I am done with the fear of dressing up and looking cute! | Daily Thought #6 03/29

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  • @tigerunicornpegases
    @tigerunicornpegases 6 месяцев назад +54

    Exactly!!! I'm dressing up to go to the store at this point 😭

  • @quashanrivers6331
    @quashanrivers6331 6 месяцев назад +22

    I dress up everywhere I go. Especially when I feel bad, I try to dress up. It does change your mood.

    • @Noah-yz7yx
      @Noah-yz7yx 6 месяцев назад

      Yes, it really does

  • @kgreene460
    @kgreene460 6 месяцев назад +24

    You look beautiful, have a wonderful time!

  • @oliviabatchelor882
    @oliviabatchelor882 6 месяцев назад +31

    Love this mindset, there's never shame in us looking our best!

  • @Afrovazi
    @Afrovazi 6 месяцев назад +21

    Girl I relate with you sooo much.. I dress up and remove immediately I see myself in the mirror because am such a natural and I do not like attention but sometimes I admire outfits that I buy and never wear in the end. This right here feels like it's for me 😮

  • @Nocakeinthefridge
    @Nocakeinthefridge 6 месяцев назад +23

    I've been trying to live like this too! What helps me sustain this mindset sometimes is surrounding yourself with amazing supportive friends and while they're not around you can think "would my best friends judge me for wearing this? Would they think it's too much, or think badly of me for dressing this way?" and 100% of the time the answer is no, they would just want you to be happy!

    • @xoxoakouto
      @xoxoakouto  6 месяцев назад +6

      Exaclly! My friends loved my outfit! I got compliments all night! :)

    • @bridgetnamushi9897
      @bridgetnamushi9897 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@xoxoakoutogo girl enjoy life

  • @shoobamocha
    @shoobamocha 6 месяцев назад +16

    I also felt this way, like I don't have the features or body type to look as good in certain things or that it's pointless to put effort and dress up since I'm not going to look as good as others do no matter how hard I try. I'm very much unbothered by it now and if someone dislikes my appearance that's just part of my powerful influence lol

    • @oishikaray2767
      @oishikaray2767 4 месяца назад

      Vision board ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @marajones1828
    @marajones1828 6 месяцев назад +12

    I wore a super fairy spring themed outfit and I was so nervous. I literally kept asking my fiance if it was "too much". He said anyone who thinks you're too much does nor deserve to be around you. I proudly wore my outfit and got lots of compliments! 💕

    • @ladyraven3418
      @ladyraven3418 6 месяцев назад +2

      And, THAT's why he is a Fiancé, folks. Glad you've found a keeper.

  • @mmc1086
    @mmc1086 6 месяцев назад +12

    So relatable. Love the look and pretty face xox

  • @TravelLifestyleWithAlinase
    @TravelLifestyleWithAlinase 6 месяцев назад +6

    Girl you look pretty keep going out alright love you much 😍😍😍😍😍 Always be happy

  • @DustyBanditRepellant
    @DustyBanditRepellant 6 месяцев назад +6

    Girl wear what you want. Up north, we dress up and I love it.

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s not too much. Sometimes we have the fear. For me, if it’s appropriate and I’m comfortable, that’s fine. Have fun. Beautiful you are 🤗

  • @JaymieKarn
    @JaymieKarn 6 месяцев назад +5

    I know my bold/risky choices always end up feeling the best and happen to garner the most approval from others in the process!

  • @christinadavis7000
    @christinadavis7000 6 месяцев назад +5

    Dress to impress yourself

  • @professorprofessorson8795
    @professorprofessorson8795 2 месяца назад +1

    People all need to let their own light shine! Dont wory about others judgements

  • @user-rd7qw8iy7r
    @user-rd7qw8iy7r 6 месяцев назад +6

    I love it. I hope you have fun

  • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
    @ShanaJahsintaWalters 6 месяцев назад +5

    You look amazing. 😋😋😋

  • @Seeyalater1717
    @Seeyalater1717 6 месяцев назад +3

    They dressed up with hats and dresses back in the day to go anywhere. So, let’s bring that tradition back. ❤

    • @xoxoakouto
      @xoxoakouto  6 месяцев назад +1

      i agreee 10000 percent! In europ, they dress alot to go out!

