20 RED FLAGS to look for when dating in 2024
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- Опубликовано: 26 апр 2024
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Letme know some of your red flags you've missed below! :)
Making you feel guilty for not being in the mood. Or expecting sex without wanting to commit if you want a commitment.
Thank you because some women don't have women around them who have experienced this but think its normal.
this is why i wanted to be very specific with this video! A lot of people don't have the resources to know when things go wrong~
If he’s rude to other people in front of you, he’ll more than likely be rude to you eventually once he gets confortable around you.🚩
you know too much xD
5:43 That's kind of my moto, too.... Don't judge a person on how they treat me, judge by how they treat others. This has helped me dodge love bomb bullets.
Your perspective is so needed especially when we’re “seasoned” lol
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23:11 Also, it's very possible for these red flags to come up in the beginning of a relationship or as soon as the abuser thinks they got their partner "locked down", though.
Hello 🌵
I liked this video very much
Keep making more videos like this I love it.
By the way, if you pay a little attention to video editing i.e. insert B-roll properly then it will be very easy to understand the topic.
Yes, You are right. 🌹
No, perhaps this decision should be taken by them only. 🍪
Look, no matter what people say, I completely agree. Because B-Roll and subtitles are very important in video.
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this is really helpful thank you!!
Great video! Very enlightening.
YASSSSS AKOUTO!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Amazing video 👏🏽🎬
I enjoyed watching ur video Thank u for your genuine advice about relationships😊
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23:11 These feel like end stage abuses. It always gets worse as the relationship gets longer because the abuser thinks they haven't reach a boundary or limit and they just keep testing how far they can take it or they think they don't have to give any respect.
agreee! this is why it's important to notice the stages of abuse early on. I feel like many people don't notice abuse until someone hits you. but an abuser starts out very small an builds and builds then the hitting.
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Thanks for the helpful advice ❤🏳🌈✊🏿
These are genuine issues thanks for pointing these out.
My boyfriend has no friends.
It's super annoying after a while. He doesn't even want to meet anyone, since "It's enough to do things with me all the time"
Same with my husband. It’s been 15 years of him like this.
The toxic male/female conditioning via the Patriarchal hierarchy is just really toxic for the human condition for as long as it existed (10k+ years)
So we’ve spent all of our time together for all this time but definitely now that we’re older, I’m encouraging us to branch out. 😊
@nonFluencerNoWa I try to encourage my bf to do stuff with others, like with people from his sport group for example, but he's always just "nah I don't like them that much"
Well duh, if you never make an effort to get to know someone, obviously you'll never like anyone as a friend 😅
Working on it...
@@veero8130 but men are, generally, really toxic and their social time talking about nonsense on a superficial level. Most men are probably conditioned into toxic masculine traits so there’s no point forcing those kinds of friendships.
Unless, ofc, your bf has a lot of personal triggers that he needs to work on. That is the case for most of us tbh.
That’s a problem.🚩
@Sheisme120 yeah it's very weird, especially because he's such a likeable person.
Many people like him a lot, Text him, but he barley makes an effort to grow these connections 😅 ..
. Yeah 😅
Awesome presentation Akouto..👌🏾..seems like your pretty fair considering your experiences...Nice 💯...any man should be honored to date you
Yay! I love listening of watching you when am working
And am working!❤
Have a nice weekend.
I agree with you 💯🗣️
I like your content. This video is going to help a lot of people. Akouto, do you have any coaching classes on how to start and run a RUclips channel for beginners? I'd be willing to pay for the information. I like your channel.
This was a really awesome video ❤ these red flags were so on point and so necessary. What about a part two where you tell guys what kind of redflags to look out for in women 👀 I feel like it would be the same as these but with a few additions or minuses or even adjustments. That would be HELLA interesting.
Great idea I will do that. I always do things from my perspective because a lot of this stufff i've experienced myself. But I will do one from the other perspective! Thanks for the feedback! :)
@@xoxoakouto well if you think about it, it’s still from your perspective to some extent since you’d be identifying the red flags in either your self or women you know but but you’d be talking to men.
