGenesis 3 года назад

      Beautiful video. This song is dedicated to everyone who lost a loved one. ruclips.net/video/JSbGGiSe3S8/видео.html

  • @gabriellepatrick5165
    @gabriellepatrick5165 3 года назад +80

    this man went to my hometown highschool. he’s always been a humble, kind, man.

    • @ChristianHoyle
      @ChristianHoyle 3 года назад +8

      Nice to have something speak positive of someone...

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад

      I have always liked him and now I know why. He sure beats the arrogant, better than thou, punitive punks and trolls that are so common these days.

    • @user-he9ew6sn9g
      @user-he9ew6sn9g Год назад

      You must be from Uvalde, i’m from Carrizo..

    • @lizporto4860
      @lizporto4860 Месяц назад

      Ha

  • @Indubidably0
    @Indubidably0 4 года назад +85

    Sounds to me that Matt has learned the secret to life that most humans aren't even capable of ever seeing, let alone grasping. Well done, Matthew McConaughey. Well done.

    • @Hachatata
      @Hachatata 4 года назад

      And was able to deliver this ROCK of a speech

    • @bernieclips9003
      @bernieclips9003 4 года назад

      Thanks Dr Brule youre the best Doctor I Know.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 4 года назад +1

      Many of us are so busy earning enough to get by that we miss life.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад

      Welp, he did not get to be a billionaire if he did not know these things and also be very good actor.

  • @carrinalee3425
    @carrinalee3425 4 года назад +160

    “Too many options will make a tyrant of us all” such a great speaker

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      This was a very deep portion of the video! Love your positivity! Stay encouraged! #RootingForUsAll2Win

  • @markuskholl4807
    @markuskholl4807 2 года назад +7

    True happiness is "content with self as is, having your simple needs, just being".

  • @russelldunmire4799
    @russelldunmire4799 2 года назад +2

    I swear I would give money to sit with this man and chat over a drink. My kind of mental fluidity. Two minds that like together in a room, change the world. That’s all it takes.

  • @MrNobodywatching
    @MrNobodywatching 4 года назад +88

    'Eliminate who you are NOT, first, and you're going to find yourself where you need to be'...can this be any more perfect of a mission statement!

    • @dadooddarren2116
      @dadooddarren2116 4 года назад +3

      I came across this comment and literally heard that line right after I read it this comment. It's a sign.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 4 года назад +1

      I am not a singer, dancer, poet, painter, millionaire. However, I can still appreciate what is positive.

    • @huhuruz77
      @huhuruz77 4 года назад

      Thank you. :)

    • @jozkomichta4571
      @jozkomichta4571 4 года назад

      @@dadooddarren2116 same happens to me

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад

      I did that long ago and am better for it. Only phonies like phonies.

  • @tammywallace9461
    @tammywallace9461 4 года назад +43

    Matthew,
    Our son Eric could never find himself, his joy, his purpose. He was such a sweet soul but also a troubled one as well. He told not so long ago, mom I wish I had half of your positivity and good energy. On October 17th our sweet, beautiful 28 year old boy decided to check out of his crazy world and took his own life. We tried so hard, so very hard to help him. He always called or came home if he was feeling troubled, but not that night. Our souls are crushed and there is a painful gaping hole. Please pray for our family that we can make it through this.

    • @kaj4850
      @kaj4850 4 года назад +7

      Tammy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine your heartache. Sending positive thoughts and hugs.

    • @PoWaBtZZ
      @PoWaBtZZ 3 года назад +5

      it has almost been a year ago by now but thoughts and prayers never come too late ... i hope both of you have found the willpower and strenght to keep going, That you made peace with this event and do not give up on the joy this man was talking about. :)

    • @1rugbynutter
      @1rugbynutter 3 года назад +2

      Hi Tammy. I visit the video often but have only just seen your comment and noticed the date. I hope the anniversary passed with love and good memories. Take care.

    • @Scorylo93
      @Scorylo93 3 года назад +2

      Tammy, my name is also Eric, I'm also nearly 28, and i have also struggled with the same struggles and sometimes battled with the same thoughts. Please know that your comment has had a positive influence on me and also broke my heart a lil. I hope you have found your piece and your heartache is less so now.