  • @theekaa7705
    @theekaa7705 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who feels this way

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself 6 месяцев назад +2

    Always be too much. ❤ I’ve dealt with this most of my life it took me getting to my 30’s to stop caring about how people feel or think about what I do wear and say

  • @joycechan1973
    @joycechan1973 6 месяцев назад +2

    I recently comfortable and love my body enough to dress the way I always wish to, and I really feel cute, delightful and POWERFUL!

  • @hellaSwankkyToo
    @hellaSwankkyToo 6 месяцев назад +3

    YESSS! 🤩 LOVE, LOVE that you caught yourself + reframed your thinking. proud of you for that, sis. 🖤✊🏾
    + you did look super cute! the perfect amount of swank. 😜😊

  • @kayabe856
    @kayabe856 6 месяцев назад +3

    Dressing up is more than about wearing cute clothes and makeup it’s definitely a mindset and my mindset is usually chill which is why I rarely dress up.

  • @Originaltuber
    @Originaltuber 6 месяцев назад +4

    I needed this in this moment! ❤

  • @zoew2720
    @zoew2720 6 месяцев назад +2

    I enjoy your vlogs. Like your channel 🎉❤

  • @adams8830
    @adams8830 6 месяцев назад +1

    Here's how to get over the fear of dressing up: dress up every single day. I used to be scared of dressing up to the point I'd be on the verge of throwing up on the rare times i did it. So i just started doing it everyday.

  • @Victoria-wg7jb
    @Victoria-wg7jb 5 месяцев назад

    I used to relate to this when I was younger. Ended up dressing like a boy 🙃. Not like that anymore. I do dress very girly now but only for me, my family, and my husband. When I leave the house, I wear a dark niqab and jilbab, like a burqa except you can still see my eyes and hands.
    Asslamu alaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuhu, love.
    I've seen some of your vids and while we have different lives I understand what you're going through and what you might be feeling inside.
    I used to be Christian, then left while still believing in God and His prophets, and revelations except that they have been corrupted by humans. I didn't think that there was another revelation after Jesus and was very disappointed that I wanted to follow God but had nothing authentic to follow in the worship in the way God wanted to be worshiped.
    A couple years later, after my life and heart was getting worse, I cried to God, prostrating on the ground asking Him to fix me and that I didn't know what to do. Eventually He led me to Islam.
    I will NEVER go back. People who knew me before Islam think my life is harder now but in fact I couldn't be happier and my life would be so much harder without this beautiful religion. Allah guides who He chooses and I hope that He guides you to the everlasting happiness.
    I highly recommend to read the Noble Qur'ān translated by Dr. Muhammad Khan and Dr. Muhammad Hilali (Definitely not "the Clear Qur'ān" because it isn't as accurate and can be washy with the real meanings of the text) and to seek help through patience and prayer. This website can provide you a physical copy for free.
    CCDawah giveaquran.org
    Scroll all the way down to the blue with white words, then in black words it says "click here" for the PDF download.
    Ramadan Mubarak my love ❤

  • @Itswhitney2
    @Itswhitney2 6 месяцев назад +1

    Exactly I dress up to go anywhere I don't care whatever anyone says, Im Live in the moment, period ❤❤❤

  • @an21nale34na
    @an21nale34na 4 месяца назад

    “i’ll come back soon with another thought”
    -my last surviving braincell doing its best

  • @fauzianalwoga
    @fauzianalwoga 4 месяца назад

    My now late mum always loved dressing up instead of gossiping about stupid things and feeling sad❤❤❤

  • @nonFluencerNoWa
    @nonFluencerNoWa 6 месяцев назад +1

    Yessss Queeen Yessss!!1 ❤ EggZakLEE 😁 I haven’t seen my friends from the Acting community in over a year and I got invited to a screening TODAY, literally today and this was my EXACT mindset cuz you know, I felt like a bit of an outsider so I had a moment of overthinking. I had two outfit changes and then I was like, nah. Ima just wear what I wanna wear cuz everyone’s entitled to their opinion and I”m not gonna try to have any influence in what they MAY or MAY NOT think about my outfit by overthinking. I’ll just focus on my comfort. And I did. And then I came home and saw your post. I was like, yup. 100% ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Hope you had funnnnn

  • @Sixteen.going-on.Seventeen
    @Sixteen.going-on.Seventeen 3 месяца назад

    You have a beautiful, dazzling smile. 😍😍

  • @violettafairytaleviola6630
    @violettafairytaleviola6630 4 месяца назад

    I went through a strange period of my life when I decided that make up is fake etc etc and stopped dressing up and doing making , safe to say it didn’t do me any good and I only started feeling shit ability myself , now I always say if I do my make up and put myself together it has to be a good day or at least I will feel good.