But then again, that might be … an insane idea. Hm
i do have a short red flags people have seen in me video on my page! :)
@@xoxoakouto I saw that one and it was really good. and you mentioned you didn't really have much to elaborate on so I guess I was thinking a more dedicated vlog on any red flags that you think you have, that you have observed about yourself that you've worked on and might still be working on. and maybe observe about other women you know.
and that's kinda why I said that might actually be an insane idea lol
you're a lifesaver 😊
"What did you do to them to make them crazy?" YESSSS!!!!! It's like the line in How I Met Your Mother when Mike Tyson says something like, "If you want to see why a woman is crazy, look at the guys she's dating." It's usually mixed messages and nonsense.
A few years ago, I rode with someone who acted like he was into me, but the red flag I saw was that he was incessantly making really rude comments about other drivers and how dumb they were. I lost interest immediately when he did that while driving.🚩
I would say another one is not taking your traumas seriously or invalidating you
12:23 you sounded like Jennifer Coolidge😂😂😂😂
LOL!
the road rage one is so important especially if you are in the car with them, they clearly do not consider your safety a priority....
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11:34 Just curious, is road rage considered full ego after getting cut off by someone, or just being generally angry that other people are on the road.... I'm a bus driver and I see so many drivers doing stupid *&$%, plus I get cut off probably 12 times a day because either drivers just don't want to wait or whatever other reason, and I try not to get angry, but I can only take so much before I'm laying on the horn.
I think you being bus driver (Thank you for your great work! We need ya'l!!!) is different than someone who is just a normal driver! I think since you're on the road all the time you're a low to be angry at shitty drivers! hahah!
@@xoxoakouto Phew. I know at some point I will get numb to the bad drivers, but I know I won't be so angry to the point of Road Wars.
....a person that has been throught "every relationship cycle"......That is my red flag........
why is it that a red flag? explain. Some ya'll comment just to comment thinking i wont see the comments but i do!
🏃🏽♀️🤸🏽♀️🚴🏽♀️ me going after guys who are full of red flags, help
learn the red flags and get out ASAP! Remember there's men out there who will not have many red flags (Some because on one is perfect ) but there's great men out there!
@@xoxoakouto I'm trying 🤞🏼
Have you been going on live? I'm not sure if it's me who never sees when you're on live or if you haven't been doing them. Anyways, hope you're doing well 🌸
havent done one lately! :( been busy the last few weeks. doing on very soon!
@@xoxoakouto cool !
I have been single now for 7 years after my 14 year long relationship ended.
The way he treat his mother and sisters..will tell u more.
If they guilt trip you for trying to break up with them.🚩
13:46 What if the man is just an introvert?
great point! Introverts have friends. People can always find introverted things to do with other people (play video games, join a book club etc..)
@@xoxoakouto True. I guess my concept of friendship is skewed. I grew up with some really sshhiittyy friends, but I did have a few really great friends that I just lost touch with because adulting.
If they talk rudely about other people behind their backs but then are nice to their faces.🚩🚩🚩
Taking a week to answer is crazy
LMAO!! I know... im telling you i missed so many! haha!
a red flag is a danger signal
I don't think some of these are necessarily red flags. In my experience, guys tend to like talking on the phone rather than text messaging. Most of them just don't do well with remembering to text back either. Having no friends is not a red flag either. The man may just be an introvert and it doesn't necessarily mean they will come to you for everything. A lot of people have friends and don't talk to them after getting into a relationship because they are so consumed with their significant other. If they do turn out to be clingily, I think you just need to explain and set boundaries with them. I always thought the phone thing was a weird thing to be upset at with your significant other about. Everyone is entitled to their privacy and to me it shows a breach of trust when you need access to every single thing. And they may have experienced people breaching their trust in the past. I've seen people ask to use their significant others phone and snoop in their pictures, etc.
I think the texting thing is just code for if they haven't responded to you in any form for a week or more and when they get back to you act like them ghosting you never happened. Valid excuse is if they have a crazy work/school schedule but still, there's a way to do a quick check in.