    • @renee2105
      @renee2105 3 года назад +4

      Jesus Christ will heal ur pain. So very sorry for ur loss.

  • @faceinthecrowd5810
    @faceinthecrowd5810 3 года назад +2

    Somehow my youngest son,27, has discovered M.M. As his Dad Ive been trying for his whole life to guide him as a life coach would. When D. Shared with me M.M.’s interview on Hot Ones, I ordered Green Lights for him. I am one of the absolutely coolest humans on earth😎, but I have a very short reach. Thank you Matthew, if you become a spirt guide for my son and he starts to grow into the man he can be......well done!
    As a aging warrior of peace, I’m tuned into your message, I’ve been an artist on an artist’s path for a long time, but the greatest beauty I can create is Love for others.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 3 года назад +11

    He hit on the key word: "Work."
    If you want to be joyful, you have to be willing to work, in order to attain it. And then be grateful for what you have, and not be worried about what you do not have.

  • @slimpickering1699
    @slimpickering1699 4 года назад +189

    He is a very smart and wise man. I had no idea he was this enlightened and perceptive.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 4 года назад +13

      He seems like one of the better people in Hollywood.

    • @jayne2648
      @jayne2648 3 года назад

      @@ganymeade5151 n

    • @masterace1150
      @masterace1150 3 года назад +1

      There lived a poet once, who was also a part time philosopher, he said, "...if one does not have money, obviously he is broke and I have yet to see a broke man wise..."
      What I am trying to say is that if it was a homeless person give this same speech, it wouldn't have the same weight to it :) just a taste of reality.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад

      Especially since most celebs do not appear like this.

    • @rommelcorpuz4157
      @rommelcorpuz4157 3 года назад

      “Don’t spend time with anything that antagonizes your character.” WOW.

  • @Gary-cd7rj
    @Gary-cd7rj 4 года назад +157

    "An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind." Quoting John Mellencamp. One more reason to like Matthew McConaughey

    • @mattyvster1967
      @mattyvster1967 4 года назад +2

      Easily my favorite Mellencamp song.

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      This was a great quote! Love your positivity! Stay encouraged Gary #RootingForUsAll2Win

  • @healingmelody112
    @healingmelody112 3 года назад +45

    Whoever is reading this now, remember:
    You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
    Blessings to all beings!
    Love and Light!

    • @frontsidegrinder6858
      @frontsidegrinder6858 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for the deepest truth in us.

    • @alizard1399
      @alizard1399 3 года назад

      I disagree, plenty of people aren’t. Plenty of people are just like everyone else. Plenty of people may not deserve the effort. Though that isn’t a bad thing. No matter where you, or me, or someone else may be. Nothing is stopping us from becoming better. Not everyone may be deserving, not everyone may be worth the trouble, not everyone is some great, special, unique person. But, with that in mind.... nothing is stoping the individual from changing that. Whether it’s one step or the full staircase. There is always room to go higher. Whether you’re at the top or never started climbing, life is only set in stone once you stop trying.

  • @belindamoore8996
    @belindamoore8996 Год назад +9

    How amazing that I found this “accidentally” today, only to find it’s exactly what I needed to hear! It’s brilliant.

  • @alfredozavala7933
    @alfredozavala7933 4 года назад +1628

    This is how I imagine a President to speak.

    • @electric3420
      @electric3420 4 года назад +21

      Alfredo Zavala ikr but they never do they never do...

    • @skyheart1495
      @skyheart1495 4 года назад +48

      Matthew McConaughey for President 😀🥰😋

    • @divagirl10
      @divagirl10 4 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 4 года назад +32

      The President must be a warrior. Every good President has been a bad-ass and bully when necessary to protect the US. There is a difference between a President and a Diplomat. Actors are different from Presidents. President Reagan was a tough guy when necessary. Unfortunately, Dictators are wolves that will devour nice leaders who they see as sheep. CEOs must also defend their companies and their employees jobs from "barbarians at the gate." Weak CEOs make weak companies and cause massive unemployment. Weak players cause sports teams to lose. Leaders, therefore, cannot always be nice. Leaders must be warriors. If you want to please everyone and always be nice and cannot tolerate someone being tough, then don't get into politics, business, or sports.