  • @JubeiKibagamiFez
    @JubeiKibagamiFez 6 месяцев назад

    Do it for you, not for anyone else. But, on the flip side, someone who's interested in you should be for the discovery of your mind and your personality rather than your outfit.

  • @墨墨-k2x
    @墨墨-k2x 4 месяца назад

    I really like your mindset. I am in the same age as you. I was encouraged by your videos.

  • @ZRcooking
    @ZRcooking 6 месяцев назад

    I love it❤❤❤❤❤ may you saying this out loud. Inspire others.

  • @Lemon-hx6gs
    @Lemon-hx6gs 5 месяцев назад

    Love this do more of what makes you happy and let go of the idea what everyone else think

  • @ShayBlossom
    @ShayBlossom 6 месяцев назад

    You look so nice. Wish you would’ve showed your cute outfit 😊

  • @user-ltyz9380
    @user-ltyz9380 6 месяцев назад +1

    You have such a special, youthful beauty. Love that your style is uniquely YOU and not trying to be like everyone else.

  • @Lemon-hx6gs
    @Lemon-hx6gs 5 месяцев назад

    inspirational and gentle reminder appreciate it

  • @Readyuv
    @Readyuv 6 месяцев назад +3

    The secret is to be comfortable but with a good style, the one you like the most, but to be comfortable too.

    • @Noah-yz7yx
      @Noah-yz7yx 6 месяцев назад

      Yes 👏🏼 being confortable in what you're wearing is key to look confident

  • @patriciapires852
    @patriciapires852 6 месяцев назад +1

    You look amazing! If they say it's too much, they can go look out for less.

  • @XoxoTini24
    @XoxoTini24 6 месяцев назад +2

    Have fun tonight!!

  • @coriyu
    @coriyu 6 месяцев назад

    amen! lovin' that for you

  • @vicky-louh.8117
    @vicky-louh.8117 6 месяцев назад

    You look great, love the makeup ❤

  • @SACCHARINE-TALE
    @SACCHARINE-TALE 6 месяцев назад

    OmG I'm in this same situation at the moment and I'm like I'm not saving my cute dresses for occasions that never happen

    • @xoxoakouto
      @xoxoakouto  6 месяцев назад +1

      same! I have so many cute dresses that im "saving for a special occasion" when is the special occasion, Akouto?!?! LOL!

  • @uniquelyjasminec
    @uniquelyjasminec 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love the look girl! Hope you had a great time!

  • @ForestForest-wo9py
    @ForestForest-wo9py 6 месяцев назад

    💕💕totally agree!

  • @chatterati
    @chatterati 6 месяцев назад

    I love this ❤

  • @FitChickGlows
    @FitChickGlows 6 месяцев назад

    Rock your cute CUTE!! There’s just one life to live and that’s yours, gurl. Nobody else’s! 😉🥳💃🏽🎤🎶

  • @JevaisaNY
    @JevaisaNY 6 месяцев назад

    Do it! ❤

  • @going0ut
    @going0ut 6 месяцев назад +1

    Agreed! Very good mindset.

  • @alissab5232
    @alissab5232 6 месяцев назад

    You got the perfect eyeshadow shade for you, it's lovely. It's not too much for the day either because it's neutral. Stay humble.

  • @Noah-yz7yx
    @Noah-yz7yx 6 месяцев назад

    I really have to step up my game. I had a glow down in 2022 and haven't recoverd ever since 😭
    U go girl

  • @Purrl1775
    @Purrl1775 6 месяцев назад

    You in red lipstick would be something I’d love to see ♥️

  • @PANDAFACEEYES
    @PANDAFACEEYES 6 месяцев назад

    I relate to you in sooooo many of your videos. Ìts a relief to know I'm not alone. Thank you

  • @smlorrin
    @smlorrin 6 месяцев назад

    You look lovely! I hope you had great fun!

  • @KeithSmith.
    @KeithSmith. 6 месяцев назад

    Your smile is so beautiful 😍. Wow

  • @ceci361
    @ceci361 6 месяцев назад

    Be whoever you want to be ♡

  • @RespectfulCicada
    @RespectfulCicada 6 месяцев назад +2

    👏🏾👏🏾 looking great 👍🏾