    • @jacobmatney5597
      @jacobmatney5597 4 года назад +6

      FAKE NEWS!!

  • @paulgray0311
    @paulgray0311 4 года назад +590

    Old knowledge just in a new voice that people are willing to listen to and believe. The power of fame used responsibly..

    • @theeaundrea2254
      @theeaundrea2254 4 года назад +5

      Wet well put ❤️

    • @Michburger1
      @Michburger1 4 года назад +3

      Yes, very well put. Masters of Tibetan Buddhism have been teaching this for 2500 years. xx

    • @jarradgray56
      @jarradgray56 4 года назад

      Agreed... Law of Attraction.. what you put out ~~~~ what you get back

    • @jax0nda1l3y6
      @jax0nda1l3y6 3 года назад +1

      Hi

    • @christopherp.hitchens3902
      @christopherp.hitchens3902 3 года назад

      ??? That you are famous does not make you wise or responsible. That you admire bumper-sticker wisdom does not bode well for you or others in this room.

  • @camerongray7767
    @camerongray7767 3 года назад +95

    3:56 watch this over and over
    "Prioritise who you are, who you want to be and don't spend time with anything that antagonises your character

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад +4

      Great advice. Learn not to waste too much time in life worrying over negative people who are haters.

    • @supercovid2349
      @supercovid2349 3 года назад +2

      Easy for a rich guy to say. For normies, his advice would lead them into chronic unemployment and homelessness. Just about every boss is insufferable.

    • @miepmaster25
      @miepmaster25 2 года назад

      I think you should get a divorce, you’d be part of the divorced women community (50% off marriages end in divorce)

  • @cremedrip
    @cremedrip Год назад +6

    First time i heard this speech i cried... Came back a week later and downloaded the audio from the video. and ever since i have been listening to it every single day. From morning till dawn, it helped me appreciate life around, and so much more. My mother said to me recently that she can see a bright light around my face. That i should continue to smile and strive to be a better man. Once again, Absolute motivation, you guys are awesome and you need to keep up the good work. Every video you make, save millions.

  • @seejay60
    @seejay60 4 года назад +101

    My favorite quote related to this topic is from Bob Dylan, "Life isn’t about finding yourself. Or finding anything. Life is about creating yourself.”

    • @holycowpainter
      @holycowpainter 4 года назад

      Lovely!

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      Yes this was so deep! Craig I wish you all the more success in your journey! I know you are a rockstar because you watch positive content and actively invest In yourself! #RootingForUsAll2Win

  • @Delivered0ne
    @Delivered0ne 5 лет назад +167

    I've always liked Matthew, now I respect him.
    "Don't spend time with anything that antagonizes your character" ( 3:59 ) - Now that's something I will never forget.

  • @AnthonyLiccione
    @AnthonyLiccione 3 года назад +42

    "A tormented mind wants to forget, what a broken heart will always remember."

  • @sandyfausone6660
    @sandyfausone6660 3 года назад +6

    McConaughey gives me that little push. That boost that some days I need. Thank you for the moduvation brings me back to earth every time

  • @carlamann6703
    @carlamann6703 4 года назад +69

    "Life Is Not A Popularity Contest"
    Love Him! Smart, Talented, Great Actor.

    • @timothycurnock9162
      @timothycurnock9162 4 года назад +1

      Life is not a contest, there is a good TED speech called life is easy. Basically the only TED speech I recommend. ANON. Have a good day. Peace.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 4 года назад

      In this age of groupthink and the pressure to please everyone or else, you must be true to yourself.

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      Great positivity! I know that you will always be successful because you are feeding yourself positive content! Continue to be a light in this world! #RootingForUsAll2Win

  • @karadronzek91
    @karadronzek91 4 года назад +19

    I just want to thank you for this speech. I’m a nurse, a mom, a person, and a battered wife. And it can be very difficult to remember who I am, what I do, and my worth. This speech doesn’t heal me, that’s up to me. But it gave me some stepping stones away from the darkness. So thank you. Little things help

    • @lizelledupreez4335
      @lizelledupreez4335 3 года назад

      Breaks my heart to read this, I pray you have managed to get out of the abusive relationship. May you find the strength and courage to lift up your head and take back what the enemy has stolen from you.

    • @williamparker3406
      @williamparker3406 3 года назад

      Hello Kara,how are you doing ?

    • @matthewmcconaughey3751
      @matthewmcconaughey3751 3 года назад

      Thanks for your love and support message me via matthewwmcconaughey56@gmail.com

  • @user-he9ew6sn9g
    @user-he9ew6sn9g 9 месяцев назад +1

    The wolf in me just called my sister a f theif, never talk to her that way before..now i’m very capable of a lot, i wanted to be loved an excepted giving, but the full wolf came out, i’ve listened to this three thousand times, be yourself, stay yourself, take no shit.. don’t ever, ever think anyone is going to do the right thing.. stay yourself, love yourself.. take of yourself and the ones that truly love you. Have a great journey every one.😊

  • @toner37
    @toner37 3 года назад +5

    when he talks about the bar, the computer screen and the food. We ALL can relate to one of things for sure

  • @sgrif392
    @sgrif392 5 лет назад +507

    There are two most important day's in your Life..........The day your Born..........And the day you find out Why!!!! Mark Twain

    • @DuncanWLievi
      @DuncanWLievi 5 лет назад +10

      you're*

    • @jeremyviromek
      @jeremyviromek 5 лет назад

      @@DuncanWLievi did i miss a joke?

    • @DuncanWLievi
      @DuncanWLievi 5 лет назад +2

      @@jeremyviromek no joke.
      'The day you're* born....ans the day you find out why."

    • @DuncanWLievi
      @DuncanWLievi 5 лет назад +1

      @@nhfairies thanks :)

    • @bonitad2832
      @bonitad2832 5 лет назад

      @@jeremyviromek Amen!

  • @fridaythe13thpartx
    @fridaythe13thpartx 4 года назад +72

    And that is why(except for RUclips) I completely went cold turkey from all forms of social media.Tired of all the hatred and negativity.It’s just a vexation on the spirit.I also started eating healthier,getting rid of the sugar,caffeine,alcohol and processed food.It’s a lifestyle change.
    The best revenge you can have in life is being happy and healthy.

    • @chriswyatt9869
      @chriswyatt9869 4 года назад +3

      I quit 2 years ago, at first I thought I'd be happier. But honestly it didn't, I'm in a generation where everyone is on social media. And I missed out, didn't get invited to events, parties, and know what was going on. I grew detached from my friends and spent too much time alone. I only recently, like in the last week, decided to come back, as I read that more social media (opposed to less) can actually help people with depression and anxiety. The problem is that I also have adhd which means I get easily distracted, meaning now having the ability to endlessly scroll through Twitter has dramatically decreased my productivity. I don't know what the hell to do. Social media can be a great thing, but in rationed amounts. I don't know how to do that. Anyway rant over lol. I hope you're happier than I was off social media.

    • @lilypink1592
      @lilypink1592 4 года назад +1

      Lawrence Stevens THIS-

    • @miepmaster25
      @miepmaster25 2 года назад

      I don’t wanna pay taxes.

  • @JaWznickc04
    @JaWznickc04 3 года назад +12

    I love this!! Never heard of the idea of focusing on joy rather than happiness!! Happiness is always a result of something that keeps on changing.

  • @quinnyjqj
    @quinnyjqj Месяц назад

    "Joy is the feeling that we have from doing what we are fashioned to do. No matter the outcome." Most important takeaway.

  • @Luke-qp9fd
    @Luke-qp9fd 4 года назад +2300

    Why dont they teach this stuff in schools ? U leave school knowing nothing about life. I wish school was about life lessons and not so much useless shit we never remember...

    • @tenhetmitchel
      @tenhetmitchel 4 года назад +170

      Luke Timbrell A society unable to think for themselves are easily controlled.

    • @brianunderhill2330
      @brianunderhill2330 4 года назад +69

      I do teach this stuff in high school History and Psychology

    • @Luke-qp9fd
      @Luke-qp9fd 4 года назад +39

      Brian Underhill u sir are 1 in a billion 😊

    • @andrewpalmer1223
      @andrewpalmer1223 4 года назад +56

      Parents teach this, not educators.

    • @semillerimages
      @semillerimages 4 года назад +18

      Life isn't easy. He starts the speech with that. It wasn't easy for you and I and it wasn't easy for our parents and our teachers etc. You just have to keep learning how to be human.

  • @Jodessa1
    @Jodessa1 4 года назад +37

    Never choose anything that will jeopardize your soul...i feel that so much! I start my day with this speech daily!

  • @leodrayton16
    @leodrayton16 3 года назад +5

    Matthew McConaughey is a bloody Legend!

  • @Jennifer-nz2ss
    @Jennifer-nz2ss 4 года назад +2

    I really think we ALL need more teachers like this and should be taught from kindergarten on. Kids are so lost now days i feel sorry for the world as it is now.

  • @lkwood-fk6mn
    @lkwood-fk6mn 4 года назад +69

    I am having so much fun and realizing so much joy every day I get to spend with my twin sons helping people stop their foreclosures, fixing broken homes and showing broken people how to look forward to a better day.....I am enjoying this part of my journey more than ever before in my life

    • @paulettemoore265
      @paulettemoore265 4 года назад +4

      You are a blessing! Blessings to you🤗

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад +1

      This is amazing! Thank you for being a helping hand out in the world! That is amazing that you are also living in Joy! I wish many many more blessing and success over you and your family! Stay encouraged! #RootingForUsAll2Win

    • @nitapatel5992
      @nitapatel5992 4 года назад +1

      Hi I do the same thing. What state are you in?

  • @rampart6557
    @rampart6557 5 лет назад +21

    "Gratitude is the root of all joy." Mike Tucker *** McConaughey is in accord. Right on.

  • @christopherleonard8313
    @christopherleonard8313 10 месяцев назад +1

    The ending of this hit me HARD. this is simply amazing

  • @leorehbein1588
    @leorehbein1588 3 года назад +3

    He is saying things that we always listen during our lives, but we never pay attention to those things, it's a bless when your really understand it, that makes life sooo much simple!!! Awesome speech

  • @stevehammel2939
    @stevehammel2939 4 года назад +72

    Matthew McConaughey is an exceptional human being. He is true to himself

    • @JamesBond-ml3zp
      @JamesBond-ml3zp 4 года назад

      Steve Hammel I'll let you know in a S'ECREC

    • @MRC1110
      @MRC1110 3 года назад +2

      Really the only way you should be.

    • @JustLikeJulia9
      @JustLikeJulia9 2 года назад

      Talk about beautiful inside and out!

  • @joegregory7695
    @joegregory7695 4 года назад +28

    Wow! "An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind."

  • @mgg169
    @mgg169 2 года назад +2

    When you have tried everything to get through depression and didn't worked, you still have some hope that this video could help,

  • @adrianmcglynn9345
    @adrianmcglynn9345 3 года назад +1

    Don't spend time with people who bring you down. You're to good for them.

  • @MichaelBerezny
    @MichaelBerezny 6 лет назад +321

    Such a great speech! The point about joy really hit home. To me living your dreams is all about falling in love with the process, and when you find joy in the process, you'll win.

    • @thefourthwatch6337
      @thefourthwatch6337 6 лет назад +2

      I love this comment, and only want to caution us all to maintain clarity regarding falling in love compared to having fallen in love...one of them is currently active while the other tends toward a memory. A balance like that is good.

    • @artivedi3887
      @artivedi3887 5 лет назад +1

      Mikey Bee not getting the joy of the process..is the issue...pple released wid guD weather in their native places I guess it makes it enjoyable even wen they have no body around

    • @dolphingirl49
      @dolphingirl49 5 лет назад +1

      Mikey Bee I haven’t always loved the process but trusting it and staying in Joy no matter what always rewards you.

    • @SoMusicNy
      @SoMusicNy 5 лет назад

      Thank you for a productive and constructive comment!

    • @Rbreaux87
      @Rbreaux87 5 лет назад +1

      ..trusting the journey...and having the few pats on the back along the way from friends who care..#nice

  • @Theepineappleking
    @Theepineappleking 4 года назад +21

    Matthew McConaughey is my spirit animal

  • @whisthpo
    @whisthpo 3 года назад +3

    We can't all be a Matthew McConaughey until...
    We realise that
    You must embrace failure, before you can fully appreciate YOUR Success!

  • @jenniferboss4892
    @jenniferboss4892 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Matthew McConaughey for making this video, you really took me to church🙏🏻🙌🏻♥️♥️♥️

  • @DannaCrawford
    @DannaCrawford 4 года назад +138

    Don't jeopardize your soul! "Love this man"

  • @ckelley63
    @ckelley63 4 года назад +66

    I agree with Matthew, especially being grateful for what I have.

    • @twinsof86
      @twinsof86 4 года назад

      Failed to mention GOD number 1 !!

  • @LisaS1
    @LisaS1 3 года назад

    Matthew McConaughey - he's really grown on me a lot - I just love him; I think he's so awesome. I love seeing him in a movie!

  • @camerongray7767
    @camerongray7767 3 года назад +4

    "We have to define success for ourselves and then we have to put in the work to maintain it."

  • @sandraannesmale5784
    @sandraannesmale5784 4 года назад +39

    Matthew's speech was so worth listening to just now. Love the thought that a person's pillow is their peace of mind. More please and thanks.

  • @jimdingman1181
    @jimdingman1181 4 года назад +25

    The difference between Happy and Joy is right on. I call Joy the acceptance that what is going to happen is good enough. Trudge (walk with purpose) the road to Happy Destiny.

  • @victorianicolehughes4291
    @victorianicolehughes4291 2 года назад +4

    Wow, One of the most powerful speeches I ever heard. This should be said at every high school and college graduation!

  • @mlb5525
    @mlb5525 Год назад +1

    I find myself rewatching this video every once in a while, as a wake up call on how I want to live my life.

  • @shelbyguizar9036
    @shelbyguizar9036 5 лет назад +54

    i found God, this mindset followed.
    I was critically depressed for years and have never been as alive and full of joy as I am today

    • @shannonksexton4897
      @shannonksexton4897 4 года назад +1

      Awesome response

    • @ceeceebee5736
      @ceeceebee5736 4 года назад

      Very inspiring, keep teaching your prophesy/philosophy. 💯😊❤🌅

    • @sydasipah4170
      @sydasipah4170 4 года назад

      Wishing you so much happiness and most of all JOY in your life

    • @kerryleehartley
      @kerryleehartley 4 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your brave testimony! I am so encouraged by your faith and by your story! Stay in Joy and continue to be a light in this world! #RootingForUsAll2Win

  • @smyrnasstory
    @smyrnasstory 3 года назад +16

    There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.”

    • @smyrnasstory
      @smyrnasstory Год назад

      @Brad Paisley I am doing fantastic. Nice to meet you!

    • @smyrnasstory
      @smyrnasstory Год назад

      @Brad Paisley I am not. But why would you be interested or curious in chatting with me?

  • @setyougoing7598
    @setyougoing7598 3 года назад +1

    Indeed, learning to appreciate the now-moment rather than the to-be happiness is the key.

  • @dawn4559
    @dawn4559 4 года назад +12

    Wow, " eliminate who you are not first" ❤

  • @ec4968
    @ec4968 6 лет назад +23

    He is such a wise man. I love this!

  • @coles_recovery
    @coles_recovery 3 года назад

    matthew mcconaughey is the coolest man on the planet !!!

  • @LissaRick
    @LissaRick 2 года назад +5

    I’m reading “The Secret” & “Essentialism” right now and this goes right along with both books ❤️ I love it! This is what I need in my life. Thank you!

  • @thomasslack9364
    @thomasslack9364 4 года назад +23

    A expansion of the statement that "Man is that he might have joy." Well done.

  • @brendanbryant8974
    @brendanbryant8974 4 года назад +22

    I’m feeling more lost now than I have ever have before this video makes me understand so much

  • @deborahmoore1167
    @deborahmoore1167 2 года назад

    I just watched Russel Brand with you as his guest..which led me to this video. After months of radiation & chemo my last day was May 28th 2021, this message couldn't come to me at the most crucial time. This is what should be taught in schools and Corporations Keep up the positive message..
    Ciao Bella

  • @disking10ZA
    @disking10ZA 4 месяца назад

    What a Speech wow, this guy's speech inspired my Graduation speech...Even before then, I used to listen when I was down and out, failing modules, with no social existence, in a depressive state. Even at highest of highs', I'll still be running this Speech!!!!

  • @jacobhatfield7644
    @jacobhatfield7644 4 года назад +6

    Joy comes from God and from God alone.

  • @sissonsk
    @sissonsk 4 года назад +41

    Great speech. Happiness is realizing that you, the individual, have no business trying to control anyone other than yourself. Become the unwanting soul and you will see that which is hidden.

    • @exnihilonihilfit6316
      @exnihilonihilfit6316 4 года назад +1

      Tell that to all those socialists/communists today... the entitled pricks!

    • @spaghettiioassassin8151
      @spaghettiioassassin8151 4 года назад +1

      Ex nihilo nihil fit hell the president is the definition of toxic

    • @sissonsk
      @sissonsk 4 года назад +1

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 Government is evil and wanting to govern is toxic.

  • @nickcoy2103
    @nickcoy2103 3 года назад +4

    That is the most McConaughey thing I have ever heard.

  • @darnellbolden2508
    @darnellbolden2508 3 года назад +3

    Yes, this is his book. It was awesome. This helped me focus on me more. No expectations. Come to the table ready to do your best, that is your joy. Being blessed to be in that moment, doing what you love is the ultimate job/success.

  • @luke19935
    @luke19935 4 года назад +3

    As if I didn’t already love you for your acting, now I will always have a ultimate respect for you. You’re an amazing guy

  • @dexoy_awp
    @dexoy_awp 4 года назад +41

    Guilt and regret kills many a man before their time,
    So turn the page,
    Get off the ride,
    You are the author of the book of your life.
    From another Matthew's inspiration video.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 3 года назад

      Never let other people especially mean-spirited and negative people run your life for you. Have the strength and courage to resist. You may be alone and hated by negative people; but will be better for resisting and staying positive. This is why group think is so bad and leads to persecution of innocent people who refuse to go along.

  • @roxinefelton2561
    @roxinefelton2561 3 года назад +1

    You can not have happiness or joy without God.

  • @plissabarrett7358
    @plissabarrett7358 5 лет назад +7

    Too many options will make a tyrant of us all! Most important words and speech I have heard in my life. Mind blown!

  • @Free-bt6gn
    @Free-bt6gn 5 лет назад +5

    It's nice to hear someone who actually appears to be happy. I rarely experience happiness or joy in this world.

    • @ZiplineShazam
      @ZiplineShazam 4 года назад

      I hear ya. . . I feel the same way. and to be honest, I think it's a hell of a lot easier to be happy if one happens to look and sound like Matthew McConaughey.

    • @michaelkillion3441
      @michaelkillion3441 4 года назад +1

      Free2016, your happiness and joy are there for you. Sometimes it comes in small doses or little baby steps. For me, it starts with Thanks. I make it a point to wake up each morning and just give Thanks for simple things, A warm bed, hot co co . The feel of sunshine on my face. Then the tone is set for the day. I also started a Thank journal which has been my all. I wish you peace on your journey and an abundance of joy may always come your way~ Michael

  • @shantigunasekaran9230
    @shantigunasekaran9230 2 года назад

    I love being with people everyday

  • @riaanvanderwalt200
    @riaanvanderwalt200 Год назад +2

    I listened to this specific video/clip for the first time in 2018. I just moved back from Italy with just my suitcases and an emotional mess and listened to this over a 100 times for some reason while I was drinking myself stupid every night. I absolutely love this. Not sure how but it helped me and I can honestly say a couple of minutes after 2023 started my life has turned around so much! And I am still here listening to this great video and being humble! Happy new years people 2023 😂

    • @whatisahandle221
      @whatisahandle221 Год назад +1

      I hear it echo other character & principle driven advice from sources I trust:
      7 Habits … books by Stephen Covey
      Therapy in a Nutshell (This is why self esteem backfires)

  • @unicornucopia1
    @unicornucopia1 4 года назад +11

    I've always been a big fan of this genuinely good man. Just Keep Livin'!

  • @PatrickWilliamShaw
    @PatrickWilliamShaw 4 года назад +17

    When my sobriety is falling, I listen to this. But my ego says to not listen to it at all.
    I began listening to videos like this; take action and move past the excuses, is what I've found to be most helpful.
    Thank you Matthew, truly thank you. I'm not where I want to be, but I'm better than I was yesterday